GoldyTwatus Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Having 5 f*ck buddies at the same time Oh yeah? I could have 21 frick buddies if I looked like Henry cavile and was also a millionaire comedian	/r/seduction	02/01/26 03:17 PM
1	Men issues are only considered issues, when it starts affecting women. They are bitter because they have been treated poorly in life, you won't like the analogy - but it's a less extreme version of people who suffered childhood trauma. If you are not treated well, it will affect your personality. You don't blame the person who has become bitter after that	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 12:21 PM
1	Men issues are only considered issues, when it starts affecting women. I already explained it, they are bitter because of how they are treated in general, you aren't just rejected from the dating world because you are short and ugly	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/25 04:34 PM
1	having multiple women isn't just a choice it's a necessity. How many real women look as good as her at 50? There are still plenty of non hollywood actress 20 year olds who look better	/r/seduction	15/12/25 04:26 PM
-1	having multiple women isn't just a choice it's a necessity. Which women are the real prize then if it's not the most desirable age group?	/r/seduction	13/12/25 08:27 PM
6	Men issues are only considered issues, when it starts affecting women. You are making empathy conditional. You only care if someone has already behaved perfectly. Explaining why a lot of men do not engage with therapy is not "making excuses". "Just go to therapy" is not a magic answer when the system is a bad fit for many men, and when the second they talk about what feels off, it gets dismissed as them "blaming others". You cannot tell men to seek help and then call every issue they mention an excuse. That is part of the stigma you are blaming them for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 04:48 PM
1	Men issues are only considered issues, when it starts affecting women. Why would someone who is angry and bitter care about being considered toxic? Why would they care about the world getting worse? You can respond by asking why should anyone care about them in that case, see how that works out for the west.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 04:47 PM
1	Men issues are only considered issues, when it starts affecting women. Maybe that made more sense in your head - could you try that again?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/25 04:31 PM
7	Men issues are only considered issues, when it starts affecting women. All of the angry and bitter men who are virgins at 30, are bitter and angry for a reason. They aren't virgins because they were bitter and angry at 18, it's because they were short, ugly or the most common - average. Any of them that aren't bitter need to go and see a doctor because there's something wrong with them	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 10:50 PM
5	Men issues are only considered issues, when it starts affecting women. Therapy is setup for women, the vast majority of therapists are women. It is not designed, or capable of helping the majority of men that need it	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 10:40 PM
1	Why all these alpha males on YouTube still unmarried or still figuring it out The same guys who say that marriage is a trap, and to avoid it at all costs? Why are those guys not married? It's their job to advertise that men should be sleeping around as much as possible, they are at least claiming to practise what they preach	/r/seduction	24/11/25 03:55 PM
1	Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassing What is it about videos that damage men in ways magazines and prostitutes can't? Does watching porn in 4K make you dumber than someone watching in 360p? They wanted a partner who didn't watch it either. Did their anti porn talk come out before or after you told them you wouldn't give them a chance if they watch porn? If you can't control yourself due to hormones, you're advocating that men should have less rights. Yeah there are some rights that people don't deserve, I don't believe men should h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 11:33 PM
–	Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous way I agree that once you match, reading the bio and putting in effort matters. My point is about the stage before that. Many men are stuck at the pre-match stage where reading bios doesn’t improve the match rate. If they only swipe on profiles they’ve read and like, they end up with none.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/25 11:28 PM
2	A lot of "dating problems" seem like "middle class" problems to me. Sorry can someone else spell this out for me, I can't be bothered to read it	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 02:50 PM
2	A lot of "dating problems" seem like "middle class" problems to me. Being a parent is not the same as being a good parent, being a single mother does not mean you are doing "better" than anyone	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 02:45 PM
2	Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous way The men complaining are the ones who get no matches, and they don't read bios, men do read bios once they match	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 01:11 PM
4	Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous way The men who complain about being unsuccessful are not getting matches, and the ones that complain and do get a few matches only get those by swiping right on everyone, they would get none if they cared about bios	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 12:57 PM
2	Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous way Because the average man has to swipe right on between 100-140 profiles for one match, what is the point of reading 140 bios for one match? No man with any self respect could or should do that	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 12:20 PM
7	Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous way Most men get almost no matches even if they swipe on everyone, how would taking their time and reading profiles change their match rate? They usually start out reading profiles before realising that they don't have any options - so any pickiness is pointless	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 12:13 PM
0	What do men mean when they say women's standards are too high According to who? With or without makeup? In a population, men and women draw from the same genetics, there is no built in reason for one sex to be globally better looking. What makes a man attractive is different to what makes a woman attractive, what you say is only true if you think long eyelashes and a narrow jaw are what make you attractive as a human, rather than just as a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 11:32 AM
1	Any violant agenda or idealogy men subscribe to is entirely their faults and therefore responsibility I said feminists typically no. We aren't harming society, the people that feel rejected from society might harm society. I don't know where you are getting that idea that "we" would be doing harm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 11:18 AM
2	What do men mean when they say women's standards are too high If the most bang average man and woman had two kids, a boy and a girl, in your mind that average girl would be attractive and the boy would be unattractive. That is just perspective, makeup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/25 01:14 AM
1	Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassing Because men somehow survived before high speed internet porn Erotica existed before the internet, and prostitution before that. The internet just made it free and easily accessible, men didn't start wanting sex just because wi-fi arrived. Because I've met men who don't watch it Easy for them to say they don't, hard to know they don't. Because 'hormone levels' don't remove free will or agency. If you can just overcome hormones and neurochemicals with agency and free will, why does it matter if yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/25 04:44 PM
1	Any violant agenda or idealogy men subscribe to is entirely their faults and therefore responsibility Civil rights activists yes, feminists typically no, but to the main question - what change is it you want incels to be protesting for?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/25 04:41 PM
1	Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassing What views does a man need to have of sex to watch porn? Say it didn't shrink grey matter, what is the problem with it then? Well your feelings aren't exactly good proof of that. I say that instead of outright saying that it 100% is not accurate to avoid having to write a long paragraph about it, because unless you have a study only you have access to, there isn’t a “66% divorce rate” for ADHD marriages. ADHD is linked to higher breakup risk in some contexts, whether one partner has ADHD or the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/25 09:42 AM
3	Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks. Except you asked the question "Why are men initiating so much?" That is talking about initiating, do you not agree with my answer?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/25 04:09 PM
1	Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassing You think people with high body counts are whores, and porn watchers are rotting and shrinking their brains though, like you mentioned in the other comments? If they aren't bad people, are they just good people doing one thing wrong and could possibly change? No it isn't, ADHD has a 66% divorce rate in marriage for a reason. I don't think that is accurate, isn't it only older people who were never treated for ADHD? Autism makes sense but filtering out something common with a wide range levels of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/25 03:55 PM
1	Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassing You say it's a choice, but how would you know? Have you tried injecting yourself with test to raise your levels 10x? And if you did and became constantly horny, why would you restrain yourself from watching something that brings you pleasure, what would be the point? If it was a choice, it would be between pleasure and silencing sexual thoughts, or no pleasure. There are also studies that show watching porn shrinks grey matter in the brain. That's just the reward system in the brain, why do you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/25 03:32 PM
2	Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassing Older women are as lonely as young men, the older a man gets the less likely he is to be alone, which is the reverse for women. A 45 year old woman is no more desirable for sex than a 45 year old man	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/25 03:17 PM
1	Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassing None of the standards on this list are crazy or hard to attain. Almost every man with access to the internet watches porn, that's just a consequence of testosterone. Must have been a femosphere influencer that convinced you it was evil. Thinking anyone who's slept with more than 5 people is a whore, is a manosphere level belief. So you failed to meet your own requirements.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/25 02:58 PM
2	Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassing Your beliefs are the female equivalent of the manosphere - i.e. porn and a high body count = bad person, most men aren't good enough, no manosphere beliefs (equivalent to your own), and the ADHD one is just weird	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/25 02:52 PM
1	Any violant agenda or idealogy men subscribe to is entirely their faults and therefore responsibility There is a big middle ground, most excluded men just quietly opt out. A small group won't pick the middle ground, that is expected. Civil rights changes involved had plenty of violence, movements planned around the reality of expecting violence. Civil rights changes had clear, legitimate targets that could be changed, which were the same rights for everyone. You can't legislate dating app standards or attraction, so what change would the incels and redpillers be non violently protesting for?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/25 01:54 PM
1	Any violant agenda or idealogy men subscribe to is entirely their faults and therefore responsibility I'm talking about violence like OP was. I think the confusion is that I said you can expect some excluded men to turn violent; you saw that as me saying we should let them be violent. Violence is illegal, we already prevent and punish it. I'm not saying "society isn't a utopia so wreck it". I’m saying exclusion changes incentives. When someone is shut out from a society, with no belonging, no status, no credible path back, their stake in the system disappears, and some stop caring what happens t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/25 01:41 PM
3	Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks. Well you can't fuck thousands of woman a day, that's logistics. Some guys are doing multiple a day, as many as they can. You agree with my point about men being expected to initiate though?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 11:31 PM
2	Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks. Because they have always been expected to, they were raised to. Why are men almost always the proposers? Are they marriage obsessed? They aren't getting turned down, and they do speedrun average women	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 08:07 PM
