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How are you? Have you left the country yet
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:38 PM
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Contact your telco..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:19 AM
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Without watching the clip I love seeing judge jewdy abuse people
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:10 AM
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Get a new one unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:08 AM
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Thats how I feel about pet birds as well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:07 AM
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You still appreciate it because you have low self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 12:08 AM
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Ig it depends what kind of aussie you are. Im ethnic so dont really hang around those kind of aussies
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:38 PM
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His looks are not the thing stopping him from getting dates. Maybe a better first photo would help him get more matches though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:28 PM
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Things done “on paper” is one thing but for example the guys star wars prompt sucks. So on paper he is being witty or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:26 PM
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And how often is someone attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:20 PM
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Do the men that complain about paying even go on dates in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:19 PM
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I havent seen it from start to end in one sitting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:18 PM
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Yeah that white guy footy player look is not something I rate but it doesn’t really matter to me anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 11:11 PM
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As an aussie that seedy moustache look is yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 08:46 AM
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God if I ever got divorced how would I stop reverting to an incel mindset when trying to date and stop being neurotic about bodycount mismatch
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:27 PM
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What did you find helpful from the psychology subs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:15 PM
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And why cant you now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:04 PM
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I think this would be me if I was single
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:12 AM
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Who gives a shit about payments. So sick of this argument. Just pay for dates
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:27 AM
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I met a woman who was spontaneous and sexually forward. They’re out there and you might enjoy it better
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:01 PM
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I have a daughter and now want a son I think. One of each seems fair and balanced
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:39 PM
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I can kinda see your point but 30 to 60 is dumb. Going from 1 to 10 makes more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:37 PM
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Thats why people should stop bitching and follow the tinder likes. If it’s brazil or thailand so be it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:35 PM
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I dont think men here understand this. Ill admit I dont fully either. Edit: Actually scratch that last bit, I think I get it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:24 PM
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Yeah this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:22 PM
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Just be conscious of your analogy. Seeking free drinks is the same. It’s a one night thing. Seeking gifts and paid for trips is more malicious as it’s a longer term manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 08:09 PM
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I want to learn so I can play for my kid. Otherwise I’m thinking we learn together
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:10 PM
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I’m sorry you have to go through that. I worry about your safety
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:09 PM
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Never
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:07 PM
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Simping is good
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:06 PM
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At my age now (early 30’s), yes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:05 PM
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Once she likes you, you are the threshold. So that receded chin is what she now finds attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:49 AM
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The problem with blue pill is not the “how” but the “when”. Until the girl likes you romantically, you need to follow some RP stuff. But once she likes you in that way, RP and Blackpill go out the window
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 10:21 PM
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Not every blue piller says this? Remember, only men can be blue pilled. Women can say blue pilled things but these pills only apply to men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 10:40 PM
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I’m blue pilled and idgaf about women. My version of bluepill is to just focus on being a nice person and stop getting worked up about what women do or say. Honestly what the fuck are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 11:16 PM
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Someone needs to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:25 PM
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(If I was single) if she didnt have any kind of standoffish energy and no RBF. Ig if she looked approachable and she was jaw dropping attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:24 PM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:52 PM
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This literally happens all the time with young couples
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:45 PM
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Who are the most popular people in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:42 PM
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Men should pay for every date imo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:40 PM
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I live in kangaroo land so I will not be celebrating spring
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:10 AM
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Just do whatever makes you happy. Everything in moderation. Dont stress
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:09 AM
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Ill stick around. Just summon me if you need entertainment
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 10:19 PM
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Yeah this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:31 PM
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Yeah going good. Maybe I’ll be back for good. Does the bluepill need more soliders
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:29 PM
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Money money money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:25 PM
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Hello..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 09:03 PM
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Ahh yes those 2 vs 5 reddit comments represent the double standard. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:24 PM
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Finally what
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:12 AM
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That’s how I feel with man hating women. I can fix them!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:11 AM
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Hello there..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:48 PM
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Eh I can see the logic behind the man’s view. Maybe it’s time to really focus on personality instead of looks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:27 AM
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What were the two areas? Just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 05:41 AM
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Holy fuck those chad traits are me to a T
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:09 AM
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I’m sure young girls feel this way but change as they get into their mid 20’s and above. Does that count as settling or does that mean they are maturing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:57 PM
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I do, genuinely
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:51 PM
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You can tell you are clueless because of the “risking getting humiliated” part of your complaint. No one is humiliating men, no one is making fun of men, no run is ruining the reputation of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:53 AM
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Well define what a good job is? Sounds like a mismatch on your end
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:41 AM
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It means protection from kidnappers. Men are naturally stronger as they get taller. People mostly live in reality and not a fantasy utopia world so they know there are bad people out there. No amount of man shame, education, media etc will stop assaults
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 01:46 AM
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So is your point that this behaviour from men is softly encouraged by women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:51 PM
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Surely you can agree that his approach was aggressive? Therefore having no surprises why the rest of the women popped theirs?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 01:49 PM
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I like them, but I very rarely talk to strangers unless it’s another man looking lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:13 AM
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Jesus christ now I know what women mean
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:12 AM
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Honestly idk why people dont swipe right on everyone. That’s what I would do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:29 AM
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Continuing a reddit streak maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 08:26 PM
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It’s the blackpillers who complain the most
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:49 AM
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So what % of relationships fit your idea of settling for loveless, exploitative etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:57 PM
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Oh yeah shit hahaha it didnt click to me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 09:56 PM
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Context?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 12:16 PM
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Yeah but you lose your right to complain once you quit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 12:50 AM
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Hmmm sounds like chicken and egg. You’re saying men shouldnt lead with height, but they’ve only done that because of women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:09 AM
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Even if I have no instrument experience
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 12:21 PM
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My honest observation is that there are a small percentage that will be very open to pursuing a relationship with you. I think the younger you are, the more likely. I find women are way more open to be acquaintances with me, and are very warm/trusting which I conclude is because I unintentionally friendzone people. I try and be respectful and dont break the “touch barrier” with women. Would they make a move if I became single? Who knows. There are some who I thought would, some I could win over …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:58 AM
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I wish I knew how to play. Is it a skill you can only learn from young
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 11:49 AM
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Ppd woman = quirk chungus
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:55 AM
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If thats him I think you’re more normal/better looking. That being said, I’m not surprised you don’t get ioi’s. Not many do imo. Especially at our age range it’s more personality based
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:55 AM
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Nice man. So no longer a virgin hey. What lessons have you learnt for next time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 11:39 PM
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Sorry I meant how did you get to that stage in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:35 PM
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Yeah but I never get hit on, and don’t know many that do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:56 PM
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Idk where this myth came from. Like yeah, I think women from work are more open to being friendly with me which could be because I’m married but it’s unfairly discounting my amazing personality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:52 PM
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Go on, give us details
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:48 PM
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Looks matter until they dont though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:06 PM
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Hang on, only their anecdotal evidence counts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:06 PM
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It’s still absurd since Thailand exists
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:04 PM
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No one normal/binary likes femboys in that way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:02 PM
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I feel like I’m missing a whole bunch of context from you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:36 PM
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No I cant set boundaries because the minute they reach out, I go running tbh. Like I said, I never want to let anyone down
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:20 PM
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Yeah alright, got sick about a month ago for a week and works been busy as. You?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:18 PM
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No I highly doubt it. They know I’m married for starters and our “friendship” is only at most mon-fri 9-5. Theres no sexual tension feeling from me that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:41 AM
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Look I enjoy deeper conversations with them that I just can’t have with men, so I will always be there for these people because I never want to let anybody down. But to go awol while you’re seeing someone, then reach out to grab a coffee or lunch the minute it ends, just feels off. Am I making a big deal for nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:38 AM
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Urgh starting to hate it when female acquaintances/colleagues only reach out the minute things with their recent situationship end. I promise you there is no romantic intent from my end but it’s getting a little annoying now. Feel like an emotional cuck? Idk how else to describe the feeling. You know we can still be acquaintances when you have a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:29 AM
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Correct. Just be normal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:33 AM
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Because no one wants to type out detailed essays on how to get a girlfriend. Not everything has to be spelt out as we expect you to know some of these nuances. I can’t be bothered to go through specific examples right now of an advice that has an unspoken nuance that doesn’t need spelling out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:41 PM
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Every fucking advice given ever in the history of dating needs detail and nuance. It’s you fucking black pillers who don’t understand this ffs so infuriating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:11 PM
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How can you say a modern woman is only someone 18-25?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:10 PM
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I only just found out what quirk chungus is and my god it is so accurate at portraying reddit women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:01 PM
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I’m happy for you that you found your internal spark again
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:40 PM
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Looks like I average 5-6 a week
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:38 PM
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Dildos illegal in thailand? Random
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:38 PM
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Well yes and no. It depends on your outlook I guess. If you think AMALT with no room to change then yeah, women should keep that in mind. If you think the opposite, and men should change via social conditioning, societal pressure etc then no, women should dress however they want
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 11:30 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:45 PM
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The difference is safety. A creepy man is scarier than a creepy woman. A man randomly approaching a woman in the street and grabbing her is a million times more intimidating than a woman doing it to a man. It’s a double standard, get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:38 PM
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Who would have thought people of all shapes and sizes get partnered up. Crazy hey
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 02:21 AM
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It’s all about the intention. Women do not do this for direct mate attraction. Men do those things you mentioned for direct mate attraction, i.e. I want to attract a mate right now
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 12:31 AM
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Sounds awful. I wouldn’t care being used like that if I didn’t have any strong feelings for the person tbh. You should have the blind optimism/self esteem that someone else will always be around the corner. Don’t have strong feelings for someone who doesn’t have them back. Life lesson for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:01 PM
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Dont listen to others. Everyone is likeable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:24 PM
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Huh? Backstreet boys? You mean Beastie Boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:16 PM
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Why metal as well as disco? What’s the link in your mind that connects the two genres
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:11 PM
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I respect jazz. What kind of hip hop are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:11 PM
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Wouldn’t be surprised if most of reddit is into new wave and post punk. Two genres I’ve only learnt about asking this question
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:10 PM
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Look I want to like it but I just cant respect the genre enough. What makes it catchy is the beat, as the rap and lyrics are meaningless tbh and they rhyme the same words with each other. Truely a sign of a society becoming stupid and shallow as each generation follows. This genre such a con job to the masses because it’s mainly because the accent “sounds cool”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:09 PM
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Yeah maybe idk. I didn’t care that she did that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:39 PM
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Nice same here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:26 AM
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What’s your controversial music take
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:19 AM
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What kind of hip hop and rap are you talking about? If 90% of my taste is house music and it’s variations, another 8% would be some form of rap, mainly boom bap
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:18 AM
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Isnt that a turn off though?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:16 AM
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And do you think punk has the same rebellious nature as it used to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:08 AM
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Yeah nice bruv. Whose been good lately
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:06 AM
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I always like hearing about your life, either past or present
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:47 AM
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Whats an example of video game OST? If it’s like this I’m keen https://youtu.be/m72wk87fUS0?si=BDvLyqGaRn4BHQOs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:42 AM
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What influenced your taste?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:34 AM
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Don’t you feel conned though? Like, pretty rich record companies pay for their music to be popular via bombardment. That’s why modern music never holds up to older music because it’s not technically good. People only like it because it’s popular. But its popularity is manufactured and not genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:26 AM
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Curious to what type or music y’all into. Anyone solely into house, particularly deep/funky? I would say that’s 90% of my music. Edit: and what do you think influenced your taste?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:09 AM
