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Look, it's the Internet. A virgin could come to this sub and give sex advice, id take everything you read with a pinch of salt. Of course there's people who treat women like aliens and we need to break them down and solve the puzzle. When you read advice from this sub, be open minded because the person writing the post might have no experience with the ladies!
/r/seduction27/04/21 03:23 PM
1

Ok thanks man, next time a girl sneezes I’ll open my mouth
/r/seduction18/04/21 11:28 PM
7

If she sneezes while looking at me, does she want to fuck?
/r/seduction18/04/21 03:27 PM
46

I think it's another excuse guys like to use, "ill try get a girl when I have a career" No, you try now. Otherwise someone else with balls will
/r/seduction13/04/21 03:49 PM
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I wouldn't worry about a girl for now bro, instead get a job that involves Interaction. You need to work on other areas before trying with the ladies. Im not saying don't try with the ladies but you gotta make sure your doing good for yourself and your confidence will Improve
/r/seduction28/02/21 02:16 PM
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"Alpha male" gets thrown around alot, you hear it so much in the self development industry and here too. Fucking a bunch of girls does not make you alpha or having Girls approach you. Ive worked with men you would call alpha and the last thing on their minds is status or fucking girls, their focused on the job at hand and called out those doing wrong and where great leaders.
/r/seduction27/02/21 11:54 AM
5

This is a good reply, quality sex over quantity.
/r/seduction25/02/21 02:12 AM
3

I'm gonna be honest. As men I don't believe well ever overcome approach anxiety, it's a natural feeling because of the expectations and what's at hand. It's one of those things you must battle through, there's going to be ups and downs and sometimes the downs will make you feel like shit but you have to keep going.
/r/seduction21/02/21 01:05 PM
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There not, only way to improve is talk to girls!!!
/r/seduction22/01/21 06:05 PM
1

You can overcome social anxiety by approaching, it's going to be a nervous moment for sure but you gotta do it. Thats how you'll get laid, by approaching and overcoming it
/r/seduction22/01/21 05:28 PM
1

Do you approach girls at bars and parties? I wouldn't rely on apps like tinder
/r/seduction22/01/21 05:24 PM
1

Again I mentioned that, I said the self help industry has its own version of alpha male
/r/seduction08/01/21 10:15 PM
71

Here we go again with the alpha male talk On our death beds we won't be thinking about why we didn't become alpha. Alpha male is new concept created by the self help industry to sell people an idea. Yes ino alpha males is a word used to describe a person but stop believing its the key to women, most real alpha males aren't worried about women and are focused on the task at hand.
/r/seduction08/01/21 06:03 PM
11

Being yourself means your OK with telling people what you like. Don't lie and say you like rap when you prefer country, to be yourself is about being Comfortable with talking about You. Don't be afraid to express your values and what you love, if she says no because you like something then fuck her and find someone who appreciates YOU
/r/seduction04/01/21 09:06 PM
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Being yourself is very important. It means your not afraid to express your interests. There's no point lying to her saying you like X when you absolutely hate it
/r/seduction03/01/21 08:09 PM
3

You can have perfect game but if she doesn't like you looks wise then it's over between you and her. Looks is a massive factor but of course having a personality helps taking you further with her. For me aleast looks is the most important factor with personality second
/r/seduction30/12/20 12:29 PM
3

The basics are good but you'll find posts about different mindsets and some new version of eye contact that really doesn't aid you with the ladies. The basics work so keep it that way
/r/seduction28/12/20 11:33 AM
5

Models by mark manson speaks abiut this
/r/seduction25/12/20 10:36 PM
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A few things to note here. Theres honesty and then turn offs. Don't be 100% honest and tell her everything, like don't say you don't socialise much because of anxiety, yes you're being honest but it's going to turn her away, instead leave that topic out until both of you are closer. My point is to not be too honest because it's going to turn her off.
/r/seduction23/12/20 09:56 AM
2

Thank you quinn for the clarification, I'm glad changes are coming. Like you said, anything related to self improvement on reddit gets so much shit advice or it's repeated constantly. I see many users posting advice and at the end of the post there's a link to their YouTube channel or a blog. This annoys me the most
/r/seduction12/12/20 09:09 PM
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The Internet sure does love the word "alpha" People need to get real, real alpha males probably don't know what the word alpha is, I've met plenty of guys like this. The last thing on their minds was women, they focused on the job at hand. If you have to call yourself alpha then your not, it's a natural trait that comes. You should be a leader to bring on your team, not to get ladies
/r/seduction11/12/20 11:08 PM
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Because it is!!
/r/seduction04/12/20 11:40 AM
10

Or just have sex with your girlfriend lol
/r/seduction01/12/20 03:42 PM
7

Alot of dudes on here are trying to promote their vidoes or blogs. They'll talk abiut how "your mindset should be X" etc I enjoy hearing real posts from dudes not promoting shit
/r/seduction30/11/20 07:50 PM
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Kissing is one of those things you can only get better at while kissing lol Trust me, you can't practice anywhere else but on someone
/r/seduction27/11/20 08:23 PM
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I never really understand guys that approach on public transport or at stores. Maybe it's a demographic thing but where I live you approach girls at social situations like parties or nights out.
/r/seduction27/11/20 05:31 PM
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Dude it seems like you lack self esteem big time! I don't know if your seeking validation or not but you need to find self love.
/r/seduction22/11/20 12:20 AM
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No dude, you need face tattoos and go bald then you'll be attractive
/r/seduction22/11/20 12:17 AM
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Don't text random girls on Facebook lol Approach in real life so she won't get creeped out
/r/seduction21/11/20 12:56 PM
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I often feel like this sub is dudes trying to decode women. Most of my friends haven't heard shit about all these mentalities and don't have problems with girls. It's one of those things that knowing more isn't better and in fact knowing less is better for seduction, that's just my opinion
/r/seduction19/11/20 05:36 PM
2

