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Well arent you confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:35 AM
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Damn, experiences make a difference for sure. Just try to remind yourself that there still are some good people out there and be open to new view's. I always try to have compassion for both sexes and not to downplay any bad experiences they have. Your point of view shows one perspective of how things are in your surroundings. The bad experiences definitely show us afterwards how naive we sometimes can be but also should not stop finding decent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:55 PM
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Wtf? That doesn't seem normal or am I getting old?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:44 AM
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Interesting take. The fascinating thing is that i also belive there is something higher than religion (before I would say almost cosmic conection) but that would make us look pretty self-centered as humans, why would we be that important. We are nothing in the eyes of the wast universe, literally smaller than a speck of dust. We should be humble, kind to life around us and nature and life will (would be nice) give it back. The biggest problem I see is selfishness in people, destroying others or …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:20 PM
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Those "forces" you calling good and evil are all product of the life that people lead. Living in a bad environment will give you two choices: a) becoming better for betterment of self and others so it doesn't happen again, b) becoming the very people they hate (bad behaviour) if they don't get guidance or luck in life. Learned behaviour is formed in childhood and is very hard to rewrite without some help from the outside. I try to make sense of the last part but I still can't see it as a positiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:40 AM
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I am truly sorry if this might come as a little off, it's not the purpose, but what are the benefits of being on the team? I haven't found it, only restristions and dogmas that should not be questioned. Everything good is gods making and everything bad happening is interpreted as a challenge send by him. Make it make sense. What do you mean with this: "There are some things that do not bring joy and are not helpful to yourself or others"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:55 PM
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....I simply stated how i would feel because of this. YOU mods seem very biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:24 PM
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This was my experience with very religious people that were only good so God wouldn't punish them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 02:26 PM
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Because he cannot fanthom that it goes bought ways. The disgust that I would feel watching my boyfriend have sex with his previous partner cannot be even described in words. It was HIS pravecy back than, I love him and it would sertanly bother me seeing it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:41 PM
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Alright, how does is work then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:11 PM
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He doesn't seem to have experienced neighter and jet has such strong opinions on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:08 PM
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No, people with no self-awareness need religion. "I am good because God says I should be"- fickle off with that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:32 AM
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Someone needs to ask and I hope we get the answer: were you ever with a real woman before? Relationship, talk to a female, had sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:19 AM
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Cope with what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:21 PM
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What happened to: "I am not bragging about sleeping with younger woman" ? Look, no one told you that but a normal female person who actually cares about herself won't go for older dudes like you. The crazy ones do, so good luck with the crazy ick 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:52 PM
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That usually goes for the early stages of life like teens with those in their 30s because teens or early 20s don't have enough experience to spot subtle abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:26 PM
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Haha good one, on this sub probably
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:14 PM
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I get that but I have a personal example of someone I didn't find attractive at first until I got to know them and than it was sparks all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:13 PM
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You do get not everything is about looks? People actually sometimes fall for personality too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 03:09 PM
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Ou, that's actually cool. I just have a feeling you are maybe focused on the wrong objectives here. I was just reading on victim blaming and how people don't consent to shit when they are back out drunk... like don't get black out drunk kind of shit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:01 PM
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Made you mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:48 PM
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Who did this to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 07:43 PM
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What are you on?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 04:20 PM
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My boyfriend has no job and is finishing college. Isn't rich and can sometimes be depressed for longer periods. I stay with him because I love him and choose him every day for who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:59 PM
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Nice crowd you got there...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:26 AM
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Ou, you poor soul. Did Stacy tell you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:43 AM
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Uhum, we will see how long that will last with that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:41 AM
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I am afraid a lot of man forget that. They hope to marry a vampire XD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:39 AM
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I am afraid a lot of man forget that. They hope to marry a vampire XD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 03:39 AM
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Freaking narcissists..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:05 AM
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Save it for the people who deserve it. Becous you have absolutely no self awareness and don't think how you are hurting people with your statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:04 AM
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...are you a full conscious narcissist? I am a woman and other woman with the height shit make me freaking angry. Wtf does personality have to do with hight are you so miserable with yourself that you have to put men down with shit like that? You have some deep issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:57 AM
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You seem like a terribly selfish person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 03:43 AM
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Still...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:03 AM
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Do you not feel shame other man ogling you for money? Do you really feel proud doing that and telling people you do this for a living?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:53 AM
