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But she won't commit? Don't white knight her and think she will come around or is in too fragile of a state for something "serious". "It's so long ago I felt this way" and "I don't want a relationship at the moment" are hard to reconcile. You've already turned her on physically and emotionally, but she still isn't willing to be with you? You see a problem here? You can either keep seeing her for physical reasons only, or next her if she doesn't accept you fully soon. You're too important and coo…
/r/seduction27/03/15 11:53 AM
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try to see more girls
/r/seduction26/03/15 11:44 PM
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Start with everything in the sidebar of /r/seduction. This will help you with those simple interactions very much.
/r/seduction22/05/13 10:21 PM
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I like romantic things. Not into casual sex. Seduction and the PUA have made me a better person and a better man, and finally I've been able to do what I've known I can do. I've been an un-tapped natural. Good looking, funny, smart, etc. Why wasn't I getting anywhere with the girls I liked? Simple social dynamics. Learning how to interact better, made me better at flirting, and made the girls want to come after me and not being a co-dependant chump, but a guy with an abundance mentality who stil…
/r/seduction20/05/13 09:29 PM
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... Basically... ... Mention something from the date... thread... Mention something for the next date... ... Also, why are you going on dates once a week or every two weeks? You shouldn't be on a date and say "How've you been?" very often. Simple check-in's I use: "How'd your weekend turnout?" Blah blah balh When she asks what you did, just make it sound like it was cool and fun. "How'd your week end up?" "I just saw blah blah blah, I think charm charm charm." Not have convos. Set up dates.
/r/seduction20/05/13 09:13 PM
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Shallow. Though it's called "The Game", an article like this that paints one sex as winners and one sex as losers is juvenile. It's sexist and it's also agist. Girls come running back to guys and realize they were dumb and made mistakes. Big freaking revelation. I honestly resent them for it and hope I never settle down with someone who was a total bitch like that. All those material things listed in the article are bullshit and I learned to stop trying to pick up shallow girls who are into mone…
/r/seduction21/01/13 07:28 AM
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This was sorta the point of my post. You can't read minds. I've had girls do this and some friends call her flakey only to find out she's really into me. Then there actually have been flakes. Setting up plans is best. Then a day or two before the plans (or week maybe in your case), hit her a reminder that says "looking forward to X? It's gonna be fun." Something simple. Then game the shit out of her in person so she wants to text you all the time. Any "ldr" I've been in always has a funny day, t…
/r/seduction21/01/13 03:21 AM
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Glad you decided to edit your reply. Best thing to do with these two girls is establish rapport and flirting in person, then transition it to texting if need be. Some would recommend heavy sexual innuendo and subtext.
/r/seduction21/01/13 03:16 AM
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Hm. I see. I have been in similar situations actually. Best thing has been setting up dates in advance. For instance, on Monday make plans for Thursday. Stay secure. But also I would let her know that even if she is infamous for not texting back, that won't really fly for you because it's not like you are texting her for no reason, too much, etc. She should adjust and you just stay cool and not clingy and she won't see you as needy. Also, phone calls work wonders. This is just personal advice an…
/r/seduction21/01/13 03:14 AM
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Sorry, man. That sucks. When it comes to your girlfriend not texting you back when you want to meet up, I don't know. That's more of a relationship thing instead of pick-up. /r/relationship_advice could maybe help you out if you gave more details. How long have you guys been going out? How often do you text?
/r/seduction20/01/13 09:14 PM
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Just say "leaving for a week. I'll hit you up when I get back. Maybe we can make plans." But honestly if she's not making time for you there is def a cooler girl who will. Hit her up when you get back but she sounds flakey. That doesn't just affect the now but down the road if things worked out she prob will not have the depth you deserve.
/r/seduction20/01/13 07:45 AM
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Just say good to meet you and try to refer to the rapport you had. "Hey it's X. Good meeting you, we should hang some time" will give you what you're looking for very often.
