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yea dis true. Part of oneitis is a delusional fantasy about a sexually exclusive the one. What you described is a reality for many girls, which once you realize its hard to fixate and romance about a girl who isnt even exclusive to you or is keeping her options open
/r/seduction13/07/24 11:41 AM
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Oneitis is your brain believing that this particular girl is a catch for you in the context of your current options. And your brain calculates into your current options your past abilities, or successes of the quality and quantity of girls you have proven to be able to get. So if you have oneitis you cannot let go of or have disproportionate feelings for, your brain is telling you I believe this girl is higher quality than what you can usually get YET there seems to be a unique opportunity to ge…
/r/seduction13/07/24 11:39 AM
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You first paragraph is wrong. I'd even go as far as to say its dogmatic. There are things that can cause a woman to become attracted, or realize attraction overtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:15 PM
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big time. you don't just need to ask people online who have gotten laid, you NEED to find people who ARE getting laid from cold approach and get around them. I dare to guarantee you that without winging with them, and having them push you and give you feedback you probably won't get laid from cold approach, or you'll only get lucky here and there.
/r/seduction24/10/22 08:32 PM
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yea after 3000 approaches i must have no idea lol
/r/seduction26/09/22 03:07 PM
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Chasing is desperation, persisting is confident insistence, & strategy. The first comes from weakness, the second from strength.
/r/seduction21/08/22 02:08 PM
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obviously we shouldn't generalize. But the main point that supports it is this: Women don't have experience picking up women, AS a man...
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 02:50 PM
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Don't worry. Just like extreme feminism is very loud and obnoxious, it doesn't really affect most people's day to day life (unless you pay a lot of attention to it and have a bias for noticing it).Likewise, one extreme guy like Andrew Tate will not make all that much of a difference in people's day to day life.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 10:07 PM
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Hey bro I'm curious, why do you say you're mad at spending time on rsd stuff in your 20s?
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:40 PM
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Gotta love RSD victims rationalizing their hero's shitty product.
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:39 PM
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"Personally sitting In my room and crying works for me the most" This seems funny/sarcastic, yet a perfect illustration of why cold approach is a horrible remedy. These are the kind of guys dating advice attracts: In horrible situations, alone, in their room. In what world is talking to strangers on the street healthy or even effective for that? Go to an event for god sake with friends, not street "game".
/r/seduction08/07/22 07:48 PM
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Congrats. Its still not for everyone or even most people :)
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:04 PM
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That depends it, is better now than it used to be. Nowadays 1 in 3 -5 girls is down for an instant date or a long meaningful interactions
/r/seduction08/07/22 02:38 PM
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Sure bro. Keep your delusions.
/r/seduction08/07/22 11:35 AM
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Also... does anyone really start from square one? Not sure I believe that. Most people have at least someone - some friends, family, cousings, work colleagues, etc. One cool tip is: Say yes to all social invitations no matter what it is.
/r/seduction08/07/22 03:15 AM
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Lol the answer is contained within my post. Extracurricular activity, meetup groups, work, events, art shows, wine tasting, etc. Then meet one person who's really social who will create a ripple effect to meeting many others
/r/seduction08/07/22 03:12 AM
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lol
/r/seduction07/07/22 11:39 PM
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it is ridiculous to recommend the hardest way to do it, for someone who just wants to improve in general
/r/seduction07/07/22 11:39 PM
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Yea interesting
/r/seduction07/07/22 11:28 PM
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What i meant in 0-100, is speaking to strangers who you don't know AND on top trying to strike off a romance with them is literally the hardest level. You're doing form shy and anxious thrown into the cold deep waters.
/r/seduction07/07/22 11:09 PM
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Social hobbies aren't the only options. Parties and events work too.
/r/seduction07/07/22 11:09 PM
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Yes, anyone can learn to do cold approach. But remember the point of my post - you're struggling in dating, lack some confidence and don't know how to flirt. There is NO reason you would have to go on the street approaching strangers to fix that. So many better, less painful opportunities to do so. Im beyond 3000 approaches now, and looking back it is unnecessary if you just want basic dating handled.
/r/seduction07/07/22 11:06 PM
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Sure. Cold Approach daygame is for introverted-leaning guys who are confident, and want to get laid a lot, if you ask me.
