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Vague advice is the best advice anybody can get. Life is complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:27 PM
6

I'm not lying and in fact you are proving my point by being a hostile male. And now you're reported and blocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:25 PM
1

I'm not responsible for your lack of writing skills. Have a good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:12 PM
5

Yeah, by being assholes to me. Same as the other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:09 PM
1

That's only your opinion. You have no right to complain or demand that others modify their communication style simply because it's hard for you to understand. They don't owe you social interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:07 PM
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I'm not playing this stupid game with you. Reported and blocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:06 PM
6

The two are not contradictory. You realize that men who catcall are doing so out of hostility, not friendliness, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:05 PM
1

Yeah and that's fine. Nobody ever said to rely on it or assume anything. But it's part of human communication and these autistic men complaining that women don't come with literal written instruction manuals are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:03 PM
1

No I didn't. Now you're gaslighting and lying too. Ugh. Reported again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:00 PM
1

I yold you that's what I've seen. You have no right to deny my existence. End of discussion. And now you're reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:58 PM
2

Sorry but people are never, ever going to stop making eye contact. Sorry it makes you uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:53 PM
0

Retype your comment using complete sentences then and paragraphs then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:52 PM
17

I don't know if most men agree with this. It's very clear that men view sex as an act of dominance and degradation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 09:51 PM
1

What city though?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:34 PM
1

You're not listening. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:31 PM
2

Strong eye contact isn't creepy unless you've already blown the person off and they keep doing it. If you don't want a woman flirting with you, mean-mug her or turn your back to her or something. She'll almost certainly take a hint.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:30 PM
1

Yes, in a civilized society, it is given. We're not monkeys. Well, maybe your's is. Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:26 PM
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I'm telling you what my lived experience has been and you're saying "that's not true at all". That actually IS gaslighting and it's not allowed in this sub. Next time I see you do it I'll report you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:25 PM
1

Schools are teaching boys to be antisocial and act autistic???
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:21 PM
0

No it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:20 PM
2

Yeah women really aren't the ones complaining. It's pretty much all men. Most women are in a relationship if they want one. And I've never heard a woman complain about LESS male attention. From the time we're 8 until we're 80 we get far more of it that we want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:10 PM
0

I want everyone to be decent to each other without the other party doing anything back.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:08 PM
1

Why thank you, I am an asshole. However I can communicate nonverbally, make eye contact and have social empathy and creativity. If I can do it anybody can.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:05 PM
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I don't have to. Men want women. There are men, lots of them, who are fully willing and capable to read non-verbal cues. Women don't have to pander to the ones who don't. And just like misogynistic men get women and even married all the time, so do misandric women. It's not as much a turn off as you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:04 PM
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Not how it works. Your decency towards others doesn't depend on how pleasing they are to you. It's all on you. Man, some of you weren't taught the golden rule growing up and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:56 PM
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I didn't say treat men like meat. I was describing the look women get when they're really interested in a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:56 PM
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From the age of 9 to current it's happened to me at the grocery store, the library, at school, at the park and in front of my house. Men are everywhere. Yes, even in white suburbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:53 PM
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Dismissal just means not listening. Women already expect that of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:50 PM
-10

Nobody has ever told boys not to follow nonverbal cues. From the time we are babies it just comes naturally. Shoot, even animals are extremely attuned to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:49 PM
1

Who? Every man alive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:43 PM
4

Or here's an idea: women can do what they want and if the guy can't keep up then oh well it's his loss. There are other men who can.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:21 PM
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Men do those jobs too. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:20 PM
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Okay well let them be safe and alone then. You can't expect others to alter their behavior to suit you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:19 PM
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Except women aren't mad at dismissal from men. Only sexist patronizing and blatant disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 12:17 PM
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Women aren't acting like aliens. You said it yourself, men can't just treat women as human beings. It's like males can't get sex off their minds and just be normal around females. Who's fault is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:14 AM
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Women are allowed to demand those things in a partner. Who wants someone who's insecure, male or female? I don't, and I'm sure you don't either. As for non-verbal communication well, men need to stop being so autistic about that. It's not hard to tell when a girl is eyeing you like a prime piece of meat from across the bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:11 AM
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If you don't think people are responsible for their own actions, and you think women are wrong for wanting to be treated with basic human dignity, then yeah I guess we are done. Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 10:01 AM
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Each person is only responsible for themselves. If a man is shitty to people, that's 100% on him. He needs to work on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:40 AM
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It all boils down to men being mad at rejection from women. I don't know what they're really trying to prove by tearing women down for it. That's loser territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:35 AM
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Women don't ask that everyone be over-the-top nice. They want to be treated decently. According to your post decency/respect have to be earned if you're a man. I'm saying that sucks and men need to learn what it means to be gentlemen again. Everyone deserves basic respect unless they do something to lose that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:30 AM
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Women are not responsible for men's behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 06:25 AM
1

You're hopeless. And as a veteran I'm not going to bother reading all that bullshit you wasted your time typing out because you're nothing but words. No substance. You probably work behind a desk.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:18 AM
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You were wrong though. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:15 AM
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Women underestimate how shitty men are, is the message I'm taking from this. Okay. Men, do better then! Treat both us and other men well please. And act like human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 04:10 AM
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I'm more talking about social media and other networking sites since you said you didn't have a ton of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:06 PM
2

If you're less physically attractive then you have to impress her in other ways. It could be by being sweet and funny, or good at fixing things. As the comedian Red Green said "If the women don't find you handsome, at least they'll find you handy".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:33 PM
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Whatever commie I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:30 PM
2