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Hey nice to see you on the daily
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:03 AM
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Whats 9641
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:02 AM
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Salt and vinegar chips with plain cucumber
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:02 AM
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A couple of weeks? You should get over that shit quickly. My wife (girlfriend at the time) got horny when I was teary the day my grandad died and she was caressing me in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:57 AM
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Confident and caring
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 07:52 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:47 AM
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Jesus man it’s the end of June. What took you so long
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:21 AM
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Depends really. Mostly neutral to turn on. Would be nice to discuss complex topics with someone. I much prefer emotional intelligence tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:34 AM
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What do you look like? Not asking for a pic but like describe yourself so we can appropriately help you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:26 AM
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Are you US based? Is it normal to speak with strangers on a plane where you are from? Over here in kangaroo land it’s almost sacrilege
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:23 AM
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RIP gene wilder
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:16 AM
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I’m sure this sane and sensible comment will be appreciated in this post /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:12 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:09 AM
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Started reading and stopped after “sexual freedom” because the arguments made are just simply not true. “Society” (whatever that exactly means) doesn’t shame men for spinning plates. In actual fact in the last 15 years has made them into minor celebrities (think jersey shore, love island, any other fake dating show).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:21 PM
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Who tf says gym doesnt work?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:47 PM
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It’s ridiculous and I wonder how these people deal with real world stress
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:29 PM
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Stop buying caviar 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:35 AM
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Hence proving the bluepill that average guys get relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:18 AM
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Accurate <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:59 AM
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<image> we’re pretty close
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:59 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:53 AM
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On the contrary, they know an incel when they see one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:50 AM
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Probably leave her for him. Simple reason being if I liked her, she would be mine. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:45 AM
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Take away the monster can you show the mediterranean breakfast
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:42 AM
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Yes so then we can conclude that political views has no bearing on morality?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:23 AM
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Well, overall both left and right want a better world. But obviously there a differences in opinion on how you get there. I don’t agree there is one true political opinion out there apart. Not all left leaning people are pro immigration, particularly with non-skilled workers. Even on the right theres a difference as we saw when elon went against trump/maga on some kind of working visa in the US (sorry not from there so I’m not across the details).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 01:15 AM
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But the morals are the same? You don’t need religion to know murder is bad. You don’t need to be left or right to know poverty and homelessness is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 12:24 AM
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Whats the context
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:07 PM
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Wait what? I’ve missed this context
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:07 PM
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I’ve seen some really twinky 5ft men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:05 PM
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In your situation the less you know about the womans past the better. Just pretend every woman you meet is a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:04 PM
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Story sounds stupid and fake but my hot take is that we normalise bj’s and swallowing cum but we haven’t done the same with breastmilk. Society is truely broken
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:59 PM
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Such an American take right here. The rest of the world isn’t as radical as you guys. Change your argument from politics to religion. If you are religious would you be ok with dating someone with a different moral framework to you i.e. athiest? Or maybe religion =/= moral superiority, therefore, being politically engaged =/= moral superiority either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:38 PM
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Ok well for the sake of your mental health we are all here for you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:46 PM
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Are you ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:06 PM
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Granted I only jack off 2-3 times a year, I couldn’t imagine doing it without porn. What’s the point then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:58 AM
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Only one requirement for me: All other typical requirements must be sacrificed for the greater good of the relationship. Individuality must be eliminated for the collective. Especially if there are kids involved
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 12:27 AM
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these are friends from other departments.. sorry if that wasnt clear
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:01 AM
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I was so tempted to go to the pub on my own. I don’t think people here are receptive to chatting with strangers though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:39 AM
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But I’m bitter internally not to their face.. I’m mainly talking about people from other departments I don’t see often
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:38 AM
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Fair call, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:37 AM
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I don’t really have any friends. Being with my wife since 17 I couldn’t balance my time between friends and relationship. How would I find friends when one has no hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:36 AM
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We got together at 17. If she saw me as provider status back then she deserves applause of that foresight from that young
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:35 AM
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No, was just kidding. How could my scenario ever be considered betabux
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:21 AM
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Gonna get ridiculed to oblivion but whatever. I’m just feeling isolated at work since there is no socializing going on. My work is white collar in a major city and I can’t fucking rally up 1 person to grab a drink with after work anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:20 AM
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Betabux incel gets owned by chad kangaroo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:11 AM
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Realizing I deal with sadness by being bitter and resentful. Does anyone else channel sadness in that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:02 AM
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Bad move sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:01 AM
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Idk to me people swipe in the first few seconds so just make sure your first photo is top notch
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:19 AM
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You marry anyone with great compatibility. Because if you are truely compatible, everything will fall into place. Also the older I get (I’m 32 now), the more accepting I feel I am becoming. The only thing that would bother me is if the wild phase was constantly brought up by her or by others in her circle. I’m sorry but I don’t want to hear about the fun you had before and without me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 06:13 AM
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As a pink pilled woman that’s your job
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:09 AM
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I would give a detailed comeback but I’m enjoying a nice steak right now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:40 AM
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Anime was just japanese copium, created as an escape from their wage slave life. Normal hentai or even just normal adult anime, it’s still lame
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:28 AM
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Go on a date with onasickone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:23 AM
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I really have minimal attraction to alt/goth tattooed baddie
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:23 AM
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Cartoons are for kids, even if they’re specifically made for adults, the foundation of that medium is childish. Therefore, there is a strong link between hentai and being a pedo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:21 AM
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Innit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:12 AM
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I don’t think that’s fair because others would argue any change in priorities is settling
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:12 AM
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I had to reddit search examples of tortas and my god some are thiccccc. Tortas should be your first choice not your last
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:02 AM
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Have your priorities changed at all? Or do you still have the same “big tits, big ass latina” hot list just like a 16 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:18 AM
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I disagree on that. Sounds too much like “head in the sand” if you ignore patterns. Not saying I agree that there are distinct patterns with dating though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:07 AM
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Yeah but your last point is true though. People aren’t stupid and they need a whole package for a LTR compared to just looks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:54 AM
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All the best in your journey man
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:47 AM
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I knew my comment would be misinterpreted. She was 25 and I was 26 and I spent 11k AUD
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:38 AM
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I thought that guy was a right winger? Anyway: 1st scenario, I would participate. What, you people have never woken up to a horny partner before? 3am booty calls are similar right? 2nd scenario, what’s the issue? It’s harmless because the threat of safety is low. 3rd scenario, made me lol. It was so silly. Although the talking part of it reminded me of what it’s like having a female friend/colleague that’s purely platonic. Granted, I agree with your point that if someone wants to fuck everyone, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:53 AM
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Dont all british people have bad teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:34 AM
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Jesus I wish I spent that much on my wife
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:31 AM
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I was being intentionally inflammatory btw.. Development disorder meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:15 PM
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It’s not? I thought it was something you just stop having one day once you matured
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 10:41 PM
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So what would the common privileges be with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 10:40 PM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:48 PM
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Oh so shes SE asian?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:44 PM
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I never understand this and I acknowledge my privilege but how hard can it actually be. I feel like I could get a situationship within 30days of being single
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 07:09 AM
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Aren’t you the one who had a girlfriend who fumbled the parents meet but you still go to rub and tugs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 06:58 AM
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Definitely dont have that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:18 AM
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Whats bdd? Edit: oh I get it. Yeah I think I do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:08 AM
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So true. At a club on a saturday night I am way below average. However in my office I’m in the top 5% since I’m on the younger side, well dressed and broad shouldered
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:40 AM
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Is pulling randoms at a club easy in America? It’s hard here tbh, although for obvious reasons I can’t say I’ve tried. I’m surprised you can’t pull on apps or in a “warm” environment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:37 AM
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The world is yours for the taking. Make the most of this one life we have
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:59 PM
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Maybe take that as a hint blackpillers that you dont need every fucking top tier trait to get a date
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:09 PM
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Don’t watch it if you’re sexually frustrated or insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:06 PM
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The free market applies to dating. You are no longer in this market when in a relationship. Know the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:01 PM
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I’m curious to what the article says
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 07:30 AM
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Stare off into the sunset
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:49 AM
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Good on you bro. You have something to offer and they are taking you up on that offer. Every relationship has some sort of transaction behind it and just because they dont like the way you do it, you should still do what you do. It’s also kinda racist to think all these people are homeless. Especially in Manilla where many of them have actual office jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:46 AM
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Regarding opposite sex friendships I get on better with single women or women in LTR’s. The minute a friend gets a boyfriend, my care factor for them plummets. You want to vent about work? Go talk to your new bf about it instead
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:59 PM
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On this sub? My whole relationship experience. I can’t relate to either incels or experienced people so apparently I’m not allowed to give advice. To my friends and people who know me? My inherited net wealth. Not my fault I have a small family and my grandparents didn’t want me to be disadvantaged
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 12:26 PM
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Had to google.. I would say an 8. My looks type. Personality brings it down to a 3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:19 AM
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I miss mikearrow. Is it weird if I randomly msg him?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:17 AM
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Real top tier holiday destinations there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:07 PM
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Seems pretty standard to go 1-3 dates before sex so by the age of 25 you should be hitting double digits surely
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:05 PM
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So we have an 11 month old. My wife stayed home full time for first 7 months, then I did the next 3 when she went back to work. I wouldn’t say it’s hard/difficult work. It’s repetitive and isolating but I wouldnt say it’s energy draining like a fulltime job which leaves me brain fried at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:05 AM
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I cant determine tbh. 5 I guess? I should get a rating from somewhere so I have a number to go off. My pro’s: 6 foot, broad shoulders, shaped beard and fade haircut, some curls in my hair, dark features, “olive” skin, long looking legs, potentially “X” shaped body if I lost weight. Cons: 40lbs of unnecessary fat, balding/bigger forehead, hairy, hook nose
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:46 AM
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“Take whatever comes along” and “be alone” is not the default advice though? That advice is reserved for the perpetual whiners
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:39 AM
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The trick is to have low self opinion of your looks in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:33 AM
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Last sentence is not quite right, I am very secure in my marriage and if others are interested in her that’s no big deal to me. Potentially yeah, I hate being mogged so theres no chance I would hang out with better looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:01 PM
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That’s not true at all. I put in a lot of effort with women and it is appreciated because they know I am married so not trying to make a move
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:58 PM
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Ah yeah I get your point now and kinda agree. I think it depends on how desperate you are to be in a relationship. If you really want it, surround yourself with as many attractive people as you can, even as friends
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:40 PM
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Look I got issues so my views are odd but hiding in the other room is exactly something I would do, or I would at least be very quiet or introverted, more than normal. I just don’t interact with enough attractive people irl to get desensitized to it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:38 PM
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All my male friends are super unattractive and the more unattractive the more I get on with them. Each to their own I guess. Why do you think you feel the way you do and I feel the way I do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:33 PM
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But you’re married like me so how do you stay friends with someone who is hot but also has an attractive personality, while not comparing her to your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 12:28 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:13 AM
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That’s what an actual nice guy acts like
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:07 AM
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At that age you need to throw the kitchen sink at it. Transplant and meds
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:07 AM
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That’s the man’s problem. Of course attraction can grow over time but you can’t get pissed if it doesn’t. If you’re attractive enough and both of you are single, you wont stay friends for long
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 06:33 AM
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Redsands no doubt about it. You are all inferior to him. I like funed though as well because I know we would get on irl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:51 AM
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Suppress suppress suppress
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:48 AM
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Oh really? Have you checked in with 1000 of your female friends to see how they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:44 AM
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No, the opposite actually. People should only be friends with those they aren’t attracted to. People actually do this more than we think. I am not attracted to my male friends at all. I couldn’t be friends with someone who is attractive to me (different spectrum to conventionally attractive, although there is an overlap). My mind separates people based on friendship, or datability, and due to my circumstances I can’t be friends with people I put in the dating bucket
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:38 AM
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If I was single yeah, because I know how great I am as a partner so I know I wouldnt let them down
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:45 PM
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Uh that’s not exclusive to late gen z
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:30 AM
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Top 3 are fluff and mean nothing. The bottom 3 are fine, albeit generic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:09 PM
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Eh I’m really flexible with lifestyle in the short to medium term. I also think people here in Australia are all quite similar and you don’t get much extreme variance
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:55 AM