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:53 PM
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the difference is at warm environments you'll be encouraged to be more social and have a greater chance for lasting relationships/connection, vs in a cold environment you're sorta shifting through one stranger after another until you manage to convince one to talk to you.
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:51 PM
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Yea, you are right. It can actually set them back. Strangers on the street will be far more unfriendly to you than warm environments. If a decently confident guys starts daygaming, he can easily get the impression girls hate him.
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:34 PM
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If you've really assessed your situation and came to the conclusion cold approach will be the best solution for you, more power to you. But this doesn't mean daygame cold approach should be pitched as the #1 solution to a socially awkward, anxious guys dating problems (because it isn't).
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:32 PM
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Yep, agreed. It's extremely damaging especially for low self esteem. But the worst part is its totally unnecessary.
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:19 PM
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Lol. Don't delude yourself, it's not the easiest way to meet women. Most guys are riddled with approach anxiety.
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:18 PM
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You can meet a lot of women through social hobbies. And if you can't, the problem is deeper and in your socialization, something daygame might not fix.
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:20 PM
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Notice my post is about daygame being the primary "go to" solution for dating problems. I didn't say it doesn't work, I said it shouldn't be marketed as some manna for social anxiety and wanting more girls. Because it is hard and ineffective for most guys.
/r/seduction07/07/22 07:12 PM
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My post isn't really about how to do it and when you should do it. Rather it is about pitching "day game" as the primary solution to dating/social problems, which I find ridiculous and even harmful.
/r/seduction07/07/22 06:30 PM
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Yea basically. There are a few "diamonds" for whom it actually works, but they are extremely rare, and these super rare results are blown out of proportion. The 0.1% who are really good, are shown to the rest of the guys as what they "could" be if they did day game. And that's not even mentioning the sheer amount of work and time it took for the few good ones to get there.
/r/seduction07/07/22 06:13 PM
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Approaching people at a party is expected and often received well, approaching people on the street is not, and unless done well in a suave way, that's also justified, you'll be scrambling to get a convo going. The difference between learning in warm environments and cold, is that in warm environments, yea the first few times may be scary but the overwhelming positive reactions will teach your mind fast its cool to be social. Vs in cold approach, you'll often receive "cold" responses and no matt…
/r/seduction07/07/22 05:55 PM
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There are definitely places with girls. But you have to start finding and exploring. Sitting alone at home won't get you there.
/r/seduction06/07/22 10:13 AM
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Then again, cold approach can be an option, its just literally the hardest, esp. when you have no base social circle.
/r/seduction05/07/22 02:46 PM
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Yea... apps aren't bad. You need to find communities you can somehow access where you're constantly meeting people, or find some friends who can get you into them.
/r/seduction05/07/22 02:46 PM
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I can recommend extra curricular activities where there are other people. Or events. Clubs. Art Shows. Or whatever you're interested in. You can even make friends with just one social person, who will invite you to many things and it will have the ripple effect of you meeting more people who can give you more social opportunities. The point is, being an introvert, sitting in your room all day, cold approach is not the best solution by any means. You CAN do it if you want, but beware you're talki…
/r/seduction02/07/22 10:06 PM
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Cold Approach is absolutely not the best way of meeting women. In fact, it is one of the hardest ways. The best way of meeting women is in a warm environment. Cold Approach, if done well, can give you more options - but it is hard, not fun, and often doesn't work for many guys. Its just been blown out of proportion by guys who market it and have businesses in it. But in terms of convenience and naturalness, I'd say it is one of the hardest. Having been an introverted person similar to you with s…
/r/seduction02/07/22 09:23 PM
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I agree - except here I am talking about guys who SPECIFICALLY have trouble getting girls. For those guys - their psychological problems manifested in not feeling like they deserve girls. So it isn't so much that having psychological / personality issues doesn't get you girls, as much as the guys who don't get those girls, that's how it manifests.
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:47 PM
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In other words, if its on, its on, don't overcomplicated and just go. Yes, it can be as simple as just asking if she wants to come back to your place.
/r/seduction19/06/22 09:36 PM
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He makes a good point, I am glad he posted this. Guys don't realize often they need to remove things that are getting in their way of getting with girls, rather than needing to add something fancy.
