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Not sure why this post is being hammered with so much high and mighty morality shit. Cheating can be a validation seeking exercise but every one of u fuckers is lying if u say you’re not doing things in your life for validation. It shouldn’t be your goal and that’s something u need to keep in check, but I understand where you’re coming from. This is the fundamental question of why are we married? Once you open your eyes and see the dutiful husband and father routine for what it is, it’s hard to …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 09:34 PM
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I can totally relate to this. I’m in the same situation currently. Mine is compounded by a lot of other things ... Not your typical couple... but I am going through the same feelings. The advice you’re getting is solid and I’m trying to own the fact that my wife acted in reflection to my behavior, but it’s still hard to swallow sometimes. I’m not sure how beta you had gone, but what I struggle with is yeah I wasn’t my best self and I had many areas for improvement, but in many ways I was always …
/r/askMRP14/03/19 08:42 PM
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What authorities? I thought conservatives hate the government and don’t need authorities to protect them...isn’t that true? I thought everybody was stock piling so they could defend themselves from our tyrannical government and police, now you are blaming them for not protecting you? Can’t have it both ways. I’m not upset with Rollo I’m more annoyed by guys like you who obviously responded to defend gun companies and blame others. I must have hit that nerve. I can tell by your username.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 04:46 PM
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Uh oh. Now you’re trying to use logic with men that claim to be highly logical and analytical, but for some reason choose to maintain their blind spot on this issue. I own two firearms and generally consider myself a 2nd amendment supporter, but something has to change I agree. There’s a difference between allowing fully vetted (MRP term might help) adult individuals to own protection or sport firearms, but flooding a nation with cheap weapons where we’re about to reach (might have already) more…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 11:10 PM
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I’m glad you made the points about divide and conquer and the financial goals of those who use the media and politics in this way to reach them. I see a lot of most likely fake alpha bullshit posted in this forum on a regular basis and honestly Rollo’s comments connecting the shootings to the media and this war against masculinity is fucking disgusting. 17 kids, not beta males or alpha widowed women or all these other terms we use to label people, but 17 humans that didn’t get a chance to begin …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/18 02:56 PM
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... you don’t sound hopeful lol thanks for the reality check. All good points.
/r/askMRP09/02/18 09:38 PM
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Very good points. Thanks for this.
/r/askMRP09/02/18 09:07 PM
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There is resentment. For sure. After being with someone for years and going through things it’s impossible not to have some. I don’t expect a reward. I am going to take the points I got here and figure things out. Appreciate your input.
/r/askMRP09/02/18 08:30 PM
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So the best course of action would have been to keep my mouth shut and let my wife scream? Or jump upand immediately take the kid to bed so she can scroll Facebook? You are very perceptive in you critique and it’s given me a lot to think about. I take full ownership of how the situation unfolded, but I can’t help but be confused as to how me calmly (I was in a good mood at this point) saying ‘hey I got bedtime’ (I sat up at this point to stop the shennagins with the cat and was fully intending o…
/r/askMRP09/02/18 08:21 PM
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I’ve thought that about a few instances recently. But it’s confusing. What’s with the good sex? Blowjobs, she’s cumming eat harder and more than she used to. She’s initiating and gets pissed when we don’t fuck.. Right now I feel like there’s no respect. Another commenter said we have a codependency from being together so long and that is very accurate. I don’t want to speak with her when I get home I don’t even want to look at her. I want to just go blank, I’m furious, but that would be like mop…
/r/askMRP09/02/18 07:33 PM
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Thanks. I’ll start reading
/r/askMRP09/02/18 06:26 PM
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I had these same thoughts. Like does she want me to get physical back with her. Can I turn this into something sexual? But that could be dangerous. If she did this to me a year ago when she was 40 lbs heavier and sexless I would be meeting a lawyer. But I didn’t go there in my head this time. I’m thinking how do I fix this.. we’ve been in such a good space lately. It’s jarring.
/r/askMRP09/02/18 06:13 PM
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Yeah all these thoughts have been swimming in my head. We’ve had a really good past couple years and she really follows my lead almost completely. I handle everything financially. Our house has just been renovated 100% led by me. She turned her fitness around because I started lifting and changed my physique pretty drastically in a years time. She drastically changed hers. I plan for the future and our sons future and she seems totally on board with it keeps on top of her nails and hair and clot…
/r/askMRP09/02/18 06:08 PM
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I can see that, but her ‘parenting’ she’s trying to do is screaming at the kid without getting up or actually doing anything. I don’t think I came across as passive aggressive I was actually in a good mood and said ‘I got it I’ll handle bedtime’ trying to diffuse the situation. Otherwise, I agree with your other points.