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Thats why I never understand people who constantly date. I feel like I can be 95% compatible with many people so idk how people are perpetually single and still looking
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 11:58 PM
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Why don’t you look after him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 11:43 PM
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I find your two examples pretty accurate, however in defence of incel rhetoric: Example one: There will always be someone who is so physically attractive to you that you would be receptive to that approach. Example two: There will be people not physically attractive to you at all, or even conventionally attractive, to get this method to work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 10:58 PM
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I would love to learn the clarinet. It’s the instrument of my heritage
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:46 AM
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You have 3 ex husbands…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:27 AM
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Who says women dont listen to their own advice? Have you seen this play out IRL instead of one fake news article??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:26 AM
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Greek background, 2nd generation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 10:41 PM
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You dont need to learn greek. They’re very english proficient there. But also, stay away from our women pls
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 10:03 PM
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Location?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:16 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:12 PM
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You know it doesnt always mean you need to physically touch grass
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:04 PM
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Greece. But idk how a black guy would be received there for dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 09:02 PM
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People do put all their cards on the table though?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 11:21 AM
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Safety is another aspect to that as well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:50 AM
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Just because you’re disabled it doesn’t mean you take it out on us
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:37 AM
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Well what do you want then
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 04:05 AM
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So fucking sick this blue pill slander. Like every argument against you people is just blue pill propaganda apparently. No one is denouncing cold approach. If you vibe with someone you’re allowed to get numbers at supermarket, gym or even funeral. What we don’t propose you interrupt someone working out, make them take out their airpods, compliment their form then immediately ask them out for coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 03:59 AM
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I’m 50/50 on that statement about preferences changing by thinking about it. Height is the main example I can think of where it is relatively arbitrary and nonsense to have as a strict preference
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 03:33 AM
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Not saying I agree or disagree with your statement but it made me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:19 AM
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I’m surprised your mind went there. Reading the first couple of sentences I thought you were going to say what happens if you’re not attractive enough for her. That’s what my mentality would be
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 06:01 AM
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Welp it’s nearly saturday night here already
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:56 AM
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Closest you’ve been to losing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:49 AM
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Sounds like she’s a red flag tbh. Sounds like she’s too stupid to see that fighting against the system (of outdated controlling office attendance) is most masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 05:48 AM
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Our stories seem similar
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:35 PM
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Isnt what you did considered monkey branching?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:33 PM
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Idk if cute is how I would describe it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 11:33 PM
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There will never be sufficient “do this” advice because ultimately it’s up to you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:14 PM
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Yeah like me against ND men in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 01:06 PM
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What advice is acceptable to you then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:19 AM
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You’re on a hateful mood today. Is everything ok in your personal life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:17 AM
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Why don’t you propose to be a mod then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:17 AM
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Everyone is off limits if they cant shelve characteristics of their “type” for the greater good of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 10:15 AM
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It’s for kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:33 AM
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Life lesson: dont reference reddit. You get a certain type of person here that doesnt reflect reality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:33 AM
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Is geopolitical hot takes allowed in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:31 AM
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Of course it’s an insult it just shows the right don’t have their shit together, and if they don’t have their shit together they need to step off
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:28 AM
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I really feel sorry for lower class people who are just to uneducated to have the right maturity for life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:26 AM
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Just the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:23 AM
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I don’t claim that at all. In fact I highly suggest struggling guys to passport bro it. One of my good friends goes regularly to thailand. Half of the girls he’s with are 10/10 pro’s of course but the other half are legitimate people with normal jobs who live in the city
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:22 AM
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Can you leave my australian nostalgia out of this please
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 06:19 AM
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Good. Kids are amazing. If I could go back in time I would have heaps
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:20 AM
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Real crims drink prime
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:19 AM
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About what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:18 AM
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It’s fucked up and it gets the best of us. My story as follows: Mom moved out without us when I was 8 years old because of divorce. She was, and still is in my life but as a kid and teen I only saw her max twice a week (one of those days was a school pickup, then staying the night before she dropped us off to school - so barely counts as a day). Fast forward to me marrying my HS sweetheart at 26. She is nothing like my mom re looks and personality. Fast forward to me as a 30 year old meeting a n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:15 AM
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I think RP has a place for the genuinely clueless man who does have any knowledge of pills. Granted they need to be mature enough to not fall for grifters
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 05:03 AM
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I’m blue as they come but I don’t think RP is a scam, it’s just one approach that may work for some
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:29 AM
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I do all of those and still manage to antagonise incels
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:30 AM
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Yeah I feel like the top one. If someone wanted you, you would have been asked/invited without you prompting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:29 AM
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Yep and that makes you a nice guy and any woman who refuses you and says they want a nice guy is gaslighting society!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:25 AM
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Who tf disagrees that men are meaner and bully more. We are the competitive gender and part of competition is being above others. Now where we’ve failed is we someone started shitting on women for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:17 AM
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Well it means don’t act like someone you’re not. Advice is even more relevant now with social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:13 AM
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It’s like if someone not from your race learnt your language in their spare time. That’s the equivalent feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 07:07 AM
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Controversial topic incoming: I find something weirdly accepting of trans men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 04:48 AM
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Your way of thinking is wrong, and that discounts your whole argument. No one really helps wheelchaired people onto a bus, no one really cares about climate or political tensions, no one cares about suffering etc otherwise you would be a full blown SJW if you really cared. Actions speak louder than your internal sentiment. Do you help at a charity?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:00 AM
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Oh is that a joke? I thought it was a real observation about them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:13 AM
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You’re asking what I would do, I would be tempted to go and see because I think external validation is the one true validation. If they all popped their balloons it would cut me for a few days but I know I have the last laugh being married with a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:11 PM
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Hmmmm depends which photo I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:10 PM
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Idk what people are like in your part of the world, but here in kangaroo land people generally keep to themselves. No one really “approaches” anyone apart from when they’re drunk at a bar. It’s liquid confidence so like mongo said, you’re getting unfiltered opinion that they think you’re hot at that specific moment in time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:08 PM
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Yeah this comment exactly. I personally would find it weird but I wont judge someone who wanted to do goofy shit like this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 11:04 PM
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So what happens if the trio dont pop a balloon at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:57 PM
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Yeah bro your face is fine, especially when your beard and mo are really short
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:54 PM
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My observation is the opposite to you. Only the immature and teenagers simp for pretty boys. No one sane over the age of 23 likes twinky little boys. Sorry, I feel like your expose to women is only through high school or via reddit nerdy women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 09:35 AM
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😂😂 maybe it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 07:10 AM
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Same, late oct
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:55 AM
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Are you a scorpio?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:51 AM
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Optimism with what though? I’m generally a positive person and tend to look at the good in people. So overall maybe a 7/10. Enthusiasm? 2/10. My mum wonders why I’m not passionate about things
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 06:47 AM
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Unrelated question, do you think it’s normal to have a girlfriend while also going to rub and tugs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 01:09 PM
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Did anywhere in your post of my comment any of us mention autism or health issues? Anywhere? Sorry I’m battling a cold right now so not sure if my vision is being blurry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 01:01 PM
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Your comment is so stupid and not sure if you’re intentionally being like that or are genuinely so stupid you took that comment like that. No one is talking about the tiny % who are visibly and physically disabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 01:00 PM
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The billions of people in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:57 PM
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Main thread
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:24 PM
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The premises of most main thread posts on this sub are just fundamentally wrong. How can you debate something that is just wrong from the get go
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:05 PM
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Because being unsuccessful makes no sense to me. Especially as you surpass teenage years. Even me, never single as an adult, very average looking, no friends or social circle who isnt in a LTR, clubbing maybe 30 times in my life, has still had a small handful of interest from other girls. It’s small, but considering I’ve never been looking it’s still come my way. You have no excuses in 2025 to not be on a legitimate relationship focused dating app like hinge or eharmony. In the age of instagram …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 08:48 AM
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I dont think I’ve ever cummed from giving. Never heard of anyone who can
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:44 AM
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Your haircut is fine, but lose the stach. Don’t ever let your hair get as long as the other photo, it’s not a good look
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:41 AM
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Too masculine? That doesn’t make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:40 AM
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Who tf wants their wife to take a paternity test? If you don’t trust her, then leave ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:38 AM
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Maybe you think she deserves your attention more because she broke your virginity first
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:08 AM
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Whats going on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:03 AM
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Idk what context you mean but I get a kick out of seeing woe-is-me so I’m here until I’m 90
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:02 AM
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I agree with you, even though I’ve never used it I think it’s a great tool for meeting people wanting to date
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:58 AM
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Inb4 the incels here call you a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:56 AM
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You dont. It’s a made up condition along with autism. Just act normal please
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:54 AM
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Sorry she is actually insane. People who have no idea about corporate life have this mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:54 AM
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Good on you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:50 AM
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I wasn’t talking about dating, I was talking about your general privileged mentality. Date whoever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:43 AM
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Whilst my life mirrors your step by step guide, I can’t help but feel like it’s super privileged to think it’s that easy. Wealth inequality is intergenerational and the “get a good job” mentality isn’t applicable to poorer people. Not everyone has the luxury of sacrificing salary for education, not everyone is taught the life skills to work their way up a corporate ladder. I generally agree with your takes on dating, but this is way too right wing for me to come around to
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:29 AM
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It is easy, and I don’t half ass it. In fact I did more because I was responsible for the outside the house also
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:57 AM
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Think about if your parents had a new car every decade, luxury designer bags, yearly vacations etc. Funny how a “good life” now includes ultra luxury things from 20 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:55 AM
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No, but it’s fucking weird. Weird enough to break up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:31 AM
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But I’m more attracted to people who are attracted to me. Like I view a conventional 9/10 lower than a 6/10 who checks me out (rare scenario)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:02 PM
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Idk how people do it. All I know is an LTR mentality so I need mutual feelings there first
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:48 AM
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A higher power gave you the final confirmation to remove her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:50 AM
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I really doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:39 AM
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It’s not as easy to explain. It’s a feeling I guess. They usually call it “vibe”. It’s a combination of physically attractive to her, having rizz etc. You could have just come across as stock standard nice guy which are actually very common in your age range
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:36 AM
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I wouldn’t take her word at face value. I doubt she is articulate enough to explain how she really thinks which is you don’t sweep her off her feet at first meet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:22 AM
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By god I can picture half the guys here being like that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:20 AM
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Because your dysmorphia is solely based on trying to get dates. The intention isn’t as genuine as a gender transition
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:18 AM
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Clearly no one else does fml
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 07:11 AM
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In a non-dating way, it’s depressing that I don’t consciously signal for an approach from anyone, but would actually be open to anyone approaching for a conversation. Even when I had 3 months off work for one on one time with my 9 month old, no one of any age or gender wanted to approach about the baby
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:20 AM
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How old are you to be out of the game a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:17 AM
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But I’m not a gooner though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 05:12 AM
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RP, jeff nippard
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 04:38 AM
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100% this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 04:38 AM
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Yeah but people need to get their head out of their ass and realize the radfems are not that wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 04:28 AM
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90’s/early 2000’s is the best era imo. Technology is just good enough so you’re not bored but not too consuming. Music was top tier then also and my sporting team were decent lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 04:26 AM
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I’m not convinced he has no game. My friend gets nothing tangible because the rare match only responds to small talk and goes quiet when trying to organise a date
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:44 AM
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Geez your standards seem low, or misguided
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:21 AM
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How do you make these observations about me that feel accurate without actually knowing me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 06:06 AM
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What’s depressing is that if I was single I feel like I’m half of this. What applies: The “best foot forward” line would be something similar. Mine would be “I’ve never dated before etc etc”. The texting strategy. Although I have a tonne of pride and fragile ego so any non response I wouldn’t text ever again. Non threatening appearance I guess? Meaning I’m just average. Dating app would be the only way I get dates. I would start any matches with a tailed response to their prompt. So I guess it m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:51 AM
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I can’t answer that until I lose weight. I’m not trying to pick up, so my goals are different and just want to look good in all different styles of clothing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 04:03 AM
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See you got nothing to worry about since you have others to validate you, and you can seek that validation over and over again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:44 AM