"the sun is too hot today"
/r/seduction19/11/20 05:34 PM
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Dude stop that 75 day challenge now. Instead workout 2-3x per week, have a balance in your diet, eat right but it’s ok for the odd pizza. Don’t do this for girls, I know it’s the main motive for guys but why should your happiness be in the hands of a girl? Girls will come once you get your shit together and stop putting them as your Main focus.
/r/seduction18/11/20 08:47 PM
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How are you still a virgin though?
/r/seduction16/11/20 11:46 AM
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How are you a virgin at 31?
/r/seduction16/11/20 11:41 AM
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Honestly OP I disagree. You make it sound like women are aliens and you’ve found their language. I understand that eye contact can be a good indicator if someone likes you but maybe you’ve got ketchup on your forehead and that’s why she’s starting at you. Jk but really, don’t over complicate this stuff, just approach and talk to the girl like a normal person 😂
/r/seduction15/11/20 05:46 PM
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Not sure
/r/seduction15/11/20 05:36 PM
2

Bullshit. How do you need good genetics to hit up a girl?
/r/seduction15/11/20 11:25 AM
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Dude you just need to approach a girl lol Nothing wrong with self improvement but it's a girl not a damn rocket ship your training for.
/r/seduction14/11/20 10:57 PM
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When you go to a party or a bar you can't stand in a corner expecting girls to hit on you. You have to approach and talk. Also theirs no point in doing self improvement for girls, you'll be let down big time
/r/seduction14/11/20 10:06 PM
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Lots of guys don’t realize this
/r/seduction09/11/20 02:20 AM
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Again who gives a fuck? Fucking a ton of women shouldn't make you feel accomplished, it's better to have a girlfriend that you can build up a proper connection with than fucking someone who will ghost you. Get your priorities straight
/r/seduction08/11/20 12:28 AM
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Fucking a bunch of girls doesn’t make you any more accomplished than 3 girls. Sex isn’t everything, find a girl you like and that appreciates you
/r/seduction08/11/20 12:24 AM
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How do you not know what this is?
/r/seduction07/11/20 11:59 AM
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I wouldn't deactivate bro, for me We our self's are the toughest critic, we analyse our photos for flaws but no one is actually doing it and if they are then they don't have much going on with their lives. Point is, if the photos make you really uncomfortable then take them down, but for me it just seems like your being too judgemental of yourself
/r/seduction03/11/20 01:39 AM
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Can I get an F boys because I ain't got none of this 🤣
/r/seduction11/10/20 08:13 PM
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Let’s be real. You can still mindlessly scroll through Reddit like Instagram but there is a difference. Reddit can be beneficial when you follow subs that relate to you whereas Instagram is mostly just chicks we follow or friends etc. Just be careful, watch how long you spend on Reddit and was that time useful
/r/seduction09/10/20 11:02 AM
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Alcohol is seen as safe seeking by our brains. People who are trying to overcome anxiety are told they can't use safe seeking measures because you aren't actually overcoming the anxious feeling. Examples would be: Going to the bathroom to get out of a social situation. Pretending to use your phone Using drugs or alcohol Im not saying to stop doing the above but if your trying to overcome certain feelings then it's best to avoid the list above and put you out of the comfort zone!
/r/seduction02/10/20 09:52 AM
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What if she says I don't have a watch either? Now it's awkward
/r/seduction09/09/20 07:52 PM
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I’m guessing you’ve read the book
/r/seduction31/08/20 11:45 PM
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I've come to terms that there isn't a concrete solution to getting over the fear of rejection, it's in our nature that we feel scared or nervous incase she/he says no. It's perfectly normal to feel this way based on our ancestors having clans etc
/r/seduction31/08/20 07:50 PM
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You should dress well and get a suitable hairstyle.
/r/seduction30/08/20 09:44 AM
1

I often think about this. It's amazing that people can go their entire lives without ever having the Confidence to do something. I find that it's the lie we tell ourselfs that everything will work out but deep down it's not going to happen. Once you come to terms with this then you'll understand
/r/seduction18/08/20 02:20 PM
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Yep I've pulled from using Snapchat. My friend knew this cute girl and one night after the club he spotted her freezing cold, I offered my jacket to her and she added me on Snapchat to return the jacket. I popped up first and then we just hit it off from there, she was awesome at flirting and then we eventually met at this party and kissed. All because of my jacket :)
/r/seduction17/08/20 11:26 PM
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Where I live we’ve only had 100 cases since the pandemic began so the likely good of getting it is rare
/r/seduction15/08/20 08:51 AM
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Don't answer questions she didn't ask Like if she says "do you go out often to parties?" Don't say "I don't go out because of my social anxiety" Your mental health or if your cat died isnt what she will want to hear on the first approach, once you've gotten to know her then you be more honest
/r/seduction14/08/20 11:44 PM
0

A walk with a scenic mountain is free :) Can't recommend how good a walk can be
/r/seduction13/08/20 10:56 AM
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This all comes from the Internets version of alpha male. real alpha males are very respectable people and don't prioritise women in there lives, they focus on their work and improve themselfs.
/r/seduction11/08/20 12:19 AM
3

Holy shit you should never day this, already in the first sentence you've become a creep to her.
/r/seduction09/08/20 09:25 PM
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For me books change your perspective, not your life. I think alot of folks on here want there lives to be different and there told reading books will help with that but from my experience it doesn't actually give you the change you want. For example, want to become confident? Then reading books isn't your answer.
/r/seduction08/08/20 09:29 AM
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Anxiety is a complex issue. Alcohol would be considered a safe seeking measure which means you’ll never overcome anxiety of intimacy when taking alcohol. I think you need to be honest with your self and ask why is it you feel this way
/r/seduction05/08/20 12:45 AM
2

Porn addiction is real and the average guy make have it. I think your brain gets so used to a certain type of genre of porn that only a harder version will pleasure you. Ease of the porn
/r/seduction05/08/20 12:42 AM
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Do you know the triggers? This is a great head start at overcoming anxiety
/r/seduction05/08/20 12:40 AM
4