/r/seduction19/06/22 09:35 PM
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What you need to understand, is often guys have trouble with girls because they have an underlying personality problem (psychologically), which often has a common theme of low self worth. One feature of this is not feeling like they deserve girls - and a manifestation of this (that happens subconsciously) is guys resonate with theories that confirm their underlying belief that they don't deserve girls, and that they aren't to supposed to be with them, SUCH as "an escalation latter" or needing mo…
/r/seduction19/06/22 09:33 PM
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I follow John Anthony, Gabriel Grey (social hacker), and Travelbum productions. Yea, i guess in the past they offered more practical advice... His satanic/angelic high vibration energy is out of place. it won't get you laid that's for sure...
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:28 PM
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I follow John Anthony, Gabriel Grey (social hacker), and Travelbum productions. Yea, i guess in the past they offered more practical advice... His satanic/angelic high vibration energy is out of place. it won't get you laid that's for sure...
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:28 PM
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I follow John Anthony, Gabriel Grey (social hacker), and Travelbum productions. Yea, i guess in the past they offered more practical advice... His satanic/angelic high vibration energy is out of place. it won't get you laid that's for sure...
/r/seduction05/04/22 04:28 PM
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Owen cook is a fucking retard whose Freetours are just a playground for him to babble and improvise his unorganized, pseudo-scientific, half-spiritual, half-self development speculative bullshit, to then sell you on information products/programs. If you know the slightest thing about science, and the slightest thing about cult leader tactics, his "seeing through people's pupils" should be a GIANT red flag. (No, he cannot see it). It is either his attempt to establish authority through intimidati…
/r/seduction02/04/22 02:44 PM
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I agree, he said: "my city most of girls seems way not open they have the wrong mindset . Feel suspicious" This is definitely a bad mindset. If you're going into an interaction thinking you are suspicious and the girl isn't open, you are bound to evoke that behavior out of the girl as your body-language will invite that response. They way you go in will reflect that mindset in you, and you'll create a situation where the interaction resembles such thinking.
/r/seduction07/03/22 08:11 PM
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overcoming last minute resistance DOES NOT mean forcing sex on a woman. It means playing your cards in a way that she CONSENTS in spite of having had last minute resistance. Sometimes you cannot overcome that last minute resistance, so you say bye and don't sleep with the girl. You're clearly imagining "overcoming" last minute resistance means forcing it, when nothing could be further from the truth. Overcoming it means doing a couple things, switching topics, going to the couch whatever, perhap…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/22 03:28 PM
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Well remember when all the shit is going down emotionally it isn't as easy to hold your cool then when having a 10,000ft view being outside the situation.
/r/seduction07/01/22 11:36 AM
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Ask them to give you a guarantee for results, else a refund. If they refuse, you know what you need to know. They want you to bear all the responsibility, while they get none of it except the nice couple thousand, with which they can use to enjoy leisure through travel.
/r/seduction31/12/21 01:00 AM
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You can think it is BS but I've met them. They exist, but they don't advertise on their head. Plus these guys usually have nothing to prove, and only start engaging with you if you somehow get into their inner circle or happen to wing with them. I agree with you that most PUAs are scammers by the way, and those online DO have those terrible stats of 1 girls in every 50 or 100. That's because they aren't actually skilled seducers, but they're internet marketers who are self proclaimed experts.
/r/seduction27/12/21 10:04 PM
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"A photo with a girl doesnt mean thats your gf. Youre gonna need better proof." 2 photos with the girl, in one clearly with her, both in two different locations. Also other sources confirm that's his chick. His infields don't mean jack - 1 he never has infields go beyond the cab pull, which means you don't even know if he actually closed - 2 it is VERY easy to make an infield look good through a camera, especially when you can't see the girls face. Regarding JA, I agree that he is a wreck, and p…
/r/seduction08/12/21 07:18 PM
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I am aware of the video you're talking about regarding John Anthony. I am not sure myself about whether he really gets that many girls. I am not concerned with that! John Anthony doesn't have to be good with girls, or even fully honest for that matter, for him to still have enough information to expose Todd's personal life. The fact that John Anthony sucks doesn't invalidate the fact that Todd's girlfriend is sub-par and therefore does not indicate world class seduction skills.