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I want to be a hot bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:38 AM
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Ok you want to be sarcastic then let’s break it down: Autism: Since it’s a spectrum what does that involve exactly? What part of autism is stopping you from having a conventional social life, a conventional appearance and creating a serious OLD profile? Introversion: Everybody is introverted in some way. Just because you don’t chat a girl up at a bar doesn’t mean you can’t be friendly with others you meet in education or work
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:33 AM
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Do you generally have low self esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:16 AM
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Where do these opinions come from? No one I know talks like this irl so I don’t know how the hidden sentiment is nurtured
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 03:13 AM
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No they’re not bad people but it gets to a point where I start asking questions of your personality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:58 AM
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Yeah until I like what I see in the mirror reddit ain’t seeing much of me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 02:48 AM
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We’re still yet to do a reveal..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:32 AM
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Good man. Cast a wide net
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:07 AM
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Are you obese or just chubby?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:06 AM
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Unlikely tbh when porn, thailand, and countries with legal sex work exists
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:31 AM
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Not a W but it would be logical to meet there. It would also be logical to not be weirded out if the man offers to pick you up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:27 AM
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Average is subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 12:25 AM
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I’m not convinced it “is what it is” with preferences like that. Try and dig deeper and think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 09:23 PM
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I really wonder how my approach would go if I was to ever date. I’m too used to the LTR, semi-trad mentality so I would be very forward with dates. If I wanted to be in a relationship with someone I would say it without this “what are we” game. Planning a date I would offer early to pick them up. Would that be a red flag nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 01:42 AM
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I got downvoted for that… ok
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:48 PM
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Mens 2nd ranking is my type I think
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:43 PM
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Daily thread…?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:41 PM
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Incel logic on this makes no sense because they read too many ghetto tweets from ghetto women about ghetto men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:41 PM
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It starts small then snowballs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 09:35 PM
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I really hate men who are like this. Problem is you never hear about it until it’s too late
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:21 PM
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Do you ever plan on taking responsibility for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 08:18 PM
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Incelistan
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 08:23 AM
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My surname is unique and I am proud of my heritage and proud that theres only a handful of us here in this country. I don’t care if someone doesn’t take my surname, but theres no way I’m changing mine
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:16 AM
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It’s all relative to age I think. 10-20 people when you’re 30 is fine compared to 10-20 when you’re 21. But what do I know with my 1 n count…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:10 AM
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What about for 10 grand
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:19 AM
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Have you been to thailand
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:15 AM
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Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:14 AM
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You can’t complain if you dont try though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 02:14 AM
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I feel like I am way pickier with personality standards than looks. Problem is I’ve never dated around so idk if “the one” exists or I could have a happy marriage with different types of people
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:36 PM
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Are you talking about looks only?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:23 PM
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Look I’m the biggest male man-hater you’ll meet but I don’t think that’s the right mentality to have
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:15 PM
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I need one but I have a family to feed, and besides, my issues are too deeply rooted for therapy to “cure” me in the short term
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:13 PM
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Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:59 PM
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His response to you doing gf stuff is understandable. It’s called having pride and self respect. How does he know you wont pull the same shit as last time. If you came back to his life (as you did) but denied sex he would have had nothing to do with you this week
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:21 PM
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I don’t ever cry, I might just have a few tears drop down and that’s it. I don’t think I can physically sob
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:16 PM
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Nah man far from it, trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:18 AM
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Make up is socially accepted for regular use and, in comparison, is used for non-dating purposes unlike “heightfishing”. The contacts comparison is just an example of a guy wanting a girl with blue eyes, so she wears the contacts for that purpose. I am arguing height and eye color are equally arbitrary nonsense requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:15 AM
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He thinks I’m a chad and you’re downplaying it :-(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:11 AM
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You’ve seen me. You rate how chopped I am
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:01 AM
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Ouch, I am personally offended
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:01 AM
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I don’t think the comparison to heels or make-up are fair. It’s not the same at all. However, when something arbitrary and quite frankly, a bullshit metric to compatibility like being 6’ is a filter on the apps, then how do these 5 somethings guys navigate that? Maybe wearing colored contacts to make your eyes look blue is a fairer comparison, especially if the guy only wants someone with blue eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 06:58 AM
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Mostly, maybe hair related stuff as well. I think jaw surgery for example is unnecessary unless is really bad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:45 AM
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Is white passing like south european/middle eastern?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:57 PM
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Blue pill doesn’t mean being an emotional cuck. I still have tonnes and tonnes of pride. I still believe you should looksmaxx (but it’s not the be all). I just don’t subscribe to AWALT regarding extreme hypergamy and no loyalty, so on that, I cannot be red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:56 PM
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At least you’re getting attention. Some people get nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:27 PM
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Yes we are real
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:22 PM
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Probably the first. I need love and if the second really loved me she wouldn’t act like that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:21 PM
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Well it’s about to hit wednesday in kangaroo land so at least the world hasnt ended for you all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:30 PM
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🤷🏻‍♂️ i refuse to accept what my SMV is until it’s tested irl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:42 AM
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My overall point is, we will never see the end of RP misogynist ultra chads because there is a positive reinforcement from women. I don’t want to blame women here, but would probably like a consensus because there is, and there will be, a million more articles in the future about tate, red pill, manosphere etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:39 AM
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Theres like a whole tv sitcom trope about the annoying wife who nags. Yet the husband is a dud but the wife is the bad one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:19 AM
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Yeah I know it sounds stupid. RP grifters are gonna grift
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 01:14 AM
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I thought some of his photos were quite decent and normal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:44 AM
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Do you blame him? I don’t and would probably do the same no hesitation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:44 AM
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This article about a journalist following an RP’er has lingered with me: https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/may/25/nick-wanted-to-drop-bodyfat-and-build-his-own-micro-harem-of-women-how-my-friend-fell-for-the-red-pill-hucksters-of-the-manosphere I don’t subscribe to AWALT normally, especially when it comes to loyalty for example. I think you can have a good life with a good woman as an average man. Theres just too many of those average couple around to discount it. However, I want to try a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:38 AM
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I can lean on my wife to give that maternal nurturing side like I described, but I wouldn’t play those cards early on in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:57 AM
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Once again the devil is in the details. Seems like men interpret vulnerable as “please let me cry on your lap, caress and mollycoddle me”. They want that maternal nurturing. What I think women mean (works well for me) is don’t be afraid to talk about your fears, your worries, things you might be scared about, or things that make you happy or proud etc. IDK I could be way off
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 02:50 AM
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Let them pay. You gotta be stupid as a woman to value fake status like that over common sense with money
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 02:31 AM
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Yeah if I don’t release after a couple of weeks I start having them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 10:26 AM
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I think it’s healthy to reassure each other often. Even after 13 years of being together I still do this. However I believe in logic representing the sensible and correct path. Without treating it black or white, logic should be the default approach
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:01 AM
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Sure I’ll join
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:27 PM
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And whats this discord going to be about
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:24 PM
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Idk a scam or something. Why only young men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:28 PM
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Sounds like bait
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:17 PM
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What made you come to that conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:17 PM
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Yes we here in Australia probably factor in a multitude of things. The defence would argue they were long term friends so she wasn’t trying to murder him and it was an impulsive act under the influence. The method is concerning and probably lead to the higher sentence compared to stabbing with a kitchen knife for example. But I haven’t studied law so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:09 AM
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Well it depends how you use the time saved from commuting. If you’re doing nothing productive then consider the change, especially if you’re talking a 30 grand a year pay rise for example
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 07:05 AM
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A life for a life. He is still alive then so should she be (If you’re reading this FBI or whichever country’s federal investigation unit applies, please monitor this user)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:51 AM
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20-30 min commute is nothing. Anything over one hour one way is too much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:46 AM
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I don’t think your sentence around true remorse is true. I just read an article where she regretted it instantly. Yes she was under the influence but obviously no excuse. The guy didnt die, so when you factor in that, as well as question if she is a risk to society, I think 7.5 years is OK as a sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:44 AM
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It’s something I’ve thought about if I was ever to become single for the first time in my life. Would I only ever be comfortable with someone in a similar situation to me? Or the perpetual single person at 30 years old who probably had that phase. Can you ever truely love someone who is willing to give love that easily? Kinda takes the magic away if you ask me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:51 PM
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And why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:07 PM
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I just can’t fathom someone at that age not getting matches on the apps. Sorry I’m showing my trad side but most women still want that married with kids life so by their late 20’s the standards start slipping. Almost no excuses not to be spamming the apps and singles events
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:54 PM
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Preach. I still have a packet of fin that I am too scared to start taking incase my pp stops working
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:49 PM
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My brain can’t comprehend that scenario turning into anything more. Even if cupids arrow hit me, it wouldn’t feel right to hit on a stranger like that and try to get their number. It sounds way too entitled and egotistical. Maybe I am too reddit feminist brained?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 08:42 PM
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I am happy for you. What’s your dating life like
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:51 PM
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Well what do you want them to do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:41 AM
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My friend loves eating it. I just don’t see the appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:30 AM
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It turns to cold water
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:28 AM
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I would start feeling sorry for looksmaxxed guys who are well rounded, financially stable with real hobbies and adult interests (so no anime and gaming) not getting any matches at all. Look, I’m super inexperienced so not sure how you go from socializing to dating so I still think OLD is supreme because at least you’re dealing with people who want to be in a relationship. Singles events is similar to OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 10:46 PM
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Having a miserable time at work lately. No one reaches out to me anymore so I’m feeling isolated. I purposely stopped reaching out to most people these last few weeks since everyone is “busy” lately. All I want are coffee catchups, a lunch break together or maybe a drink after work. Obviously not all in one day but at least something. I need a social environment. I can’t stand coming in, saying a few words of small talk to the person next to me, lunch on my own and then going home. Otherwise wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:04 PM
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At least you’re here
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 12:52 PM
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My mood lately
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:54 AM
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Like who?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:54 AM
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Yes. Without going into it I had that quarter (or third?) life crisis at 30. Nothing tangible changed with my life because it couldn’t, but mentally I’ve haven’t been the same since
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:55 AM
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Well not really. Not everyone gets a chance at finding themselves until later on in life, and by then, you’re long term married
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 06:30 AM
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Most womens toys I’ve seen are the size of my index finger. Lay off the porn
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:57 AM
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I wouldn’t say need is the right word. It’s about lack of accessibility I think
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 03:53 AM
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I find women colleagues treat me decently compared to single guys at work because I’m not a threat. I don’t think it’s because I treat them better, or maybe it is idk. I’m just myself 🤷🏻‍♂️ I have heard the “ohhhh you’re married” line before. Now writing this I’m actually not sure how they mean that. Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 01:40 AM
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Well I guess if I was single I would probably get insta to fit in. Then the other red flag would be I only have under a hundred followers. God damn I am royally fucked if I became single
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:37 PM
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This is my problem if I was single. I’m so used to multiple times a week so how would I match that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:35 PM
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It’s a back handed compliment. Same as saying to a woman she looks masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:34 PM
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I’ve only got fb. I find it pathetic it’s considered a red flag in dating. Sorry I’m not a phone obsessed zombie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:31 PM
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It’s never the same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 11:29 PM
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Single men would be happier but people who want relationships wont
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:50 PM
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Boo i dont have tiktok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:48 PM
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How would you get your physical needs met then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 10:47 PM
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Great thanks for that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:40 PM
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Yes I would. Especially if they framed it as “you would look nicer in xyz”. Please note I am a serial people pleaser
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:23 PM
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Colleague (who is a 9-5 friend, meaning plenty of communication during the week 9-5 but nothing on weeknights and weekends) has been seeing a guy for 10 months now. She hasn’t told him that a month before she was seeing him she had a bad breakup with an ex, was heartbroken and he left her with an unwanted pregnancy he didn’t know about and she aborted it. It was traumatic for her. Should she ever tell her current bf? Since I’ve been with my wife since 17 there isn’t many major moments in my life…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:35 PM
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The friends to lovers route is harder because if someone is initially attracted to you they will want to impress you. Friendship comes after successfully impressing the other person. Friendship allows walls to drop and flaws to be exposed. No one wants their flaws out in the open when trying to impress someone. That being said, people put friends in three categories: No attraction, hell no to dating. Neutral attraction, could be open to it but it doesn’t cross their mind during the friendship. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 01:28 PM
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The gym only counts if it looks like you lift. If you don’t, then you can’t seriously claim it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:41 AM
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Invested financially or just their time and effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 05:54 AM
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I try not to comment on the “this could be me if I was single tomorrow” scenario but regardless of his t shirt, does he really deserve that much rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:01 AM
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Ignore them. Be petty
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:58 AM