Or maybe she isn’t attracted to you?
/r/seduction28/07/20 08:05 PM
17

You make seem like an Audition show when you talk about the 1-3 minute snippet. Also don’t be a sexist douche, it doesn’t make you any tougher and certainly won’t help with the ladies.
/r/seduction28/07/20 07:21 PM
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Honestly there's no point in buying alot of seduction books, models is great and explains alot
/r/seduction27/07/20 10:08 AM
1

He makes new accounts weekly
/r/seduction26/07/20 11:10 PM
1

Personally for me day game can be a big turn off for women. When it’s a bar or nightclub girls are ok with a guy approaching but during the day this can come off as creepy. Most girls might get anxiety straight away when a random guy approaches them so they’ll reject you out of fear.
/r/seduction19/07/20 09:38 AM
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Let's be real, we all want to know the best pickup line or strategy but in reality it doesn't exist, we overthink it mostly and think its like flying a rocket ship when it's not. You don't need need another seduction book or too watch more youtube videos on seduction, go say hi and take it from there.
/r/seduction17/07/20 10:51 PM
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That's fucked up, if she agrees then go ahead but recording privately is a shit thing to do
/r/seduction16/07/20 09:12 AM
3

It doesn’t matter whether your attractive or not, if your standards aren’t realistic then you’ll struggle with chicks or guys.
/r/seduction11/07/20 10:54 PM
1

Just pointing out that those girls who laughed at you aren’t worth your time because their self conscious cunts. Keep your head up buddy, you will find a girl who likes you
/r/seduction11/07/20 10:52 PM
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Don’t prioritize her. Live your live as normal and see if she texts you back. There’s no point wasting time on a girl who may have lost interested
/r/seduction05/07/20 01:36 AM
3

You don’t need to be spoon fed, research them yourself and try them out in real life
/r/seduction03/07/20 10:24 AM
1

Your not alpha if you say these things to a girl, it’s being a fucking asshole.
/r/seduction02/07/20 10:10 PM
11

The basics would be: Approach Eye contact Communication skills Get her number When I say basic I’m talking about keeping things simple, nowadays we’re told about all these mindsets, strategies when all this complicates seduction
/r/seduction02/07/20 10:07 PM
1

Good luck
/r/seduction02/07/20 01:54 AM
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Just so people know, there is no such thing as the perfect book or PUA program or whatever. It’s a commercialized industry that people are profiting off so therefore there’s going to be a lot of words and theories thrown away to get you hooked. Stick to the basics, that’s all you need. No mindset X or Y etc
/r/seduction02/07/20 01:48 AM
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I know it’s not the answer you wanted but the only way to get over approach anxiety is too approach, approach, approach. Now you could wait for bars and clubs and see how you feel but if you want to day game then go ahead. Understand that’s it’s ok to feel that way before approaching a girl you’ve never met!
/r/seduction02/07/20 01:43 AM
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Fake it till you make it might get you in the door but is it actually worth it? Its easy to promote yourself to a girl while at a bar or whatever but I'd recommend being yourself, aleast you don't have to fall back on any promises. But things like eye contact, conversation skills are good things to do.
/r/seduction28/06/20 08:42 PM
8

Looks like a dude wearing a blue wig lol
/r/seduction17/06/20 11:17 AM
2

It sucks I know but from my experience waiting for girls too approach won’t end well
/r/seduction10/06/20 11:32 AM
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Never wait on girls to approach, just go to them
/r/seduction10/06/20 11:15 AM
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Girls don't approach guys, you need to approach them.
/r/seduction10/06/20 10:29 AM
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Posts like this are damaging to ones self esteem telling them women are only attracted to X or Y and if you don’t have it then your fucked. But then again your writing a book and you need to sell it
/r/seduction09/06/20 02:47 PM
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Giving up porn was surprisingly difficult, I still haven’t fully done it but I have reduced my consumption. The urges you feel are sharp and requires a lot of will power to not give in. Its frustrating that not enough people take it seriously, I feel it’s just like any other addiction that’s hard to give up. The hardest part about porn addiction is you can’t really replace it with anything, let’s take gaming, you could replace it with a musical instrument but porn the only substitute is a girlfr…
/r/seduction08/06/20 02:22 PM
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The perfect example is when your in a relationship, you aren’t tryin pull chicks because you already have one and you give off this relaxed vibe and girls see this
/r/seduction06/06/20 12:33 AM
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Honestly I don’t agree. Depending on your age is definitely a factor but I’m 21 and it’s how we communicate mostly (for me anyway) When I approach a girl I ask for her snap rather than her number because numbers isn’t used that much from my experience
/r/seduction27/05/20 05:26 PM
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It’s the PUA trying to promote their shit that ruins the sub.
/r/seduction26/05/20 09:23 PM
5

Yes, holy fuck those legs are wayyyyyyyyyy to skinny
/r/seduction22/05/20 10:43 PM
15

Dude I think you need to address your mental state before you should consider getting a women, wanting to kill your self is a serious statement. I know this isn’t the answer your looking for but prioritizing women over other life goals isn’t the right thing to do. You said you want to improve your relationships/ make friends, I’d start there. Try to meet new people and you’d be surprised at what could happen. Stay strong
/r/seduction22/05/20 12:29 AM
2

Never open your eyes lol. It will freak the other person out
/r/seduction17/05/20 10:20 PM
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I find this hypocritical in all honesty. How can you say it’s “the blind leading the blind” while you link your Facebook group If anything it’s the PUA dudes who are causing the confusion
/r/seduction15/05/20 10:56 AM
2

Here’s the truth, no one has figured out seduction with a guaranteed method. There is no guaranteed method too pull a chick. People have this illusion that by paying money for a service (seduction training) it means that method they provide will 100% work. The target audience seems to be dudes that have given up on seduction or have 0 confidence. They don’t need to sign up to theses courses when the answers they need could be right in front of them
/r/seduction15/05/20 10:25 AM
1