Yeah and how many wars have we done since then where there was no draft?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:29 PM
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So, most of the people killing other people in wars no one asked for are men? Got it. Thank goodness we have men. Otherwise there might be, you know, peace on Earth. Homeboy let me tell you something. Women are just as capable of "STEM" as men are and even redpilled academics like Jordan Peterson will tell you that. The dirty dangerous work that men do is becoming more and more automated (you should be grateful for that) and gender differences are becoming more and more meaningless in society. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:25 PM
1

Possibly. You might not be doing anything wrong per se but it's worth a look.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:18 PM
1

Okay be miserable just how you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:17 PM
1

Do you want help or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:18 PM
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No. 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:18 PM
0

Those men suffer more health complications (mental and physical) and die younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:13 PM
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Nah man those are a waste of time. Nothing worth doing is easy. The happiest people I know are older couples. Sometimes they've been divorced and got back together but whatever they've been through they always forgive and love one another. A connection like that makes life worthwhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:11 PM
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Not really. Have you seen some of the dustballs out there pulling women? If they can do it so can you. No excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:04 PM
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I've seen couples where the guy is autistic in fact I'm related to one. Long-term the wife always ends up being his mommy, handler and personal manager. Screw that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:59 PM
2

Overweight women are never going to bang guys they're not attracted to. They're going to bang nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:57 PM
-1

Whining and playing the blame game isn't the way to make people empathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:53 PM
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Women don't care enough about some random dude to go out if her way to shit test him. Good lord guys get over yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:50 PM
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Why do men think that they're the arbiters of truth or something? Just because a woman gave you advice and it didn't work the first time you trued it doesn't mean she was lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:49 PM
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Men who struggle to get dates aren't trying. That's not gaslighting. It's observable reality. It's too damn easy to get a girlfriend nowadays with social networking being as easy as the click of a button. If they wanted a woman, they'd have one. But they don't really want one. They want to piss and moan and have people feel sorry for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:43 PM
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Women aren't "spoiled" and are generally doing fine. It's men that are falling behind and complaining about it all the time. I don't really see women complaining. In this economy women are too busy getting stuff done to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:29 PM
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"I've seen other people do it that means I can too" Wrong answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:36 PM
0

Be interesting. Meet and surpass their past experiences. Life is a competition and there are no participation trophies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:35 PM
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If this behavior was as widespread as you're claiming then I wouldn't have to research some random criminal case. That stuff has polluted your mind dude. Quit watching true crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:32 PM
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No, it's called prosperous civilization. No civilization works of you go the speed of the slowest members. They must be left behind. I'm not saying that weak people should be abandoned. Their families and charity should take care of them. That's what those are for. The family unit should be strengthened, respected, and valued most of all. Currently in the West we have the opposite of that. Family is put on the back burner and so it's up to daddy government to force all of us to pay for useless p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 06:28 PM
1

The point of civilization is to build up the strong so that they go on to do, discover and create great things. If you plan on ever growing old or becoming disabled, better get insurance and a retirement plan. It's nobody else's job to support you simply because you exist. If you want to eat, you have to work. Again, tax subsidized benefits should only servicemembers because they already sacrificed more than their share for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:35 PM
2

LOL I don't know what kinda porn you saw that on but maybe give it a break!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:29 PM
1

Your flair says man so what qualifies you to state what a woman prefers? Are you transgender or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:13 PM
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Unemployment isn't welfare, it's insurance that you pay into when you're employed. The people we are talking about do not qualify for unemployment and feel they deserve free shit for merely existing. That needs to end.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:14 PM
1

Well in the work camp you'll have a constant employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:14 PM
1

We'll see what happens with the election.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:59 PM
-3

Translation: "I'm not interesting enough to keep an intelligent girl entertained" Poor self-esteem man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:26 PM
5

Don't argue with these guy he's just a triggered bum. Bums don't think, they only react. That's why they're bums.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:53 PM
0

Unless you're a disabled servicemember (military, police, EMT or firefighter) you're a POS if you receive welfare. If you cheat the system then you're an even bigger POS and should be sent to a work camp to pay it back. Fuck leeches.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:52 PM
2

What if Chad is a traditionalist?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:50 PM
1

These guys are probably fat and have never faced poverty and lack of food in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:44 PM
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Having men constantly harass you for sex isn't a privilege. It's threatening, dehumanizing, and humiliating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:43 PM
1

If you're getting "bf" benefits then he's your bf, not your friend. Edit: 2 the guy below me, I his no women have gotten mad at you for being their friend. Women don't use men as a "tool". What does that even mean? Nonsense. You're either our friends or our boyfriends or you're nothing. This gray area between them is in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:39 PM
2

This has been posted before and you're wrong. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:34 PM
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The research supports me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:34 PM
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No, that's not true and also not the premise. You said women only do worthless jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:32 PM
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Nurses, caretakers, teachers and factory workers are useless in your eyes? Because most of those are women. 2 the guy below me: no, most factory workers are women. You've obviously never worked in any sort of packing and manufacturing. It's virtually all women, and the few men there are immigrants. Way to make excuses to keep minimizing women's work. Face it, women do everything men do, and are often paid less to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:35 AM
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Most women are conservative. Less than half are overweight. And we're not slutty either. You're both full of it. I don't know where you get the entitlement to tell a woman what dating will be like for her either. You don't have a clue. If another woman has perspective on this I am all ears but you guys are not qualified so you shut up already.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 01:10 AM
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Men have that power too. And they use it. Shockingly most guys on dating apps are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:40 AM
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No it's not it's just a bunch of bigoted nonsense from a miserable negative loser. This is a big country. Not every man or woman is the same. That would be impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:38 AM
-1

