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They try to go "bi" with girls often, and it never lasts. You know what they do? Play with toy cocks to mimic what we have. I am supportive of actual lesbians, and respect them, but there are some who HATE men, and those are the ones who often have a bad experience with guys, their fathers or otherwise.
/r/MensRights13/03/25 07:05 AM
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Every feminist needs a one eyed monster in their mouth to block the nonsense coming out.
/r/MensRights13/03/25 07:04 AM
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There is a problem. Our chase for it is primal. It causes chaos sometimes. I do not understand how men can go monk mode and forego it.
/r/MensRights13/03/25 07:02 AM
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pump and dump. Get your nut men, n move on.
/r/MensRights13/03/25 05:12 AM
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Smooth pink gets on the brain and makes us make bad choices, so yea.
/r/MensRights13/03/25 05:09 AM
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unless you're horny. Problem is after you have the nut goggles off and you have clarity you realize you made a huge mistake.
/r/MensRights13/03/25 03:16 AM
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Why are guys who are active, hit the gym, healthy but fail to meet some arbitrary height requirement rewarding fat women who have nothing to offer but a pussy with cock?
/r/MensRights13/03/25 03:15 AM
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As I understand it gays have it just as hard on apps, the competition is harsh and very mean, at least according to my friend.
/r/MensRights13/03/25 03:14 AM
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I'm in my 30s. I used the apps to date, and I am a tall generally athletic white guy who is successful with career etc. I found the women I attracted all wanted my money more than what's between my legs.
/r/MensRights13/03/25 03:13 AM
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This is true. I am 6'2 and I notice compared to my buddies on apps that there is a huge disadvantage for short guys. I have a good asian friend, and he gets really down about it: he feels he's at a double disadvantage. I think there is an element, cruelly, of natural selection at play. And there is a perception there that white men have inches on asian guys upstairs and downstairs. The competition is just ridiculous, even if you want a serious relationship not just sex.
/r/MensRights13/03/25 03:10 AM
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What was your purpose on the app? If you're looking for a girlfriend you were right to call it out. If you were looking for easy pussy for a nut, you kinda shot that possibility down.
/r/MensRights13/03/25 03:05 AM
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You need to make male friends.
/r/MensRights12/03/25 07:26 AM
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And now, Elon Musk is busy setting policies to enrich his buddies at the top. I see no hope for the future, at all.
/r/MensRights12/03/25 06:45 AM
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If we revert to a state of nature, that myth comes crashing down. We are bigger, have more body mass, more strength, and many among us have leadership skills, let's face it, most women don't have. Not to mention our orgasm produces LIFE, we are certainly necessary.
/r/MensRights12/03/25 06:44 AM
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They think the way to get pussy they seek is to suck up to feminists.
/r/MensRights12/03/25 01:53 AM
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Well, don't gay guys have transphobia to trans men? Are they treated the same as biological males on the gay apps? I think the "threat" or "disgust" factor towards gay guys is not a real problem these days from straight guys, not like it used to be. Is this your experience, or have you had problems with guys being nasty?
/r/MensRights11/03/25 04:37 AM
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Because there is a coalition of feminist women who hate men, feminist men, and a majority of gays who for some reason have formed an alliance against straight men. I don't get why the gay rights movement has aligned against us instead of forming allies, they are men just like us.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 10:36 PM
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I should add that some men are raped by other men. I think a guy getting penetrated can be destructive to his ego and sense of self. It's fucked up but I have a friend who had this happen to him by a gay guy who got him drunk. He was penetrated. Woke up limping and in pain. When he reported it he said the shame was overwhelming, he dropped the issue eventually because no one believed him. I should offer to listen to him.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 10:34 PM
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How many women diffuse bombs? I prefer a guy to fly my plane because guys tend to be rational, and calmer under pressure.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 07:11 AM
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yep, age old formula, they leverage their pussy as collateral, because they don't want to do shit. I am a high earner - not a billionaire, but that pink tight pussy isn't where it stops buddy. They get their hands into your wallet, and emotionally pull strings to make you into a puppet.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 06:55 AM
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On tindr, ask the asian men the attention they get from women. Not much. I say this as a white guy with an asian buddy, and I feel bad for him, but it's reality. Competing with tall white men with inches upstairs and downstairs is harder tbh. BUT MONEY can level a playing field I guess.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 06:51 AM
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I'm a high earning white man, and I steer clear of asian women. They chase me down because they want a free ride. I've dated several and they are seeking money and status even more than white women here. Then again my ex wife hopped from me to my friend who makes even more money, only to find out he had no respect for a woman who did that and dumped her. Too bad for her.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 06:48 AM
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I think asian men have it particularly hard. I say this as a tall white guy with a good asian single guy friend. He said on apps he just gets ignored or even bitchy comments. I believe that there is some element of natural selection at play due to the shorter stature and there being a desire for height programmed in for reproduction. Simply put its a disadvantage that they have less inches upstairs and downstairs on average. I think there may be some remnant of "white is better" BS as well among…
/r/MensRights10/03/25 06:47 AM
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They can't understand that we are straight forward, men are not passive aggressive. Women are resentful often and manipulative. A guy will tell you straight off if he has a problem with you, and we prefer to not hold a grudge. I have never met a straight guy who does behave in a manipulative and petty manner like women do. Some gays do this, but it is almost always the more effeminate ones. I object to any violence, but if someone is attacking me I reserve the right to defensive protection of my…
/r/MensRights10/03/25 06:44 AM
