Good_Posture Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	how many of you go to bars/clubs alone? I'm a pretty introverted and reserved guy but I go out alone often and make it work - most of the time. It took me a while to realise my intention should be to go out and have fun, not meet people. If I tried to force meeting people I neither had fun nor met anyone (I guess the ''desperation'' was obvious). Once I adpoted the ''have fun first'' approach, naturally I would start speaking to more people. For this reason I choose venues where there is something to do. Find the bars that have live m…	/r/seduction	26/06/22 09:28 AM
2	What kinds of people are in the same "circles" as Instagram models? People with social proof. IG models live on followers. If you can help them boost their profile and audience, you're in. So, be a DJ, athlete, club owner, musician, photographer (this may be the best option as you will have industry contacts they may want to tap in to), music video director, promoter, actor. If she can name drop you in her posts so that thousands more followers see her. Alternatively, just be rich and take her to fancy places she can use to create content for her IG. Exotic beac…	/r/seduction	06/02/22 08:50 AM
3	What kinds of people are in the same "circles" as Instagram models? Yep. The authorities already know or have an idea of who the dealers are. Most of the time they even ignore or tolerate the smaller ones or end up using them to get the big fish (suppliers, manufacturers). Once they have no more use for you, you'll end up in prison or dead.	/r/seduction	06/02/22 08:34 AM
-9	I keep accidentally friendzoning girls and I don't know how to stop? No fucking shit.	/r/seduction	08/05/21 12:38 PM
8	I keep accidentally friendzoning girls and I don't know how to stop? I think you've nailed it. No universal answer. What are your thoughts on directly asking early on what their communication preference is? Or do you just text/call initially and see how they respond? If texting, for example, if they respond quickly and seem engaged then you know texting every other day is on the cards.	/r/seduction	08/05/21 12:37 PM
81	I keep accidentally friendzoning girls and I don't know how to stop? Just to touch on what you said, the texting thing seems to be a minefield. I recently had a woman tell me I never texted her enough and it indicated to her that I wasn't interested.	/r/seduction	08/05/21 11:32 AM
2	This is often overlooked but important thing when dealing with women Great post. As my username implies, I've got the posture part down. Back straight, chest up/out, head neutral etc. It was partly a conscious effort and then lifting weights helped as well. Its my hands and nervous ticks (touching my face, rubbing my neck/arms) that are the problem and it was actually another guy that pointed this out. I was standing next to him in a group and I kept touching my face and he just said "Stop touching your face". Caught off guard, I asked why and he just said "No, j…	/r/seduction	26/04/21 07:13 AM
3	Men, please don't be like this guy at the club That's one hyper aggressive orbiter.	/r/seduction	04/01/20 06:23 PM
8	Im falling for girls that obviously dont care about me. Dont be me. Yep, learned this over the past few months. If a woman likes you she will make an effort herself.	/r/seduction	19/12/19 08:48 AM
3	Girls asked me to go on a trip with them how should I handle this? Are you being serious?	/r/seduction	13/12/19 10:04 AM
6	Anyone else had their heart ripped out of their chest? I learned a long time ago to not put myself through that. I will stop hanging around or being near that person. No good for your mental health and sense of self-worth.	/r/seduction	12/12/19 05:18 PM
1	How many of you would respect a girl/woman saying ANY of this to you - in order to turn you down - and you wouldnt turn into a "nice guy"??? After a fun night earlier in the year I told a woman that was coming on quite hard that I had a great time with her but I wasn't looking for anything serious. She thanked me for the honesty and we went our separate ways. I'd appreciate the same from a woman. Instead of leaving me on read, just tell me no thanks, I had a fun night and that's it.	/r/seduction	21/11/19 10:36 AM
1	How much should I be texting someone I just met if I want to see them again? So you exchanged numbers sat, she flaked on date the next day - am I correct? That's correct. Thanks for elaborating on the style of text to send. This is where I am sure I often ruin my chances. All too often I turn them in to a Q&A instead of a means to arrange a meet up. Regarding her attraction level to me, some of the things I picked up; When we sat at a bench table outside, she tapped right next to her and told me to sit next to her. When we moved to a bench table inside she sat cross legg…	/r/seduction	12/11/19 10:38 AM