/r/askMRP09/02/18 05:42 PM
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Yeah the cat and him are like brothers. He gets scratched but then goes to find the cat to play more or drag a toy through the house for him.. but it goes from fun to chaos quickly. I agree with everyone’s comment that I have family management work to do.
/r/askMRP09/02/18 05:32 PM
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Yeah I agree..
/r/askMRP09/02/18 05:03 PM
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I actually told her during her rant never to hit me (but it’s not the first time). I grabbed her chin roughly and forcefully made her look at me and she acted devastated that I would touch HER like that. I was boiling inside, just a shit show all around. I was startled to go from a calm evening to physical confrontations. I’m glad I just left quickly after that.
/r/askMRP09/02/18 04:56 PM
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ADHD? For real? Do you also have restless leg syndrome or unexplained joint pain, fatigue? Hahaha that shit is all made up to sell you drugs you don't need. Have some mental fortitude and deal with your distractions and common human feelings like a man. Are you prescribed meds? Congrats you are now on prescription methamphetamine and the addiction, side effects and complete crash you will experience if you ever stop the meds are no different than the street drug. I know several people that were …
/r/askMRP11/05/17 09:31 PM
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I've seen a lot of these posts on here lately. Trump is a polarizing president. Hes got women stirred up because he's not attractive and makes sexual remarks about women. If he looked Channing or Pitt he'd have the highest presidential ratings among women ever... and could say whatever degrading shit he wanted. He's also constantly butthurt, is a life-time beta bucks, and has shitty frame. I'm always amazed at all the guys here who pretend he's a masculine guy and use his shit to backup anything…
/r/askMRP13/02/17 06:40 PM
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I was thinking the same. She knows the codes to finish him off and has no problem using them. It's good your frame is progressing OP, but try to keep perspective and realize just how stupid all this is. She's throwing a tantrum like a child. All started because of dishes you left? And she's a SAHM!? It's stupid. DNGAF is your goal. I know it's hard when you're bloods pumping and you're new to standing up to your wife, but try to focus on the absurdity of your wife's emotions. That helps you keep…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/17 05:48 PM
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If you can't afford private school and aren't interested in homeschooling (which is a terrible idea anyway) then man up and put your kid in public school like everybody else in your situation. Tell your wife she can buy new couches, but you are going to take the lead on finding ones she likes that are in a better price range. Then everybody wins. Take the lead on the whole situation. Let her have input on color or style but you make the final decision. What is it with everybody thinking their ki…
/r/askMRP31/01/17 05:42 PM
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Yeah... this is embarrassing. I'm going to side with your wife since it sounds like she's the man of the house. I had to comment because first of all, what the fuck is it with grown men like you who have to have ketchup on everything? Do you order a filet well done? Or have to have a burger and potatoes at every meal with your Mountain Dew and dip of chew? I can't stand grown adults who are picky eaters and act like a child when faced with the task of eating something different than your mom mad…
/r/askMRP12/01/17 04:59 PM
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I will. For the record your RP advice is amazing. In this case it's ridiculous to call people drunkards and other childish shit. If I'm an alcoholic then so is 90% of the population. We must all be in denial.
/r/askMRP10/11/16 05:33 PM
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OP needs to judge for himself whether he's an addict that needs help. I know you are proud of your accomplishments on the road to being sober, but take a break pushing the AA cult on everyone who likes to drink and let loose. Have you ever considered that rehab culture is just another addiction in itself? A DUI is one of the most common charges in the US right now. The goal of the state isn't to get you off the road or keep others safe (if that was the case, the fat bitches you see pulling out o…
/r/askMRP10/11/16 04:23 PM
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Ok. My bad. I assumed it was a financial or business partnership which is why it was so damaging to be separated.. Overall I just wanted to comment on your discussion you had with her because it's a grey area I've struggled with also.. I agree that you cant just STFU and leave all the time.