Where are you from?
/r/seduction14/05/20 05:41 PM
1

Can you elaborate more on your service?
/r/seduction14/05/20 05:39 PM
2

Sounds like she wanted validation and got it. If she does this again leave her on read
/r/seduction14/05/20 05:38 PM
2

9k is pretty hefty during these times, how about a meal for two at McDonald’s and a bottle of sanitizer?
/r/seduction13/05/20 09:30 PM
2

Photoshopping photos of yourself is a shitty thing to do man, have you tired taking better photos? Like you wearing nice clothes etc
/r/seduction13/05/20 06:48 PM
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Yes.
/r/seduction12/05/20 09:39 PM
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Dude you actually say “ do you find me attractive?”.... no wonder the girls are rejecting you. As someone said never use that again.
/r/seduction12/05/20 09:30 PM
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And are you doing anything about it?
/r/seduction12/05/20 05:47 PM
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Do you have friends? Or do you mean lonely because of no girlfriend
/r/seduction12/05/20 05:44 PM
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Then don't chase girls until you fix some problems
/r/seduction12/05/20 05:35 PM
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Looks help very much but i know guys who aren’t that good looking yet have 0 problems getting women.
/r/seduction11/05/20 05:51 PM
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Same can be said with girls, this girl I was talking to had a pretty sour face, she looked like if you approached her she'd tell you to fuck off but guess what, he's was easily the nicest girl and chatty.
/r/seduction11/05/20 02:11 PM
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Even if he's a troll why is he wasting time doing this shit? Seriously
/r/seduction11/05/20 02:07 PM
3

You don’t have to be an asshole to have one night stands
/r/seduction11/05/20 01:32 PM
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Political correctness? You’ve lost me
/r/seduction11/05/20 10:53 AM
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You can still turn on women by being nice, nice doesn't have to be a yes man, you can still be firm and don't let people fuck you over
/r/seduction10/05/20 07:58 PM
2

Wtf haha
/r/seduction10/05/20 05:48 PM
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If someone buys this.....
/r/seduction10/05/20 12:38 PM
3

Dude that's life, yes people are going to be upset when a relationship ends its normal but what's the point in continuing the relationship if there isn't a mutual connection as in you don't love her enough or maybe it's not the right time etc. Point is it's better for you and her that it ends instead of pretending it'll work.
/r/seduction09/05/20 03:57 PM
1

Yes holy fuck dude you’ve changed for the worst
/r/seduction09/05/20 12:49 PM
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Agreed. Dudes on here treat women like sex dolls and forget women need someone to love them,care for them etc. This sub however is very divided, you have fixed mindset dudes who only believe there’s one way to pull a woman while you have others selling you their service idea aimed to get you girls.
/r/seduction09/05/20 12:48 PM
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Neediness is caused by a lack of opportunities, meaning you simply don’t hit on girls enough causing you too lack abundance. Only way of getting over approach anxiety is to approach
/r/seduction06/05/20 05:50 PM
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The quality of this sub has gone to shit and the advice being told is bullshit now
/r/seduction06/05/20 05:17 PM
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Always take posts on this sub with a pinch of salt, OP posts a lot with advice while linking his website
/r/seduction06/05/20 04:53 PM
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"2 don't cold approach" I wouldn't do this. From my experience cold approaching at bars/clubs gave me alot of success. Don't fool yourself, most girls don't approach and they shouldn't be expected too. Yes you can say we'll why not but it's good for your confidence to approach a girl and she'll see your confidence in doing so. Edit Just to add, very often people will justice their excuse for not approaching a girl, then they'll see a post like the above and see "don't approach",theyll then not b…
/r/seduction05/05/20 09:08 PM
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Thing is there isn’t a guaranteed solution, even with all the material it shows no one has figured it out, I mean with so much information how can you pin point what will work? My experience has thought me to just use trial and error.
/r/seduction05/05/20 06:54 PM
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Move on and don’t waste time on someone who didn’t appreciate you back then
/r/seduction05/05/20 06:52 PM
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An author said: "The bigger the industry is around a self help topic, the more people are struggling to accomplish those goals" In other words, there is no one way of how to be confident, approach women, get fit. There's so many ways and guides but there isn't a definite solution. If there was wouldn't we all be confident, fit and have 0 problems approaching women?
/r/seduction04/05/20 11:07 AM
1

Have you got a job since? Personally you need to address the problems in your life before you get women. So get your career back on track along with improving yourself, I know you hear all the time but it’s true and it’ needs to happen
/r/seduction02/05/20 08:46 PM
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Like there’s social distancing rules now in place yet dudes are talking about approach game haha
/r/seduction01/05/20 02:41 PM
6

Honestly this will creep her out, if she’s not interested then leave her alone
/r/seduction29/04/20 10:37 AM
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I like the ones with arms and toes
/r/seduction27/04/20 10:02 AM
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You’ve picked it up wrong. It’s not about looks
/r/seduction27/04/20 09:54 AM
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Most likely your a troll whatever but why do you keep making new accounts and posting pictures? Go for a walk, talk to the wall or something
/r/seduction26/04/20 01:43 PM
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Often people rationalise their excuses. This blew my mind because so often I'll think of an excuse and come up with a good reason why I shouldn't do it or wait but most of the time that was a good opportunity
/r/seduction21/04/20 01:19 PM
0

It’s just some fun humor :)
/r/seduction19/04/20 10:25 PM
2

Dude you need professional help like seriously
/r/seduction19/04/20 09:45 PM
2

Just another way of saying work on yourself :)
/r/seduction19/04/20 09:42 PM
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Thank you
/r/seduction19/04/20 07:33 PM
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Can you tell me where I went wrong? I’m actually trying to improve on my English :)
/r/seduction19/04/20 07:27 PM
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That too haha
/r/seduction19/04/20 05:45 PM
0

For me the title is wrong, a women doesn't know anything about you before you approach so how can she know if you have good habits?
/r/seduction18/04/20 06:59 PM
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Those are rookie numbers, bump that up
/r/seduction18/04/20 10:48 AM
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Just remember that action is the most important over learning :)
/r/seduction17/04/20 11:53 PM
3

