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GomboAndGimlee/r/seduction13/07/18 04:05 AM
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GomboAndGimlee/r/seduction11/10/18 02:20 AM
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It's a double edged sword. While it might help guys become more comfortable around women it's not an accurate version of reality. Strippers will come up to you but women at bars rarely come up to you. Strippers will talk with you even if you say the cringiest shit whereas regular women will walk away. Getting lap dances from really hot strippers on a regular basis lowers the incentive to talk with cute women you could date.
/r/seduction24/02/20 11:13 PM
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Club game is mostly visual. Your body, clothing, mannerisms, who's in your group, eye contact, smiling and having a good time. Going to a loud club expecting to talk your way into a woman's pants is often a recipe for disappointment.
/r/seduction10/02/20 04:13 AM
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High risk high reward move. The risk is that he will say something vulgar to someone's girlfriend and get the shit beat out of him. As for why it works, he's letting women know his intentions from the start. Some percentage will find it repulsive but another percentage who is looking to hook up that night, likes his forwardness, and finds him attractive will be into it.
/r/seduction23/12/19 09:42 PM
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I would move on. With all my girlfriends the vibe was good from the start. They seemed into me and that made me feel more comfortable around them.
/r/seduction14/12/19 01:35 PM
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Loud club game is mostly visual. How you're dressed, face/body, facial expression (smiling & having a good time), the way you move, who you're with.
/r/seduction14/12/19 04:42 AM
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One ugly guy strategy is to get a banging body, like top 5% of all guys body. Basically you need to bring something to the table to spark attraction. As far as balding goes, I know one girl who absolutely loves totally bald guys. She's dating one right now. I didn't even know some women have that preference.
/r/seduction03/12/19 06:52 PM
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Some people say not to approach at the gym. The same people complain that women only like assholes. Guess what, "assholes" are approaching at the gym. They're focused on what they want, not on some arbitrary rules.
/r/seduction28/11/19 04:16 AM
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I met one girl at an event and we hit it off. She had a boyfriend though. A couple months later I saw her again but this time she was single. We started dating.
/r/seduction25/11/19 12:13 AM
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It's been 5 years since I talked with her so I can't remember all of it. I think she said when she went out with some girlfriends, guys would talk to her and totally ignore her friends. They would offer to buy her drinks but never a round for the group.
/r/seduction24/11/19 02:59 PM
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I think it's good to listen to what they say when they're talking to other people. At brunch today I was sitting with a couple girls and one mentioned her Tinder date getting hammered. Kind of obvious not to do that on a date but I'm talking about their dating stories contain relevant information. I also had a friend whose girlfriend was top 5 or 10% in terms of looks. She was able to point out the way guys acted towards her that I never would have thought of or heard in seduction threads.
/r/seduction24/11/19 03:12 AM
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One strategy would be to have a banging body to offset the ugly face. If you have a bottom 10% face you want a top 10% body.
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:43 PM
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1) Talk to single women you're attracted to 2) Make it known you're interested in them, not just being their friend 3) Get their contact info, contact them, and set up dates Which one are you not doing?
/r/seduction22/11/19 09:40 PM
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Having actual abundance is great. I stopped texting an attractive woman because she stopped texting me. Her parents were visiting her for a couple months and staying at her place. I ran into her in person yesterday and she seemed happy to see me. Her parents have left. I have a girlfriend now and didn't ask to set up a date. I will see how this plays out.
/r/seduction22/11/19 02:42 PM
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There's something better than an abundance mindset. Abundance. I stopped texting a hot girl because she stopped texting me. I didn't try and set up more dates and I was totally fine with letting her go. Why? Because I had been out with 3 other women since our last text.
/r/seduction21/11/19 05:03 AM
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Relationships are great. I think the sex is better than one night stands because you know what the other person likes, you feel more comfortable, and you care about them. When you're in a relationship you make mistakes that hopefully you don't make in future relationships. People that only hookup aren't getting that knowledge and could blow it when they finally decide to settle down.
/r/seduction21/11/19 04:56 AM
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I like that I moved to an area with a lot of attractive single women. If a girl plays games or doesn't keep in contact I just move on to the next one. I don't try and pursue dead ends.
