Goldenone269 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	"Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid. This person cited the existence of douches(as harmful as they’ve been proven to be) as evidence that “vaginas aren’t self cleaning.” It’s a lost cause.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 08:25 PM
1	"Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid. Exactly. He is being disingenuous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 07:33 PM
18	"Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid. Casual sex with men typically just isn’t good for women. It’s not satisfying. We don’t orgasm. We don’t like it. Meanwhile the man orgasms pretty much 100% of the time and, in some cases, under 60 seconds. Fix it and we’ll talk.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 03:49 PM
3	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? You seem to be projecting the attitudes of a subset of women onto all women. I can’t help you with that, sorry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 03:36 AM
1	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? Sex with random men isn’t satisfying for most women. We’re much less likely to orgasm on top of the lack of emotional connection. Plenty of us are celibate by choice. It’s not even worth the risk. We’re not men with vaginas. If you don’t care to understand how women’s bodies actually work, it’s unlikely that you’d make a very good sexual partner to a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 02:39 AM
5	Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men? This is such an important point. Many of us have caught on to this game desperate men play so we are much more selective with our time. All they want is a hole, any hole, and they will lie and waste years to get it. And it’s not gonna be me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 02:23 AM
2	What is something you genuinely find 'weird' and don't understand in modern dating/relationship/gender world? Oh ok	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 09:22 AM
4	What is something you genuinely find 'weird' and don't understand in modern dating/relationship/gender world? Yes, it’s a sad state of affairs. I think a lot of those people enter the situation only looking for sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 09:02 AM
2	What is something you genuinely find 'weird' and don't understand in modern dating/relationship/gender world? They may just not be interested so they say they’re taken.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 08:56 AM
2	Dating apps make misogynist men Yes, he is below average. The average woman goes to college.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 02:56 AM
0	Dating apps make misogynist men Jordan Peterson said it best that women have a lot more to lose by engaging with men. But it’s not just pregnancy. Since many of you think women lose value with age faster than men do, women have to navigate through relationships faster. If we lose value with age our time is literally more valuable. If she sees a hint of incompatibility early in a relationship, or at any point for that matter, it’s in her interest to exit and find a suitable mate asap. If she stays and the relationship ultimatel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 02:46 AM
5	When the subject of women’s abundance comes up women like to say they have “no good options” but this is nonsense. Women have plenty of attractive, desirable men interested in both LTR and hookups, they are just insanely picky. Actually, no… No form of birth control is 100% effective. The woman still bears the majority of the risk. If the male partner cheats the risk remains higher for the female than the inverse. Your statement about “certain types of men” is too vague to take seriously and ignores first time offenders. Especially since the male is typically larger and stronger than the female and more prone to physical aggression vs. passive aggression for females. I’m not talking about cheating. I was already referr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 01:59 AM
0	When the subject of women’s abundance comes up women like to say they have “no good options” but this is nonsense. Women have plenty of attractive, desirable men interested in both LTR and hookups, they are just insanely picky. Risk of pregnancy and 99% of resulting consequences (even risk of death from giving birth) Higher likelihood of M>F STD transmission than the inverse 3.Most violent crimes committed by men Damage to a woman’s reputation from dating multiple men over time There’s probably more, but those are the obvious risks that come to mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 01:10 AM
19	When the subject of women’s abundance comes up women like to say they have “no good options” but this is nonsense. Women have plenty of attractive, desirable men interested in both LTR and hookups, they are just insanely picky. It’s hard because many of the men are lying about their intentions, jobs, marital status, # of children, etc. It’s like trying to choose knowing that half of the ice creams are mislabeled but you have to buy each one to find out what it actually is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 12:50 AM
1	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in Is there an “endless supply” of women willing to have casual sex on tinder? That’s not what most of the men here complain about. It seems that some attractive men are able to secure casual sex, but most men aren’t. Men far outnumber women on tinder so I’m not sure exactly what information you’re referring to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/22 10:04 PM
2	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in That’s fantastic. I hope more men do it too. If average women aren’t attracted to average men, the fact that so many of us get surgery to improve our appearance is a big part of the reason. I would love to find more men attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/22 07:53 PM
2	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in Plenty of poor grandmothers wind up raising their children’s children. Just because you have a kid it doesn’t mean they will take care of you or even be self-sufficient, especially with rising COL. Doesn’t mean they will like you either. In the US at least, people are increasingly less likely to take care of their parents. Eta: My point is, what is the value of reproducing to simply avoid being alone when it makes one’s life significantly more difficult. There are other ways to avoid loneliness …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 11:04 PM
