GoldenApplette Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	Being Nice vs Authentic	Discussion	GoldenApplette	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 08:11 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Promiscuity should be frowned upon by both sexes I understand the attempt to understand trends & brainstorm possible causes of those trends. An individual rarely has the credibility to talk in “we” statements unless respect from the group has been earned. An individual, however, has 100% credibility when talking in “I” statements. As an independent thinker, I value my freedom to smile on whatever I want. Explaining the reasoning behind one’s belief is one thing. Proselytizing a proposed mandate on how others should think is reprehensible in my…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 02:02 PM
1	Promiscuity should be frowned upon by both sexes Live and let live. Your post brings Idiocracy’s intro to mind - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sP2tUW0HDHA	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 11:09 PM
1	Being Nice vs Authentic Good reminder. Thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 01:17 AM
1	Being Nice vs Authentic I hear you. This hits closer to what I have been thinking about. Coming to realize perhaps moderation is the answer? I haven’t met you but based on your thoughtful and well-articulated response, you don’t strike me as unlikeable at all compared to a few other responses here. Thank you for sharing your experience. I appreciate you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 11:22 PM
1	Being Nice vs Authentic Interesting flip. I agree. The kernel I am pondering is the balance between the advice to stay silent to not make waves (domestically, in the office, or in relationships) vs moral obligation to say something to maintain one’s integrity (voicing disagreement with a partner’s opinion on a controversial subject like George Floyd, seeing a parent abuse a child in public, bullying in the office).	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 10:36 PM
2	Being Nice vs Authentic Food for thought. Thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 09:09 PM
2	Being Nice vs Authentic A well-liked member of a local niche community that runs a business hardly says a word. So much so many questioned his ability to speak when he first showed up. When I asked him about it he said it was a conscious decision to fiercely maintain his reputation via silence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 09:06 PM
5	Being Nice vs Authentic I agree. Thank you for that clarification and your comment - reminds me of the story of the daughter who loved her father like salt - https://readandripe.com/the-princess-who-loved-her-father-like-salt-by-anonymous/ Perhaps too much salt (truth) is what the don’t-say-anything adage advises against.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 09:02 PM
2	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. Disagree. In several European countries (especially France), a significant portion of men prefer older women. A small minority of men in the U.S. also share that preference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 08:17 PM