1	Any violant agenda or idealogy men subscribe to is entirely their faults and therefore responsibility When you say "I don’t understand why we would make things worse for more" and "Why would we allow a descent into deeper suffering" what does that mean? What is going to make things worse for more, and how will you stop a descent into deeper suffering if not changes? Others having it worse globally doesn't change how exclusion feels. Yes there is a new reality, a lot of men will end up without partners and that makes sense. What doesn't make sense is expecting them to be happy, or to do nothing a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 07:01 PM
1	Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks. By that age maybe the men are more sex obsessed, or maybe the men that go on to be older virgins were more obsessed than the women, before the women had lots of experience at the same age. No way to know, it's just funny that the group with far more experience in something calls the other group sex obsessed. Is it just the case that having such an abundance of sex eventually makes a woman less interested, or can you prove they weren't as interested before they racked up all that experience?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 05:46 PM
4	Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks. Because men are expected and trained to initiate, so women become the gatekeepers. Sex with men from a small selected group	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 05:38 PM
1	Any violant agenda or idealogy men subscribe to is entirely their faults and therefore responsibility The point isn't that you need to change anything, just that you can't pretend chronically excluded men turning against society doesn't make sense. "Others have it worse" is the relative privation fallacy, comparing suffering doesn't treat suffering. Belonging, status and intimacy are normal human needs. The men who harm society in these cases are ones who used to be part of that particular society, not other men on the other side of the world. I didn't suggest any changes, let alone a change tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 05:17 PM
-1	Confrontation Openers Are Amazing! Zoomers were raised by AI so they have no ability to write original comments, all they can say is "AI slop"	/r/seduction	03/11/25 01:19 PM
5	Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks. It's obvious that you who admits to having lots of sex, and can have more whenever you want with no effort, don't think much about it. It's not just men being "sex obsessed" that means they are thinking about it and you aren't, it's that they haven't had lots of sex like you, so will be thinking about it more, whereas you feel no pressure to look for it	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/25 01:53 PM
6	Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks. The jet analogy doesn't work. Jets are rare, gatekept luxuries. Sex is an expected act for a normal human, and you have a biological drive for it, you do not expect to have a private jet to be a normal member of society. For options and not fantasies - women get more inbound offers; men get scarcity. More young men are sexless. So “women don’t need sex” doesn't work when they are actually having more of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/25 01:24 PM
8	Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks. Well obviously. You, who has had lots of sex, aren't as desperate for sex as someone who's had none or little, and you won't think about it anywhere near as much. The sex obsessed guy has had less sex than you who doesn't care about sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/25 01:16 PM
1	Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks. If all a man needs for sex is be gay, when he's actually straight, doesn't that show that men won't actually do anything at all for sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/25 01:11 PM
13	Most women aren't having sex as much as rp thinks. This isn't the point you think it is. Women have far more access to sex, and are far more likely to have had lots of sex than men, and are apparently not as interested in sex as men. Which gender has more 25 year old virgins? Is it the sex obsessed gender, or the gender that apparently doesn't need sex? Why is it that the gender who isn't interested in sex so consistently has so much more sexual experience? Women on this sub love to say they don't need sex as much as men and "sex obsessed is a m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/25 01:09 PM
5	Question: How do you NOT be this guy in this situation: He should have, kind of makes your point 2 a bit of a joke eh?	/r/seduction	02/11/25 01:34 AM
1	Any violant agenda or idealogy men subscribe to is entirely their faults and therefore responsibility That doesn't address my point. I didn't say women need to be prizes, I said men who get nothing and are openly rejected by society might not treat society very nicely which is just obvious, I don't know why you'd expect them to do anything different. That's just the reality of the situation, I didn't say anything needed to be change	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/25 12:54 AM
1	As a single man, dating apps are your best bet to find a partner in 2025 There's a middle ground between nothing but selfies vs over the top professional photos of you looking away from the camera slicking your hair back. Too casual vs too tryhard. Get some non selfies smiling outside, use a tripod if you need, take 100 at a time until you get a few good ones in each spot	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/25 02:31 PM
10	while you wait, other men are sleeping with your dream girl I don't get ghosted at all, I'm not dating, the majority of men trying to date very definitely do	/r/seduction	31/10/25 12:52 PM
3	Most women aren't honest about dating apps and finding relationships "2024 Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences study marks the first time a majority of spouses begin their stories online. According to this research, 60% of newly married couples said they met through online dating services" "In Australia, a national study found that 52% of those aged 20–39 met their most recent partner through online dating. European surveys report 30–40% shares among young adults. In Asia, mobile apps like Tinder, Pairs, and local platforms dominate in urban centers, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 12:39 PM
10	while you wait, other men are sleeping with your dream girl Implying that maybe it's not just this guy and instead it's massively inflated modern dating standards, makes me sound like his bestie? I don't know anything about the guy, but I do know serial dating is the no.1 hobby in 2025 and serial dating comes with a lot of ghosting	/r/seduction	31/10/25 12:32 PM
10	The real world treats men in their 20's - 30's onwards who are virgins as failures. Being a virgin at 19 is embarrassing for you? The guys on here are talking about still being virgins at 35+. 19 is nothing, you weren't a virgin at 20 which is still in or before your peak. It's like women who complain how difficult it is to be celibate for 2 weeks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 11:57 AM
25	while you wait, other men are sleeping with your dream girl Yeah he needs to look inwards - make himself taller, only say funny, original and interesting things, and dance like a monkey boy when she clicks her fingers	/r/seduction	31/10/25 11:03 AM
3	Most women aren't honest about dating apps and finding relationships The majority of relationships now start from dating apps	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 09:04 AM
4	Most women aren't honest about dating apps and finding relationships On dating apps they definitely do, the top profiles are the ones the algorithm pushes the most, and you do in real life too. It's 5-10%, not 0.000000001% 1 in a billion level rare. Most people date using apps, a large % of women can get attention from men in the top 5-10% or even just way above their actual level.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 11:47 PM
2	“Women dont care about a man’s personality” is said by superficial men and they gravitate towards superficial women. That's another outcome, what is the cause of being stuck emotionally like a child?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 11:08 PM
3	Most women aren't honest about dating apps and finding relationships Less attractive than the top 5-10%, so good enough in the real world for 90-95% of women. The top 5-10% of men who are the pump and dumpers who don't want relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 11:08 PM
2	Most women aren't honest about dating apps and finding relationships OP explained it, women can have a good relationship any time they want, but the top % of men will pump and dump. A good relationship with someone on their level is possible, those don't contradict.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 08:33 PM
6	Most women aren't honest about dating apps and finding relationships That's if you are under the impression that good looks only help you in dating and relationships, and not every single part of life. Or that being ugly means you are treated worse in every single part of life, which you are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 08:23 PM
2	“Women dont care about a man’s personality” is said by superficial men and they gravitate towards superficial women. A victim complex causes you to become lazy? That's also an outcome rather than a cause, but in your opinion what causes a victim complex?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 07:58 PM
2	Any violant agenda or idealogy men subscribe to is entirely their faults and therefore responsibility That's a fair point, but realistically many lonely involuntarily celibate men will be insecure, and struggle with pride or identity. That's the result of repeated failure taking people beyond their limits, there's only so much disappointment or emotional pain a human can take before it warps them. And the more disappointing and pathetic life is, the harder it is to be zen about it. Obviously not everyone who struggles ends up harming other people, but they are much more likely to. It's a realist…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 07:56 PM
1	“Women dont care about a man’s personality” is said by superficial men and they gravitate towards superficial women. But like I said, he's not saying guys have to put "I'm not superficial" in their dating profiles to get women, he actually said that wouldn't work. He saying that's how you should test whether a personality does matter, it wasn't his advice on picking up women, you are misunderstanding that part. He wanted you to do it to prove that it wouldn't work, he didn't insist it would work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 07:44 PM
2	“Women dont care about a man’s personality” is said by superficial men and they gravitate towards superficial women. Laziness and ego soothing are outcomes, not causes. What causes laziness and what causes ego soothing? What's your treatment plan for laziness?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 07:40 PM
1	“Women dont care about a man’s personality” is said by superficial men and they gravitate towards superficial women. Then it's a bad test, not proof that men don't know what works. The idea that some men will put "nonsuperficial" on their profile thinking it will work is a separate point. A tactic that doesn't work isn't the same as 'men don't know what works to get women'. His example was only meant to compare which fake profile does better. If the test doesn't work then the result aren't of anything, including your conclusion. It being a bad test means the test is bad not that your conclusion is now right. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 07:34 PM
1	Any violant agenda or idealogy men subscribe to is entirely their faults and therefore responsibility The idea is life isn't fair, nothing is supposed to be fair, you are not guaranteed a good life by being a good person, or a bad life by being a bad person. Life (which is society) isn't fair, so why care do people care about being fair within an unfair society? Part of it being unfair is that there are some people, mostly men who will not find anyone to consent, they are born rejects. And when you're bottom of the food chain it's not just relationships where you fail, it's every part of life/so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 07:11 PM
3	“Women dont care about a man’s personality” is said by superficial men and they gravitate towards superficial women. Why doesn't everyone look inwards and just turn their laziness off? Or is laziness the only trait you can't control? What is your advice for lazy people, stop being lazy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 07:03 PM
1	“Women dont care about a man’s personality” is said by superficial men and they gravitate towards superficial women. That profile is just an experiment to prove whether a "nonsuperficial" guy is treated differently. Even if it wouldn't work, they gave it as an example because how else do you test that? Where are all these women posting and laughing at profiles of men saying they are "nonsuperficial"? Do you believe these same women would post the profile of the very attractive man with the nazi tattoo to make fun of it, or is it only the guy committing the sin of claiming to be "nonsuperficial" you'd laugh at?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 05:47 PM