None of that is remotely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:20 PM
0

American woman here. When I've been overseas (especially in France, mon deu!) people of both sexes were trying to get into my pants! When they heard where I was from they were super interested in it and treated me like a minor celebrity. People worldwide love American celebrities (actual ones) especially female celebrities. I've never seen people so fascinated with the Kardashians in my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:09 PM
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I probably will do the same if I ever plan on getting married. American men my age just aren't where I'm at. I will need to do some traveling before I can determine which countries have more suitable men. So far Canadia, Argentina, Texas, Germany, Czech Republic and Spain seem promising. I don't like the misogynistic attitudes of passport bros. Why can't they just say "I struggle in my home culture and like this other culture better" instead of calling us women "fat entitled Western whores" and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:03 PM
1

I'm not interested in discussing my life in that much detail and I'm not interested in dating advice. I was just giving an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:01 PM
0

You're the one poking at me for attention. Get lost before I report you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:40 PM
1

Every time I go to a concert or something, I approach like seven to ten. Then I usually give up and just have fun by myself and people I already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:36 PM
0

What on Earth are you smoking?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:34 PM
-1

Your problem not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:33 PM
1

"Outed"? You took what I said in a completely different conversation out of context and you're projecting intent onto me. Piss off with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:31 PM
1

Maybe. Or my breath stinks from the rotten peanut butter ketchup and onion sundae I ate for breakfast like SpongeBob.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:27 PM
1

My experience is equally representative as anyone else's. I don't know why you're arguing with me about it. You don't know a damn thing because you weren't there and you're not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:01 AM
1

Excuse me but you don't know a damn thing about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:59 AM
1

People should be treated with the same basic courtesy regardless of their looks or other immutable characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:12 AM
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Well knock it off I ain't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:11 AM
3

I never said they owed me anything. And maybe you should work on yours. You're really annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:00 AM
2

I wouldn't mind, as long as he's friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:57 AM
1

Will you stop spamming my inbox?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:55 AM
0

I have that. Thanks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:55 AM
2

My grooming is fine. And they don't know my personality or hobbies yet, they just give me a disgusted look the moment I say something. Doesn't seem normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:55 AM
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I dress for the occasion and I have brown hair, wear glasses and am not overweight. I'm not super pretty or feminine but I don't think I'm freakishly ugly or manly at all. I'm not an Instagram model for sure. Maybe these guys only want drop dead gorgeous models to give them the time of day IDK. It blows my mind too. I figured most people go to events to actually socialize and make new friends but maybe that's not the case with guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:23 AM
1

That was in regards to men that I think are marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:18 AM
1

Why do they always say that? No I don't. I was just letting you know. It's the polite thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:16 AM
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Nobody cares dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:08 AM
1

I'm mostly just here to make men less entitled and full of themselves. I'm not interested in their benefit and I don't think that women should help men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:03 AM
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My experience is equally as valid as anyone's and these men's experiences don't trump mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:52 PM
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I don't believe in leagues. I've approached and talked to men of every look, style, shape, size and color. Older men and Hispanic men are the only ones who have been nice. The rest always give me a dirty look or get hostile and insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:51 PM
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USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:48 PM
1

Wow. Men are shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:13 PM
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I don't know if I'm just ugly or what but men get angry if I so much as try to start a conversation at the bar. Older men are nice but not men my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:10 PM
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My experience proves otherwise. Men have always been extremely hostile when I've approached them. So I don't do it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:08 PM
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I don't know what the rationale is but men usually get angry when I approach them so I don't do it anymore. I don't think men like it when women do anything on their own terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:06 PM
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You're talking like a eugenicist. And I've explained my position more thoroughly than that and you know it. You just don't want to listen. Typical man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:58 PM
0

Don't worry, your precious time won't ever be wasted. No one, and I mean no one, is beneath you!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:50 PM
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It's a revenge fantasy and a fantasy doesn't have to make sense or he rational. If Debra didn't want his raggedy nerdy as then she's not going to want it now either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:41 PM
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No it's not an issue of attraction. I'm talking about judging others when your own moral failings show that you're no better. Height isn't a moral issue, you can prefer whatever height or have no preference. But if you're out there tomcatting all over town you have no place judging a woman who's also getting her's.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:34 PM
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Height isn't a moral issue, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:23 PM
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That's fine. Unless the man also has a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:41 PM
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Braindead take. Men and women are morally equal. You're a hypocrite it you don't follow the moral standards that you hold others to. Men are taller than women on average. It's almost like there's sexual dimorphism in nature OMG!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 07:09 AM
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It kinda does. Intimacy is tied to love and commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:30 AM
-1

False equivalence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:29 AM
0

I wasn't even talking about you personally dude. What's wrong with you? Ugh. See? This is why we can't even talk to men. You lot take everything so personal and become hysterical. Like children. You don't want to think. You just want to talk over people and create an argument. Please do cease replying to me if you're going to be like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:40 AM
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It foretells what they grow up into.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:36 AM
1

