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Couldn’t have said it better myself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:20 PM
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In a society where a man’s worth is directly measured against how easily he can attract women, having to pay to even get a chance is basically admitting defeat. And it’s all of society that measures men like this. Not just men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:14 PM
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Others from PPD have done so. So why can’t you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:13 PM
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It’s all been debunked. Lilith is just contractually obliged to post a post every 12 hours so inevitably there will be some posts that aren’t as well researched as others.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:54 PM
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It’s only more believable because it’s normalised to demonise men. Girlfriends are seen as more moral and virtuous therefore stories about them that make them look bad are seen as fake
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:33 AM
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Man as if subs like Two X chromosomes and the like aren’t pulling this exact same shit but with men being demonised
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 10:17 AM
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Constantly changing the subject to deflect blame isn’t a good look
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 07:41 PM
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I mean, is it any different to going into the office when a team lunch is scheduled?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 10:11 AM
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Can you link this podcast you talk about? Because you are making the claim so burden of evidence is on you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:33 PM
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Lmao what is this? Askfeminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:40 AM
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It’s just women simping. Men do it too but male simping plays out differently
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:01 AM
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Par for the course
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:48 PM
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I think you should look at some online dating gender swaps and see how it is for average men and average women. Theres a few videos on YouTube from women trying out their male friends profile and getting a bit of a shock
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:36 PM
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But even in red pill men’s communities, the gym is still quite default advice. I don’t think even PPD men expect to get girls if you are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:26 PM
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Do they? Looksmaxxing is rife in men’s communities and hitting the gym is the default advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:20 PM
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That’s standard debate tactics from that user
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:53 AM
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Lmao you’re usually the first person to ask for evidence and links when debating RP but you are doing the same thing you accuse them of doing. Post the evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:50 AM
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Mainstream subreddits are chock full of women complaining about doing the chores and the mental load and whatnot. This is what happens when women complain
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 11:40 AM
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Exactly! It’s honestly baffling how the logic seems to play out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 10:30 AM
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They don’t care about ppd but was that my point or are you bullshitting?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:42 AM
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In today’s society being seen as a victim is far more preferable. You get more funding, more sympathy, lenience and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:42 AM
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Below we present the scenario used in Study 5: “The following is a case involving a company and a decision it made about how to maintain its profitability. Please read the case carefully as you will be asked answer several questions about the company’s actions. Jarvis manufacturing Jarvis Manufacturing is a private company that makes specialized ski apparel. It employs 200 people and has been in business for 30 years. The company’s profits have been slowly declining as the market has become satu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:41 AM
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Ehh, that’s modern society https://www.queermajority.com/essays-all/man-up-and-take-it-do-we-under-detect-mens-suffering?rq=Workplace%20vignette This is a great read.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:33 AM
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Men are allowed to but that’s not OP’s point. OP is correctly pointing out how society reacts to men vs women when it is pointed out that they are not good in some aspect. It is okay to point out flaws in men but not women in modern society
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:27 AM
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“They.” There’s the issue. You see men as one big lump and use a fat dose of apex fallacy. Most men are not privileged enough to meaningfully oppress. You see the small minority of rich and powerful men and conflate them with all men. You are literally the issue and what OP is referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:26 AM
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It’s absolutely reflective of society https://www.queermajority.com/essays-all/man-up-and-take-it-do-we-under-detect-mens-suffering?rq=Workplace%20vignette With an awareness of all these factors, my colleagues and I undertook an examination of our tendency toward gender bias in our moral typecasting. We conducted six studies among over 3,000 individuals from four countries. In one, participants were asked to read a vignette depicting harm in the workplace. For this experiment, we specified the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:24 AM
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Man imagine using this argument for any other group than gender. It would rightly be called out for discrimination
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:15 AM
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Nothing but facts. Society is programmed to see women as virtuous and men as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:08 AM
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Lmao surely this is not as bad as our usual suspects of ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:08 AM
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No that’s women. Women can’t fathom letting men have victim points so they hoard them all and invent scenarios to get extra victim points.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:43 PM
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My point isnt to score points or gotcha, it’s just to point out that the same logic against other groups is deemed wrong rightfully but against men it’s seen as okay. Theres comments on feminists subs where they use and upvote the lollies analogy. With regards to looking over my shoulder at night, it’s the difference between sympathy and empathy. But you can say that guys are completely carefree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:05 PM
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The poisoned lollies scenario actually had roots from 1940s Germany https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Der\_Giftpilz Is nice to know this rhetoric is acceptable against approved groups
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:57 PM
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Speak for yourself. I always look behind and around when walking late at night. And can I ask you this? Do you agree with the feminist notion of poisoned lollies? That a few bad M&Ms justifies prejudice against the whole bowl?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:42 PM
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Feminists love to use logic like this and other sayings like “it only takes a few bad M&Ms to ruin the bowl.” Use that Logic against any other group and you get called out for discrimination
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:36 PM
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Exactly. Is the same logic right wingers use by painting the acts of individuals and minorities as the whole group. It’s discrimination if the right wing does it but okay if feminists do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:31 PM
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Inkwells ranting on some forum is comparable to a prestigious university publication?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 08:52 PM
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Isn’t that what women do by using the minority of men as a gender who commit violent crimes to paint the entire gender as violent?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:37 AM
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https://www.queermajority.com/essays-all/man-up-and-take-it-do-we-under-detect-mens-suffering “We conducted six studies among over 3,000 individuals from four countries. In one, participants were asked to read a vignette depicting harm in the workplace. For this experiment, we specified the gender of the inflictor but left the recipient’s gender ambiguous. Participants were then asked to “recall” the gender of the harmed individual. Supporting our predictions, we found they were overwhelmingly m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:36 PM
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Obsessively posting incoherent slop every 12 hours tends to do that to people’s perception of you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:13 PM
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But only based on gender right? Because you do it based on any other quality or immutable characteristic and you become a discriminatory person
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:38 PM
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No we want proof that OP’s hypothetical isn’t some made up fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:36 PM
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At least they bring in anecdotal evidence (which is crap but at least it’s something). OP is literally making up evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:36 PM
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Hypothetical Men’s behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:34 PM
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Feminists make the same claims about men on the daily
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:50 PM
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No it’s not. Humans are hardwired to see women as default victims and men as default perpetrators. It is nigh impossible for it to ever be perceived in the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:24 AM
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Trojan horse type shit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:15 PM
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Holy shit someone who actually gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:20 PM
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Broader society definitely sees women as the default innocent person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:46 AM
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They are not but a significant amount of couples now meet via dating apps so ignoring or discounting them is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:25 PM
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The sexual tingles that she prioritises over the red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 12:33 AM
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Rejoice!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 08:47 PM
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Strawman final boss
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:26 AM
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You can get that skill in 1 week mate. They post that much
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:43 AM
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Clogging this subreddit up is annoying af
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:38 AM
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Atomic clocks get synced to Lilith’s 12 hourly posts. There is a rule on PPD preventing constant, compulsive posts but it’s set at 12hrs do Lo and behold. I’d love a poll on whether we as a sub can restrict Lilith to one post every 2days or something because it’s just slop at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:31 AM
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You don’t speak for all women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:53 AM
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Lilithslop
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:14 PM
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So women can simultaneously sniff misogyny on men that post anonymously but also get duped by evil mastermind abusers who had red flags galore?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:05 PM
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We tell men to take responsibility for the collective actions of their gender all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:54 PM
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You started this thread to ragebait but now look at you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:52 PM
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Which is why women are so resistant to letting men have victim points and acknowledging that men also have issues in society. Because they know that victim points result in less accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:51 PM
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Yeah they brag about how good they are at choosing and how they have 6th senses for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:49 PM
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No we are sick of hearing women complain about men treating them bad when half the reason is because women choose men who are predictably going to treat them bad. Yes there are men who can fool everyone but nine times out of 10 the guy who was toxic to his last 3 exes, spends all day drinking, works a dead end job or doesn’t even work and does drugs isn’t going to change for you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:44 PM
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Don’t bother. They are denying women’s social power because they want to keep playing the victim in society
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:29 AM
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I know plenty of men like that so no matter what you say to deny the power that women have, it is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:51 AM
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There are plenty of men in that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 09:46 AM
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Windmill lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:53 AM
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Lmao abusive men can apparently fool every woman and their mother but people are somehow going to be able to sniff out men who have AI gf’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:01 AM
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No. It’s like saying that men will make excuses for and ignore the entitlement in women if they are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 01:44 AM
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Yeah but men don’t act like a victim and don’t get treated like a victim when they get burnt by going after hot women with red flags. People tell him that he was thinking with his penis
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:51 AM
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Because it nullifies the point that assholes come in all shapes. That’s true but assholes are easily detected if they are not Chad McHotty so it makes sense to avoid people like that and date people who you can detect and screen red flags in
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:50 AM
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In mainstream society man hating is much more tolerated
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:46 PM
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Hashtag lilithslop
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 11:44 AM
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The only good thing I have found on scribd is owners manuals and technical documentation. That tells you everything you need to know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:00 AM
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Yeah I’m sure it happens the other way too. Some of the twisting I’ve seen RP types get into to play victim is funny. Victimisation I think is complex though. Both sides try but victimhood is female coded by nature so I think feminists will always be more/better victims
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 11:08 AM
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I’ve seen feminists take it to the next level by manufacturing hate and abuse and directing it against themselves with sock puppet accounts snd then blaming it on MRAs and RP so that they can look like victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:57 AM
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Because victim mentality works for women so men want in on that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:48 AM
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Do you need to look up the definition of a prerequisite?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:39 AM
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Looks are a prerequisite and anything to the contrary is virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:06 PM
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No it makes no sense to be hyper specific and picky. You don’t need to date women you obviously aren’t compatible with but there is a middle ground. Don’t be an obtuse troll
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:51 PM
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No that would be the equivalent of me wanting an economical car but test driving a v8 f250 truck. As usual you go to the extremes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:48 PM
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What are we making efficient?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:05 PM
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But making a small pool smaller is smart? This is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:05 PM
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So your post is wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:04 PM
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It’s crap advice. It’s no different to narrowing your search for a used economical commuter car right down to “2007 Honda Civic VTIL with optional sport package, must be in Smoky Blue with a scratch on the drivers side door.” You might find a match being broad but chances of finding a match reduce the more specific you go
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:04 PM
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Lilith is contractually obliged to post every 12 hrs. Whether they are posts of quality is not relevant lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:40 PM
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Lilith posts slop every 12 hours like an atomic clock for the past few years. It’s rage bait mate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:39 PM
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The deflecting ain’t working lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:19 PM
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That will just result in the same virtue signaling but with shorter and simpler words. How do we turn off virtue signaling?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:59 AM
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“What do you think other women look for in men?” Because then they can be more honest and paint other women as more materialistic/looks focussed/less virtuous etc. This has been scientifically tested. A speed dating test was set up and everyone was asked some questions regarding what they thought participants look for in dates. Men answered that they were quite focused on looks. Men answered that they thought other men were also looks focused. Women correctly pointed out that other women are loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 11:53 AM
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They fight to keep victimhood female voided because victimhood is power in modern society
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:07 AM
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This is just more virtue signalling. There are so many women out there who will go after horrible specimens purely because they look hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:32 AM
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There are plenty of women who delude themselves into thinking they are less looks focussed than men. We are all looks focussed but women have better pr
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:30 AM
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It’s the analogy used to dismiss claims that women make about how men should try and attract women. Usually it’s used because women are giving bad advice to men on dating. Men tell women that they do not know anything about how it is to attract women and use the “you don’t ask a fish how to catch fish, you ask the fisherman” saying to justify their claim. In a lot of ways I agree with it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 09:52 PM
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This is just that “most of the circles are red” meme
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 09:10 PM
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Atomic clocks are a waste of money when we have Lilith posting every 12 hours
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:54 AM
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General consensus on PPD is about as general as asking an elementary school tax enthusiast club
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:59 PM
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Reckon there’s something going on
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:12 AM
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This sub has gone to the shitters
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 03:23 AM
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The “I cosplayed as a woman on dating apps and it was easy post” was pretty much the end. Women lost a lot of credibility when they kept trying to act like dating was harder for them after that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 01:40 AM
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Should have been wages not water sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:32 PM
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Most guys direct their wages directly into the joint account so it’s the same either way
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 07:46 PM
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Yeah that’s the go to crutch when all else fails
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 02:50 AM
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I don’t think it’s any easier to be honest. Men face the same barriers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:06 PM
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Sure men have it easier but that doesn’t erode the actual benefits of motherhood for women. Just means that there are some drawbacks too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:03 PM
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The obvious benefit of having children and the ability to raise your children and share their childhood and be their loving parent isn’t a benefit for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:00 AM
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Nah ignore that comment. Thanks for being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:46 AM
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Lilith esque post
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:38 PM
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Talk about being a pendulum
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:37 AM
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In blue pill spaces there will always be a contingent that defends the woman. Depending on what she has done, you will have a lot or a little defending here but there will always be some defence. I’ve made posts using AITA as an example blue pill sandbox space and how they react to women vs men who do the same thing. When a woman is so bad in the kitchen that she can’t cut fruit it’s somehow the husbands fault for not patiently teaching her. When a man can only make a handful of dishes like omel…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 11:43 PM
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Two can play at that game. You’ve replied a lot on this thread too so what does that say about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 10:42 PM
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Small Dick insults are much more ubiquitous but that doesn’t support the women = victim agenda does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:38 PM
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“The stats don’t agree with me and don’t make me the victim so they must be nonsense.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 07:35 PM
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Lmao straight back to what aboutism because they’ve realised they can’t defend it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:01 AM
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The amount of women who deny the women are wonderful effect and the in group bias is crazy but as soon as it becomes impossible to defend it becomes “we never denied it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 07:33 PM
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Because that line of reasoning is scoffed at when men use it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 09:33 PM
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Rules are different if we are critical of women /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:07 PM
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It’s in all cases: We assessed mate preferences among 61 daughter-mother pairs using an experimental design varying target men’s physical attractiveness and trait profiles. We tested four hypotheses investigating whether a minimum level of physical attractiveness was a necessity to both women and their mothers and whether physical attractiveness was a more important determinant of dating desirability than trait profiles. These hypotheses were supported. Women and their mothers were strongly infl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:15 PM
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Because men don’t blame women as a gender when their choices backfire. They admit that they were thinking with their dicks and blinded by the sex. Women will just blame men as a gender when they pick the worst specimens because they were hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:53 PM
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Because looks are a prerequisite. If you can’t pass the looks threshold everything else is meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:48 PM
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I’m not the op
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:26 PM
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The whole issue is that feminist groups aren’t able to accept the fact because they feel it makes them look bad. It shows that feminist groups are more interested in virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:11 PM
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They don’t though. They cry misogyny when it is pointed out which shows that feminist groups suck at self reflection and acknowledging things about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:10 PM
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It’s not wrong but if you can’t even accept that it is true then it’s not a good look
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 07:09 PM
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And so what? Their potential to cause me harm has the same authority over me as a cop or any other privileged bad person. Harm is harm. I’m not going to infantilise them and give them an excuse for hurting others
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:00 PM
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Thank you! 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:52 AM
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Don’t be so predictable then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:08 AM
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It’s probably because they live in a society that sees them as the victim and thus innocent while the same society sees men as the villain and thus responsible. When you can skirt by blaming someone else, it’s easy to lose the ability to be responsible
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:21 AM
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Suffering from success
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:52 PM
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Lmao “why are you guys obsessed with mainstream society beating down 50% of the population but then praising the other 50% for the same thing. Just stfu about double standards.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:33 PM
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Swap the genders and women would be waiting in line to talk shit about a fat ugly man who doesn’t find any women at the dating events he goes to attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:21 PM
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She went to nine events and couldn’t find shit. She’s aiming out of her league
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:18 PM
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Because she’s the prize right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:16 PM
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Frequency is not the only metric. “Worse” depends on frequency and severity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:05 PM
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I love how all the women here are now ignoring the fact that the myth was perpetuated despite no actual evidence and are now trying to focus on nurses that warn women with cancer of relationship breakdown. So the nurses went from being justified in warning sick women because the stats were so bad but now that the stats don’t support them, the nurses can continue to perpetuate this myth because “muh women’s circle of support.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:03 PM
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OP is a legend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:01 PM
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Lmao anecdotal evidence is about as rigorous as my arse
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:01 PM
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Lmfao “coz they’re human.” You are scraping the bottom of the barrel for excuses
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:59 PM
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In group bias
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:50 PM
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Stop interchanging sex life with dating life. They are not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 07:40 PM
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You’re intentionally downplaying the difference. Dating life is honestly fine to discuss. Where you took your gf on a date. How her career is going. Maybe her car broke down and she is saving for a new one. What she is studying. How her parents are. What the next goal is for you two. Sex life is different. And that is where it gets shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 12:56 AM
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https://www.queermajority.com/essays-all/man-up-and-take-it-do-we-under-detect-mens-suffering “We conducted six studies among over 3,000 individuals from four countries. In one, participants were asked to read a vignette depicting harm in the workplace. For this experiment, we specified the gender of the inflictor but left the recipient’s gender ambiguous. Participants were then asked to “recall” the gender of the harmed individual. Supporting our predictions, we found they were overwhelmingly m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 10:17 PM
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Dating lives or sex lives? Conveniently changed that phrasing because there’s a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:40 PM
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So should all our friends just be from the same gender? Why stop there? Why not extend that to the same socioeconomic class? Same profession? Same suburb? Same race? Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:21 PM
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I thought it’s only men that share gross locker room talk?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 09:19 PM
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Solipsism eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:25 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/CfE4z5d8Wi It was a comment that they wrote, not in the post itself
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:23 PM
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OP has used his mouth and the women get pissy when told to not brag about their sex lives
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:22 PM
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Catering to the emotions of the men you called friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:20 PM
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The OP had said that he has tried to tell them that these convos are not what he wants to hear. The women get pissy after that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:17 PM
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Ehh. Sex isn’t something that I really want to hear about. At most it would maybe be, “Yeah we finally went all the way last night.” And then we respond with “congrats bro.” That’s it. I don’t want details. My friends are like this as well so it’s nice
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:16 PM
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Talking about how your gf is going with something like her career or what restaurant you went to for a date or where you are planning on going for holiday is fine. Or maybe some problems she is having like her car broke down or whatever Talking about the sex is just weird. And it tells me that there is nothing else going on in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:13 PM
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OP isn’t asking how their sex life is going. By that logic I should start talking about my investment properties unprompted
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:11 PM
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I love how it’s unrealistic to expect that these women have tact from within but that they actually need men to treat them like hyper school children where we need to tell them: “ your friends don’t want to hear about what your poo looked like little Timmy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:07 PM
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What about friend groups with different professions? I wouldn’t go to a friend group with some arts graduates who are now earning minimum wage and complain about how my lucrative engineering job is stiffing me on my bonus this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:06 PM
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Right let me share how much it costs to upkeep my 5 investment properties and how requests from my tenants are annoying to my friend who is struggling to afford a rental. It’s insensitive. The empathetic gender my ass
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:03 PM
2