/r/seduction06/12/21 07:41 PM
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Look. Those are two pictures of Todd with his ugly wife/girlfriend. I don't believe it because John Anthony says it - it is on the damn picture. If you would like to keep believing that Todd has some world class game and he's an expert in pickup, keep deluding yourself. If you ask me, if Todd really lived in the "abundance" he claims, having the "sex life of a king" and truly having walked away from girls we'd be "shocked" to know he walked away from cause they were so hot and he had such high s…
/r/seduction06/12/21 10:13 AM
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I linked it in your other reply
/r/seduction06/12/21 12:00 AM
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Take a look here: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=c-mVZjcov-0
/r/seduction06/12/21 12:00 AM
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5_7pickup Dude wake TF up... have you seen what Todd' girlfriend/wife looks like? Do you honest to God think a guy after 20 years in game, who is really good and has really particular standards would ever be with a girl like that? Wake up.
/r/seduction01/12/21 01:59 PM
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Well about all the people saying he is the "best" - Those are guys who are drawn to PUA material suggesting that: ​ - They don't have much success to begin with, hence the need to seek out PUA - With not much success they don't have much reference experience, which means they don't have discernment in knowing what is realistic and what is likely to work ​ - Since they're focusing on how he looks on camera, and how "good" his game sounds, they're NOT focusing on actual results - much less Todd's …
/r/seduction01/12/21 01:58 PM
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If you are the best pick-up artist out there and you have spectacular charisma, if you approach 100 attractive women, you might get 30 phone numbers. AT BEST. From those 30 numbers, expect about half of them to actually get a convo with you, so 15. If you're also excellent at text game, maybe you can meet up with 6 or 7 of these potentials for a drink or coffee. Expect half of them to see you again and maybe one of them to sleep with you on the first date. So potentially, out of every 100 women,…
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:01 AM
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You've already said everything we need to know: ​ "I was feeling real fucked back then, for a lot of time, thinking what could have, might have been if this and that" "idealizing her even though I was not seeing her obviously" "my mind... she is the one for me" ​ But the highlight of it all: "in my current period there Isn't any particular girl, and that's why my brain is playing games with me" ​ You've highlighted it yourself: You have a void in your life that is painful (lack of girls), and yo…
/r/seduction13/09/21 03:54 PM
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View another person's actions as a reflection of themselves, not you Develop a strong identity and self image that is independent from others' reactions Reframe "rejection" to being dismissed, or better, redirected. These are literally no less accurate than the first term, and go easy on your psychology Realise that the "rejector" is limited as a human. The rejection comes from momentary emotions, combined with individual preferences, and other environmental influences. In other words, the rejec…
/r/seduction21/05/21 04:11 PM
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Here is a realistic answer: Get a guy who's experienced to sit in next to your date an listen in (preferably someone in pickup who gets good results consistently). Through a post online, there's just SO many unknowns about you, an answer might be totally mis-calibrated for your specific situation. You may be doing some weird shit that would be obvious to an outside eye seeing you live, but that we can't grasp without knowing you and seeing you socialise in real-time. It may be that you're just a…
/r/seduction02/05/21 09:43 PM
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I also agree Owen is out of touch with reality. This is for the reason that when he started game he was a broken shy nerd, with likely atrociously low self esteem, and I believe his game was built on compensating for that. He also is in an industry with no barrier to entry where you can claim anything. This in addition to the fact that he believes in shit like energy and the secret, where you ignore negative info / input so you don't 'feed it' (perfect recipe for self delusion). Owen's flashy in…
/r/seduction03/04/21 08:16 PM
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his wife is a 6 - 6.5 (at best). This is from a guy who direct quote said "you guys would be shocked at the type of women I've walked away from" because they didn't meet exactly his standards. How can you expect a guy to teach you to get stunners, if he doesn't even get them himself?
/r/seduction03/04/21 08:09 PM
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Those aren't "pickup" videos, those are trauma release transformation mastery videos.
/r/seduction25/10/20 11:29 AM
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"Manipulation" Lol. Most human behaviour is manipulative, including shit you do left and right in your everyday life. Authenticity in in of itself wont do shit for you in game, which is why "natural game" has been an utter failure - seen from the non results people get.
/r/seduction23/10/20 12:50 PM
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You can pretty much bet she is Bi, and does threesomes with Julien with other girls. So 'married' in that context is certainly different than Joe and Sally getting married, then getting overweight, being monogamous, and stopping having sex after 3-4 years completely...
/r/seduction04/10/19 10:16 AM
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