Yeah. Because I'm normal. And judging by your flair you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:13 AM
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Projecting your insecurities onto other people is the problem. There's nothing wrong with the women that we are talking about in these scenarios. They've done absolutely nothing wrong and the men in here getting angry at them are way off base. Just say you're insecure about your dick and don't want a woman with experience. That's fine. Don't claim that experience makes a woman a bad partner though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:12 AM
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Sex without intimacy is not fun for women of any age. Men like you just refuse to understand that. Women aren't your toys, they're human beings. And most 30 year old women aren't even on the market because they're married and taking care of their kids. They're not even thinking about you. Why are you putting them down?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 12:09 AM
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Once they start walking. Boys are violent and aggressive from the get-go, especially when they're in a group. Ever seen two little boys fist fighting before they can even talk? This aggression turns sexual at the time of puberty, and sometimes even earlier in some (think that perverted boy in The Sandlot).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:56 PM
1

Normal people don't work like that my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:51 PM
-1

In reality it's just men being insecure and projecting their phobia of other men's penises. It's hypocritical too as all men would sleep around if they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:50 PM
1

Nobody asked and I don't know why you're telling me this. "Fun". Gross. We all know what men mean by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:47 PM
0

Okay well as you guys always say: "pick better".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 10:46 PM
1

Oh my God who f'n cares? She's with you now and you're happy together. Stop letting your insecurities ruin it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:40 PM
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How long ago was this? She's probably married happily ever after right now. And I'm not saying that you should put up with it. I'm telling you what women think and do. No need to get it twisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:38 PM
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I don't think many men are doing that at all. More people are single today than ever. They're obviously not settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:32 PM
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It sounds like she wasn't over her ex yet and you might have been a potential rebound guy. This is extremely normal and it doesn't mean women hold onto that baggage forever. Most women will date a rebound guy to get their confidence and self-esteem back from a traumatic break-up. You are not in competition with her ex. You're not even a serious consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:28 PM
0

If you're a couple in love how is that worse treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 09:24 PM
-1

Men are so insecure it boggles my mind. If she married you then she obviously loves you so why even think about her ancient history? She's not thinking about it. Just be happy, jeesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:09 PM
-1

Oh my gosh, women don't think that way at all! Incidentally is that what men do? Do you compare the woman you're in a relationship with your past hook-ups? That's bloody repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:08 PM
1

That's so entitled and dehumanizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:01 PM
0

Most men want a partner who offers intelligence, humor, fun and an emotion connection. It's not that different from what women seek. Due to the nature of our reproduction men slso tend to want nurturing and fertile traits. Whereas women want providing traits. It's pretty a fair and even trade if you really look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:48 PM
1

That's how literally all human relationships are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:45 PM
1

My job is to shove chickens up your ass head first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:39 AM
-2

The popular theme in this sub is that men never turn women down for sex or true love because men are all poor little homeless puppies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:38 AM
1

Feminism isn't for everyone. I want there to be a hard stance on that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:33 AM
2

Any woman can have a child anytime they want so I don't know why you think that. Sex makes babies, remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:32 AM
1

I wasn't asking for help and you've been rude, personal and obnoxious. This is your warning to back off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:22 PM
0

You say that but most high body count women, even sex workers, get married. That's the thing about being able to het bodies easily, you can also get one who wants the same thing that you want in a relationship. It's a matter of odds. Good little girls who don't sleep around don't tend to get with men that do. These are two different classes of people. If you're a man who has sex with sluts, you're not going to get a good girl. Good girls don't want he-sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 09:10 PM
0

LOL that's the funniest joke in the manosphere. Men don't really care about a woman's past, at least not enough to outright reject them for it. You'll still try and have sex with a high body count woman. You all just use it as an excuse or bargaining chip to not respect her. And oh boy, when high body count women reject men you should see how angry these men get!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:52 PM
1

The men's rights movement should probably focus on that then. And going back to your previous comment, yes, men need to do that. Any women or feminists who want to support them should too. But FEMinism is not and has never been about advocating for anyone but FEMALES.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:50 PM
1

IDK younger women just have no chill and are mean to me for some reason. All my gal pals are 20+ years my senior. I've always gotten along better with guys and older people. And no, I do not want any of them to pick me LOL!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:30 PM
1

Yeah so I don't get the equivalence this guy is trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:26 PM
1

No, that was just commentary dude. You're trying to bully me and it's just making you look stupid. It's also against the rules of the sub FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:25 PM
1

Hm, where did I do that? I'm mostly making sarcastic commentary on the state of single millennial men. I never once said that I wanted one if them. Maybe you got me confused with a different user or you're just stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:13 PM
0

Sex is attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:11 PM
2

Most women get married well before they hit "the wall". Your revenge fantasy against all the lovely women who rejected you is just that, a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:58 PM
2

Men love ho's, and a leftover guy is certainly not going to turn one down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:57 PM
2

Why should people limit themselves because of their looks? Are you saying less attractive women are less deserving of a happy life than beautiful women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:56 PM
4

But wait, I thought women never get rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:54 PM
2

Mid women get attention from top men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:53 PM
0

Chads settle early because they're in high demand and there are a shortage of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:51 PM
0

I don't know any children of divorce who don't say that it was the first and most traumatic event in their lives and that it was the start of their depression problems. I am definitely anti-divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:39 PM
0

Where did I say that was my hobby? Source or STFU.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:37 PM
1

Apparently they're not human to the person I was talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:36 PM
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You're legitimizing video games, psychoanalysis of reality television and...ew...anime... for adults to watch and I'M the trashy one? Also you're the one asking for my numbers. How does that make ME the desperate one? What do you even want from me besides to harass me for attention? Did I trigger you real hard by insulting your nerdy little interests? Aw. Poor baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:35 PM
1