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Yes, an example of second wave would be - no matter what you think of her - Hillary Clinton, someone who wants a seat at the board room table and can dish it out and take it. Third wave is the queer liberation, gender war people who hate men. I support lgbt rights, but not as a weapon to demonize us, and that's what it's been. I've heard some say that our sexual desire is inherently a power dynamic that we seek because we insert ourselves into women. Sorry, that's basic biology, we have a natura…
/r/MensRights10/03/25 06:37 AM
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There are different types of feminists, as I understand it. There is "first wave" feminism in the 1800s and early 1900s when women fought for basic rights, like the right to vote, own property, and get an education. Then there was second wave feminism 1960s-80s, which was focused on equal pay, job opportunities, access to birth control, and the right to make reproductive choices. Then there is third wave feminism, which was focused on intersectionality, different races, ethnicities, sexualities,…
/r/MensRights10/03/25 06:32 AM
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The situation there is abhorrent. I do feel badly for the civilians be they women or men caught up in that. Of course the kids growing up like that is a tragedy, just like the tens of thousands of dead and injured kids in Gaza and the hostages or killed from Israel, what a mess. It's all bad.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 06:24 AM
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I hope so. My dad worked very hard and wasn't really around for my childhood and I don't want to repeat that. I am a "high earner" and my ex wife definitely has tried to plunder my financial assets, fortunately the damage has not been as bad as it could have been. I'm currently saving away for my son so he won't need to take out a loan for college or expenses. I want him to be set up for success, I have high earning friends who tell me things like "well they're on their own". I don't get it.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 06:21 AM
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I am not opposed to ERA in principle. If it means that men and women need to be treated EQUALLY UNDER THE LAW I think that would be good.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 12:34 AM
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I had a doctor do it. She FORCIBLY retract my foreskin. I sat there with so much pain, just from it being exposed to air, I wanted to vomit. Terrible experience.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 12:33 AM
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I am raising my son to be in touch with his feelings, and to be proud of accomplishments and open to working with others in collaboration. I want my son to feel free to be who he is without lots of constraints on his behavior due to expectations of others. My ex wife, for all her faults, does generally agree with me on this, and I am happy to coordinate with her in the effort to give my son a quality life.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 12:29 AM
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Does this mean you do not have sex with or date women at all? I am not as strong as you, and I have found ways to meet my needs to be with femininity for sex.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 12:28 AM
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Exactly. I'm not sure how anyone can support Putin and Russia in this conflict, or advocate abandoning Ukraine instead of supporting negotiations in which the US goes in as an advocate of Ukraine seeking a settlement that is fair.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 12:24 AM
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I'm sorry this happened to you. I have been humiliated, and had sexual assault by women in postions of power when I was younger, it's awful for a young man to experience for his ego. You can't say it to anyone without being scoffed at.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 12:22 AM
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"No point in convo so have a nice day = can't withstand scrutiny. Who said I am in agreement with everything on the left? I do not agree with the identity politics wing within the "left". I am a center left person: I want working class Americans to have access to a hand up to a better life. That means affordable higher education and job skills training for a global economy they have to face. I think protectionism and tarrifs are foolish, we know they don't work, and if you need historical exampl…
/r/MensRights10/03/25 12:18 AM
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Russia is recruiting, by force, as well.
/r/MensRights09/03/25 08:06 AM
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I'm not sure what Ukraine has anything, at all, to do with mens rights. Since you're talking about it: what kind of person would support Russia's decision to attack a country and steal parts of it's territory???
/r/MensRights09/03/25 08:05 AM
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Exactly. We are needed.
/r/MensRights09/03/25 08:02 AM
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I can say I have never once been unable to nut. I am intact and I wonder how many guys saying they just ejaculate but don't orgasm are circumcised.
/r/MensRights09/03/25 08:01 AM
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I can't help it if they don't explore and know their bodies like we do. I can get myself off, like most men, easily. The reason they burden men with the idea that we HAVE to make it happen, is that they aren't in touch with their bodies like we are.
/r/MensRights09/03/25 07:52 AM
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Yes, this is total bullshit. I agree. I will add that sex is a group effort, we're both working to please each other, or we should. The idea that it is my "burden" to "make" her cum is just absurd. I admit I've outsourced the work to the "rabbit" a few times, and it 100% works every time. lol
/r/MensRights09/03/25 07:51 AM
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EDIT, I see the DATES point. I thought he meant false accusations at work. You'd still need her informed consent in California, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Illinois, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Montana, Oregon, Nevada, New Hampshire, Pennsylvania, and Washington. Most other states permit audio recording without consent (one party consent states), so, this is likely possible there without legal problem.
/r/MensRights09/03/25 04:46 AM
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RE Populism. So you're against elites and for working people, so you support electing a billionaire and his buddy. Makes sense. Not comfortable with the emerging blatant kleptocracy: billionaires buying out a president for 200 million dollars, then proceeding to support tax cuts for other billionaires isn't exactly a great precedent. I also like the idea of campaign finance reform that Republicans abhor. Citizens united is an abortion of a ruling: why is money "speech"? Why are corporations "peo…
/r/MensRights09/03/25 04:41 AM
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Yeah. I watched this and it was hard to empathize with the guy tho, as well. He engaged with the stalker instead of saying no, fuck, the guy had SEX with his stalker to encourage more stalking because he got off on it. I found that very odd. The stalker was full on insane, but the guy was engaging with it and even had sex with the stalker. That's just a bit weird. I have to say the trans he had sex with was a lot hotter than many girls.
/r/MensRights08/03/25 11:56 PM
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I am not phobic of anyone or anyone's religious views. If we permit photos in public of anyone the rules must apply to everyone, regardless if they are Amish or Muslim. Same rules for all. This is common sense.