/r/askMRP08/09/16 01:02 AM
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Exactly, the frame you have when speaking is a big part of it. If you're angry you'd still be partially in her frame. I have been fighting with anger for a while so looking back I realize how often I wasn't in my frame because of it. Females get validated from your anger. On the work comment, the guys whole fight with his wife has been because his business partner is leaving and its emotionally rocked him and he commented his wife works 70 hours a week and then is on her laptop working at home o…
/r/askMRP07/09/16 10:13 PM
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I understand your motivation with this discussion. I have made a lot of progress with my wife, but she still likes to lash out and do and say shit that's disrespectful when things get a little stressful in our lives. Recently, she crossed a line and I knew I needed to set a boundary, but leaving my house and son and ghosting constantly like all the guys here suggest here isn't right to me in some situations where nothing is changing. Why the fuck should I step out of my house on a weekday, at ni…
/r/askMRP07/09/16 08:20 PM
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I am also a skinny guy. 5'9" @ around 158lbs right now. I couldn't gain weight if I tried, full racks of ribs, beer, footlong subs... Then I'd step on the scale after a month and I'd actually lost a pound or two.. crazy. My wife hates me for it. Used to be around 145 so I've gained 10-13 lbs in the 8 months I've been lifting. SL 5x5. Obvious changes in arms, shoulders, a little in the chest, but I don't see body fat decrease. I don't have much definition except my legs, squats every workout kick…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/16 06:55 PM
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Thank you for the keys to the kingdom. It all makes sense now. Income > life. Are the keys to a mobile home trailer?
/r/askMRP29/08/16 09:32 PM
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So maybe enlighten or 'help' other people or crybabies on this sub with more concrete examples of how you went from flat broke to wealthy in 7 years with no connections to start with. This shit is just garbage self help propaganda with out concrete elements to it. Some of the guys that come here I assume like OP, are blue collar type guys, no family money coming their way, no trust fund, no assets and they have obligations NOW and bills that need paid NOW. That's why they ask 'what are you going…
/r/askMRP26/08/16 08:13 PM
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I agree. Overall the premise of the post is on point, add value, be positive, make connections...etc. I'm not a veteran of theory here, but the obvious validation seeking and bragging on income compared to median is faggotry. I know a couple trophy wives who are banging the landscape guy or a local bartender, or their old high school loser boyfriend while their husband spends his time playing Gordon Gecko, stroking his ego with his 'business dude network.' His wife might Be into it now cause it'…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/16 03:29 PM
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Is this a female speaking? You said that's how it was for you.. Either way, what became of your situation? There was an incident in college where she went home to visit family and ended up messing around with her brothers military friend. Came back crying and devestated. Said she was wasted. I actually think her brother said she better tell me or he will. Trickle truthed me on it. Claimed he couldn't stay hard and they just drunkenly fucked around. No p in v. Still don't believe it. I hate fucke…
/r/askMRP23/08/16 09:03 PM
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Yes. This is where I'm at. I do carry a covert contract as you describe. It's more of a - I know what I provide, I know my value and it's still increasing. So give me something back to give me reason to stay. Not just cooking me a meal and ironing my clothes. Show me we're not just playing house here, but I think she would never admit it because she's afraid to be honest with herself. There's probably resentment from being with me for so long. From so young. We basically grew up together, but we…
/r/askMRP23/08/16 07:30 PM
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Appreciate the kick in the ass from a veteran. Working on adding weight. I probably have beginner gains at this point to be honest with myself. I'm not ripped and I haven't transformed myself enough to brag. Need to keep on that shit. I have been debating the controlled anger response to this shit recently. Shit or get off the pot. The bar thing is really the last straw and i'm probably hamstering all the small things like they matter when I really need to address that. Any final suggestion on d…
/r/askMRP23/08/16 05:53 PM
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You're right. Hard truth. I definitely know I'm not worth much to her at this point. I lack outside hobbies. I have friends, but now they're the ones at home rubbing their wife's feet while I'm calling trying to get them out. I can always be a better leader, captain. I don't follow blogs much or YouTube channels. I work 50+ hours a week in a financial type job. I fill the rest of my time lifting, yard work, and spending time with my boy... At the end of that there's not much time left. But I nee…
/r/askMRP23/08/16 05:34 PM
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I hear ya. I try to break out of it, but get little return except a more tired version of my wife. I'm a fun guy. We come from hard partying backgrounds. I know how to rage with the best of them. We go to baseball games and go downtown to clubs. I have a badass vacation planned later this year to another country she knows nothing about. She knows we're going somewhere that's it. I fucking regret booking it most of the time cause she doesn't deserve it lately. It's not uncommon for me to come hom…
/r/askMRP23/08/16 05:24 PM
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Totally agree I get that I'm missing that piece. Where I live makes it tough. Dudes around here make meth as a hobby, count how many teeth are falling out... Other dudes are fat and depressed sit in the bar and talk about football. and wait for some meth to come around.. I will find something. Needs to happen.