Where did I say that? Source please?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:29 PM
0

Geriatric? C'mon now, don't use words you don't even know the definition of. Also, reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:28 PM
1

A good man is a fully realized adult who has a good career, is smart and kind, is responsible, mature, somewhat stoic, who is constantly learning and practicing new skills which are practical and/or creative, and who is mentally and physically fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:24 PM
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Look it up. I'm not a teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:23 PM
0

Not really but so what if I was?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:21 PM
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I have a better idea: men, stop asking women for permission to do things so that you can escape culpability. We are not your mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 06:20 PM
2

Red seems to work the best to bag dates. Blue seems to be best to keep a partner. Overall I'd say that blue involves less struggle, strife and abuse. And it's less sexist. These days people are really sensitive about sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:42 PM
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Nope. It's not bullshit. And fuck you very much for saying so. You're disgusting for saying I'm not allowed to have preferences and that I should be forced to allow things into my life that I'm not okay with. How motherfucking dare you!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:36 PM
2

More dehumanizing garbage. You wouldn't know a good man, or woman, if they were standing in front of you. You think it's looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:34 PM
1

I wouldn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:31 PM
0

I don't push anything. I expect a man to be an adult and manage himself. It's not my job to be his goddamn mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:30 PM
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Not for me they aren't. And I'm allowed to have that standard. So what are your standards? Do you even have any? Tell us what they are so I can shit all over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:29 PM
0

I don't call good men that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:28 PM
-1

Psychologists.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:28 PM
-1

All women are high quality, unless they're addicts, mentally ill or have other severe issues you should avoid. Women have what men want. You want sex and to continue your genetic line right? Unless you can afford to pay for a surrogate you need to get a partner. Women on the other hand don't need men. Sure, we get lonely sometimes and would like to have one around. But sperm is cheap. Dirt cheap. And men are a lot of trouble. A man needs to add more to a woman's life than he subtracts she's bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:27 PM
1

Fixing the house, working out, writing, volunteering.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:18 PM
1

"My hobby of hiking in the woods isn't better than my hobby of playing videogames." It is to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:11 PM
0

Good is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:10 PM
3

It's due to "women's careers" being underpaid and undervalued.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:53 PM
2

Sounds like you're not really their friend then. Why don't you leave these women alone if you have no connection?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:52 PM
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Excuse me but where did I claim to be a feminist? I expect men to be men. Little boys playing with toys are not allowed in my house. BTW my standards and preferences don't concern you, little boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:49 PM
2

Okay. The girl is offering attention and validation to her male friend also. That's what friends are for. I don't see how that's one-sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:42 PM
1

Some women do. Most don't. But it doesn't matter. You are not the judge of what a good match is for anyone but yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:41 PM
1

I would say that rating people on a scale is dumb and dehumanizing. I'm not a cut of meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:40 PM
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Well they're not going to do it in my household. Videogames and toys are banned here. I want an adult as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:39 PM
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I'm not fat or a single mother, and neither are many of the women who are complaining. We worked hard on our education and tried dating during our youth, but it didn't work out. Speaking from experience most young men my age when I was in college were like little boys to me. The mature ones were all spoken for. Face it there are just fewer good quality men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:38 PM
-1

Well, they are. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 06:34 PM
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That's my age group. I don't think men who waste hours indoors playing with toys are a good choice in a mate. Men are supposed to live, work and recreate outdoors.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:43 PM
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That'll not even what I said. I said she likes his personality. What I think about him doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:27 PM
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Well, in my age group at least it's very difficult to find good men. But I already know where the good men are: they are taken. What's left for me? Fat, underemployed losers who play video games and have baby mommas. It's grim out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:11 PM
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To me he is but she might not think so, and she's the one dating him and not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:08 PM
-2

Who is saying that they're pieces of shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 05:05 PM
4

These manosphere guys say misogynistic things. If they don't want people to think they're misogynists, perhaps they should stop that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:52 PM
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To put it succinctly young women who want children some day should probably not waste time on flings with older men. Older men don't take young women seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:49 PM
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Looks and money just get you in the door, personality makes them keep you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:42 PM
3

Who specifically is saying that women have no sense of sexual attraction? They sound full of sht and there are a lot of female writers, feminists and poets who would beg to differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:40 PM
1

I'm pretty sure we have laws against that already.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:31 PM
1

Yep. And you can either accept that or f off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:31 PM
2

I know my intent and I've clarified what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:02 AM
1

Millennial.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 01:28 AM
1

Feminists want equal rights and fair treatment FOR WOMEN. What part of this don't you understand? For the last time I haven't said one god-damned word about discriminatory hiring. If you keep calling me names, lying about what I said and doing the personal attacks I guess I'll have to report you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:23 AM
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No, it's narcissism to want everything to be about you. You seem to think feminists are wrong for not fighting for men's issues. Well what in the hell entitles men like you to the labor of these activists? You don't demand others do things for you. You get on it and do the work yourself. And I don't know what you're even talking about with the teachers thing. Do I look like I work for the schools and hire teachers? It's like you're having a come with yourself and ignoring what I'm saying. I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 12:12 AM
1

Why don't you tell them yourself? I really don't care either way. I just think male narcissism and always wanting every social movement to include them is cute in a sort of pathetic way. What are you so pissed off about anyway? Nobody here is "misandrists" and nobody is gaslighting you. Get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:29 PM
2

