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Oh yeah? I could have 21 frick buddies if I looked like Henry cavile and was also a millionaire comedian
/r/seduction02/01/26 03:17 PM
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Which women are the real prize then if it's not the most desirable age group?
/r/seduction13/12/25 08:27 PM
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You are making empathy conditional. You only care if someone has already behaved perfectly. Explaining why a lot of men do not engage with therapy is not "making excuses". "Just go to therapy" is not a magic answer when the system is a bad fit for many men, and when the second they talk about what feels off, it gets dismissed as them "blaming others". You cannot tell men to seek help and then call every issue they mention an excuse. That is part of the stigma you are blaming them for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 04:48 PM
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All of the angry and bitter men who are virgins at 30, are bitter and angry for a reason. They aren't virgins because they were bitter and angry at 18, it's because they were short, ugly or the most common - average. Any of them that aren't bitter need to go and see a doctor because there's something wrong with them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:50 PM
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Therapy is setup for women, the vast majority of therapists are women. It is not designed, or capable of helping the majority of men that need it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:40 PM
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The same guys who say that marriage is a trap, and to avoid it at all costs? Why are those guys not married? It's their job to advertise that men should be sleeping around as much as possible, they are at least claiming to practise what they preach
/r/seduction24/11/25 03:55 PM
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What is it about videos that damage men in ways magazines and prostitutes can't? Does watching porn in 4K make you dumber than someone watching in 360p? They wanted a partner who didn't watch it either. Did their anti porn talk come out before or after you told them you wouldn't give them a chance if they watch porn? If you can't control yourself due to hormones, you're advocating that men should have less rights. Yeah there are some rights that people don't deserve, I don't believe men should h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:33 PM
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I agree that once you match, reading the bio and putting in effort matters. My point is about the stage before that. Many men are stuck at the pre-match stage where reading bios doesn’t improve the match rate. If they only swipe on profiles they’ve read and like, they end up with none.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:28 PM
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Sorry can someone else spell this out for me, I can't be bothered to read it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:50 PM
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Being a parent is not the same as being a good parent, being a single mother does not mean you are doing "better" than anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 02:45 PM
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The men complaining are the ones who get no matches, and they don't read bios, men do read bios once they match
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:11 PM
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The men who complain about being unsuccessful are not getting matches, and the ones that complain and do get a few matches only get those by swiping right on everyone, they would get none if they cared about bios
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:57 PM
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Because the average man has to swipe right on between 100-140 profiles for one match, what is the point of reading 140 bios for one match? No man with any self respect could or should do that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:20 PM
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Most men get almost no matches even if they swipe on everyone, how would taking their time and reading profiles change their match rate? They usually start out reading profiles before realising that they don't have any options - so any pickiness is pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 12:13 PM
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According to who? With or without makeup? In a population, men and women draw from the same genetics, there is no built in reason for one sex to be globally better looking. What makes a man attractive is different to what makes a woman attractive, what you say is only true if you think long eyelashes and a narrow jaw are what make you attractive as a human, rather than just as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 11:32 AM
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If the most bang average man and woman had two kids, a boy and a girl, in your mind that average girl would be attractive and the boy would be unattractive. That is just perspective, makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 01:14 AM
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Because men somehow survived before high speed internet porn Erotica existed before the internet, and prostitution before that. The internet just made it free and easily accessible, men didn't start wanting sex just because wi-fi arrived. Because I've met men who don't watch it Easy for them to say they don't, hard to know they don't. Because 'hormone levels' don't remove free will or agency. If you can just overcome hormones and neurochemicals with agency and free will, why does it matter if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 04:44 PM
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What views does a man need to have of sex to watch porn? Say it didn't shrink grey matter, what is the problem with it then? Well your feelings aren't exactly good proof of that. I say that instead of outright saying that it 100% is not accurate to avoid having to write a long paragraph about it, because unless you have a study only you have access to, there isn’t a “66% divorce rate” for ADHD marriages. ADHD is linked to higher breakup risk in some contexts, whether one partner has ADHD or the …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:42 AM
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Except you asked the question "Why are men initiating so much?" That is talking about initiating, do you not agree with my answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:09 PM
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You think people with high body counts are whores, and porn watchers are rotting and shrinking their brains though, like you mentioned in the other comments? If they aren't bad people, are they just good people doing one thing wrong and could possibly change? No it isn't, ADHD has a 66% divorce rate in marriage for a reason. I don't think that is accurate, isn't it only older people who were never treated for ADHD? Autism makes sense but filtering out something common with a wide range levels of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:55 PM
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You say it's a choice, but how would you know? Have you tried injecting yourself with test to raise your levels 10x? And if you did and became constantly horny, why would you restrain yourself from watching something that brings you pleasure, what would be the point? If it was a choice, it would be between pleasure and silencing sexual thoughts, or no pleasure. There are also studies that show watching porn shrinks grey matter in the brain. That's just the reward system in the brain, why do you …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:32 PM