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I think you can still have success at higher body fat if you’re carrying muscle also. But then again what do I know. I’ve been 25-30% my whole life and only ever have had a handful of women interested
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:58 AM
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We’re in 2025 and women still don’t understand that men view sex as a goal and reward? Money means greater access to women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:52 PM
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So most women don’t have the approach to see “how he makes me feel”?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:20 AM
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I need to know what you look like, your profile, and the time constraint for those 5 matches
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:16 AM
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Based on my flair you can agree that I sit outside of PPD lore. Conversations about dating is kinda like a foreign language to me but I enjoy it anyway. What swayed me to kinda agree with incels on this topic is when a colleague said her friend hadn’t had been laid for a while, so she just picked a random hot guy off the apps. Not interested in a relationship, not interested in his prompts. That felt icky to me. I honestly saw it as no different to my other colleagues/friends going to brothels o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:52 AM
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I meant “we” as in “men”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:23 AM
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I dont think that’s true. Yes, a lot of terminally online guys think on the extremes regarding that but we’re not dumb, we know what’s a size to be proud of
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:21 AM
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Without doing my research you haven’t really explained what it is though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:19 AM
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17ish but is it a real surprise given my relationship experience? Had a chance at either 15 or 16 can’t remember with another girl but I chickened out. Real question would be when would I have lost it if I never got with my wife at 17
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:41 AM
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What does sex positive mean exactly? I think I might be sex negative lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:39 AM
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Idk man I think women are more subjected to genetics than we are. They have more body shapes than we do. Therefore they could be limited to their glowups
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:37 AM
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I both respect and detest you at the same time. Idk how you find fulfilment with that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:35 AM
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Interesting video. I find those people who say redpill stuff out loud so cringe (like that old guy in the video). Reaffirms my blue pill stance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:30 AM
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Show me you and ill show you me. Have shared with funed already
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 02:10 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:31 PM
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Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:31 PM
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Tell me how you lost your virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:31 PM
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I refuse to judge this guy until I step in his shoes. For now, and most likely forever, I will never experience soft rejection like that so if he is still alive and hasn’t jumped off a cliff he’s handling it better than I would
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:29 PM
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What do you mean by that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:24 PM
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I probably would get that rating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:23 PM
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You found my face reveal
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:22 PM
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I don’t believe your stats
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:19 PM
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Wtf have I missed here the last few months
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:16 PM
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Ouch. Getting rejected after a face reveal would be suifuel for me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:52 PM
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I’m sad that no one summoned me here. However I have been inactive on this sub for a couple of months now. I can only go off friends and what I see is that most people end up with their looksmatch. So you kinda need to know your market. My more “incel applicable” friend just refuses to lose weight, speak louder and be more confident. He gets no matches here in kangaroo land so has resorted to ppb’ing with success. I will come back and edit this with more thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:04 PM
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Hmmm I think I would have too much pride for a double text
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 09:02 PM
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I am my own male role model. I only really learnt how to be punctual and on time from my dad. Even now in his 60’s he is learning wisdom from me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:55 PM
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But why can’t peoples priorities change? If a 21 year old guy doesn’t care if a girl can cook or clean, why can’t he change and become more trad when he is 31?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 01:30 AM
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I dont understand people who are friends with people they are physically attracted to. How does something not happen eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:27 PM
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Shrimp curry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:02 AM
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Hmmmm maybe Australia is different because the “big rough” look is extremely popular with gays here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 05:00 AM
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Congrats dude, I wish I was as disciplined as you. How much do you weigh now?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:57 AM
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You don’t. Unless they deserve it, but those metrics are not gendered specific. The disabled and disadvantaged deserve your empathy regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 04:47 AM
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Have we interacted before? Can’t remember. I was active here a few months ago but slowed down
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:54 PM
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Mixed thoughts. I think every metric (looks, rizz, money etc) are sliding scales so each woman is willing to compromise on each of these metrics. I don’t think women are that delusional and notice most people stick to their looksmatch. I do acknowledge you should looksmaxx though to increase your chances, but vibe reigns supreme
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:10 PM
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Huh? My wife actually likes it during foreplay
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 07:19 PM
1

Honestly? Reddit is not the answer. More progressive minded people don’t value anything traditional
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:53 AM
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Women compromise on looks so much more than you people think When they say attraction grows it means physical attraction. If they love you, you’re hotter than an objectively attractive person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:00 AM
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Yeah she was
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:37 AM
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And thats why I love him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:45 AM
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I was talking about a she, roseybutterflies actually. She spent time with an ex, she was sexting the poo pilled guy, she was being openly thirsty/horny. All unlady like behaviour. Edit: 2025 is the year I go full trad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:40 AM
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Which one? The first guy? I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 03:37 AM
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Have I missed anything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 02:22 AM
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Sorry I mean the newer funed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:57 AM
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I’m still on and off. Theres an election here so doing my best to convince people on the relevant subs to vote for the party I support
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 01:56 AM
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Haven’t been here for a while… hopefully my ppd friends like red sand and funed havent been banned yet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:58 AM
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It’s not official but maybe “good ass” energy. Meaning they know they got it and they know men want it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:54 AM
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I would rather compete in 2 because I know my strengths are personality/romance. But I know I sit under category 1
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 09:43 PM
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Ok height yeah. What else?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:16 AM
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You can’t be both maxxed and average looking
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:28 PM
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Ugly is such a harsh word and should only be used for people that are genuinely deformed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:26 PM
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Please define what maxxed means to you in this context
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:23 PM
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I swear you’ve asked this before
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:20 PM
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I want to trigger americans so badly with my based bootlicker takes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:34 PM
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Don’t listen to “everyone says this” about things. Would you listen to those people who would give you that kind of advice about anything else? Don’t do engineering, don’t buy bitcoin, don’t do this, don’t do that etc etc. If you can’t meet women irl, then stick to online. Simple. If you are attractive as you say, then you’ll have no issues
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 09:09 AM
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Ha! Far from lean, traditional dad bod meaning yes, broad shouldered, big chest and back but still carrying too much weight. She is petite but has bigger hips than what you think and she would be considered “skinny fat”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:29 AM
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Probably.. I know people reading this may think I have wrong intentions but I’m only commenting because I had so many people tell me the opposite would happen, that it would be a “magnet”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:28 AM
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I live in Aus, so we don’t normally talk to strangers, but on the train, or at a crossing, men will reciprocate interaction if my child smiles or interacts with them. Women might do a half smile, and then look away. So so so strange
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:04 PM
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You should close reddit and read another 10000 page russian book
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:01 PM
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No lie, was watching a vlog of an incel talk about his struggles and during one part of the vid he raised his voice out of autistic rage and my child (who was in the vicinity of the phone) started laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:00 PM
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Without you, the daily thread would be dead
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:57 PM
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On my day to day adventures with my 8 month old daughter it’s other men of all ages who say hi or have some kind of interaction with me or my kid. Grannies as well to be fair but that was expected. Half the time, women under 40 give 0 fucks about a baby staring, waving or smiling at them. It’s so bizarre because you would expect that demographic to be the cluckiest
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:48 PM
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I am 1.8 and my wife is 1.53
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:38 PM
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I would be concerned that they would leave me for the next guy who meets their fetish. But I do have severe abandonment issues so idk if that’s what is influencing my thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 05:53 AM
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Thanks :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:24 AM
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Sure, don’t feel you need to write an essay but what’s your lived experience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:04 PM
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Can I ask you if you believe the answers you’ve seen and has it changed your view on things at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:18 AM
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😂😂😂😂😂who the fuck said that?? That’s so untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:25 AM
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Doesn’t sound very blue pill of you tbh. Sorry you have those feelings though. Are you isolated from people? Why don’t the apps work for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:24 AM
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Unsure tbh however my take is that now that men are more willing to do housework, it may have removed that as a factor why someone is undatable (and given the rise to looks obsession). Watch old sitcoms/shows and the man is generally useless in it, but at least a man who cooked and cleaned 20+ years ago could use that as a reason to date him. Now, not so much I think
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:21 AM
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The “manual” is the millions of people getting into relationships. Blue pill doesn’t mean be fat and lazy and expect results
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:03 AM
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Basic human interaction > small talk > connection building > friendship or relationship. It’s the same steps as making a friend. Just with sexual attraction to each other and potential LTR compatibility
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:38 AM
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The only thing stopping me from discounting it is I’m not sure if the science behind it is real or not. Because if it is, then body count is a valid concern but if it’s pseudoscience then it’s only a stupid incel talking point then
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:47 PM
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Idk if gentleman differs from typical “nice guy” behaviour. Like opening doors, ladies first etc. I see it as an old fashioned mindset. Now with paying, I value time over money so I would be willing to pay almost always. I do feel I would need to compensate people for their time with me, however let’s hope I never have to go on a date ever
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:40 PM
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So are you from there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:10 AM
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OP you also failed to mention you need a 12 incher to even get a first date these days. You need to speak 6 languages also. Your post is just as stupid as my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:48 AM
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Women need to finally learn that men are inherently belligerent, contrarian and rebellious. In recent times, men are harsher on weight because of the “women are beautiful at any size” rhetoric. It’s why margot robbie was called mid. It’s just men being edgy and against the grain. Men will sit there and say no, women are not beautiful (aka gets their dick hard) at any size. It’s a push back to societal gaslighting. And don’t get me started on the double standard about height. Even more of a reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:01 PM
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“Low libido” but your ass is on reddit. Whats the truth here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:50 PM
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What why
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:46 AM
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Yep, once again I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:37 AM
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I understand the gotcha with this. It’s such a strange thing to decide on because why date women? I mean, what is it that makes a woman? It’s so intricate but deep down most men wouldn’t but why
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:37 AM
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Pauline hansen? gina rinehart? What do those scum have to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:43 AM
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Cant see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 10:51 AM
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Well then how do you explain virgins/incels that follow tate? They have no experience to frame thoughts about women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 09:24 AM
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Treat every woman who you are friends, acquaintances, classmates or colleagues with, regardless of your attraction to them, like you want them to fall for you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 06:36 AM
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Behaviour like what slide? I’m confused to what the behaviour really is that warrants a loss of friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:42 AM
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Your bros are cringe then
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 12:43 AM
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There are times here where the takes on this sub infuriate me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:35 AM
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What truth?? What is this big discovery that you found and are breaking to the world? I’m sorry but this is the equivalent of fake news. Some women go on dates for a free meal, some men go on dates as an avenue to get laid. Some people treat each other as transactional. Yes it happens. Both genders benefit from it in their own way. Stop the whinging about it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:34 AM
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From 1971 dude. Come on
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:16 AM
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That link was so cringe. How much do you have to hate women to be bothered to make a video like that. Pathetic straw clutching. Anyway, you probably live in a country where people don’t have much disposable money. These ideas don’t apply elsewhere to anyone over the age of 23
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 10:10 AM
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I find these answers interesting because as someone in the same relationship from 17-now (30) I couldn’t imagine if I was single, how I would go trying to fit in relationship finding in my life. With uni, full time work, sports, family commitments (involved ethnic family) taking up the last 13 years, I would need a relationship to fall on my lap I guess, or spamming the apps would occupy my spare time I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:57 AM
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If you’re passive, shy, harmless etc you got options: Don’t date, don’t socialize, don’t get laid, sit in a basement your whole life Bombard yourself on the apps, come across as more extroverted and rely on texting Exposure to as many women as possible via school, work and social groups and hope someone there likes you and picks you (which is what happened to me) Pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:38 AM
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Jokes aside has anyone actually seen a real life example of this meme
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:23 AM
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That show surprised me. Wasn’t expecting incel speak
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:23 AM
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Perhaps, but to people like you, nice = not abusive. The assholes you hate have a “net nice score” greater than yours
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:49 PM
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It’s still a low education hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:44 AM
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Um that adolescence show on netflix. Wtf wasn’t expecting pill terminology to pop up there. Never knew the different heart colours meant something else though. I thought it was people trying to be different and not resort to the red heart
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:34 AM
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Let’s leave the human dog fighting to the neanderthals and leave the ruling political class alone. Low education hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:31 AM
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That first one… come on man you royally fucked that one up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:13 AM
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Men have ruined it, but is it too late? Will we ever get to a point where a man can dm a woman and it be welcomed?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 05:46 AM
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I can see where you’re coming from, and when questioned, other women have told me they “just knew” xyz person was going to be great. Kinda like an intuition thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:31 AM
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Well I hope you achieve all your dreams then. Remember that next time you think I’m an asshole here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:29 AM
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If you lose weight and still not fuckable, what’s next
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:28 AM
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Sometimes I see those profiles on “sympathy” subs (short, virgin etc). I click their profile because they have a profile pic or I’m curious where they are active and I see they have posted dick pics. My self esteem is bottom tier but at least I don’t feel the need for dick pic validation
