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You could have googled this ngl. Prince, bruno mars, Daniel Radcliffle, Nick Jonas, Tom cruise - cruise is the tallest on this list and he's known for being "short". He's alternative so I would call him a traditional example but Lil Uzi is another example Robery Downey Jr, Zac Efron and James Deen = 5'8, Usher is 5'7 (A LOT of celebs are 5'8 - 5'7 but thats literally average height for a male, I'd be here listing all day). These are mostly Americans other cultures def have tons of ""short"" male…
/r/ExRedPill23/11/22 02:11 PM
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I think he would have pointed that out if she was openly poly
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 05:48 PM
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Discontent can happen in any facet a monogamous relationship without dating someone else especially at 22. The concept is applied to women and not men? You're assuming it was purely sex but breaks in a relationship can be a sign it was time for something to end.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 07:58 PM
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I agree with this. It being rare doesn't mean its not as traumatic to victims.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 07:32 PM
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I dont agree with that phraskng, even if women ocmmit less violent crime: women can be clear and present danger, lets take these things case by case and on individual levels.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 07:31 PM
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I dont even think thats the definition of alpha widowing but if it is its pretty goofy lol. thats like saying you tried more activities so you dont look at videos games the same so youre activity widowed I tried more food now pasta isnt the same so Im food widowed Shes 22, its literally normal for people to experiment at that age
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 07:28 PM
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Ok captain save the hoeless, there are definitely people who embrace the term incel. The blackpill is an ideology and incels are its followers and with some of those people committing acts of terrorism its ugly for you to blame actual people who are threatened by them or deny the mentality exists.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 11:29 PM
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Not having a GF is not ostracization. Other than fighting the stigma against male virginity what can be done about that? The incel ideology is the problem and is itself violent
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 11:03 PM
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"Cry bully" is such an apt term 💀
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 10:21 PM
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Not having sex or being in a relationship doesn't make someone a victim. It can make someone depressed obviously but to be a victim you need an act perpetrated against you.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 10:04 PM
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She never said she raped them. Obv not the best role model for robbery but I think this should be discussed with nuance because prostitutes are at extreme risk of violence of every type and come from destitution. For rap the genre shes in robbery isnt particularly remarkable either
/r/ExRedPill14/09/22 02:04 AM
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Yeah if anyone male or femsles does something like try to downplay female on male rape, a woman hitting a man, female on male pedos etc I call them out. In genea Ive never heard anything like " kill all men"shit IRL like when it was popular back in 2012.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/22 02:00 AM
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"I don't insult, I build up" YES YES YES, you put it into words. You get more flies with honey than vinegar. I get a lot of positive attention by being kind, playful and complimenting. I flatly hate the hurt weirdos who have an obsession with "humbling" people aka trying to destroy others confidence to manipulate them. They make it about humility (as if they're the humble police) in order to not own up to the fact they're being abusive and feel threatened.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 07:52 AM
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This is dumb though. Most of humanity currency and the modern concept of property didn't exist. Hunter gather societies are egalitarian for example. Youre making these massive statements ignoring vrious factors such as women not having the autonomy to choose or being coerced into marrying/staying for financial stability due to a lack of economic stability allowing modern employed women to be choosier. But even with that women have always worked or cane from rich families and could have married m…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 07:35 AM
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Thats my point lol: it makes claims that arent true. Most people marry and date within their per age range (1-5 years) and most college girls are not sugar babies or seeking grey foxes.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 07:08 PM
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It is, posting W on a story about abuse is some bitter weirdo shit. Not normal.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 12:36 AM
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Dude you have posts talking about no friends this shit is why. you're on a bad path, stop being a cornball lashing out.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 11:14 PM
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I am so sorry op
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 11:12 PM
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Anecdotal & he's a personality. Madonna, Demi Moore, Mariah Carey & Jlo have high profile age gap romances too. According to a statistic on Wikipedia 20+ gaps make up 1% of marriages. 1-5 age gaps are 66% & 1-2 is 33.9%.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 11:07 PM
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You're saying it like most relationships have a 10 let alone 20 year gap. Most don't. And no I said they don't say it verbatim but they do basically say an older man has the same choices as he did 25. And another thing: most 40 year.old men are dating women their age and 30 year olds, not the 18 year olds RP claims. The vast majority is literally anywhere within 5 years lol, meaning it could be a year or 2 older - thats peer age.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 11:00 PM
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"men age like fine wine" "women age like milk" ive seen this said verbatim and have definitely seen them say 40 year old. So maybe not explicitly 50 but that "fine wine phrase" shows the mentality sold where they that age doesn't effect men.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 05:37 PM
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You use a lot of derogatory language for something you apparently do - casually date or sleep around. There are women who slept around and realized its not for them. There are women who did it and grew out of it especially at your age. Why are you affording grace to yourself but not others?
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 05:35 PM
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No they definitely say men age like "fine wine" and only gain value as they age They do typically use 40 as their example age but even so most teens and 20s chicks are not seeking 40 yo men.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 05:28 PM
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Sugar baby relationships are explicitly transactional financially, its not love or attraction. Its like saying a massuese is attracted to all their clients because a massage could be a form of physical affection lol. RP is telling you "with game" and status you can get an 18 year old and shames sugar babying lol (while telling men to use tactics thatd attract an sb)
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 05:26 PM
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Its not even most just as most dudes arent rejecting women for being over 25 or whatvever rp says
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 05:44 PM
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FDS is a niche like rp is a niche its not representative of the gender as a whole
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 01:54 PM
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What'd they say to or about them
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 10:18 PM
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Take it in theory & not practice. Islam seemingly meshes in some places with RP because like most religions its misogynistic but overall its STILL a religion and most RP being hedonistic would go against its principles (free mixing, sleeping around, divisive views of people not prescribed in the religion (alpha/beta), cursing & vulgar language/behavior, hate child support etc)
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 10:08 PM
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Girl you're 19 get a grip!
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 09:58 PM
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In terms of labor: Women can do all the work of men though and men can do everything women can do. In wartime women take over industries. Due to physical differences I do believe in some industries women would work slower than men but besides that there's nothing each gender can't accomplish in terms of work with the help of modern technology. In war time in the USA we saw women in mass galvanize into industry. In SE Asia some construction sites are 10 to 30% women. In 3rd world countries women …
/r/ExRedPill26/08/22 07:03 PM
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As someone with higher academic knowledge & experience in a related-ish field are there any suggestions you have towards the state of the sub?
/r/ExRedPill26/08/22 06:19 PM
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LMAO 24?? You're discounting women at 24 so you think literal actual teenagers & young 20s people have the innate maturity & discernment and wisdom to tell puppy love / infatuation & lust from LTR relationship material WITHOUT them ever having been in a good relationship or courting or had sex?? News flash: most of them don't & most LTRs at that age don't last for a reason. You not only have low empathy but low common sense, there is no perfect way of spotting when someone's bad or if a relation…
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 07:46 PM
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I knew a guy who said shit like this. 36 and I don't think had ever been in an LTR, had some grudge against women his age and women with autonomy in general lol. Its honestly just super self-oblivious, you don't have to date anyone you're not attracted to but the claims you're making are prejudiced. You are your age but some how you're pristine and untouched? You're not also trauma packed at your big age? How are you going to assume millions of people are "traumatized" because of their age. Last…
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 06:09 PM
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Whats an alpha widow?? Ultimately you dont have to date anyone you dont want to.. But hatever happened to just calling people sprung or saying you don't want to be a rebound. Like why create a term for extra stigmatize something that can happen to anyone instead of just being like "they don't seem to be over their ex" "Women dont respect men who make less than them" Any proof of that guvna? I saw an old article say men who make less than their wives AND men who make significantly more than their…
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 07:59 AM
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That guy youre responding has a post calling rape "evolutionary consistent" hes a very likely a predator
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 02:16 AM
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LMAO nah this creep has a post in defense of rape. You need to be talking to an FBI agent not running your mouth on here.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 02:14 AM
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rp focuses on the negative, you're listing mature reasons why someone would respectfully opt ou but RP will literally insult single moms AND the men/people who date them hence the "hate" part.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 02:05 AM
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I'm against hate speech 😐 thise dudes were literally dehumanizing women & encouraging honest to god abuse
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 12:55 AM
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I cannot imagine getting riled up about an influence being called a scammer for a shitty overpriced product buuut someone already said that & I didn't disagree (idc that much even if theyre wrong) so it was redundant to point out. The point is less exposure is less business. He may not go broke but no hes not gonna be a big name without social media. Maybe his cam thing won't be affected but he's swimming in shallower pools now. This post was about tate lol. You're on an ex-rp sub, tate is not t…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/22 01:36 AM
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Check the sub linked r/rolereversal you could ask n find more info there
/r/ExRedPill22/08/22 01:18 AM
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Check out r/rolereversal I literally did a poll on something akin to this recently, meant to post results (on mobile so cant link atm) It was 96 men said they werent interested in fem dom 80 men said they were to some extent: either as a main fetish, curiousity or as a switch (someone who likes changing roles) So youre not alone & you can find groups to help you find the type of partners you desire.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 10:59 PM
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How is that a diss? Average relationships are a mix of roles that vary with the people/relationship itself but most people still lean traditional lol. Also it seems like youre purposely taking this to an extreme to be obtuse.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 10:54 PM
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Wait: YOU would be part of the supposed disparity since youre a man fucking multiple women compared to men who get nothing at all. Have some self awareness lol
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 10:39 PM
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That's multiple women dude, whats not clicking? You have options & youre using them. Go on any dating app sub and see how some dudes get none. You literally have an average dating or sex life but you're mad at women because you want more? And IDG how anything you said correlates with being into redpill?? Nothing you said points to being a victim of a "disparity" like what.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 10:37 PM
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Multi level marketing
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 09:33 PM
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Nothing about having self esteem is contrary of that, imposter syndrome is real and even successful hard working people can have low self esteem or not trust themself.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 03:07 PM
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Ok It isn't an MLM but it is yet another garbage influencer get rich scheme with the bonus of an annoying marketing campaign. Its not a good investment and the type of people enrolled in it are the type to fall for mlms. This part is dumb, losing marketing on two of the largest social media networks is going to hurt his reach. It will hurt his pockets because he will fade without social media. Some other nitwit get a boost. In summary: the toe lookalike misogynist tai lopez copy is not gonna fuc…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 02:54 PM
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I WANT to say self improvement which is what draws many in. But RP doesnt own self-improvement and preaches ideas contrary to actual improvement. true self-improvement doesnt rely on making others feel lesser: *• the idea of calling others losers/betas * makes the men who havent, dont want to or possibly can't become some vague confusing ideal of "alpha" feel like garbage about themselves and other men. We see this on this sub. Even men who are doing well can feel bad cus theyre basing their sel…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 03:48 AM
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Oh my bad: obnxious snake oil sales men with an annoying marketing ploy and culty fans who'll probably fall for an mlm
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 11:12 PM
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How are you going to say we have options then say you've had relations with multiple women?? I'm really confused. You have options too and you're exercising them lmao.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 10:51 PM
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Damn bozo, you're going hard to show the best of what the moron community has to offer. It takes effort to be as stupid as you.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 08:50 PM
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I am also a capitalist but I do not believe these social media companies should be allowed to deplatform someone like this. These companies have a essentially become a “public square” How, says who, and how is this not hypocritical? Why would this only apply to websites? Do Target or Walmart not have the right to kick out obnoxious customers as long as they arent "actively" committing crime (but are insulting, selling an MLM and proselytizing customers and creating a hostille environment) becaus…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 08:48 PM
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Its takes bravery for a certified member of the moron community like yourself to contribute some dumb shit when everyone else is expressing basic common sense. I cant really commend you on it though.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 07:35 PM
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Wben besides that: why is purely unconditonal love in romance something to desire? I WANT to make my loved ones happy within reason & to the best of my ability. I want my loved ones to have healthy standards for me as I would for them. Romantic love is not the same as agape love.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 07:22 PM
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I mean there are general very broad differences but lots of variation. Im horny 24/7 and have never related with women claiming "we" have a lower sex drive 💀 (Not signaling you out! this was super common in my religious upbringing). There are men who dont focus on sex, low libido or more "demisexual" dudes. I do lean with most women in that I don't just fuck anything even if I'm revved the whole day.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 06:38 PM
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Most women do care about looks, so do men. The extent of how much people care varies between individuals but saying "humans like attractive people" is a given lol.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 06:29 PM
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The average murderer or rapist isnt getting fan mail (only some high profile ones) & most women are not seeking murder rapists. I frequent fight subs for better or worse and its common to see men in the comments making sex jokes when ever a woman beats a man (mostly in mutual combat / martial arts). Its disturbing and insulting but I know all men arent like that. Abuse & trauama changes people - abused men tend to have patterns of bad partners as well through its mostly women spoken about.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 06:27 PM
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Ok but what about retail workers? when I worked in a grocery store most of my coworkers are in or had been in relationships from the cashiers to stockers to meat cutters. The older ones were generally married. Its just not true only 100k making men are the only ones getting wifed up lol I know men in that range who struggle in relationships.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 06:23 PM
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Go for it?