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Older women are as lonely as young men, the older a man gets the less likely he is to be alone, which is the reverse for women. A 45 year old woman is no more desirable for sex than a 45 year old man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:17 PM
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None of the standards on this list are crazy or hard to attain. Almost every man with access to the internet watches porn, that's just a consequence of testosterone. Must have been a femosphere influencer that convinced you it was evil. Thinking anyone who's slept with more than 5 people is a whore, is a manosphere level belief. So you failed to meet your own requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:58 PM
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Your beliefs are the female equivalent of the manosphere - i.e. porn and a high body count = bad person, most men aren't good enough, no manosphere beliefs (equivalent to your own), and the ADHD one is just weird
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:52 PM
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There is a big middle ground, most excluded men just quietly opt out. A small group won't pick the middle ground, that is expected. Civil rights changes involved had plenty of violence, movements planned around the reality of expecting violence. Civil rights changes had clear, legitimate targets that could be changed, which were the same rights for everyone. You can't legislate dating app standards or attraction, so what change would the incels and redpillers be non violently protesting for?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:54 PM
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I'm talking about violence like OP was. I think the confusion is that I said you can expect some excluded men to turn violent; you saw that as me saying we should let them be violent. Violence is illegal, we already prevent and punish it. I'm not saying "society isn't a utopia so wreck it". I’m saying exclusion changes incentives. When someone is shut out from a society, with no belonging, no status, no credible path back, their stake in the system disappears, and some stop caring what happens t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 01:41 PM
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Well you can't fuck thousands of woman a day, that's logistics. Some guys are doing multiple a day, as many as they can. You agree with my point about men being expected to initiate though?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 11:31 PM
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Because they have always been expected to, they were raised to. Why are men almost always the proposers? Are they marriage obsessed? They aren't getting turned down, and they do speedrun average women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:07 PM
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When you say "I don’t understand why we would make things worse for more" and "Why would we allow a descent into deeper suffering" what does that mean? What is going to make things worse for more, and how will you stop a descent into deeper suffering if not changes? Others having it worse globally doesn't change how exclusion feels. Yes there is a new reality, a lot of men will end up without partners and that makes sense. What doesn't make sense is expecting them to be happy, or to do nothing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:01 PM
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By that age maybe the men are more sex obsessed, or maybe the men that go on to be older virgins were more obsessed than the women, before the women had lots of experience at the same age. No way to know, it's just funny that the group with far more experience in something calls the other group sex obsessed. Is it just the case that having such an abundance of sex eventually makes a woman less interested, or can you prove they weren't as interested before they racked up all that experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:46 PM
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Because men are expected and trained to initiate, so women become the gatekeepers. Sex with men from a small selected group
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:38 PM
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The point isn't that you need to change anything, just that you can't pretend chronically excluded men turning against society doesn't make sense. "Others have it worse" is the relative privation fallacy, comparing suffering doesn't treat suffering. Belonging, status and intimacy are normal human needs. The men who harm society in these cases are ones who used to be part of that particular society, not other men on the other side of the world. I didn't suggest any changes, let alone a change tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:17 PM
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Zoomers were raised by AI so they have no ability to write original comments, all they can say is "AI slop"
/r/seduction03/11/25 01:19 PM
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It's obvious that you who admits to having lots of sex, and can have more whenever you want with no effort, don't think much about it. It's not just men being "sex obsessed" that means they are thinking about it and you aren't, it's that they haven't had lots of sex like you, so will be thinking about it more, whereas you feel no pressure to look for it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:53 PM
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The jet analogy doesn't work. Jets are rare, gatekept luxuries. Sex is an expected act for a normal human, and you have a biological drive for it, you do not expect to have a private jet to be a normal member of society. For options and not fantasies - women get more inbound offers; men get scarcity. More young men are sexless. So “women don’t need sex” doesn't work when they are actually having more of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:24 PM
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Well obviously. You, who has had lots of sex, aren't as desperate for sex as someone who's had none or little, and you won't think about it anywhere near as much. The sex obsessed guy has had less sex than you who doesn't care about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:16 PM
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If all a man needs for sex is be gay, when he's actually straight, doesn't that show that men won't actually do anything at all for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:11 PM
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This isn't the point you think it is. Women have far more access to sex, and are far more likely to have had lots of sex than men, and are apparently not as interested in sex as men. Which gender has more 25 year old virgins? Is it the sex obsessed gender, or the gender that apparently doesn't need sex? Why is it that the gender who isn't interested in sex so consistently has so much more sexual experience? Women on this sub love to say they don't need sex as much as men and "sex obsessed is a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:09 PM
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He should have, kind of makes your point 2 a bit of a joke eh?