You need to get a neck and face tattoo of a tomato, really it will make you attractive
/r/seduction16/04/20 08:21 PM
2

Thank you for a detailed response!
/r/seduction14/04/20 11:43 PM
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Approach and talk :)
/r/seduction14/04/20 07:20 PM
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The problems I have with this subreddit is its very divided. Dudes talking about “systems,mindsets,Beta male alpha male, PUA strategy’s”. I feel it’s all so over complicated, I love reading real stories of dudes who went to a bar and talked with girls and giving what they learned rather than the usual bullshit that has a link to something at the end of the post
/r/seduction14/04/20 04:20 PM
1

A real man cares for a women and doesn’t treat like objects
/r/seduction13/04/20 05:30 PM
1

“Alpha+” bro your being brainwashed. This idea of beta male alpha male is another way for dudes to market and sell programs. Real alphas aren’t thinking of women like most dudes online claim.
/r/seduction13/04/20 04:54 PM
3

According to who? Mr alpha male online? I don’t see what’s wrong with be straight up honest telling a girl you like her, yes approaching a women on the street and saying I like you will creep her out.
/r/seduction13/04/20 04:51 PM
1

What has nutrition advice got to do with seduction? Does he claim it gets you chicks or something
/r/seduction12/04/20 02:20 PM
0

I thought the book was very good, I’m a late bloomer and still learning and thought the book offered a good perspective.
/r/seduction11/04/20 06:54 PM
3

There’s another guy that asks does he look different for a girl he’s meeting...wtf people
/r/seduction11/04/20 06:51 PM
31

Breaking: married couple have sex
/r/seduction11/04/20 10:12 AM
1

Would you two be allowed a weekend away? You could treat her to visit a town or something and see if you get action :) But keep going and eventually it will happen
/r/seduction10/04/20 10:42 PM
2

Sounds like she’s uncomfortable for now with sex, maybe it’s anxiety of it being a new thing for her. My advice is talk to her about and ask is she comfortable with it and see what she says. It’s very common
/r/seduction10/04/20 10:28 PM
48

I mean both of you are equally as important in the relationship, she shouldn't be placed as a higher value and the same with you.
/r/seduction10/04/20 03:02 PM
1

I remember hearing a story about a guy who wondered why did someone less attractive have a girlfriend while he didn’t? He couldn’t understand it and thought women were just unfair. But want to know something, the guy might be more attractive than the dude with a girlfriend but the difference is that the dude with the girl accepted that he may not be as attractive as others and instead stopped bitching and worked hard for a career that’s earning him big money. Point is, stop complaining about fac…
/r/seduction10/04/20 10:50 AM
7

Focusing on women isn't going to help you, of course we want a women in our lives but forgetting to improve your self isnt going to end well for your future self. Find goals, whether it be career related, fitness etc and aim to complete them. In a relationship the man is equally as important as the girl and that's why you don't treat her like a celebrity. So a summary, have goals and aim to complete them whatever they may be, women will always be around but your time is limited and certain goals…
/r/seduction08/04/20 08:53 PM
1

Does she text you or is it you?
/r/seduction08/04/20 08:49 PM
3

Girls like physical attraction like dudes like tits and ass, it’s not essential to have but it’s attractive. Girls want someone who will value them and be there for them, not to be fucked around it
/r/seduction07/04/20 05:50 PM
2

Lol no they don’t,
/r/seduction07/04/20 05:43 PM
1

Approach anxiety comes from the fear of rejection, dating back to the times of when we had to be accepted into clans in order to survive or else were in the wild surrounded by predators that will kill you, scary thought and no surprise that we get anxiety over it. But back to anxiety, exposure is your friend, exposure allows your brain to learn that what it's anxious about actually isn't go bad after all, it takes time and can go in stages but the end results are worth it.
/r/seduction05/04/20 07:47 PM
1

Confident is just a word, the key is too battle on when your feeling not confident. Were humans and we all have emotional swings, sometimes where high as a kite then where low.
/r/seduction05/04/20 07:42 PM
1

That’s normal, I wouldn’t be so harsh on yourself mate.
/r/seduction04/04/20 06:04 PM
1

Why don’t you want to risk making a move? Do you mean as in consent or you aren’t confident enough?
/r/seduction04/04/20 05:36 PM
-1

Bro seriously, don’t buy into bullshit like this. Work towards being confident and charismatic inside of telling yourself you are it.
/r/seduction04/04/20 05:32 PM
-3

Or you could setup goals to achieve and work towards, stop buying into all this bullshit. If you want change then fucking work towards it!
/r/seduction04/04/20 11:13 AM
2

Like anything she says you agree. You’ll not be be yourself just so you can get her
/r/seduction01/04/20 01:18 AM
3

Needy I think comes from a lack of opportunities, basically you don’t approach enough girls so any girl that comes around you become needy because you feel another opportunity won’t happen for awhile. Needy meaning your too agreeable, wanting everything to go perfect etc.
/r/seduction01/04/20 12:50 AM
1

To get more volume just approach a lot of women, simple.
/r/seduction01/04/20 12:48 AM
3

There is no fuck it, you just simply carry on despite being nervous or scared to do it
/r/seduction30/03/20 06:13 PM
3

Agreed. There’s endless amounts of free information on dating but it really boils down to certain factors, having attraction between the two along with an honest relationship. You could be very confident and know what to say but if she’s not attracted to you then it’s pointless what you say because she isn’t into you.
/r/seduction29/03/20 03:26 PM
1

True man but I feel like it’s all being made complicated when it’s not
/r/seduction28/03/20 07:28 PM
3

Can we stop having all these terms for attracting women? Sellers mentality? Really?... Next week we’ll see posts like “your breathing method is unattractive, here’s how to breathe attractively!”
/r/seduction28/03/20 07:01 PM
2

Why do you keep posting this? Seriously stop
/r/seduction26/03/20 11:24 PM
2

My guess is you want validation, wanting to be told your good looking is a needy thing to do and means your self conscious
/r/seduction26/03/20 11:02 PM
6