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 06:16 PM
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In reality its a mix of things and varies inbetween individuals. The RP focuses entirely on cash and allll women like men 10+20 years older for their supposed resources. I know for a fact I was off put by men over like 4 years older than me at that age. Some of these comments are off the wall there are def young women into signifgantly older dudes its just not as big as RP makes it just as how RP really wants people to think 25+ year old women don't get dates.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 06:05 PM
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Good riddens lol, he was running a mlm scam that annoyed basically everyone. I know that'll hurt his pockets.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 05:55 PM
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Work on your low self esteem, do that for you. You don't have any similarly or lower paid coworkers or friends who are dating or in a relationship?
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 05:53 PM
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Not even going to pretend I comprehend whats going on in those graphs. Psychology today isn't vigorous by any means so wouldn't be shocked either way.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 04:54 PM
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Lol yeah all het swingers clubs Ive seen charge single dudes over twice as much and dont let them in some nights. I dont think swingers represent the majority of the pop and are much more sex positive.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 04:51 PM
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Idc if he has a high one and doesnt tell me as Im not going to ask & find asking childish (as long as we're both tested & clear) but bragging about tons of sex is not appealing & after a certain point I'm like "you dont have other hobbies" or I wonder about the quality - fucking just to fuck anyone is something i dont vibe with. My number of what counts as high is probably higher than average + adjusts with age (if he had a ton of bodies from college or early 20s or some period with time between…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 04:25 PM
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Your graph appears to be referencing loneliness at schools? And it also uses the term "girls"and "boys" not women and men which makes ms think its talking about sub-college age teens or even kids.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 04:05 PM
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the post: "does redpill stop using "the wall" rhetoric when a woman is married" my comment: "no, redpill encourages verbal abuse & dread game to keep someone in the relationship" You: "ok but who wants a mom or a poor guy?" Its off topic, its snide and its not what's being discussed. Where tf did anyone here say dating doesnt get harder or different age or circumstance?? You're hyperfocused on desirability when we're discussing something else entirely. You're trying to imply we're snowflakes for…
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 09:36 PM
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Some very conflicting language going on here pal
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 01:18 PM
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Why do you need to "manage" them? You arent a boss or employer of toxic inc. I dont need to use toxicity and misogyny/misanthropy to deal with toxic people. The best thing is to remove them. if I can't remove them there are other ways of strengthening myself and acting wisely rather than purposely put on a massive toxic persona and expecting that not to seep in my own character.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 01:14 PM
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What is Disney fairy tale type love? RP is true because you apparently thought cartoons represented romance?? What in the world Also you're 22, relax
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 01:07 PM
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Its not a different story tf? The post is about the dread game 😐 I was giving examples of abusive language and your ass is like "well ackshully" for no reason other than to talk. You probably saw overweight over 25 and kids and went into wannabe KS attack mode. No asked for your take on options because the post & point about abuse isn't talking about that. Read the room.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 02:33 AM
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No fucking way youre this dense. How tall are you? Do you have a 6 pack? Are you flabby? A weak chin? Can you fight? Do you have dyslexia or any intellectual difference? Did you ever get bullied or abused as a kid/teen? Ever had a period you felt like a loser? Have acne or acne scarring? Is your hair thinning, balding or likely to in the future? Have you been cheated on? Is your dick big? All of these are things a man or someone could feel insecurity over. All of these are things someone can be …
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 12:21 AM
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Funny how that goes, Idk about the portrayal of god but I find the poetry in the english Bible so much prettier than what's in the quran generally (I havent read a lot of the bible though) Ofc this could be a matter of translation & artistic liberty.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 09:40 PM
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Yeah I'm an exmuslim who knows about islam, still not big on it or any religion lol. I don't want to take away from the fact that RP is surface level adoption either.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 09:17 PM
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They like the misogynistic parts of islam / religion lol. You never hear them talking about charity or some shit though. In general most religions try to tame hedonism & wayward desire on an interpersonal and personal level so RP which is manipulation for sex & ego isnt compatible.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 08:38 PM
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I mena thats one of their key acts of abusive manipulation for their victims I forget what they call it, I think they call it the dread game wherein they use some insecurity of yours to make themselves seem like the best/only choice "You have kids so no man wants you" "Youre over 25 no man wants you" "Youre gaining weight no one wants you" Shit like that. Its actually mental abuse.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 08:28 PM
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Textbook level projection
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 08:23 PM
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He was attacking and belittling people. He choose to share his message in a toxic way which is the part that attracted his fans: they wanted to see people torn down.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 08:15 PM
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Lol its complicated. hypermasulinity, feeling inferior to women / misogyny & "game" pimp kind of turned into a festering wound. The internet makes this sort of extremism highly visible tho.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 08:14 PM
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Bro I made a post directly mentioning this a few days ago He doesnt even encourage men to do better and to his fans it wouldnt matter They live for his vicious attacks cus it makes them feel better. They statistically arent ""HVM""" but theyll still quote what KS said to belittle women even if those women socially are doing better than them. I.E. a woman talks about having a degree and high paying job theyll say some BS like "HVM dont care" In reality most people marry within or arouns their soc…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 08:10 PM
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Khv?
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 02:25 PM
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That makes sense! Instead if assuming you have someone being direct and clarifying what they want
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 12:53 AM
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Alexander lit his ass up 😂 also looking at his twitter he uses studies to disprove a lot of RP talking points (not directly) but also doesn't overfocus on some cheery view. here's a thread he did today on incels and neurotic rp folks and another thread on how pro-social altruistic behavior IS attractive contrary to RP claims
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 12:17 AM
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I'm a little confused do u mean IG you are or arent? Cus if u have trust issues in a relationship then Id assume ud wouldnt want any rr or femdom.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 10:42 PM
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We all need tough love sometimes 😅 I wasnt expecting that either but I get where he was coming from
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 08:29 PM
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Nothing wrong with that, its great your self-aware and have a healthy goal to work towards.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 07:59 PM
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I'm black (dates black / poc) and absolutely understand. I spoke to someone about this recently cus like in kink communities "kink shaming" becomes "can't even question weird sex shit" in the most annoying way possible especially when so many claim to be progressive. Like "you should feel uncomfortable with racial stereotypes unless you masturbate to them then its fine" cognitive dissonance on 1000 lol Personally I don't rely on kink communities and find them often corny lol. Here I'm using term…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 07:56 PM
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on one hand I agree but also a smidge aggressive ngl >_<
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 07:45 PM
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don't bend the brim of your cap what does this even mean LOL
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 07:40 PM
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Right yet again, mah dude. Let's hope that we can both find good relationships. I know I'ma struggle hard and probably regret it and die alone. so many people focus on regrets, we will all have regrets when we pass we willl also have joys, accomplishments and little moments to think of that make life happy and fulfilling. Lifes a rainbow with all shades. I dont think ur rude and I hope I aint sound like a downer (totally opposite), you got this and I hope you find happiness.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 07:39 PM
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I remember someone said "I can be a traditional man or i can be a modern man but I wont be a traditional man with a modern woman" and I agree with that. Personally: I couldn't be with a heavy traditional leaning man, I don't even mean the toxic judgemental type!! I fully believe a traditional relationship can be healthy. It's just not a relationship dynamic I want. I love egalitarianism, men who don't feel confined by roles (everyone should do what they need to) and if anything would also be ope…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 07:38 PM
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I feeeeel you absolutely y'know. I have things I struggle with I can't even admit yet, while maybe not romance i feel ive given up on other things that seemingly came natural to others as someone with anxiety. A couple days ago someone posted about not falling for the "just world" fallacy, where everyone gets what they morally "deserve" I hate the black pill and RP because they make generalizations but some shit is true: some of us struggle more than others romantically and socially. Its not bec…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 06:55 PM
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man I wish there was a way to make these bots post this response once ~_~
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 06:30 PM
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Nah I'm single by choice (focusing on my education, career and mental health along with other shit) and ended my last relationship amicably. My ex and I started talking as friends recently after years of silence though oddly. That said there is a lot of benefits from being single: the freedom you can uproot without the consideration of a romantic partner, you don't have to worry about attraction, insecurities or on being cheated on, you can make major life changes (location, appearance, religion…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 06:24 PM
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aint nothing wrong with that, you can still desire or be curious
/r/ExRedPill13/08/22 05:55 PM
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House wifery is not an "option" for most modern on the world (and probably not most of the ancient world). My culture women have always mostly worked. The traditional idea of housewife for most of history was not some passive role, they'd have skills that provided value.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 03:34 PM
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EXACTLY on all accounts If most men are betas and society is run by betas then obviously theres a selection pressure for beta men. Evolution doesn't assign morality and using comparisons with animala that do have hierarchal strcutres akin to "alphas" (african lions, gorillas, elephant seals) humans are missing several traits for harem type breeding (nut size too small, infanticide / don't feel innate violence to children that aren't ours) for the better of our species (allowing less violence)
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 03:13 PM
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but most stable mentally mature women wouldn't fall for this either. Also reading this it seems hes in a relationship because who would talk about exes or flirting at last nights party girl with a ONS? The context doesnt seem one off-y. A FWB or hook up has even less chances to be annoying than a partner IME but this sort of behavior is a turn off for anyone with sense.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 05:26 AM
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What grown ass person would deal with a negative bitchy sarcastic partner like that? He talks like an immature avoidant I MEAN "witty sarcastic" sitcom character in a D rate show and not an adult dealing with an issue mentioned in a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 12:27 AM
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Holier than thou for race neutral Tom Dubois / Ruckus / Clayton Bigsby considering they attack black women in particular (tom dubois is the lawyer dude from boondocks but hes not an asshole lol)
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 04:34 PM
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I'm an exneet female same age if you want to talk. You may also want to look at r/neet it got toxic for awhile but it is much healthier for people looking to get better now.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 04:25 PM
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I wouldn't have used the term oreo here but this is all really oddly accurate 😂 Basically "toxic narc and accusative hypocrites looking to make cash"
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 04:22 PM
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I mean whatever happened to just normal self help books & gurus?? Like they were all over the places in the 90s There was BS in a lot of those don't get me wrong but at least they didn't use the hook of literally dehumanizing & insulting half the human population alongside the general improvement bs
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 07:20 PM
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I actually think his MLM super mass market scam is backfiring. I dont see positive comments even on masculine subs, most people are just annoyed lol. Overexposure is definitely a thing
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 07:13 PM
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Lol the expose is inevitable. I wouldnt be surprised if like Dan this dude is living waaaay over his income.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 07:11 PM
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Do you have any positive male role models in your life? Any lady or gay male friends in good relationships? Do you know any average ass men? They're just normal ass people with a mix of good, neutral and bad traits. Some men are amazing and some are God awful. Stop consuming TRP or FDS content first and foremost, you shouldn't be miserable or dehumanizing around 50% of humanity lol. If you had a bad break up or traumatic experience you should focus on healing you including therapy if you need it…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 07:07 PM
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Focusing on thr last paragraph: again I dont hate cucks, I dont think cuckholdry is inherently bad. I dont think its bad to question why some people are into that: some people like the feeling of shame & Some like seeing their partners pleasured or they like seeing them/their partner violated. Some people have legit self esteem issues theyre funneling into sex. In a sex positive space anti kink shaming I cant even say that without being made to be a bully. You and I may have discretion but a lot…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 07:00 PM
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Aafter a certain point it becomes cognitive dissonance. "I see black men as violent thuggish sex monsters" "thats fucked up" ""I see black men as violent thuggish sex monsters... but I masturbate to it!!" "your kinks not my kink =)" In a sex positive space I'd be the wrong one for being disgusted by a white dude or woman who literally masturbates to the idea of slavery and seeing my race as breeding animals. In every other progressive space we're told to mentally challenge stereotypes in order t…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 06:05 PM
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Bro if you want to eat shit you always can. I'm going to continue calling that disgusting. Its literally not an issue, kink shaming isn't an issue and sex positive people who try to make it such are just annoying holier than thou types making it like kink shaming is oppressive lmao. No one is stopping you.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 04:29 PM
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Please find some real issues in life, i cannot imagine being emotionally invested in this.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 03:53 PM
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Anti kink shaming is cringe lmao
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 10:37 PM
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... face is part of looks & lots of otherwise average short dudes do well sexually/romantically