/r/seduction18/11/19 05:24 AM
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Anyone who lost weight knows the importance of looks. When I lost 50 pounds I started getting interest from multiple women ranging from 21 to 49. Even some dudes hit on me. Some people on this sub wonder why they get no results even though they have 'seduction knowledge' while guys with no knowledge get women. Those other guys focus solely on their looks. They go to the gym, they buy nice clothes, they whiten their teeth.
/r/seduction17/11/19 05:50 PM
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I read a thread about a guy who thought a waitress might be interested in him. The correct answer is maybe/maybe not but guys were saying "don't ask out a woman while she is working". They view women as delicate and how showing interest would ruin her day and make her feel uncomfortable. In reality she probably has dealt with that situation at work and outside of work numerous times. She can handle it. She may even view it as a compliment and it will boost her confidence.
/r/seduction16/11/19 04:25 PM
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I just focus on the fundamentals. 1) Becoming more attractive 2) Having my life together 3) Talking with women I'm attracted to, getting their contact info, and setting up dates.
/r/seduction16/11/19 02:57 AM
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As I've gotten older my strategy is to go at the pace the woman is comfortable with. I can think of a couple times where going too fast caused things to end. When I first started seeing my current girlfriend, I scheduled a date near her place and picked her up. She invited me up before the date to see her dog or apartment. At the end of the date I pulled into her apartment complex and parked, with the hopes she would invite me up. We just made out in my car and she left. I didn't ask to come up.…
/r/seduction27/10/19 05:01 AM
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Was tonight your first date with her?
/r/seduction27/10/19 04:49 AM
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A lot of women in their 20s base their decision mainly on attraction, of which looks plays a big part. They want someone to look good in their photos. Not all of them are looking for someone to marry in the next couple years, so they'll still date someone who doesn't have everything in order. Once they reach their 30s, they've probably been hurt a few times. They may have been cheated on. A hot guy may have treated them like shit. They're looking to settle down and possibly have kids. All of a s…
/r/seduction27/10/19 02:31 AM
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I met a girl at some event and we hit it off. She mentioned a boyfriend at some point and I was disappointed. I saw her again a couple months later and she was now single. We started dating.
/r/seduction26/10/19 02:11 AM
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All my past girlfriends made it really clear they were into me from the start. One even drove through a blizzard to make it to our first date.
/r/seduction25/10/19 04:45 AM
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Girls can play games like that in their 20s if they are attractive but they could find themselves in their 30s with a lot less guys interested in them.
/r/seduction24/10/19 04:10 PM
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The good thing about going out solo is that you're forced to talk with people. When I went out in a group I would just talk with my friends and look around the room. At the end of the night I would wonder why I hadn't met anyone. My tip would be to go to places where people are looking to meet other people. I had better luck at those type of events over weekend nights at the bar.
/r/seduction23/10/19 10:10 PM
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Definitely impressive but until he does it to a second woman, I wouldn't place too much value on his skills.
/r/seduction22/10/19 09:30 PM
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Something I rarely see talked about is how important your location is. The same guy might do poorly in one city but do great in another.
/r/seduction22/10/19 03:05 AM
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If your face is in the bottom 10% in terms of attractiveness, I think it's a good strategy to workout to get a body in the top 10%.
/r/seduction21/10/19 04:27 PM
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I went out alone a lot. The way I see it is that if I stay in I have 0% chance. If I go out I have at least 1% chance. My advice would be to go to events where people are looking to meet people. Stuff like Meetups, mixers, and dating events. I didn't find the plain weekend night at the bar to be that effective. I met a couple girlfriends over the years that way but that's because it was the only way I tried to meet women. I figure I spent over 50 grand at bars over the last 15 years.
/r/seduction20/10/19 03:53 AM
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Game is basically talking to women you're attracted to with the goal of 1) getting her contact info to set up a date or 2) hooking up that night. The talking part involves you approaching. It involves being funny or interesting. I'm sure there's a lot more but I like to keep it simple and have a good time.
/r/seduction12/10/19 09:05 PM
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As a guy you need to make things happen. You need to initiate physical contact. Usually that means going in for a kiss. Too many encounters without physicality and she could think you're not interested in her.
