GoldPotential6298 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	2nd wife?” 100%. I’m happy for you and wish you all the best. You’ve done the work and deserve to be happy.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/03/25 09:33 AM
7	2nd wife?” Like many others here have said it’s the exact opposite for me. Can never imagine loving another woman the way I love my 2nd wife. We came into each others lives at the right time and with so many ways that we “fit” that I have to believe it was more than just coincidence. Like two pieces of the same broken puzzle. I waited a long time to heal and did a lot of therapy after my divorce so I knew I was in the right place to be receptive to dating and possibly more. My wife did the same. When I thi…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/25 09:28 PM
25	She said, "You could just pick up the dog poop without me asking. You see it just like I do." When my ex started pulling similar shit after she filed and forced me to move out, my go to response was “That sounds like a husband problem, you chose not to have one…”	/r/Divorce_Men	31/08/24 07:24 PM
1	Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man? 🥹😃 good a u thtjnb	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/24 05:43 PM
15	Why do they get so angry and destructive when most of the time they’re the ones leaving? There’s a scene in the movie “As good as it gets” that summarizes the entire situation. Jack Nickleson is an eccentric author and a woman asks him how he writes women so well. His response: “I think of a man, and then I take away all reason and accountability.”	/r/Divorce_Men	04/05/24 03:58 PM
11	Wealthy, tall, fit wallet required. High school leaver! Love it	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	30/04/24 01:07 AM
1	The perfect moment for the ex to text Literally what I have for mine!!!!!	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/24 06:16 PM
8	How do you feel about your wife keeping your surname after the divorce? You’re changing your last name to your mother’s maiden name too? Username does NOT check out.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/24 04:48 PM
21	She is going to have to work for the first time in her life hahaha Did you notice the drastically different responses you got to the same post on the divorce sub? Shameful. Enjoy man and merry Christmas!	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/23 11:48 PM
53	Separated about to reconcile but wife has told me she slept with someone You’re her plan b	/r/Divorce_Men	13/10/23 08:28 PM
3	My ex-wife finally found a boyfriend on a dating app, and I can't stop laughing at the irony This is the way.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/09/23 02:14 PM
0	Does anybody feel like they are drifting away from their kids? So much this. The ex has been doing a better job of sending me pictures and texts with little anecdotes about what’s going on but it’s just not the same. We have 65/35 because of my job related travel commitments but even that 35% doesn’t feel like enough and I feel like an outsider watching them grow up via a phone screen. Those times when they are with me are the most important moments of my life and the mornings I drop them off at school are the absolute worst for me. Their mom is still stayi…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/23 04:25 PM
12	Q4M: if your wife asked you to get a vasectomy, would you? Hell yes! Planning on getting one later this year. We already have three small kids between us and even with her being on birth control we had one pregnancy this year that ended in a miscarriage at around 10 weeks. Obviously unplanned but still shook us a little since she is now 40 and we thought we were being safe. We both felt very bad in how things ended even though we both agree we don’t want to start all over again with babies in our 40s but it still hurt to think about what might have been…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 10:39 PM
12	Just found out Listen to your lawyer not the well intentioned Reddit barristers. Laws and circumstances are different in every jurisdiction. Listen to your lawyer	/r/Divorce_Men	19/07/23 02:53 AM
1	Omg, the boredom. Why are YOU moving out? If she’s asked for the divorce, tell her to go live with her affair partner until the legal process is finalized and the disposition of the assets (including the house) have been finalized. Never take legal advice from the person you’re divorcing so do t listen to a word she says and listen only to your lawyer.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/06/23 03:52 PM
1	What are you reading to up your dad game? How to be a good divorced dad. It’s been a few years but I believe it was co-written by a divorce attorney and a therapist	/r/Divorce_Men	24/06/23 07:33 PM
1	Anyone else experience this? Sounds like her affair fizzled out and now she’s realizing the grass isn’t always greener. Keep pressing and don’t be her plan B	/r/Divorce_Men	24/06/23 12:35 PM
1	1st part of my summer visitation over. STBXW being a big B**** I’d argue that they aren’t a valid medical expense if they aren’t prescription. No judge or lawyer out there would disagree.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/06/23 01:22 PM
2	1st part of my summer visitation over. STBXW being a big B**** Off topic: but why the fuck would an 8 or 2 year old need a Fitbit!?! 🤣	/r/Divorce_Men	12/06/23 11:49 AM