/r/MensRights08/03/25 11:45 PM
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I'm not a populist. Pandering to people's stupidity is a bad idea. Majorities in the South supported segregation, pandering to that is a mistake. Instead, "elite" courts struck it down, as they should have. Masses are asses, populism is how you get bad policy. We need a vision that challenges the excesses of identity politics while still upholding values of inclusion, fairness, and justice. That means pushing for policies that address men’s issues, such as mental health, education, and economic …
/r/MensRights08/03/25 02:26 PM
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I'm for men's rights. I resent the idea that I have to be a Republican or a conservative to support equality. I can't stand Trump.
/r/MensRights05/03/25 12:06 PM
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Men's rights is NOT a right wing issue. It's an equality issue. Some push the narrative that being for equality means I have to like Trump and the Republican agenda, and I don't.
/r/MensRights05/03/25 12:03 PM
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I also absolutely cannot stand Trump.
/r/MensRights05/03/25 06:21 AM
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I'm white. I'm NOT a Republican. I have issues with those who think that being for men's rights means that I have to be a conservative or Republican. I'm neither. I'm ready to form alliances with Democrats who are good, like Whitmer in Michigan. I support worker's rights, collective bargaining, equality for LGBT people, affordable higher education, healthcare reform, more affordable medications with govt actually negotiating over drug prices, etc etc etc etc.
/r/MensRights05/03/25 06:21 AM
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Sure, why not? Who the hell gives a crap? Why should anyone care if black or gay or whatever minority wants to make a group for themselves to have some shared space for them to talk etc? Why should that bother me???
/r/MensRights05/03/25 04:07 AM
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This is precisely what is wrong with the culture war nonsense. People here want to align with it. I don't like it. I see men's rights as an equality issue, not a right wing Fox news issue.
/r/MensRights04/03/25 07:46 AM
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This is where I feel uneasy about many here who see men's rights as a right wing issue. I do not. I view it as an equality issue. I am not offended if minorities have a group of their own at my university or at West Point or in organizations, why does that matter? I'm white, straight and a male, and I'm completely fine with it if there is an LGBT group at my workplace. What does it matter? Good for them.
/r/MensRights04/03/25 07:45 AM
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Yes. Of course. The problem we are dealing with is that not all men are toxic just because they are men or because they are masculine. Of course, there are some toxic men, just like there are some toxic women. A toxic man may deny his emotions and believe he must hide everything because feelings are a weakness. He may also prey on vulnerable people and exploit them. In the same way, a toxic woman may use emotional manipulation to get what she wants. Toxicity is not limited to men. Not all men ar…
/r/MensRights04/03/25 01:30 AM
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Yea the problem is that she is funding a luxurious lifestyle, subsized by me. Doing nothing. No job. She chased a bigger wallet and found out the hard way that most men don't have respect for a woman, and don't want a relationship with one, who cheats on her husband, even if she cheated with you.
/r/MensRights03/03/25 03:38 PM
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I can fathom. We wanted to see the pyramids. You need to respect the local culture you are in, and their norms. Just like we should expect the same here. I don't think it's appropriate or right that people sexually harassed her and tried to grope her: However I warned her to respect their culture: don't wear short shorts and skimpy top in Egypt. When she dressed modestly there were zero problems. I'm not for their behavior, but I know when you are in Rome you do as the Romans do, or you don't go…
/r/MensRights02/03/25 02:01 AM
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In what country? I've been to Egypt and I was with a woman. Catch 22- I think the gender separateness is part of what makes them like that, which is also why people advocate separateness for safety. It's a cycle. I warned the girl I was with NOT to wear shorts there. She's blond and blue eyed, men were trying to grab at her and I had to hold her close and shout if you touch my wife you will have a problem (we weren't married). Several tried to grab her. I can only imagine if we were on a train t…
/r/MensRights01/03/25 07:56 AM
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One of the great things about being male is a propensity to focus on logic and merit of the argument and not emotions. No one is being insensitive. It's right and just to call him out for his life choices, which are just shitty. You should not have kids with people "every time you meet a woman". What kind of financial and emotional relationship does a dad have with kids when he's pumping them out like puppies? Take responsibility for your life choices.
/r/MensRights01/03/25 07:48 AM
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Absolutely yes. There are some here who identify men's rights with a right wing movement, and I really dislike that. I'm traditionally a centrist democrat, and I don't feel comfortable identifying the idea that men deserve equality just as all people do with being right wing or left wing. I think billionaires should pay taxes, and I appreciate some of the good unions have accomplished, I think education should be accessible and affordable and healthcare should too. None of those things align aga…
/r/MensRights01/03/25 12:25 AM
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I don't particularly like aligning men's rights with one side of the political spectrum. I like forming allies and making a broad coalition and I generally like Whitmer.
/r/MensRights28/02/25 06:36 AM
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Being direct: I don't want a giant labia or huge clit. Not hot to me. I'm not asking them to mutilate themselves to please me. That's the difference.
/r/MensRights27/02/25 04:44 AM
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Guys don't have to be into them. I also think it's fair to admit biological sex is real. I also think it's fair to treat them equally under law, why not call them by pronouns of choice and why not let them use the restroom of their choice if they present as that gender? I'm straight but I am confident enough in my sexuality to admit that the ultra passable trans can be objectively attractive if they have all the right looks. Some guys are not into them, some date them, some just are curious for …
/r/MensRights27/02/25 04:41 AM
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Nawwww not for me.
/r/MensRights27/02/25 04:38 AM
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Am I allowed to just be honest that I find it unappealing when it's large? It's far more attractive to me when it's all small, pink and hairless. I don't shame them though.