Lmao the other commenter hit it on the head when they said you had nothing other than sex to talk about huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 08:00 PM
5

It shouldn’t be that insulting or shocking to be asked to talk about something other than your latest hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:59 PM
2

Lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:26 AM
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Yeah well if you have a read of the chadfishing text transcripts I think “lust” is a great word to describe the behaviour of the women who have only seen the profile
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:12 PM
5

Two X is way more mainstream than anything on 4chan
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 09:19 PM
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Lmao yall will always downplay it to keep your minority status. Two X is mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 09:19 PM
5

But your comment above said it was “broke/short” men and not “unpleasant to be around men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:50 PM
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Nah at this point surely Lilith had some dirt on the mod team given how invincible she is when it comes to being banned for trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:15 PM
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Lilith moment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:14 PM
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“Women are disproportionally liberal, and liberals mainly want more social programs for the poor while conservatives don’t. Keep in mind, manosphere disproportionately support conservatives.” That was you. Turns out women are not actually that consistent in voting for the liberals and would rather vote for the conservatives. Which means they don’t actually care about the plight of the average man who would be better served by the democrats
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 08:13 PM
4

Back to inventing I see
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:57 PM
0

You’ll never get an answer in good faith because that exposes that everyone (even women) is superficial
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 04:34 AM
3

When did I say any of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 09:11 PM
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This is such a weak “but but but false flag!” cry. And leave it to women who are desperate to avoid being seen in a bad light to try and act as if they know more about someone’s relationship issues than the people in the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 10:25 AM
2

Are they? Or are the women so desperate that they are just trying everything to get these men to commit?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:07 AM
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Yup. You can predict which characters are going to do something stupid by checking if they are women or men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:22 PM
0

Didn’t AOC call some MAGA idiot a “short troll” and urge everyone to laugh at them? Making fun of men’s insecurities has become mainstream so all kinds of women are now doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 11:22 PM
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If you have to ask… No but it’s purely dependent on whether she is attracted to you because if she is then it doesn’t matter when you ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 09:04 PM
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Because it shows that messaging is inconsistent and no matter what men do they will get flack
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:07 AM
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Lmao feminists love to trash men who attend these events and even think of trying to find a date. According to feminists if you attend these events you should focus on finding friends and the actual activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:43 AM
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Lmao if “specifics” are enough to dismantle your argument then it wasn’t a great argument to begin with. Is there data that shows women who work the same job and work the same hours make less than men? Because if not then no shit women are going to get paid less when they work lower paid jobs for less hours
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:42 AM
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When society shifts to valuing victimhood and oppression and rewarding those who say they are oppressed, is it any wonder that everyone tries to play victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:53 AM
3

Victim Olympics is normal these days
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:28 PM
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It’s not weird. It’s entirely predictable that she would downplay how much he does to embellish how much she does to make herself look good and look like a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 06:09 AM
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Lmao “how dare you imply that your are not simply satisfied with existing near me?”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:18 AM
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No they are asking how the women he is dating show that they value him and appreciate him. Their response is “I let your peasant self even stand near me and I didn’t order my guards to throw your worthless ass out of my presence.” Because women think their presence is worth it’s weight in gold
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 12:17 AM
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Because it’s denied
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:42 AM
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Spending more isn’t an issue if you can afford it. Spending beyond your means is the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:10 AM
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In one month, the average single American male consumer spends $3,847 or 98.1% of his income after taxes. The average single female spends $3,736 in one month or 116.9% of her income after taxes. Single women spend more of their income after taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:35 PM
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“In one month, the average single American male consumer spends $3,847 or 98.1% of his income after taxes. The average single female spends $3,736 in one month or 116.9% of her income after taxes.” Lmao it literally said single people. Can’t spend for a family when you are single
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:33 PM
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Yeah but the comment mentioned single men and women. Women in relationships spend more because they do the weekly shopping. Why are single women spending more?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:31 PM
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Just because she was under the impression of something doesn’t mean that is reality. She also constantly says it was platonic so…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:08 AM
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I’d rather he leave out details to expose how women are always so keen on inventing details to fill in the gaps that conveniently always make the woman in the story look justified while demonising the man. Women are wonderful bias in full display
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:06 AM
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They just think that they are gods gift and they are above all the feminist messaging to men about behaviour etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:57 AM
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You shouldn’t need to be under The threat of being fired by HR to behave like a decent human being. At least that’s what the feminists say about men’s behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:57 AM
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Which doesn’t mean he was tipsy. Lmao your assumptions getting unraveled is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:55 AM
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Where does it say he welcomes the behaviour? Just because you don’t report something (likely because of how it never ends well for men who report this stuff) doesn’t mean it’s welcomed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:50 AM
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You may as well speculate whether he is a mass murderer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:21 AM
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People who say that get called misogynists
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 12:11 PM
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Lmao the fact that not everyone is trauma ridden is baffling huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 07:39 PM
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Lmao gatekeeping loneliness now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:37 AM
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So you enjoy the double standards when they are in your favour
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:25 PM
2

Which just kinda proves the 80/20 rule then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:22 PM
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Because the men who whine about it are a minority of a minority compared to the social might and numbers that liberal women have
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:27 PM
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The liberal women who whine about unrealistic beauty standards
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:55 AM
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That’s such a normie take that skirts the topic though. It’s like saying that the two sides of <insert current war> should have a ceasefire to prevent casualties. Both are meaningless platitude type statements that don’t actually address the controversial topic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:46 AM
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Gender and dating as a whole is a touchy subject in mainstream society though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:37 AM
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Nice faux concern
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:35 AM
7

Who needs atomic clocks when you can just time your daily activities to Lilith’s 12 hourly shitposts?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:08 AM
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Who needs sleep when you can troll
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 11:36 AM
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Reads post. Drafts reply. Reads author. Deletes reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:52 PM
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Lmao as soon as women are seen as bad/superficial/gross, it’s an evil disinformation campaign isn’t it? Can’t possibly fathom women being shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:22 PM
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“Protection” is the virtue signalling. Why are you taking it at face value?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:45 PM
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Your reading comprehension needs work
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:02 PM
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And how do we know that you didn’t just ask AI to create a fat ugly man? This is soo illogical it’s funny
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:01 PM
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Whatever helps you sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:00 PM
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80/20 confirmed/s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:02 PM
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RIP your personal data (drivers license etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:01 PM
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I doubt it. The app was so poorly developed that the drivers license verification system that ensures only women can join the app stored data on a public database. Of course this was found and the data was leaked. The app I actually can’t find anymore so I doubt someone would advertise an app that isn’t available anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:00 PM
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This just proved my point. It’s not the IT and tech skills that are appealing or attractive, it’s the fact that the person also happens to be a gourmet cook, speak Spanish, be persuasive and have charisma. I agree with this. But it’s misleading to say that tech skills as a singular attribute are appealing to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:42 AM
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That’s fair. But the comment I replied to specifically said “Things that women find appealing are having skills in something (whether it’s cars, computers, yard work, etc)…” I don’t think any woman is going to find her man’s tech and IT skills (not the fact that he may do it as part of a job and get paid bank) appealing or attractive. The unattractive computer geek stereotype exists for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 09:30 PM
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Upvoted for the clear cut take
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 09:16 PM
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Depends on what subreddit you go to. On a gaming subreddit yes they will be softer than the average real life man. But go onto a sports/outdoor sub and I think they will be harder than the average real life man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:49 PM
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Don’t bullshit. Women in the South will not find a man appealing because he has computer skills. It’s sports, maybe cars and outdoor skills. Computer skills are a turn off if anything
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:28 PM
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True, but the average reddit man is more representative of the average real life man than the average reddit woman is representative of the average real life woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:25 PM
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Ehh, good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:36 PM
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Desperate scrambling for stones to throw as ad hominem is desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:25 PM
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Write it on their foreheads
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:10 PM
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How predictable. Denying that women could ever be bad and pinning it all on men. Except there are plenty of women (including high profile and influential ones) who have made these claims
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:35 AM
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So you get their point but can’t counter it and thus resort to bad faith poisoning the well. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:34 AM
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Ahh shit yeah makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:33 AM
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Why? It’s just supply and demand. Do facial mask manufacturers get shamed when they make a tonne of money during the pandemic? No. Don’t feel bad, just be aware of why you did well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:00 AM
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In this day and age in the modern western world are the women on OF or voluntarily doing pornography really made to do so by men? Because that seems like you are infantilising women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:56 AM
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Men aren’t forcing women to do onlyfans, in the same way that drug users don’t force people to become dealers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:49 AM
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The women and the drug dealers are both the producers/sellers of the product in the market. Drug users and men are the buyers in the market. But somehow it’s different if women are under scrutiny huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:07 AM
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Their logic has about the same structural rigidity as a house of cards
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:06 AM
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Then how is it not the drug users fault for creating the demand that the drug dealer meets?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:05 AM
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Updoots to the left please
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:44 PM
2

It’s like one of the most circejerked and heavily upvoted comments everyone it comes up on relationship advice and AITA
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:43 PM
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Notice how you qualified your statement with “to the point of dysfunction?” Thought you were being subtle. Women with mild to moderate mental illnesses are tolerated, supported and praised. Men with even a hint of mental illness (or even a vibe) are told to get lost
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:17 PM
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You are a minority and even then, you date men. Nothing you said addresses their point that mental illness, self doubt and overall incompetence is borderline praised in women but derided in men and that this is yet another area where feminism has broken barriers for women but kept the barriers for men (despite constantly crowing about how feminism helps men).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:08 PM
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Once again, lived experience only matters if you are a woman. Men talk about their lived experience getting dropped after showing emotional vulnerability. The same feminists who browbeat everyone into taking women’s accusations and complaints as gospel then switch up and either victim blame the men or say they don’t believe them. Typical
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:27 PM
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The average women has enough choice and freedom that its not worth doing. They can just find another guy who will bottle up better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:25 PM
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There’s always a way to twist it to blame the man huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:22 PM
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No response lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:20 PM
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Is any of that still relevant in the modern western society that the world is moving towards? It’s not wonder young men don’t take feminists seriously. Feminists still point to examples that were common in the 1960s and expect 20 year old men to take them seriously. Young men growing up in the western modern world don’t react to hymen tests and murdering impure maidens because they don’t see that. What they see with their own two eyes are the millions of dollars going to women in STEM scholarshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 12:33 AM
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So you want to have your cake and eat it too? Women already hold the balance of power in the relationships and hookup space, just seems like you want it to become a place where women have all the power so that they get pursued by all the men they deem hot and the men that you don’t want you can magic away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:52 PM
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It never fails to amaze me how feminists manage to turn literal privileges into scenarios where they are the “victim” with the most tenuous and flimsy links ever. If you seriously want to postulate that the privilege of not having to court, pursue and propose to a woman (and have to bear all the hard work and the countless rejections) is actually a reason why you are the victim because “women are the prize ands that’s objectification,” then go right ahead. It’s no different to the old saying whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:09 PM
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As if women date men they aren’t physically attracted to, nice gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:32 PM
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The bar is in hell…if he’s hottt!!🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:30 PM
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Don’t you know, stereotyping is good if it’s a group you are “approved” to shit on! Man vs bear for example. But don’t you dare use that logic with race or body shape
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 07:04 AM
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It’s a desperate attempt to change the topic and minimise the issue because right now it makes women look bad (like they are perpetuating the very gender standards they apparently want to abolish).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:57 AM
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They’d be marching in the streets if the shoe was on the other foot. But we get told to suck it up. You’re exactly right. Do you by chance have that AITA link? Would love to see the mental gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:55 AM
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Mods when glowupgirl, Windmill and Lilith have this sub in a chokehold posting shitpost after shitpost: I sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:59 AM
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That the only way for a woman to experience the trauma of realising her child isn’t biologically hers (barring adoption cases) is if the child was swapped at birth. A man can’t confirm that a child is biologically his without a paternity test
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:19 AM
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Nobody is saying it isn’t bad or harmful. Yes it involves a romantic and financial hurt. But it doesn’t affect the knowledge that the wife’s child is still her child. It’s not comparable to paternity fraud in that manner
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:01 AM
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How? Your scenario doesn’t actually subject the wife to offspring lineage betrayal. A man having a secret second family is relationship betrayal but it doesn’t affect the wife’s knowledge that her child is her child. A man who is a victim of paternity fraud suffers relationship betrayal and child lineage betrayal. The only way for a woman to experience child lineage betrayal is swapped at birth scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:50 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:45 PM
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Welcome to debating with Lilith.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:35 PM
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Men and women play different parts when it comes to reproduction. Surely basic biology isn’t beyond your reach Lilith
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:33 PM
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False dichotomy. There is a goldilocks zone between virgin and man whore. Research says it’s around 2-3 https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/at-first-blush/201809/how-many-sexual-partners-is-too-many-sexual-partners?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:46 AM
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Find me research then. Because it seems virgins are less preferable compared to those who have around 1-6 sexual partners. Out of that Goldilocks zone it tapers off
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:35 AM
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Why can’t women take accountability for the insults they use?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:20 AM
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Yup that’s why women use “virgin” as an insult lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:12 AM
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I don’t see those women using “virgin” as a compliment towards men so excuse me if I don’t believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:10 AM
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Most women aren’t bound by the standards of the royal family
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:00 AM
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Being the primary breadwinner. Plenty of women feel like this. A lot of women say they don’t care about how much money men make but internally they feel that he should at least match her or outearn her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:25 AM
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Why do you think men have higher paying jobs? Answer: because men know from a young age that most women expect her male partner to at least match her but preferably outearn her. It’s why fields with low pay tend to have barely any men. You ask an 18 year old man why he chose the career path he chose and I guarantee in the top 3 will be “ability to support a family (money).” Women have the flexibility to choose careers that have lower earning potential because there is much less pressure on them …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:24 AM
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Then why do women use “virgin” as an insult. Therein lies the answer. To RP men, virgin is a compliment to women. To women, virgin is an insult they hurl at men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:12 AM
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Do women like virgin men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:12 AM
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It’s a lot harder for men to get casual sex therefore it gets less criticism and more praise. Nobody congratulates big strong men for beating small women in boxing/combat sessions. Same deal. But we do congratulate smaller people if they can beat a bigger stronger person in combat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:10 AM
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Yes I did /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:23 AM
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Carnival back at it again with top tier trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:22 AM
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Probably average
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:50 PM
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Obligatory: “if he’s hot then it doesn’t matter until we break up.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 09:36 PM
1

Now use that logic for race and how that affects “real danger.” You know, crossing the street to avoid a group?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:35 AM
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Oh so now blue pills understand % of population? Where was this when we talked about how the vast vast majority of men are not rapists and you told us to shut up because #notallmen?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 09:52 PM
1