/r/seduction02/11/25 01:34 AM
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That doesn't address my point. I didn't say women need to be prizes, I said men who get nothing and are openly rejected by society might not treat society very nicely which is just obvious, I don't know why you'd expect them to do anything different. That's just the reality of the situation, I didn't say anything needed to be change
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:54 AM
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There's a middle ground between nothing but selfies vs over the top professional photos of you looking away from the camera slicking your hair back. Too casual vs too tryhard. Get some non selfies smiling outside, use a tripod if you need, take 100 at a time until you get a few good ones in each spot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:31 PM
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I don't get ghosted at all, I'm not dating, the majority of men trying to date very definitely do
/r/seduction31/10/25 12:52 PM
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"2024 Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences study marks the first time a majority of spouses begin their stories online. According to this research, 60% of newly married couples said they met through online dating services" "In Australia, a national study found that 52% of those aged 20–39 met their most recent partner through online dating. European surveys report 30–40% shares among young adults. In Asia, mobile apps like Tinder, Pairs, and local platforms dominate in urban centers, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:39 PM
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Implying that maybe it's not just this guy and instead it's massively inflated modern dating standards, makes me sound like his bestie? I don't know anything about the guy, but I do know serial dating is the no.1 hobby in 2025 and serial dating comes with a lot of ghosting
/r/seduction31/10/25 12:32 PM
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Being a virgin at 19 is embarrassing for you? The guys on here are talking about still being virgins at 35+. 19 is nothing, you weren't a virgin at 20 which is still in or before your peak. It's like women who complain how difficult it is to be celibate for 2 weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 11:57 AM
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Yeah he needs to look inwards - make himself taller, only say funny, original and interesting things, and dance like a monkey boy when she clicks her fingers
/r/seduction31/10/25 11:03 AM
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The majority of relationships now start from dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:04 AM
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On dating apps they definitely do, the top profiles are the ones the algorithm pushes the most, and you do in real life too. It's 5-10%, not 0.000000001% 1 in a billion level rare. Most people date using apps, a large % of women can get attention from men in the top 5-10% or even just way above their actual level.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:47 PM
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That's another outcome, what is the cause of being stuck emotionally like a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:08 PM
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Less attractive than the top 5-10%, so good enough in the real world for 90-95% of women. The top 5-10% of men who are the pump and dumpers who don't want relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:08 PM
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OP explained it, women can have a good relationship any time they want, but the top % of men will pump and dump. A good relationship with someone on their level is possible, those don't contradict.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:33 PM
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That's if you are under the impression that good looks only help you in dating and relationships, and not every single part of life. Or that being ugly means you are treated worse in every single part of life, which you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:23 PM
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A victim complex causes you to become lazy? That's also an outcome rather than a cause, but in your opinion what causes a victim complex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:58 PM
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That's a fair point, but realistically many lonely involuntarily celibate men will be insecure, and struggle with pride or identity. That's the result of repeated failure taking people beyond their limits, there's only so much disappointment or emotional pain a human can take before it warps them. And the more disappointing and pathetic life is, the harder it is to be zen about it. Obviously not everyone who struggles ends up harming other people, but they are much more likely to. It's a realist…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:56 PM
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Laziness and ego soothing are outcomes, not causes. What causes laziness and what causes ego soothing? What's your treatment plan for laziness?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:40 PM
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The idea is life isn't fair, nothing is supposed to be fair, you are not guaranteed a good life by being a good person, or a bad life by being a bad person. Life (which is society) isn't fair, so why care do people care about being fair within an unfair society? Part of it being unfair is that there are some people, mostly men who will not find anyone to consent, they are born rejects. And when you're bottom of the food chain it's not just relationships where you fail, it's every part of life/so…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:11 PM
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Why doesn't everyone look inwards and just turn their laziness off? Or is laziness the only trait you can't control? What is your advice for lazy people, stop being lazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:03 PM
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turn to looking inward at their own traits, and how to better them How? Why doesn't everyone just look inward and choose to upgrade their traits to turn themselves into a confident, socially competent genius? Or is it possibly a lot easier said than done, and there are no divine instructions to follow to know exactly how to better your traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:44 PM
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AI is godzilla and you are a Japanese civilian, better run
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:35 PM
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What do you mean "ego management skills"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:03 PM
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It is no excuse for committing crime, but when you say "life is unfair" to people, and some of those people don't get what they want out of society, why do they care what happens in that unfair society? If it's all unfair then why is it unfair to destroy it? It might not be morally acceptable but it is going to happen. Why expect people rejected from normal parts of society to care about whether they damage society?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:02 PM
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They expect an answer, but what is the answer? What does an ugly guy have to do to get into a relationship? An attractive man is pulled into more social situations with much less effort, most of the time he will end up better socially just by being more socially experienced. The answer is the ugly man has to be more social, with a massive social handicap, which makes it an unappealing option. He'll want different answers and some clear steps he can follow, which is fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:25 AM
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So a man with a penis (with so much in common with a clitoris), and high oestrogen knows what it's like to be a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:47 PM
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He says his lack of experience bothers him. Saying “his issue isn’t lack of experience” ignores what he wrote. The shame didn’t come out of nowhere, it's from the gap he perceives between his and his partners’ sexual histories, and men and women are judged differently for it. He is not wrong to believe that he was not wanted by women, and he is ashamed of that. It's not redpill making him think that way, he never mentioned redpill, it's his own reality. You assumed that because he was struggling…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:20 AM