Why do you keep posting this here?
/r/seduction26/03/20 11:01 PM
1

How so? Todd v is a pua selling his product so naturally he'll claim that by buying his program you'll get a girl, just buy the book models it's cheaper and fantastic!
/r/seduction26/03/20 10:45 PM
1

I wouldn't bother, there's endless free advice available
/r/seduction26/03/20 10:39 PM
6

Yah you look different in a bad way man sorry
/r/seduction26/03/20 10:38 PM
1

Because people don’t want to admit that porn is a problem and they don’t want to give it up themselves.
/r/seduction25/03/20 02:30 AM
4

Teeth is important
/r/seduction24/03/20 07:51 PM
-3

What porn does is it creates a false reality of sex along with objectifying women. It’s a subject guys don’t want to admit, that giving up porn is damaging their minds yet won’t stop the habit. I’d recommend the book Your brain on porn
/r/seduction24/03/20 04:02 PM
8

Porn addiction is real and effects a lot of people, it’s like telling an alcoholic it’s fine to drink when there life has been ruined due to alcohol.
/r/seduction24/03/20 02:16 PM
1

Meet the girl already Jesus man
/r/seduction23/03/20 12:21 PM
0

Again I disagree, telling a women how you feel about her is important for the relationship to grow. I understand that there's girls who seek validation and telling them their hot is what they want and you should avoid
/r/seduction21/03/20 02:29 AM
1

I think it’s a divided opinion, if you were 30 and she was 25 it wouldn’t make a difference but because your 23 and she’s still in high school makes it awkward but she 18 and an adult so best of luck to you both!
/r/seduction21/03/20 12:38 AM
5

I disagree with the third paragraph. As men we should compliment a women if we're attracted to them. Of course giving out validation to women who crave it isn't going to do much but like I said if the girl genuinely attracts you then mention to her. I mean good look getting with a girl without complimenting her
/r/seduction21/03/20 12:10 AM
1

Wrong sub
/r/seduction18/03/20 09:15 PM
0

Models talks about all these things, how old are you?
/r/seduction18/03/20 04:59 PM
1

What exactly are you looking for? The book you want doesn’t exist
/r/seduction18/03/20 04:42 PM
1

You’ve missed the point, what you want is to be spoon fed and given a “how to get laid book”. Models is worth it and contains a lot of good advise
/r/seduction18/03/20 04:23 PM
2

Models really is on the money, it’s a good ass book that speaks the truth, I’ve never bought into making seduction complicated like dudes talk about shit tests and what not. If your expecting models to give you step by step guides then it’s not for you but I’m 100% convinced that if you listen to the book says it will help you getting into a relationship
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:42 PM
1

He's right though, it's the same advice on here repeated. We all know self improvement is important but it's not going to guarantee you chicks.
/r/seduction18/03/20 11:21 AM
5

When you say honest with intentions do you mean you just tell her straight up that you like her
/r/seduction17/03/20 11:32 PM
1

Good mod
/r/seduction17/03/20 01:19 PM
0

Personally toddv kinda over Complicates the whole PUA scene.
/r/seduction15/03/20 06:45 PM
2

Personally posts like this shouldn’t be posted on here 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction15/03/20 01:26 AM
0

Bro just go and see how the night goes!!
/r/seduction15/03/20 01:22 AM
5

Just being honest is the key and also fakin it till you make it doesn't always work
/r/seduction13/03/20 02:26 PM
1

Honestly man you'll never be ready, it's one of those things in life when an opportunity arises you take it.
/r/seduction13/03/20 11:21 AM
2

Yes it is lol, she's either attracted to you or not.
/r/seduction13/03/20 11:18 AM
2

No it doesn’t, If a girl cares about your Instagram following then she isn’t worth it...
/r/seduction12/03/20 02:49 AM
1

Honestly man I really wouldn’t bother with Instagram, get out into the real world and approach chicks.
/r/seduction11/03/20 11:58 PM
2

The PUA Community has ruined this sub, it's just dudes looking for advice on chicks but instead get this complicated guide on women when it's alot simplier than that.
/r/seduction11/03/20 10:48 PM
5

Pua advice is short term and doesn't work for long term
/r/seduction11/03/20 10:47 PM
2

The best books are the ones that feed your curiosity
/r/seduction10/03/20 03:58 PM
2

You can read all the books but if you don’t approach then it’s pointless :)
/r/seduction10/03/20 11:35 AM
76

Porn definitely satisfies your sexual needs and creates an attraction to a women that’s not achievable. It’s actually so hard to give it up but once you can you’ll feel a lot better.
/r/seduction09/03/20 07:08 PM
1

Honestly who gives a fuck about having a following on Instagram? And please don’t fake it till you make it because long term it’s going to fuck you over.
/r/seduction09/03/20 06:59 PM
22

What's wrong here is that your being needy and feeling entitled. Girls don't have to fuck you or speak to you. What you need to do is be vulnerable and approach girls and be confident in doing so.
/r/seduction08/03/20 11:58 AM
7

I’ve always wondered why is it that the brain can learn a new concept and still revert back to its old ways. No matter how many theories you learn about rejection or anxiety you still get those feelings even though you shouldn’t. No matter how many articles, books, podcasts I’ll listen to on the topic of development I still live in a bubble of fear. The mind really does interest me and I feel that there’s something I’m missing but can’t put my hands on it. Just a rant I needed to write :)
/r/seduction06/03/20 01:37 AM
18

Would you watch a lot of porn? I’ve experienced this where I’m attracted to a certain type of girl but once I go cold turkey from porn I’m attracted to a wide range of girls But I wouldn’t say there’s anything wrong with liking a type of girl because it’s how you feel, there’s no point in dating someone you don’t find attractive
/r/seduction05/03/20 03:09 AM
1