Wrong reply mate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 10:41 AM
1

How is most violent crime being committed by men a fact that disproves justice system bias. Both are true. The bias was even after criminal history and crime severity/type was controlled for
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:13 AM
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That did not need to be clarified. That’s like saying men tend to be faster at sprinting than women, and then clarifying that it’s men with working legs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 07:05 AM
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ADHD kills school performance for pretty much everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:06 AM
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Measured diagonally mind you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:10 AM
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Hand size is irrelevant. An inch is a gender agnostic measurement. Its not like women’s tape measures have different sized inches than the men’s ones
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:08 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/iEZ4jlEqqW Chadfishing experiments sure seem to show that quite a few women reward bad qualities with sex if he is good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 09:09 PM
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Those men all get labeled misogynists. And that behaviour isn’t encouraged by mainstream society (schools, universities, workplaces). It is encouraged for women to do this though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:19 AM
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Props for the metaphor
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:18 PM
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As usual, feminists can’t actually deny the point so they just try to blame it on men when in reality, all of society has a positive bias towards women. Predictably, feminists will try and portray being favoured as “oppression.” Being given literal privileges is “oppression” apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 08:18 AM
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They are viewed as incompetent and infantilised by everyone, not just men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 08:17 AM
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Women: use dick size as a way to make fun of men Men: become insecure and get sensitive about dick size Women: Men are insecure because if the patriarchy and other evil men. It’s all men’s fault!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:42 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/AmITheAngel/s/rbEuNV5fzX Recent one caught in the wild
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 06:41 AM
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So are we going with the notion that women can sniff misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 10:47 AM
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This is evident on Reddit advice and relationship forums. When women come and post about how awful their husband is, they will get support and sympathy. People will tell her that she deserves better and that her husband is bad. When a husband posts about a wife that is not pulling her weight/bullying him etc: They will try and find an excuse for her that is out of her control. Like mental health, mental disorders, learning disabilities, stress, someone else being mean to her. They will blame the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 11:28 AM
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What is this 5th grader level researching? At least move beyond the AI overview and ideally provide some sort of source with some sort of credibility
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 06:19 AM
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Cya
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:03 PM
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There are plenty of other users seeing them and pointing them out. Ignorance is not an excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 09:23 PM
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What a lot of these sorts of women bring to the table is debt and entitlement. They think that men are impressed by a masters degree that cost tens of thousands of dollars which they use to make maybe $70,000 AUD because Ofc they won’t work full time. We aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:56 PM
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Just because they don’t use the term doesn’t mean the mentality is not around
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:51 PM
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Why should men look past the vocal minority of feminists who taint the name if women won’t look past the minority of men who do the wrong thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:25 PM
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So when a proportion of feminists act like dickheads and make sexist comments men are lazy for not seeing past the bad apples and embracing good feminism. But if a proportion of men do bad things it’s okay to lump all men in with bears or tell them to all die?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:24 PM
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It makes them look bad. Makes them look like they are just trying to extract something out of the relationship and thus they hide it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:19 PM
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The women call themselves boss babes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 08:18 PM
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In the language of false dichotomies
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:54 AM
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My fav solo moment is that last windmill post you talked about where he tried to argue that gay and asexual men can be attracted to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:08 AM
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Nah sly and passive aggressive is Solond. Windmill is an out and out troll. Lilith is somewhere in between
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:21 PM
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Lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:04 AM
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Not widespread but that “no one” is probably false
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:16 AM
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That the original comment that said no one has a problem with men saying they like small waists or whatever is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:04 AM
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? You said originally that “No one has a problem with men saying he likes big boobs or a small waist or long hair, and plenty of men do.” Then when I show you that women do hate it when men say that stuff you give me this non answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:02 AM
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I don’t think anyone sees “player bros” as good long term marriage prospects
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:39 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/s/msw5YZlO0W https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/s/vwl3X6nbRO Two seconds to prove you wrong. Women don’t like it when men have standards
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:38 AM
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Hats off for top tier trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:41 PM
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When did I say stay at home mum? Regardless of whether the wife works or not, most women still prefer their husband to make more than them so they can work either full time in a less stressful job, part time or at home/hybrid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 03:53 AM
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Not the only factor but it’s a factor nonetheless. If women can cite men as the reason they are conforming to beauty standards, I’m sure it’s not too far a take to say that at least part of the reason why men gravitate towards these fields is because they want to start a family someday and that requires a wife
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:47 PM
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So it’s not a push?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:27 PM
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The huge amounts of affirmative action, scholarships, events designed to get women in stem, school groups, some unis even lower grades required for stem classes if you are a woman. All that is the push
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:17 PM
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Higher paying jobs are valued more for men than women because apart from cost of living, cost of homes and stuff that affects every gender, men are uniquely affected by the demands of their romantic partners. Men see women wanting men who earn at least as much as them and preferring men who earn more than them. Is it any wonder that men choose fields that are lucrative?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:13 PM
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You need too see this from the perspective of men. Men see most women wanting a male partner who earns at least as much as them and preferably more. Is it any surprise that men are moving away from lower paying jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:10 PM
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We are talking about being the financial provider in a relationship though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:38 PM
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Then this just proves the point that men are under more pressure to be the financial provider while women have the privilege of going to uni and doing expensive degrees for reasons other than job prospects
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:37 PM
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Yes we dismissed them because they do not make enough money to suggest that women are under pressure to be the financial provider like men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 07:36 PM
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Nobody is saying otherwise. But the most common course isn’t my point. This is my point: “The most popular degree with males was Science chosen by 26% of them, followed by Business (22%), Engineering (20%) and Medicine & Health (20%). Sitting at number one for females was Medicine & Health chosen by 37% of them, followed by Science (24%), Arts & Social Sciences (23%) and Education & Social Work (20%).” https://www.youthsense.com.au/youth-insights/the-most-popular-uni-degrees-in-australia-in-2021…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:22 AM
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Underwater basket weaving degrees aren’t evidence that women are under more pressure to earn more. Women might get more degrees but a lot of the degrees women get pay like dogshit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:16 AM
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Men do not get paid more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 06:14 AM
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Men get shat on for slut shaming way more than women get shat on for bi-shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:17 PM
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Because women are wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:08 PM
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Men could play the same game to justify not dating or wanting girls who have slept around since casual sex increases the risk of STIs. Of course we get called as slut Shamers so as usual men get blamed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:32 PM
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They do, but bad faith debating is solo’s MO. Don’t bother
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:28 PM
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Women are always either the hero or the victim but never the villain
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:26 PM
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They thrive on the ambiguity of it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:12 PM
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Once again, lived experience only matters if it makes women look good. So many men come forward and talk about their experience with women losing attraction after they show vulnerability. But because this makes women look bad and exposes the lie that women are virtuous and aren’t sexist, it gets buried.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:11 AM
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Did you argue in bad faith constantly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:18 AM
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So it’s just anecdotes okay thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:55 PM
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Don’t bother, these people won’t even read anything that doesn’t agree with them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:51 PM
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I mean, we have eyes. Yeah sure asking a girl and expecting her to tell the truth about this is a nice joke but what if we use our eyes and see that Stella was the college bicycle?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:54 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/cRfHiVHcxV We can identify women who are more likely to cheat on us. We did weed these women out when looking for a partner. Feminists called it slut shaming because it turned out that the women who tend to cheat on us are the ones who are promiscuous. So is slut shaming back on the menu?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:34 AM
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I opened up Insta and within 2 reels I found a reel from a creator none of us follow (some meme page). In the bottom corner it says “liked by xyz and 34,000 others.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:45 AM
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Nah I get “liked by xyz” in the bottom corner without me choosing to display it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:39 AM
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It’s on by default I thought
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:36 AM
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It’s ragebait if women act bad online and it’s the mask coming off if men act bad online.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:11 AM
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Hello Human Resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:11 PM
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Dumb argument because being a mommas boy or a daddies girl is not comparable to being raised in a single parent household by that parent. It’s a completely different situation. It’s like comparing someone who is right hand dominant and uses it for writing, brushing teeth etc to someone who only has a right hand and has their left hand amputated. Just because a kid is a mommas boy or a daddies girl doesn’t mean they have no relationship with their other parent
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:30 PM
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Twisting the definitions of each one to make the man one bad and the woman one good is very obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:21 PM
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Because as usual, it’s wrong to point out character faults in women but acceptable to do so in men. One is misogyny and the other is funny/necessary/acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:20 PM
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Rants from women are allowed because on PPD the rules only apply to men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:45 PM
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Stop gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:30 AM
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Muh patriarchy pulled the strings. We are all poor little oppressed puppets. When I rejected 5”6 Tom in favour of 6”4 Harrison it wasn’t my fault! It was patriarchy that made me choose the tall man! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:59 PM
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Other aspects of life have a lot more certainty. Going to the gym or getting good grades in school have really strong correlations with being healthier and being successful. With attracting women it’s a lot muddier
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:56 PM
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Because that’s what they like and want. “84% of working women told ForbesWoman and TheBump that staying home to raise children is a financial luxury they aspire to. What’s more, more than one in three resent their partner for not earning enough to make that dream a reality.“ https://www.forbes.com/sites/meghancasserly/2012/09/12/is-opting-out-the-new-american-dream-for-working-women/ And for height, the women that do report that preference talk about how they like the feeling of being shorter th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:33 PM
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What screaming? I’m not even criticising the choice of picking rich tall men. All I’m saying is that it is dumb to blame the patriarchy for what choices you make when it comes to selecting a man. If you’re going to prefer tall men who make more than you, own the preference. Don’t try and infantilise yourself by saying “ohh poor me, the patriarchy manipulates me into picking tall rich men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:27 PM
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That’s just a convenient way to blame shift. It’s women who are looking for men who make more money than them, who are taller than them etc. No big bad group of men are standing over women forcing them to pick the taller man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:22 PM
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It’s not goalpost shifting if you only defend a corner of the goalpost
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:14 AM
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Tests that are literally rigged to weight the parts that girls do well on and boys do bad on. In a lot of Australian states English is mandatory in year 12 but maths isn’t. And sometimes the bias is outright bragged about. “The review found there was too much emphasis on mathematical ability in the old test, and boys did better in those questions. The new test, introduced last year – which is yet to go digital, despite plans to bring it online in 2022 – puts greater emphasis on writing.“ https:/…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:08 PM
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So it’s laughable but you deflect it by saying that the law was created by men so it’s our fault? Because a few rich rich men decided to use our bodies as cannon fodder for their war we deserve to die? That’s not even a refutement of the argument. It’s still a law that unequally affects men, you just tried to blame the common man for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:02 PM
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So it’s just whine whine, dismiss dismiss and deny deny?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:37 PM
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This is just rape. What about other related crimes like sexual assault or child sex crimes that men can just as easily be falsely accused of? You yourself talk about how much it spikes in cases of child custody. Also Mary Koss has been on the record stating that if a man was drugged and forced to penetrate against his will that it only counts as unwanted contact and not rape. So she’s biased at best. And you still don’t comment anything of substance regarding informal accusations. Ask any male (…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:02 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:20 AM
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“Quirky”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:39 PM
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They did that one with me a few weeks ago too lmao. Don’t bother, disagreeing with them is abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:34 PM
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Now use this logic to describe minorities who are anxious about traffic stops. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:19 PM
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We are talking about fake accusers (including both those that go to the cops and those that don’t). Like I said, don’t always need to go to the cops to do damage
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:05 PM
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Why is your lived experience more important than ours
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:03 PM
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No need. OP says that they only talked about allegations reported to the police. Considering that many real rape victims don’t report their rape to the cops, I’m sure plenty of fake victims don’t report either. Regardless, you don’t need to be reported to the police for a false allegation to have an impact on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:48 AM
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Saw title and post. Typed response. Read username. Deleted response
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:59 AM
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Geez
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:42 PM
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No response lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:34 PM
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The fact that the excuses people make for when women are violent are essentially “she’s too weak to actually hurt you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:32 PM
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Nah men who hit women do so out of the public eye. They know that what they are doing is “wrong.” Women who hit men do it publicly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:06 PM
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“What are you, gay?” -LGBT ally women when a man rejects them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 08:05 PM
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Men who hit women rarely do so in public. They know it’s wrong. Women who hit men don’t bother trying to hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:53 PM
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It’s stupid bs designed to keep the blame on General men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:23 PM
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Women suck at rejection. They’ll tell men all day long to “just get over” being rejected day in day out but as soon as they get rejected, all hell breaks loose. In their mind, they are the dam wall separating a valley from an upstream reservoir. If they break (find you attractive), their logic is that the water should rush out. They don’t realise that there are two dam walls (both the man and the woman needs to want to date). Thus when they open their dam walls but the man doesn’t and water does…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:18 PM
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Swap men with “the job seeking middle class” and OP as employers and this sounds hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:56 AM
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It’s not just of the women are sick or injured. I’ve seen women use the “you aren’t entitled to sex” argument when the man talks about how his wife is perfectly healthy but just has fallen out of attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:10 AM
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When men don’t get sex in a relationship, everyone tells them to shut up and keep serving his wife and doing what she wants. People blame him for not pleasuring her or for being sex obsessed. When women don’t get sex in a relationship, it’s the man’s fault he is making her feel sad. Is not her fault, her man is a neglectful partner who won’t give his wife what she needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:08 AM
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It’s so that the guys doing it tough don’t listen to her. If they see her shitty logic laid bare and watch her argument crumble like a house of cards, they will realise that she is all talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:14 AM
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It’s not about debating your way into their pants. It’s about correcting shitty arguments that are purely said to demoralise men who do it tough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:08 AM
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Maybe one of those pagers that exploded in Lebanon? But the stat for phones with explosives in them (women who might have mental health issues that may make them attracted to such guys) is staggering. For young women it’s over 1/4.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:29 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/d3Hdu2eMYs The women that responded to this post all said that they had fear of men. And the fact that man vs beast went viral
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:48 PM
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So female dating coaches/pink pill influencers whose videos provide advice for women are making videos to get money off angry men. And male dating coaches/red pill influencers whose videos provide advice for men are making videos to get money off angry men. And women don’t watch any of these videos because they are more virtuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:45 PM
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So by your logic the red pill influencers are all just making money off baiting feminists and blue pills? No money is being made off their target audience of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:38 PM
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This is some massive cope I’ve seen from women on here. The same cope I saw back on that “I got 7 dates in 18hrs with an average female profile.” Whenever women might be the majority of something that is beneficial to them (here it’s these videos and then it was the OLD), women always try to blame it on some minuscule minority of men who might also be doing it. No, men are not anywhere near a significant percentage of the people viewing and watching these dating videos aimed at women. Just like …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:36 PM
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Well then it would be like the bully getting a flip phone with a cracked screen and you getting nothing. Yeah sure a flip phone with a cracked screen is a shitty thing but it’s still better than the no phone you’re getting. Ideally you’d want a reliable smartphone but fat chance of that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:31 PM
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Maybe if you’re a woman. But if you’re a man in a society where people ready see you as a threat and if you happen to not be good looking it’s very easy to be lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:28 PM
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I’ll trust actual studies over some guy saying it’s cope thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:49 PM
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Which is why they qualified the comment with “if you’re lonely.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:46 PM
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It’s not a binary
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:59 AM
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Don’t bother. They won’t admit anything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:58 AM
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Yeah but distance is a physical barrier. The only barrier to the man buying you the lavish gifts now was himself. He didn’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:57 AM
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Trauma or trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:57 PM
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It’s Lilith, sometimes the bottom of the barrel gets scraped after she’s posted continuously every 12hrs for a week. Something something deserve me at my best
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:27 AM
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Source? My ass
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:42 AM
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There was a post on a teachers subreddit a few days ago where they were talking about staff room behaviour. Basically just bullshit gossiping and whatnot but after a few comments alluded to it, a lot of teachers started coming out with stories of appalling sexual behaviour from their female colleagues. Things like speculating on the principal’s dick size, talking about which of the senior boys they fancy, talking openly and loudly about their tinder hookups. The one that took the cake was a stud…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:12 AM
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Bullshit. Poor people are not stealing wallets to pay for baby formula. They are not shoplifting loaves of bread or bottles of milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:37 AM
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It’s not the same I think in the sense that men beating women about dating app matches is a niche on ppd. Man vs bear went global
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:33 AM
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The only thing stopping us from being allowed to be racist is the fact that the disproportion committing of crime isn’t disproportionate enough? Geez
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:15 AM
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Instead of taking about panties, address their point. Can I change to the other side of the street if I see a poor looking person coming my way because I’m scared they’ll hurt me? Or am I classist?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:11 AM
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Man vs bear was a public smear campaign. So yeah I would say so. One thing that really highlighted the absurdity and the double standards was an AITA post a while back. A homeless guy was at an art exhibit late at night. He came across a young woman also alone and she got scared when she saw him and ran away. The next day he went to a party and Lo and behold, she was there. I think he confronted her and then she called him an AH. The comments were split. They didn’t know how to decide because if…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:09 AM
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Just because something is more likely to happen based on someone’s identity doesn’t mean it’s okay to bully that group about it. And it seems to happen only to men. Because pearl clutching when the person walking opposite you looks a certain way in terms of skin colour is racist apparently. Because trying to switch teams when you get allocated into a group with girls in it for the high school maths competition is sexist apparently. Why is it okay to discriminate against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:55 AM
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Why would it die out? This is like expecting rich billionaires to “die out” because they face less poverty. They won’t give back the power. Power is never given back. Not by billionaires, big corporations, banks, criminals. It won’t be given back by feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:03 PM
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Men don’t give a shit if you wear the same dress twice. Women will talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:39 PM
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Don’t settle for a man you weren’t attracted to then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:17 PM
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Children yes, men not nearly as much
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:16 PM
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That poor child.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:25 AM
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Doesn’t matter, women have amazing PR as a gender so they can say anything and still be seen as better than men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:24 AM
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@Mods, at what point does this become blatantly bad faith debating?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:10 PM
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It’s Solo, bad faith debating is their MO
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:20 PM
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A quick criminal record check is easy. Unless of course you are a woman who is drowning in options and unaware of the privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:02 AM
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Few enough that doing the bare minimum criminal check isn’t an issue. Drowning in options yet can’t be arsed to do the bare minimum and then you lot play the victim when you get caught as a result of your own laziness
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:46 AM
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Damn imagine having that many options that you can’t even be bothered running their names to see if they are criminals. Women have all the options in the world and still choose shit like this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:34 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1hvw1a7/comment/m5x7oq3/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:15 AM
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They aren’t mirrors. Women might confuse them from time to time but they are not that similar
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:03 AM
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They’ll say anything. But we all know that when a lower class man goes up against a high class woman, the man gets shat on. Just look at incidents between black men being falsely accused by white womens. Society took women’s side
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:53 AM
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No women in this very sub were talking about how attractive it was that he murdered the CEO
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:49 AM
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Confidence is not psychopathy, narcissism or Machiavellianism lmfao. These rationalisations are hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:49 AM
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Excuses coming in 5, 4…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:43 AM
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I could show you it happening irl and you’d still have an excuse or goalpost shift so what’s the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:41 AM
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Yes. I won’t deny that men also ignore red flags in favour of hotness but I feel like men also admit this and take accountability. It’s why guys talk about stuff like the hot crazy matrix so they acknowledge that the women have red flags but that they are just too hot etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:39 AM
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Don’t bother. I showed OP chadfishing receipts where women threw themselves at child grapists, nazis and wife beaters. Her response was to say that men would do that too and to try and argue that the women didn’t read the bio even though lots of the women clarified the heinous crimes in the chat thread with the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:02 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/pF9WJLHTfU I don’t know, there are plenty of women who will ignore blaring red flags like nazi ideologies, domestic violence and child grape and still throw themselves at a guy because he’s hot. A real life example is Chris Brown who is a confirmed domestic abuser and yet still sells out shows in minutes with a large contingent of female fans. https://www.standard.co.uk/culture/music/chris-brown-o2-gig-review-shallow-inconsequential-b1060424.html
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:38 AM
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The fact that they continue seeing the guy even after seeing the red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:37 AM