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When you say "red pill talking points", what specifically - dating patterns or how apps skew attention? It’s not “see an Instagram reel, become a misogynist.” For many guys it’s: struggle on apps, look for explanations, then encounter those spaces. Feeds can amplify it, but a lot of men only engage when they’re already struggling. Algorithms aren't random, they are optimised for engagement and segment by demographics. They know who is most likely to engage with it, and those groups are most like…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:42 PM
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It's not about women viewing men who sleep around as being impressive for sleeping around, it's that to sleep around a man has to be impressive in some way. Multiple things about him have to be better than the average man - looks, charisma, etc. It's not something any man can just do, whereas any women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:08 AM
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Why would you assume he has almost no sexual experience at 35 because he's redpill, and not that he's redpill because of that lack of experience? You act like men randomly stumble on the redpill and that's what makes so many men unsuccessful, rather than men turning to the redpill after failing, and the reason you act like that is called bias. He views himself as low value because of his lack of success, why would he view himself as low value before? The actual answer is he needs to try and find…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:03 AM
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Which question is that an answer to?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:48 AM
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It works perfectly if they switch "Because for a man to sleep around it actually takes skill" to - Because for a man to sleep around he must be impressive It's viewed differently because one requires you to have some rare (impressive) traits, and one doesn't. And because one group gatekeeps sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:32 PM
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A lot of people would take advantage of a position of authority if they were given it, but most people have not been given it. You don't need to worry about hypothetical if situations. Lots of people would do immoral things if they were a CEO or prison warden, but they aren't. And the people that are can be fairly criticised
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:35 AM
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You seem to be pretending there are no men who are noticeably more attractive than average and have it easier. You knowing someone chose not to sleep around isn't an argument that he didn't have it much easier. Chad just means the top 10-20% guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 06:51 PM
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He's either 16, or he's not a woman who considers banging 10 randos a week a normal thing. Of course you wouldn't be worried about that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:23 PM
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As an American you think anyone famous is American, you might want to do some investigating first.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:19 PM
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Most people are stuck on dating apps, too many men don't work where there are available women, or even do anything socially to be able to approach off apps. It was a lot easier 10 years ago, even 5 years ago it wasn't so bad, now it's over
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:17 PM
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Yes, countries are judged by their representatives; hollywood actors, the highest grossing male model alive, more than an internet stereotype poll by people who've never left their own country. The stereotype is also against English women, not men. All of Europe also gives the UK 0 points in Eurovision every year, does that mean the UK also doesn't produce good music? Are there enough famous UK artists to be able to say the UK is good or bad at music? The answer is just that Europe hates the UK …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:14 PM
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Plenty of chubby 60 year old Asian men out there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:23 PM
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When are you getting your white knight tag for this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:20 PM
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What reputation do you think that is for men? Spend a little time on IMDB and check the nationality of the most desirable leading men in hollywood right now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:19 PM
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London is a shithole, standards are non existent compared to somewhere like Copenhagen or Munich
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:17 PM
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The average women's skin without makeup, looks worse than the average man's skin. It's the makeup which damages the skin when it's not on
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:10 PM
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Equal numbers does not = equal options. More men than women are single under-30s (63% of men vs 34% of women in the US). Women report being overwhelmed by inbound messages on apps while men report too few, so the bottleneck is attention, not population. Telling men to “just choose women who won’t reject you” assumes symmetrical demand. For the average man, the share of attention means a higher baseline of rejection no matter how he filters. Selectivity isn’t symmetric, platform data shows women …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:41 AM
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You really think men and women both have the same options? The average man having no options, and not being considered an option by the average women is why the red pill exists
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:27 PM
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That isn't the same argument though, the guy being judged after lying to get the sex he wants is not the same as the guy who doesn't get sex being told he was never owed sex to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:39 PM
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It's true that older people do not have the same expectations for relationships as people in prime relationship/family starting age. Young men who've had no relationships complain about not having relationships, older women who've potentially already had a family or multiple relationships don't complain (on the internet) about not having relationships. Older women do not expect or plan to meet their soulmate just before they die. The main complaint you see here from men is that they they are uns…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:51 PM
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Very few do. The person I replied to claimed that divorced women want to and do get remarried, and the high divorce rate doesn't matter because women will just remarry some other perfect man and their perfect life will continue. I just explained the low chance of remarriage for women and high likely it is for older women to be alone, I didn't give any opinion on whether they wanted that or not. I think it makes sense to avoid repeatedly getting married, or even getting married the first time. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:12 PM
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When do men say they want to be with someone they don't want? The younger women, the ones using the internet and giving these opinions, are far less likely to be single than the men of the same age group. So one group actually is far more likely to be single, whereas the other side just says would. The actions do not match the words. It's only when women get older and are considered less attractive by all age groups of men that they are far more likely to be single, so when men stop wanting them…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:39 PM