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 04:10 PM
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Whats lms
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 12:02 PM
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Both can work alongside many other combinations, my point is it aint end all be all either way lol.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 07:58 AM
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I AGREE with this but not the example: its really not a competition in that way, no need to compare. RP and black pill absurdly underrepresent how much women like men who are facially handsome /beautiful, there are tons of 5'5 - 5'7 men who are sex icons. Height is incredibly over blown by men who take unrealistic internet jokes to heart. Pretty boys get play point blank. I personally don't even think of height when I see a fine man. I also don't hear grown women around me talk about height, its…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/22 05:54 AM
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I actually think poly famillies could work but I have more complicated view of them. Theyre more complicated than single families by nature. also having been around polygynous families: they too can work however many are actually toxic (depending on the culture/father) because the women are often financially dependent and become poorer due to competition for resources and on a social level often all of the children do not get attention from their father which leads to emotional neglect and relat…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 11:34 PM
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i'm mad reddit ate my wholee fucking long ass comment Redpill twists shit and relies simplistic view of biology and many social sciences. Monogamy is just as "natural" and valid as promiscuity. Monogamy encourages investment uses a "one in the hand worth more than 2 in the bush" Its worth noting many female animals are more promiscuous that commonly thought (mating with many males in the same season) and that mate selection for many species is more complex than "fuck biggest meanest male". Extra…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 11:24 PM
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You didn't have to stay with those women and you would have been in the right to leave them. They should have gone to therapists and not taken out on their partner.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 10:30 PM
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I'm an african american, you don't have to stay with someone who's choosing a toxic ideology nor blame yourself if they get worse. What kind of extortion is that lol I have repeatedly debated dudes on RP. I cannot change their minds for tthem though, its not my job to either I just like discussing things. NO ONE has to stay and play someone's moral hero wtf. Growth comes from the inside - a woman cannot make a man not be an asshole and vice versa + time is precious, some people never change or g…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 10:28 PM
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Lol NO just sounds llike your area is white af and being that most people date within their race you got the short end. I'm in the SE and see black love all the time as well as interracial couples (with a black partner and other race, straight gay ones, male and female ones). I have never had an issue getting a date, its not your race. I know plenty of black dudes who fuck and date lots of women of any race. Which is not to say bigotry or racial fetishization don't exist. Blackpill implies you a…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 10:23 PM
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They (same org that did this study) also say the happiest married couples don't have kids, I find that interesting. I would say youd have to look aat other factors: religion/religious belief and childdrren would probably also be a somethings that correlate with longer term marriage
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 03:37 PM
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What about a woman who fucks or dates entirely rich or successful men? Then she'd get called a gold digger. Also being "the persuer" doesn't mean youre fucking quality women LOL even actual red pill gurus show themselves approaching dozen of women a day (numbers game) like that isn't desperate (down bad) but because its gender flipped its ok?
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 03:18 PM
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Its a stupid claim and a very facile, bigoted view of family structures. Most of humanity historically till today uses the extended structure for example. The majority of posts I see scrolling down are from men or boys admitting their doubts on RP and the harm thee mentality it gave them (or people posting how RP mentalities destroyed their relationships). Defeating a hate based ideology requires interacting with the people you hated, literally the entire point. Besides any of this you seem to h…
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 04:35 PM
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The nuclear family is one family structure, its not older or more natural than extended families.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 03:58 PM
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its not a blackpill, we're all human. Some of us are shitty, some of us amazing. All human relationships have an element of chaos - no individual case is exactly the same for everyone yknow? Anyone can fall in love, anyone can hurt another.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/22 04:47 AM
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Top celebs with riches + looks and charisma who have relationship issues. Dictators and rich predators who still rape women. if alpha shit was real none of these dudes who dwarf every redpill guru combined several times economically, physically and socially would never have romantic or sexual issues. They'd in theory "keep" every woman in line or never would have to resort to violence against the unwilling. Its not realistic, the alpha/beta things a saless ptich
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 11:52 PM
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this one dude told me the vagina "takes the shape of every male who enters it" ... Bitch its a stretchy organ not play-do 💀 dick is not making it permanently "looser". imagine someone being like "skin takes the shape of anyone who touches it" with the implication that skin physically doesn't just bounce back the instant the finger is off
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 11:15 PM
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Not all RP are incels, a huge portion of them are hurt after a particular relationship gone bad. IDK what whataboutism I used, I'm making direct comparisons. Is pointing out so much of RP tallking points are based on major online dating apps that're skewed a whatabout? Most men ARE having sex and will have a couple of partners with or without OLD, is that a whatabout?. The only thing close to a whatabout is asking why lesbians and gay men dont have a minority turning into a hategroup from reject…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 10:19 PM
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which part? Hypersexual like OCD can put someone in a bad mental place due to distractting or upsetting thoughts and you may want to change ur thought process. Doesnt mean ur repressed (tbh Idk if you are im just explaining my point)
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 09:21 PM
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Low quality can mean a lot of things, not just creepy. A lot of canned response (probably mass response to anyone who matches), awkward convos no matter if I put in effort or plain feeling like they didnt even read my bio. Wasn't trying to say they're horrible but if I'm looking for something long term or if I'm looking for a hook up the majority of dudes don't make the cut. A lot of women want relationships and don't get them, they could get sex offers but nothing deeper. Why is the focus on me…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 08:55 PM
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You and I are both fully aware that if we were both to go on Tinder, right now, and start swiping that you would get a lot more likes than me (or the average man). Yess but its low quality attention. It becomes this shouting match, both sides can have it bad. Like I argued a few months ago with some dude who said more dudes want to be catcalled/sexually harassed, he said that because he never got that type of annoying or even downright scary negative attention. S ome of us are having fantasies o…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 08:12 PM
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women being inherently more sexually/romantically valuable than men Who says this? Women being portrayed as more romantic in terms of desires isn't saying they're more desired. I'm sure all of us know a woman struggling to get a relationship. Online dating has a gender skew but OLD isn't the only method to love or sex. Besides that how does this contribute to a drop in sex? Women tend to have lower sex drives, are more risk adverse sexually, get shamed for fucking around and have significantly l…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 07:33 PM
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I mean they are objectively the same just at different levels for different purposes lol. No one said people don't fall out of love but because some relationships end doesn't mean the love and bond never existed.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 06:15 PM
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Wow dude u are so cool & emotionally detached. Ur deep like rick from rrick and morty bro duuude. Everyone sees people they love as objects they dont have compassion for broooo. English doesnt have a word for love deep AF ... Oh wait oxytocin bonds both lovers and children as well alongside the other range of hormones (endophins, cortisol, dopamine) that are triggered by positive social interactions including romantic ones. A large portion of the hormones and pathways used when bonding with frie…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 05:10 PM
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inevitable consequence of the growing male sexlessness men and women have similar sexless rates tho. How are you going to solve this, state gfs? lol
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 04:48 PM
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Your algorithm changes to what you view + some RP content creators are gaming the system (which opens the door for smaller RP content creators because it all gets tied in You don't even have to view RP content directly: watch something masculine leaning or even certain entirely unrelated meme vids and your algo shifts immediately. and the gaming the system by larger RP talking headers bit opens the door for smaller RP content creators because it all gets tied in together
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 04:39 PM
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It exists but every person I know who does it admits its exhausting. I used to casual date or tallk to multiple people (not even get invested like that), that shit is TIRING sooner or later. Maybe not initially but if you have other shiit going in your life (work, a social life outside of chasing ass) as a whole adult dealing with that many people is typically a nuisance. Phrasing it as spinning plates is also cringe lol.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 04:20 PM
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TBH ofc some not a lot. Its like I know people who know the term weeaboo or fandom from online spaces, a good portion of ppl offline still don't though. And knowing of something doesn't mean condoning. Your brother being a young male in his 20s will probably come across this shit in some form. Simp goes beyond the RP world, its associated with aave based slang so people who speak use slang often know it (tbh it was weird seeing dorky community's adopt it) and its used in a lot of gamer/anime/fan…
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 04:15 PM
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Hypersexuality can be inconvenient to flat out disturbing and the shame it can cause is more complicated than "repression". IDK what OP is experiencing but constant sexual thoughts can be someone wants to change just like any other obsessive thought.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 04:08 PM
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I cannot stress this man is manipulating algorithms and using a scam to pump his content. Every masc leaning sub I'm on has 1 idiot repeatedly posting his skits , this dude isn't toxic masculinity anti-messiah level charismatic - he knows how spam works. His rise is inevitable because a sucker is born every minute.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 04:03 PM
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andreew tate supposedlly made money off cam girls IIRC. I'm not against camming but you can attack men for paying for sex/access to women (which tbhh a llot of rp gurus do) then directly promote and benefit off it. these dudes are only consistent in being predatory, hypocritical and moraless. Its like a drug dealer preaching about drugs destroying his community.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 03:55 PM
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Dude he has a social media type MLM scam going on which tellls people to spam his videos for whatever prize, its not like hes not a fucking false prophet LOL
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 03:52 PM
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I used to hear homophobes say lesbians & bi women choose women cus they cant find a good man. In reality same sexuality has little to do with that but the idea is the same. Political lesbians exist wherein women choose to date women cus they dont like men, its a very very very small minority tho. And I brought up gay men because the idea is the same: someone you arent attracted to is offering sex or relationship. U don't want it cus ur not attracted. Many gay men feel upset or hopeless at findin…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 08:31 PM
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Lmao love doesnt exist because people are attracted to... attractive people?? Also love is the emotional bond. This is like talking to a pessimistic depressed alien, seek help. 😐
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 07:16 PM
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Its all an open thread on mine 🙄
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 07:11 PM
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Most people still marry for love and compatibility. The RP idea of "transaction" vs love is stupid af and designed to paint a pessimistic but simplistic view of human relationships. The reason we mentiom arranged is cus arranged mareiages are where love isnt considerd factor. Individual relationships rely on courtship. No one ever said people dont consider all aspects of compatibility including employment or education assuming thats what ur implying. Another thing to note is most marry within th…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 06:39 PM
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Given a lot of people are disturbed at that last comment but not the first one Id say its very ambiguously written.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 06:30 PM
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There is no way you're this obtuse. For one: china has outlawed arrange marriage for generations now.. You could say most Western marriages are arranged then because you don't know most western people. Just admit was a dumb jaded point and move on.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 06:22 PM
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Being desired as a romantic partner means you are both attractive and likeable as a person and body. Why do you think people invest way more in keeping relationships thanf relationships? If you have been in a romantic elationship you should understand its more complicated than that. Romantic relationships require a lot of effort, involvement and stress than platonic friendships. "most women can find both if they choose the right gender." this is an odd generalization. Most men have friendships a…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 06:16 PM
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I lived in and traveled through SEA for years, most people were courted and fell in love wtf. Thailand, Malaysia, indonesia and phillipiness (pacific island but get my point). Do you think Japan, Korea and most of China practice non-romantic marrriages? What about South America? Most of them are def out of love. This is a dumb ass hill to die on. So europe/Australia&NZ/North, south and Central America + the carribeans / East Asia and South East Asia is not a minority of the world. India/South As…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:56 PM
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A certain amount but you just made a masssssive plainly false statement that ,intentionally or not, is in line with BP thought (I.E. women don't feel emotions or love like men do). Many women desire men, there are thirsty women . What OP said is faulty logic but being like women never want men as much as men want them just isnt true. Maybe most women want to be pursued but that doesn't mean they dont desire the dudes.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:31 PM
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I didn't say that it's fun to lose a friend after they confessed to you or asked you out but unrequited love has certainly more negative emotional impacts on people. You are assuming. We are in a time that loneliness is growing in our generation. In every movie/tv show you see friendless or low friend characters and lonely folks are portrayed as deviants, even in romance movies the main character always has a bestie because friendship is taken as a given. Being friendless is used as an insult. F…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:27 PM
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I'm sorry I wasn't clear at all and left the post without clarifying: I was agreeing with you that love exists, I should have added that that even arranged marriages people can still fall in love. The dude is the weird one for saying love is a western concept.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:14 PM
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Everything or almost everything you said is the same for women. Most women don't get "praised" like athletes, politicians, actors/good looking people. A lot of WOC criticized white feminists for reductive takes. Many women are poor. But besides that my heart goes out to you. Times are tough right now and you may feel extra shame because of the idea of what a man should be. What would you llike to work that you think would make you feel better?