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Is it really an exception though? Women just seem to give those behaviours a pass if he’s hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:34 AM
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Nah wdym Kim Jong Un is HVM
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:54 AM
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Yes but if you say that you are a misogynist victim blamer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:12 AM
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Feminine is not villainous lmao. What a load of twaddle. If anything masculinity is villainous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 09:42 PM
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Doms and subs consent to that beforehand. They are equal but consent to a roleplay where one is inferior to the other. Women who do this without a formal conversation and expect their partner to be their daddy are not equal though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:36 AM
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Because it’s abusing the word creep? Isn’t that the point of the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:24 AM
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The tactic of using the word “creepy” to deflect from the original issue. The best example I’ve seen of it was: Teen girl scrolling her phone during class under the table in her lap Teacher: “Mindy why are you on Instagram during my maths class?” Teen girl: “eww sir why are you looking at me like that. That’s so creepy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:20 AM
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Except I’ve seen people on this sub do this exact tactic and then when I call them out for using teen girl tactics they go quiet. Example: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1i4n3qb/comment/m7wugob/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:01 AM
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Blue pills on this sub that quite literally abuse the word creep?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:58 AM
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Because lesbians and bi women outright say that women are the problem. https://youtu.be/Y4E8qEDi_xg?si=ZEX4CjUETAW9Op1S
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:24 AM
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There’s always an error. They’ll try to use small sample size, selective reading, different country, different women, biased sample, wrong data all in an effort to deflect. The blind hiring study and the mothers being biased against sons study were two really good examples where feminists went into overdrive trying to deflect
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:22 AM
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Basic logic. If 2-10% were proved to be definitively false, then how many more were false but couldn’t be proved?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:11 PM
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You really can’t argue without poisoning the well huh? It’s not about graping women, it’s about preventing innocent men from going to jail and/or losing everything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:04 PM
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Are you trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:51 PM
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Clapped as in clapping cheeks I think
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:05 PM
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Why don’t women want to subsidise a man? By your logic and what you left unsaid, it means men are expected to subsidise women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:18 AM
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Poisoned mushrooms is what the Nazis used to talk about Jews. In the 21st century feminists use poisoned M&Ms to talk about men. Spot the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:24 PM
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Until women stop selecting “traditionally masculine men,” that won’t change. Women are the ones who put pressure on men to make the big bucks. Women are the ones who prefer men who make at least more than they do. Women are the ones who prefer men who are taller than they are. You can’t grow something in a climate that hyperfocuses on these aspects and then expect these boys to suddenly drop it all in a tokenistic effort to make women look good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 09:20 PM
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Has feminism really been about going to college or learning to read anytime in the last 20 years? Because the stuff I see feminists doing include rigging tests to favour female students or making male students stand up and apologise for the “crimes of their gender.” And when quizzed on those the response I get is “they deserve it because women suffered back in the day.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:44 PM
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And therein lies the problem. Feminists swear up and down that they aren’t interested in revenge etc. Yet when the argument gets boiled down to its crux, what is said? “Now men know what it was like to be a woman in the past.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:47 PM
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Explain to me what risk of stabbing the women in the study I linked had if they actually responded in the data collection “I value attractiveness quite a lot in the men I date.” Who would stab these women? The researchers?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 06:01 AM
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These women were not at risk of being stabbed if they were truthful to the researchers. There was no reason to lie to the researchers apart from virtue signaling. Don’t be dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:40 AM
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A whole lot of ad hom but not much actual reasoning lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:31 AM
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Then use those. Why lie about being less superficial?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 05:30 AM
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“The original data dates back to 1972” Bahahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:49 AM
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Sorry mb if stroll can anyone can
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:18 AM
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Not for looks. And for sincerity and intelligence both men and women were equally wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:19 PM
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Hmmm, dating profiles sharing bad personalities won’t even get a first date you say? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/425TrPy0Ki
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:15 PM
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When is Solo not though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:01 PM
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How would you know that before a first date though? Because a lot of the examples here (clicking at waiters, being rude to wait staff, demanding sex on the first date) all occur during the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:55 PM
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<image> https://www.kaggle.com/code/jph84562/the-ugly-truth-of-people-decisions-in-speed-dating Smells like lies to me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:19 PM
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That’s not an excuse because women lie to researchers about this. It’s not just about men debating preferences when women say the truth. Women just want to appear more virtuous. Proof? https://www.kaggle.com/code/jph84562/the-ugly-truth-of-people-decisions-in-speed-dating <image> Oh and for even more hilarious proof look at the rest of the study: “In contrast, there exist a significant difference in women’s answers in comparison to the presvious analysis. Women say that they themselves are looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:16 PM
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So first you asked for who is saying this and now you’re moving the goalposts? Second, they didn’t pass the looks threshold because she outright says “didn’t really find attractive at first.” But I didn’t expect any good faith debating from you Mongo so not too surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:58 PM
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Further down thread: “Not necessarily. I’ve given men a chance who I didn’t really find attractive at first because I liked their personalities and the vibe that they had. They weren’t ugly but they weren’t super cute to me until I got to know them. Their vibe is what made them cuter.” This comment denies that personality only matters after a guy passes the looks threshold and instead tries to argue that personality can help get the looks over the bar (not statistically supported).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:49 PM
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I don’t think people on here would deny this actually. For me this view conforms to 3 pillars I have about this: Women do not date men they are not attracted to. Women would ideally want a hot guy with a nice personality. The looks are a prerequisite. The hot guy who is an asshole might be able to get first dates or start a relationship, but it probably won’t be a long and happy one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:47 PM
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Then the men here would at least be able to get first dates. First dates are based on physical attraction and by your logic, men should not be struggling at all to get first dates and instead should be flopping on the second or third dates when their “bad” personality comes out. But they are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:44 PM
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Here’s one on PPD from this week: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/Q9sDhTCerK And usually it’s not that they deny looks matter (way to misrepresent). They downplay the effect of looks or they misrepresent the way looks matter. Looks are a prerequisite, personality will not matter one bit if you don’t pass the looks threshold. Personality cannot make up for unsatisfactory looks (something women love to deny).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:40 PM
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Got any sort of statsof?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:19 PM
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Just because they watch it doesn’t mean they want it done to them irl. I watch formula 1. If Max Verstappen got sick and asked me to take his place when the cars were lined up I would decline because it isn’t something in comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:48 AM
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So because women do more chores than men in society we should assume that in a specific individual scenario that the man is a lazy fuck and that his GF is an overworked maid? I agree that statistics show women do more household chores. But these sorts of judgements are individual judgements. They shouldn’t be subject to stereotypes or group dynamics. If that’s your justification (and this isn’t personal because I’ve heard this reasoning before for this actually so you’re not alone), this opens u…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:12 AM
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Would help if your criticism wasn’t AI slop that isn’t even conducive to the actual post. For starters, point 5 doesn’t apply because the posts are 1:1 gender swaps. The only variable changed was gender, so the alternative factors have all been accounted for. And point 7 is a literal joke because of course admissions of bias are evidence of bias, if it wasn’t then the every legal system in the world would crumble instantly. It’s clear that neither you or ChatGPT read the post properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:51 AM
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Part of participating in PPD is making sure you abide by the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:58 PM
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Do we need to report you for answering questions in bad faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:31 PM
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They can’t paint women as the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:30 PM
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The education system is rigged towards girls. In my country we’ve seen girls outperform boys for decades and nobody batted an eye. But the second that they found an obscure scholarship test where girls did worse (only in maths), they rejigged the test to weight writing and English heavier to push boys back down. That’s privilege. When boys suffer, it’s their fault. When girls suffer, it’s the systems fault
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:12 AM
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That’s not illiteracy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:08 AM
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Explains a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:29 AM
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It’s rich to assume all women do all of this all of the time. Sex worker? Sex benefits women as well. Live in chef? How many women these days know how to properly cook meals at home? Dry cleaner? Nobody dry cleans clothes at home. Everyone I know has a washing machine which takes 3min to load, 3 min to unload and depending on how you dry it, it’s never more than 15min of work. And folding is usually done by kids because it’s easy. Governess is the same as teacher and in the households that I kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:20 AM
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Then why make GPT do your homework?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:13 AM
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Yes. Women always blame their actions on men. When women cheat they blame the man for not taking her out on date nights. When women say rude things they blame the husband for not policing her words. When women spend money on makeup, they blame men for beauty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:50 PM
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Would you say that shitting on men for actions that they would support a woman for is misandrist then? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/wOhNjMxdVX
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:44 PM
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Yes. Less than when it comes to finances. And given finances are a key aspect that women select based on, this is an example of a woman selecting men who are above her
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:29 PM
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Bait used to be believable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:17 PM
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Knew that when I read the username
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:17 PM
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I swear Windmill and Lilith have this sub in a chokehold posting bullshit post after bullshit posts with just enough time in between to skirt the obsessive posting rule (12hrs).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:32 PM
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I’ve had debates on feminist subs with women who genuinely can’t admit that looks matter even for the initial compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 08:23 PM
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Tbh I don’t believe this. Not you giving them a chance but their behaviour. I say this because the recounts from women who do talk about giving these guys a chance (it’s in the phrasing) basically can be summed up into one word: resentment. The women overwhelmingly talk about resenting the guys because they feel they deserve better. They talk about feeling ambivalent on a good day and good forbid a disagreement occurs, they can barely stand to stay in the same room as him. They become resentful …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 07:40 AM
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Who’s an abuse victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 07:36 AM
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Least obvious Windmill bait
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 07:25 AM
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Don’t bother. Disagreeing with them is abuse it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 07:22 AM
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I can’t address them, regardless of what I say you’ll accuse me of abuse so why bother? You seem to be on PPD more to complain about other users rather than actually debating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 07:19 AM
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“The bar is in hell when it comes to personality/behaviour for the men that I am attracted to (must be tall, fit and make more than me).” -translation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 12:00 AM
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Oh is that why: “A recent Pew Research study has found that 63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single, compared with 34% of women in the same age bracket.“ https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:58 PM
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Nice work watering down words like “abusive” and “aggressive.” No wonder people don’t take you lot seriously any more. Why are you upset that people are debating you on a sub called PurplePillDebate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 11:55 PM
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Don’t matter because women have been doing this long before videos went viral. Momsnet forums and the gossip at the school pick up were chock full of husband bashing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:16 PM
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But even before the mass virality of this stuff, Mons forums were chock full of husband bashing. Hell, real life moms groups are chock full of husband bashing. Ever done the school pick up and heard the gossip? My theory is that women love being the centre of a pity party. Having all the women around her coddle and comfort bet about how awful her husband odd and how she’s such an angel etc makes her feel good. It’s why in subs like AITA or relationships the top comment might be something like: “…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:09 PM
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You can’t bypass looks. Women need to be attracted to the guy first, only then will they even look at personality
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:50 PM
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All of your excuses reek of ways to make the woman who selected her partner out to be the victim. A is a fat skill issue and you should not be dating if you can’t determine that. B is off because feminists routinely claim that they can see through facades of nice guys. C: low self esteem and expectations is what so many men struggle with and how they end up in bad relationships and yet this sub tells men that it’s their fault and that they need to have better standards. D: ctrl c ctrl v from B
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:48 PM
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Someone in your friend group?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:44 PM
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a deliberate attempt to conceal unpleasant or incriminating facts about a person or organization in order to protect their reputation. Seems good to me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:19 PM
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No I’m personally pro choice. But the whole question was why are women so upset about abortion bans if not for the fact that they want to have sex (outside of really edge cases like grape) Personally I don’t want to ban it, but it annoys me that they shit on men who want to have sex while also wanting abortion because they can’t go without arc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:17 PM
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Two feminists have replied to this comment and both have contradicted each other. You say that feminists will address legitimate men’s issues while the other commenter says that it’s on our side to work on the issues and that women can only be allies. And you wonder why we don’t believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:00 PM
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If the patient has filled out a police report and has undergone a rape kit?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:58 PM
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White feather movement says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:15 AM
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Clearly haven’t seen the Korean ones that are all the rage
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:11 AM
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OP has been exposed for lying anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:06 AM
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That user used to be flaired as a man Proof: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/disi4WbLsp But tbh this comment today really casts doubt over that. I doubt they are a man. Why? Men don’t use the word “baby dick.” First of all, I’ve never heard a man use words like that. If they do insult dick size they use either small dick or micropenis etc. Why don’t they use “baby dick?” Because the pedo connotations are way too strong. Men consider that in their word choice. They know that the bar fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:20 AM
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Even then, you’re exaggerating how bad the man’s situation was to make the woman’s view justified. Micropenis was not mentioned anywhere. For all we know the man could just be average in penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:58 PM
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So a significant number of women are gold diggers? Ha watching blue pills drop red pills in their twisting is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:57 PM
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What does that result in though? A 50% reduction in dates (because of higher standards) will make fuck all difference to the average man who can get maybe 1 or 2 genuine dates a year
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:55 PM
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You’re just proving his point. “Baby dick” is gross af to use unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:54 PM
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No it was about grants and schemes that push forward under qualified candidates because they have favourable diversity qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 10:08 PM
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DEI is just liberals admitting that the candidates they are boosting weren’t as good on merit as the rest. Ironically that’s probably more offensive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:49 PM
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Bahaha don’t have to debate with people that disagree if I just tar and feather amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 09:44 AM
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See below lms
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:29 AM
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Use that logic for racial slurs please. Lmao the hamstering is insane. Incel is used as an insult because women view sexless men as jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:28 AM
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The big one you forgot is sexual activity. The first insult they reach for is “incel” and “virgins” but they swear up and down that they don’t care about body count
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:35 AM
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• Excessive Posting. If you are posting multiple threads a day, you are probably not participating in the conversations you posted, which defeats the purpose. After you have posted, please wait until the discussion has died down before posting again. If you look through Lilith’s comment history she is participating in multiple posts as an OP simultaneously. This suggests the discussion in the old posts haven’t died down and she isn’t letting them die down before starting new ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:19 AM
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Read the bloody link. It is a scientific source.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:40 AM
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Why is Lilith allowed to post repeatedly and compulsively even though that’s a clear breach of the PPD rules? In the space of 3 days she’s posted 6 separate posts. Or do the rules not apply to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:44 AM
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Why are we a creep for asking you to prove your claim. Abusing words like “creep” makes me question whether you are really a man because most of the time, people who try to insinuate creepiness in normal situations where they are wrong are teen girls. Teen girls are the ones who say things like “stop creeping on me sir” when the teacher calls them out for scrolling Instagram in class. You are pulling the same move
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:11 AM
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The repeated posting rule is only applicable to men it sends
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:18 AM
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Why? To get closer to the edge? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:14 AM
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Looks are a prerequisite Lilith. You can’t struggle because of a bad personality if you weren’t even considered because you were too ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:14 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/m7BA3bsDDa Here are some more 1:1 comparisons
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:07 PM
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Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:05 PM
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This is something I’ve always wanted to ask about. Why do (mainly women but sometimes also left wing men) see therapists as this sort of god figure? It seems that in left leaning spaces, therapy is seen as this sort of holy thing that takes the place of religion in a sense. Actually it seems to do so quite often because I see “go to therapy” about as often in those spaces as I do “go to church” In Christian spaces. Why is it so surprising to learn that therapists are people at the end of the day…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:03 PM
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This would be true if men were the selectors. Which they are not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:58 PM
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I agree, but feminists don’t do anything about this aspect of patriarchy that benefits them though. They weaponise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:56 PM
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Which is why I wholeheartedly believe the women are wonderful effect. AITA (a sub chock full of left wing young women) would rather make up bullshit to blame the man than admit that maybe the wife was out of line
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:25 PM
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Got an example with at least a few hundred upvotes or some level of mass agreement?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:03 AM
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Victimhood itself is female coded. https://www.queermajority.com/essays-all/man-up-and-take-it-do-we-under-detect-mens-suffering “This pattern supports the notion of a cognitive link between womanhood and victimhood; when influenced by a framework implying harm, using words such as victim or perpetrator, this link becomes even tighter.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:59 AM
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Self reported studies are meaningless when it comes to this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:55 AM
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It’s “help culture” only if it’s a woman that did the wrong thing. https://np.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/143qc6j/aita_for_not_lying_to_my_dil_about_my_post_partum/?rdt=63368 This one has a wife calling her MIL a drug addict because when her MIL gave birth to the wife’s husband, she looked really skinny. The wife was clearly in the wrong. Top comments with 18K upvotes is spinning a narrative that it’s actually the husband who is making comments about the wife’s body and how it’s am his f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:55 AM
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I love how as soon as you realised you can’t pin men down on those points you diverted to play whataboutism. Except what aboutism is bad if men do it against women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:32 AM
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Lived experience only matters if it benefits women huh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:30 AM
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Wanting to be a kept woman in this day and age is very hard though. You child argue that with the purchasing power and effective requirement of a dual income to ensure a reasonable standard of living, being a kept woman is now very much a luxury lifestyle that is out of reach for many
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 05:56 AM
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Are you okay? Normally your replies aren’t this disjointed and illogical
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:12 PM
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No this has nothing to do sex. Is about policing who gets to be the victim. For example, a woman comes forward and talks about how sexist her male coworkers are in her web development job. She talks about how all her coworkers call her bad at programming and infantilise her. Feminists would pipe up and tell everyone to shut up and take this woman’s lived experience seriously and to not question her experience of sexism. But in the example I posted, if a man comes forward and talks about his live…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 09:04 PM
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Yeah feminists love to preach lived experience day in day out use that as a way to browbeat men into not questioning their views but as soon as men start coming forward with their lived experience, feminists start invalidating us. Case in point: https://np.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/1i7tyc2/do_i_just_have_a_completely_different_perspective/ Apparently men’s lived experience when it comes to being accused of being a predator when taking care of kids is all bullshit and those men are actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 08:20 PM
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No they absolutely have and I have had many a debate with feminists women f who deny looks are a factor. Of course they stop replying when I reply with studies disproving their virtue signalling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:45 AM
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Lmao typical blue pills trying very hard to obfuscate accountability. On Reddit, it’s women who use false flag attacks. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1h0yg9w/feminists_and_tbp_are_addicted_to_victimhood/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:25 AM
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Men do not try to obfuscate their attraction and hide behind virtue signaling. Most men admit that looks are important to them while women obfuscate this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:21 AM
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Sniff misogyny expect for when a chad displays misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:19 AM
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Thanks for proving OP’s point
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:18 AM
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When did I say you were my boy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:07 AM
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Yeah but of the teen pregnancies and promiscuous women in society, how many were because of a head injury, and how many were because of two idiots?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:52 PM
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Apart from grape everything here is an excuse designed to reduce accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 08:30 PM
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Average looks and amazing personality is not going to get an LTR easily. An LTR requires attraction as a prerequisite and average men are not that attractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:24 AM
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They are right. Personality matters, but only if you can pass the looks threshold. Without that, a heart of gold and a good personality means dick all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:47 AM
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Yet more points to support the claim that you are a woman in a man looking costume. Perpetual victimhood (your comment about women are bad even though nothing of the sort was said) is another women’s way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:01 AM
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Women’s lived experience is worth more. When a woman uses her lived experience to talk about how the men in her male dominated workplace are sexist gross pigs then we sold take her serious and not diminish women’s lived experience. But if a man talks about a gf dumping him because she got the ick after asking him to be emotionally vulnerable then we should ignore that because he’s somehow at fault
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:49 PM
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It’s the 5 stages of grief for blue pills. Denial: “we aren’t biased against men! We strive for equality, how could we be biased.” Anger: “shut up incel, you don’t get to make generalisations about how you think women are biased.” Bargaining: “well maybe we are biased but that’s because men themselves actually are bad (insert statistic) so no wonder we are biased to think they are bad.” Depression: “well then what’s the point of proving that we have a bias? Doesn’t matter.” Acceptance: “okay we …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:00 PM
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No but I’m saying that it is detracting from his post to try and bring up reasons like this when OP’s assertions are supported by external sources
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:52 PM
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No don’t gaslight. It’s not about personal perspectives. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1fvts6h/a_case_study_into_aitas_gender_bias_favouring/?rdt=53509 These gender swaps show that blame is assigned based on gender, not the situation and certainly not whether you’ve been on the wrong side before (because all these posts are the first post made when AITA judge them). Men get told off if they don’t communicate, but women get cheered if they don’t communicate (gender swap 1). Oh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:05 PM
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Distracting from the point by making it about behaviour is teen girl behaviour. It’s functionally no different to a teen girl scrolling Instagram in class and getting caught by her male teacher. “Eww sir how did you know I was on my phone, you shouldn’t be staring at girls like that. I feel creeped on sir.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 11:28 AM
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You clearly don’t get men. Your responses are more feminine than anything (focusing on “creepy” rather than the fact that you posted that publicly) and it’s probably stemmed from your upbringing. You using words like “sportsball” tells me that you don’t really get the guy group competition. We compete fairly hard but at the end of the day, we have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:13 AM
2