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You seem to be implying that my comment is telling women to get remarried after they divorce, where did I say that? I said they don't do that, the person I replied to said they do. Reply to them if you disagree with what they said, not me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 12:09 PM
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It seems like a lot of people with depressing opinions but really it's the same 5 people posting the same thing again and again
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:39 AM
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That's your own fantasy. The women most likely to be unpartnered are older women previously divorced, there is an extremely low remarriage rate. Female remarriage rate is 18.5 per 1000 previously married women, half the rate of men. Older women are far more likely to live alone than older men. Your fantasy is not real just because you want it to be, like the fantasy of struggling men believing women will regret turning them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:30 AM
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What happens in real life and not just fiction to sell movies and TV, is that a massive portion of these women end up divorcing these men they marry. They are not living the dream life that you pretend they are. The more partners a woman has had the higher the chance of divorce, so it's a majority
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:11 AM
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And who he was was a super intelligent ultra nerd at the most prestigious university in the world. No need to pretend that he was a junkie with no prospects
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:43 PM
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Being single by choice feels fine for you because you've had attention and you've tried relationships, you don't have any reason to feel left out or desperate. A nerdy ugly guy is not tired of getting attention, you would never do it because you can have a much better relationship, you'd need to put yourself in an ugly nerdy mans shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 02:41 PM
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A wiseman once said "Money can't buy you happiness, but it can buy you a yacht big enough to pull up right alongside it"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:57 AM
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Yeah he was also an ultra nerd attending Harvard at the time just like her. He came from a wealthy family, went to an exclusive school before Harvard. It's hard to say it was pure love, and the matchup would have happened the same way if he was living in a trailer and killed rats for a living instead of a visibly intelligent tech nerd at one of the most prestigious universities in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:56 AM
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You mean you're still a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:46 AM
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You say that because you are a woman, and you would have other options, zuckerberg wouldn't have any if it wasn't for his money
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:31 AM
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I'm not dictating anyone's attractiveness level. The matching effect is well documented: when you aggregate thousands of judgements and actual pairings, couples cluster around similar perceived attractiveness. They are patterns in the data, not verdicts on individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:55 AM
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For men raised on the old script, this is difficult to navigate. You might feel like you’re doing “the right things” like getting a job, being confidence, stable etc If you believe your entire worth as a man is tied to being the “strongest, most desirable,” then aspiring for height and jawlines naturally follows suit. The hardest pill to swallow? You need to adapt and build value beyond that What are you trying to say men should be doing, if not looking better, having a good job, being confident…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 10:19 AM
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Oh boy, I wonder if there's any way you could find out if the stats were real!? Do a quick check to see if you can connect to the internet, then reply to me on reddit if you can't. To save you 2 seconds - "2025 survey by The Knot found that over 50% of recently engaged couples met through dating apps" "2024 PNAS study, analzsed data from a nationally representative survey, found that 60% of newly married couples met online" Or if you have the time, look up Statista "How Couples Met" Not only can…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:30 PM
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People expect women, just like men, to end up with people of around their own attractiveness level. Women may be more attracted to a hollywood actor than the person they end up with, but you don't have a shot with them just because you find them attractive. It's an ego issue
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 07:06 PM
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Some people look best at 12%, some look best a little lower even down to 8%. Look at Kinobody at 8% vs 12+. Could you not get less invasive bone structure changes - palate expansion (MSE)? Or RF microneedling for tighter skin around jaw/under chin? Take a long look at your features and make sure there really isn't anything you can do. There's a lot of minimally invasive stuff that can fix a lot of the common issues, even things that seem genetic and unfixable. Give up completely when you're youn…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:59 PM
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Does your face look defined as it is now? You could try the fat dissolving injections bodybuilders use, targeted reduction of fat pockets, inject into the fat cell to permanently destroy it, fractional laser like SmartXide or similar for massive skin quality boost. FUE hair transplant if you need it. What do you think your issues are, bone structure?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:41 PM
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You can't fix any of it? Almost everyone can get good skin, a good physique, good hair etc. Even height and face you can do a little about, self improvement is an iceberg, are you sure you've tried everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:13 PM
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It's also implying you can just turn biology off, it's not a choice for men to want to be near and around women. It's like saying just stop eating so many calories as diet advice, you can't turn those drives on and off whenever you feel like it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:19 PM
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If you don't mind saying, what are your issues that you consider unfixable? Almost everything can be fixed nowadays, and if you can fix most of your flaws your chances will never be 0%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:04 PM
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You sound upset, do you believe anyone I talk to or anything I talk about off the internet will change the stats? What is the point in refusing to accept stats other than to argue for the sake or arguing?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:44 PM
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According to that source it doubled from ~12% to 24% among 18–29s (2010 to 2024) Weekly sex is at a modern-record low (37%), and partnering among 18–29s fell 42% to 32%. It's social media driving up standards, more people than ever think they need 10 different cosmetic surgeries to get anywhere in life There have always been strugglers but what's changed is how many there are now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 04:14 PM
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No, your own link supports my point. The “sex recession” is about frequency, weekly sex is at a modern record low, and the share of 18–29s with no sex in the past year has roughly doubled since 2010. Living with parents rose for both sexes, but it’s consistently higher for men; and men under 30 are far more likely to be single. You are mixing up frequency with prevalence
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:00 PM
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It's not the same. More young men now live with their parents for longer, sex and dating for men have fallen to record lows, the number of young men without partners is at a decades-high, time with friends has dropped off massively, and there's far less social mixing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:38 AM