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:26 AM
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I find those things stupid. There was a woman here a few months ago bragging that her current husband was the lucky one who got to meet her family while her ex fwb’s did not. I don’t think men see that as a flex and surprised women don’t know that yet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:24 AM
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Conservatives and maga supporters, what would jesus say about your country if he appeared now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:23 AM
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If I was to convert it to USD it would be approx 65k. But I have sacrificed career for work life balance
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:21 AM
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Will be..? What about now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:19 AM
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Shakespeare is low tier. Like speak properly bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:17 AM
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I’m struggling with my journey tbh. My activity has increased heaps but food is 50/50
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:16 AM
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😂😂😂😂 was gonna tag you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:10 AM
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Lame
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:51 PM
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Are you gonna fuck her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:55 PM
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See I think outfits on the left are better, but I guess on the right is better for everyday wear
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:55 PM
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If a woman is involved either physically or emotionally with another man, you need to let her go. She is his problem, not yours
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:52 AM
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It depends: Adam - Only an asshole if he shoplifts from small family owned stores. Or vandalising the property of someone poor. Other than that, not an asshole. Brian - Assumptions here but probably an asshole online. Offline he’s probably a little bitch so I wouldn’t call him an asshole overall but definitely not worth anyones time. Chris - Asshole if you’re out of his circle. If you’re another version of him you wont think he’s an asshole. Dan - Another asshole who thinks intellect makes them …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:42 AM
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I’m surprised you’re not. Obese women like me so they should you as well
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 01:08 AM
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I could only play it with cheatcodes though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:29 PM
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The meaning of words are irrelevant if the sentiment and discourse doesn’t align with the correct definition. Nowadays incel doesn’t mean what it originally did. It just means you hold a set of views and ideas that align with black or redpill - regardless of how often you have sex or not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:25 PM
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San andreas is one of the best games ever. So glad I was allowed to play it as a young teen
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:19 PM
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Why don’t you date a 43 year old woman as well
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:17 PM
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What I’ve noticed in public bathrooms is that soap is optional for a few men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:37 PM
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🤷🏻‍♂️ I’m in a silly mood today sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:36 PM
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Not happy with the books you have now? Do you think a guy will like you better with bigger books?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:27 PM
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Are you asking seriously? Who doesn’t wash their hands!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:25 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:25 PM
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I don’t understand how women don’t find this attractive. Stop trying to be alternative and anti masculine and just accept your biology
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:23 PM
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If you meet them on the job, well done. Otherwise they’re just normal people who live normal lives? When you say fucking a professional I assumed it was a hooker
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:21 PM
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You had me until you said the parent-child bond ends when the relationship does. Absolutely under no condition am I being separated from my child
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:46 AM
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If this is the future please kill me now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:11 AM
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Wood*
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 07:19 PM
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Just being yourself isn’t so black and white though. I’m naturally the comedian if I am comfortable with the people I am with. However, depending on the people I ramp up or tone down the darkness of the humour. I can go full politically incorrect humour with one group, and then office puns with another. Both are still “myself” but it’s vastly different
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:25 PM
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That doesn’t sound very thuggy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:22 PM
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To draw/paint or to use abelton like a pro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:44 PM
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My sentiment when people cry and complain on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:38 PM
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This whole thread has ruined the word rizz now fml
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:34 PM
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Well what does a female sex offender actually do? Anyway regardless it’s a red flag, but I don’t think there would be much that gets me an instant bail tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 06:46 AM
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Virgin/incel has now evolved to mean men with virgin tendencies, thoughts and ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:06 AM
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Yeah couldn’t imagine a man going on his own anywhere gets well received
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:37 PM
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Potentially, but maybe he needs to evaluate why he isn’t getting matches. If he is looking for fellow fitness goers, then maybe they’re looking at him and doubting his fitness compared to other, more jacked looking guys
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:32 AM
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Maybe the people swiping left on him are the ones with the brain rot though? Even redsand said he looked average
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 06:02 AM
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I replied to the main comment regarding his “fitness”. Can you let me know your thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:43 AM
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Perfect example of my main gripe with people who say they’re into gym and fitness. I’m sorry but he doesn’t look like it. Maybe cardio/cross fit is his thing, but still, he just isn’t muscly enough to warrant that claim
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:40 AM
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Do you think that’s the main turn off?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:38 AM
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Yeah I get that. Which means the movement for acceptance wont ever end
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:47 PM
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Excuse me?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:42 PM
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Which is a 0 or 1 on my scale. The guy is saying that even if there was no expression of interest prior, an attractive man can get away with it more so. Just like that HR meme
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 07:55 AM
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What does the smile have to do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:51 AM
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For some reason it’s way harder for me to call men ugly so no, he isn’t. I think he has potential to improve himself tremendously with muscle and either finasteride or shaving his head
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:51 AM
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For a short term thing you’ll enjoy the exoticism but anything long term you’ll get tired of their antics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:47 AM
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I’m surprised this isn’t a banned topic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:42 AM
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On my day to day adventures with my 7 month old, the only people who smile and make a comments are grannies (expected) and men (unexpected). Normal women of child bearing ages? Mostly give no fucks. Occasionally 1 in every 10 tries to look into the pram without smiling or saying anything. Are they expecting to see something else? Don’t they trust a guy to look after his own baby? I find it borderline rude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 05:20 AM
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Whats the story with andrew tate in romania
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:51 PM
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My only female friends are acquaintances from work, and the communication and time spent with them is only during work hours. The mentality here at home is what can they offer me that wife can’t. Even if I had zero attraction to them, it wouldn’t be accepted. Now if these friends were pre existing, then maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:50 PM
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But should they be aware you are frustrated? Or should you keep it to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:43 PM
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Unlike the other men I don’t read everything you write 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:42 PM
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Because if you can make friends, you can get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:31 PM
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Are you romanian
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:28 PM
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100% true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:25 PM
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Just flush him down the toilet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:20 PM
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Curious, what’s an appropriate response to getting rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:19 PM
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And which country is that bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:50 AM
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I personally don’t understand women who are not interested in tall muscled masculine men as per evolution. Not having a dig, it’s just my inexperience means I don’t fully understand types and preferences because I never got to see what mine are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:47 AM
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I am offended that you say you like the mediterranean look but have been downvoted by others
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 04:00 AM
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Why is that your type? I’m just curious if being into that is very environmentally influenced compared to biology
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:58 AM
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Idk I’ve heard our preferences are based on our mothers but I don’t want to go there.. Believe it or not I don’t think I have a type. I have preferences but based on stupid pre existing assumptions based on insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:35 AM
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Steak. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:29 AM
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I think we have similar tastes. But I always thought you were a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:28 AM
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Maybe this sub isnt the right forum for downplaying autism. To them, it’s a death sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:55 AM
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I have someone at work like that. She’s a lesbian though. Which is what came to mind when reading your type
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:31 AM
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So you don’t think you would be into a blonde country girl who is really really smiley and caring
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:26 AM
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What’s your type?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:15 AM
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Who gives a fuck about donors
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:11 AM
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It’s beneficial for a society to have as many people fit, healthy and participating in the workforce
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:51 AM
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If this trump term goes to shit, a left wing populist could have a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:28 AM
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Ok but what about the dems. Why hilary, biden and harris over him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:21 AM
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You could also argue that joe rogan made fitness popular again with the bro’s. No one did martial arts when I was a kid. A handful did karate only. Now every 16 year old guy wants to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:19 AM
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Glad you’ve said this because this sub will run wild with it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:12 AM
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Why don’t they like bernie? Too much old white male? (Not that it matters to me, calm down right wingers)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 11:59 PM
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75% men I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 10:19 PM
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I think IRL the “maybe but I’ll still left swipe” guys probably have a chance if they have personality in person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:28 PM
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Context…?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:27 PM
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I like the floorboards
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:26 PM
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As a proud NT normie I will say that seeing people with a strong sense of justice is cringeworthy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:11 PM
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And if he is your age then you are in a better spot surely. You don’t see it that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 08:28 AM
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And how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:23 AM
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I guess I think differently because to me, building confidence in the gym means looking objectively attractive/fit/strong. Being confident because you go to the gym but you’re still overweight or twinky doesn’t add up in my mind. You almost don’t deserve the confidence if it doesn’t show. External happiness influences internal happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:30 AM
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Interesting scenario. Who is more likely to have success? The gymcell, who looks super fit/muscly but is shy and introverted The short overweight ultra boisterous and confident guy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:28 AM
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I have acquaintances and can make them easily but I don’t have the time for friends. I would rather spend time with my family
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:35 AM
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Personality issue. Regardless how you look, you can still make friends
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:56 PM
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You’re only recommending confidence to someone who already is attractive though right? Someone who already goes to the gym and looks fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:55 PM
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I don’t understand how you can’t find a woman to spend one on one time with in the last 12 years
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 11:00 AM
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People sensitive to sounds, sights and smells are annoying. Grow up and get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:22 AM
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I have constant frowny face and I hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:27 AM
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Are you a likeable person?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:18 AM
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I really can’t stand people who talk like that. Speak properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:15 AM
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Take that as a sign she didn’t really give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:14 AM
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But at what point does a viewpoint become redundant if the group in mention specifically denies it? I guess that’s a wider question around truth vs sentiment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:22 AM
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There will always be a difference due to the chance of getting SA’d. I’m “old fashioned” with those views. Men have more capabilities to take it further than a woman does so the threat of SA from a woman is too low to complain about the double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:30 PM
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Your comment about men being suggestive is their way of sticking to boundaries is so concerning. Your understanding of it is correct, but having that thought is so so so wrong. On a 1-10 scale, where 0 is not saying anything and 10 is forcing sex, your suggestive comments idea sits at a 5 to me. Women don’t want men at a 5 on that scale they want a 1
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:27 PM
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Women give their views & opinions on this topic Men here just disregard and still stick to their view points Ppd in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 11:23 PM
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Yeah it’s annoying IRL compared to movies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:32 PM
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All of mcu post end game is ass
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:17 PM
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Age, location, relationship status, n count, and if applicable, outline the steps on how you got laid last time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:15 PM
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The average males should haven’t to resort to sock buying. It’s their own fault
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:12 PM
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Interesting point. Whose worse in the market, the people setting the supply or the ones setting the demand?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:11 PM
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Yeah if I was single tomorrow that would be my approach. I’m essentially doomed because there is no chance I’m getting this no trauma, LTR focused compatibility with anyone else compared to now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:05 AM
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How do you pick up over there if you dont speak the language
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:33 AM
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Maintaining good looks makes someone a good partner because they have discipline and are not lazy. This translates to a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:46 PM
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Are you trying to say that attractive men are more prone to commit DV?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:43 PM
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Yes and on the side, this is part of why n count is hated on because some men have the “why do women fall for a mans tricks” mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:41 PM
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What do these good men have that the other chosen ones do not? Always with these posts there is a hidden thought from the OP that extroverted = bad, introverted = good
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:31 PM
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Are you actually from aus? Which state?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:17 AM
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You mean like the homeless?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:05 AM
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What does your bf lack for you to seek others
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:04 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:38 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:35 AM
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Welcome to the club
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:33 AM
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Do you mean recently or in her whole life?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:20 AM
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Hey I ate the same thing last night. However my steak was a MB3 30 day dry aged tomahawk cooked over charcoal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:18 AM
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Because we want to be miserable emos
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:16 AM
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I’m overweight now, but this is the year I hit 10-15% body fat. I am blindly optimistic that by achieving that goal, all my body image issues will disappear. However, I have not mentally prepared myself for the possibility that I still hate what I see in the mirror after hitting that goal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:13 AM
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I fluctuate. In terms of traditional religion? Heck no. Staunchly agnostic. Do I feel spiritual in nature? Yes. Do I sometimes feel some kind of psychic connection with people? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:08 AM