/r/seduction12/10/19 04:50 PM
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Solo is better than staying in but I think the ideal situation is going out with one other person. Most women will be in groups of 2 or more. Your group of 2 will match up with a group of 2. While you're talking to one your friend is talking to the other.
/r/seduction12/10/19 04:46 PM
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Only thing I can think of is that she knew where it was headed and didn't want to. She knew if she stayed she might give in and that she should leave now.
/r/seduction12/10/19 05:14 AM
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Step 1: get into the best shape possible. When that happens game becomes much easier. Step 2: develop your lifestyle. Get a good job, a good place, a good car, have other interests, have stories, have friends, have things to talk about. Step 3: put yourself in situations where you can talk with women. The places vary from person to person. Some places may be filled with attractive women but if you never talk with them there, find other places. Step 4: make your interest known. You're interested …
/r/seduction02/09/19 03:48 AM
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I had bottom of the barrel in my old city. Lots of fat women who tried to hide it by not having any full body shots or cropping out part of their body. The city I moved to has plenty of 8s and as such I get better matches now. One 8 I went out with said online dating hadn't been good for her.
/r/seduction12/08/19 04:49 PM
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2 guys I know are around 5' 6". Both have no problem getting attractive women. They've dated women shorter than them. They're both thin too, being short and fat would pose problems I assume. Do some women prefer tall guys? Sure. It's all about finding ones who don't though.
/r/seduction15/05/19 03:37 AM
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This one girl in my fitness class opened me. I kind of thought she was into me and one day she just asked me some random question. I didn't really continue the conversation but I saw her out at the bar one night and we made out. I didn't pursue anything because I wasn't that attracted to her.
/r/seduction23/04/19 04:28 PM
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I think it changes over time. In the 20s women are more into men's looks and having fun. If they want to settle down as they reach their 30s they place importance on money.
/r/seduction14/04/19 04:05 AM
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This one girl I know married a chode. When I first saw them as a couple I thought "she could do better than him". I found out recently that she wants to get a divorce. I guess she wants to go out on the town more but he would rather stay at home. I heard that she liked to get validation that she was hot from younger guys when she would go out. This doesn't answer your question but it was the first thing that popped in my head.
/r/seduction26/10/18 02:38 AM
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How do you know the guy isn't lying about his sexual exploits? Have you seen him take a girl into a bedroom or heard a girl confirm it? Maybe he is telling the truth. Just wanted you to consider that without any evidence, he might be making things up.
/r/seduction24/10/18 08:40 PM
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How do you know the guy isn't lying about his sexual exploits? Have you seen him take a girl into a bedroom or heard a girl confirm it? Maybe he is telling the truth. Just wanted you to consider that without any evidence, he might be making things up.
/r/seduction24/10/18 08:00 PM
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How do you know the guy isn't lying about his sexual exploits? Have you seen him take a girl into a bedroom or heard a girl confirm it? Maybe he is telling the truth. Just wanted you to consider that without any evidence, he might be making things up.
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:59 PM
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How do you know the guy isn't lying about his sexual exploits? Have you seen him take a girl into a bedroom or heard a girl confirm it? Maybe he is telling the truth. Just wanted you to consider that without any evidence, he might be making things up.
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:54 PM
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How do you know the guy isn't lying about his sexual exploits? Have you seen him take a girl into a bedroom or heard a girl confirm it? Maybe he is telling the truth. Just wanted you to consider that without any evidence, he might be making things up.
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:52 PM
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How do you know the guy isn't lying about his sexual exploits? Have you seen him take a girl into a bedroom or heard a girl confirm it? Maybe he is telling the truth. Just wanted you to consider that without any evidence, he might be making things up.
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:51 PM
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How do you know the guy isn't lying about his sexual exploits? Have you seen him take a girl into a bedroom or heard a girl confirm it? Maybe he is telling the truth. Just wanted you to consider that without any evidence, he might be making things up.
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:51 PM
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How do you know the guy isn't lying about his sexual exploits? Have you seen him take a girl into a bedroom or heard a girl confirm it? Maybe he is telling the truth. Just wanted you to consider that without any evidence, he might be making things up.