/r/MensRights27/02/25 12:47 AM
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If you're openly sharing that you have kids with multiple women you’ve “met,” then that becomes fair game for discussion. Superior? I personally don’t father children with multiple women because I want my kid to grow up in a stable home with a good education, what are you doing to provide for kids you are fathering? I'm calling it as I see it. Instead of wondering why you’re having trouble with women, maybe you should take a step back and think about your actions. Why are you getting multiple wo…
/r/MensRights26/02/25 05:50 AM
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Very gay. There is a guy who wrote a book about the "gay state" to make a gay country built by immigration from other societies. Gays from repressive countries would always have a state to run to in the event of terror against their people. It's an interesting idea. Men have strong urges, I'm curious how an all male society would work, you'd have other problems.
/r/MensRights26/02/25 04:20 AM
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I agree with you that speech should be free, however, the line is drawn in every country in different areas. The US has a pretty broad definition of free speech compared to most other countries. Thanks to the First Amendment, we can say pretty much whatever we want, even if it's controversial or offensive, as long as it doesn't directly cause harm like inciting violence. Hate speech is largely protected here, which is rare in other places. In other countries, free speech is more restricted. In G…
/r/MensRights26/02/25 04:18 AM
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Judging from his post he's the father of a lot of other women's kids. He needs to re-evaluate how he's conducting his life. He's making bad choices. People who have foresight don't do that shit.
/r/MensRights25/02/25 07:21 AM
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Yeah - it's messed up that anyone is making liters of kids like that. Think of the lives he's creating. Ya think those kids have emotional or financial stability? This is how you end up with the mess we are in.
/r/MensRights25/02/25 07:01 AM
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Red flag. This guy needs to go get a vasectomy. Ever see the movie idiocracy? Look at who's having all the kids. Meanwhile, I went to graduate school, 10 years of post secondary education. I got married and had ONE son, and this guy is talking about multiple kids from multiple women. He will go on to have many, many kids, and I produced one. People who think having kids is just a side effect of their sex life cost society. We pay for it: emotional problems due to the family instability, need for…
/r/MensRights25/02/25 06:57 AM
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Making enough money. Seriously, I pay child support and I wouldn't mind it if it weren't subsidizing her lifestyle same as the alimony. I'm a high earner so we get extra punished. I am going to store away money for my kid so when he goes to college I will tell him, here ya go it's all paid for, through graduate school. To be used only for tuition and room and board, with condition of 3.0 or better every semester and a STEM degree or field with robust employment opportunities, go ahead and do a s…
/r/MensRights24/02/25 03:54 AM
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I found it funny you mention the Masons and follow by the KNights of columbus. Catholics aren't supposed to join the Masons hehe.
/r/MensRights23/02/25 03:07 PM
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I always find it interesting when people blame the UN for inaction etc. The UN, itself does not have independent authority to do anything unless collective action is taken by nation states. The UN is a forum for states to communicate, and coordinate. The inaction on the Rwandan genocide is the fault of the nation states in the UN, not the UN.
/r/MensRights23/02/25 03:01 PM
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I am dreading the day when I find out exactly how much trash my greedy ex wife talks about me to my son. She uses him as a pawn for more money. I worked hard and I am a higher earner, she feels entitled to my money despite having cheated on me with my friend, gee, cuz he's an even higher earner. Joke's on her, he dumped her quick after she started getting into his wallet.
/r/MensRights23/02/25 07:23 AM
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There should be men's meetups.
/r/MensRights23/02/25 07:20 AM
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There are co-ed bathrooms at Seattle Airport. It's really revolting. I feel violated when I see a woman in the bathroom I go to. I want a separate space for men: I also want urinals in the bathroom which we can't have when they come and invade our space. GET OUT.
/r/MensRights23/02/25 07:19 AM
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There are also uncut forums, and a phimosis forum for men dealing with issues related to their intact penis.
/r/MensRights22/02/25 05:41 PM
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Both free options. I can afford to pay but I hate being used. Biological women off apps, like tindr, when I can. When I am stuck, passable trans with tits. You'd be surprised at how attractive and passable they can be. Being direct, if its taped up and panties stay on you could be fooled you're with a bio woman.
/r/MensRights22/02/25 03:58 PM
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Well, being direct. DMd you. I also am not hyper fixated on head, most men aren't I think, but I think most women are shit at sucking that's why from what I've experienced. Being direct, I also got my fuck on. Doggy, panties on, big titties when I reached to grab em. The rest of the stuff stayed away from me and they were fine w that. Taped up and hidden from view as if it didn't exist from what I could tell.
/r/MensRights22/02/25 05:22 AM
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I don't see any sense in hiding or shame. I want reg head and this accomplishes the job.
/r/MensRights22/02/25 04:13 AM
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I have done it before but I don't feel I should have to pay. I've done it in Thailand where it's just 20 bucks, always used a condom. I've opted to not date and I meet girls on apps sometimes, when it rarely happens, and passable trans for quick trysts, not sure I will continue this approach.
/r/MensRights22/02/25 01:50 AM
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I am posting MY experience, I am not providing advice to anyone else, simply my view and my situation. I'm not sure why anyone would downvote me. I'm not disagreeing with anyone or trashing anyone. I don't listen to any of the incel comments thrown at me, because I am not one. I am very successful in my career, highly educated, work is great. Was athletic in high school and college and in good shape now still. Ex wife, cheated on me with a guy who makes even more cash. Funny how that works. Date…
/r/MensRights21/02/25 11:34 PM
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YEP!
/r/MensRights21/02/25 05:18 AM
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We do not know if there will be a shut down of the program, if there is if it will be retroactive, or if people will be grandfathered in. We will see. Rumors are flying.