Yeah same. Haircuts can be done by a Martian as long as there is no small talk and just talk about what I want done
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:04 AM
22

OP took a page out of the teen girl handbook: when you lose an argument, just call the other person a creep/loser/incel for putting effort into winning the argument rather than address their point. No wonder they don’t get bro spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:03 AM
3

So we just defending virtue signaling now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:09 PM
6

Lmao straight from the horses mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:43 PM
2

Don’t bother, they know that but they can’t admit the hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:41 PM
0

This is avoiding the point though. If she’s posting thirst traps then is she dressing skimpily for attention or because “it’s for herself?”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:29 PM
1

Shit excuse. Voting takes 1sec. Try again Sharp
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:06 AM
1

If what you were saying is true then comments that are man hating would have been downvoted to hell by the millions of men you say are rage lurking. They aren’t. Because the vast majority of subscribed users there are women or man hating men. But you knew that already
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:53 AM
1

Because you attack people
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:42 PM
1

Why are you so desperate to make yourself out to be the underrepresented victim? Shouldn’t you be happy that there are places on Reddit where women are the majority and are represented? Oh wait you just want to play the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:40 PM
2

https://np.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/s/aJzctyudyW
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:22 PM
2

Reddit admins. Not mods but the actual employees of reddit. And just crying bias as soon as someone disagrees with you is the worst debate tactic. Find some evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:12 PM
6

Well one could argue that the fact that admins have admitted that they will not remove hate against men because that doesn’t count as “hate” would mean that “as a whole” it’s not but okay. Also wtf is that last sentence meant to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:53 AM
8

The women are wonderful effect and infantilisation is not rare, it is widespread throughout society
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:50 AM
7

That one of the biggest subreddits on Reddit (and probably the most well known) is biased towards women and’s against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:49 AM
4

Average Lilith thread
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:49 AM
1

One is way more socially acceptable than the other. Feminism features in mainstream society on billboards, t shirts, ads and in the workplace and classroom. The red pill is not at all present in the same manner and is an underground culture. If you don’t believe me, consider a school. A boy who says he is red pilled will likely be referred to the school counsellor because something is wrong with him. A girl who says she is a feminist will be supported
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:43 AM
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No. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/0zXKVjswGp Reddit as a whole is not “misogynistic.” Male dominated subs can be. Though subs with a majority women are not much better (but are usually ignored because when women do it it’s fine).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:40 AM
7

Yes. He should have left before cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:28 AM
2

Womanhood is victimhood so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:21 AM
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Men aren’t selectors, women are
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:18 AM
1

Selective reading is very old and a very common tactic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:57 PM
0

I read 7 paragraphs and 6 were shitting on men. Also “not entirely baseless stereotype” just seems like an excuse for you to then support the stereotype as you go onto do. In a post about how women escape all criticism of bad sex, you’ve managed to prove OP right
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 09:01 PM
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Thanks for proving the OP correct. You write 7 paragraphs and in 6 of those just blamed the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:25 PM
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Because women are wonderful effect. Their entire main comment was 6/7 paragraphs trashing men for being bad in bed and then they are trying to gaslight us into thinking that they didn’t say that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:24 PM
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6/7 of your paragraphs are how men suck at sex because of: no empathy, toxic masculinity, self centred, unrealistic standards, no communication. Why are you blatantly lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:23 PM
1

I’d like to see you comment this next time TwoX starts a “let’s shit on men thread” regarding the orgasm gap or how bad all their previous partners were
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:20 PM
1

This is not related to the post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:19 PM
5

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/oX4zSyETjl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 10:42 AM
3

No we can’t talk to the boys like that we got reported for “misogyny.” Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 10:28 AM
3

And yet feminists complain about the orgasm gap huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 09:58 AM
8

Feminists publicly shamed men about the orgasm gap didn’t they?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 09:52 AM
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Lmao no they just trash men for sucking at sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 09:50 AM
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How did this support your claim that this is a strawman? You just admitted that there are societal factors that suppress the criticism of women and instead divert it to shit on men. Thanks for confirming the women are wonderful effect
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 09:49 AM
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No they grasp the concept but they just deflect as usual because you can’t blame women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 09:44 AM
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Scroll up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:13 PM
6

Thanks for not gaslighting us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:31 AM
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No that checks out and I agree. Being hot is the prerequisite. It’s like getting into a college engineering degree. Prerequisite is physics and maths (hot looks) but you won’t get a degree (remain in a long term relationship) if you don’t pass your classes (have a good personality, income etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:25 AM
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How else can we blame men? It’s become a sport as to how much you can deflect blame onto men and away from women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:22 AM
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Virtue signaling and maintaining the women are wonderful effect. Maintaining the lie that women care more about personality than about looks means women can hold the moral high ground
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:21 AM
-10

Yes and that would be an analogy of waiting until a car manufacturer releasing a car that costs $30,000 and does 35mpg.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:19 AM
-5

Women can’t say “ur height will mean you’re gonna be forever alone” or they risk giving up the moral high ground of being virtuous. That would shatter the women are wonderful effect and be like giving up your sword in a duel
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:13 AM
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No they are. If I said “I’m going to take the bus 3hrs to work until a company comes out with a car that does 700km/hr, gets 200mpg, has 2000L of boot space, has 18seats and costs $2 to buy” people are going to think I’m delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 11:11 AM
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Less about validation and more about not invalidating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 12:01 AM
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Getting drunk and doing drugs I bet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 08:23 PM
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Nice dodging because whether or not you specifically take it personally or not means fucking dick all. Is it offensive to say? Could you say that in a restaurant?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:50 AM
2

A whole lot more different than it is now given men mostly don’t hold other men accountable and women definitely don’t hold other women accountable. Utopia maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 08:27 AM
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Nice dodging. Society is made up of men and women but I should just take it up with men right and ignore how women contribute to the problem? Feminists hate holding women accountable. The excuses they make for women who do bad things are hilarious (as evidenced by the squirming when it was pointed out that 54% of white womens voted for trump).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:34 AM
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And what was that intention? The intention that they still say was “well intended.” So they aren’t actually sorry for making young boys apologise for the actions of their gender, they’re just sorry they got called out. Also no immigrants are not a different coloured horse. Just like how you can produce a statistic that shows men are dangerous, I can produce one that shows immigrants are dangerous. But we aren’t allowed to make generalisations about immigrants are we? That’s racism. So why do you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:36 AM
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Where I’m from they are getting male students to stand up during assembly and apologise to female students for the actions of men as a gender: “Brauer College principal Jane Boyle apologised after conceding a discussion about sexual assault and harassment at a school assembly took an inappropriate turn. Ms Boyle said in a statement that during a discussion about sexual assault, harassment, and respect for women and girls, boys were asked to stand “as a symbolic gesture of apology for the behavio…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:40 PM
1

Well many of us have so…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:34 PM
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Only if it’s a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:23 PM
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This seems a bit disingenuous. If 50 shades didn’t exist I’m sure some other bs “romance” series with an alpha alpha man and some dopey woman who did nothing special other than exist would have become popular. It feels like you’re saying this only because the popularity of 50 shades and other similar books exposed women’s virtue signalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:55 PM
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Or it was probably a mental disorder, or she was tired, or she was abused, or she had trauma, or she was feeling sad etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:59 PM
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Honestly is it any wonder that men who do choose university, tend overwhelmingly choose IT, CS, engineering or finance? These degrees tend to be the course pathways that aren’t impossible to get into, have a good future, make enough money to outearn women who they are going to try and get with, and have a decent work life balance. You don’t see all that many men going into fields like arts, social work, education etc because what hope is there of making enough money to attract women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 09:45 PM
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Women tend to be very insulated to the lives of many men huh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:42 PM
2

Yeah well no shit it’s not the same as depression
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 08:42 PM
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Because pointing out that bad people can get relationships makes the selectors look bad (women). It’s like pointing out that there is 100 people who got past TSA holding a handgun down their pants. It might be true but it makes the TSA look bad so they’ll just double down harder on you giving up your gun
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:44 AM
2

That second link is gold. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:36 AM
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https://www.queermajority.com/essays-all/man-up-and-take-it-do-we-under-detect-mens-suffering “We conducted six studies among over 3,000 individuals from four countries. In one, participants were asked to read a vignette depicting harm in the workplace. For this experiment, we specified the gender of the inflictor but left the recipient’s gender ambiguous. Participants were then asked to “recall” the gender of the harmed individual. Supporting our predictions, we found they were overwhelmingly m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:18 AM
3

WAW in full view
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:55 AM
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Then admit that the vast majority of men do not look like attractive options for the average woman and that the red pill 80/20 rule (not that it means it’s a bang on 80.000%) isn’t a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:29 AM
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Lmao conservative “that will turn them gay” logic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:14 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/OYJSADGITz For women OLD is a buffet. Women with agency have no issue finding good quality men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:59 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/OYJSADGITz No that desert sea analogy is bullshit. Women have all the options in the world. They just treat it like a buffet and go for the lobster.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:58 PM
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Well I can’t exactly conduct a peer reviewed perfect 1:1 run can I? Firstly because it’s hard to get the exact number of people who participated in the first post to then participate in the swap. Secondly because you can’t tell them that it is a gender swap experiment otherwise their verdict will be meaningless (they’ll try and vote in a way that makes them look unbiased). Thirdly because the subreddit mods and Reddit itself frowns upon this (in particular if women look bad). You can see that ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:40 PM
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It’s hardly a cherry pick when these verdicts get thousands of upvotes and are the top comment on the post (which becomes the sub voted verdict).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:47 AM
3