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Simply because you earn money, doesn't mean it's not in a disgraceful manner. You people have no shame and I wonder how your kids will see you one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:42 AM
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Haha good deflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:35 AM
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Ou please, you don't have a real job. You just swing your butt around and are a disgrace to other woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:23 AM
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Terrifying shit right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:08 AM
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It's fuc** unbelievable right? He would treat people horribly and than ask himself why people treat him bad?? I meen... I can't. He is a goner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:41 AM
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To be honest I had that for some time (but mine started with the pressure questions after the 25 mark). I had to explain to them how we are not the same nor the times were the same. I was and still kind of am in a bad mental place. I did find a partner but he also has depression and it gets tough for the both of us when life gets more stressful than usual. To cut it short, I told them I can't think of marriage or children if I don't feel good enough for myself, nor mentally nor financially. My l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:10 PM
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You are still young, you know that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:35 AM
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That's actually nice, you managed to find someone that likes you as a person and not just your asset.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 01:46 PM
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Let me guess. You go for the gold diggers, so much success XD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:58 AM
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Let me guess. You go for the gold diggers, so much success XD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:57 AM
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Ou.. I can see how that can change your world view and that seems really terrible. I never said I was a victim, just that you can't say that all woman are bad, just like I know there are bad man out there I also know not every male is bad. Unfortunately you are a victim of people's abuse and I hope you got therapy for that. I know it doesn't seem fair that you have to get help for that becous it is not your fault but it might be the only mean of healing. I hope you get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:07 AM
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Dude, that is really shitty and sorry for having such parents. That is not an excuse to be shitty to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:25 AM
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So your mother didn't do shit for you or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:08 AM
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I am truly sorry you have such bad company, but that ain't normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:43 AM
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Basically yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:28 PM
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I know I made it sound a little confusing but the point is, it doesn't make me feel good thinking of my partner in such a light (being with someone else and me) and would never be ok with such a life style. It would destroy me as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:23 PM
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It's called loving my partner and not feeling well sharing him, end of point. Just like you maybe can and that's your thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:18 PM
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Some of us truly want to be monogamous and can't really imagine a poly relationship. It literally isnt a choice in my case. It makes me physically ill thinking of sharing my partner with someone else or being with someone else. How is that a choice than?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:25 AM
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And this is why you have a problem with understanding it all. You never had the deep connection to someone to understand that obviously. People have a hard time understanding your view point because they know how it feels. Your problem is chasing sex and not the person itself. Don't take it the wrong way, but this would be my interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:47 AM
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I agree it's not simple, but like anything in life we have to put effort in what we are doing. I am also trying to look at it for the benefit of the child since it is better to have two stable partners. To be honest, the "worthy" part, as we know a lot of people should not have children, but still do. We are all witnesses around us of humans NOT thinking of all the needs a child has before having one. One of those factors is choosing a good partner too, well finding first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:54 PM
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No. If he can't find a stable relationship and put work in that than he is not worthy to have a child. Same goes for woman. If you need a child to solve your internal problems go get a pet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:55 AM
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Ok, that's fine. Your opinion. Judging by your comments you just like to argue around. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:05 AM
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Do you have anything positive to say for once?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:44 AM
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I thought man wanted to feel needed and helpful? Doesn't anyone? We all help and contribute where we can. Of course not all chores are gonna be easy, so to say, but that's why we divide them so the person who knows it, does it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:00 AM
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No, only because he is an insecure little thing who wants to only bang and have a maid too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:27 AM
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Thank you for the clarification. I always did wonder about that and thought that you could turn the jealous off. I know it sounds ridiculous but it just felt that way listening to people. I can't make it go away or see it your way. I guess I am simply different and want to be loved by one person only. It makes me feel devastated thinking back that I was not enough even for one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:56 PM
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Alright, didn't catch that. Sorry. As the pattern I would say the weird justification for not being jealous of someone else flirting with your partner too. I get it and tried and I guess I have my own bad experiences that of course have an effect on my response to something like this. I don't like the high probability of someone getting hurt in all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:59 PM
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Imagine the fucked up future for the poor children in such a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:45 PM
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I am not gonna comment how good or bad you had it, but I can see a pattern with you Poly people. Of course we get jealous, it's because we care and we want to be treated with respect from our partners. To me it would be of course disrespectful if my partner started to flirt with someone else close to me. I doubt you would think like that after let's say 5 year of relationship with that person and now he want that poly experience...yea, no thank you. I rather not kill myself slowly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 01:42 PM
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It's not about being legal, it's about the moral point. I would not want my daughter of 20 y to date someone seriously in his late 30s. What kind of good present and future can they have? Where is the merit except sex and money here??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:28 PM