3	“Women dont care about a man’s personality” is said by superficial men and they gravitate towards superficial women. turn to looking inward at their own traits, and how to better them How? Why doesn't everyone just look inward and choose to upgrade their traits to turn themselves into a confident, socially competent genius? Or is it possibly a lot easier said than done, and there are no divine instructions to follow to know exactly how to better your traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 05:44 PM
2	“Women dont care about a man’s personality” is said by superficial men and they gravitate towards superficial women. AI is godzilla and you are a Japanese civilian, better run	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 05:35 PM
1	“Women dont care about a man’s personality” is said by superficial men and they gravitate towards superficial women. Men do what works, and that means watching the actions of women and not listening to their words. What women claim works vs what actually works couldn't be further apart.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 05:30 PM
2	Any violant agenda or idealogy men subscribe to is entirely their faults and therefore responsibility What do you mean "ego management skills"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 03:03 PM
4	Any violant agenda or idealogy men subscribe to is entirely their faults and therefore responsibility It is no excuse for committing crime, but when you say "life is unfair" to people, and some of those people don't get what they want out of society, why do they care what happens in that unfair society? If it's all unfair then why is it unfair to destroy it? It might not be morally acceptable but it is going to happen. Why expect people rejected from normal parts of society to care about whether they damage society?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 03:02 PM
1	It doesn't matter. Everything always leads back to it being men fault. Or women can keep trying to babytrap men and continue the single mother epidemic	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 02:03 PM
2	What’s up with some of the men on this sub conflating attractiveness with being a shitty person? They expect an answer, but what is the answer? What does an ugly guy have to do to get into a relationship? An attractive man is pulled into more social situations with much less effort, most of the time he will end up better socially just by being more socially experienced. The answer is the ugly man has to be more social, with a massive social handicap, which makes it an unappealing option. He'll want different answers and some clear steps he can follow, which is fair enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/25 11:25 AM
2	Characterizing the male (testosterone-dominant) libido as an unstoppable, irresistible force is a massive cop-out Did testosterone give you testicles and the ability to ejaculate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 02:03 PM
1	Characterizing the male (testosterone-dominant) libido as an unstoppable, irresistible force is a massive cop-out So a man with a penis (with so much in common with a clitoris), and high oestrogen knows what it's like to be a woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 12:47 PM
1	Women are allowed to accept they're not attractive. I’m not praising promiscuity; I’m describing outcomes. A recent German SPPS study found ideal counts for both sexes, roughly 2–3 for women and 4–5 for men, so men’s ideal is about double women’s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 12:39 AM
4	Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men? He says his lack of experience bothers him. Saying “his issue isn’t lack of experience” ignores what he wrote. The shame didn’t come out of nowhere, it's from the gap he perceives between his and his partners’ sexual histories, and men and women are judged differently for it. He is not wrong to believe that he was not wanted by women, and he is ashamed of that. It's not redpill making him think that way, he never mentioned redpill, it's his own reality. You assumed that because he was struggling…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/25 12:20 AM
6	Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men? When you say "red pill talking points", what specifically - dating patterns or how apps skew attention? It’s not “see an Instagram reel, become a misogynist.” For many guys it’s: struggle on apps, look for explanations, then encounter those spaces. Feeds can amplify it, but a lot of men only engage when they’re already struggling. Algorithms aren't random, they are optimised for engagement and segment by demographics. They know who is most likely to engage with it, and those groups are most like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 04:42 PM
1	Women are allowed to accept they're not attractive. Whether you care, or whether you want him or not, we are talking about why men and women sleeping around are viewed differently. If you are talking about you personally, being a low body count women who only wants low body count men is rare, you are an exception	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 03:50 PM
1	Women are allowed to accept they're not attractive. It's not about women viewing men who sleep around as being impressive for sleeping around, it's that to sleep around a man has to be impressive in some way. Multiple things about him have to be better than the average man - looks, charisma, etc. It's not something any man can just do, whereas any women can.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 09:08 AM
33	Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men? Why would you assume he has almost no sexual experience at 35 because he's redpill, and not that he's redpill because of that lack of experience? You act like men randomly stumble on the redpill and that's what makes so many men unsuccessful, rather than men turning to the redpill after failing, and the reason you act like that is called bias. He views himself as low value because of his lack of success, why would he view himself as low value before? The actual answer is he needs to try and find…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 09:03 AM
17	Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men? Which question is that an answer to?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/25 08:48 AM
1	Women are allowed to accept they're not attractive. It works perfectly if they switch "Because for a man to sleep around it actually takes skill" to - Because for a man to sleep around he must be impressive It's viewed differently because one requires you to have some rare (impressive) traits, and one doesn't. And because one group gatekeeps sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/25 09:32 PM
1	A lot of the men here who chastise women for either “being too selective” or “not selective enough” (usually the same woman ironically), would do the exact same things if they were women. A lot of people would take advantage of a position of authority if they were given it, but most people have not been given it. You don't need to worry about hypothetical if situations. Lots of people would do immoral things if they were a CEO or prison warden, but they aren't. And the people that are can be fairly criticised	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/25 11:35 AM
1	Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrifice Fatness is a stereotype, there is no stereotype for ugly faces. Facial fatness is almost always considered unattractive. It's only northern Europe where you will notice generally better faces than all other European countries including the UK, the rest are really no different - most people are average.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 07:05 PM
1	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. Right now women in the prime age for dating are far less likely to be single than men, so if they are trying to be single they aren't doing a good job. Quite impressive how not single they are considering how many single men there are	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 07:03 PM
1	Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrifice For women maybe, but there are many European countries with a higher obesity rate than the UK, and those countries do not have a reputation for being fat. It's bias, not reality	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:57 PM
–	Some (and I’d like to reiterate some) men on here aren’t looking for a debate, they have cop out answers for every valid point you bring up; this sub is a pity party for them, a place to find temporary solace. You seem to be pretending there are no men who are noticeably more attractive than average and have it easier. You knowing someone chose not to sleep around isn't an argument that he didn't have it much easier. Chad just means the top 10-20% guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 06:51 PM
0	Q4W: What lie that a man tells you to get into a relationship/into your pants, would be seen as the biggest betrayal? He's either 16, or he's not a woman who considers banging 10 randos a week a normal thing. Of course you wouldn't be worried about that	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 05:23 PM
–	Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrifice As an American you think anyone famous is American, you might want to do some investigating first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 05:19 PM
1	"Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SA Most people are stuck on dating apps, too many men don't work where there are available women, or even do anything socially to be able to approach off apps. It was a lot easier 10 years ago, even 5 years ago it wasn't so bad, now it's over	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 05:17 PM
–	Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrifice Yes, countries are judged by their representatives; hollywood actors, the highest grossing male model alive, more than an internet stereotype poll by people who've never left their own country. The stereotype is also against English women, not men. All of Europe also gives the UK 0 points in Eurovision every year, does that mean the UK also doesn't produce good music? Are there enough famous UK artists to be able to say the UK is good or bad at music? The answer is just that Europe hates the UK …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 05:14 PM
–	Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrifice Plenty of chubby 60 year old Asian men out there	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 04:23 PM
–	Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrifice When are you getting your white knight tag for this sub?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 04:20 PM
–	Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrifice What reputation do you think that is for men? Spend a little time on IMDB and check the nationality of the most desirable leading men in hollywood right now	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 04:19 PM
–	Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrifice London is a shithole, standards are non existent compared to somewhere like Copenhagen or Munich	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 04:17 PM
–	Attraction is the first thing women have to sacrifice The average women's skin without makeup, looks worse than the average man's skin. It's the makeup which damages the skin when it's not on	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 04:10 PM
1	"Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SA Equal numbers does not = equal options. More men than women are single under-30s (63% of men vs 34% of women in the US). Women report being overwhelmed by inbound messages on apps while men report too few, so the bottleneck is attention, not population. Telling men to “just choose women who won’t reject you” assumes symmetrical demand. For the average man, the share of attention means a higher baseline of rejection no matter how he filters. Selectivity isn’t symmetric, platform data shows women …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 11:41 AM
1	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. Guess you haven't seen the poll showing young men are twice as likely to be single as young women. It's only elderly women that are single in large numbers	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/25 09:38 AM
4	"Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SA You really think men and women both have the same options? The average man having no options, and not being considered an option by the average women is why the red pill exists	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 06:27 PM
1	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. They mentioned marriage, and it's only a small portion that don't get married after that much time together	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 03:03 PM
1	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. So there's no reason women should ever be in a relationship? Why aren't they all single then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/25 03:02 PM
–	Literally every male in the history of existence has wanted to have sex. Women should stop acting like a guy it’s disgusting for wanting to have sex. That isn't the same argument though, the guy being judged after lying to get the sex he wants is not the same as the guy who doesn't get sex being told he was never owed sex to begin with	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/25 12:39 PM