Because to stand out you need to put yourself at the front?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:18 PM
0

I feel a lot of incels would support 10/10 of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:16 PM
3

Lmao fabricated reasons is definitely projection on their part because feminists are the ones known for fabricating reasons of victimhood to keep the victim spotlight on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 09:39 AM
1

On a first date though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 08:17 AM
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Translation: I would have normally asked for scientific evidence but I can’t use my trump card now so I’ll use cheap ad hominem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:58 AM
2

So you’re mad that someone is citing scientific evidence to back their claims? Whats the bet that if OP just made his titular claim you’d whine about how he didn’t provide scientific evidence? Can’t win against women, they’ll just move the goalposts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:57 AM
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Expected very little from your reply and somehow you managed to still disappoint me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:55 AM
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According to those feminists they are “gender neutral” and they would never discriminate against men. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:42 AM
1

Oh fair enough. Consider my point moot then. FWIW I do agree with you in that promiscuous behaviour is bad (in all genders)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 05:37 AM
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No they don’t. Plenty of incels know that their views are not conducive to irl conversations and thus are very good at code switching. With close male friends or online anonymity they may act a certain way and in public or in places where they need to be PC (on dates, at work, with mixed friends) they will act in a different way. What I say is true because otherwise why would there be so much female outrage when they “learn” that their bf had “toxic attitudes” and that he “masked his red flags.”…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:51 AM
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So bad men can hide the bad personality from women for years but women can simultaneously detect bad personalities on niceguys and incels? It doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:46 PM
2

Don’t feminists keep saying that promiscuoity isn’t bad and that we shouldn’t shame promiscuous women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 08:51 PM
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And a good chunk of what you think “personality” is is just looks anyway. It’s called the halo effect. It’s bit hard for anyone (man or woman) to put on an act for the first date and then the first few months. If it was too hard then why would so many woman complain about their abusive exes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 08:49 PM
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Then why am I replying to a woman who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 08:47 PM
6

Ahh, here comes the blue pillers virtue signaling and gaslighting about physical attractiveness. Physical attractiveness is the most important thing because it is the prerequisite for the relationship (no amount of personality can compensate for bad looks) and because it supplements bad personality by way of the halo effect
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 08:19 PM
6

Is this the much renowned “women can sniff bad personalities” that I’ve heard so much about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 08:15 PM
2

Collective generalising is okay if it shits on men but not of it shits on the basis of race huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:59 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/s/99rHToc1Ni 900 upvotes but it’s grapes for this one. https://np.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1grek93/comment/lx7bda2/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Another one Oh and the most famous one is the #YesAllWomen that was the feminist response to #NotAllMen. https://slate.com/technology/2014/05/not-all-men-how-discussing-womens-issues-gets-derailed.html “UNFAIR! NOT ALL MEN!” Imagine a bowl o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:42 AM
3

I see feminists using Nazi rhetoric out in the open. Remember the whole poisoned mushroom story the Nazis used? Well feminists have replaced mushrooms with M&Ms and switched Jews to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:01 PM
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They only claim it includes men to avoid accusations of sexism
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:58 PM
8

It’s always women who use the “what are you, gay?”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:35 PM
8

Can’t call out women because they just play the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:34 PM
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Lmao last week you decided to abuse words like “creepy,” this well it’s accusing the word “rapey?” It’s not “rapey” to see different standards and rules that women have for some guys and then come to the conclusion that she’s just not that into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 07:49 PM
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So you don’t like slut shaming but you virgin shame?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 02:26 AM
8

If you’re going to shame men based on how much sex they are having (or lack thereof), why can’t men slut shame women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:54 PM
4

Lmao you said that incel isn’t a mental condition no?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:52 PM
3

It’s a Lilith post
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 11:52 PM
3

Nooo you can’t blame white women, they were manipulated into voting for Trump! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:18 PM
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It’s Schrödinger’s incelism. It’s a mental condition when they want to deflect accusations of virgin shaming but not a mental condition when convenient
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:45 PM
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Blue pillers: “Incel doesn’t mean unable to get laid, it means that you have a misogynistic, patriarchal mindset and attitude where you oppress women and say things that are sexist and horrible. It’s a mentality where you hate women. See, we aren’t shaming men who are virgins, we’re shaming men who have women hating mentalities!” Also blue pillers: “Incel isn’t a mental condition.” Then why do blue pillers always tell “incels” to “go get therapy you sick person?”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:41 PM
10

Lived experience only matters if it benefits women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:38 PM
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It’s windmill, that’s their MO
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 09:07 PM
1

We made very little progress in a lot of things, should we just give up then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:24 PM
5

Bro what is this kafkatrap?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:02 AM
2

Where was aggressive mentioned? Nice strawman Sharp
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:01 AM
1

Ah yes, when the evidence doesn’t say what you want it to say just lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:00 AM
2

Hello Human Resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:57 AM
1

I don’t but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:35 PM
-4

Only feminists could manage to turn being given a discount on the basis of gender into victimhood. Do you get tired of being a victim all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:23 PM
1

Don’t deflect please, answer the question. How do the scenarios I posted differ based on biology? Does having a penis make me cheap if I refuse to buy chips but justified if I have a cooch?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:12 PM
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What did biology have to do with whether you are an AH for stopping cooking for your partner when they stop doing chores because they are stressed out at their work (healthcare)? What does biology have to do with being cheap over 5 bucks of chips? Because those are all real gender swaps that somehow always end up with a male AH
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:25 PM
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Yeah I remember yesterday I posted about how looks were a prerequisite for women and obviously that went against the whole “women care more about personality” meme the women like so that got the treatment you described
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:23 PM
7

Just take the L please
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:18 PM
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What’s not surprising about my post is that a lot of the regular blue pill women didn’t bother to comment on that post. The ones that did just tried to deflect. I don’t see them in this post either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:28 AM
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Not a legend, just a guy who is tired of being gaslit lmao. Thanks for the kind words, means a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:20 AM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:32 AM
6

https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/2u0GZRfIDl Confirmed already
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:29 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/2u0GZRfIDl I’ve done experiments on it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:26 AM
1

Well this just seems to admit that women only find men who have options (read: men who are in relationships) attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:46 AM
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Find me the other studies that show personality can compensate for looks. Because this study shows that no amount of personality is able to overcome looks that do not meet the threshold. And that didn’t mean “extremely unappealing,” there are plenty of plain below average men who can’t meet the threshold, they aren’t Voldemort. Also this study shows that looks and personality ratings are correlated. In other words, people who look good tend to be rated as having good personalities (halo effect).…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:57 PM
3

Check my other reply to your comment, research is there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:21 PM
9

Was waiting for this load of blue pill garbage. “We tested four hypotheses investigating whether a minimum level of physical attractiveness was a necessity to both women and their mothers and whether physical attractiveness was a more important determinant of dating desirability than trait profiles. These hypotheses were supported. Women and their mothers were strongly influenced by the physical attractiveness of the target men and preferred the attractive and moderately attractive targets. Men …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:16 PM
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That idea is propagated by everyone, not just red pill. If you as a man can’t attract women, you have very low value in society. At family gatherings grandma will ask the age old “so Mark, have you going a girlfriend?” And then when you say no, someone (usually Uncle Tom) will pipe in and make a comment about how everyone at the table has a partner except you (even cousin Timmy who is in 3rd grade). Your colleagues at work will do the same thing. There may come a point where conversations twist …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:06 PM
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Women might care about other things than looks but without a prerequisite looks being fulfilled, they won’t care about how good is personality is or how generous he is etc. The research supports this so what you are saying is essentially like telling a student who got 500/1600 on their SATs that they should believe in their dream of being a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:00 PM
7

How is your view not just red pill’s 80/20 but in flowery language? “Most women don’t want most men.” “Most never qualify.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:27 AM
1

Go and say that quote in a feminist subreddit then. Go on. Most women don’t want most men. This is what the OKcupid data said that the feminists went nuts when that was posted
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:18 AM
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Ha I knew you’d fall for that bait I laid about how cat ladies get ridiculed. You’ve proved my point. Anything that has heavy societal pressures can hardly be considered “optional.” And you’ve proved that being single has societal pressures against it By your logic it’s “optional” for women to walk around topless (in places where they are legally allowed to). But of course there is heavy societal pressure to have a top on which means a woman wearing a top is hardly choosing to wear a top: she’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:15 AM
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No it’s entitlement to whine about how you get so many people falling at your feet as “suitors” but to still whine about how you don’t think any of them are Chad while there are people out there with no suitors at all. The average woman has way more romantic opportunities than the average man and yet you still keep circlejerking the age old “oh poor me, all my options suck.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:11 AM
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Yeah because single men aren’t ridiculed by women and broader society right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:08 AM
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No I’m comparing the entitlement of women and refusal to see that there are people who have it worse than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 01:07 AM
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This just makes women look entitled. It’s like a kid from a middle class family in India complaining about how is belly is full but it’s only full with cheap rice and lentils. “I don’t want a full meal of rice and lentils, I want lobster and caviar like Elon Musk!” Meanwhile a kid in a dirt poor North Korean village is sad that all he can get for a meal is a spoonful of cereal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 09:22 PM
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You brought up sunburn on black peoples to play semantics and now you’re upset? Bear pilled = hypocrisy I see
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:50 PM
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Nice lie. It’s 5/100,000 in America. https://crim.sas.upenn.edu/fact-check/what-are-chances-becoming-homicide-victim I’m Australian so it’s even less for me: around 0.8 per 100,000. In other words, it doesn’t really matter whether a man or woman is going to kill me because I’m probably not going to get killed anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 10:12 PM
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What’s the chance of me being murdered?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:30 PM
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And what’s the chance of a man actually being murdered then? Just like how the rate of infanticide (which mainly women commit) is statistically insignificant, the rate of murder (which men mainly commit) is statistically insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:25 PM
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I’m talking about infanticide not abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:13 PM
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If you want to play that game then women murder babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 07:23 PM
4