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 04:58 PM
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You have a very sad, low view of men that you are putting on others.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 04:54 PM
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Arranged marriages aren't even the global norm especially in developed metropolitan areas. Most people date AND choose to get married.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 04:50 PM
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Most people do fall in love, the majority of marriages today are consensual and individual initiated (meaning not family initiated). ​ There are outlier cultures ofc (many Islamic cultures in particular) but saying most people don't experienced love sounds jaded af. And yeah even arranged marriages can fall in love. What a weird and alien take you have.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 04:48 PM
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RP literally encourages to shame & belitttle women for having a lot of sex ... then lures more men in by making them feel bad women arent having sex with them like its ingenious in how hypocritical it is but still manages to lure in victims lmao
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 04:41 PM
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And 9 times out of 10 the man they fall for is straight. Frienzone still happens to gay men but it's just as rare as women experience it. https://www.reddit.com/r/askgaybros/search/?q=friendzone&restrict_sr=1&sr_nsfw= The majority of these are men who are iin no-go zones with other gay men. I know literally 0 clinical cases of someone falliing into depression because someone fell for them. What lmaao, depression isn't the only measure of something being hurtful or traumatic but YES I personally …
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 04:36 PM
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RP and BP is because women have been the only demographics who has judged me worse because of my attractiveness. Dating is harder for "unattractive" women too. Being unattractive doesn't have to do with RP, that's literally what unattractive means lmao. Although I do know IMO unattractive men who get laid or keep a relationship. You're talking about wealth, using your wealth to attract someone doesn't mean they "like" you. Ugly men having to pay someone for sex isn't love its sugar/prostitution/…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 03:50 PM
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the mens perspective that the men want women more, than the women wants the men You're speaking in generalizations. I STG 99% of RP stuff is destroyed just by knowing normal average people. You've never heard a lady talk about her crush on someone in ur community (school/work/dating life) You guys don't have any friends or family who had a female thirsting over them? My brother has had multiple women who've had crushes on them for years, they'll even come up to me and ask about him (he's married…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 02:55 PM
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Friendzone is not a problem in the gay community for a reason, attraction is almost always there. Go on r/askgaybros and search friendzone. Gay dudes get ""friendzone"" like anyone else. You have a view of the gay community that isnt true and you're projecting it on women. "I hear so many women complaining that they can't keep platonic male friends because men always end up having crushes for them" do you realize this is a horrible feeling? You want a friend without bs and its just someone plott…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 02:44 PM
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Wtf are you saying? You are saying stuff to win it feels like. Like your original post is right but people are people. There are tons of thirsty ass women and men. Men do tend to hound and harass more openly but there are some crazy ass ladies out there too.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 02:36 PM
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People are going to talk about risk im going to talk about another major elephant in the room Men don't make women cum. Heterosexual women orgasm having sex with men the least of all groups. Lesbian women report the most orgasms of women having sex. This goes regardless of partnership. You are A LOT less to engage in "pleasure seeking behavior" if you aren't getting pleasured.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 02:32 PM
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You have an older woman on here talking about how RP ruined her marriage, a man on here talking about how RP gave him low confidence as he is always comparing himself to to others and multiple posts about how RP is making men dehumanize and hate women. Red pill is negative and RP doesn't have anything to do with stoicism as every RP creator is prone to childish insults of people they don't like and tantrums when they meet people who challenge them.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 02:25 PM
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Im not saying its right but failure of hygiene is one of those symptoms depressed people can't even be honest about because it immediately gets attacked & the person humiliated. You don't have to baby them but the "brutal truth" shit is just as unproductive because its based in feeling better than someone rather than addressing the issue at hand as it is.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 03:45 AM
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Are you a NEET? 27 isn't old. Even if you were 67 if you want to make changes to your life you can. You have to think in steps and directions for your goals. You want to meet more women? Socialize more. Youre shy or anxious? Take small steps to engage in small talk. Start with your parents or internet people. I had or have issues with eye contact among other anxieties. I wanted to change this so I started coming up with strategies. I started small by talking to kind nonthreatening little old lad…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 03:19 AM
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You don't have to take a nasty tone for someone seeking help and not being toxic themselves. Jfc this is a support group.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 03:12 AM
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Women are humans, there are great amazing women and asshole pos women. Most women are average just as men are average. Someone shaking their ass may not be your thing but it doesn't make them a bad person, I get tired of dick jokes but I dont think people who make them are bad. Also are you hate watching content that grosses you out?
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 03:08 AM
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unintentionally dyeing your white shirts pink in the washer to own the feminists >
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 03:01 PM
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llol ;_;
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 02:55 PM
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That's not true at all. Those men are popular with female viewers because of their aggressive, dominant, masculine personality traits What are you talking about? I gave some examples of men who don't do the brute shit or dark bad boy thing and you claim they are actually RD style dominant.... by providing men/media entirely unrelated to the extremely popular figures I listed. You're calling timothy chalamet "aggressive"? BTS is stereotypically masculine & dominant? You think Isaac Oscar is a bad…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 02:48 PM
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uh, where did I say that? I directly alluded to the gap in the post. https://www.forbes.com/sites/alicebroster/2020/07/31/what-is-the-orgasm-gap/?sh=6f17e69960f8 ** more than half of women pointed to clitoral stimulation as a way to make them finish. Researchers from the Archives of Sexual Behavior assessed the sex lives of over 52,500 adult Americans. ** I am criticizing the massive generalization that "women" are all or mostly "mental" sex wise which gets parroted a lot. Most hetero women are …
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 10:02 AM
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idk but stoicism isn't really possible if someone lacks the emotional intelligence to utilize it . Some dudes are poorly suppressing emotions to slap the "stoic" label on.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 08:36 AM
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Ssame way American traditionalists have this pristine view of the past thats based on 1950's magazine ads for hotdogs - its to create this idea of a "simpler" better past (even if the idea is removed from the actual history of time or based on a cartoonish caricature) RP has a view of the past thats purposely simplistic/uneducated and used to reinforce whatever armchair evo-psychology they claim explains gender roles. "men used to hunt, melt iron and ride dinosaurs whereas women gathered berries…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 08:22 AM
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Woman rely more on emotional arousal and trust to get there. this is like highly overblown imo, its mostly clitoral stimulation. Which is not say mentality doesnt play a part/ But yeah I’ve had quite a few female one night stands orgasm so I don’t believe that statistic. dude said an anecdote (that you can't even verify) beats multiple studies and thousands of women's own written experiences with disappointing het sex online.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 08:12 AM
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Having an orgasm while engaging in sex, lets not be obtuse
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 08:05 AM
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the men in those media are always open up, loyal, caring and spoil the lady lol. what part of popular womens fantasies shows the women being cheated on / devalued / told theyre worthless after 25 or after having kids? The men are responsible, want to protect etc. Many people do partake in sometraditional relationship roles, most traditional relationships doeny equal the manipulation and abuse RP preaches tho and thats why were anti-rp. And we ARE in a time when many more people are inverting or …
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 08:55 PM
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That I agree with you and also I edited the oroginal comment to remove that deep comment, i was projecting some frustration but regretted it (you saw the og before edit). I had a response written but went to work before i posted it (at work rn typing this lols)
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 07:40 PM
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Complaining =/= saying women are hypergamous animals who are worthless after 25. No I do not give af if hate groups get censored. Its amazing how much grace you want people to give misogyny and remove individual responsibility. KKK wasn't formed because white people were neglected, homophobia doesn't happen because gays invalidate heterosexuals. The RP issue and a lot of modern radicalisation is one that's largely arisen out of the echo chambers that social media and youtube create, wherein clic…
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 04:50 PM
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theres literally no 1 answer, no. i dont keep my male friends around in case my dating goes south. I do not like to date friends because I like my friendships. I can say staying in a friendship MOSTLY because you want to date the person is a bad idea and wastes your time that you could be using on someone who's receptive.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 04:38 PM
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what things?
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 04:33 PM
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How is this incel-y tf RP men literally telll men to be sluts (which goes against religion) yet want virgins and hate slutty women thats a foundation of the belief system and it its hypocritical
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 04:33 PM
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Is this not a common criticism of conservative / religious communities? Being its an ideology linked with tradionalism not everything has statistics backing it up.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 04:31 PM
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IME they can be forgiving but considering these women usually marry "with the permission" of their families/fathers a man with an open history of partying will probably be looked down upon / shunned in her community.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 04:29 PM
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Because those things are magnitudes harder to practice than preach Fake it till you make it. I am diagnosed with anxiety but taking small steps to challlenge myself, get out my comfort zone and literally act braver than I felt has helped me tremendously. Literally a different person than I was 5 years ago and still changing
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 04:24 PM
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I know ugly dudes who keep a chick or have a high body count. Not on some repill bs either they're just regular lol. I also know average / short dudes who are similar. Some of us get it an others have to work on it (I am on the shy side but have a good reputation and can socialize with anyone, i had to work on it and I think my emotional IQ is high as you said)
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 04:23 PM
3

Dudes blaming his average ass height maybe hes just an asshole
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 11:15 PM
2

5'6-5'7+ men are not short its in the range of average especially for certain ethnicities. Im 5'7 and tower over a lot of ladies even tho some are taller than me.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 11:14 PM
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I answered your "interesting" question using common sense and a basic knowledge of WWII history. Piss poor = low quality, shitty, inferior etc meaning I called the example given crap because its foolish. You can't even articulate how its emotional and by your own admission can't even express yourself well..