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Haha of course, the younger can't see thru your BS, you think only older woman have baggage, you don't sound better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:20 PM
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That sounds like a sad life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:09 PM
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This could not be said better, I expect OP to answer to this because I can't see him disprove your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:07 PM
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That is pretty stupid. Sounds only like pear pressure and you not having a backbone at that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 06:06 AM
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Yea...right. Ok fine since I am not like that or the circle of people I interact with I can't really say I see this (or support this). A good woman will support her boyfriend/husband even in his early stages of life if she loves him. Love in itself is of course not enough for everything and bout sides need to work together to be successful in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:23 PM
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Mortality. Edit: should be morality. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 04:48 PM
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The popularisation of some type of behaviour does not make it fine and it should be condemned as you say vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 03:24 PM
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Excuse me what? So you go for them for being young, playful and dumb if I got this correct? How do you know you had a more exciting life than others?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:24 AM
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I am 28 and would not even think of approaching someone so young. It's like being with a childish adult. How do you get over the different mentalities and life stages? Or do you just hook up so you don't give a shit about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:05 AM
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Where did you grow up? They must have been really mean to you. I know it does exit since I see it and feel with my family and partner. It's when you want to give the best to the ones you love (care about) and want only for them to be happy and doing everything possible to make that happen while also staying true to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 05:38 PM
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I think it's + the huge negative character that he carries and thinks it's fine to obey his sexual desires for money (don't care the price stop saying it like it changes stuff). Oh and the woman seem to only annoy him and it's noticeable, so why would someone spent time with a human like him if they don't feel understanding or human next to you OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 11:08 AM
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That's bs and you know it. I never cared in my life or the women around me about mens hight. It's more an excuse men who have weird behaviour (as in don't understand social ques) or resentment towards woman that use that kind of excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 10:36 PM
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It's really not, because firstly it looks like a real person and an SO spending hours with that thing just seems a bit to much. I was actually talking with my boyfriend once about it and he seemed to be "overly excited and enthusiastic" for that kind of shit and to be honest it just looks to me that he would replace a good deal of our sex life with that "thing". Yes I will say it, it made me feel insecure, like a lot, that he woul be so excited to see and be with that doll. It's like he is not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:48 AM
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It's not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:41 AM
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Your response is gold 0.0
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 07:18 AM
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Now you are just digging your own grave deeper and deeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 08:04 PM
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I actually agree on that one with you. But one nor the other is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:53 AM
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The amount of ignorant men on this sub is starting to scare me for the future of mankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:34 AM
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The power dynamic of course. I have read so many bad example of this that I don't have the energy anymore to even get to explaining why this is wrong on so many levels. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:31 AM
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Well if that doesn't sound controlling than I don't know what is. So in your word's - she will never find better than me XD
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:29 AM
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Ou wait, you mean only for dating or LTR? Of course a gold digger is gonna choose a 50y old guy since that's the only thing he has to offer and the young peace of meat has her body to offer. It's just a gross dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:26 AM
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Yeeea, you just convince yourself with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:22 AM
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Why would she want you with an attitude like that anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:08 AM
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You only choose the options that don't require work and treating yous SO as damaged with time. Imagine if someone saw you that way? How would that make you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:03 AM
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Why would you want people like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:17 PM
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That's just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:07 PM
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What kind of people do you talk to that treat you like scum and potential rapist? Why do you approach people who you think wouldn't want you? You set yourself for failure in your mind. Dont date gold-diggers then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:42 PM
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You must pay them really good money to suck that kind of d* with attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:19 AM
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Even if I am in my late 20ies and in a ltr, it still doesn't mean I can't distinguish between right or wrong. If you go with that kind of mentality it will one day hurt someone who might not deserve such behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 08:19 PM
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The thing is I don't like the mind games and do agree thats stupid but it still doesn't excuse such behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 12:59 PM
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It makes your actions soooo much better now, you are such a bigger person it's commendable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 09:36 AM
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Wow, hope karma gets you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:19 AM
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Well yes, you earn that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 08:30 AM
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Those women seem very egocentric for doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 05:50 PM
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After reading it again my conclusion would be that you met a narcissistic person who does not emphasize well with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:46 PM