/r/askMRP23/08/16 04:56 PM
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I definitely see that sex is a task for her. That's why it's a weekend thing, when it's not lumped ontop of a busy day. When we have a busy weekend she avoids contact that could lead to it, prioritized around it I guess. I might take NGAG too far. It's easy for me. I use it in all her shit unless I'm trying to pivot to sex then I try to joke and kino, which she allows but typically no access is granted. Unless weekend. Kid is napping, wine is being drank, etc.. Has anybody ever blown up some dra…
/r/askMRP23/08/16 04:48 PM
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Definitely need outside hobbies. It's a weak spot for me. Used to be partying, hanging out with friends and fucking my wife/ girlfriend at the time, but marriage and kids seems to kill that for us. Good point on initiating at bedtime. Seems like lately the only time were alone together is bedtime at night, in bed in the morning. Hard no's always happen in the morning. It's like she can't ever get enough sleep. It's her main priority. I need to find ways to keep her awake and active.
/r/askMRP23/08/16 04:30 PM
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I would say yes. Stage 4 at least. I definitely am cold and busy after several no's. I'll leave for work early, come home late, then find something else to do.. But I'm still THERE. Hobbies and outside friends are my weak spot. Basically my only dread outlet is work trips out of town, infrequent, and going to he bar on weekends. But when I'm out its like the flood gates have opened. I have serious dread levels going then, but she's not ther to see it. Girls I know, girls I don't know will approa…
/r/askMRP23/08/16 04:26 PM
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All good points. Maybe she didn't feel the passion from my end either. But fuck if holding her down by her throat and pulling her panties down isn't passion or cornering her in the bathroom and kissing grabbing her ass telling her it looks amazing today isn't passion I'm running out of motivation... Her ass really does look good lately. I know it's my job to initiate and initiate OFTEN, but what wears my down I the maze of roadblocks. Pillows, blankets, work shit, to rough, too tired, apathy... …
/r/askMRP23/08/16 04:02 PM
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She is generally dispassionate in my presence unless I come to her.. Lots of Facebook scrolling, I get it we're bored parents, i get bored too.. I don't make too big a deal of it. Now, she is still a pleasant person to be around, which makes this all much more difficult. It's an easy next with a straight up harpy making out with someonr at the bar.. But she cooks me great food. She washes and folds my clothes she cleans up... fuck lol I feel like she likes being a wife and a mom, but she's not p…
/r/askMRP23/08/16 03:38 PM
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My SMV is definitely higher, but she is the type who is so sold on herself she probably doesn't consider it. I view her starting to work out and count calories as noticing my SMV increase though. It must be significant for her to take action. There aren't many opportunities for passive dread with girls we know. Although one example just recently was when the daycare had a water leak and probably the hottest girl there, this 22 year old brunette, thin, Natalie Portman type called me to talk about…
/r/askMRP23/08/16 03:18 PM
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And I agree with your points also. If you're going to do something make it valuable and you definitely are doing that. I envy people like you who can just dominate with all of this stuff. EMT, military background. Legit. Just playing the antagonist and at the same time, my lifestyle may be different, but I can learn from yours also. Making us look like lazy bitches! Cheers.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 01:22 AM
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Good inspirational post. You are definitely keeping busy in a value added way, I agree with the importance of that. Reminds me to kill my problems with procrastination, I tend to have little motivation to do something unless I have a the time or external pressure. Especially when it's something I don't enjoy. I have to say though, that I see so many of these posts about being active and getting involved in hobbies, social networks, gun clubs, martial arts, ballroom dancing, Boy Scouts... It goes…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/16 10:29 PM
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We are in agreement my friend. Life needs plans and a man in control of his shit does his best to be prepared. Your description of throwing away something because fuck it, it's not going to matter anyway is something I've struggled with a lot recently. Somewhere in between those extremes is where the sweet spot lies. I was directing my more critical statements towards those commenting who (besides missing the point of your post) get lost in the compulsion to plan and structure and 'define' every…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 09:40 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 06:21 PM
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'Mission' 'goal' 'vision' 'progress' you guys realize these are all bullshit meaningless words, half of which are used everyday to compel the female imperative. If you want to do things, you need a plan sometimes. Do your homework, make a good plan then go on with your business. Stop over complicating everything. Especially when you start talking about your ENTIRE LIFE... Seriously? This shit reminds me of the movie Office Space. I've worked in the corporate world for years and there's always so…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 04:07 PM
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Wow... Thought I was reading Gordon Gecko's memoir. Great job navigating the corporate rat maze. How is this married red pill related? You're obviously very successful in your career. Congratulations. It's obvious you take great pride in management politics and pretend tough guy, office warfare. In my experience guys in your position are extremely intelligent, usually sociopathic, but live in an office losing their hair, eating garbage and slowly dying, while their kids grow up without a father …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 08:50 PM