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 05:43 AM
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some women like em huge, some dont. Most women come thouogh clitoral stimulation and where so many guys go wrong is thinking its about their dick, iit aint about dick or it aint just about dick
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 05:26 AM
2

discretion is key, I think walking up to a total stranger minding their own business who hasnt even made eye contact is weird and dicey (it could work (but anything can work) but tbh very low success rate + high chance of just making them uncomfortable that way hence the numbers game spiel). but if youre in a cafe, group activity, club or school or something social more personal and they've giving you positive attention / conversation then you can go for it (higher success rate). No one says fli…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 06:43 PM
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You think women who see their families (brothers, fathers, sons) and friends get slaughtered arent effected by that? So you focus on some marriages (of which how many were coerced) and ignore war rape and sex slavery and other heinous sexual violence that women and girls are subject to? Its a war crime for a reason and tied to genocide. Also thats piss poor example: vichy france existed as a fascist state and being french doesn't mean they weren't nazi sympathists tf
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 05:59 PM
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Thats good, you got diissss
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 05:52 PM
3

TBH (imo) you don't have to phrase it as a hate movement (even though it is, like it really is). You can if you want to be honest. You can say you're struggling with toxic influences and perhaps say what those things are gradually (and also say why you realize theyre toxic). This is to help create a dialogue. the point is you have a rock to overturn to expose the pests underneath. Regardless of strength: it may not be easy but there are many approaches you can take to accomplish it.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 04:05 PM
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This is sort of a self-defeating cycle, you feel insecure and hurt her... and if she leaves (and tbh if a girl I knew told this happens Id tell them leave) for being hurt by you you might double down on your toxicity that caused it in the first place cus u think it came from being "beta" and not cyclic assholery lol. I used to not voice my opinons, not set boundaries and let her walk all over me, and now I feel like I have to compensate.' Yeahhh you need to have a heart-to-heart WITH YOURSELF ab…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 01:55 PM
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It is exhausting, look up decision fatigue + women can have anxiety and so on and you constantly equate sex with companionship lol. Anyways quantity is not quality. "Yes the average man can get laid and find a romantic partner but not as easy as a woman." cool so the op post is wrong on both sides, great we agree.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 01:41 PM
1

I'm going to tell your mom young man
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 01:28 PM
1

With anxiety it makes people terrifying, you can take small steps to build confidnce in yourself and learn more about them. I promiise most people arent that bad.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 01:27 PM
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but i mean you can learn about people at work, co-workers and bosses and customers are people lol
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 06:23 AM
1

"women are good enough the way they are, and don't need to do anything besides looks" cool so this is wrong then lmao matches =/= suitable partners, you say going through hundreds of people like its not super exhausting or that someone is guaranteed to be a good fit even if you do (they arent) and the romantic world is not just online app based dating. Average men aren't invisible, you feel that way due to your experiences but most men have relationships and get laid even tho some don't. Some wo…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 06:22 AM
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But yeah, they’ve got most things Right about women, minus the “treating them like objects”. Unless you’re an extremely high value alpha, that wont work with todays modern, feminist, entitled girls. B*tch what the fuck, you're saying women entitled because they don't want to be treated like objects? BTW thats not good when anyone does it regardless of status. Women are people and act like people, they don't have to conform to shit and neither do men. Another part of the RP thing is their viewers…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 05:13 AM
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OK, those women worked on themselves and they can't find a partner meaning dating is hard for them regardless of looks? So its this stupid catch 22 where men feel victimized because women supposedly get away with "not doing anything" and "only" have to look pretty but men are ALSO victimized by women who worked on themselves with high standards, like what lol. And what about those women in bad relationships: nothing about them being a woman made them good enough. But in any matter the saying is …
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 05:02 AM
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You don't have friends or family who got into relationships without RP? Most people dont follow fnf for example lol Those gurus are lying idiots online telling you (the victim /customer) they're high-value with no proof of anything. None of these dudes had a name to themself before controversial youtube videos and they live opposite lives behind scenes but besides all that they feed young men's negative emotions for views. They create a fake "alpha beta" ingroup outgroup mentality where anyone t…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 04:44 AM
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I mean you cant just reason your way into abuse and manipulation because youre single, thats fucked up and going to ruin the happiness of any relationships you do get into.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 03:40 AM
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The RP teaches you to act neurotic in a different manner and second guess every action a woman does around you ever and also feel insecure around other men. Its sad you need online gurus who pay chicks to hang around them to tell u how to flirt lmao.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 03:35 AM
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I'm assuming your mom is post-menopause, she has no value as an infertile woman?
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 03:28 AM
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Do you not know working women? Do you think women's only problems and successes in life revolve around men? Women in failed or toxic relationships? You or someeone you know never bonded with a woman for her personality including life experiences? Its like trying to answer a question about colors from someone who only sees in white and what they think is black.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 03:26 AM
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I dont sex shame but its not attractive. largely because I'm still in my 20s and to me dedicating that much time to chasing ass is just like... get a hobby lmao. Sex is nice but not that nice damn. I don't think they're filthy or evil tho. It doesn't turn me off but it makes me wonder about quality: like are you desperately fucking anyone? With a dozens and dozens or a silly ass thousand partners is the sex even quality or are you just fucking to feel validated? Its irritating because only women…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 03:19 AM
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See even the financial thing is a complaint of RP. These dudes complain about women who chase bags and say shit like "no man cares about a woman's career" because women's financial independence threatens the appeal or necessity of dating a man for security (as well as raises their standards) Also comes with the delusion that all women are looking for financial benefits lol.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/22 03:03 PM
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women are generally attracted to men older than them Most women date within a few years of themselves, like 1-5 years for younger folks. A handsome 40 year old will struggle against an equally handsome or slightly less handsome 25 year old (for both genders this applies). Its not the end all but the idea time is kind to anyone is dumb. Many of those women dating older are also older than 35 themselves. Age affects all bodies, sperm quality declines with age even for healthy men because thats how…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/22 02:56 PM
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Saying dating gets harder as we age and saying women "expire" are too different things. Do people get nicer to men who age? Do you think all or even a good portion of men are treated as princes or kings at 40? The dread game is stupid and manipulative, no matter who does it.
/r/ExRedPill18/07/22 02:13 PM
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Not calling u a bad dad I'm pointing out the problems that arise from polygamy. I'm not against ethical polygamy or polyamory but like all things they have pros and cons. The more parts to a system the more upkeep it needs right? Like Nick Cannon is rich but there's no way he can be an active father for his kids at once even if he provides good life. Well maybe if the kids are different generations or in the same house/compound it can be ok. I grew up rich but now i'm working class. I love my da…
/r/ExRedPill17/07/22 04:16 AM
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how do you all feel about the men who get women but dont rely on weird ass internet gurus (most of whom are liars) and nasty mind games?
/r/ExRedPill17/07/22 03:59 AM
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That's crazy this man is talking about an entire ethnic community with an education based off memes and music.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/22 03:56 AM
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Dont take this internet shit too seriously for groups you don't interact with, it magnifies issues exponentially and youll get a warped view
/r/ExRedPill17/07/22 03:50 AM
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what I have
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 09:56 AM
3

something terrible happened here
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 09:55 AM
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when the automod starts going crazy like this you know they were on some BS lmaoo
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 09:55 AM
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I'm black and southern lmao home advantage but I do applaud them for trying instead of that goofy "WHAT LANGUAAGE IS THIIS" shit.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 09:53 AM
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it means ur spending cash on someone so they look or feel nice (like a nice vacation) and that fits what OP is saying about making his first chick jealous. Turning tricks and "turning out" is about prostitutution tho I forgt the song but theres a TI lyric where hes like "it aint tricking if you got it" because he has the cash to spend on a chick / isn't broke lol
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 12:19 AM
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I mean transaction relationships are really services, they're a businesss "relationship" but they're not bond based like actual romance and familal affection. You don't have any friends or coworkers in healthy romantic relationships? The redpill stuff usually starts from people who have been burned or are unsuccessful with women. Why don't you look into surrogates or egg donors if you have no isssuees with transaction for genes :| You mention stuff about your bro (idk if male friend or actual re…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 06:55 PM
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I mean romance exists but if ur post is from the heart u have some self-esteem issues, control issues alongside misogyny. Ur own post says your high alert / fearful, need someone to help negotiate and are going with a woman who doesnt like ur race(?) I don't think transactional shit is inherently wrong (if its ethical on all sides) but man this sounds bad dude Calling women whores when you're a sugar daddy wtf. Ironically this is very common for big redpillers tho who are often found out to be p…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 05:36 PM
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Like, if you thought of me (or my archetype) as a loser in 20s, why should I give you a second chance later? Why does it default to "seeing them as a loser"? Cant it be they were focusing on themself at the time too? Also less related to your point but in general: holding onto a person for "potential" is literally often delusional. Like regardless of gender many people end up staying in bad relationships (of many types) because of their own idea of projecting on potential. It can be like gamblin…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 05:22 PM
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Extremely insecure, judgey despite their own faults and oddly bitter to the point of making their own self miserable about women even if they never had a personal bad experience prior to going RP
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 05:14 PM
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If its a problem or making you uncomfortable in anyway hit up HR cus harassment aint cute for anyone.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 05:09 PM
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to be a trick means ur paying lol
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 05:00 PM
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I once rejected a beauty queen finalist as my sugar baby because she is 35. I prefer a 20 something whore/stripper. That 20 years old stripper don't like me because she think she can get white men. what the fuck is this lol
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 04:38 PM
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age effects everyone, you're (generally) not going to be attracting as many people att 40 as you were at 20. Desspite that: 40 year old women AND men can be attractive. The idea women stop getting attention or romance at 30 is straight up fucking ridiculous and childish lmao
/r/ExRedPill15/07/22 04:35 PM
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The thing is you're going to have to ask a more specific question. Basically: The "alpha" "beta" paradigm is just a sales pitch. It creates a simplistic dichotomy, a "ingroup outgroup" mentality so that RP gurus (the self deemed "alphas") can sell content to men who have bad experiences with women. I.E. The reason you got hurt is also the simplistic reason "you're a beta".... and any man who doesn't agree with them is beta as well. Its circular af lol. "Follow my podcast / buy my course / consum…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 02:17 PM
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I think RP may appeal to men on the spectrum for several reasons (explaining difficult/confusing social behavior, seemingly gives order to chaos, systemic thinking) but don't know how to phrase that
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 02:10 PM
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Most women don't cum from PIV like ever, size doesn't matter in that regard. Actually straight men are statistically the worst at making women cum. Practice on communication, pleasuring your partner and knowing what to do with a clit goes waaaay further than dick size. I also recommend sex toys and there are many types. bzz bzz lmao.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 02:04 PM
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it can be anyone's fault or no one's fault at all, sometimes people aren't compaitible dude. I'm just saying those traits in and of themself dont mean anything about being good for a partner or long term relationship. Being feminine doesn't mean anything towards that either.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 01:59 PM