1	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. So the extroverted, fun and handsome guy party girls end up marrying, ends up being a man child?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 10:55 PM
1	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. No-one does better with women than criminals and actual violent threatening men	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 07:50 PM
1	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. we want quick time no long ting doh	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 07:48 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. It's true that older people do not have the same expectations for relationships as people in prime relationship/family starting age. Young men who've had no relationships complain about not having relationships, older women who've potentially already had a family or multiple relationships don't complain (on the internet) about not having relationships. Older women do not expect or plan to meet their soulmate just before they die. The main complaint you see here from men is that they they are uns…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 06:51 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. Very few do. The person I replied to claimed that divorced women want to and do get remarried, and the high divorce rate doesn't matter because women will just remarry some other perfect man and their perfect life will continue. I just explained the low chance of remarriage for women and high likely it is for older women to be alone, I didn't give any opinion on whether they wanted that or not. I think it makes sense to avoid repeatedly getting married, or even getting married the first time. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 01:12 PM
1	Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problems No, offering advice to people claiming they are struggling is an extremely common and normal thing. Plenty of people benefit from advice from others, it's what humans do and it is often helpful. The reason my advice wasn't helpful to you is because you were lying about your situation and didn't actually need any advice. If every word I say upsets you so much, you don't need to reply	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 12:44 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. When do men say they want to be with someone they don't want? The younger women, the ones using the internet and giving these opinions, are far less likely to be single than the men of the same age group. So one group actually is far more likely to be single, whereas the other side just says would. The actions do not match the words. It's only when women get older and are considered less attractive by all age groups of men that they are far more likely to be single, so when men stop wanting them…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 12:39 PM
1	Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problems You need to spend less time on this sub and reddit in general, it's not healthy to be so obsessed with being offended by everything	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 12:18 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. You seem to be implying that my comment is telling women to get remarried after they divorce, where did I say that? I said they don't do that, the person I replied to said they do. Reply to them if you disagree with what they said, not me	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 12:09 PM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. It seems like a lot of people with depressing opinions but really it's the same 5 people posting the same thing again and again	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 11:39 AM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. That's your own fantasy. The women most likely to be unpartnered are older women previously divorced, there is an extremely low remarriage rate. Female remarriage rate is 18.5 per 1000 previously married women, half the rate of men. Older women are far more likely to live alone than older men. Your fantasy is not real just because you want it to be, like the fantasy of struggling men believing women will regret turning them down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 11:30 AM
–	Women aren't going to drastically change their lifestyle so that someday you might want to marry them. What happens in real life and not just fiction to sell movies and TV, is that a massive portion of these women end up divorcing these men they marry. They are not living the dream life that you pretend they are. The more partners a woman has had the higher the chance of divorce, so it's a majority	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 11:11 AM
1	Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problems I literally said you are not a failure, because you achieved what you wanted to, you have succeeded in getting what you wanted. You had been saying you had failed so I offered advice to possibly help, then you told me you didn't need advice because you had already been successful. I literally said "You aren't failing" and "you've already been chosen". I don't see how me saying that you can't be trying to prove the point that women have it hard too, with yourself as an example when you have not f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 03:09 PM
2	Average man could put more effort in his appearance and it wouldn't change a thing And who he was was a super intelligent ultra nerd at the most prestigious university in the world. No need to pretend that he was a junkie with no prospects	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 02:43 PM
2	Average man could put more effort in his appearance and it wouldn't change a thing Being single by choice feels fine for you because you've had attention and you've tried relationships, you don't have any reason to feel left out or desperate. A nerdy ugly guy is not tired of getting attention, you would never do it because you can have a much better relationship, you'd need to put yourself in an ugly nerdy mans shoes	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 02:41 PM
1	The avg guy should decenter women or work hard to not be avg What? You can blow your load solo as many times as you want, that won't change that you as a man will be attracted to women. The lazy solution would be to ignore women and tickle your balls 20 times a day	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 02:37 PM
1	Would it be better for more men to drop out of society? You’re mixing prevalence with frequency. Weekly sex is at a modern low: 37% in 2024 vs 55% in 1990. General Social Survey (by Institute for Family Studies, Aug 30, 2025). Latest GSS (2024) shows sexlessness among 18–29s ≈24%, about double the ~12% level around 2010. There was a dip in 2022, but the 2024 wave shows the rise resumed, and the post-2010 level remains much worse than the pre-2010 baseline. GSS 2010–2024 (IFS summary, 2025). Fewer relationships: the share of 18–29s living with a partn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/25 02:28 PM
1	Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problems I don't know what you think I've said that is so bad, doesn't matter anyway. Even in this last comment you went on and on about how you know men don't like or want you, no matter what you try, continuing to try and prove your point that it can be just as hard for women, but then say you don't need advice on how to get men because you already have a partner. So you really didn't have to do or try anything and it still worked out for you because you're a woman. You aren't failing like you said you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 06:31 PM
9	Why do u claim sëx or datìng doesn't matter when u all are themselves not celibatê ? A wiseman once said "Money can't buy you happiness, but it can buy you a yacht big enough to pull up right alongside it"	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/25 11:57 AM
1	Average man could put more effort in his appearance and it wouldn't change a thing Yeah he was also an ultra nerd attending Harvard at the time just like her. He came from a wealthy family, went to an exclusive school before Harvard. It's hard to say it was pure love, and the matchup would have happened the same way if he was living in a trailer and killed rats for a living instead of a visibly intelligent tech nerd at one of the most prestigious universities in the world	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/25 12:56 AM
5	Average man could put more effort in his appearance and it wouldn't change a thing You mean you're still a woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/25 12:46 AM
7	Average man could put more effort in his appearance and it wouldn't change a thing You say that because you are a woman, and you would have other options, zuckerberg wouldn't have any if it wasn't for his money	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/10/25 12:31 AM
1	Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problems Yeah, the police bit was also not serious. I wildly exaggerate all the time. I wouldn't say I think you hate men, but you give off the impression that you are not a big fan. I don't think even if you did hate men it would be cruel, because from your perspective it makes sense. If you think no decent men respect or care about you, why would you care about or view them in any way but negative? Which is why I at least partly assume you don't like the people you believe do not care or show any posit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 10:25 PM
1	Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problems If you're asking if I'm one of the men you talk about who won't consider a relationship with a women because she's has casual sex once and calls her a whore for that, no. I know there are some countries where that's common but in the west that is rare, and even then usually only religious folks. When I said you sounded like you wanted to strangle me, I didn't actually call the police to report a threat to my life, it was just a little hyperbole. This whole time you thought I believed women shoul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 06:44 PM
1	Would it be better for more men to drop out of society? One wobble in a single year doesn't erase a 15 year trend. Since 2010, young-adult sex in the past year, pairing, and time spent with friends have all trended down; living with parents trended up. The baseline has shifted Those issues you mention are structural and not moral failings. Asking strugglers which struggle applies to them proves the point, the environment has changed for a lot of people at once.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/25 02:45 PM
1	Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problems What I mean by you sounding hostile, is you constantly calling me a wannabe victim, if you called someone in the real world a wannabe victim, would they feel you are being friendly or aggro towards them? I don't need to be offended by it to know that you are not a big fan of me or what I'm saying. It was intentional exaggeration to imply that you sound angry, but like you say yourself, you clearly are actually annoyed about what you think I'm saying you should do (banging random guys down some a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 12:25 PM
4	Men want women to settle for them I'm not dictating anyone's attractiveness level. The matching effect is well documented: when you aggregate thousands of judgements and actual pairings, couples cluster around similar perceived attractiveness. They are patterns in the data, not verdicts on individuals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 11:55 AM
2	Outdated view of masculinity clashing with modern culture is why "pill" culture exists For men raised on the old script, this is difficult to navigate. You might feel like you’re doing “the right things” like getting a job, being confidence, stable etc If you believe your entire worth as a man is tied to being the “strongest, most desirable,” then aspiring for height and jawlines naturally follows suit. The hardest pill to swallow? You need to adapt and build value beyond that What are you trying to say men should be doing, if not looking better, having a good job, being confident…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/25 10:19 AM
1	The avg guy should decenter women or work hard to not be avg If you really feel that way, good luck to you, I hope it gets better for you and you change your mind about giving up as you change over the years	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 10:16 PM
1	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? People with their friends, I know a couple of guys that show off their DMs and matches. Literally screen share going through their messages and profile. Bragging about sex is one of the most common brags out there, people go through their dating profiles with friends, people go out to clubs together and see their friends do well there too. Men do nothing but brag about who they sleep with, and know they have to prove it when they do brag, who are you hanging out with that you don't believe peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 10:14 PM