/r/MensRights21/02/25 02:45 AM
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Good on you buddy. Support each other.
/r/MensRights21/02/25 02:17 AM
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It sounds like you are suggesting that universities are more focused on making money than on providing education, which is a separate debate. If the question is whether universities would resist policies that limit tuition increases, that depends on how much they rely on government funding, research grants, and private donations. I don't think I'd disagree with your premise on that point. Banks do offer student loans, but they are very different from government loans. Federal student loans have …
/r/MensRights21/02/25 02:05 AM
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PUBLIC universities that take STATE FUNDING, our tax dollars, should not be permitted to charge tuition "as they see fit". Your fake libertarian BS is so soft on corporate overlords but tough on people struggling. The VA pays a lot lot less than a doctor in private practice, 20% less than our private practice counterparts. If you want to take away loan forgiveness for me after the contractually obligated 10 years of payments I have to make, then you'll need to pay any doctor more to treat vets, …
/r/MensRights21/02/25 01:43 AM
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That's not the deal. I became a physician under a contractual agreement. My promissory note explicitly includes the Public Service Loan Forgiveness program signed into law by President Bush in 2007. This is not some optional benefit. It is baked into my contract. If you are getting the facts wrong or worse intentionally ignoring them that is a serious problem. If you want to make all student loans a private enterprise subject to private banks that is fine. Just apply it to new loans moving forwa…
/r/MensRights21/02/25 12:02 AM
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Yeah, see, I felt like I don't agree with many people on either side, you're def speaking my language.
/r/MensRights20/02/25 10:14 PM
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Not sure why the guys here are active supporters of this bullshit? I am anti feminist, anti woke, anti the elements of LGBT that hate straight white men. Otherwise I tolerate everyone. I don't get it.
/r/MensRights20/02/25 09:59 PM
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Wait a minute. That is the business it's in. If you want to change that make that apply to everyone else moving forward. The government made an agreement with me when I took out my loans. Ya got a word for the corporate kick backs given out to mega billionaires, the bailouts the government did for those industries and continues to do? The tax cuts for them? Your target are STUDENTS trying to get ahead in the world? That's fucked up and counter intuitive: you realize the Germans, Japanese, the Ch…
/r/MensRights20/02/25 09:43 PM
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Agreed. Not boot licking. I worked hard, I'm a doctor who works with disadvantaged populations. Studied for years and years. Went to PUBLIC schools and have hundreds of thousands of debt. Took a job making less money with the expectation of student loan forgiveness in public service debt relief that BUSH started. Now they want to eliminate it. There is a definite anti intellectualism going on in our country, it will 100% disadvantage us in a global economy. Other countries aren't waging war agai…
/r/MensRights20/02/25 09:39 PM
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Why should public funded education cost hundreds of thousands in tuition? Have a family member who went to school in the early 60s: It was 50 bucks a semester, and that included the books, because the funding came from the govt then. Other countries know that to compete in a global economy public education should be public: tuition free or very affordable tuition. Why does the government actually PROFIT off student loans? In other countries, where there are student loans the interest rate is jus…
/r/MensRights20/02/25 09:32 PM
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The downvoting which is aggressive of my comment really is disappointing. You realize that in other countries - to compete in the global economy - state funded education is tuition free. There is almost a climate of anti education going on in the US, and it's concerning. Why exactly should students be saddled with debt for public education as I am?
/r/MensRights20/02/25 09:28 PM
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Those of you who downvoted me: I am a physician. May I ask why the government should be making MONEY off my student loan? Most countries lend money and make the loan out so it just breaks even: the government is literally PROFITING off the backs of students. I participate in a program - started in 07 by Bush, where I serve the VA, and in exchange my loans get discharged after ten years of payments. Changing those rules on me now, as I am nearing the end, is simply wrong. I studied for years and …
/r/MensRights20/02/25 09:26 PM
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Not particularly happy with "DOGE" and Trump wanting to cut student loan forgiveness for people who work in public service. That was part of the deal when I took out these student loans that they were forgiveable. I work in a career that is a huge asset to people's health and I'm upset that this is being considered. I hope he won't do it.
/r/MensRights20/02/25 08:11 PM
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I'll never forget when I was younger I worked at the college library. Two women came up to me and told me an "older" guy was staring at them and making them uncomfortable. I go up to the guy and have to ask him to leave because he's making them uncomfortable (my boss told me to). I see that he is a very good looking man in his early 30s, or so. I'll never forget how shocked the guy was. It was so absurd.
/r/MensRights20/02/25 04:11 AM
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Questioned if she was a lesbian? Lol. Sounds like an angry lesbian. You don't need to "Question" it if you're actually a lesbian. Sounds like she needs cock in her mouth to stop the whining. Some icing on her face would probably help too.
/r/MensRights19/02/25 03:17 AM
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I do not have the will power to do that. I have strong needs and they have to be met. My approach is one lots of guys trash me for, but I opt to meet very passable trans for certain needs. It's no strings we both part ways afterwords and everyone wins. It works, for now. I won't lie that post nut clarity sometimes hits hard even with the most passable ones, but it fades. It beats dating and marrying women who have chased my wallet more than me.
/r/MensRights19/02/25 02:04 AM
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Women withold and leverage their pussies, and the consequences of that is going to be not great. Young men need it and they should not be in a war against one another to get it. The time is now to end the monopoly women have in this area.