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Lmao you have literal hollywood actors and celebs and star athletes who get divorced, get into toxic relationships and have issues. Men richer, more experience and more attractive and more connected than any RP guru still face problems. " a woman giving her consent is only good for sex." it takes two to consent to get married tf "Men only age like fine wine of they take care of themselves and put in all of work" If you think a 45 year old man who works out has the same options as an average 30 y…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 01:50 PM
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Your own linked article answers your question
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 01:38 PM
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Bro that goes against what you're arguing lol. Men breakup with women too: "men are just as likely to end non-marital relationships" so are men hypergamous? "On the other hand, I think that non-marital relationships lack the historical baggage and expectations of marriage, which makes the non-marital relationships more flexible and therefore more adaptable to modern expectations, including women's expectations for more gender equality."" from the article linked lol
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 04:27 AM
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Masculine and successful doesn't mean someone is a good person or kind or dependable or mutually easy to "cooperate" with in a romantic relationship.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 04:19 AM
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Not dismissing, refuting. I never once said we're not animals, I agree with have competition but all animals don't have the same behaviors, social organizations or hierarchies. I listed various animals that DO have alpha harem paradigms and the commonalities between them how we humans don't have those traits. I also then mentioned men who would be at the "top" of society from the supposed "alpha" view (tall/strong men, rich handsome men and ultra rich %01 men) and how they can and do have proble…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 04:07 AM
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Youre the one projecting sadness onto ppl dude, ask yourself that lol
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 08:00 PM
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Humans dont have alphas lmao, we have social competion but the alpha shit is not something actual biologists and sociologists apply to people just because some animals utilize it. Actual animals that have alpha based social hierarchies are also where the males are extremely violent to any offspring that's not there's and use infanticide as mating strategy (extremely rare for humans), there's also things like testicle size (massive balls for impregnating harem), extreme sexual dimorphism (humans …
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 07:36 PM
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Alpha male literally isn't defined (its vague af on purpose) and you're putting the onus of the wife's behavior on the man lmao. I don't think there's more to discuss here cus being like many strong/rich men never have bad or sour or passionless long lasting relationships is kind of silly and disconnected from reality. It can happen to anyone.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 01:32 AM
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MB, the "or" was confusing I should have used "and". I mean as in you think men and women can't explicity understand each other romantically or something lmao. Projecting negativity onto photos because apparently you don't know people can choose to talk to about their relationships. Calling men beta is ugly behavior. Anyone can be miserable or stuck in something they don't want.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 01:21 AM
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A picture you're projecting upon does not say more about the relationship than actually talking with people involved lol. You not thinking women or men can't have explicit empathy for each other is weird.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 01:10 AM
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I get you. A lot of people do that unempathetic condescending tone thing even for people who are actually open minded or looking to discuss though not just feminists.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 12:53 AM
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"when ever we see our acquaintances undergo relationship/dating issues, we’re like yup, they don’t understand certain dynamics that men and women instinctively have" thats simplistic af lmao also news sources have been reporting on a growing or active loneliness epidemic for a long ass time. You have some sampling bias of apparently rich dudes but the average man isn't rich.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 12:48 AM
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how about you talk to them instead of looking at fucking pictures lol and what about the women
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 12:39 AM
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Didn't see the post in question. More often than not the people going on about traditional relationships insult those who don't follow them rigidly than the other way around. The way people phrase things I.E. "men are the head of the home" states something as a fact and "masculine non submissive women" is usually used to denigrate so ofc others can challenge that.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 12:33 AM
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well that shit isnt true either wtf
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 12:21 AM
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Its still stupid, yall don't know average ass people in love? Yall don't know successful men who've been cheated on and hurt monumentally? Its so stupid lmao. "Nothing ever starts without a woman's attention and consent." aka women marry who they want so we're back to square one. All this circular logic to come back to the point that it takes 2 to be in a relationship. Like OP said undesirable people have a harder time getting the relationship they want "Women hit a certain age and then they spo…
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 12:20 AM
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How tf would that be true when half of all people over 30 are married or have been married and polygyny is rare
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 12:01 AM
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Gotta try them other apps, ive heard different things about them all. The conversation bit is a harder one, being a conversationalist a skill to develop but it takes two to talk so you cant always blame yourself for shit fading. My advice would be look up conversation starters, ask questions (just a few) and bounce betweeen topics. But more than that try to get to meet after the first few conversations too, you can ask about their hobbies and seee if you can plan something off that or go to coff…
/r/ExRedPill09/07/22 03:16 AM
2

a bit of fucking around would still be fun. Do realize sometimes this shit can get dangerous for women
/r/ExRedPill09/07/22 03:01 AM
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Have you tried dating apps? 35 isn't ancient lol, plenty of people looking in that age range. ​ In regards to the dm sliding mom, even if she was interested in you if you're going to go into it with a critical mind about her and her child then it'd be on a bad start. Single mothers need and deserve partners who are open minded or fair to them as anyone else does.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/22 02:56 AM
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Individual case. Not all women I know that age are freaking out no, some would consider it optimal but aren't dying over it.. but of the ones who are super serious they're often just women that age who just want kids, the partner is a major bonus and vehicle to babies lol.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/22 02:35 AM
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n an innate biological level, men need women much more than women leave men. no need to go into biological woo lmao, women tend to have or build stronger social networks with family and friends and i think that contributes to being happier when single as they don't feel as lonely
/r/ExRedPill09/07/22 02:23 AM
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this too + nothing beats actually getting out there. If you watcch some videos for inspo ok but you actually have to interact to find your way socially :v
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 03:55 PM
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many of us want casual sex at least at some point, I don't thinking wanting more sex is bad. Just see women as humans and don't think there's some cheat code shit you can do to fuck around, manipulate people or tell us we're disgusting for enjoying casual sex lol
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 03:54 PM
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I know plenty of women without seemingly any hobbies. What will either of you talk about? work? life experiences? how simple can relationships be? I do know lots of seemingly simple people in long term relationships. I can't call those people unpassionate because of that tho. are you unpassionate because of depression / complacency or? "Why is passion, drive, and discipline sexy exactly? " Even if you're unpassionate idk how you don't see these as good traits lol. Life is short and its admirable…
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 03:48 PM
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if either person in a relationship had nothing to offer, it wouldn’t really work yes but in that case transaction isn't "bad:. These "all relationships are transactional" posts rely on the implication that "transaction" makes all relationships inherently bad or exploitative when its not the case yknow
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 08:01 AM
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how is that transactional? The whole "transactional" debate kind of goes nowhere because its so fucking vague you can argue anything humans do ever for anyone else is transactional. I could say "I like my GF because she's cute and kind to me and we mesh well" then someone could argue that's "transactional" because we give each other good conversations. It reminds me of when I've seen weirdos arguing altruism doesn't exist because "you feel good when you do good things therefore its not altruisti…
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 07:26 AM
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looks and status? what about the normal couples you see walking around at the mall? status, do you know normal people with "normal" jobs like working at stores, restaurants and uber drivers etc who are dating, married or in a relationship? looks and status are cool but you don't have to be Brad Pitt at his prime to get into a happy loving relationship or sleep around or whatever else.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 05:12 AM
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Highschool is a hell hole for a lot of people, cliques and petty mindedness and people always trying to shit on someone so they seem "savage". It can be very dog eat dog.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 05:06 AM
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Thiiis. We unfortunately are just beginning to see the dangerous effects of echo chamber trapped web radicalized people.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 08:53 PM
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Some women can't handle it, others will stay by you thick and thin. It really just varies. A lady whos your friend, woman whos depressed or a woman whos just looking for sex etc can handle shit all differently. Its good you expressed yourself to her, dont let anyone even her shame you for being open about your emotions. It takes a lot of bravery
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 08:50 PM
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people like that who immediately turned on you for a positive belief - thar women are humans eho arent 100% evil - are they really worth keeping around? You haven't lost subs so that's good. If you have the moral strength n fortitude you can continue arguing with them. If Its your discord you could enforce rules that make CIVIL debate imperative. No insults, gish galloping or other rude annoying stuff. Look at this as an opportunity, you might be able to make a niche for yourself for others who …
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 08:46 PM
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This isn't helpful advice. I think pointing out things are "online" based is helpful but in our modern era where some people entirely socialize online and some get dangerously radicalized online. And in OPs case he may make his living off of online content so its not enough to just be like "touch grass" esp in a support sub like this lol
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 08:41 PM
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Almost like demons some of these people feed themselves off of others pain and suffering. They lure them deeper into grim mentalities instead of encouraging healthy coping, healing and true self improvement.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 08:39 PM
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The date better women line is kind of ugly, vetting is an important skill to have but at the same time that kind of language can easily turn into victim blaming. The dude youre replying too is wrong tho 100%
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 08:34 PM
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Yesss and tbh even shorter can be very successful. There are tons of short men considered sex symbols.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 08:10 PM
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I found a redpill muslim dude's channel like a day or two ago dude was literally tallking how he beat a woman and that she didn't call the cops on him because he "was her best choice" (verbatim btw, utter sociopathic language) and that women essentially only call the cops on beta men who abuse them. They're the worst of the worst. I was thinking of posting the video if i find it again to call out all these RP apologists. sick shit. This is why they want trad uneducated women who are financially …
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 10:50 PM
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Almost every one of these dudes has been exposed as a sugar daddy too against all that fucking game they talk about they have to pay for sex and attention (while shaming other men who do it lool)
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 10:44 PM
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its an ideology but tbh both are kinda pathetic. I feel for the underlying concept like not wanting to get hurt & trying to ""understand"" the chaotic nature of human relationships but can't accept what toxicity they both bring out such as treating people like "plates", using weirdo mind games / manipulation, dehumanizing the other gender, double standards and that sort.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 03:33 AM
1

"anyone I dont like is a simp" youre so smart dude also in the same way you don' have to be mormon to call mormonism or any religion BS
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 02:59 AM
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no true scotsman in effect here ("Any "red pill" guru unwilling to show his face on cam I guarantee you is black pill. They're the ones that just shit on women all day. They're idiots, ignore them.") just going to ignoree RP pundits like Fnf insulting women and before them RooshV who called for legalizing rape on private property for years before recently going nutso christian also incel mgtow users have a major intersection with RP stuff and they all feed into each others ideologies
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 02:59 AM
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"I am in fear of “hitting the wall” in 5 years and being alone forever because I won’t be desirable anymore. " Omfg thats so sad, 25?? That's not even old. Slightly older women at 25 aren't sexless and not getting into relationships lol. Wishing you well on the road to recovery. I know how the most ridiculous toxic thoughts can run wild in our minds. I'm sad someone as young as you has these fears. I promise you won't shrivel into an undesired sexless raisin in a few years.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 11:56 PM
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Why does r/Tradfemsnark reject the RP? Is it because RP offers falsehoods? I could find some subreddit filled with flatearthers and lizardman believers does that mean they're right?