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Yes they are. Online dating is statistically the most common way for couples to meet now
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:11 PM
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You don't think more men are doing that now?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:05 PM
8

What do you think dropping out of society looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:50 PM
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Dating apps are where most relationships start now, dating apps are real life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:29 PM
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You don't believe there is any convincing evidence that shows women have an easier time getting sex than men? Every study on the subject, and all dating app stats shows how much easier it is for women to have casual sex if they want to. Even the aqua marine pilled women on this sub don't debate that part because it's so obvious and widely known. Across replicated field experiments and large online dating datasets, men accept casual sex offers far more often and initiate many more interactions; w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:39 PM
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If a woman wants a man as her partner and father of her child, she does need to have regular sex with him yes. What is it you think is so crazy about that? Women want children because it's a biological drive, men want sex because it's a biological drive. It's quite an important part of almost all species on earth, it's how we still exist. You can't just choose to accept one biological drive as acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:26 PM
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Who decided they are better looking? You can walk down the street and see women wearing as much make-up as their face can hold, that's not their actual attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:05 PM
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Huh? Most of the lonely men out there would have kids with a woman if it meant they got to have sex regularly. There is no conspiracy to try and deny mothers a place in this world, whatever that means
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:50 PM
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They said - "I’m a 28F virgin and no one’s looking to get up in here" That means nobody is trying to have sex with them, if you could offer yourself up as a cum dumpster, someone is trying to have sex with you. The only reason I mention it is because like you said, you could offer yourself up and find men for sex. There has to be something seriously wrong for a woman to not even have that option, whether or not she wants to do that. I'm not trying to pick on the other person, just pointing out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:48 PM
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What difficult tasks do people do with little respect, care workers and nurses? That's because anybody can be a care worker, it's hard work and it's not work most people want to do. Doing it usually means you have failed to find easier and better paying work. Easier and better paying work is respected. Hard work isn't what gets results for slutty men, it's their impressive attributes, and the results of being impressive enough is what is respected. It doesn't have to be difficult for the slutty …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:32 PM
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More men are getting cosmetic surgery and hair transplants now, it's becoming more and more popular. Doesn't change the fact that it's not actually how attractive you are, it's artificial. The average woman isn't genetically superior to the average man and better looking in some way
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:22 PM
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Why would those things not be true, do you think any random man can sleep with as many people as a random women? To get as much sex as a slutty woman a man would have to be impressive in more than one way, being impressive is something people respect. If a man is successfully sleeping with lots of women people have to acknowledge that the man is impressive in some way, a woman does not have have any of those impressive qualities to be slutty. Having the word slut being used negatively is a small…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:15 PM
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What explains male promiscuity being respected is that it's much more difficult and requires you to be more than just an average member of your gender
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:11 PM
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Maybe you are an exception, most people do not take responsibility, but there is still a pattern of it amongst most women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:50 AM
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Women that no men at all want to sleep with are extremely rare, either that or men do want to sleep with them but the woman is a recluse. If you are trying to have sex as a young woman and nobody wants you then you are an extreme outlier, an even then there is usually something you can do about it easily enough unlike the average man. What's the story behind it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:44 AM
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Except nothing has changed to make the average women better looking than the average man other than better make-up techniques and cosmetic surgery. There are not more attractive women being born and more ugly men, it's all perception
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:29 AM
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Most women think the dating situation is equal for both genders at the moment, they don't know and they haven't thought about it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:26 AM
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I wonder if there's a link between a majority of young men having no sex and women having lower birth rates than ever. How is it that babies are made again? Low birth rates are a consequence of the male loneliness epidemic, which is a consequence of the selectiveness of modern women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 09:21 AM
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I also gained selective blindness when they mentioned "testosterone", that old chestnut. Bet they blame that for men being more aggressive too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 10:50 PM
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So if you were to start talking about your exs now, you'd have nothing but good things to say about them? The failed relationship was all your side? We both know that's not what you think
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:49 PM
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Every woman over 25 has a long list of "toxic" exs they will complain about for hours if you let them, and it's never a reflection on their own choices
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:41 PM
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It doesn't have to be the fault of anyone, it's just accepting reality. Women think they are good at spotting liars, men that are good at lying do by far the best with women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 08:39 AM
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Maybe, it's not that often you'd be in a situation to know if someone you know is lying to other people. But I know of multiple guys that lied about being vaccinated during covid, even faked proof of vaccination to bang super health conscious covid scared girls and ditch them before they even find out. Same guys that talk constant shit about every girl they are seeing and put on an act around them, they buy it every time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 03:15 PM
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The men who are cheaters and liars are the ones who don't want long term relationships, it's their choice that the relationship is very short lived. Plenty of liars out there are doing very well pretending to want commitment to get what they want, which is a pump and dump
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 05:47 PM
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It does, it's not even about hair colour
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:09 AM
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I know the guy he's talking about, he holidays in tuscany all summer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:04 AM