–	If women should lower their standards to be with the average man....why, and what does the average man have to offer? Finally, someone with solutions!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 10:38 PM
1	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in You’re looking at it purely from the male perspective. If you had as much risk, danger and burden from heterosexual sex and such a low likelihood of reward, you might understand. The risk/reward ratio in many cases isn’t worth it unless certain conditions are met, and that has a lot to do with the specific circumstances and the particular man. The reward ratio for men is relatively unchanged across all women so you all simply want it more and under more circumstances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 09:30 PM
3	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in You’re looking at it from the male perspective. If you had half as much risk and burden from heterosexual sex and such a low likelihood of reward, you might understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 09:24 PM
6	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in I know women who put their BBLs on credit so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 09:21 PM
1	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in Plenty of poor grandmothers wind up raising their children’s children. Just because you have a kid it doesn’t mean they will take care of you or even be self-sufficient.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 09:14 PM
4	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in You seem to be conflating single women with no kids with single mothers, while these are two vastly different groups with different outcomes. Women with no kids are more educated and generally have more money. Having children is the single factor that potentially catapults women to poverty. Getting into bad relationships actually destabilizes women if they breed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 07:29 PM
2	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in It’s largely innate. We have to be pickier because heterosexual sex is much more risky for us, for a number of reasons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 07:16 PM
2	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in Women generally outlive their male partners, so they’re likely to die alone anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 06:59 PM
8	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in Plastic surgery is an option that many women use to become more attractive. I’m curious why men who know they are unattractive don’t consider this option.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 06:24 PM
10	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in I’m not sure why this is so hard for so many here to understand. There’s a reason there’s no market for heterosexual male prostitutes. NSA sex is just not what women generally want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 06:21 PM
1	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in If you know you aren’t going to win the lottery, why would you waste your money buying tickets?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 05:32 PM
1	Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be in I did want kids when I was younger, but as an adult they just seem too expensive with too little payout. Where I live most kids don’t take care of their parents. In fact, parents are taking care of their kids into adulthood more often because the COL is through the roof.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/22 05:19 PM
0	Age is an incredibly important and overlooked part of attractiveness/value. ED is kicking in earlier these days for a number of reasons. Unfortunately it’s underreported and many men are in denial about it. That’s not surprising since men are generally less likely to seek out medical care… Do you realize it applies to a lack of potency, not necessarily a completely flaccid penis? If you’re only getting 75% hard, that’s still ED. In the US the avg. age for a man to have his first child is 31. Most of those men will have more than one child as they age, so yeah it’s more …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 07:27 AM
0	Age is an incredibly important and overlooked part of attractiveness/value. The 40m is more likely to have child support bills, erectile dysfunction, balding, commitment issues etc. Very few men are rich or even middle class these days. There is no comparison between that and an early-mid 30s man. When I see a bachelor over 40 like that the question is “what’s wrong with him.” The answer usually becomes apparent before the appetizers arrive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/22 06:19 AM
1	When women argue that men are "supposed to" pay for dates, they are in essence saying that men are superior to women. That’s not true in most cases. Plenty of women don’t want kids for a number of good reasons like not wanting the massive expense, the time suck, the added thankless labor, no paid maternity leave, ruining their bodies, ruining their relationship. Many mothers will tell you, if they’re honest, that motherhood isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. Some women give up 20 years of their lives slaving for children and a man who winds up trading her in for a newer model. Many childfree women are actually ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 10:39 AM
2	When women argue that men are "supposed to" pay for dates, they are in essence saying that men are superior to women. There are many ways women can be seen as attractive. We also generally do a lot more to improve our looks. The upkeep is expensive. For men it’s a lot more narrow, but I wish more stable men would put in the effort to max out their looks. Even considering cosmetic surgery like we do. What’s the male equivalent of a BBL? 🤔	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 07:54 AM
2	When women argue that men are "supposed to" pay for dates, they are in essence saying that men are superior to women. Yes, he’s quite attractive to me and I was trying to explain how difficult it is to find a man who is financially stable AND attractive AND in the market for marriage. And how I’ve chosen to stay single in the past rather than settling with a man I find repulsive just because he wants to marry and take care of me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 07:51 AM