Bridgerton was hyped to high hell by everyone from older women to schoolgirls.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:42 PM
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“Romance” is just a euphemism. It’s not all going to be full blown smut but it’s still jerk off material for women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:28 PM
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The hot/popular ones yeah but there are a lot of young women who aren’t in that queen bee culture who can be very naive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:59 PM
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Lmao the material that is written on AO3 and fanfiction is mainly jerk off material. Who are the authors for those? Oh wait no don’t answer that might make women look bad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:57 PM
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Their virtue signalling tactics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:56 PM
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Their virtue signalling tactics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:56 PM
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Respect for not gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:07 AM
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50% of society is women. Get real
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:33 AM
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Don’t bother. Being obtuse and ignoring the argument is their MO
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:52 AM
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Damn fix the gender gap then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:59 PM
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Here, someone else in this comment section summed it up: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/0Cd1vbvaSt u/Slutty_Mudd
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:44 PM
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It’s yet another example of feminists blaming men for the actions of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:39 PM
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This fallacy assumes that men on Reddit open irl conversations in the same way they open PPD post titles. Hardly anyone is that stupid. Most men know to not reveal these sorts of views so women don’t actually have a basis for their “detection of misogyny.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:36 AM
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Yeah except for women on Reddit who moral grandstand and virtue signal constantly and act like they are mother Theresa
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:25 AM
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Nobody is using that as a pick up line.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:29 PM
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No there were plenty of women telling him that he should have physically intervened
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:18 AM
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That’s smart. Going and shoving the drunk guy and expecting the bf to come in and fight for you isn’t smart but it’s what the gf did
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:40 PM
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Yeah but men don’t say “omg why didn’t you hold me back? It’s your fault that I went and antagonised a drunk guy because you didn’t treat me like a toddler running into traffic.” That’s what the women are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:38 PM
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Noo not like that /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:09 PM
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Calling the bartenders (emphasis on plural) or 911 is good and I think the man should have done that. Not good on his part. What I can’t condone is the gf going to the drunk guy and trying to shove him around. Let him get in the taxi. You could keep the girl out the taxi and take her back into the pub and call a different uber or just wait for him to exit the uber. The problem is this gf tried to get physical with a drunk guy and then pawn it off on her man and then got the ick when he didn’t cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:03 PM
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What about the easy mode of being a woman, starting a fight with a man and then expecting your bf or husband to come in and fight for you like a Pokémon? Noticed you weren’t in those discussions earlier today…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:20 PM
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Lack of accountability confirmed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:15 PM
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As long as woman good and man bad nothing matters
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:13 PM
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They watch too many girl power movies where the women can beat the men easily in a fight
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:51 PM
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Never seen or been involved in a bar fight eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:45 PM
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Women don’t get it. Testosterone is a hell of a drug
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:15 AM
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No need to confront him. I don’t agree with his inaction but expecting him to back up his idiot gf who tried physically going at the drunk guy is stupid. He probably should have gotten his head out of his phone and just stayed with the girl and bright her into the pub with the bartenders.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:14 AM
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Drunks don’t think rationally. It seems neither do you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:34 AM
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Why would I put her at risk when she was presumably safe before? It’s different here because this dumb gf was already in danger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 08:33 AM
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Lmao walks into danger and then gets mad she isn’t getting bailed out. You sound like a child walking into traffic and then saying “why didn’t daddy stop me?”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 07:11 AM
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Horrible reading comprehension. The reason for not standing up is because there is a risk of death. Not everything is about women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:47 AM
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Source: trust me bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:45 AM
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Nowhere did I talk about blame. Stop inventing. I talked about the mortal peril this puts the man in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:39 AM
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Find me people who are holding her accountable then. Not on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:15 AM
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Million times better for you but for the man that gets killed because you had to go be a saviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:14 AM
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It’s mental gymnastics to not look sexist. For women, PR is everything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:13 AM
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Women will act independent and then expect their man to b be like a father preventing his kid from running into traffic. Shows how low they think of women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:12 AM
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Bahhahaha the gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:54 AM
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Typical lack of accountability. You said “nobody is saying that she is not responsible for her actions.” Then when pointed out that there are in fact people out there (feminists) who are saying that she is not responsible for her actions: you inevitably move the goalposts. You were wrong, take accountability. Edit: I filter by the news tab on Google and every article about her is either a transcript of the video or a feminist writing about how she’s the victim, the men suck and how women will al…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:08 AM
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Yes. Better word. Sorry about that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:19 AM
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I don’t mean it like that. I mean in it the context that she has broken down in tears when asked to reflect on the sex she had with that many guys and talked about how robotic it was and how it was just in and out. She clearly feels upset about what she did. In that context I’m saying it’s “wrong”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:08 AM
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No I think you’re just trying to get a quote of me saying that her 100 guy thing was “wrong” in a prude sense. You’re not subtle. Maybe the word wrong is not the best choice but given her breakdown and how emotional she got, I’m willing to bet that she feels her initial decision was “wrong” or at the very least not ideal now that she has experienced the consequences. Also it’s funny how when women screw up we always look deeper for excuses or deflections. Man cheats? He’s a pig who thinks with h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:11 AM
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I already answered what was wrong about it (the fact that she seemed visibly upset at her actions). It’s her fault that she feels the way she feels as a result of her actions. It’s the women’s fault that they aren’t holding her accountable and are instead trying to treat her like a sock puppet who didn’t have agency
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:18 PM
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Is this the welcome to my onlypans? It’s just a cooking channel dear god
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 08:37 PM
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Ha read this thread a bit more. There are a few trying to say she was exploited and that she’s not at fault
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:44 PM
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Wrong in that she bring down in tears when asked to reflect on her actions. And the accountability I want is for women to stop treating her like the victim when she went out to do all this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:41 PM
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Something something common denominator
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:14 AM
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Don’t bother. Perpetual victimhood is a sport for these people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:13 AM
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I specifically replied to your hypothetical about 100 women. Saying that most men would reject it has no bearing on whether they can actually have that happen to them since it’s a hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:49 AM
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Here’s the lack of accountability we always talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:41 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/fourthwavewomen/s/0YrNkiQuKA Yeah well according to feminists here she is being coerced by her parents, the doco crew, everyone around her, the men she asked to come have sex with her. Hell they are trying to say that the money coerced her. An inanimate object is apparently capable of coercing women. Goes to show the lengths women will go to to infantilise other women to defend them from criticism. Edit: here’s another feminist blaming the men https://www.spectator.co.uk/…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:37 AM
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Maybe not regret but she broke down in tears: “It’s not for the weak girls, if I am honest, it was hard,” she told Pieters, immediately after she’d finished. “I don’t know if I would recommend it... it’s kind of like being a prostitute in a sense, in the sense of it’s just a different feeling. I don’t know how to explain it. “Sometimes I feel so robotic. Just one in, one out, it feels intense.” When Pieters asked, “more intense than you thought it might?”, Phillips became visibly emotional and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:32 AM
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Amazing analogy and no surprise it hasn’t been addressed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:25 AM
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God I love this cop out whenever feminists do shitty things. Can’t hold them accountable because it’s an “idea.” Maybe media reporting on this stuff would help hold them accountable oh wait no that’s misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:24 AM
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You wanna talk about average women? The average woman can’t take accountability. Evidence? You. You first asked for one single woman who was calling Lily a victim. I showed you an entire thread. Instead of admitting that you were wrong and that there were some women there calling her a victim, you chose to move the goalposts onto “average women.” Congrats on not taking accountability and becoming evidence for my claim
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:17 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/fourthwavewomen/s/xB0YAwg4w1 An entire thread calling her the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:03 AM
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There’s one in this very thread mate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:00 AM
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Women are always the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:56 AM
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No we aren’t man whores sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:55 AM
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That’s not the issue, the issue is infantilising women who do the wrong thing. She now regrets her actions and instead of holding her accountable everyone is trying to blame the men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 02:52 AM
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Until women start seeing single men like that (and not as failures or using them as the butt of jokes or using them as an insult) this won’t change
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:14 AM
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The left said that word for word. They said that because of male privilege we cannot be victims ever
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 10:14 AM
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That saying is to call out the bs women spout publicly like “personality matters more than looks.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:06 AM
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Because women are wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:04 AM
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A lot of things ranging from small wrote to large mistakes or intentional actions. When a man cheats he is an abusive pig who thinks with his dick but if a woman cheats it’s not her fault because her man didn’t sexually satisfy her or he probably treated her like a maid or he didn’t take her out on date nights etc. When a husband hits his wife he’s an abuser but if a wife hits her husband it’s because she’s grown up in a patriarchy and been socialised to be violent and is actually his fault for …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:46 PM
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Only if you’re a senior with 10- 15 years of experience. For grads it’s a wasteland
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:24 PM
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You can’t go one post without martyring yourself to turn women into the victim can you? Always women who are suffering. Can’t let men have one post without butting in to try and keep the victim spotlight on yourself and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:28 PM
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The lengths you go to to ignore the muscles part of that comment is hilarious. Are you allergic to considering that women value good looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:32 PM
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College is good if you go into an in demand lucrative field. Examples include medicine, engineering (not software), physics, chemistry, nursing, teaching (not the most lucrative but very good for demand), environmental science
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:21 PM
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Confidence is code for good looks? Why do you need to hamster that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:15 PM
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This arrogance is what will be your downfall. Get off your moral high horse
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:04 PM
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You: “men are assholes for no reason” Also you: “yeah well let me say 1+1=3 just so that I can join in on the “shit on men game.” Disregarding maths to choose the bear surely won’t piss men off.” Us: “that’s stupid and your logic for choosing bear is mathematically wrong.” You: “OMG MEN ARE SUCH ASSHOLES”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:41 AM
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Don’t prove the stereotype correct then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 09:38 PM
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Feminists love KKK and Nazi rhetoric. I’ve seen them use the same poisoned mushroom/candy analogies that were used on Jews and immigrants to advocate for shitting on men. Then when called out they deflect
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:43 PM
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“Megan McArdle of The Washington Post argued that those statistics were a confusion of the inverse fallacy that “reinforce harmful stereotypes” of women being “irrational, neurotic and bad at math”.[15]” From the Man or Bear Wikipedia article. Comedy writes itself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:27 PM
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Lmao the response section in this says That https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Man_or_bear
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:42 AM
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Economic left and social left are really different these days. A lot of men support the economic left
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 11:21 AM
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That’s not limited to manosphere content. A large amount of KFC’s global sales now come from China. The west has expanded markets into the entire world. Ofc they will get support
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:56 AM
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Everyone with over 1IQ knows this but acknowledging this puts onus on feminists and the left and puts the blame on them for their decades of derision
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:52 AM
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This is exactly what I wanted to write but couldn’t be arsed. Well done. Will wait for the replies that inevitably try to deflect or obfuscate
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:41 AM
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Yeah well if I added in “black” or “Muslim” in front of “man” and asked the same question and groups advocated for choosing the bear they’d be called racists. Same deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:40 AM
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Every woman doesn’t need to choose bear, the fact that there were progressive and feminist groups supporting bear is enough. You asked and I delivered and as usual, out come the excuses
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:37 AM
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Man vs bear
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 10:20 AM
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Because women can never actively do harm?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:03 AM
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Because this actually discourages paternity fraud?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:11 PM
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Online MRAs have no power to make paternity tests mandatory. We’re comparing reactions from feminists who think precautions against men are good but women are bad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:02 PM
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Yeah I agree with what you said. Good write up. Curious to know your thoughts on go bags as well if possible. A bit like go funds but just a secret bag with some clothes, medication, cash, documentation etc in case disband gets abusive. Would that be similar or is it different because it’s not just a normal personal savings account?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:00 PM
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If you don’t like the fact that the OP’s comparison was between a stranger (first date) and a spouse (paternity fraud) then look at that link for one where both comparisons are regarding a long term spouse
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:34 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1fllaib/paternity_test_vs_escape_fund/ Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:55 PM
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Thoughts on go bags/go funds then? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1fllaib/paternity_test_vs_escape_fund/ That’s an equal comparison RE spouse vs spouse and not stranger vs spouse
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:52 PM
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Don’t like stranger aspect and want one where it’s a spouse? Here: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1fllaib/paternity_test_vs_escape_fund/ Weasel out of that one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:50 PM
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Nah this is a better example: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1fllaib/paternity_test_vs_escape_fund/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:49 PM
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Then what about escape bags? That’s something feminists advocate for even in established relationships. And there are men who take insult to women assuming that they may become abusive Your quote applies there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:47 PM
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Then what about escape bags? That’s something feminists advocate for even in established relationships. And there are men who take insult to women assuming that they may become abusive Your quote applies there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 08:47 PM
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Because it’s rational to expect people to value feeling safe. That’s what a perfect person would want. So you don’t expect them to find safety boring
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:20 AM
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For some women that’s boring. And that is an ugly side that can shatter illusions
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:59 AM
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To be human is to have an ugly side, flaws and things that aren’t perfect. Idolising women as perfect and virtuous I would argue is dehumanising (not the traditional meaning but still)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:27 AM
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God I love all the women making Martin comments agreeing with the take even though that’s in blatant contradiction to the debate rules
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:15 AM
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I count 5 in total?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:02 AM
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Making women look bad (or shattering the illusion that women don’t care about looks) makes them mad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:57 AM
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And this is why nobody takes feminism seriously anymore. Just them twisting everything to benefit women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:11 PM
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Yeah getting in with diversity doesn’t really count.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:32 PM
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Then why not change it to “anthropomorphic bear holding an RPG and having a nuke on speed dial.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:29 PM
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The lack of accountability explained
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:25 AM
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The point was that women would learn that certain traits are precursors to deadbeat fatherism (drugs, chronic unemployment, crime, general abusive tendencies). Not much we can do if they refuse to learn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:24 AM
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It’s an admission of guilt
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 07:10 AM
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Victimhood is womanhood
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:22 AM
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Notice how it’s only acceptable if the man is at fault
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:20 AM
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Yall believe we are in 1950 just so that your victim game is justified
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:18 AM
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Which is why they don’t want other men finding out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:54 PM
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Their argument collapsed like the USSR lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:53 PM
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Man vs bear taught us that they do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:51 PM
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Exactly. This is exactly my point when I say only approved groups are allowed to play victim
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:42 PM
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No they aren’t. People are inserting that loneliness issue thing in and then I have to reply to it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:14 PM
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Which makes my post last night all the more relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:10 PM
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It’s windmill so probably
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:09 PM
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Have it easy or easier than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:30 PM
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Its windmill lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:29 PM
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Nice misrepresentation. The same M&Ms analogy is racist when used on certain groups but fine on others?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:28 PM
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What if you don’t even try though? An example is the poisoned M&Ms thing where people advocate discrimination against an entire group based on the notion that a few may be poisoned. When trump said it about illegal immigrants the left got mad but a few years later the left used the same exact analogy to advocate against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:06 PM
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I didn’t mention sexually unsuccessful men anywhere. All I mentioned was that women seem to constantly play the victim because they’ve learnt that’s what works
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:18 PM
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“Just be yourself?”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:37 AM
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Would be nice to have consistency and less double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:36 AM
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TBP tells men to shut up about the loneliness epidemic and that it’s our own fault. Men trying to play the victim doesn’t work because society doesn’t allow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:56 AM
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Everyone wants to yes. But though everyone (including red pillers and MRAs) tries, only approved groups are allowed to act like victims. When groups like men or white peoples try to act like the victim, they get told to shut up or that it’s their own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:56 AM
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Playing the victim is an effective power strategy to get what you want. Theres a reason we have terms like “crocodile tears.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:54 AM
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TRP is only copying what they see TBP do successfully. Of course it won’t work for TRP because only approved groups are allowed to play the victim
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:52 AM
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I don’t see feminists and TBP staying silent when red pillars try to play victim. There are always angry responses when red pillars try to point out suicide rates, violent crime deaths, education outcomes. The responses just tell men to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:31 AM
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TRP tries and fails to play the victim because feminists have created an environment where victimhood has power. And anyway, they fail because the left only allow certain groups to play the victim (gay, woman, black, immigrant etc). And also because women employ shaming tactics conducive with toxic masculinity to shame men who try to victimise themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:22 AM
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They’re 17. They’re a child and lecturing us lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:55 PM
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Considering your post earlier on college admission, I don’t know how good your knowledge of statistics is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:52 PM
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You didn’t say man with gun you said man. Typical blue pills moving goalposts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:20 PM
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Ah yes that’s why everyone is losing their minds at trump coming back yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:21 AM
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Haha exactly. I’ve seen feminists use nazi sayings but swap out Jews for men and then advocate for shitting on men as a whole. The whole mushroom thing for example
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:06 AM
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bruh wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:08 AM
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DT has a certain meaning. You cant just change it up to suit your agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:00 AM
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No I’m not a felon lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:25 AM
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Me or OP because I didn’t say shit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:22 AM
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Yeah and if I had racing speed like Max Verstappen I’d be in an F1 car too what the fuck is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 12:45 AM
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Letting women drop the red pills on their own is peak PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 12:39 AM
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As has been said multiple times by women this sub: “women date who they are attracted to.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 12:17 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/RiZvlMfMqL Have a read of this compilation I made
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:45 PM
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Most women already expect a man to do a provider role and will leave if a man doesn’t act as a provider. See rates of divorce and breakups when men lose their jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:43 PM
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Relationship subs are mostly women. See how you proved my point? You tried to blame men for the anti men bias (by saying reddit is mostly men).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:42 PM
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Which is fair but why the difference in reaction based on gender then? Either anyone who didn’t do their part of the chores should be thrown out, or we should be creating excuses for anyone who didn’t pull their weight. It’s one set of rules of men but another for women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:33 PM
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The group with the most social stigma against reporting will report the least. That’s men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:31 PM
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Women are attracted to those men: https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Gregory-Carter-8/publication/275518995_Carter_Cambell_Muncer_2014_DT_Attractivness_to_women/links/553e1fad0cf20184050dcde6/Carter-Cambell-Muncer-2014-DT-Attractivness-to-women.pdf?origin=publication_detail&_tp=eyJjb250ZXh0Ijp7ImZpcnN0UGFnZSI6InB1YmxpY2F0aW9uIiwicGFnZSI6InB1YmxpY2F0aW9uRG93bmxvYWQiLCJwcmV2aW91c1BhZ2UiOiJwdWJsaWNhdGlvbiJ9fQ “In conclusion, the results of our study demonstrate that Dark Triad male personality (n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:30 PM
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Accountability to me is being open to the chance that a woman might actually be at fault for something and isn’t just the victim. This is at odds with feminism and blue pill because the notion of “patriarchy” allows a convenient scapegoat for anything so that women can be seen as the victim and not at fault. Good examples of deflecting accountability are on blue pill subs like AITA and relationship advice, where blame is one of the key points in contention. Men at fault are berated for being at …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:23 PM
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Every woman is an individual but all men are poor quality. The mask that covers twox users comes off
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:35 PM
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Nothing is ever a woman’s fault eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:32 PM
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Literally every single girls gathering is whining about how bad their husband/bf is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:15 PM
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Doesn’t disprove anything given 80/20 has been shown which just means that the average for men is at the top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 11:48 PM
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Because victimhood is power. Being seen as the underdog allows you to hit. It’s why everyone is trying to play oppression Olympics and get a slice of the victim pie: it allows them lower accountability, better optics and makes them look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:07 PM
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Shit okay yeah fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:13 AM
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You know how feminists always purport to be about uplifting women, equality, freedom to choose autonomously and deny just trying to further their own personal agenda? Yeah that was bullshit wasn’t it? What’s wrong with wanting a guy who will eat your homemade cookies or hand rolled pasta? Sincerely - user who is stuffing his face with home cooked meals currently Edit: comment retracted see below
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:11 AM
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Because white women have been blamed like this for maybe 2 or 3 weeks? Men have been blamed like this for decades upon decades. Give the blaming a few more years and you’ll get tired of being blamed for something you didn’t participate in
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:21 PM
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It would but feminism has long since left that sort of stuff and is just about making women look good
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:18 PM
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They never said that. They just said that there are some men out there that do fit that description as a counter to what you said You’re just upset that your shitty generalisation and sweeping under the rug failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:03 PM
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When Christian men voted for abortion the feminists called them evil. When Christian women voted for abortion, the feminists made excuses for them and painted them as weak willed women who were too dumb to know what was good for them or who were manipulated. When are at fault, infantilisation comes out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:57 PM
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Clearly she wasn’t given the key qualification was “does America want you in power?”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:11 PM
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Not every guy in the gym is a gym bro. Lifting isn’t the healthiest but it isn’t unhealthy. The other 2 I agree. In no world is wearing skimpy clothes healthy though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:57 PM
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The gym has health benefits though. Wearing a short skirt and low cut top is hardly comparable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 09:30 AM
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You complain about not particularly intelligent and yet compare infant male circumcision to boob jobs and butt lifts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:10 PM
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Bad faith debate is solo’s MO, don’t waste your time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:57 PM
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No it’s usually only said when husband does his share but wife doesn’t do her share. When husband didn’t do his share it’s “throw the whole husband out.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:36 PM
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The right is dipping a toe into the water while the left is running from the water. It’s less a strategy and more that the cost of doing business is dirt cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:36 PM
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I doubt it would be women given every single time an issue about chores is brought up on Blue Pill subs like relationshipadvice and AITA, the instruction given to men is: “Hire a housekeeper to do the chores so that your wife doesn’t have to do them.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:32 PM
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Don’t stick your dick in crazy is personal accountability. It holds men responsible for the consequences that arise due to them chasing after crazy but hot girls. Bros before hoes isn’t solipsism. It’s maybe assholeish if it’s used to justify or hide things like cheating. It’s not even particularly relevant because only women have an in group bias and men actually have an out group bias so if anything, in society it’s “sis before his.” Get back in the kitchen isn’t solipsism either. It’s just a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:18 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/XCbPDvB8ZF
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:53 AM
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Explained it. Though it’s not even the first time I’ve explained it to you and every time you don’t reply so…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:14 AM
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Who said I’m white/black/brown/asian etc? The crime rates in those neighbourhoods are higher. Example: I walked through <insert black neighbourhood with higher than average crime rates>. I got mugged. Now in your own words: “I’m gonna be suspicious and check first, or just avoid… them altogether.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:13 AM
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Use this analogy to advocate for avoiding black neighbourhoods while on foot and you get called a racist though. Tells us a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:24 PM
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This sub is a niche of a niche
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:22 PM
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I mean, putting a number on this sort of thing is hard. There is a spectrum. But a major issue is that this sort of thing is easy af to conceal. In the same way that feminists complain that men can seem decent and nice on the outside but conceal misogynist views, the same is true for misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:41 AM
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So pitting “women against women” is bad but pitting men against men in the dating market is okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:33 PM
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They want the men to suffer and for them to have the power to choose. Men leaving means they lose that power which is why OP is whining about “pitting women against woman.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:40 PM
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Then why talk about women clapping back over each other. Competition within a gender for a partner isn’t new or even wrong according to feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:39 PM
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Says the user who has posted 200+ comments since that election
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:49 AM
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What about the 40+% of women and the 53% whit women who voted to take away women’s rights? Oh right they were all conveniently puppets that had no free will /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:27 AM
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I’m just reading what TwoX and ask feminists are saying. There are a lot of women who hold your view (my view too) but a lot are infantilising the women to deflect blame
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:53 AM
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Because the elephant makes women look bad. Women are above all, wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:03 PM
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I see hordes of liberal women right now infantilising their fellow women who voted for Trump. “Ohh these women didn’t know, they weren’t educated, they were pressured, they don’t know what’s good for them etc.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:36 PM
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Because it’s Lilith
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 08:13 PM
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The election was yesterday bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:29 AM
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A 50% loss at a score of 1/100 is 0.5/100. In other words, it means fuck all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:27 AM
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Yes people who are nuts hate men. Hating genders is nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:46 AM
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Cos any woman who thinks a bear is safer is nuts. If you women like bears so much, get them to vote for the dems
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:32 AM
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Oh but I thought feminism would help men and how it helps move towards equality? Looks like that was yet another lie told to try and get men to vote for them. Except the mask slipped with things like man v bear
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:24 AM
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As if any of the men here are able to get paid let alone get a girl pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:46 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/rbQlK5nNX0 Here you go. Here’s the hate against men when women reveal their true colours
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:46 PM
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Doesn’t help that now feminists are hurling vitriol at men and revealing their true colours
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:35 PM
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With rhetoric like this it’s no wonder men didn’t vote for Kamala.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:08 PM
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No they’ll just infantilise all the women who voted for trump. When men vote for trump it’s “evil men want to deprive women of rights.” When women vote for trump it’s “poor widdle women don’t know what’s good for them because they are puppets who had their strings pulled.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:38 PM
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Sure, everything that makes the people you identify with look bad is the “dead internet.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:15 AM
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Does it matter that men are the ones mostly doing the attacking? By your logic, it would be a waste to devote resources to mitigate black on black crime because “who is attacking?” That would be racist though I can guarantee you that many men also feel apprehensive going out after dark. I avoid roaming at night and if I have to, I take safety precautions (drive a car, park in well lit areas and travel with friends). But sure, I’ll believe what a woman thinks men think. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:38 AM
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Something something accountability and kryptonite
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:34 AM
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Women will always deny that they are as horrible as men. I posted this breakdown of the attitudes that blue pill women hold and so many comments were just “oh it’s fake, women aren’t actually that bad.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:34 AM
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I don’t need to be a woman to recognise that all you do is post ragebait lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:32 AM
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As soon as women might not be perceived as virtuous, perfect little angels, the first desperate diversion is either “it’s incels in disguise making women look bad” or “it’s AI making women look bad.” Notice how it’s never “women making women look bad.” Because we all know women can’t actually be bad. #womenarewonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 01:31 AM
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Okay first off, fuck gen z boss and a mini. Annoying ass shit. Second, you can blame mainstream blue pill media because they demonised groups of men going out to do sexual, degenerate shit (strip clubs, frat parties etc) but forgot to extend that to women. I agree with demonising this degenerate shit but blue pill media and common rhetoric only did it to men. Women who go out on girls nights or sorority nights and get drunk and go have hookups with random were not at all mentioned. Men who go ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 01:47 AM
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Euphemism for obese eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:03 PM
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I’ve seen you whine when that same rhetoric is used to blame women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 08:02 PM
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Do you know what castration is or are you just running your mouth you troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:30 AM
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Every time you run out of points you bring up the same, tired old “but man did the biggest bad” point. Whats your point? If one person from one group did something bad we should let everyone else in that group go fuck themselves? Would you use that logic to deny resources to help victims of black on black crime? I would hope not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 03:04 AM
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Nope. That is not what they meant. You know that. They meant that when men go to war and die, the women left behind suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:46 PM
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You think feminists would sit by idly if men tried something like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:43 PM
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The whole “men go to war, women most affected?”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:41 PM
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In the same way that monkeys don’t go near tigers in the jungle. They saw one get brutally killed and learned not to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:33 PM
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Really? The left actually cares? Then explain to me why they are massively biased against men? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/njziTmRmoi
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:30 PM
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A country with a shit healthcare system doesn’t necessarily mean it is unequal in terms of gender. A low maternal health score might just mean that everyone in that country gets bad healthcare, meaning it isn’t ask that unequal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:11 PM
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Anyone can hamster. muh anecdote. Stay mad that people called out your baseless takes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:35 AM
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Most just go with friends nowadays. But of course that means you can’t dismiss the problem as easily not can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:26 AM
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Ahahaha what sort of hamstering is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:18 AM
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Fair enough then. I’ll rescind that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:38 PM
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Peak irony. The same liberal women who seethe at “not all men” now play the same game to defend their skin
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:30 PM
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Ah yes that’s why women use “small dick” as an insult eh? Nice bad faith debating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:00 AM
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A catch all term to socially shame men who women want to socially shame. In most cases it is warranted and used appropriately but in many cases it is misused to try and attach negative connotations to a man to shut him up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:51 AM
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Lilith will just ignore this because she’s here for the bad faith debate rather than the actual crux of the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:14 PM
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Anecdotal evidence is just evidence of an anecdote
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:12 PM
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This implies they had quality (beyond trolling) in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:11 PM
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Well you’re offended at AWALT so at least everyone is offended
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 07:10 PM
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How is that not men taking responsibility though? It tells men to be careful. Not a very good retort and not a very good goalpost shift smh lilith
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 07:02 PM
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Jeez do you ever get sore and tired at the end of the day after moving heavy goalposts so often
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:16 PM
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Literally yesterday some bp woman confirmed the finish line claim of her own volition
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:14 PM
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Not as common as women wanting the rich bad boy, no matter how much whataboutism or bad faith arguing you employ. Nice own goal Lilith
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:13 PM
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Everyone is shallow but that makes women look bad so lemme do some hamstering. -bps
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:09 PM
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That's not a good look for women then given there are hordes of mentally unstable women with disorders
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:39 PM
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All im saying is that it's always the most blue pilled women who drop the biggest red pills. Thanks for confirming it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:36 PM
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Thanks for confirming the RP "women wait at the finish line" claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:15 PM
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Lilith won't respond to this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:21 PM
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Bruh actually admitted to moving the goalposts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:30 PM
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It's just classic virtue signalling. https://www.kaggle.com/code/jph84562/the-ugly-truth-of-people-decisions-in-speed-dating In this study they did an analysis. You can ignore the final results if you want (though they are hilarious). The thing of interest is that they asked women what they thought they preferred in a man, what they thought other women preferred in a man, and what men preferred in women. Women said that men as a gender prioritise looks, women as a gender prioritise looks but tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 10:08 AM
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Oh did you drop the red pills accidentally?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 10:20 AM
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Then don't talk about spongebob
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:32 PM
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Then your entire point falls apart. Im disappointed lilith
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:31 PM
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No it's like using Spongebob to learn about what sort of things children like in a children's TV show. God that was a bad take from you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:23 PM
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I don't see the men lusting over the actual crimes the women committed though. It's just the pic. The women seem to also like the crime
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:19 PM
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The child grape chadfish posted here during purge weekwas especially brutal. It's not that men don't also ignore personality to lust after hot but crazy women, men don't virtue signal about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:07 PM
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Guess who's back, back again, Lilith's back, tell a friend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 08:03 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 07:07 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:52 AM
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This is such a shit got ha. The analogy below is good I think though: The year is 1995, your grandparents buy a soft and comfy Cadillac car to drive to church in. They love it. 2 years later, they pass away and give it to you. You being a teen male, mod the hell out of it. EBay turbocharger, spoiler, hood scoop, loud exhaust, racing seats, roll cage, stiff racing suspension etc. As you mod the car, you love it even more. Fast forward to 2024, you settle down and have a child and get rid of the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:03 AM
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The data says all men vote conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:32 PM
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Ha you say this but when boys outperform girls in objective classes like maths the whining and victim mentality comes out yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:18 PM
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Lags a lot when it needs to help men you mean. "The review found there was too much emphasis on mathematical ability in the old test, and boys did better in those questions. The new test, introduced last year – which is yet to go digital, despite plans to bring it online in 2022 – puts greater emphasis on writing." Review was in 2018 and the test was rejigged in 2021. Looks like a 3 year lag is what we have when we need to boost up girls but decades long lags for boys eh? https://www.smh.com.au/…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:15 PM
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Your logic can be used to dismiss the need for women's quotas in engineering given I know many female engineers and successful female engineers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:13 PM
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Because they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:11 PM
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Read the post I made then because it shows you how to read the text body of the deleted posts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:00 PM
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Yeah but that dismantles their argument so...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:58 AM
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You didn't read the post then. It's the top comments that the sub as a whole have voted up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:07 AM
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First off, it's not an assumption. You've said that mainstream subs are blue pilled and I've shown that this mainstream sub has biases against men, which stem from the blue pill demographic and their way of thinking and attitudes towards gender (see related subs like twoxchromosomes). Secondly, I don't give a fuck what it's the basis of. I've shown it exists as above and you're predictably dodging the point. That's against the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:07 AM
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Any thoughts on BP actually being biased against men though?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:45 PM
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Says the sidebar mate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:00 PM
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Blue pill is mainstream society and is pushed forward by young liberal women. What the young liberal women's groups think today is what society will push towards tomorrow. I'm just pointing out what the young liberal women's groups actually think and doing a sort of foreshadow
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:51 PM
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Exactly. And as these attitudes creep more into broader society, this sort of logic I described above will occur more and more
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:46 PM
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I run a store and got robbed by a group of black teens. I now prefer groups that aren't black teens. An I a racist? The above hypothetical is analogous to yours and I would say is racist. Which probably makes what you said sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:44 PM
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Well they claim that groups with a large male proportion are gender biased against men and try to shit that down by "ending the boys clubs" don't they? Im just saying that they do it too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:40 PM
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Lmfao, I think we all know what posts and from who I'm referencing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:32 PM
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AITA is one of the biggest subs on reddit. And this means that there is a precedent of left leaning, young women's groups not actually being as Un gender biased as they claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:29 PM
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So what? The comments are taking the bait and responding in a biased way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:19 PM
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Foreshadowing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:18 PM
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The post can be real or fake but doesn't take away from the reaction of commenters who comment and debate within the context of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:16 PM
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The gender swaps were swapped word for word. The women didn't write themselves as more innocent or anything, it was the exact same as the way the men were written. The innocence was projected by biased comments
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:15 PM
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I wouldn't say all of reddit. Mainstream subs like the ones I referenced yes but there are a lot of less blue.pilled subs or there
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:14 PM
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Sorry for not replying for so long. The post only got approved after I went to bed!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:11 PM
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We're long past that mate. That ship has sailed, the convicts on it have arrived on the new land and created a new nation founded on the back of convict labour.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:19 AM
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Good to hear. This sub is chock full of negativity so good to have a change of pace
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:12 PM
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Table is groaning under the weight of things you brought. Sounds like a good relationship!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 09:06 PM
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In other words, women barely struggle when it comes to relationships but still want everyone to throw a pity party for them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:58 PM
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Women are always the victim don't you know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:56 PM
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Because men admit it rather than using mental gymnastics and hamstering to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:55 PM
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Being a victim helps so much in general society nowadays though. Reduced accountability, lower expectations, more empathy, more funding towards your issues, convenient excuses etc. Of course, that's why society hates accepting that sometimes men can be victims of things too. Why give men power eh?if
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:16 PM
2