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 11:46 PM
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fuck that abusive hateful idiot, I'm so sorry you went through that. ive seen some of your posts on your ex before and I cannot imagine being so callous and hurtful - may that shit come back on him. Your muscles look amazing
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 11:29 PM
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what do you think makes you unlovable? facades are naturally tiring, for anyone! in the same way paint rubs off or thin walls crumble :(
/r/ExRedPill02/07/22 11:15 PM
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"They don’t even know that it female that’s suppose to be in males pages" This is incomprehensible. "Call grooming is your want, but a younger is is more likely to do that. " Mask off 🙄
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 04:56 PM
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Its a meme lol, imagine if a girl was like "I'll never get a bf cuss I'm not a big tidddy goth GF". Some women have height preferences but at 5'8 you're solidly taller than most ladies, its not your height fr
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 04:13 PM
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"You can go to the hottest videos on pornhub right now and see that the majority of videos feature younger rather than older women." Yes but younger does NOT equal teen, there will be a variety of women who are obviously in their 20s to early 30s. My point is that your generalization fails under the microscope. Youth is A factor of many many many factors. "They say 18 year olds because that is in the mid range"(??) ok what the fuck how is 18 mid range 🤨 like mid range to what? a fucking 10 year …
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 04:40 AM
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yeah see now you're spreading personal bias as facts. 18 is an arbitrary age of maturity, 16 year olds are physically mature (still not fully grown which increases complications but can bear kids) : do you really think men think 16 year olds on the whole are best mates due to their youth? Its just overly simplistic to human psychology and sociology (and is very convenient to armchair evolutionary psychologists) to the point it insults men. If that was true shouldnt the top categories globally ju…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 04:00 AM
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A lot of redpill ideaology is that for women younger-er = better-er. Like calling 28 year old "old", "cock carousel" and burnt out and then chalking it up to saying they're less fertile than 18 year old which is dumb and not how fertility works. That's why they're saying its based in manipulation lol. The majority of relationships have a small age gap, not 50 year old men with 18 year olds.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 02:49 AM
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"it's not because you're inadequate or anything, because you totally aren't, but we're close friends and that's just how I want it to be"Now don't get me wrong: I really appreciated this and I know she was just trying to be nice, but it really was just another straightup lie lol. I mean, really? If I wasn't inadequate, she wouldn't have rejected me in the first place rofl. You can't make others rejections about you, you never know what is going on with the other person. I've had times where I tu…
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 07:31 PM
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I mean they are a "kid" they're just legally responsible ones. 24 year olds and 18 year olds act wildly different for a 5 year gap but that maturity incline slows around 25 imo. I don't think its wrong to say 18 year olds are usually still immature though they're legal adults.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 07:06 PM
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Yes but most women and couples except the poorer uneducated ones in developing nations and weirdo religious people aren't using nor interested in popping out 10+ babies one after another for that longer window to be of specific use - compared to typical modern family planning i mean (usually 2-3 kids close together or moderately spaced) the point is the over focus on the fertility window in RP is just a guise for the choice of younger women being naive or groomable and other implications
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 07:02 PM
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A 28 year old and 18 year old are both equally fertile tf, 28 isn't advanced maternal age neither is 30
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 06:23 PM
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This is it.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 06:18 PM
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18 year olds have birth complications as contrary to RP and misogynist beliefs. Younger mothers often struggle as mothers resource wise and socially without a strong a social net. A lot of RP and traditionalists are pro-ephebophilia because of some bs about younger women and some straight up admit attraction or desire for 16 year year olds. This is because they don't understand or don't care about the risks of adolescent pregnancy https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/adolescent-pregn…
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 06:14 PM
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and I got you so angry u called me blind (tf?) cus u lost an argument. Get some bitches and maybe you wont be mad online.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 06:55 AM
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You went through my whole post history (and apparently read extensively as I write a lot) looking for dirt 🤨 I'm not ashamed of my game & I haven't checked your page once mr. ad hominem. I made your ass mad af LOL. Nothing I've said is violent, at odds with what I said here nor projecting on others. You don't consider that shit murder anyways your first claim against it was about punishing women from hooking up with men you don't like (loser shit). You need a therapist for that controlling sour …
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 02:43 AM
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tell that to a mirror buddy
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 09:15 PM
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Where does this idea that women never pay in relationships come from? I'm not saying all couples are even split but the idea that "men pay for everything" is not some shit I hear from couples in my life and apparently statistically its not the norm either https://www.cnbc.com/select/how-to-split-household-bills/ The most typical one I'll hear is men pay for meals but thats usually in early dating. A lot of couples manage bills seperately in regards to home life where (I.E. Husband pays rent and …
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 03:40 PM
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"Older men are more valued because of their resources (if they have) maturity (if they have)." Its crazy how much of RP basically praises sugaring (and many RP talking heads have been exposed as paying women / sugaring) but shames sugar babies 💀 and also calls all women shallow gold diggers because they made a focus on using resources (real or fake) to attract women
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 04:24 AM
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No one said it doesnt happen ever but the idea that a 50 year old man is more studly and pulling 21 year old chicks like like a 21 or 25 year old man naturally (without sugaring) would is dumb and unrealistic. Even sugar daddies only pull a certain demographic
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 04:21 AM
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Nah Im not going to down Male friendships or vice versa. If someone is weird and toxic and treats their partners like shit fuck them regardless
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 04:12 AM
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This is going nowhere 😂 it was ok when I was bsing at work but now Im at home. You don't even care about kids after the woman has them. Earlier you said some shit about adoption and I brought how the system RIGHT NOW is overburdened and people aren't even fostering. "Put them up for adoption" is a simplistic ass solution that opens up 10000 other worms. Like adopted kids dont still require thousands to take care or all get the love and attention kids require to be healthy, not to mention thr abu…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 04:08 AM
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"I consent to being obese" yes and obesity has pills and treatments to cure it 😂 no one forces an obese person to STAY obese just because they let themselves get fat. Its also not hosting ANOTHER life against your will. STDs can also a consequence of sex but imagine someone being like "if you get HIV you shouldnt get treatment, you knew the risks" Most everyone would call that person psychotic & see how that would hurt society as a whole (by allowing communcable disease to spread) except for rel…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 12:38 AM
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You're talking about ad hominem (which you used in the wrong context btw) then saying my point is wrong because of an obvious spelling mistake.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 11:14 PM
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No dumbass: the primary argument against abortion is that "life begins at contraception". If life beings at contraception then a fertilized egg, even one not yet attached to the womb is a "life". Google "pro life plan b" and you'll see pro-life organizers are against it too. Do you know how plan B works? It stops ALL eggs including healthy fertilized ones from attaching to the womb then expels the lining in a period. Its not like condoms or birth control pills that stop fertilization all togethe…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 07:41 PM
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Yes dumb fuck I'm saying that exactly. I don't think consensual sex NEEDS unneccessary issues for no reason other than some bitter dudes opinion online or for the purposes of christian nutjobs. I'm not pro STD because some people are promiscuous either. Also notice how you didn't say anything about child warefare or a rise in single parents, government raised abandoned children despite that being most of that paragraph. 🙄 I have feeling you're the type of person who insults single moms & people …
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 07:31 PM
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Also wait you're also pro plan B?? 💀 its not abortion but its only used after exposure to semen and it stops even fertilized ovum (eggs) from attaching (and expels it). What does that sound similar too? Its not that unlike pill based abortions which are the most common form, literally just a step above. If like begins at contraception then plan B would be "ending" that life by not allowing it to attach to the womb. If you're pro plan-b why tf are you complaining about abortion? You really want t…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 03:37 PM
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I'm not trying to be mean but I don't understand why some people turn to RP or blackpill mentalities even when they seem to know its a personal issue and not "female nature" bullshit as preached by rp. WHY would a girl chose you? You listed all your negatives, list some positives! What are some things you like about yourself or want to improve or explore? What are some negative things you could work on? Shy people in general are going to have a harder time getting selected, that's not the alpha-…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 03:26 PM
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You consider pregnancy and children "repercussions". That's fucking insane. You want people to have kids they don't want? You want institutions to raise kids because you don't like casual sex?? What the fuck lol. I'm sure you wine about single mothers but here you are forcing some people into a single parenthood. Or you support kids losing their biological family to be raised by an overburdened institution if you support "giving them up" as if that's not just throwing them away to god know's whe…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 03:12 PM
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I think one of the lesser used criticisms of RP is that it basically teaches men that LOTS OF SEX = self-esteem. The more sex you have, the more better-er you are. Thats why they post the videos of them surrounded by pretty women (who are often paid models but don't focus on that). In RP wasting hours of your life (numbers game) hunting ass and using parlor tricks to impress chicks isn't sex addiction or attention seeking behavior (like the type women get criticized for) its a valorous persuit. …
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 02:55 PM
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person to person, you cant use the same on every woman This is literally true of anything though. Many people won't be interested no matter what you try. I also wonder how many people thank the redpill for getting laid when the woman was interested in sexually regardless of whatever sexual jedi mind trick the man religiously thought he was pulling off. Idk why this got downvoted tho
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 02:44 PM
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make the man wear a condom and withdraw her consent if he doesnt comply My first time having sex the dude took off the condom without consent :| it was very traumatic. Also half to most people seeking abortions used some form of BC. Besides that accidents happen: she missed a pill (you can be a risk of pregnancy just 3 hours after missing some pills), condom broke and anyone talking about pulling out doesnt care that much safe sex includding pregnancy lmao. ​ Theres this argument that pro life i…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 02:29 PM
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Many poor and working class people don't have cars even in unwalkable aka car dependent states. I work at a grocery store, I'd say most of my coworkers take the bus or get dropped off.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 02:10 PM
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What do you think?
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 02:03 PM
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Do you have a therapist? But beyond that: you can work on most of those. I did it alone (i had hikikomori lifesstylee but wanted to change) You have to start small and challenge yourself but you can get better. Confidence can be learned, it can be faked until it becomes a habit. I'm sure you have a vision of your best self, work to the vision of 2 better versions of yourself.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 03:02 AM
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What could you do to stop it?