2	Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problems Is this how you talk to men in real life? You sound like you want to strangle me from the first reply, are you sure you're not putting the good guys off by being openly hostile? Women and men do have different issues, but the average man gets no attention in real life or on apps, the average woman gets infinitely more. So say you are a 4/10 as a woman, you still have more opportunity (over 0%) for a real relationship - the kind that you want not just a pump and dump, than a 4/10 man who has 0% c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 10:07 PM
1	Women are not all attracted to a top percentage of “Chads”, here’s why: Oh boy, I wonder if there's any way you could find out if the stats were real!? Do a quick check to see if you can connect to the internet, then reply to me on reddit if you can't. To save you 2 seconds - "2025 survey by The Knot found that over 50% of recently engaged couples met through dating apps" "2024 PNAS study, analzsed data from a nationally representative survey, found that 60% of newly married couples met online" Or if you have the time, look up Statista "How Couples Met" Not only can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 09:30 PM
9	Men want women to settle for them People expect women, just like men, to end up with people of around their own attractiveness level. Women may be more attracted to a hollywood actor than the person they end up with, but you don't have a shot with them just because you find them attractive. It's an ego issue	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 07:06 PM
1	The avg guy should decenter women or work hard to not be avg Some people look best at 12%, some look best a little lower even down to 8%. Look at Kinobody at 8% vs 12+. Could you not get less invasive bone structure changes - palate expansion (MSE)? Or RF microneedling for tighter skin around jaw/under chin? Take a long look at your features and make sure there really isn't anything you can do. There's a lot of minimally invasive stuff that can fix a lot of the common issues, even things that seem genetic and unfixable. Give up completely when you're youn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 05:59 PM
1	The avg guy should decenter women or work hard to not be avg Does your face look defined as it is now? You could try the fat dissolving injections bodybuilders use, targeted reduction of fat pockets, inject into the fat cell to permanently destroy it, fractional laser like SmartXide or similar for massive skin quality boost. FUE hair transplant if you need it. What do you think your issues are, bone structure?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 04:41 PM
2	The avg guy should decenter women or work hard to not be avg You can't fix any of it? Almost everyone can get good skin, a good physique, good hair etc. Even height and face you can do a little about, self improvement is an iceberg, are you sure you've tried everything?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 02:13 PM
4	The avg guy should decenter women or work hard to not be avg It's also implying you can just turn biology off, it's not a choice for men to want to be near and around women. It's like saying just stop eating so many calories as diet advice, you can't turn those drives on and off whenever you feel like it	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 01:19 PM
2	The avg guy should decenter women or work hard to not be avg If you don't mind saying, what are your issues that you consider unfixable? Almost everything can be fixed nowadays, and if you can fix most of your flaws your chances will never be 0%	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 01:04 PM
1	Women are not all attracted to a top percentage of “Chads”, here’s why: You sound upset, do you believe anyone I talk to or anything I talk about off the internet will change the stats? What is the point in refusing to accept stats other than to argue for the sake or arguing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 08:44 PM
1	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? The “respected promiscuous man” means a man who is chosen in the normal dating market. Paying is a different market. Status is public and relational; it comes from observable mutual choice (tags, mutuals, being seen together, DMs). Hidden transactions create no status. So your claim (“if status came from sex, paying would give it”) is false: status doesn’t come from sex; it comes from being desired. That’s what male promiscuity signals; genuine female choice is the scarce resource the man is dem…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 04:21 PM
1	Would it be better for more men to drop out of society? According to that source it doubled from ~12% to 24% among 18–29s (2010 to 2024) Weekly sex is at a modern-record low (37%), and partnering among 18–29s fell 42% to 32%. It's social media driving up standards, more people than ever think they need 10 different cosmetic surgeries to get anywhere in life There have always been strugglers but what's changed is how many there are now	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 04:14 PM
2	Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problems I'm not trying to be any type of victim, you're trying to make this into some weird gender comment war where there is a victim and a winner. Normal men think that you having casual sex just once makes you non-wife material? Nobody thinks that except extreme religious prudes. Most men don't mind if you've had even up to 10 casual partners, it's only when it gets high that people start to care. Most normal women don't just have the better options for casual sex, they have a much better chance of g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 04:02 PM
1	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? Yes, they really do. You’re claiming promiscuous men are treated positively and promiscuous women negatively. How does anyone know someone is promiscuous? Not from self reporting, it's social proof. Real promiscuity leaves a public footprint: being seen arriving/leaving with different partners, tagged stories/photos and overlapping mutuals, visible dating profiles and message threads, friends who can vouch, exes/flings in the same circle. “Hook-ups leave no proof” is at best a one-off edge case.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 03:49 PM
1	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? You've shifted from "“promiscuous men are respected” to “he can buy sex and hide it.” and now claim I'm the one dodging. The status we are discussing comes from social proof, so it is entirely the point. Hidden transactions don't generate status. Saying "he could lie" is an imaginary loophole, not an argument. If you are not getting the status for being successful, you are not a man that is being viewed positively for being promiscuous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 03:08 PM
2	Would it be better for more men to drop out of society? No, your own link supports my point. The “sex recession” is about frequency, weekly sex is at a modern record low, and the share of 18–29s with no sex in the past year has roughly doubled since 2010. Living with parents rose for both sexes, but it’s consistently higher for men; and men under 30 are far more likely to be single. You are mixing up frequency with prevalence	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/25 03:00 PM
1	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? You are pretending, there is no evidence of a hookup with a prostitute unless you record it. Normal hookups leave a long list of proof. Why would you even need a prostitute if people just take your word for it? You could just claim you had sex without even needing to spend money for your story. You cannot gain respect for success you can't show. You can't even claim someone offering a girlfriend experience would convince people, because there would be no real trace of her. No proof, no respect. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/25 12:01 PM
10	Would it be better for more men to drop out of society? It's not the same. More young men now live with their parents for longer, sex and dating for men have fallen to record lows, the number of young men without partners is at a decades-high, time with friends has dropped off massively, and there's far less social mixing	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/25 01:38 AM
1	Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problems The comment you first replied to was a reply to her, she didn't reply to me so I don't know what she thought about it. I'm talking about where you act as if my view is that women should bang random men the second they meet and be grateful for the sex, and that I'm playing the victim as a man who views this as men vs women. Doesn't matter, my point was that let's say you are the average women, you could obviously have more casual sex than the average man, but with those options you also have a mu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/25 09:37 PM
1	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? The paternity doubt is a historical norm that led to a preference that has stuck around, not wanting promiscuous women for a real relationship. Even though the paternity doubt doesn't matter as much now, preferences are still there. How do people know women they call sluts are actually selective? You could know if someone was promiscuous, it's much harder to know if she really is selective. You could see partners she accepted but most likely wouldn't see how many she declined. That's probably ov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/25 09:07 PM
13	Women are not all attracted to a top percentage of “Chads”, here’s why: Yes they are. Online dating is statistically the most common way for couples to meet now	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/25 08:11 PM
8	Would it be better for more men to drop out of society? You don't think more men are doing that now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/25 08:05 PM
8	Would it be better for more men to drop out of society? What do you think dropping out of society looks like?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/25 07:50 PM
15	Women are not all attracted to a top percentage of “Chads”, here’s why: Dating apps are where most relationships start now, dating apps are real life	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/25 06:29 PM
1	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? The social credit/respect men get for being successful with women comes from visible proof; shared photos, mutual friends, tags/invites, existing on their social media. If you don't have proof, you don't get the status. Saying a man can just not admit they are escorts is no different to say he can lie about having sex itself. Prostitutes don't generate social proof, but this whole argument is not related to the actual point, slutty women are not paying for their sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/25 06:25 PM
1	The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face. Yes it would be very difficult for a man to be in a long term relationship with a woman, have kids with her and not respect or like her, maybe as they get older they start to like each other less, who knows. Why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/25 05:36 PM
1	Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problems She said no men want to "get up in this", if you are talking about male prostitutes, what they "want" doesn't matter. Anyway if I was wrong she could tell me, was just asking a question, not trying to expose her or say she should start paying for sex. I'm not saying you should enjoy having the option to be treated like a slot machine, I'm saying with so many opportunities it isn't hard to do a bit of filtering to find a respectful partner even for short term, don't go for guys out at clubs and b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/25 05:31 PM
1	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? There is no way you think a man who pays for 10 prostitutes is respected in society like a man who sleeps with 10 women without any payment involved, because as you know the point is that you are saying promiscuous men are respected and women are not. Respected sexually successful men are respected because they are successful in the normal dating market, not the commercial sex market	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/25 03:36 PM
1	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? You're right that it isn't totally fair. The reasons aren't that convincing, but the main ones are historical paternity certainty, a women always knows the child is hers. If she's had many partners the man has reason to doubt it's his, less of an issue now but it's still ingrained and asking for DNA testing is still not completely accepted even for short term. The other reason is selectiveness, not being selective of your many opportunities is considered a negative trait and being selective a po…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/25 03:28 PM
1	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? Well that's a different thing, but if you accept there is convincing evidence that one group has it a lot easier than the other, the group that has it a lot easier are not going to be considered successful for doing something that requires no effort or respectable qualities on their part	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/25 02:58 PM
7	The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face. Men and women can both have value and acceptance, I don't understand the rest of what you're saying. Women can be in a relationship with a man, be a mother and get all their needs met, if they meet the needs of their partner, what is unfair about that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/25 12:25 AM