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I respect what you’ve done. I wouldn’t have had the balls to do it though so kudos. Don’t be disheartened by rejection either. You are trying something different and you never know how it will play out. Make sure your facebook is really detailed though because if it’s too vague like mine (no work listed, no location, minimal photos etc) then she wont trust you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:07 AM
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External validation is the one true validation. If I was the last human on earth I would not care if I was fat, balding, hairy body, dick size etc. So what’s the missing variable? Other people. Edit: actually if earth was only populated with men I wouldn’t care about a few of those things either. So maybe the variable is women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:04 AM
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Ok then so based on your logic about observations and certain experiences why can’t I hate incels/blackpill/woe is me people?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:03 AM
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How can the US be bad when everyone is broke and everyone is fat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:52 AM
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I guess we’re all incels in some way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:09 AM
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Yeah, and you try and tell us you’re LVM. Bro get the fuck out of here with your lies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:46 AM
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So let’s out you now. Have you sext any other ppd user
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:45 AM
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How did you meet her?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:44 AM
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Depends what she looked like
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:37 AM
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Doesnt matter. The true LVM here are ones that can’t even get that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:28 AM
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Problem is there are many men who are happy with even 10% of your total OLD likes, high bmi included. So most people can’t have empathy for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:24 AM
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You said you were hanging around your ex. If you guys fucked at all recently then it’s hard to see how you are LVM
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 12:23 AM
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Drones, cyber attacks, remote detonation of pagers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:21 PM
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It wont matter. Future wars will be fought behind computers and not with guns
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:05 PM
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So even if you weight 400 lbs?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:01 PM
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Does rule 5 include weight loss?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:41 PM
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I find that premise of being reluctant to sleep with the guy but he is husband material kinda at odds with each other. Doesnt make sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:22 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:23 AM
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Wouldn’t rate highly in 2025. Looks like what a woman in the 80’s would find attractive. I get stick up his ass, smug, corporate, wannabe Patrick Bateman vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:22 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:19 AM
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Don’t listen to him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:15 AM
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Do you see yourself as Tony Soprano
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 04:14 AM
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Yeah I can the resemblance 😂😂 i get my brows done though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:33 AM
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I’m curious as to what his gf looks like considering who he said he looks like a few days ago
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:32 AM
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If she looks like that after a kid it would be worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:46 AM
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Correct. I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:29 AM
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That picasso pilled guy blocked me ages ago. Weak pathetic loser
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:05 AM
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I think that’s a fair thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:58 PM
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Only called it that if he thinks that he knows how and why women think a certain way for dating more than they do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:57 PM
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Well if the subconscious plays a large part in attraction then I’m afraid the red pill might be right then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:55 PM
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Not sure if this has been mentioned but you’re coming from the angle that you know their subconscious more than they do. You are claiming to know it more because of biological factors. I personally disagree. It’s a form of mansplaining imo. However, I am willing to concede that the biology might be a stronger influence than people outside of pill debates realize. I would probably like to see a more definitive answer and consensus on the biology of it. Otherwise without it, you are unfairly claim…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:06 PM
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Both are fucking brutal. Is there a less drug, less homeless version of life A? Kids are amazing, regular sex is amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:59 PM
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Ignore the hates, just get laid as many times as you want
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:08 AM
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Is that the purple one 😂😂😂🫵🏼🫵🏼🫵🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:06 AM
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Lame move and was annoying every time my character would walk around. Btw moves that don’t do direct damage are cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:05 AM
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Are you done bragging? First I see the muffin girl shop story, then this. If I scroll I’m sure I’ll see another from you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:03 AM
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The problem with the criminal pill is that it’s too US focused
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:00 AM
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The earth is triangle shaped fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:57 AM
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What came first, LVM saying words that trigger women here or LVM hate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:50 AM
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I’m too blue pilled to just accept his height and hair as the blockers for him. I just can’t accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:49 AM
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Hey we got the same %
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:16 AM
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I was 21% somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:15 AM
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That’s a new one. Most dating app users are in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:05 AM
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Actually it depends on what X is I guess and I also assumed they meant “the men I’m attracted to don’t do X so far”. I wasn’t assuming that they would never do X
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:49 AM
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No it doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:22 AM
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Does anyone actually date someone when they’re lukewarm about their looks? Surely not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:13 AM
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Phatt > slim > fat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:06 AM
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I think your way would be the best approach for a struggling man. If you’re dating just fine then stay the way you are
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:05 AM
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I thought women go through the most changes post puberty?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:54 PM
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Even for a million bucks my wife was hesitant with the hypothetical of me donating sperm to a colleague of hers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:52 PM
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But if the honest answer is it is your fault then take some accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:49 PM
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What? Who is bringing up his personality? Stop trying to ragebait with lies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:48 PM
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Well, I hope it works out for you. But you should listen to your doctor
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:17 PM
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What about by medical standards
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:27 PM
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And it’s still in pain?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:27 PM
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Is it true though? Do you have a micropenis?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:13 PM
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Did you say you had back problems hence why you couldn’t lose weight now?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:09 PM
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Fat guys do get into relationships though, it’s just a harder door to get your foot in
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:06 PM
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I understand the matrix origins
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:04 PM
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Who doesn’t believe you? I do. And your link proves it is possible. Ugly is such a nasty word
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:02 PM
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Wear special pants that really show your bulge. Otherwise you gotta wait until you’re in the bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:58 PM
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I can only guess that men are hypergamous but only on one thing at a time. So they’ll pursue looks hypergamy but ignore other traits, then get sick of it and then pursue personality hypergamy and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:54 PM
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No pill is just a cop out on this sub. Choose a lane and stick to it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:48 PM
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It’s the opposite buddy. I can point to the millions and millions of guys getting into relationships, married and having children around the world. Granted, once birthrate and population declines really becomes serious in the west then maybe you would be correct, but for now, people keep getting hitched and the world keeps spinning. Nothing more blue pill than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:29 PM
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Evidence of whatever red pill says. If nightcall wants to say blue pill doesnt have evidence then I’m asking for the red pill evidence in return
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 12:33 PM
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Will you red pillers ever provide evidence outside of 1 tik tok video? Or are AWALT because the internet told you so?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:04 AM
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My dad, but followed closely by my incel/passport bro friend
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 11:29 PM
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Too many set expectations from the get go takes the magic away imo. Even though I’m happy to pay for every date
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:45 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:06 PM
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I think the point is that the LTR guy gives them sparks as well. They’re no different to the ones in the comment but they’re the ones that become LTR’s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 04:58 PM
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Oooooo good point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:31 AM
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You can’t complain you don’t get dates without trying everything to the absolute limit. Idk maybe I’m built differently. If I was single I would be spamming the 3 main apps, going clubbing, going to every singles events I can etc This is because based on my relationship experience I don’t know my ‘SMV’ so would start off with a wide net, and if I was getting overwhelmed with interest, slowly tone down the pursuit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 07:28 AM
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Yes. Money comes and goes tbh so the amount I would give would depend on the level of the relationship/friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 06:59 AM
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Most of my sexually starved friends go there. It’s good for the soul imo. Even tinder over there talking to regular girls is easy as well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:10 PM
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This takes someone who is 95% attractive and makes them 100%. If you’re at 30% attractive then the watch is not doing you any massive help
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:55 PM
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Why not thailand
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:53 PM
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Men are idiots if they stay with a woman who is not physically attracted to them. I swear it’s like beta male losers have a misery fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:21 PM
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I would sue the clinic for millions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:17 PM
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Why you do this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:16 PM
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Why should we look harder? It should have been put in its intended place. That’s how shit goes missing in the house when theres no consistent place where things are kept. In the fridge is an extreme example because you open the door(s) and you can see everything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:12 PM
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Free extras on any new zombie tv show
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:07 PM
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Problem is, people will cite biology as the basis of what an attractive male is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:04 PM
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It’s either: Proof that a woman’s sexuality is emotion based regardless of gender It’s cool to be queer now so we’ll just play the safe option and say we’re bi without actually being in a relationship with our own sex/gender. We’ll go on a date or two and that’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:49 PM
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Yeah but incel version of nice on reddit is warped
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:38 PM
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Are you solely talking about dating or normal day-to-day interactions? Because in normal interactions, interacting with acquaintances and making friends I don’t discriminate if they’re conventionally unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:37 PM
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People here confuse “average” with “standard”. For example 5’9” is the official average height (need source) but 6’ is the standard
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:32 PM
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They’re all homeless now sadly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:29 PM
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Ouch
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 11:40 AM
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But couldnt you argue that’s a version toxic masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:27 PM
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It will never be the same because we can see you trying to use this advice. For example, some guys say “but but but I’ve been going gym for the last 2 years so clearly that advice is wrong because I can’t get a date!!!” And yet, look like a guy I saw on r/short (give me a min and ill edit this and link it) who looks like he’s never set foot in the gym. My point is people say they try xyz but until we see it in person, we can’t verify what you’re saying about yourself is true Edit: looks like he …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:23 PM
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Toxic masculinity: I think all men here who are incel virgins who can’t date are losers and should be mocked. If you can’t get a date and get laid you are not a man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:18 PM
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It does work though. All I see is excuses in this post. Especially at the singles event one. Fucking pathetic reasoning on that one. The problem is none of you hopeless people understand the nuances and how to navigate these advices in different circumstances. We can’t describe that over reddit because we don’t know your day to day life. Rule 1: Be attractive Rule 2: Don’t be unattractive These are not specific to looks remember. Can you pinpoint what attractiveness/unattractiveness means? Try a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:13 PM
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Correct. I don’t want you to succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:40 PM
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I dont think mixing black and red makes purple.. My advice is be honest with your flair because if people think you’re being dishonest then they are more likely to antagonize you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:38 PM
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I dont get what these guys want & expect
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:11 PM
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Sounds like you’ve taken the blackpill instead
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:08 PM
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I think the responses to this show exactly how “women are picky but they need to choose better but the bar is in hell” sayings intersect. Women are picky with what’s sexy. It really looks very arbitrary and inconsistent. But once your foots in that door then even smiling is sexy apparently. Just be attractive enough to get your foot through that door
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:58 AM
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My god so much angst. Who hurt you bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:51 AM
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sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:10 AM
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Only if you’re bothered, because I’m not
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:40 AM
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Can you work this out for me and compare it high n count people? I was thinking that I’ve easily had sex over a thousand times by now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:30 AM
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Are women interested in n count of 1
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:28 AM
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How about 0 casual;
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:27 AM
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Hey hey hey leave my boy Declan out of this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:13 AM
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Yeah not my thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:10 PM
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Go on…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:04 PM
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Um ok what
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:41 AM
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Wasn’t a fan of some of the questions. E.g. I only like complex paintings for art, not some abstract bullshit like a milk crate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:33 AM
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Because I’m a combative asshole here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:31 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:01 AM
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Where do you get all your opinions if you’ve never been on a date
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:56 AM
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Says who? Where are you basing this off?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:55 AM
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From what I’ve seen red pill people focus on looks and status, and blue pill people focus on personality and interests. RP people focus on looks and status but wants you to be yourself with personality and interests. BP people focus on personality and interests but wants you to be yourself with looks and status. See the nuance? Also, read between the lines here. Maybe “just be yourself” applies to your values. Like if you value monogamy don’t settle for someone looking for something poly. If you…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:53 AM
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Depends on the fitting. But it still doesn’t really matter because men sexualize most outfits anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:47 AM
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So when a woman says (not to me, just quoting someone else) “I have never felt a love like yours before from anyone else. No one else has looked at me the way you do, with such admiration, and for that I love you.” That’s all bullshit and only has to do with the mans money? Even if he doesnt have any
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:45 AM
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Some people have never felt that raw attraction so they don’t know any better
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:32 PM
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Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:27 PM
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Do you agree that the metrics that people are shallow on are relatively arbitrary?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:42 AM
