Golden_Herbst Archive

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0	Thoughts about Depp-Heard hearing Please show instances where he failed to set boundaries or didn’t make attempts to get away. Coulda shoulda woulda, sounds like victim blaming.(how did she defuse these situations?) Many of these altercations sound reminiscent of every other relationship I’ve had the privilege of leaving. It’s not easy when you set the boundary (I want to leave) and have it unreciprocated (makes it difficult to leave ie. stands in the exit, on my car, takes my phone). Let’s not get into the constant texting and …	/r/MensRights	03/05/22 07:58 PM
1	It is never "mansplaining" to correct or criticize feminist women when they discuss: men. Yes introspection of the moment! Good advice.	/r/MensRights	27/04/22 07:45 AM
1	Men just can't win - I see this post every once in a while. See what you think of my response. Also not a troll. First BC, abstinence. It is free and stigmatized. What more could you want? /s	/r/MensRights	26/04/22 07:27 PM
1	why is it so hard to get feminists to have a fair and open debate? Faire, we all have lives and further obligations. So I’ll simply add that in everyday common usage, people in general use complaints to convey one’s point. If links are needed I’d be happy to oblige. I believe when a persons’ pride(ego) is confronted with contradictions to one’s character; it’s only natural to feel unease(even for us readers).	/r/MensRights	26/04/22 05:53 PM
2	why is it so hard to get feminists to have a fair and open debate? You’re absolutely right, harsh words serve little purpose in civil discourse. However this behavior is not uncommon in any opposing ideologies. Be it a presidential election or Blue Line and BLM. I see no sides of any debate who can claim otherwise. You still haven’t answered my first question. (Example: If I said that there were times; I’ve expressed serious issues I’ve had with my SO to people irl, only to be meet with dismissive platitudes.) Would this statement constitute as a story or compl…	/r/MensRights	25/04/22 05:40 AM
2	why is it so hard to get feminists to have a fair and open debate? In some ways I think you’re on the right track. The other day someone posted on r/mensrights saying how “sexism is the main issue that is deterring an understanding between Feminists and MRAs.”, or something to that caliber. I wanted to agree but it didn’t explain all the non-extremists in these movements or how so many people have come to this subreddit wanting to learn with valid points and topics from many distinct ideologies and backgrounds. By looking at the problem as a whole and striving …	/r/MensRights	25/04/22 04:47 AM
5	why is it so hard to get feminists to have a fair and open debate? For context, how would you, like someone to illustrate their experiences of oppression? Even when your first sentence gives the impression of a closed mind. Should we tell our own stories of abuse OR the viscous compassion we’ve had to experience after telling such stories.	/r/MensRights	25/04/22 04:16 AM
1	Did you know that someone created a sub that hates, on this sub? 😂 Thanks even though I didn’t need your validation. Have a good day.	/r/MensRights	09/04/22 09:50 AM
1	Did you know that someone created a sub that hates, on this sub? 😂 @ u/Queen-of-meme Guess I miss-clicked, my comment was directed to this individual.	/r/MensRights	09/04/22 03:47 AM
1	Did you know that someone created a sub that hates, on this sub? 😂 It wasn’t to you or this post. I’m still trying to find the user I meant to reply to, I’m guessing they deleted their comment. Sorry for the inconvenience and miss understanding.	/r/MensRights	09/04/22 03:43 AM
1	Did you know that someone created a sub that hates, on this sub? 😂 I'd like it very much if religious extremists would mind their own business and let other people live their lives, but, unfortunately they seem to vote in larger numbers than people like me. If you don't like what they are doing, go out and organize enough people to vote them out of office. Or, even better: personally run against them. I don't know what you expect a stranger like me to do about it. I already voted against it. That's the limit of what I can do. Which sounds like, “it is not my fa…	/r/MensRights	08/04/22 09:21 PM
5	Some feminists have an alternate view of reality I like how you’re already calling me stupid. Do you actually think feminists believe this? This kind of stupidity only comes from the <1% of extremists, it’s not a representation of all women or even all feminists so please don’t make it out to be such. It’s only perpetuating more sexism The op is about heterosexual men through the lense of a “extremist feminist”, your comment was to the response of incels. My response to you If one can be bad then all can be bad, I don’t make the standards. I e…	/r/MensRights	08/04/22 02:14 AM
10	Some feminists have an alternate view of reality Sure if that’s the standard people want to make. I don’t litter but if one human does then they all litter. If one cop can’t keep his fellow officers in check then they are all bad. Again I didn’t make this statistic but if I’m going to be held to it then I’m also free to hold everyone else to it as well. I don’t see how you could feel qualified to speak for all Germans, students and Caucasians when you don’t know their lives. I refuse to speak for women, I don’t know what they could want. Even …	/r/MensRights	08/04/22 12:57 AM
3	Some feminists have an alternate view of reality If one then all.	/r/MensRights	08/04/22 12:23 AM
14	Some feminists have an alternate view of reality <1% Then all feminists are to the extreme right? This the standard that which men are held. If a man chooses to abstain from marriage, solely on the fear of his partner’s actions; their fear is justified even if it is based on this statistic. Because at the end of the day one party gets exactly what they wanted, while the other suffers mentally, emotionally and financially. If one can be bad then all can bad, I don’t make the standards.	/r/MensRights	08/04/22 12:12 AM
1	I believe if women have the choice of abortion then men should have the choice of financial abortion. Then you can see why if men were faced with the same situations (plural), a sharp increase in suicide rates of male victims would turn a lot of heads. Sad truth, it doesn’t. Criminal or not, men should have a choice as much as I want women to have a choice.	/r/MensRights	21/09/21 11:07 PM
1	I believe if women have the choice of abortion then men should have the choice of financial abortion. https://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/2014/09/03/child-support-statutory-rape-justice-law-men-column/15044791/	/r/MensRights	21/09/21 10:58 PM
1	I believe if women have the choice of abortion then men should have the choice of financial abortion. Agreed and that is why legislation should be put forth regardless of parenthood/abandonment. From the moment of birth. If our societies put so much stock on a child’s life then our governments should pay it forward. As someone who has been raped, if the resulting outcome is to force me to contribute for eighteen plus years; I’d rather remove myself from the equation entirely. I’d feel sorry for that child, yes. Potential pay for the rapist’s mortgage, no. Again, make some sort of legislation so …	/r/MensRights	21/09/21 10:24 PM
1	I believe if women have the choice of abortion then men should have the choice of financial abortion. After reading all of your points and agreeing with most, I believe I’ve found the solution that would best suit me (sperm contributor.) Disclaimer; I will also say that this option does not apply to every male/female for it is still callus and selfish. As someone who has been in one too many bad relationships with members of the female populace and experienced the same atrocities that traumatize some/many women ie. rape, abuse physical/mental, false accusations. The best course of action for mys…	/r/MensRights	21/09/21 10:07 PM