3	She's not in a hurry to get divorced all of the sudden You’ll never forget your best BJ! Mine was actually 23 years ago and I’ll never forget her….technically she gave me three over the course of about 12 hours together but I’ll never forget them!	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/23 07:21 PM
2	I need a hobby for the 50% I don't have my son Just checked that out online and seems hella expensive. Looks interesting but you can get so much equipment for that same $3k price tag.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/05/23 11:52 PM
3	If you were divorced with no kids in your 40s and could live/work in any city in the US, where would you want to live (good dating scene for older men, lots to do, not depressing weather, easy to meet people at an older age). If you are retired military with an mba I would look into military towns with a large defense industrial base like Huntsville, Colorado Springs or northern VA. Huge job potential closely related to your military experience and lots of networking and friendship opportunities. I’ve lived in two of the three and have visited the third extensively and can vouch that the dating scene would be good in your situation. Northern VA being the most expensive but your pension and job options might offset th…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/05/23 09:52 PM
2	Cheating Wife's lawyer reached out it's divorce time Alpha widow	/r/Divorce_Men	21/04/23 07:42 AM
11	A good example of the emotional abuse I suffered at the hands of my (now ex-)wife. She cared more about my income than my marital fidelity. Marriage lasted 11 months before I walked out the door. We should start a weekly thread or sticky at the top with screen shots of the shitty texts our exes have sent to us! I have some pretty fucking amazing/sad ones to share!	/r/Divorce_Men	07/04/23 07:32 PM
9	[Video] 30yr old realizes men prefer younger woman and in her explanation shows how she got pumped and dumped by chad, but ofc she loves being 30yr that's pretty clear.. My favorite part! Honey, you hit the wall face first and that’s the problem!	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	25/03/23 05:06 PM
8	Advice to men: It is very difficult or impossible to recover financially from a divorce after a long marriage, you are almost always better off hiding assets and risking a penalty vs certainty of lower living standard for the rest of your life My ex once bought $1000 in pillows from Crate and Barrel that we NEVER used!	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/23 12:50 PM
13	Every "single mom" in OLD OMG this!!!! 🤣	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/23 02:08 PM
12	Grounds for divorce? Please tell me this is a troll post.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/23 12:00 PM
2	child support fair amount??? As everyone else has already said: Talk to a lawyer and ignore what she says she wants. I make a substantial amount of money ($300k) while the ex was a SAHM and with two kids I only pay $1650 per month in child support. I live in a different state and pay a large amount of short term alimony too but she is trying to screw you.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/22 08:22 PM
22	If a 35-year-old father lived with his parents and expected monogamy from a valuable woman, he would be labeled a loser. You cannot be serious. A man in this position with this dating profile would be ridiculed beyond belief across the internet. He’d be a meme in no time with both men and women alike mocking his sense of entitlement and lack of self awareness. This woman can get away with it and will receive more right swipes than she can reasonably respond to because she has a vagina. The lone thing she has to offer anyone at this point.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	13/12/22 10:45 PM
24	Anyone’s ex wife not like giving blowjobs? Just like OP’s wife!	/r/Divorce_Men	07/12/22 02:37 PM
23	Her dual-mating preferences. Even more sinister than that. They recognized that the payer of the alimony (ex husband) was always the higher earner and therefore in a higher tax bracket. By placing the tax burden on the ex husband they were able to guarantee payment (via income tax deduction at the higher effective marginal rate) and gave the ex wife tax free income for the life of the support.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	19/11/22 12:07 AM
1	Happy Sock Day to me!! Good for you dude!	/r/Divorce_Men	15/11/22 07:52 PM
1	Happy Sock Day to me!! At least have your attorney contact hers to ask what her payoff number would be. They should be able to at least negotiate 10% off the total due to the lump sum payment. Take a look at a time value of money calculator and use the current rate or inflation to see what the current dollar amount would be versus the Monty payment times months remaining. Simple calculations and your attorney can send that as an offer to your ex’s attorney. Likely save you tens of thousands	/r/Divorce_Men	15/11/22 07:06 PM
1	Happy Sock Day to me!! Don’t pay her off now. Unless you can negotiate a discount. That lump of cash now is worth more to you than the monthly payments over the years. Think of them as payments on a zero percent interest loan. Plus if she cohabitates or remarries your payments will stop. If you pay her now she gets the full benefit of the support plus can remarry without financial penalty. With inflation your last payment will be worth significantly less than your first.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/11/22 02:26 PM