Because I say it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:23 PM
1

Just staying single is a better option than being treated like low hanging fruit.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 10:49 PM
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It's not feminism's job to help men. You know what feminism is right? Hint: it's in the name. Maybe instead of whining about feminism and women, men should tackle their own issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:11 PM
3

I'm not minimizing anything. OP must have had a bad childhood or something because I literally never see this outside of shitty families. I guarantee you don't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:10 PM
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Treating a woman like what you see in porn is good if you want to get arrested and put on the registry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:55 PM
1

That's a very male mentality. Women don't typically have multiple partners because they can. That's something a man would do. These women are commitment shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:43 PM
1

Most of the men my age that I know are either doing this or not dating at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:39 PM
1

Yep. Then they get mad when women turn it around on them and do the same thing to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:38 PM
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Sexual assault against women wasn't always talen seriously as it is today. Originally it was a property issue. Then women started protesting and demanding rights. Men haven't caught up. Rape against males isn't treated seriously, mostly by men. They need to work on this because no one is going to do it for them. And I don't know what you're talking about. Sexist beliefs? Okay. Biology is sexist I guess. Men are far more likely to sexually assault people than women are. That's just reality and pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:34 PM
1

I wish someone would explain what these "resources" are. Are guys just giving their female friends free shit all the time? I've never heard of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:31 PM
1

What are these "resources" that women are "extracting" from their male friends? I've only ever had friendships where things were fair and mutual. Like, I'll buy us both lunch this time and he'll cover us next time, and things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:30 PM
-4

Not getting laid never hurt anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:27 PM
-5

Yes, sex does imply commitment. It's a bonding act at the very least and it results in having children. You'd have to be some sort of sociopath to get that intimate with someone who you don't even give a flip about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:26 PM
5

Um, they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:19 PM
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I don't see any contradiction here. Romance grows from friendships sometimes. If it doesn't, that doesn't mean you did anything wrong. Much like my musical career, it simply didn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:17 PM
3

I know men who divorced their wives so that they wouldn't have to deal with their child with special needs. People are just lazy and selfish dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:15 PM
8

Engineering, as well as all "male professions" are seen as more valuable and prestigious, and are paid better too. "Women's jobs" are all seen as a step downwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:13 PM
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First of all women do that way less often. Second, when they do, grown men treat it like a joke and say "Where were these horny teachers when I was in school?".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:11 PM
5

Fewer men are interested in teaching kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:08 PM
4

We need to fix how pedophiles are dealt with so that they can't get access to children, for starters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 08:01 PM
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The molestors ruined it for everyone. They ruined Boy Scouts too. Men created this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:59 PM
3

I don't think this is very common and it's a type of child abuse. Daughters get their version of it too. Some people just suck as parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:57 PM
1

Women are not responsible for men's feelings or behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 09:23 AM
0

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:34 AM
2

Sex mostly. Sometimes money and a roof over their heads that they don't have to contribute to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:23 AM
2

The manosphere is obsessed with women. All they do is talk about women. And most of it is negative, if not outright dehumanizing and terroristic. If men simply wanted to be left alone I'm positive every woman alive would be fine with that. But manosphere men don't want that. They still want to take things from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:06 AM
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They weren't drunk and sad enough I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:02 AM
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Gay men love men. All men. Straight women love only the men they're intimately acquainted with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:01 AM
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That's what they were "looking for" but at last call they leave the bar with any old dog who talks nice to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:46 PM
3

Yes they do. All the time. What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:45 PM
1

It says men and women are equally victimized, not that equal numbers of men and women are rapists. Jesus Christ dude. I'm losing brain cells from this conversation and I'm going to block your ass now before I say something against the sub's rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:43 PM
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All rapists are men, per the definition of the word. Repeating falsehoods doesn't make them true dude. I've already pointed out that you didn't read the article or you're lying about what they said. Now shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:02 PM
1

I want you to answer the question. Are men responsible for who they have sex with or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:01 PM
1

Men should also stop raping men. We agree on that. There would be no rape if men stopped raping. That's the part you're refusing to accept. I'm telling men to do better. You're whining because you can't seem to not take it as a personal attack. You are why women choose the bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:12 AM
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I said that that most men don't have hostile sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:10 AM
1

So men aren't adults with agency? Cool. Maybe they shouldn't have rights then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:08 AM
1

That was in response to the comment saying it was only the woman's responsibility. It takes two to tango.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:08 AM
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Others are free to limit themselves if they want to. But you are not going to tell me, or anybody else, who we're allowed to date or to love. Understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:07 AM
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I've spent years trying to online date and every man who messaged me, went out with me or even dated me for a time just wanted sex and when they found out they weren't going to get it they split. I specifically put in my bio that I wanted something more serious but they all ignored it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:06 AM
1

The other user is trying to insinuate that all women want male models, not that model-looking guys get matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:03 AM
1

Hello? Both parties have to consent. I think I said some along those lines already.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:02 AM
0

And that's perfectly justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:43 AM
1

There are no leagues. And it sounds more like you're upset that some fat women insulted you. Why even care what they think? What anybody thinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:42 AM
1

That's a utterly gross comment and I'll thank you to never make one like that again towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:40 AM
1