Do you mean you just hate loud venues like bars?
/r/seduction05/03/20 03:01 AM
1

Totally agree.
/r/seduction05/03/20 03:00 AM
13

I think dudes get this whole alpha male idea wrong, I’ve worked with real alpha dudes and they couldn’t care about women, they want a job done correctly and there leaders.
/r/seduction05/03/20 01:46 AM
29

But please remember dudes that don’t always wait for the girl to make a move because it’s a rare occasion it happens, have a good time with the boys but if a girl catches your eye then make a move on her
/r/seduction02/03/20 06:39 PM
3

Nah this is shit advice, a women derserves more respect than what you feel. Saying a girl is a “sex relief” means that you’ll never find real love or a long lasting relationship
/r/seduction29/02/20 06:37 PM
6

It's really a sub for pua to promote their business...
/r/seduction27/02/20 12:44 PM
1

No, fucking unattractive women isn’t he solution
/r/seduction26/02/20 04:15 PM
1

Sounds like models by Mark Manson! But still it’s a good piece
/r/seduction25/02/20 10:15 PM
1

Personally it sounds like you just weren't into her, I mean if I was attracted to a girl who I was talking to id be for sure motivated! One question I have for you is do you watch any porn? This could be the reason for your lack of motivation
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:27 PM
1

The whole point of game is too find a cute you like and find attractive, not going around fucking women you don't like...
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:20 PM
1

This advice sucks man haha wtf
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:17 PM
-7

You say this "Sorry to bother you, but I think you look really cute and it would make my day if I could get your number" And of course you smile alot during this interaction
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:16 PM
1

Fuck no, keep approaching.
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:12 PM
1

Firstly I wouldn't worry about it, your friends did the right thing making you approach a girl BTW! When you motivation are you referring to what to talk about? If so the questions are endless. Also whether or not anything comes from the interaction just remember it's good for you to approach and just talk regardless if anything more happens
/r/seduction24/02/20 06:11 PM
25

Don't answer questions you werent asked, like if you approach a girl and say "hey I'm Billy and I have social anxiety". That's going to turn her off! Keep it simple and get to know her
/r/seduction22/02/20 05:17 PM
5

Books don't matter, start by approaching women
/r/seduction22/02/20 01:39 AM
1

It's OK man, glad I could help!
/r/seduction22/02/20 01:38 AM
2

See right there is a problem! You have you be yourself. Saying the right words personally is bullshit. When you approach her introduce yourself and compliment her but also question is she worth it for me, am I faking my true self just to please her? I’ve experienced this, I cold approach a girl and I become a yes man, everything she says I agree with or I’m trying to please her. I’ve learned that’s why that cold approach will go nowhere because your going against your true self and being needy. …
/r/seduction22/02/20 12:08 AM
2

Talk to chicks...it’s as simple as that! I’m not saying I’m a chick magnet or when I socialize I’m always talking to girls because I don’t but the no 1 thing I’ve learn is that girl shouldn’t have to cold approach you, it should be you doing that.
/r/seduction21/02/20 11:59 PM
1

How many chicks have you talked to lately?
/r/seduction21/02/20 11:37 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/seduction21/02/20 11:37 PM
2

Please don’t assume this book will get you in bed with super models!. The book is great and contains good information but please don’t think you’ll read the book and get any girl you want
/r/seduction21/02/20 11:18 PM
1

The book is useful but I’m not 100% sure if it can help with seduction
/r/seduction12/02/20 06:31 PM
1

Dude this isn’t r/sex. People are hear because they want to get a girl first
/r/seduction11/02/20 11:30 AM
2

Fuck tinder honestly, it creates a need for women to want validation. Cold approaches are fun and make you more confident!
/r/seduction10/02/20 01:56 PM
3

This also applies to most things in life also, you can read all the books on self development but if you don't take action then whats the point
/r/seduction31/01/20 11:31 AM
4

Personally I would take pride in being introverted. It's a character trait your have so own it.
/r/seduction30/01/20 12:50 PM
1

Thing is I know my insecurities yet I’m ok with them but still feel annoyed by them. Weird one
/r/seduction29/01/20 06:26 PM
1

Literally come over and talk to us. For guys it makes our night better and easier if a girl talks first
/r/seduction24/01/20 03:30 AM
3

Also understand that your thoughts are just thoughts. I’m not saying that I’m a Wowthanksimcured way but it’s true. So many times I’ll be day dreaming about something I think has happened when it was just a thought
/r/seduction21/01/20 10:41 PM
52

If a girl cares about how many followers you have then she’s not worth your time. Social media creates a need for validation along with being popular. Life is too short to give a fuck about something that doesn’t matter.
/r/seduction06/01/20 01:03 PM
17

Just to add, fellas lay off the porn because it really doesn't do us a favour and just isn't healthy either
/r/seduction19/12/19 05:14 PM
6

Clients tinder? Man the dating game can’t be this complicated
/r/seduction15/12/19 05:27 PM
31

Let talk some real truth here fellas There is no book, podcast, video or reddit post that will make you ready for approaching, they can guide you but it's up to you to make the approach. What are you afraid of? Her saying no? Why? If she says no your life will remain the same and you'll be fine, believe me your much better being told no than living a lift or "what if". You'll be dead long enough so why not have a drink and just approach the girl
/r/seduction14/12/19 07:43 PM
5

Your goal should be to create a conversation with a girl and flirt, you shouldn't be needy for sex and a kiss because that's why it hasn't happened for you. It's like the girls can sense your neediness I get it, you want some pussy like most of us but man you need to ease up and be patient, if you can't hold a conversation then forget about sex for now. Ask a girl her name, offer to buy her a drink, make jokes, compliment her but don't be needy. Good luck man!
/r/seduction13/12/19 02:39 AM
1

Have you found out how to solve death grip?
/r/seduction13/12/19 02:35 AM
2

Action always beats no action! Big ups brotha
/r/seduction12/12/19 10:27 PM
1

Thought you being sarcastic It varies from retro brands like champion, fila And too modern brands like Tommy Hilfiger and loads more
/r/seduction11/12/19 01:18 AM
1