5	When women argue that men are "supposed to" pay for dates, they are in essence saying that men are superior to women. You’re not wrong. This is why more and more women are choosing not to reproduce. All of the pain and none of the glory. Meanwhile every man I meet wants a football team.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 07:47 AM
1	When women argue that men are "supposed to" pay for dates, they are in essence saying that men are superior to women. Oo Oo I have a story. It was my first time using bumble. The guy suggested a seafood restaurant. We show up, I’m dressed up and he’s wearing a durag and a gut. I’m thinking… is he getting his hair ready for an actual date after this??. But oh well I got dressed up for this so may as well have a nice conversation. Maybe his personality will win me over. As we’re looking at the menu, he says”these prices are high.. I usually split the bill.” This was my first time ever hearing this. I had a huge s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 07:42 AM
4	When women argue that men are "supposed to" pay for dates, they are in essence saying that men are superior to women. Wait. Aren’t they also his kids or… ? The fathers I know adore their children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 07:29 AM
2	When women argue that men are "supposed to" pay for dates, they are in essence saying that men are superior to women. This is so real. I was explaining this to my partner recently in more complex terms and his conclusion was “you sound like you hate men.” He couldn’t handle it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/22 07:26 AM
1	Men with high body counts Agreed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 03:52 PM
3	Men with high body counts The irony is that many “Christian” men have high body counts and are obsessed with sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 03:49 PM
2	Women still expect men to be masculine while refusing to be feminine themselves Oh so do you plan to gestate, birth and breastfeed the baby too? You know, while you’re fathering from home? Or will your wife be at work recovering from busting her body open, wearing an adult diaper for all of the blood and fluid, with milk stains on her shirt, running to the coat closet turned makeshift nursing room to pump. Real appealing proposition for a lady.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 03:35 PM
2	What do people mean when they say women don’t want to settle down until they are 30 or ‘old’? Yeah only bad for that poor bastard child, but who cares about that? Evidently not even its father 😬.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 07:22 PM
1	What do people mean when they say women don’t want to settle down until they are 30 or ‘old’? Testosterone and potency plummets for men in their late 30s-40s. DBs are highly likely with that population.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 07:32 AM
3	What do people mean when they say women don’t want to settle down until they are 30 or ‘old’? He can’t have fun with his children because they will be conceived immediately before he passes away at 68 from a Viagra overdose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/21 06:58 AM
1	Men in this sub focus so much on high-n women because they’re the women they’re viscerally attracted to Lol! Going to church for sightseeing. I’ve never heard it phrased this way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/21 09:46 AM
1	What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted? Men typically don’t have to fear for their safety around women specifically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/21 08:32 AM
8	Observation About Dating Sites Their algorithms show who they deem are the most popular users first to everyone. I’m a woman and they show me the same sorority type of women when I first login. Not interested at all. You have to go deeper into the app to find the regular women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/21 08:19 AM
1	Kevin Samuels at it once again It doesn’t make sense at all. Plus marrying men decades older is exactly how many women wind up alone and widowed in their older years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/21 12:34 AM
5	Do you feel pressure from society/family/friends to give "good guys" a chance? What does being unattractive have to do with being good? There are plenty of attractive men with good character as well. Ugliness is not a virtue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/04/21 02:56 PM
2	If you could CHOOSE what you are attracted to, how would you alter your current attraction? Where are you getting this information from?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/21 02:23 PM
1	Why does society ignore the fact that 80% of murder victims are male? Came here to say this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/21 05:51 AM
1	People who are using tinder to find dates are idiots. It's a hookup app. Stop using it to "observe female nature". I met my fiancé on tinder 💕. It’s not just for hookups anymore. It’s just the app with the most users so there’s some of everything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/21 06:25 PM
5	Bisexuals of PPD: Which gender do you find more attractive? Women are naturally fatter for reproductive purposes. If a woman is too thin she can’t even menstruate. What’s considered a healthy body fat distribution differs by gender, so you can’t reasonably compare the two. Women’s fat is also distributed in their breasts and butts which many people find attractive. There’s no body part where large fat deposits are considered attractive on a man, as far as I’m aware. It’s just not apples to apples. Edit: obviously some people are just plain obese, but I’m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 08:42 PM
1	if you're an unattractive man, you shouldn't wonder why an app that lets you choose a partner based almost purely on appearance gets you no success. They absolutely can. Men get jawline fillers, surgery and rhinoplasty too. It’s probably less common, but these procedures are available to men as well. The question is, do many men care enough about their looks to take the same extreme measures that women often do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 08:19 PM