It's not slander. And I'm not interested in equality. I'm interested in making the world better for women and children. Perhaps that could mean neutering men or selective abortion of male fetus's IDK but when they come at me with misogynistic lies and b.s. like you I tend more towards extreme solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:55 PM
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No, misogyny is hate. Hate is not benevolent. Misogynists definitely don't view women as being higher or better, they view women as trash. I don't think you're understanding what I'm saying and maybe you're very young or not from a culture where chivalry is the norm. In the real world (not online) mist men are benevolently sexist, though not misogynistic. The point of this conversation is that the women who get with misogynistic men are dumb. They have daddy issues and don't make smart decisions…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:06 PM
-1

That's why you need to find the one(s) that don't see you that way. Learning to do this is a skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:02 PM
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You don't even read your own sources. I don't care about solving any problems. I'm not the one causing them. And your pathetic attempts to lie about crime stats in order to make women look bad isn't helping anything either. You are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 11:01 PM
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Women are not desperate and needy like that. Maybe young girls with bad self-esteem are, before they learn that they can get what they want in a relationship and don't have to beg for crumbs. Men and boys beg for crumbs. They have no pride whatsoever. LOL, who's throwing a tantrum here? Maybe you replied to the wrong person because it's not me. Bye though I guess. This is a debate sub and participation is voluntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:52 PM
5

Women are not bi with their friends. Good grief guys stop watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:30 PM
1

Why are you comparing your attractiveness to that of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:05 PM
1

Men are victims of other men, not women. Until men stop perpetrating 99% of the violence, the war will continue. I teach my kids to be careful around all strangers but men pose a unique danger and it must be addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:00 PM
1

You tell me. Apparently you think sex is bad. Why would a man ask for sex if he's not supposed to be having it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:57 PM
1

Men have no place judging women for a problem that men themselves caused is my point. It's like, if you view sex as a bad thing then why are you trying to have it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:54 PM
1

Attractive people get more attention. So what? How does that prove that you're a consolation prize if you still got picked? Obviously whoever chose you finds you attractive enough. So why be insecure about it? Your attitude seems kinda sociopathic to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:52 PM
1

That's not common at all. Fancy restaurants are fir anniversaries and special occasions, not courting. Boy, you must be rich or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:48 PM
1

Groupies are those girls that will suck the entire band's dicks because they're obsessed, not because the band members are handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:46 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:43 PM
0

A benevolently sexist man might pick something up for me if I dropped it, or hold doors open for me. He's not a misogynistic douche. Misogyny means you hate women. Nobody likes hateful negative people, unless they themes have issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:40 PM
0

They think the majority of women are Stacies apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:38 PM
0

Part of social skills is figuring out who likes you, who might give you a chance, and who definitely won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:37 PM
1

You are going off in a completely different direction than what I'm saying. We're talking about men blaming women for having high body counts when men are the ones who give women body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:46 PM
1

How old are you? 13? Among grown-up it's considered inappropriate to buy expensive things for people, especially someone who's not an intimate partner or friend. Most people will not accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:44 PM
1

It's also up to the man to not ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:42 PM
2

The point is men think that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:42 PM
1

They have certain women throwing themselves at them, not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:41 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:41 PM
3

Women are telling you that's wrong and you refuse to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:41 PM
1

Women here ARE talking and the guys are excusing or denying what they're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:40 PM
2

I've heard men, lots of men in fact, call Marilyn Monroe fat. You guys are just as picky as women, you just justify it by moving goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:38 PM
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The men there are just trying to get their dicks wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:36 PM
2

It's almost like beauty is subjective or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:35 PM
1

No, the apps use algorithms just like social media. They push the shit in your face that sells views, whether or not it's what you want or gets negative reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:34 PM
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How does that make their opinions any less valid?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:32 PM
1

Actually we do change that. The % of the female population who uses dating apps is in the single digits. Most are just on there for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:31 PM
2

Yeah because we don't. Men here think women are a monolith. They see a woman with a certain type of guy and think we all want that. It's bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:30 PM
1

Men and women both agree to have sex (unless it's SA).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:25 PM
5

Those women are dumb then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:24 PM
3

He's the one who got to keep her though so he wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:23 PM
0

Women date misogynistic douchebags if these specific women are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:21 PM
1

You think that these traits aren't glaringly obvious shortly after you meet and start talking to a guy? Misogynists and weirdos aren't shy about it. They say and do f'd up things on the first date, sometimes even before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:20 PM
1

Only a man would say something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:18 PM
1

So, men can't say no? Are you guys sex robots or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:17 PM
1

I'm not excusing it I'm saying men are also guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:16 PM
1

I haven't seen or heard of it but if it has happened to you then that sucks and I'm not denying your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:16 PM
1

It's also the man's choice to sleep with her. He is adding to it. Men could just pick one woman to have sex with for the rest of their lives, but instead most try and get as many women as they can. Then they have the nerve to blame women for having body counts. It's insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:15 PM
1

Every cultural institution, law and religion throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:13 PM
1

If someone isn't good enough to potentially marry and have babies with then he shouldn't have sex with them. Men seem to think that women and sex exist for their pleasure. And yes, I 100% blame them for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:12 PM
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Actually I do. I can dictate whatever I want. People do all sorts of awful and stupid things all the time and we all have the right to call it out. Sex is for reproduction mainly, but it's also for pair bonding. Abusing it for entertainment is considered immoral in pretty much every culture and religion throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:09 PM
1

No, sleeping with someone isn't leaving them alone. Maybe you means something different like masturbating to women in secret or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:07 PM
1

They're doing their own thing without the risk of pregnancy so IDGAF about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:05 PM
1