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This is a good point for a lot of guys coming out of their BP days of video games, movie, TV, comics, obsessions.. childish shit like that. I feel like porn falls into that area. Thank you for making it again. I also get lost in my head not only with porn images, but also images of hot girls I dated when I was way younger and even my wife at about 19 years old... My god... I lead by example with lifting and staying fit and groomed and I will always push my wife to do the same, but she's not 19 a…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/16 01:54 AM
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Wow. Super Bowl halftime for you stokes your insecurities about immigrants and open borders? You took one thing and went far, far to the other side to something that you struggle with personally. Just for clarity I agree that it was blue pill heaven. I can't stand Coldplay and I am still confused why they were picked to play 6 year old songs that everyone is sick of. Other than its soft set up for beyonces feminist 'my ass in your face proves my superiority' bullshit, which is disgusting as usua…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/16 04:29 AM
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It's easy to think of money/wealth as an endgame after the pussy, fitness, and other alpha goals seem conquered, but this is one that I feel comfortable not taking too seriously. Make it a goal, but be realistic and face reality of what wealth means to you. It makes sense that this post and the comments are from the main red pill sub. So many young guys on there who still believe they are going to be billionaires and bang supermodels on their yacht, as long as they put in the 'hard work.' To me …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 04:18 PM
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Hey, do what you need to do to be the man you want to be. You have very valid points. Especially about women's shameless tingles, even in church, for men who are leaders and alphas. Plenty of pastors and men of God have been caught in that sinful trap of hypergamous women jumping at the chance to betray their husbands for the church pastor. I'm just trying to point out the irony and hipocrisy of exactly that type of thing. The only thing I will say is MRP is about opening our eyes and escaping t…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 12:48 AM
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Nothing personal man. You are totally correct on my distaste for religion, but think about it for a second, really have an honest reflection on what MRP is and what Christianity is supposed to be. I've read posts about guys speaking in front of their church and bringing that red pill philosophy into their congregation and how it got them tons of female attention (other than their wife - sin) and turned their wife into a little nymph for the night because of the tingles (tingles brought on by the…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 08:46 PM
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Good progress and starting to see results from the wife, better pray real quick to imaginary cloud wizard because of 'faith and family' and stuff... You can't argue that Praying is an incredibly beta behavior. TRP teaches us to own our shit, take control of our lives, and face how cruel and uncaring the world is head on. To see how disposable we are as men in our society and start taking what we want and living on our own terms. Then you get on your knees and give credit to the imaginary sky dad…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/15 06:21 PM
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I wonder sometimes if on top of it all we are just fighting against the failing concept of monogamy. I don't believe in 'love' or 'lust' as an actual real state of being because it means something different for everyone. Every girl attaches those words to a slightly different feeling. I knew a girl who thought love or attraction was that butterfly fly nervousness feeling you get when you're with someone new. 6 boyfriends and 1 husband later by the time she was in her mid 20's she was a total wre…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/15 04:25 PM
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Question for you guys related to lifting - I have read that too many days back to back can be destructive to development. I am currently on a 3 day a week heavy dumbbell program. Basic compound lifts - squats, press, OH press, lying extensions, hammer curls also sit ups and pull ups. Then off a day and next day will be deadlift, squats, shrugs, rows, etc.. But also every day after work I have a routine where I change out of my business monkey clothes and do slow stretching (meditation almost) fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 10:03 PM
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Yeah, you're right it was hard to not be pissed about this one. What would OI look like in this situation though? Shouldn't I at least make sure she knows it's not acceptable to do that?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/15 10:07 PM
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True, I can see your point. But really there wasn't even enough time to get into it. I had her shirt off and was touching her tits. I always hold on to the back of hair and make sure she knows I like it. She acted like her shirt coming off annoyed her...then it was done. Seriously though, I have never given up when going down on her because she wasn't thrashing around and acting all crazy... Marriage is a tough game to play. She bounces between my friend, enemy, with rare appearances as a lover.…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/15 10:02 PM
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This is good advice. Thank you. I am guilty of being only a 'consumer' myself at times, but I at least try to consume things that benefit me - gym equipment, books, supplements, clothes. This reality TV, facebook voyeur obsession garbage has a grip on too many people. I deleted my FB account almost a year ago. It's insane how much time it wastes in our short lives.. Lead by example. I agree.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/15 06:21 PM
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Wow, thanks for your infinite wisdom. Did you really just use the word 'wino' ? Out of my entire post you came to the conclusion that I should attend Alcoholics Anonymous? Yea, I like to drink. So what? My wife may have developed a habit she's clinging to a little too much, which is why I'm trying to lead us in a different direction. But hey, continue on with your temperance efforts professor. Best of luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/15 06:17 PM
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