8	Ex FIL harasses me in parking lot during drop off. And based on advice from my attorney in similar circumstances don’t get out of the car during exchanges. If you do keep you hands visible and wear a body cam and don’t respond to anything they say. The new BF being a cop makes no difference when you have video proof of the interactions. Just don’t say anything and don’t let them trick you into escalating. Stay in your car if at all possible.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/22 03:53 PM
1	Anyone had an ex come back around? Crabs in a bucket	/r/Divorce_Men	23/09/22 11:45 PM
3	heartbroken/dad Two years post here….single dad of two amazing little girls. It gets better with time. I promise you. Just take each day as it comes and focus on taking care of yourself so you can take care of those around you. The gas mask on an airplane analogy….out yours on first so you can help others after.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/09/22 06:54 PM
52	Anyone had an ex come back around? That’s the happiest story I’ve read all week!	/r/Divorce_Men	22/09/22 10:39 PM
3	Drugs? Agree. But I’d look into testosterone replacement therapy first. Just some basic low dose test (150mg ish) per week will do wonders for your motivation and overall health. Even if you don’t hit the gym right away	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/22 09:11 PM
4	Fun Weekend Contest for Divorced Men Yep. I keep reminding myself that I can always make more money. Those monthly checks are just buying my freedom and sanity. Best investment ever !	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/22 07:03 PM
19	I don’t want a relationship with ma dad That’s my biggest fear as I’m finalizing my long and drawn out divorce. I was the sole breadwinner and she was a SAHM (that’s changing now due to the divorce). She has primary physical custody (60/40) it because she’s still not working yet she gets to spend more quality time with the kids as well as the higher quantity. There are times where I have to travel for work but I schedule it so I don’t have to miss any of my regularly scheduled time with them but it’s really hard. I still work 60-80 we…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/22 01:32 PM
11	Fun Weekend Contest for Divorced Men Far more than I’d care to admit.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/22 01:06 PM
9	"The more I stay with him, the more money I will get". My security camera recorded her words. My lawyer says this would not help in court. This is the only answer	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/22 08:39 PM
12	Gentlemen, I bring before you a single mother built like a bus seat and possessing the ultra-rare stán na bod gan teorainn! She likes to eat. (Obvious from her pictures!)	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	29/03/22 01:33 AM
32	If you were cheated on in your marriage what were the signs your wife/ex wife gave before you found out. Dude….she was out with a gym bro until 3 am and is gaslighting you she is cheating on you. Lawyer up. Cancel her gym membership since you are obviously paying for it. She is months ahead of you in her exit strategy already. Talk to her about going back to work to help offset the alimony and child support gang rape coming your way. Sorry.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/03/22 02:03 AM
9	Would you mind getting cuckold if it meant you could have a hot wife and hot daughters? Exactly! WTF pedo!	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/03/22 05:36 PM
3	Canceling/Consolidating CC Accounts? There is no such thing as a joint credit card account. You are either the primary or an authorized user. If you are the primary, call the CC company and remove her as an authorized user. Do it quickly. I didn’t love fast enough and my ex racked up $20k in marital debt on my credit card before I moved out. Removed her name as an authorized user and her account and the card number is cancelled.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/02/22 10:48 PM
44	Lying cheating ex wife remarried Stop following her on any social media.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/22 03:50 PM
3	New car divorce This isn’t true either. Many states have official separation periods and money earned after that separation and before divorce are not considered marital property. All state specific and check with your attorney.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/01/22 01:29 PM
5	States Are Increasingly Considering Equal Shared Parenting Custody Cases Exactly what my ex was expecting from divorce. Her life wasn’t going to change in terms of standard of living, unlimited budget, staying at home while the kids went to school, etc. I loved it when the mediators told her that her expectations were skewed and this is what happens in a divorce (one that she asked for). Zero concept of accepting consequences of her own actions.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/01/22 09:33 PM
11	Hard-hearted hooker's hush-hush handiwork highly hinders honesty, harming heedles honey. Hurt hasn't happened... Hitherto. Go Google alliteration. It’s in his flair for a reason.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	15/01/22 12:38 AM
22	Hard-hearted hooker's hush-hush handiwork highly hinders honesty, harming heedles honey. Hurt hasn't happened... Hitherto. Let’s run some hypothetical math here. Assume that she works a mere 4-5 days week. And on average she’s seeing one “customer” per day. Of course on weekends she might see 2-3 per day. And there are times where she might work 7 days per week, other times where she takes several days off per week due to her period. Giving her the benefit of the doubt let’s just say she averages 5 cocks per week. Of course she’ll need to take some vacation time every year. 2 weeks at the beach where she’s actually …	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	15/01/22 12:34 AM