/r/MensRights19/02/25 01:54 AM
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You're just 16 man. No need to feel that way. You will get pussy. It will happen. Just Focus on yourself: go to school and get a degree in a field that makes money (and helps people if thats what you want): Medicine (md, nursing/NP, physical therapist, physician's assistant etc), law, engineering, finance, you name it. INVEST in yourself. When you graduate high school lookup careers on BLS reports, take out student loans attend your community college get a 4.0 in your pre-requisite courses, you …
/r/MensRights19/02/25 01:53 AM
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Oh bud, I've been there. I am a successful high earner, and I've had my (now ex) wife chase me for my wallet. She then proceeded to chase my higher earning friend. I've dated several women since my divorce and every single one is the same. I'd love to go monk mode but I can't bring myself to do it, I have needs that have to be met, no matter what. My alternative, imperfect as it is, is to meet girls on r4r, and apps when I CAN, and passable trans for when I can't to meet those needs. I get a lot…
/r/MensRights19/02/25 01:27 AM
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Dont you know? Straight white men are "evil". Even worse if you're tall and successful. We're the last group it's ok to hate.
/r/MensRights19/02/25 01:23 AM
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It's virulent. Other subs ban me, they try to ban your account etc. It's bullying on a whole other level just because we are men. Many women just hate men, except for the one "good one" they can dominate. I am a high earner and I have had my ex wife and many girlfriends chase me for cash. I'm not yet ready to go "monk mode" because I have needs, but I opt out of women. I have resorted to meeting trans to fulfill certain needs, but I can't even be in their subs either or I get banned. White strai…
/r/MensRights19/02/25 01:21 AM
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I've had a woman stick a finger in me as she sucked me off, and I did not like it at all. I understand that many men like that, but for me it was uncomfortable and the thought of more of that seems like it would feel violating. As for your question: a twink with no body hair and more blond and feminine traits could suffice in absence of the real thing as well. There are a ton of them these days, seems like they are proliferating. lol Your talk of being open to male male release has me thinking, …
/r/MensRights18/02/25 10:12 AM
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Where the fuck is 50? Seriously though: invest in yourself. That means go to school, pick a degree that earns a good salary and do that. Look it up on BLS reports the govt has to see salary and forecast for the need for the career in the future. Go to the gym, work out, lift weights, and make male friends don't stay on your computer all day. These are good tips to avoid heartache.
/r/MensRights18/02/25 08:00 AM
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I agree with you that men seek erotic fulfillment more than intimacy generally speaking. We are speaking broadly. The reality is that the feeling of a woman's body is very different than the hard, hairy male body. Same with the smell of a man. Those are just a turn off to most men, myself included. To answer your question: if women were NOT available and trans didn't exist, then I would be forced to do other things. Unlike the men here commenting I am honest enough to admit that I have sexual ne…
/r/MensRights18/02/25 05:04 AM
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People in flaming ultra liberal cities especially need the support. NYC, Seattle, San Francisco. I am a Democrat, I believe in worker's rights, unions, equality, taxing billionaires, but whatever the far left is today, it doesn't resemble anything of what it was. It's now anti men, anti white men especially. As a straight white man I feel like a target is on me when I speak.
/r/MensRights18/02/25 01:43 AM
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Interesting points. How could sexual intimacy with a man fulfill a straight man sexually? That's confusing. After all look at the comments I got from men here trashing me for seeing trans instead of women just to meet needs. I find guys bodies, and cocks etc to be a turn off, and I am guessing most straight men do. Regarding the biological drive to have sex, it's not just thinking with our little head: that drive is VERY strong within us because of our evolution. It's our desire to find somethin…
/r/MensRights18/02/25 01:25 AM
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My ex wife was fucking my best friend and got pregnant. I will never talk to that garbage again. I have a very successful career but she went for a guy who has deeper pockets yet, good news is he's dumping her and he was cheap as fuck with her. With women like this who needs them?
/r/MensRights17/02/25 10:06 PM
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I am in a "high earning" career and women in my field complain a lot about family and other obligations, while men simply don't. They pull their weight. If women want to be in my field they need to pull their weight or not take the job. Men are being abused, genitally mutilated, cornered, humiliated for masculinity. It's time to stand up to the nonsense.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 09:17 PM
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The Alphabet lgbtq etc mafia are the ones who are obsessed with liberating them into the misery they suffer.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 06:09 PM
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Women are approaching the same level of partners as gay men now. Like gays though, women will learn that this path of high number of partners will lead to lonliness, and an inability to date. Gays who are trapped into this are often stuck "hunting" for something better, always. I have seen many end up alone and miserable in this manner, and women might want to think twice before adopting that model.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 06:08 PM
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Yes. I have attracted and been with women much younger than me, and I know that money and status are a motivation. I do live humbly, generally speaking, and have financial security, that's my real motivation, not greed. Young men here who defind themselves as "incel" need to invest in their education, take out those horrible student loans for a degree that matches their interest and makes money. Think, law, medicine, engineering, accounting, finance, not art and philosophy, although those are gr…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 06:00 PM