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 10:13 PM
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I wanna try martial arts for the reasons you listed. But it should be noted for me and possibly OP if he's unemployed or working a lower paying job there's probably a financial or other block. If possible he should prob look into gym but classes would be great if he can afford it
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 10:13 PM
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What do you think would help? What would you see yourself doing not ideally but in a place 2 steps better than now? The first step is recognizing the problem, gotta analyze from there.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 10:10 PM
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"How did you get to 30 without any of those two man? Even WoW addicts have online/gaming friends" This is so condescending and unhelpful. Obviously this person is hurting over this and your post is rubbing it in. I'm also not sure if this person has a job or not, some consider a job and career different. But most jobs for people without work history or low skill work history are going to be entry level and almost definitely not paying for relocation.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 10:09 PM
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Being mentally healthy is the answer. He'll then be strong enough to meet people with a clean/clear mind and vet them for who they truly are. facts 💯
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 08:41 PM
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Women and men can and do cheat for the same "reasons" more or less, the emotional bs is really overstated for women even if women tend to trend higher for emotional connection. There are lots of girls who just want to fuck other men out of boredom and men who fuck out because they want more connection and to feel desired. Its all irresponsible hurtful behavior regardless.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 07:39 PM
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No one in this thread really listened to what you wrote. They are just here to virtue signal for themselves and others. uhhh you too are in this thread? While I actually mostly agreed with your post: dismissing everyone in this thread because some gave bad advice is wrong. You're assuming everyone is just some snob who hasn't been through or dealt with a bad break up or RP mentalities.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 07:34 PM
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You are hurt and trying to use redpill's negativity about the other party to heal/cope. There is nothing wrong with being hurt but you know full well redpill is stupid and misogynistic. The matter at hand is the pain in your soul grabbing onto anything to make you feel better. I've met several men like you, they fell down the redpill hole after being hurt by a woman or because they're young and hurt / confused by not getting any attention. But the ones I know overcome it or move past it because …
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 07:28 PM
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Hi, I'm a recovering NEET (a bitt younger than you) with very similar experiences. If you want to talk in DMs to a non-judgemental person with similar background feel free to hmu. I have some advice. The first thing I'll say is its about baby steps and that perfection is the enemy of progress. You may like r/NEET may not fit you exactly but many users there experience similar things and offer a support environment for those struggling. do know 29 / 30 is still very young and you can always make …
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 06:44 PM
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Have you spoken to your partner direectly about this? "I feel you are ddoing this" you may come out of it wiser to what she wants and she may come out with understanding your needs and how tired you are. Healthier communication is possiblle
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 04:11 AM
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I mean there are women who are virgins or who refuse to have casual sex. I don't think wanting a virgin or inexperienced partner is wrong so long as you aren't hypocritical (i.e. non virgin or believe men but not women can sleep around) or attacking others on it.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 04:07 AM
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"its harder" =/= "you're fucked" Its harder for people with disabilies and neuro-differences to date but projecting extremely harsh negative / hopeless "black pill" language on someone is nasty and against the purpose of this sub.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/22 03:48 PM
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I'm shocked that shit got upvoted on here. There are many autistic men in loving relationships sometimes with autistic women.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/22 08:58 AM
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Man's projecting. Also going on and on about you not NEEDING to be loved love is verrrrry telllling. We can tell you aren't buddy, no need to scream it anymore.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/22 08:47 AM
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biological value You are very stupid lol.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/22 08:31 AM
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"I’d estimate approximately 60% of women are naturally traditional, and would prefer a traditional real relationship over a modern “equal” relationship easily." Define traditional, how does YOUR idea of traditional compare to "traditional" in Scandinavia, the Pacific Northwest, Arab Penninsula, West Africa or East Asia both historically and in modern times? In reality all of these regions and regions within these regions (and different cultures and classes between these areas) can have extreme d…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/22 08:30 AM
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I was broken and some of their points resonated with me. They had solutions that were wise: maintain your health, work hard, be well groomed, lift, just to name a few. The part that I felt was a detriment are the ideas that lead to cynicism or the Black Pill. Often I hear them distancing themselves from the MGTOW or the Black Pill community yet they espouse to ideas such as 'she's not yours, it's just your turn', 80-20 rule and a vary primal view on hypergamy as it relates to human females. Agai…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/22 08:53 PM
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Exactly! Animals aren't chaste lol. Most animals are promiscuous. Monogamy is the exception not the rule and its not one sided. Monogamy is one mating paradigm of many but there's no cultural moralistic sex shaming in the animal kingdom. The closest thing would be infanticide ig. Most females in a species are going to fuck whatever male they fancy. For example if you watched a single documentary on bears you'd think the female just mates with the biggest baddest male bear - in reality female bea…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/22 02:57 AM
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"strong hoish vibes" ew at this language. No one can give you some guide for getting into her pants. It takes two to tango - has she given you some. Have yall flirted before? was there good energy? Send a DM, flirt, ask if shes down to meet etc.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/22 07:41 AM
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Its not no one a lot of women from those cultures call that shit out too. Obviously rightwingers and weirdo redpilllers have a lot in common the ethnic redpill hates admitting they're still bellow white supremacy and the white redpill has a fear (that often turns into a fetish) for getting "cucked" by non-whites. Sick shit alll around.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/22 08:30 AM
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My point is that you're extrapolating. Your blaming hook ups in a time when global inequality and wage stagnation is the norm. Kids are expensive as hell and many of us can't even afford to live without roommatrs News flash too: many of those cultures with sky high birthrates also have sex & relationship inequality where poor men have a hard time finding wives: look at what's happening in India and China. These conservative patriarchal cultures also locked themselves into this by selecting for m…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/22 02:22 AM
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A lot of claims but nothing to back it up. When societies advance birth rates typically decline, that's not collapse that happens because children die less and we practice quality over quantity. The most conservative cultures also do the worst in things like human rights, general happiness, economic mobility and scientific advancement. You are also claiming refusing to date is a America nor europe are going "extinct". You want me to be like human freedom and autonomy is bad because a minority of…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/22 12:33 AM
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How many of these redpill people have been revealed to use sugar baby sites (against all thir bitching about not paying women) and or straight up lying about who they're in a relationship with. Remember those old "gold diggeerprank" videos where it'd be some dorky looking guy who asks a girl out then gets rejected then he like gets into a lamborghini and the hot girl either gawks or reapproaches him and then she gets rejected? Those were fucking actressess. Do you think its not the same for red …
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 03:29 AM
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The entire way you're conceptualizing this is so simplistic its hard to even approach You basically said "No one has to manipulate me (to my knowledge) but if they did Id simply be like no" and then you're taking that an applying it to men as a whole. 1.) Pick up shit is really just based on numbers. Of course some content creator who spends HOURS trying to get pussy will eventually succeed. One time I asked some idiot who sent me a dickpic unconsensually if that shit works (sending dick picture…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 05:03 PM
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Negging will turn off most women with a health sense of self-esteem and IDK what the other shit is but like most scams RP dependds on quantity over quality. Someone will fall for it just by numbers and less by effectivity.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 04:45 PM
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You werent ugly at all as a teen. So many of us have neegative images of our younger selves sadly.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/22 04:40 PM
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Media has been a problem but if the new generation (millenials & gen z) are as gender nonconforming as some claim then we should see a softening of gender roles and stereotype based toxicity (hopefully!)
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 06:04 PM
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I'm gonna need to see a citation on the psychology bit. In regards to strawmanning I overassumed because we are on a exredpill subreddit and the redpills argument is that women want dominant alphas and leave betas
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 02:48 PM
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I think the problem is considering bullying as dominant. We're not rabid dogs or school yard children, bullying is immature, inconsiderate or plainly abusive. There are many losers and insecure people who bully. He should have stood up for his sister that I can agree upon. she made a unilateral decision to divorce, refusing to get marriage counselling eve Again, can't make someone who doesn't want to stay stay. Any relationship have one-sided break ups. How would him being dominate stop that? Th…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 08:47 AM
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Because there are thousands of elf help books and guides that encourage doing better for yourself without dehumanizing women.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 12:04 AM
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Gentle kind and empathetic =/= push over or beta Nor does tenacity and grit mean someone is attempting to dominate another The redpill has the most immature view of relationships. Sometimes shit doesnt work out and you cannot keep someone who doesn't want to stay. You skipped over her talking about the lady feeling stressed possibly depressed over various things like family to insult the man.
/r/ExRedPill12/06/22 12:03 AM
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The average woman who likes IDK a man whos good with his hands doesn't mean she wants some stoic brick whos constantly plotting on how to makeher feel insecure to stay. This all goes back to the idea of redpill not being necessary to learn to date or court. And no this shit is not maintainable especially not long term and as all of us get older.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 11:50 PM
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How is casual dating bad? How are hook ups damaging you? In my country sex is at an all time low https://www.deseret.com/indepth/2021/3/24/22346585/is-sex-recession-real-or-lasting-institute-for-family-studies-blog-surveys-by-jean-twenge
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 04:22 PM
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Pump n dump isnt an ideology tho. It can be or generally is asshole behavior but doesn't have to mean the person views women as scheming lesser beings
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 01:03 AM
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IDK what's going on but you. should take a break from all these "incel" "redpill" communiities. Surround yourself in positive things that make you happy. You're 17 its extremely common for peopl your age to be virgins. Seriously consider blocking ALL these communities and focus on hobbies or anythingels.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/22 08:40 PM
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This is your mentality rn: https://www.reddit.com/r/me_irl/comments/ca3imt/me_irl/
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 10:21 AM
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Leonardo dicaprio is famous for only dating women under 25. Even among celebs hes weird as most age celeb gaps are like less than 5 or 7 years. What about Lebon James, Tom Hanks, Matt Damon & bunches of others? Yes some men are friends. But a "portion" of those men are in relationships, hooking up and dating.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 02:06 PM
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This is my main point. I see diverse couples all the time at mt job and most of my coworkers are either teens, early 20s or above 40. Fat dating skinny, the older folks discussing their marriages or dating lives, short dude datinf a tall ass stallion of a woman ETC - the type of shit these dudes say is just alien to me. These people are isolated or low self esteem and project on the real world.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 01:59 PM
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"6ft 6 figures" your mentality is still stupid af. You said some bs about all "normal" relationships you see being people in their 30s which is just not realistic. Even in high school there are all sorts of couples. How the fuck is a grown adult saying some of this bs? I know comp sci nerds have a stereotype of being socially inactive or incompetent but that's just a stereotype. One you seem to want to latch onto.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 01:53 PM
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Walking = Cardio which is healthy and also has well documented positive affects for mental health. Traveling introduces you to new experiences and people, its a great way to bond and gives you memories to reminisce on and more things to relate with people when you talk to them. Passive hobbies like tv watching arent bad but they should be moderated and mixed with active ones.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 01:45 PM
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The first part was good (they target a certain type of woman) the 2nd bit went way off course 🤨
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 01:39 PM
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Most red pillers have black pill beliefs tho. They complain about women wanting chad all the time and the "cock carousel" where women fuck handsome men (no shit). Its all low self esteem bs.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 01:17 PM
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"Ugly" people, short men, fat people, small dicked men can all find love. Its just a toss up.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 11:06 PM
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Love does exist, it exists in many forms. There is more to life than romance & there's more to love than romance. Suicidal ideation is scary & painful but its a thought that you can challenge. I'm not a psych professional but theres always help.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 10:34 PM
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the worst part is thats just normal, like people might think of those here n there but that weird ass combination flowing through your brain every time you interact with a woman or think of dating is pure internet induced psychosis
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 06:13 AM
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Im not trying to be a psychologist of morality for your little inappropriate doomer hissy fit. I'm pointing out a false narrative & misused statistic. Bye bye!
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 04:27 AM
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Because you're bringing up suicide on an unrelated post for no reason other than to be a debbie downer. You saw others trying to tell someone about their positive real life experiences and then brought up a tragic statistic to make them feel bad. Its shitty, spiteful behavior. Most people including most white men do not die of suicide, nothing changes that fact. Most people do get in relationships. Relationships are extremely common and anyone can find love. Romantic relationships are also not t…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 04:16 AM
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That is a sad statistic But there are far more relationships than suicides. Most men (white or not) dont die of suicide. The leading cause of death for white men 19-44 is unintentional injury. Also white people make up the majority of the USA, how statistically proportional is that number to their demographic majority? Besides any of this: what are you trying to accomplish? Why are you trying to discourage someone from hope or use others depression and pain as an emotional attack?? Its sick, its…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 03:13 AM
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The redpill community is racist af and leans far right. The white dudes into it tend to lean or directly support "race realism" (where black men are conveniently always unintelligent hyper testosterone criminals & asians sexless nerd bots but white men are individuals) And even the various POC in it have their own types of internalized problems generally with some differences between ethnic groups but one oft seen issue is being affected by internalized racism + white supremacy, fetishization of…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 02:46 AM
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Theres really not, like statistically. That doomer shit is not only unhealthy but not based in reality.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 01:57 AM
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the entire time "involuntary" celibate as if you're being forced to be a virgin. Thinking about celibacy that way is just unhealthy, "I'm in involuntarily single" instead of just "I'm single"
/r/ExRedPill18/05/22 05:15 PM
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Not reading all that but divesting is just as toxic as RP.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 08:30 PM
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Very insensitive to be making chest jokes rn considering what just happened
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 08:29 PM
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Redpill is mens nature? Women cant be "redpilled"? Also given women have to deal directly with misogyny why wouldn't they take a direct interest in this
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 08:28 PM
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You have to develop those things for yourself. If it makes you feel better I feel most people don't have explicit hobbies or deeper interests (for a variety of reasons including time or exposure) and I don't often see women making a hobby a criteria for a man. Its anecdotal. My bizarre interests & goals have put people off me before too.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 04:01 AM
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Their motional intelligence especially empathy, introspection and kindness (to themselves and others), their sense of humor & an ability to be goofy (not take everything serious, show their corny side), determination, curiosity and hobbies or interests.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 02:41 AM
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