4	I need some support Dude, I’m telling you that’s absolutely incorrect. That’s the old language where every mental health visit had to be self reported. Look at the actual regs and you don’t even have to report marital or family therapy any more. Source: Me, divorced guy who went to individual and marriage counseling and guaranteed has a higher clearance than you. Don’t just take my word for it, do 10minutes of research and you’ll see that you don’t even have to report relationship based therapy now. The Gov finally…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/22 12:23 PM
1	I need some support I doubt that very seriously. Even jobs with high level clearances now allow exceptions for therapy due to family and relationship therapy. Used to be that you had to report any kind of therapy but that is no longer the case. And this is coming from the US Government who is notoriously slow to embrace anything positive in a mental health capacity. Go double check online to really confirm how/why your job doesn’t allow therapy. Highly doubtful. And even if it does, go find an online therapist and …	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/22 11:35 AM
3	How to handle the meeting with the other guy Look on the bright side OP, you’ll probably never need to meet him. Your ex isn’t anything serious to him if he renewed his vows and still has other side pieces as well. Your ex is just a piece of ass to him and he’ll bounce the second she tries to make him choose her over his wife or the other chicks. Complete non issue for you. She’s just his cum dumpster and nothing more	/r/Divorce_Men	10/01/22 11:22 AM
7	How to handle the meeting with the other guy He doesn’t know what he’s getting into?? He’s not getting into anything! He’s not leaving his wife the any of the side pieces. He even renewed his vows all the while fucking OP’s ex and apparently a few others. He isn’t picking OP’s ex and I truthfully doubt OP will ever have to meet him because he isn’t planning on meeting the kids and making this into something serious. He already has something serious; his current wife! OP’s ex is just another cum dumpster to him. Non-issue as he won’t be in …	/r/Divorce_Men	10/01/22 11:20 AM
7	Preselection and female mate-choice copying FTW Purely anecdotal but this this holds true for my situation. Met Current GF through OLD and a couple of my pictures were actually me and an old flame. Mostly innocent except for one where she was kissing/licking my ear in a very playful manner. Could have been interpreted a number of ways because I was obviously laughing in the picture. Current GF commented that she didn’t like that I had that picture on my profile. My response was simply “Then why did you match with me?” She said it was for a nu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/22 03:10 PM
2	Is it supposed to get worse? Healing is not a linear process. There will be ups and downs along the way.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/21 03:05 PM
8	It's over Dude, do you have some sort of weird cuck fetish? Why the fuck would you be letting him come to stay at your house with you soon to be ex wife over Christmas? If she wants to spend that time with her boyfriend over her family then she can get her cheating ass out of the house to go see him. If you have kids they stay with you and she leaves. Seriously man, reading through your posts here and I’m thinking you need some serious therapy. She cheats on you and you blame yourself for the split becaus…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/21 11:12 AM
1	Happy Birthday to me… 15 years checking in…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/21 11:17 PM
6	Expose wife's affair with boss? She was either already fucking him or getting ready to when she brought up the divorce. At the very least you are describing an emotional affair. More likely they have been screwing around behind your back for a while and your original instincts were correct. She’s gone and has been for longer than you know.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/12/21 01:08 PM
3	What are the advantages and disadvantages of single parenting post divorce for dads ? Get the book “How to be a Good Divorced Dad”. A lot of it seems like fundamental / basic information but it’s an easy read and makes a lot of sense when put all together in the book format. Definitely worth a look.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/11/21 08:30 PM
7	Are women (maybe men as well?) more open sexually with a partner they are attracted to physically? Username does not check out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/21 12:35 PM
5	Marital Asset Using the total value for inclusion in support calculations is different than her simply getting half!	/r/Divorce_Men	24/11/21 02:38 PM
10	Marital Asset Go get a VA disability rating. That piece of the retirement is then tax free to you and is excluded from her piece of your retirement.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/11/21 01:13 PM
7	Mcmuffin commercial made me happy I'm divorced Art reflecting life.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/11/21 04:14 PM
1	What to do with the house - Advice needed Don’t forget the realtor and other fees/taxes associated with selling a home. More likely looking at $50k each and not $65k!	/r/Divorce_Men	09/11/21 01:42 PM