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Plenty of criminals live a better life than the average man. Many make more money with less intelligence and effort, more sexually active, more social power. If you aren't doing as well as you like in life, seeing criminals succeed is going to be uncomfortable, it's not like criminals care whether the women sucking them off are respectable citizens, they all seem far too happy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:33 PM
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Birth rates are falling almost everywhere, but developed countries are below replacement. Replacement is around 2.1 kids per woman, developed countries are between 1.2-1.7 right now. Low income countries (mainly African) have a birth rate of over 4, much higher than the replacement rate. Births will be extremely concentrated in low income countries even if they are still declining, not good for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:42 PM
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Only in the most developed countries, the least educated countries with the lowest quality of life will continue to breed so much that the total world population won't even noticeably slow down
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:44 PM
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I'm not asking for advice, I'm telling you that you're wrong. You get stopped for pictures every 5 mins in Asia just for being blonde
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:19 PM
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It is true, attractive but not model attractive men can easily have no interaction with women for decades
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:48 PM
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And at least 90% of Asia, couple of billion or so
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:11 PM
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For the first claim you couldn't be more wrong - That OkCupid article shows women rate ~80% of men below “medium” attractiveness. When you look at messages, women are “only just slightly” more likely to message higher-rated men than their ratings would predict. Women’s messages are not overwhelmingly to “average-or-lower” men, they’re closer to their (extremely harsh) ratings, with a mild tilt upward
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:39 PM
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I was expecting a greek letter for it, like the "gammas" who can't bang
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:03 AM
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What are you trying to say? A successful man can see that unattractive men are not successful, just as easily as you can see that. You don't have to only argue for things based on your own personal disadvantages
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:38 PM
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That's true you can learn empathy, the difficult part is how. Be more empathetic is the same as saying just lose weight, if they could, they would. Changes need instructions, how does change or improve their personality without scanning through 1000s of self improvement books until they find some advice that works
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:26 AM
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Women assume men choose to just not be empathetic, when it's that men don't know how or even what it means. In what way are people blaming women, men complaining women don't give them enough attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:44 PM
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Capacity for empathy isn't chosen. The loneliness epidemic means many people (women included, men usually more affected), have weaker social ties than they want. People don't choose to be miserable with no friends, it's mainly structure, skills and stress. The current structure means women have no shortage of attention or easy access to any type of relationship, which is why you don't even register this as an issue, it doesn't affect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:39 AM
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In what way should someone take accountability for their lack of empathy? The capacity for empathy is not a choice, it's partly biological and partly learned
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 10:42 AM
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The person I replied to is claiming the only way to fix this is for undesirable men to die out without breeding. If it was just a haircut and some fashion tips they needed, that solution is a little over the top
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:03 AM
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None so blind as those who don't want to see as the saying goes Which team are you talking about here? Your team or the other side?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:15 AM
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You take an average man and woman, they have two kids where one is female and one male. Those kids are both average from the same parents, but you think the women is attractive and desirable but the man is not. The difference is 100% down to the perspective of the people finding them attractive, it's not that beautiful parents have girls and ugly parents have boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:19 PM
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Henry cavill
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:50 PM
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boo men boo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:01 PM
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There might be a few leaders in the west who don't want the world population to be 99% Indian or Chinese in 5 years, a little diversity in the future of humanity is enough to care
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:36 PM
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That could be the answer, or the answer could be correcting the ego of the average women with makeup removal filters
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:37 PM
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I said there were endless social media posts, you claiming you've never heard of them. If they are announcing it constantly on social media, and you're saying you hate men and don't want them near you, how would anyone know which girls are like you and which are the ones with the opposite problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:01 PM
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It's very common, how's a man going to know until he asks. Have you tried having an angrier default expression?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:16 PM
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It's not all lesbians, the stats are about young women and young men, women date older men. Different age dating, lesbians and a small % of men having multiple fwbs
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:40 AM
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Yes, and men are famously so desperate to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:19 PM
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Men are more likely to do this for sex, not a relationship. For sex a personality doesn't matter, in a relationship it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 05:44 PM
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So what's up with the endless social media posts from average women saying they aren't being approached?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:29 PM
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To accomplish perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:23 PM
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You're really that popular are you, even doing everything you can do to avoid attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:49 AM
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For perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:44 AM
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Yeah everyone can see from TV that more money = better life, more muscles = more attention, so why are most people so poor and overweight? Some people aren't capable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 08:08 AM
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Because women are far, far pickier than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:48 PM