I highly doubt that or you'd be too busy to be shitposting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:04 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:04 PM
1

Women don't use men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:04 PM
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On top of all the other things that women must do, we must "filter" men because they can't even do that for themselves. Men will happily waste a woman's time for years and years. And don't think marrying them will make a difference. Men with leave their wives of 12 years who put them through medical school to run off with their mistress. They're only as loyal as their options, and they see women as a resource. Once they've gotten all they want they move on to the next thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:02 PM
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If you call attractive young women privileged cunts, then they're justified in calling you subhuman, because you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:52 PM
2

20 year old women are massive pains in the butt. Look. But don't touch
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:46 PM
0

So, women are having sex with themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:33 PM
0

So does drinking antifreeze until it kills you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:32 PM
5

It's called "consequences". If you truly love someone, you don't let them get away with shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:22 PM
1

I think all men are trash including the bf's and husbands. They just haven't revealed it yet. Sooner or later they do. All of them do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:20 PM
4

You might want to do some self-reflecting. If everyone you get with "isn't worthy" of a relationship, the common denominator is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:14 PM
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Women don't push away good men. Good men get snatched up and hitched early, leaving a sea of crap for most of the female gender to wade through. Most of us don't know how to deal with good men, because we've never met one. I envy those lucky girls with good fathers who model what it's supposed to look like for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:11 PM
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Accountability. I don't think that word means what you think it means. Otherwise you wouldn't be blaming women for men's actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:09 PM
2

Who makes women sluts? Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:07 PM
11

The problem is many men are psychopaths who use women, waste their time and give them trauma and high body counts. Men are the problem. You think you don't know this but you actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:07 PM
5

Sex is supposed to be in committed loving relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:06 PM
0

Yeah because unless you're a psychopath it makes no sense to just want sex and no connection with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:05 PM
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If I don't add value to a man's life then reason follows that he should leave me completely alone. That is the normal thing for a human being to do. Instead of blaming women for getting used, men should try being human.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:04 PM
1

K well you must have not listened in class that's all I gotta say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:55 PM
2

Those people sound boring without much going on. Dating services have always existed, they're just a lot more convenient nowadays so more people use them. But most relationships, platonic or romantic, are still started in third spaces. You have to actually be an interesting and social person because no app is going to do the work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:53 PM
1

Invisible eyelashes, thin uneven eyebrows, dark eye circles, spots, pale lips, and uneven complexion will never be considered attractive by men. That's why makeup was invented in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:18 AM
1

That's not basic psychology. Maybe learn something about the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:14 AM
4

Maybe we're not meant to have this knowledge, but I'm glad that we do. Women's lives are being saved at this moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:00 AM
1

Women have never wanted to be approached by most men. That's never changed and it's not any worse now. If women don't like you and your appearance sucks, improve it. That's all you can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:59 AM
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If you're not a woman you don't have experience of what a woman's ego is like. Do you have Asperger's by chance? They tend to make very firm opinions about what other people are thinking, and don't listen even when told that they're wrong. You don't seem able to even consider that you might be wrong. Inflexible thinking is very common with your disorder, so that's why I'm asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:53 AM
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It's gotten to the point that young women shouldn't date anyone. Men their age are too immature, and older men are predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:50 AM
1

Yes it matters. Unless you have some experience on the matter you're just making shit up. I'm not interested in convincing you of anything, I am telling you to shut up because you sound stupid and childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:37 AM
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It's the men who can't handle it. I've explained this more than once already. Now stop blowing up my inbox. This is your only warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:36 AM
1

Yes, because men file more and/or abuse these women so they end up filing. Men's insecurity about not being the breadwinner makes them unfit partners in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:34 AM
1

Cool.That has nothing to do with the topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:33 AM
1

Cool. That has nothing to do with my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:32 AM
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Tiktok is rage bait. I don't know why that's not obvious to everyone at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:12 AM
1

Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:07 AM
1

Good for them I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:07 AM
1

Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:06 AM
1

No, most spousal abuse in the context I'm talking about is from the husband. The study was very specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:55 PM
2

No idea what you're talking about. I didn't say anything anti-man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:54 PM
1

It's called a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:52 PM
0

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:55 PM
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You don't get an ego boost from something you're indifferent towards. And I don't think I've ever heard of an older woman, past or present complaining that men don't bother her anymore. She's already been there and done that, and now just want to enjoy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:53 PM
0

Did you miss the abuse part or are you just gonna ignore it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:52 PM
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I don't know why men worry about women's egos so much. Yes, we are indifferent to you. Your approaches are a mere annoyance. It does nothing for our egos either way and frankly we'd appreciate being left alone. The guys who put women on a pedestal are creepy at best, dangerous at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:15 PM
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Correct. It's actually more a problem for men. Statistically men are more likely to abuse his wife of she earns more, and these marriages are more likely to end in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:11 PM
4

Maybe don't partner up with someone who hates you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:10 PM
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As the comedian Red Green used to say "If the women don't find you handsome, they should at least find you handy". Have you not seen all the ugly couples out there? Love is blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:00 PM
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I don't think most women care about money or status, as long as the guy has a good job and can support them when they have children. But of course, marrying up does make her life more comfortable. I think the real question us why are most men unwilling to marry a roman who earns more than them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:53 PM
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So what's your point here? You want to talk roughly and sexually to women online and they're just supposed to accept it because they like certain things in the bedroom? That it's okay to be a sexist pig because that's stereotypically "conservative"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 05:47 PM
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