2	Have you ever been in love before? Can confirm. Prefer dodging the literal bullets to the metaphorical ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 01:03 PM
2	Q4W: Controversial Statistics Saturday: Do You Believe Marriage Benefits Men, and Would You Marry if You Were a Guy? Honestly, if she had even been just a little more reasonable then I probably would have accepted being comfortably miserable for the rest of my life. I literally didn’t realize how bad it was until after the split. The decade long series of micro-transgressions kept moving the bar of what I had considered acceptable so far from what anyone would consider normal that I was absolutely embarrassed at myself when I tried explaining the situation to people after the fact. Sadly, because of the kids I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 10:46 PM
3	Q4W: Controversial Statistics Saturday: Do You Believe Marriage Benefits Men, and Would You Marry if You Were a Guy? And yet, they haven’t been banned from Reddit while MGOTW and most other male-Red Pill equivalents are gone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 09:11 PM
3	Q4W: Controversial Statistics Saturday: Do You Believe Marriage Benefits Men, and Would You Marry if You Were a Guy? I wish my ex wife understood this “team” concept! SAHM who sent kids to preschool and still expected that I should do the majority of the housework AFTER my 50-60 work weeks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 09:08 PM
1	What are ways you stay connected to your kid(s) when they're not with you? What about something like an Amazon echo for dedicated video chats? He can basically say “Alexa call dad” and it pops up on your end as well.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/21 08:42 PM
3	Wife asked for Divorce today. Where do I get started? Document the day that she asked for the divorce. Do it via text or email it make it clear when she asked for the divorce. Open a new checking account at a new bank to be funded completely by your new direct deposits going forward. Do not take any funds from a marital account to fund this new account. And do not withdraw any funds from the marital accounts until after you speak with an attorney. Use the marital accounts to continue paying all joint Bills while all of your new income is going to t…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/10/21 06:02 PM
6	How many of you are banned from other subs? Specifically relationship style ones. Also what pill would you consider yourself and what gender are you? This is 100% me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/21 10:02 PM
8	What is something you're "supposed" to be physically attracted to but actually turns you off? MILfs for life!	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 09:01 PM
4	No fault divorce should be prohibited when children are involved I didn’t think you were even allowed to use the MGTOW acronym on Reddit anymore after the purge. Of course the more toxic female equivalent (FDS) is permitted and even celebrated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/21 02:32 PM
2	How to think about home equity?? How do you own the house 50/50 while you are listed as the sole party on the mortgage? In either case you need to consult an attorney. If you didn’t own the house / down payment before the marriage, then odds are it will be considered marital property and the proceeds (net of sale minus existing balance and all fees/taxes) would be split equitably. Bottom line, talk to a lawyer.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/21 09:02 PM
1	NJ- What expenses you can ask from spouse - pendante lite ? If you’re both working and shared custody (50/50), the cost of daycare should be split evenly. And if she actually makes more than you it’s unlikely she’ll get CS either with 50/50.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/21 09:39 PM
1	Wife just walked out Don’t let the door hit you where the good lord split you.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/09/21 06:15 PM
1	Did anyone else really throw themselves into work after their divorce? It seems like a band aid but after almost four years and a couple relationships I just feel empty and keeping busy doesn't really cut it. How old are you, out of curiosity? You said you are 4 years removed from a 20 year marriage and you are looking for 30-40 something dates. Could be that you need to adjust your potential dating pool to something a little more mature.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/09/21 10:13 AM
11	The best thing a guy can have going for him to get a particular girl is to be her physical type It’s called hyperbole man…look it up. Whoosh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/21 03:34 AM
6	Rushing into a Separation Agreement Horrible language. Basically kicking you out while leaving you in the hook for the mortgage for an undetermined period of time. Don’t move out and get a lawyer now. She’s going to fuck you.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/21 06:43 PM
25	Rushing into a Separation Agreement Horrible language. Basically kicking you out while leaving you in the hook for the mortgage for an undetermined period of time. Don’t move out and hat a lawyer mow. She’s going to fuck you.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/21 06:43 PM
2	Question on income... Don’t take on the extra part time job and income until after the divorce is final. They will use that in your income calculations and will result in you owing her even more.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/08/21 06:52 PM