2	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? If it was an average women, she has 100x times the opportunity for casual sex than the average man. Men compete harder for access to sex, so high value men are rewarded and end up being respected since they have to be high value to do what they do. The abundance of options for women is why selectiveness is a respected trait, and women do not initiate the start of a casual relationship, they are the gatekeepers of them. It's not really fair since genetically attractive men are getting the best of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 11:07 PM
1	Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problems First you say it could easily mean something other than what I thought, then you say it definitely does not mean what I thought it did. Saying "nobody is trying to get up here" as a virgin most definitely can be interpreted as them saying nobody is trying to have sex with them, and if "no one is interested in being involved in this situation" how is no interest not also no sex? They are a virgin like they said, so we know it does mean no sex like I said, not that it matters. I don't want to get …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 08:36 PM
2	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? Yes it is. You're not really going to try and pretend you think the men getting respect for sleeping with women are men paying for sex with prostitutes or homeless women? I'm not sure it works for you to play around with the semantics of being promiscuous when it goes against your own point that these men are respected. You want to argue in defence of your side, but you aren't making any real points	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 08:09 PM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? You don't believe there is any convincing evidence that shows women have an easier time getting sex than men? Every study on the subject, and all dating app stats shows how much easier it is for women to have casual sex if they want to. Even the aqua marine pilled women on this sub don't debate that part because it's so obvious and widely known. Across replicated field experiments and large online dating datasets, men accept casual sex offers far more often and initiate many more interactions; w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 07:39 PM
3	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? No it isn't, being a promiscuous man is much more difficult for the majority of men, and therefore more difficult in general for men as a group. Some men can be promiscuous without difficulty, because they are impressive/respected. Being the only ones in their group to be able to do that makes them rare, it's difficult to be be in the position to be able to do it. Genetic luck or self-improvement	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 07:29 PM
–	The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face. If a woman wants a man as her partner and father of her child, she does need to have regular sex with him yes. What is it you think is so crazy about that? Women want children because it's a biological drive, men want sex because it's a biological drive. It's quite an important part of almost all species on earth, it's how we still exist. You can't just choose to accept one biological drive as acceptable	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 07:26 PM
–	The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face. Who decided they are better looking? You can walk down the street and see women wearing as much make-up as their face can hold, that's not their actual attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 07:05 PM
–	The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face. Huh? Most of the lonely men out there would have kids with a woman if it meant they got to have sex regularly. There is no conspiracy to try and deny mothers a place in this world, whatever that means	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 05:50 PM
-1	Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problems They said - "I’m a 28F virgin and no one’s looking to get up in here" That means nobody is trying to have sex with them, if you could offer yourself up as a cum dumpster, someone is trying to have sex with you. The only reason I mention it is because like you said, you could offer yourself up and find men for sex. There has to be something seriously wrong for a woman to not even have that option, whether or not she wants to do that. I'm not trying to pick on the other person, just pointing out t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 05:48 PM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? What difficult tasks do people do with little respect, care workers and nurses? That's because anybody can be a care worker, it's hard work and it's not work most people want to do. Doing it usually means you have failed to find easier and better paying work. Easier and better paying work is respected. Hard work isn't what gets results for slutty men, it's their impressive attributes, and the results of being impressive enough is what is respected. It doesn't have to be difficult for the slutty …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 05:32 PM
–	The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face. More men are getting cosmetic surgery and hair transplants now, it's becoming more and more popular. Doesn't change the fact that it's not actually how attractive you are, it's artificial. The average woman isn't genetically superior to the average man and better looking in some way	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 05:22 PM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? Why would those things not be true, do you think any random man can sleep with as many people as a random women? To get as much sex as a slutty woman a man would have to be impressive in more than one way, being impressive is something people respect. If a man is successfully sleeping with lots of women people have to acknowledge that the man is impressive in some way, a woman does not have have any of those impressive qualities to be slutty. Having the word slut being used negatively is a small…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 05:15 PM
–	why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral? What explains male promiscuity being respected is that it's much more difficult and requires you to be more than just an average member of your gender	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 05:11 PM
7	A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good person Maybe you are an exception, most people do not take responsibility, but there is still a pattern of it amongst most women	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 09:50 AM
1	Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problems Women that no men at all want to sleep with are extremely rare, either that or men do want to sleep with them but the woman is a recluse. If you are trying to have sex as a young woman and nobody wants you then you are an extreme outlier, an even then there is usually something you can do about it easily enough unlike the average man. What's the story behind it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 09:44 AM
–	The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face. Except nothing has changed to make the average women better looking than the average man other than better make-up techniques and cosmetic surgery. There are not more attractive women being born and more ugly men, it's all perception	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 09:29 AM
–	The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face. Most women think the dating situation is equal for both genders at the moment, they don't know and they haven't thought about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 09:26 AM
–	The Dating Issues Men Face Will Be The Same Issues The Women On Here's Future Son's Will Face. I wonder if there's a link between a majority of young men having no sex and women having lower birth rates than ever. How is it that babies are made again? Low birth rates are a consequence of the male loneliness epidemic, which is a consequence of the selectiveness of modern women	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 09:21 AM
0	Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problems I also gained selective blindness when they mentioned "testosterone", that old chestnut. Bet they blame that for men being more aggressive too	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/25 10:50 PM
10	A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good person So if you were to start talking about your exs now, you'd have nothing but good things to say about them? The failed relationship was all your side? We both know that's not what you think	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/25 05:49 PM
15	A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good person Every woman over 25 has a long list of "toxic" exs they will complain about for hours if you let them, and it's never a reflection on their own choices	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/25 02:41 PM
3	Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationships It doesn't have to be the fault of anyone, it's just accepting reality. Women think they are good at spotting liars, men that are good at lying do by far the best with women	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/25 08:39 AM
5	Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationships Maybe, it's not that often you'd be in a situation to know if someone you know is lying to other people. But I know of multiple guys that lied about being vaccinated during covid, even faked proof of vaccination to bang super health conscious covid scared girls and ditch them before they even find out. Same guys that talk constant shit about every girl they are seeing and put on an act around them, they buy it every time	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 03:15 PM
5	Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationships The men who are cheaters and liars are the ones who don't want long term relationships, it's their choice that the relationship is very short lived. Plenty of liars out there are doing very well pretending to want commitment to get what they want, which is a pump and dump	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 05:47 PM
1	Q4 people who believe that promiscuity damages a womans capacity to "pair-bond" --why doesn't having generally good life, good family etc. also damage a womans capacity to pair bond? You don't have to be a bad person to be poorly educated and have values incompatible with the developed world	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 04:31 PM
0	Women don't deny they like attractive men. They deny that they are all attracted to the same men It does, it's not even about hair colour	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 01:09 AM
1	Women don't deny they like attractive men. They deny that they are all attracted to the same men I know the guy he's talking about, he holidays in tuscany all summer	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/25 01:04 AM
1	Q4 people who believe that promiscuity damages a womans capacity to "pair-bond" --why doesn't having generally good life, good family etc. also damage a womans capacity to pair bond? Their rates are declining far slower than ours so we'll all be long gone before they have to worry about dying out like us, and the developed world will fill up with citizens from the worst countries in the world	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/25 05:43 PM
8	Women do not fall for "manipulation" as much as they want to think they do Plenty of criminals live a better life than the average man. Many make more money with less intelligence and effort, more sexually active, more social power. If you aren't doing as well as you like in life, seeing criminals succeed is going to be uncomfortable, it's not like criminals care whether the women sucking them off are respectable citizens, they all seem far too happy	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/25 05:33 PM
1	Q4 people who believe that promiscuity damages a womans capacity to "pair-bond" --why doesn't having generally good life, good family etc. also damage a womans capacity to pair bond? Birth rates are falling almost everywhere, but developed countries are below replacement. Replacement is around 2.1 kids per woman, developed countries are between 1.2-1.7 right now. Low income countries (mainly African) have a birth rate of over 4, much higher than the replacement rate. Births will be extremely concentrated in low income countries even if they are still declining, not good for anyone	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/25 04:42 PM
1	Q4 people who believe that promiscuity damages a womans capacity to "pair-bond" --why doesn't having generally good life, good family etc. also damage a womans capacity to pair bond? Only in the most developed countries, the least educated countries with the lowest quality of life will continue to breed so much that the total world population won't even noticeably slow down	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/25 01:44 PM
1	Women don't deny they like attractive men. They deny that they are all attracted to the same men It's about 50% American, and since when is this only about America?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 04:39 PM