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You did state in the comments that the person you met (who was like that), but what was here reason for doing that? That is what's baffling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:21 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:07 PM
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Well you obviously want to know why the woman do that. My question is if there are so many of them, why is no one willing to answer that "Why me?" question?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:01 PM
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That's your opinion. It's the possibility that scares people I think. Hell, even I am a little scared of marriage but I communicate that with my partner and tell my reasons for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:49 AM
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I don't like big weddings (almost weddings at all since I have been on ton of them since I was a kid). You give the ability to ruin your life everyday to people but I do agree with you that with DIVORCE men can have way more concequinces and it doesn't end well for them. To be honest I am a little baffled at the women that do that to men and do not condone such behaviour it's pitty from the woman's side. Such people do not think of the consequences their decisions have. Not all of us are heartle…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:39 AM
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Why would I ruin his life?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:16 AM
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You met some crazy ass bitches man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:49 AM
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Please find that woman who does that becouse I hear this for the first time. She is the person you should be asking that, not us strangers. The thing is I actually agree on your stance "Why not with me?" But you have to ask that person who has to have some kind of reasons, but reason nevertheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:41 AM
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I must say I actually feel kind of sorry for you that you met a person like that. No one should feel lesser with their partner and if someone says stuff to you (that you wrote up there) about not doing it with them because it's them, than that's a person problem and you shouldn't deal with people like that. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:33 AM
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What about men that string along women in to waiting for marriage with them and than dump them when they see that the woman is on to them after YEARS spent on the man. Why don't we call that out?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:04 AM
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I live in Europe and this is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 07:24 AM
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No, I wouldn't date a guy without a penis so it goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:04 AM
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Well, you mentioned yourself in the comment of course I am talking about you now. What did you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:58 AM
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I don't hold America as normal or standard so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:06 AM
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Of course it does since it's controlling and predatory and only serves you any good
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:45 AM
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Sure, if it makes me a prostitute to date only one guy since forever than this world is going down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:44 AM
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Ok, fair point. I like the debate the point. Thanks for that. Your last part is on you and your viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:42 AM
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In the end you didn't even comment on the controll part...I see why. I do admit that my comment was downputing but since you are a predator it might help you see your ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:37 AM
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You want respect from women, but you don't give any.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:30 AM
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Ha fine, I have time now. I responded like that becouse I don't have respect for people like you (and didn't have much time to write more). You chasing young women, knowingly that they are naiv, dumb or damaged since they are younger, only shows that you have a need for controlling them and have no real interest in them as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 07:26 AM
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Haha, aren't we self-delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:28 AM
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Or creeps like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 06:24 AM
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No, thank you good citizen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:14 PM
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I mean, it's stupid. I am a woman and I never cared about height. The person can't change that about themselves nor does height make someone a better person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 09:03 AM
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All are perfect, becouse it shouldn't determine who the person is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:51 AM
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Finally a sane person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:32 AM
2

Until you hit the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 08:23 AM
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Alright, point made.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:19 PM
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Ou. No, since I'm in a relationship. Online dating sucks as much as I see these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:16 PM
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What's that? And why would I try it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:12 PM
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I guess I am an exception than.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:06 PM
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Ou yea I see I forgot you seem to lump all the women together since they are all the same right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:00 PM
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Except you seem to feel like no women ever struggles with dating. Like seriously...are men getting that delusional. I was the introverted shy girl (normal weight) and no one ever asked me out, ever until I got the courage to ask someone in college out myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:53 PM
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Yea, sure I am in self-delusion. You just said it yourself that they are much easier, you meen gullible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 10:52 AM
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He should adopt a child if he wants to raise something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 09:06 AM
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Finally, and the age gap only gives them the opportunity to manipulate them because no one in their age wants them (for a reason).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 08:46 AM
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I'm a woman and I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:50 PM
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Happy birthday, why is it up?
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 09:40 PM
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Maybe give it some time after all.
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 07:54 PM
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The only sad thing is that you don't believe that love exists. For everything you want in life is a give and take.
/r/MGTOW230/07/21 07:23 PM
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Your comment should be higher. Woman can be affected too. Maybe on a smaller scale but none the less.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 09:11 PM
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