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:51 PM
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How do you know the guy isn't lying about his sexual exploits? Have you seen him take a girl into a bedroom or heard a girl confirm it? Maybe he is telling the truth. Just wanted you to consider that without any evidence, he might be making things up.
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:51 PM
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How do you know the guy isn't lying about his sexual exploits? Have you seen him take a girl into a bedroom or heard a girl confirm it? Maybe he is telling the truth. Just wanted you to consider that without any evidence, he might be making things up.
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:51 PM
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I came to the realization that if I wanted to make something happen with a woman, it was up to me to make it happen and not wait for her to initiate.
/r/seduction09/10/18 04:18 AM
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If you get called a creep or creepy once of twice in your life I don't think it's a big deal. If you get called that fairly regularly I'd say you need to make changes.
/r/seduction08/10/18 09:17 PM
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The last time I changed my mindset to this I found a girlfriend. I told myself I was just going to change my priority to my career and making money. I still went out to group meetup events though and that's how I met her.
/r/seduction06/10/18 01:07 PM
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I went to get food at the bar earlier today. I noticed a girl sitting alone and I sat 2 seats down from her, allowing a seat between us. I realized that I should have asked her "is this seat taken?". That's an innocent enough question that breaks the ice. By saying nothing, I would have to come up with some other opener. I ended up just eating and leaving. For the entire time she just played with her phone for the most part and sipped on a beer.
/r/seduction28/08/18 01:36 AM
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You need to interact with women more. I'm not talking about women you're interested in but just in every day life. Once you start talking with them you'll see there's nothing to be scared of. Other than that, being afraid is irrational. They're not going to physically hurt you. You could argue they'll hurt you emotionally by being mean to you but developing a thick skin should negate that.
/r/seduction25/08/18 11:46 PM
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If you think of dating as a video game, attractive guys are playing on easy mode while ugly guys are playing on hard mode. Ugly guys can still win every now and then.
/r/seduction13/08/18 08:01 PM
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You should consider the potential downsides of your approach: She may decline your love interest because she values you more as a friend. In that time it takes to become her friend, another guy may enter the picture. She may feel betrayed if she thinks your friendship was only a ploy to get into her pants. She may not be into you romantically and start ignoring you. In that situation you've wasted time.
/r/seduction12/08/18 10:09 PM
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I'd ask her on a date. I think some nice guys like to talk with women in a friendly manner in hopes that once women see how great they are will want to date them. They either don't ask the woman out or only ask once she sees the guy as a friend.
/r/seduction11/08/18 01:57 PM
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Point 1 was about women I see when I'm out in public. In your situation I wouldn't give up. I only stop pursuing a woman if she says she's not interested or she ignores me.
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:06 AM
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I think some seduction material is valuable but some is bullshit, so it's important to think critically about anything you read. It's also good to test it out to see what works and doesn't work for you. Here's some realizations I've had: Women aren't going to initiate with me. If I see an attractive woman and want to get to know her, it's up to me to make it happen. I vibed with all my girlfriends right from the start. When I met them it was easy to talk with them and I felt comfortable. I didn'…
/r/seduction10/08/18 11:03 PM
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No. One of the biggest realizations I've had is that if I don't initiate nothing will happen. I also asked myself why should I be scared of women. They're not going to hurt me physically or mentally, so why should I be afraid of them?
/r/seduction30/07/18 09:15 PM
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After the second bar my friends went home. He asked if I wanted to go to another bar in a different part of the city. I said I was going home but I just wanted to go out solo in the current area I was in.
/r/seduction13/07/18 12:54 PM
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I'm not upset that a gay guy hit on me. I would have rather he be up front about it at one of the bars so I could have said I was straight. He seemed like a good guy, and it's good to network and know people in other cities.
/r/seduction13/07/18 04:15 AM
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My takeaways from the story: You can score with hotter chicks than you think you can. When a hot chick invites you to do something, give it a shot.
/r/seduction24/05/18 01:41 AM
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I like this post. I might disagree with the 'Always' part of the title but dressing up more might be something to consider. I bought some flashy sport coats and would get multiple compliments at night. That's a huge ego boost.
/r/seduction21/05/18 03:11 AM
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