/r/seduction20/01/13 07:41 AM
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You believe her not answering back, ever, isn't necessarily a sign of disinterest? I believe it isn't necessarily an IOD. There are too many variables in this situation. Don't be attached, but don't be discouraged. That's abundance, being outcome independent. What/when would you text her next then? Many people here have had success with "If I was grading your text back skills, you would get an F!" with like a haha or something. Another simple thing is to ask her out again in the same way you did…
/r/seduction20/01/13 02:49 AM
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Ha. I just mean exercise and get in shape. No gym membership required for that.
/r/seduction20/01/13 01:40 AM
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Right. You won't get laid via text. Attraction is built in person is rule number one about text game. You are very correct. There is a huge lack of prosody when texting. It sucks and it is one reason texting is delicate. You can build some interest, though. Up front using it to set-up some plans is best. So you can then build some more attraction and rapport and go from there.
/r/seduction20/01/13 12:48 AM
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Honestly, it sounds like it already is. And yeah I know SB but never been to Ventura. The books and stuff are great for knowing about kino, qualifying, isolation, passing shit-tests, some shit other guys do naturally that if someone just told a guy he can do, but 80% of game is innergame which it sounds like you got. Just remember, man, you are buying not selling. Have fun, man.
/r/seduction20/01/13 12:42 AM
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Hmm, not sure. But I do know that if you can non-awkwardly ask why about one of their interests it has worked for me. "Yeah the weather has been weird. Didn't think it would be this cold" "You didn't? What's your favorite season then?" "I like summer." "Haha. Summer? that's original! Just kidding, no seriously, why's that your favorite? It's mine too." "Because it's hot, I can blah blah blah." KINO, because you basically just forced her to qualify "yeah, I like that blah blah blah." This is prob…
/r/seduction20/01/13 12:39 AM
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First off, adding someone on facebook hurts more then helps, imo. She isn't alone after class? "HB8, come over here and talk to me a sec." [she comes over] "You're fun. We should hang out some time. Let me get your number."
/r/seduction20/01/13 12:33 AM
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that sounds needy as hell.
/r/seduction20/01/13 12:32 AM
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Not a simple question. But usually after good convo, kino, etc., it should go something like "You seem like fun. We should hang out sometime. What's your number [as you hand over your phone]" that's one. If she says yes, next her in an hour saying it's so and so good to meet you we have to go get that pizza we talk about. or whatever. if she says no. just say "oh man, and I thought you were cool. Just kidding. It was nice meeting you."
/r/seduction20/01/13 12:31 AM
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The same way you become interesting to women your age, be your kind of awesome. More practically, make what's attractive about an older guy come out in you. You should have a great bod, first off. Secondly, why the fuck talk to a girl that doesn't want to listen to you talk about what's cool? Thirdly, it isn't common interests that bring people together, no no no, what ever you read and whereever you read about talking about their interests is bullshit. Common VALUES bring people together. You t…
/r/seduction20/01/13 12:26 AM
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search /r/askseddit and /r/seduction for "oneitis" or "one-itis" Since this is the simple question thread, here is the simple answers you'll find when you do your search: Move on. She's missing out. Hit the gym. Delete facebook. Meet new people. Turn off all the shit that reminds you of her. Meet new people. There are so many awesome girls out there. This one is just not as awesome as you think. Work on your innergame and confidence. Don't give power to this one girl to destroy you. She's just n…
/r/seduction20/01/13 12:18 AM
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Cool. Welcome. You'll find your way around nicely, especially since you've read the books.
/r/seduction20/01/13 12:09 AM
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Haha. Pretty funny/ignorant/silly of your co-worker. I don't live in So Cal, but I've wondered myself about other PUAs in the field. How much exposure is out there? I live in a major East Coast city and it's been fine. Guy's talk to girls, it's all good. You don't have too much to worry about. I like it being esoteric, but I've heard of PUAs seeing other PUAs and either using them to wing or blowing them out completely. So, it can be a good thing. Cheers.