This is like saying "I measure water temp by feeling it and saying hot or cold." There still exists the degree Celsius scale. Just cos you don't like saying 1-10 doesn't mean it doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:57 AM
1

Men can't be passive like women. You're thinking of this from a woman's perspective. Women don't approach. They get approached. Thus men need to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:15 PM
2

Heard it from the horse's mouth folks: "Average means...usually unattractive."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 11:13 PM
2

Oh I thought women look pretty not for men but for other women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:40 PM
-1

Shaming someone for something involuntary is a lot more of a dick move than shaming someone for something they knowingly participated in and consented to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:39 PM
28

The hamstering they pull is biblical Edit: best example I found https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/STXlOd6mgo
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:37 PM
0

Can't hurt can it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:31 AM
1

Like I said, poisoning myself ain't something I'm interested in. Unless you're saying that doing drugs is the only way men can get girls (which just supports TRP and the bad boy claims)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:39 AM
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They'll just argue in bad faith. Most men and most women will agree with you that menslib is a joke and just set up for feminists to say "yeah we help men" in the same way that my local Honda dealership says they cater for kids by having a closet with a puzzle set in it. Both are tokenistic bs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:32 AM
6

Go and copy Usain Bolt and tell us how well that works out for you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:52 PM
5

Bouncers tend to not like single loner guys who try to get in
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:50 PM
1

Emulate? This is like telling a guy in a Honda Civic to go to the racetrack and "emulate" Max Verstappen since they both drive a Honda or smth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:50 PM
2

Poisoning myself while getting hearing damage and dealing with drunk aggressive morons and entitled women both of whom are likely to be on drugs isn't "fun" for me sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:44 PM
1

Except theres studies about in group biases and women are wonderful effect that support that claim so it's less hurt feelings and more just actual fact
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:15 PM
6

Blue pills try not to turn the debate into "who hurt you"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:14 PM
-1

The whining about how men are so toxic and manipulative and abusive seems to support that claim
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 09:12 PM
12

OP watched the family guy cutaway where Brian "saves" the lady in the car rolling into the lake
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:27 PM
2

Any source for that bold claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:20 PM
8

Looks will always matter. You can get a foot in the door with looks. Personality can only keep you inside, not get you in
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:25 PM
3

It's funny how the most liberal of women instantly resort to calling you "gay" when you don't respond to their advances
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:03 AM
8

All im saying is that making comments about jaw surgery and hair plugs sounds awfully black pill. That warning should be something you should consider too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 09:20 AM
25

This is just proving black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:28 AM
4

More or less. If they lie, why shouldn't men lie
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:35 PM
5

No it doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:32 PM
4

Talk about proving the point. Instant insult went straight to "ha you don't get the sexy sex!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 08:30 PM
3

They get pissy because deep down they know that women do much less in the gf/bf stage
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:49 AM
5

No the remembering anniversaries card is a card exclusively used by liberal feminists whining about the mental load and how difficult it is to choose a tablecloth and book an appointment for the interior design consultant au they can put some "live laugh love" frame up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 05:10 AM
7

He's making a point about this being the norm in Western relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:49 AM
1

An outlier. For the most part, heterosexual relationships have women essentially as a passive player
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:49 AM
1

All that moral panic and still unable to address the studies and facts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:04 AM
0

?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:03 AM
12

Apex fallacy fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:17 PM
23

Op has swallowed an apex fallacy pill
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:16 PM
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Nah only women are allowed to feel pressured. Victimhood is womanhood
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:10 PM
1

Wow so we are meant to take all of your research into how evil men are for leaving sick wives and how discriminated you women are but one study that makes women look less than virtuous (IE human) and it's a manosphere study? I didn't insult you or your husband though if this is your standard response then poor him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:59 PM
1

Nice fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:57 PM
3

No I needed a study to prove that women make themselves out to be virtuous while shitting on everyone else and making them all out to be superficial
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:56 PM
0

We're talking about virtue signalling
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:55 PM
2

Find me a stat to say it isn't. And for the record, women still harp on about how they aren't obsessed with looks so not much has changed with regards to what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:41 AM
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Bullshit. There is statistical backing for the claim that women virtue signal regarding what they claim to find attractive and what they actually find attractive. https://www.kaggle.com/code/jph84562/the-ugly-truth-of-people-decisions-in-speed-dating "Males actually perfectly matched the importance of the attractiveness score, however they underestimated the influence of shared interest and fun scores for the female. On the other hand, males overestimated the importance of sincereness and intell…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 02:18 AM
6

No true Scotsman fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:56 PM
19

Why is it that when women suck at communicating feelings it's "sometimes we can't explain our feelings through words.🐬🌈🌈" But when men can't explain their emotions through words its "evil toxic masculinity and evil men bottling up emotions and evil men who have no EQ😡👿!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:54 PM
9

From all the feminists on TwoX and AITA who chastise men for not mind reading and expect that they should be able to communicate poorly or not communicate at all (either willingly or involuntarily) and still have the man mind read what she actually wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:52 PM
17

"Communicate" is just a blue pill buzzword to mean "shut up and do what she wants "
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:49 PM
15

Why can't she? Because from the horse's mouth feminists admit that women are too stupid to express their emotions clearly, too immature to do it properly and too weak willed to bother
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:48 PM
15

Apart from embellished sob stories on TwoX, this doesn't happen nearly enough to warrant a post. And anyway, why can't the woman express that she needs comforting rather than saying the opposite and then expecting the man to do the opposite and disregard her? This reeks of treating women like inarticulate and immature children (which feminists support if it benefits them).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:46 PM
10

It's excused because infantilising women who are at fault is the only way people can defend her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:19 PM
2

The women are wonderful effect
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:53 PM
5

I'm talking about spaces that are meant for women with little to no men and no risk of being harassed by men for saying what you find sexy. Women still lie and virtue signal in those safe spaces because they don't want to look like a slut amongst their female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:16 PM
9

This bullshit virtue signalling comes from women even when they are online and in women's spaces. Just admit it's virtue signalling
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:12 PM
8

It's just them imaging a top tier Chad and then moulding his personality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:09 PM
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