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Didn't you just say you do care?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:35 PM
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Or redditor as they are usually known
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:34 PM
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You forgot smart, big dick and humble
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:40 PM
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Promiscuous women are also far, far more likely to divorce when they do marry, it's the best way of predicting whether a long term relationship will last
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:34 PM
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It is very literally the definition of accomplishment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:59 PM
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It's just the other side to guys who'd ditch a girl if he finds out she's been with more than 15 people, you'd never know if you future husband was secretly a past passport bro
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:44 PM
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It's not that important either way, but if I said something like gypsies were garbage, people would consider that hateful. Would you ever be in a relationship with an ex-passport bro, if it's a crime you can forgive maybe you don't hate them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:17 AM
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No you don't need to give approval, but you need to stop making a distinction between hating and seriously disliking them. If you openly severely dislike them, what does it matter if someone says you hate them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:50 PM
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Oh is garbage taking itself out a compliment where you come from xD emoji?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 05:00 PM
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Who hates passport bros? "the garbage took itself out" is what comes to mind when I think about them hehe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:29 PM
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It's biology, testosterone makes men want to mate with 95% of women their age and women are much more selective, men's answer is usually yes so the outcome depends on the women's decision like a biological veto power. Do you think men should be accountable for an evolutionary hard-wired autopilot?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:34 AM
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Men complain because they aren't getting what they want, women are getting what they want in terms of sex at least and have all the power, what would men take accountability for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:56 PM
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The way you structured that all is clean, very tidy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:09 PM
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Isn't this about liberal men vs conservative men, not just black pill? It's not like 90% of conservative men are black pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:36 PM
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No they definitely don't have it worse overall however you define worse, but being ugly can be worse for permanently damaging your personality and mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:21 PM
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I'm not saying there is a pattern that liberal men struggle to get dates, but they do exist, and there are conservatives other than black pill recluses
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:12 PM
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You don't know those liberal men because nobody does, they are recluses like the black pill men. Do you know any black pill men in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:30 PM
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That might be partly true, but child abuse is usually done by one person and it doesn't go on forever. It will scar you but after it's over other people won't be treating you like your abuser for the rest of your life. If you're ugly it's not an event that stops, you can't forget about it or heal easily when it's still happening and still going to happen, and by it I mean being treated like a lesser person
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:20 PM
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Op is getting sex however he can because he wants sex, an average woman has 1000x more options and power to have however much sex she wants compared to OP
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:24 PM
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Maybe they were better people at one point then became bitter, you adapt to how you are treated
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:19 PM
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The amount of young men having sex in the 90s and 00s was much higher than today, it was nowhere near as skewed as it is now
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:18 AM
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What are the types of men that don't sleep with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:51 PM
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It just means that dating men with good qualities is the same as dating chad. Chad is a dumb term for it so I wouldn't have used it like the other guy but I'm talking about the overall pattern, women will make excuses for guys with overall good qualities, only difference is whether you call them chad or not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:50 PM
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Chad = good traits outweigh bad, buck = good traits don't outweigh bad traits. It's not "oh he's 5'5" or "nice he's 6'1", more "they look short/tall".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:28 PM
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I wouldn't use chad or buck but it's just a general trend (good outcome vs bad outcome). I guess you're suggesting you need a specific number for income or height to define "rich" or "tall", otherwise the pattern isn't real. Even if people disagree on what counts as rich, the trend that rich = good outcome still exists The checklist would be "tall" and "rich", it doesn't need a hard rule like 5'10" = no, 5'11" = yes, for it to be a real trend
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:14 PM
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A 5'8" guy with a nice face, good physique and a big wallet could be a chad to most people. You don't need a specific agreed standard like a certain height or income for the pattern to be real, there can be exceptions, but it will still be a pattern
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:47 PM
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Rich men and attractive men can both be high value 'chads' even if they are only 5'10" You can be rich or attractive enough to push one checklist item to be more important than another
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:18 PM
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Yes, rich men and attractive men do well in dating and in life itself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:59 PM
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Rules like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:54 PM
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There is a long list of European countries which are definitely better than the US in a long list of different ways
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 04:35 PM
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I meant the opposite, only Americans exclude Indians from Asians, and Europeans include, so I think we're saying the same thing
/r/BlackPillScience30/07/25 08:13 AM
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I am doing the same thing to Americans, like with Asians and Europeans, which is a reasonable way to do it. You are saying that Indians should not be grouped with Asians are you not?
/r/BlackPillScience29/07/25 10:34 PM
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I think it’s subconscious because of all the colonization of the past. This is tiktok level history, no continent has invaded and pillaged other continents more than Asia
/r/BlackPillScience29/07/25 10:23 PM
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No, that's only Americans and they are wrong, it's exactly the same as saying Europeans to mean all Europeans
/r/BlackPillScience29/07/25 10:12 PM
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