1	Women don't deny they like attractive men. They deny that they are all attracted to the same men I'm not asking for advice, I'm telling you that you're wrong. You get stopped for pictures every 5 mins in Asia just for being blonde	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 02:19 PM
1	Women judge men for promiscuity! It is true, attractive but not model attractive men can easily have no interaction with women for decades	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 02:48 PM
4	Women don't deny they like attractive men. They deny that they are all attracted to the same men And at least 90% of Asia, couple of billion or so	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 02:11 PM
10	Quick reference guide to debunking myths spread by the manosphere For the first claim you couldn't be more wrong - That OkCupid article shows women rate ~80% of men below “medium” attractiveness. When you look at messages, women are “only just slightly” more likely to message higher-rated men than their ratings would predict. Women’s messages are not overwhelmingly to “average-or-lower” men, they’re closer to their (extremely harsh) ratings, with a mild tilt upward	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/25 07:39 PM
1	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. I was expecting a greek letter for it, like the "gammas" who can't bang	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/25 12:03 AM
3	The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinity How's the physical and mental health?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 08:28 PM
6	The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinity I don't know where that version of the stereotype is from, I hear people call gym rats gym bros, i.e. someone who spends a lot of time in and thinking about the gym, with the physique of someone who does both those things. When did it start to mean emotionally unintelligent?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 08:25 PM
3	The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinity 39 is a tough age huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 08:10 PM
5	The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinity What people are gym bros associating with? What do you think "gym bro" means?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 08:08 PM
7	Threatening that you aren't going to marry isn't as scary as you think to women What are you trying to say? A successful man can see that unattractive men are not successful, just as easily as you can see that. You don't have to only argue for things based on your own personal disadvantages	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/09/25 07:38 PM
1	Why are men less willing to help each other than women? That's true you can learn empathy, the difficult part is how. Be more empathetic is the same as saying just lose weight, if they could, they would. Changes need instructions, how does change or improve their personality without scanning through 1000s of self improvement books until they find some advice that works	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/25 08:26 AM
1	Why are men less willing to help each other than women? Women assume men choose to just not be empathetic, when it's that men don't know how or even what it means. In what way are people blaming women, men complaining women don't give them enough attention?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 03:44 PM
2	Why are men less willing to help each other than women? Capacity for empathy isn't chosen. The loneliness epidemic means many people (women included, men usually more affected), have weaker social ties than they want. People don't choose to be miserable with no friends, it's mainly structure, skills and stress. The current structure means women have no shortage of attention or easy access to any type of relationship, which is why you don't even register this as an issue, it doesn't affect you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 11:39 AM
2	Why are men less willing to help each other than women? In what way should someone take accountability for their lack of empathy? The capacity for empathy is not a choice, it's partly biological and partly learned	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/25 10:42 AM
1	How should the playing field evened out for men who seek casual sex, when men and women are not equally open to casual sex? The person I replied to is claiming the only way to fix this is for undesirable men to die out without breeding. If it was just a haircut and some fashion tips they needed, that solution is a little over the top	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/25 11:03 AM
0	When people call guys entitled in these debates, a lot of the time it's just the guy wanting it badly and being hurt by that. None so blind as those who don't want to see as the saying goes Which team are you talking about here? Your team or the other side?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/25 08:15 AM
2	How should the playing field evened out for men who seek casual sex, when men and women are not equally open to casual sex? You take an average man and woman, they have two kids where one is female and one male. Those kids are both average from the same parents, but you think the women is attractive and desirable but the man is not. The difference is 100% down to the perspective of the people finding them attractive, it's not that beautiful parents have girls and ugly parents have boys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 05:19 PM
–	Were the guys who hurt you the most actually hot? Henry cavill	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 04:50 PM
1	Society doesn't really hate older women These girls want to be approached in real life though for whatever reason, a man hears that and thinks he should approach women, how does he tell you apart from those girls?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 02:49 PM
4	Artificial wombs wont change anything boo men boo	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/25 02:01 PM
0	We are being psyoped into caring about declining birth rates. There might be a few leaders in the west who don't want the world population to be 99% Indian or Chinese in 5 years, a little diversity in the future of humanity is enough to care	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 11:36 PM
1	Society doesn't really hate older women They post it online, you can't approach them in person if they are online unless you track them down, how does knowing that they post it online help in person?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 09:36 PM
1	How should the playing field evened out for men who seek casual sex, when men and women are not equally open to casual sex? That could be the answer, or the answer could be correcting the ego of the average women with makeup removal filters	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 08:37 PM
1	Society doesn't really hate older women I said there were endless social media posts, you claiming you've never heard of them. If they are announcing it constantly on social media, and you're saying you hate men and don't want them near you, how would anyone know which girls are like you and which are the ones with the opposite problem?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 02:01 PM
0	Society doesn't really hate older women It's very common, how's a man going to know until he asks. Have you tried having an angrier default expression?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 12:16 PM
2	Young women aren't going for the top x% of men and ending up in situationships with the same man It's not all lesbians, the stats are about young women and young men, women date older men. Different age dating, lesbians and a small % of men having multiple fwbs	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/25 08:40 AM
3	How should average men pursue casual sex according to women? Their point is that society does reward that, to women. So the group that makes up a massive portion of society will not participate in society or will try to change it. They didn't say men participating in society should reward them with sex, but if the current system doesn't give men an option, men aren't going to go along with it. The changes wouldn't be things like abortion rights, it would be banning dating apps or whatever people think will work The reason humans have been around so long i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 08:32 PM
0	How should average men pursue casual sex according to women? Yes, and men are famously so desperate to have kids	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 08:19 PM
1	No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups. Men are more likely to do this for sex, not a relationship. For sex a personality doesn't matter, in a relationship it does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 05:44 PM
-1	Society doesn't really hate older women So what's up with the endless social media posts from average women saying they aren't being approached?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 02:29 PM
1	Society doesn't really hate older women To accomplish perspective	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 12:23 PM
0	Society doesn't really hate older women You're really that popular are you, even doing everything you can do to avoid attention?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 10:49 AM
2	Society doesn't really hate older women For perspective	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/25 10:44 AM
1	For casual sex, you knew it took looks, money, status and charm from an early age Yeah everyone can see from TV that more money = better life, more muscles = more attention, so why are most people so poor and overweight? Some people aren't capable	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/25 08:08 AM
15	Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things. Because women are far, far pickier than men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/25 08:48 PM
2	The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happy You care whether your husband used to go to other countries to date women, but he's not allowed to care that you slept with as many random men as you could? Maybe he's just got no self esteem	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 09:17 PM
1	What are some things women dont understand about you? Didn't you just say you do care?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 08:35 PM
1	What are some things women dont understand about you? Or redditor as they are usually known	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 08:34 PM
3	What are some things women dont understand about you? You forgot smart, big dick and humble	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 07:40 PM
3	What are some things women dont understand about you? Promiscuous women are also far, far more likely to divorce when they do marry, it's the best way of predicting whether a long term relationship will last	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 07:34 PM
2	The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happy If you could nosy around a social circle and find anything out, nobody would have any secrets, and men could do that to work out the number of partners a womans had, but they can't. Who in your social circle is letting your husband know how many people you've banged?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 07:16 PM
2	Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are not It is very literally the definition of accomplishment	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 05:59 PM
2	The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happy It's just the other side to guys who'd ditch a girl if he finds out she's been with more than 15 people, you'd never know if you future husband was secretly a past passport bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 05:44 PM
2	The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happy It's not that important either way, but if I said something like gypsies were garbage, people would consider that hateful. Would you ever be in a relationship with an ex-passport bro, if it's a crime you can forgive maybe you don't hate them	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/25 08:17 AM
2	The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happy No you don't need to give approval, but you need to stop making a distinction between hating and seriously disliking them. If you openly severely dislike them, what does it matter if someone says you hate them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/25 03:50 PM
10	The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happy Oh is garbage taking itself out a compliment where you come from xD emoji?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 05:00 PM
14	The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happy Who hates passport bros? "the garbage took itself out" is what comes to mind when I think about them hehe	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/25 04:29 PM
1	Modern hookup culture makes women jaded and have unrealistic expectations of men That's just the definition of the word achievement, it can be a neutral literal achievement, not a moral endorsement or something to admire	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/25 08:43 AM
1	Modern hookup culture makes women jaded and have unrealistic expectations of men That's great that "achievement" upset you, but that's not a counter argument. Nothing else to say to any of the other logic in the comment? Sounds like you're upset that you've achieved a high score and you're feeling a little ashamed huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/25 05:29 PM