/r/seduction20/01/13 12:08 AM
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worried others know what I am up to. lol. what? this goes in /r/askseddit yes they will know you are attracted to women and trying to get to know them no there isn't a huge amount of PUAs out there crawling around picking up women and then there's you. There are AFCs and guys with game, period. In the rare event, someone calls you out, like "is that a neg, have you read the game?" - have a response ready. it has happened. I read about in /r/askseddit. Also, I have read about a guy who used the s…
/r/seduction19/01/13 11:54 PM
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Also how can i attract a guys attention/seem approachable? Have you ever considered approaching guys?
/r/seduction11/01/13 07:09 AM
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Honestly, think harder. Use your imagination that fits in with your budget and schedule. I don't care you are 16 we all have to do this. Now's a great time to start coming up with ideas on your own. Some might stuck but you'll be an original player. I would also add - that since you are an awesome, fun, and interesting guy, you can be awesome fun and interesting anywhere. She's lucky she gets to hang out with you, you know? The reason restaurants and movies are only so-so is because they aren't …
/r/seduction04/01/13 10:17 PM
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7&7 (or vodka & 7, or vodka and sprite) should be served in a dof glass.
/r/seduction04/01/13 10:04 PM
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Has anyone else gone through this or felt something similar? Yes. Take a month off, you'll be fine. nbd. Glad to know it's helped you tremendously. It helped me too. Just keep applying it out there in the field and continue to work on yourself.
/r/seduction01/01/13 11:55 PM
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The idea of pulling away right after displaying the interest and approval seems counterintuitive but it makes sense. I've seen it work. This is very solid. Thanks.
/r/seduction01/01/13 08:59 PM
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This is great. Another example of what ThrowawayPUA mentioned when I asked this in askseddit. I like it. Definitely incorporating. Thanks. http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/15pq5p/what_are_good_ways_to_reward_a_girl_when_she/c7ox453
/r/seduction01/01/13 08:56 PM
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Will do. Thanks, ThrowawayPUA, much appreciated. And a thanks for all you and the other mods do. Like a lot of people here, these subs have had a positive impact on my life and myself as a person. Your reply was great also. Very helpful and works well with my style. LINK: http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/15pq5p/what_are_good_ways_to_reward_a_girl_when_she/c7ox453
/r/seduction01/01/13 08:53 PM
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In Eric Berne's Games People Play, a book on transactional analysis and game theory, there is a chapter called "Sexual Games". One game listed and briefly described is called 'Let's You And Him Fight'. It's when a woman (in the example in the book it is a woman, it could be a guy though) challenges two men to fight each other or battle with the implication of promise that she will take the winner. In the vein of game theory, these are the three outcomes he describes: As a romantic maneuver - The…
/r/seduction02/11/12 08:57 PM
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Say: "I really like your dress." Then whisper in her ear: "I bet it looks even better on the floor."
/r/seduction27/07/12 06:55 PM
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I run into this problem still. It is tough to always be clear (or intentionally unclear when texting) though I am not opposed to 'haha'. Here are some more tips for general 'above beginner' texting: http://www.reddit.com/r/texttranscripts/comments/w6zk9/more_texting_tips_and_reminders_subtext_innuendo/
/r/seduction24/07/12 12:11 PM
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EMOTICONS Stop. Stop with the emoticons. Everything works differently for everyone and it depends on who you are talking to and how often they use them, but from what I see there are too many emoticons used. Here be the problem: Emoticons don't always convey what you are feeling. Many are contextual. Reducing your reaction, or commenting on your own text with a :P or :) can seriously reduce you as an interesting person. Find words or other expressions or other symbols even so you do not default …
/r/seduction24/07/12 05:44 AM
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Meaningful emotional connections aren't found via text. You can have great conversations and sustain something that is already there, but being in person is best. But I'm sure through chat and video and text and phone calls you can get something going.
/r/seduction20/07/12 07:05 PM
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What is your end game? If you don't want love, and you don't want sex. What do you want?