Any
/r/seduction11/12/19 01:13 AM
8

No no Learn how the average person dresses at a bar or club, where I live most guys wear jeans, expensive sneakers, designer hoodies or sweaters. If the average person where you live dresses well then you should too
/r/seduction10/12/19 10:37 PM
14

You don't need to dress up with gucci, just something nice and maybe casual like a nice bomber jacket with a designer hoodie Where I live and my age group that's regarded as dressy
/r/seduction10/12/19 10:14 PM
1

This.
/r/seduction06/12/19 04:52 PM
0

I feel attacked, but seriously I needed this
/r/seduction22/11/19 05:22 PM
12

Try CBT, it’s basically you questioning your thoughts and are they rational or irrational. So your thinking about a party and all your thoughts are ridiculous like “I’ll loose my friends, no one will talk to me, I’ll get into a fight”, basically you shut down thoughts that are irrational and instead replace them with rational thoughts like “if I loose my friends I’ll be ok, why will I get into a fight?, people will talk to me”. It’s so much easier said than done but it helps and can seperate you…
/r/seduction15/11/19 06:34 PM
1

Yes spot on, most of us know what we should do but it's really us not bothering to practice them. People are waiting for a magical post until they start taking action when that's not going to happen. Don't worry about confidence because it'll come with practice around girls
/r/seduction22/10/19 06:29 PM
6

Look its a good post but it's always the same, most posts all feature the same concepts yet people still don't understand them.
/r/seduction22/10/19 11:21 AM
732

Hey girl you look nice, where’s the toilet?
/r/seduction19/10/19 12:06 PM
41

Stuff like this personally doesn't matter towards your confidence, confidence is really just being OK with what could go wrong in a situation but you still do it. For example, a Confident man approaches a women knowing that if she rejects him he'll be OK and move on freely A confident person moves away from home knowing the challenges that could lie ahead yet knows that he'll be able to handle them. It's being OK with what could go wrong that makes you confident
/r/seduction27/09/19 02:15 PM
3

Unless you try then it won’t work but honestly it’s good fun hitting on girls, try it
/r/seduction20/09/19 12:38 AM
5

That's good that your approaching, don't give up or give yourself unnecessary anxiety, if they don't text back move on to the next Bitch or send that bitch a text and if they don't reply fuck them
/r/seduction07/08/19 02:41 PM
41

What's wrong here is you're desperate, girls can smell this of guys so be careful. Whenever your out again with your friends make it your goal to approach one girl, the worst thing she'll do is say no then you move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction07/08/19 02:28 PM
1

Can you add spaces after a paragraph ends please
/r/seduction29/07/19 06:29 PM
1

Head over to r/MaleHairAdvice and get yourself a proper hair! Then starting focusing on your life and not girls, girls should be the last thing on your right now cause it seems your mental health isn’t in the right place.
/r/seduction26/04/19 12:06 PM
6

Don’t text her daily, leave it for another few days unless she texts you in the mean time
/r/seduction25/04/19 03:57 PM
1

Conversation starters like Lovely weather Nice clothes If your meeting people at a party you’d ask how’s your night doing etc
/r/seduction22/04/19 08:53 PM
4

There’s a few YouTube channels you need Alpha male strategy’s Todd v dating
/r/seduction18/04/19 09:01 PM
2

Never worry about creeping a girl out unless you stalk her or harass etc but honestly just move on and focus on the next event your attending. Watch videos on the fear of rejection to give you a better understanding
/r/seduction18/04/19 08:56 PM
1

If the girl is hot ask her “How’s the modeling going or what modeling agency are your with” this makes them laugh but alway lets her know you find her attractive
/r/seduction18/04/19 02:52 PM
4

A 30 year old man fucking a 17 year old isn’t normal , yes their both the consent age but come on maybe if he fucked a 25 year old but god damn a 17 year old?
/r/seduction18/04/19 02:49 PM
3

That’s in America right? I’m asking because it’s really Common where I live to just make out with a girl and never get into a relationship
/r/seduction17/04/19 07:54 PM
2

Just wondering is it not common just to make out with a girl where you live without being a couple?
/r/seduction17/04/19 07:49 PM
6

Fapping too much isn’t healthy, it affects yours dopamine levels greatly and should only be done in moderation
/r/seduction14/04/19 07:33 PM
1

Never, it’s meaningless sex with no true love.
/r/seduction13/04/19 11:01 PM
1

I like to think that confidence is a muscle in the body, when you train ( so in this case practice confidence) the muscle it gets bigger and for confidence the more you put yourself into situations that’s fearful to you then you’re confidence will rise!
/r/seduction13/04/19 10:59 PM
0

From my experience, people tell me I should have no problem pulling ladies which must mean I’m at 7/10, but yet I don’t get action like this other guy when I personally feel that I have what he has in terms of looks.
/r/seduction12/04/19 10:56 PM
0

6-7
/r/seduction12/04/19 10:44 PM
22

That’s awesome, imagine if you had pussied out and never asked her.Life is crazy
/r/seduction12/04/19 08:59 PM
5

Happens in clubs mainly when a girl wants your attention or she’s just fucking with you
/r/seduction11/04/19 11:25 PM
9

Be proud that you have the confidence to approach, keep going and you’ll find a girl
/r/seduction10/04/19 09:46 PM
1

Meant too say that is*
/r/seduction10/04/19 09:44 PM
1

Super useful
/r/seduction18/03/19 11:42 PM
2

That’s certainly me! Is the whole book good or only certain chapters
/r/seduction16/03/19 08:11 PM
3

Hey man appreciate the advice, best of luck with that girl and I hope it works out
/r/seduction16/03/19 07:40 PM
2

Did the Subtle art of not giving a fuck help you?
/r/seduction16/03/19 07:11 PM
3

I’m 19 and most of my friends had girlfriends in there life but I haven’t, but is it weird that I don’t want a relationship yet? I kinda want to just do my thing and then get a girl instead of one now
/r/seduction16/03/19 07:05 PM
1

That’s hilarious 😂
/r/seduction13/03/19 05:31 PM
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