1	Modern hookup culture makes women jaded and have unrealistic expectations of men It's not circular, point is the number means different things for men and women because the difficulty is at opposite ends. It being harder for men is what makes them different levels of result or achievement. Slutty women need slutty men, but those men are a small minority being chosen again and again, vast majority can't get anywhere near the same numbers, they can't be a slut, which is why they signal different things for each sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 07:13 PM
1	Modern hookup culture makes women jaded and have unrealistic expectations of men Is wah wah the noise you are making, and are little drops of rain falling from your eyes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 05:58 PM
1	Modern hookup culture makes women jaded and have unrealistic expectations of men It's not a complaint about promiscuous women existing, it's about people who say don't judge a girl with a high body count because men are sex mad too. Most men can't get a high body count and almost all women can. It's like working somewhere for 10 years, stressing every day putting the effort in then getting a promotion vs the boss's kid coming in and getting the same money first day on the job and coasting. You'd complain, even if you understand why it happened, you'd still think it's unfair …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 04:31 PM
1	Modern hookup culture makes women jaded and have unrealistic expectations of men Not to overcome wanting sex, test dropping is what crashes libidos, it's an evolutionary adaption for the survival of humanity. You'd be the same if you were a man, you'd want more sex, complain here about not getting it, you'd be naturally angrier and stronger, those things aren't a choice. There should only be accountability if you force something someone else doesn't want, not for just having the desire and being annoyed about it	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 12:50 PM
2	Modern hookup culture makes women jaded and have unrealistic expectations of men It's biology, testosterone makes men want to mate with 95% of women their age and women are much more selective, men's answer is usually yes so the outcome depends on the women's decision like a biological veto power. Do you think men should be accountable for an evolutionary hard-wired autopilot?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/25 08:34 AM
4	Modern hookup culture makes women jaded and have unrealistic expectations of men Men complain because they aren't getting what they want, women are getting what they want in terms of sex at least and have all the power, what would men take accountability for?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/25 10:56 PM
3	economy profits from male loneliness and benefits when men stay single The way you structured that all is clean, very tidy	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/25 05:09 PM
0	Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them? Isn't this about liberal men vs conservative men, not just black pill? It's not like 90% of conservative men are black pilled	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/25 03:36 PM
2	Modern hookup culture makes women jaded and have unrealistic expectations of men No they definitely don't have it worse overall however you define worse, but being ugly can be worse for permanently damaging your personality and mindset	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/25 03:21 PM
0	Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them? I'm not saying there is a pattern that liberal men struggle to get dates, but they do exist, and there are conservatives other than black pill recluses	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/25 03:12 PM
0	Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them? You don't know those liberal men because nobody does, they are recluses like the black pill men. Do you know any black pill men in real life?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/25 01:30 PM
4	Modern hookup culture makes women jaded and have unrealistic expectations of men That might be partly true, but child abuse is usually done by one person and it doesn't go on forever. It will scar you but after it's over other people won't be treating you like your abuser for the rest of your life. If you're ugly it's not an event that stops, you can't forget about it or heal easily when it's still happening and still going to happen, and by it I mean being treated like a lesser person	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/25 01:20 PM
6	Modern hookup culture makes women jaded and have unrealistic expectations of men Op is getting sex however he can because he wants sex, an average woman has 1000x more options and power to have however much sex she wants compared to OP	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/25 12:24 PM
0	Modern hookup culture makes women jaded and have unrealistic expectations of men Maybe they were better people at one point then became bitter, you adapt to how you are treated	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/25 12:19 PM
10	Men, We’re Losing the Dating Culture War. The amount of young men having sex in the 90s and 00s was much higher than today, it was nowhere near as skewed as it is now	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/25 01:18 AM
1	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. Yes, women do live longer and that's definitely part of the puzzle, but life expectancy for males is 75, not 65. Is there proof of this? The 65+ gap is mainly demographics (U.S. Census 2020). Sex ratios by age: • 65–69: ~92 men/100 women • 70–74: ~89/100 • 75–79: ~84/100 • 80–84: ~76/100 • 85+: ~57/100 The skew widens with each age band. There are 9 million more women than men aged 65+. Men do remarry more, but the effect is small next to the base population gap (39 vs 21 remarriages per 1,000 f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/25 11:08 AM
3	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. What are the types of men that don't sleep with women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 08:51 PM
-1	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. It just means that dating men with good qualities is the same as dating chad. Chad is a dumb term for it so I wouldn't have used it like the other guy but I'm talking about the overall pattern, women will make excuses for guys with overall good qualities, only difference is whether you call them chad or not	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 08:50 PM
1	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. The gap at 65+ is life expectancy, the men are dead. There are 120-130 women for every 100 men aged 65+. That age group is irrelevant to relationship trends, 65+ year olds aren't starting families. People focus on 18-29 year olds because historically that's been the marriage and family starting age, and that already high number of single young men keeps rising. The effect of men remarrying is tiny compared to the demographic imbalance. I don't think you even believe that was a real explanation, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 08:46 PM
1	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. For the 30% of adult men? You're right, that actually is only young men, for all adults sexual inactivity (men and women) in 2018 it was 23%, and men have less sex than women so it would be slightly above 23% for men overall, but it's not recorded anywhere	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 06:52 PM
1	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. 30% for all adult men GSS in 2018 reported 28-31% of men aged 18-29 reported sexual inactivity, and 18% for women aged 18-29. The percentage of 18-24 year old men who were sexually inactive in the past year increased from 18.9% in 2000-2002 to 30.9% in 2016-2018. This bottom stat is from: Trends in frequency of sexual activity and number of sexual partners among adults aged 18 to 44 years in the US, 2000-2018. JAMA Netw Open	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 06:09 PM
1	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. The only other big gap between men and women being single is at age 65+ (women are 14% more likely to be single). Is there anything obvious that could explain why women at 65+ don't have a male partner? 50-64 is about equal but then the men start disappearing at 65+, what could have happened to them, and why didn't they bother with a category after 65+? The answer is the same for all those questions. The gap between genders at 65+ is not a surprise, or something to be concerned about, which expl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 05:52 PM
1	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. General Social Survey in 2019 - "Percentage of Americans reporting no sex, monthly sex or sex weekly ore more in the past year" The study showing 63% of men being single was also in 2019, and then done again in 2022 with the same result, so this study on sex will have show similar results if they did redo it	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 05:15 PM
1	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. I don't know what other random redditors have said and it's not relevant to what I'm saying, the stat has been and still is 63%, it's the Pew Research Center survey of U.S. adults in 2022. Was 63% in 2022, hasn't been redone so it's still 63% now as far as we know	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 05:07 PM
1	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. Odds have never been worse for those guys, 63 percent of US men aged 18-29 are single, 34% of women 18-29 are single, they move onto the older men or move onto women instead. Number of sexually active people in all western countries is at a low point, 30% men had no sex in the last year in the US. There have never been more single men You need to date or hang around someone to work out their personality, status, wealth and that's why most men only make it to the first date, if that. Most don't g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 04:47 PM
0	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. Chad = good traits outweigh bad, buck = good traits don't outweigh bad traits. It's not "oh he's 5'5" or "nice he's 6'1", more "they look short/tall".	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 04:28 PM
-1	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. I wouldn't use chad or buck but it's just a general trend (good outcome vs bad outcome). I guess you're suggesting you need a specific number for income or height to define "rich" or "tall", otherwise the pattern isn't real. Even if people disagree on what counts as rich, the trend that rich = good outcome still exists The checklist would be "tall" and "rich", it doesn't need a hard rule like 5'10" = no, 5'11" = yes, for it to be a real trend	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 04:14 PM
3	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. A 5'8" guy with a nice face, good physique and a big wallet could be a chad to most people. You don't need a specific agreed standard like a certain height or income for the pattern to be real, there can be exceptions, but it will still be a pattern	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 03:47 PM
4	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. Rich men and attractive men can both be high value 'chads' even if they are only 5'10" You can be rich or attractive enough to push one checklist item to be more important than another	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 03:18 PM
5	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. Yes, rich men and attractive men do well in dating and in life itself	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 02:59 PM
1	Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to. Rules like what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/25 02:54 PM
1	Men who are desperate to find a woman are actually desperate for something else. A meaning to their lives. There is a long list of European countries which are definitely better than the US in a long list of different ways	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/25 04:35 PM
1	40 % of Asian Women excluded Asian men as potential dates, whereas only 11 % excluded White men . I meant the opposite, only Americans exclude Indians from Asians, and Europeans include, so I think we're saying the same thing	/r/BlackPillScience	30/07/25 08:13 AM
1	40 % of Asian Women excluded Asian men as potential dates, whereas only 11 % excluded White men . I am doing the same thing to Americans, like with Asians and Europeans, which is a reasonable way to do it. You are saying that Indians should not be grouped with Asians are you not?	/r/BlackPillScience	29/07/25 10:34 PM
3	40 % of Asian Women excluded Asian men as potential dates, whereas only 11 % excluded White men . I think it’s subconscious because of all the colonization of the past. This is tiktok level history, no continent has invaded and pillaged other continents more than Asia	/r/BlackPillScience	29/07/25 10:23 PM
1	40 % of Asian Women excluded Asian men as potential dates, whereas only 11 % excluded White men . No, that's only Americans and they are wrong, it's exactly the same as saying Europeans to mean all Europeans	/r/BlackPillScience	29/07/25 10:12 PM