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Do your fundamental needs as a man require a woman, or is that simply the only solution society has offered for so long, that you can't imagine any other (plus a healthy dose of encouraging phobia against anything else)? I'm not sure I understand the question. If you're into women how could you have your needs met without a woman for sex? I felt I found a solution, albeit a very imperfect one, what's your alternative? Circumcision was promoted in the 19th and early 20th centuries as a way to sup…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 05:51 PM
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You're absoluetly right that most still have their cock and balls, but not all. I've had many passable ones, who you'd never have ANY idea were trans. Also, if you're getting oral you don't see their junk, and many do in fact hide it away when you mess around because they prefer not to even have it. Yes, I've had no issue meeting the very passable ones, I live in a big city and I am a tall athletic white guy. I *could* meet actual women, however, my experience has been that the vast majority are…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 08:09 AM
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Yep. You got it. 100%
/r/MensRights17/02/25 08:04 AM
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I said I'm not exactly proud of it, because I would like a woman, without the hassle I've had. I am straight, but I am not upset at the idea that I could be bi. I just have no attraction men's bodies, muscular physiques, or genitalia, men's voices or how men smell, and have body hair. I like all the the feminine aspects that women have, how women smell, their soft bodies, long hair, pretty faces, and yes, a nice pair of tits etc. If I look at a completely passable trans with big rack and beautif…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 04:54 AM
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"Societal expectations: Young men are often expected to conform to traditional masculine norms while also being expected to be sensitive and emotionally expressive, creating conflicting expectations that can lead to feelings of confusion and demonization." You are 100% expected to conform to masculine norms AND be sensitive. It's a tall order for young men. Women were much more normal when I was in high school: there were more "rules" then and less expectations on men. I've noticed men's body im…
/r/MensRights17/02/25 03:02 AM
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"As I’ve said, you do you. I can’t imagine doing what you do to satisfy your needs, but it doesn’t have anything to do with me; so what I would do doesn’t matter." You're right. It's those strings that have made me seek my needs in other avenues. I'm not exactly proud of it, but it meets my needs. I don't want to date or marry, but I am open to it if I meet a genuine woman who is normal. Not holding my breath. If I get sick passable trans I'll go monk mode next.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 02:58 AM
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What gymnastics? I'm not opposed to being "into trannies", after all I can have sexual release with them when I feel up for it. I have no interest in men's bodies, muscles, hair, or cocks. Nothing wrong with people who are into that, but I am not. I've only dated and married women, and I am only into women. I find that I can sidestep the female monopoly on casual sex, have no strings attached with dating etc, and get my needs met for now by meeting trans "girls". I also know this isn't for every…
/r/MensRights16/02/25 11:56 PM
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You stated that I am angry, however I am struggling to see any "anger" in anything I wrote. I'm not angry. Also, I can find terms offensive without them referring to me, just like I find racial slurs offensive against minorities even though I am a white guy. I'm not giving anyone a suggestion on what they should do, I'm just telling you what worked for me. I don't want to pay for sex, but I am not opposed to the idea as a rule, just not up for that right now. I find that the "tranny stuff" as yo…
/r/MensRights16/02/25 11:52 PM
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I resent the term, and I am not even an incel. I was always athletic, and enjoyed friendship of other guys. I played sports in high school and dated many women in college as well. I am a "high earner", in the (low end) of the top 2% of salaries. I have had experience after experience with women who date and married me for my money, only to see them jump to men with MORE money. My wife did just that. I'm not materialistic, life is about more than money, and I don't want someone who wants me for m…
/r/MensRights16/02/25 08:08 PM
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Not only do we have a RIGHT to push back we have an obligation to do so for our own sanity and dignity. Having masculine traits and values is not a crime, in fact it is a virtue. I am not quite at monk mode, but after my "wife" married me for my money and jumped beds to my friend who makes a bit more money, I'm not dating more women. My alternative works for me, not for everyone, but I meet very passable trans who are happy to help me meet my needs. I think the next step should be monk mode. Can…
/r/MensRights16/02/25 08:02 PM
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That's the funny part about it all. I believe in equality under law and in relationships. The default now is that women are in control and get all the benefits. My ex wife married me for my money then ran off with my friend who has more money. No matter what you do you're the "bad guy". I'm not yet ready to go "monk mode" but I do not date women anymore. To meet my needs for femininity I meet very passable trans. So far it works. They are almost always cool with keeping the one thing I don't wan…
/r/MensRights16/02/25 07:59 PM
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For uncut boys the foreskin releases naturally in your teenage years. Your body knows what to do, and taking a bath helps. Any soap in that area will dry you out like crazy and is painful.
/r/MensRights16/02/25 05:36 PM
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It was bad. Forcing it back and I felt a "pop" kind of. Then I just felt nauseated because it had never been exposed. Years later I found out that you should not force it back hard.
/r/MensRights16/02/25 05:31 AM
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Women are judged by double standards, and in their favor. One of my worst experiences was a female doctor who gave me a physical as a teenager and forcibly retracted my foreskin when it was still attached. She left it exposed and I felt overwhelmed because it had never been exposed before and even the air felt like it "hurt", I was nauseated. Due to forcing it back that trauma caused the skin to adhere and it was painful pulling back again when it came time. Worst experience ever.