/r/seduction20/07/12 04:19 PM
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that's ok. next time.
/r/seduction20/07/12 05:43 AM
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I absolutely think so. You committed to a mentality and attitude and stuck with it. Well done.
/r/seduction20/07/12 04:58 AM
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You should give us more details about who she is so we can help. But in general: 'Deep desire'? probably not. That is established in person with contact. You can appear interesting and appealing, but texting long distance is only beneficial if you have plans to see her. Then, you can get her excited and build very mild attraction. Why do you want someone far away from you to have deep desire for you? Seems like you should go for the babes that are close by. Someone you can touch.
/r/seduction20/07/12 04:57 AM
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Maybe you could've asked, "Hey, before you go, let me get your number so we can see each other again." As fair as conversation with a random girl maybe say something like, "So, why do you like [band] so much?" It isn't about 'what to say' though. It's about saying anything. If you want to have fun just ball out and talk to people. It's really easy. You'll find people and girls that want to talk to you, too.
/r/seduction20/07/12 04:52 AM
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Doing what a girl wants you to do isn't inherently wrong, but it is definitely important to separate yourself from the rest of the pack. Adjust text game so that you are setting up dates, being sexual, and demonstrating HDV (like not texting too much and at the wrong times).
/r/seduction18/07/12 03:28 PM
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None taken. It's definitely my job to use whatever form of communication to find out if she is into me or not. But I'm not talking about a girl who will text you back all day long. I mean the girl who let it go to voicemail, and then will not stop texting you. There are some girls that are shy or at school and will text text text, but they rarely talk on the phone.
/r/seduction16/07/12 03:42 PM
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Wait for a response and in the meantime, keep moving forward. Surely, you can find other girls.
/r/seduction15/07/12 02:21 PM
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Def played it well, man. It seems confusing like mixed signals but it really just means she likes a slow pace. Counter that not coming on to strong. That way both your goal and hers are met. If she is a texter, hit her in a few with something that brings up good feelings from the time before. If you want to call her then call her and ask her out again right away.
/r/seduction14/07/12 10:32 PM
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One of the enemies of this subreddit mentioned in a podcast the power of this. It can get into NLP and trance state stuff because you are breaking social patterns in the brain, which causes it to change gear and process information differently. It's was interesting. I think deep down people like spontaneity and want something different than everything that is cookie cutter. It has a powerful affect. I'm glad you have nice eyes. It's very powerful and fun to look at someone in their eyes and noti…
/r/seduction03/07/12 03:07 AM
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Fitness and Nutrition. if you display that you respect yourself, they will take that as a DHV Learn a foreign language. not only is it handy, but its also is attractive to most women. Being able to dance. Girls love to dance, and they'll love you if you can do it well. Just move with the rhythm and you're golden. Musical Instrument. Buy one, learn to play it. we've all seen douchey guitar guy. As much as we hate him, he usually gets girls. Fixing a car. Just general stuff, enough to keep your ri…
/r/seduction01/07/12 08:49 PM
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Fighting. Also can we drop 'sexy time' in seddit? Sexy time sounds childish and effeminate.
/r/seduction30/06/12 05:11 PM
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A relaxed/fun mood? The Fantastic Mr Fox Amelie Dazed And Confused Pretty much any Luke Wilson movie A lot of Disney movies The 2003 Live Action Peter Pan Harry Potter and the any of them except 7 80's adventure flicks, Back To The Future II, Goonies, Lost Boys, The Outsiders I'm a little confused though because the movies that 'get her in the mood' as your post's title says are different than movies "that will get her into a relaxed/fun mood" as your description says. If you are looking to get …
/r/seduction15/06/12 01:00 AM
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I said PM me, brah. You should edit your comment.
/r/seduction09/06/12 06:25 AM
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Great book. PM me if you read books on a tablet or your computer.
/r/seduction08/06/12 10:28 PM
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Oh sorry. Didn't know. Thanks.
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