/r/MensRights16/02/25 04:09 AM
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I understand the desire for her to make the move. I'm a guy with a high earning job in healthcare. Aka prime target for lawsuits. I will not permit any woman to be alone with me in a room. The door remains wide open and people in earshot.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 10:35 PM
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I'm a high earning guy. I married one such woman, she ended up cheating on me with a friend who earns more. She's now in his wallet. I have dated a lot since then and every single time it's been the same situation, money grubbing. I'm no longer dating by choice. I am not prepared to go "monk mode" just yet, I have urges and needs, personally. My alternative, which I know isn't for everyone, is to meet passable trans to get the same needs met that a woman could do for me, all of the ones I have m…
/r/MensRights15/02/25 10:21 PM
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Makes sense. Was married, she cheated with a friend of mine. Pretty nasty stuff. Took years off my life. After getting back out there and dating, not good. I now seek very passable trans for casual encounters only, and generally avoid dating women. I'm still open to the remote possibility that there is a woman out there worth dating and not chasing after my wallet.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 08:08 AM
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Another reason why I reject women and opt for passable "hot" trans now.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 06:23 AM
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This is why men will organize and push back at this.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 06:19 AM
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Yeah, not a fan of what's going on over there either. They flattened it 20x over and now the proposal is to expel them forcibly not to return? That's ethnic cleansing. It's all insane.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 06:07 AM
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Yeah, I feel badly for those slaves they are using in China. Not sure why they can't just get legit workers, that's pretty low down and dirty of them.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 06:06 AM
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I hear you. The fully passable ones are rare, but I've been with them. I do not consider myself bisexual or gay because I do not like men, or penises or body hair or hard male bodies. Not sure what it makes me, but it's "easy" to score and kind of like an equivalent of tinder swipe that works easy.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 06:03 AM
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If I paid I would pay for a biological woman. I meet trans because compared to biological woman, the passable hot ones are easy to meet, and help meet needs I have physically without tethering strings like a relationship as with a biological woman. Without being graphic, I engage in the same activities as I would with a woman and not more.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 05:08 AM
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I identify as straight, only date women, married a woman, now single. I don't want another woman who wants my wallet. My alternative is that I've met very passable trans for trysts, but I'm not interested in dating. I only do what I would with a woman, so, I'm not sure if that makes me bisexual, but if so, that's fine. They are fine keeping the one thing I don't want away, hidden from view. I don't want penises and I'm not into men's bodies or faces and have never been with a guy. My needs are m…
/r/MensRights15/02/25 04:36 AM
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I don't pay, but why should we judge anyone who opts to do so? We all make our compromises in life. For some people, that means "monk mode" for others it means paying women, you pay them to go away and not deal with their BS. I get judged harshly for it here, but my solution is that I've met very passable trans a few times. Not sure my feelings about it all, but it's been "ala carte" and just what I needed in a difficult and lonely time.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 04:33 AM
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I do not pay for sex, however, I see nothing wrong with it if a man opts to do so, who am I to judge him? I have not ruled out meeting a "high end" "escort", like the kind in Vegas, I've had friends do it when we went to Vegas, but far I've refrained. I know guys also go to Thailand for a vacation and "fun" that is affordable. Not sure I'd do it, but I don't judge.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 04:31 AM
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I feel the same way. I married a woman who I later found out was after my wallet, she cheated on me too. Now she's found another man's wallet she has her hands in. People can downvote me away, but I have found that for ME I prefer to be with trans as an easy alternative to get the relief I would otherwise get from women. We all make compromises in life, and I am done with gold diggers and catering to what women want.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 04:28 AM
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Why am I being downvoted just for saying what *I* am doing? I'm not advocating others do or approve of my actions: This is one of the many reasons that I have opened up to passable trans to get the same needs met as I would with a biological woman. I can have the one part I don't want hidden away from me if everything else is hot, and none of the baggage or drama. I opened up to it when I saw the curves, smooth body, and big racks, gave it a try and it worked. I don't do anything I wouldn't do w…
/r/MensRights15/02/25 01:25 AM
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This is one of the many reasons that I have opened up to passable trans to get the same needs met as I would with a biological woman. I can have the one part I don't want hidden away from me if everything else is hot, and none of the baggage or drama. I don't do anything I wouldn't do with a woman. So far it's been an easier alternative.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 01:24 AM
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This is one of the many reasons that I have opened up to passable trans to get the same needs met as I would with a biological woman. I can have the one part I don't want hidden away from me if everything else is hot, and none of the baggage or drama. I don't do anything I wouldn't do with a woman. So far it's been an easier alternative.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 01:22 AM
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This is one of the many reasons that I have opened up to passable trans to get the same needs met as I would with a biological woman. I can ignore the one part I don't want if everything else is hot, and none of the baggage or drama.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 08:38 AM
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I agree. Yes, there are systemic problems and we need to address them without villifying the people who exist now.
/r/MensRights11/02/25 03:44 AM
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I can tell you why I am a Democrat. I am a Democrat, not an anti male feminist. I believe in economic and social policies that prioritize fairness, opportunity, and dignity for all. I support progressive policies that uplift working people, ensuring they receive fair wages, strong labor protections, and the right to unionize without intimidation. I admire Bernie Sanders and his advocacy for economic justice. I believe students shouldn't be crushed by debt for attending public universities, and w…
/r/MensRights11/02/25 03:43 AM
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I'm a Democrat, rather progressive on issues such as healthcare and ideas like affordable higher education (state university education should be tuition free). I don't like the idea of mixing church and state. I am against the absurd defense spending we are doing and I think we should invest in educating our people so we can face and be competitive in the global economy. All these bread and butter issues are reasons why I lean Democrat. I do not think that these issues mean I must sign up with t…
/r/MensRights21/01/25 07:06 PM
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I was married for over ten years and was basically in a prison. I felt alone. Not only this she cheated on me. Prior to this I had many girlfriends, and always felt alone and emotionally dominated by them. Not anymore. My solution isn't for everyone. I will no longer date women. I get sexual relief from m2f trans who are passable when I can find them. Not being graphic, but I get the same exact things I would do with women and not more. So far it works and I make sure to play safe always. I'm no…
/r/MensRights21/01/25 11:46 AM
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I wouldn't consider it gay. Why would a gay man like a man who looks like a woman with breasts? Gay men don't want that.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 12:57 AM
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I agree that gender is imaginary, but sex is real. If we're talking about gender then a trans woman is a woman, gender wise, but certainly not biologically. I can accept people on their terms to be nice to them but aknowledge a biological reality.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 12:55 AM
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Make friends! There are men out there willing to be your friend. Join groups. Hell, meet from here.
/r/MensRights19/01/25 11:52 PM
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