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I wouldn’t worry about it too much. They’ll want to stay long term because like most inexperienced people they think that having the same nerdy interests is the be. Where they go wrong is looking at someone’s values and who they are in their core
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:30 AM
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Yeah I could imagine men in those communities swooping on a new girl like seagulls eating leftover chips
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:17 AM
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It depends. I think you pass a base level of attraction to them for that behaviour to appear. But it sounds like you might be around a lot of nerds/geeks, and only assuming, they are instantly attracted to any woman with the same nerdy/geeky interests
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:18 PM
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Idk it sounds like average men get no dates at all. Even in a popular location
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:16 PM
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Heres the thing, everything you listed and also what happens on apps is an avenue for men to try and get laid. Now if that means they need to get into a relationship first or some other round about way (like adding you on pokemon go), then so be it. Most men’s default setting for dating is “looking for short term, open to long”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:07 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:33 PM
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Team Van Helsing so he can slaughter them all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:31 PM
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No nothing too serious e.g self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:30 PM
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Too many to discuss openly my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:25 PM
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It’s annoying when people say things like that here, although I may have used that line once or twice before
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:21 PM
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Can you cook a steak with 2-3 sides without a recipe? Surely..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:44 AM
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Green text speaking right into my soul
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:42 AM
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Say it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:42 AM
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Wtf who said that? Jesus christ these fake stories are the reason I’m so aggressive with virgin incels
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:41 AM
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Look I agree with you, but playing devils advocate: Why do men have to jump through hoops when women can be just fine by existing at any size. Why are dateless men told to focus on personality and told looks aren’t as important as they think they are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:38 AM
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Gym culture is not going away
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 10:32 AM
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Combination of things: Able to cook different dishes without a recipe Able to balance multiple stove tops burners at once without fucking up Adding subtle ingredients that make huge differences in flavor Cooks something visually appealing Can do different cook styles
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:41 AM
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Had a quick glance at the responses and no one has touched on my idea yet. People are obsessed with hating the fat acceptance movement because there is a continuously growing malaise around the establishment and also woke/progressive ideas being “shoved down peoples throats”. Men, probably politically right leaning, want to bring back the “say what’s on my mind” political incorrectness. It’s a rebellion to woke/progressive ideas. It explains why celebrities are being called mid now. It’s linked …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:01 AM
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31rd
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:09 AM
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I mean today. Valentines day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:08 AM
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31th
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:43 AM
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Best time to be on a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:42 AM
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Can you answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:17 PM
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No problem purple pill “woman”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:16 PM
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I think that’s a big stretch of the term domestic violence. So if my kid turns 10 and asks me for a grand, and I decline it (like any sane person would), does that mean I am displaying financial control/abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:51 AM
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most domestic violence is against children, done by mothers Do you have any sources for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:58 AM
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Nah she’s right. Women dont post on those FA subs for an influx of fedora wearing m’lady types trying to suck up over reddit dms. I guess it depends on your outlook though. If you subscribe to the “give guys a chance!” Mentality then you must get annoyed at posts like the one linked
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:09 PM
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Ah the difference is sexuality focuses on what you actually are attracted to. It only becomes racist/ableist etc if you focus on what you are not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:58 PM
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I’m not coming with the answers, I was just asking the question in response
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:20 AM
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So then men finding other men unattractive is homophobic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:18 AM
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Is it ok not to date if you “don’t find xyz race attractive”? Edit: I only meant physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:02 AM
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It is personality though. But I can only talk about school/work/social group and not from the angle of clubbing/cold approaching people. I make many acquaintances in those first few settings I mentioned because of personality/friendliness. Do you really think I’m good looking enough for people to want to hang out with? Please, spare me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:09 AM
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What’s the reality then? DV is only a problem now? Mind you I only use reddit app so there are a lot of comments I can’t be bothered reading. The motives are irrelevant. The random studies and stats are irrelevant. The nuances of the words used are irrelevant. More men are perpetrators of domestic violence to women. That also includes emotional abuse and financial control.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:29 AM
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They didn’t kill their wives because the wives were obedient and did everything the husband said. DV and murder is fundamentally a control problem, in which the husband can’t control every minute detail of the wife so he lashes out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:08 AM
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There are no red or green flags for occupation. If she treats you well and is loyal what does it matter? Who is telling you these things? Stop listening to throwaway lines people write on reddit or say on tik tok. They don’t actually mean it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:05 AM
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Not just with this, with everything
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:22 AM
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Correct. There is a double standard between men and women. Sometimes it benefits men, sometimes it benefits women. You just need to get over it and accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:16 AM
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Well it’s not so black and white. Being top 10% in looks has nothing to do with chemistry (which is what we’re talking about), but I know to the individual, you need to pass their looks threshold, not society’s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:06 PM
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Looks have nothing to do with it per se. Someone could think you’re the most attractive guy she has ever seen even though no one else feels that way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:28 AM
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Finally you post a decent one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:25 AM
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fortunately you and my wife are the only ones who openly talk about me like that 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:24 AM
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Hahaaha well I’m not ripped, and not obese, just carrying a bit of a stomach. That pic is still recent though, because I got that top for christmas
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:41 AM
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Depends how I was single I guess. God forbid if I became a widower then it would take a while to get back to it. I have never dated though. Technically my wife and I were exclusive before we went out. So my point is I wouldnt know what to do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:47 AM
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No idea but I guess like anywhere, normal average men get with normal average women. Thailand included
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:36 AM
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Physical or mental?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:31 AM
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According to the men here: Introverted, not physically abusive = good man Everyone else = bad guy, chad, future criminal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:30 AM
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Shush
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:24 AM
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Because most passport bros go to south east asia. Most passport bros pick women who are sexually easy. Most of them are poor. Most of them come from a village out of the city. This shows in bad skin and bad teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:23 AM
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That worked for me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:19 AM
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Whatever the female version of “don’t think with your dick” is, is what incel/virgin/nice guys/short guys/inexperienced etc want you to apply to yourself. I guess asking yourself if you would still date the guy if he was not conventionally attractive. If the answer is no then maybe you’re picking wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:08 AM
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Based on what? You know it’s the black pillers who are the biggest snowflakes here, not blue pilled men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 11:29 AM
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Goodnight xx
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:33 AM
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Come on man, you really think it’s cool to go running to the mods
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:28 AM
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Why? I’m not directly calling you anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:14 AM
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Same here, I’ll still answer it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:13 AM
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I absolutely hated trying during ovulation week. It wasn’t fun
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:10 AM
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It’s a pedo trap and weirdok got caught
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:08 AM
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Do no fap and MGTOW
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:07 AM
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Mate, I think she’s trying to find a contradiction in men here that hate on women for settling for a “safe option”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:06 AM
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Post turning 30 I realized I was all of a sudden drawn to people like woman A. It’s a life I never got to experience. I am married to woman B though, which I know has its benefits in the long run. You only live once, so you need enough content to write about your life when you become old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:00 AM
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I lurk a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:31 AM
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That one he was saying “yo” to in the orange top would have been an instant yes for me wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:27 AM
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You could argue that extroversion is a trait of a nice guy because he can get everyone involved in the conversation. Yet ask any incel here they’ll say it is a negative trait
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:24 AM
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The problem is everyone thinks they’re nice. Everyone is the main character in their own world. So who is correct? Who is actually nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:53 AM
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How lean is lean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:33 AM
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So can I ask if you ever try, or get any likes from your looksmatch? In a polite way I’m trying to talk about your…. Sizematch I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:30 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:49 AM
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Pay for it a day or two before you leave (if you’re attractive) , or a week before (if you’re not) and change your location on the app to your destination. My friend is a passport bro and lines up girls in advance
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:49 AM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:46 AM
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How many fucking accounts with the word “ok” in the name. Also who do you support then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:43 AM
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That photo of the women staring, that’s a good thing right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:41 AM
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Online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:01 PM
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Yeah when I say gym properly that’s exactly what I mean. If you struggle to get first dates that should be your gym approach. People claim they go gym but if they’re not doing that routine then they need to stop wondering why
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:57 PM
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Maybe I would struggle, maybe I wouldn’t idk. But at least if I gymaxxed and hobbymaxxed I can at least look in the mirror and accept I am the best version of myself. Can you say the same? There is a huge degree of not trying, because no matter what you think, there are average people always getting into relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:54 PM
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Virgin is not just a milestone not met, it’s a state of mind these people have. Interchangeable with FA and incel. So seeing an escort once isnt enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:04 PM
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Does anyone else reply to you when you post this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:02 PM
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Why is it hilarious? Do you think you can just roll out of bed, eat whatever you want, look however you want, act however you want, not shower for 3 days etc, and expect someone to notice you? Where do dateless/virgin men get this entitlement from? Where do they get this ego that they are better than others while doing the bare minimum to stand out? Is it from too much love from your mothers? Come on man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 09:02 PM
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Because he just isn’t good enough to have someone into him enough to sleep with him. He’s too lazy to workout properly, he’s too lazy to work on his personality. He’s too lazy to get decent professional OLD photos. He’s too lazy to socialize. It’s disappointing that as the years go on, after their early 20’s, they haven’t learnt to maxx themselves yet. You all talk about low value, and sexual markets yet you don’t apply any economic theories around markets to yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:50 PM
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Fml, parents hey?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:56 AM
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You would think so but my dad was controlling so the idea that I would leave his clutches for a woman was unlikely. I did rebel though and here I am
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:30 AM
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No no it’s not, i just dont know any celebrities to compare her to. She’s short, petite, ‘skinny fat’ but with hips. South European background like me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:08 AM
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Well what do you know! A random incel attractiveness metric gets proven false
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:00 AM
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Who does my wife look like? Hmmmmm. Hard to say. I’ll need to get back to you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:57 AM
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I was kidding, was just trying to get a reaction out of saying “alot”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:00 AM
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That’s alot of names
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:50 AM
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My heart dictates my you know what so I mostly can’t just look at a woman and decide attractiveness at face value
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:19 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:17 AM
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You are not good though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:11 AM
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I give my single guy friends full permission to ditch me if they see a woman at the bar
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:48 AM
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I’m only 6’
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:46 AM
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When it comes to this topic I am realistic. If I was physically attractive I would know based on attention. I know my strengths are personality. I wasnt counting gay guys though. I know they love me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:25 AM
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Probably similar figures to you. Maybe even less.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:14 AM
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But why dont you let people be? Let them be fat. What’s it to you? Are you perfect?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:54 AM
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Because it’s always these “low value men” (stupidest self imposed title) who say the most outrageous things about women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:46 AM
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Bro come on, we’ll go out together and I’ll distract the high bmi friends so you have a clear path to success
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:30 AM
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Youtube is your friend here. But don’t be a little bitch and quit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:18 AM
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Fair. What’s your type?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:16 AM
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No offence to the people I actually like here (women and non incels), but downvoting, reporting and blocking is something a weak minded individual does. These were the “please give us homework” type of students. These are the karens of reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:14 AM
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Lose weight and prioritise your side delts and you might have a better chance at pulling as a security guard
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:12 AM
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Apparently some normies are too confrontational and aggressive so it turns people off. Not that I would know anything about that though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:51 AM
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How can you be a 34 year old virgin? Can you please list exactly what you’ve been doing for the last 16 years and where?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:49 AM
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Why dont you get a thai bride
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:48 AM
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What do you do for work
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:47 AM
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Even crypto has crashed, lucky i sold last week
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:37 AM
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Go with where your values and interests are. That could be anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:31 AM
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Downvoting is low tier
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:29 AM
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What part of india are you from
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:28 AM
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With nurses I’ve seen the opposite. If the doctor is nice, it goes a lot further than the a-hole doctor who knows it all and treats the nurses like shit, despite his good looks. Women get the personality ick quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:08 AM
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Look I don’t personally know many mothers who are quite on the spectrum where they need headphones at their own wedding so 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:02 AM
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Half trolling, half genuinely feel like telling her “ok stop now”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:01 AM
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Do you think she can handle having a kid or will it be sensory overload
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:12 AM
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My wife is even more of a normie. Doesnt know what reddit is, and didnt know who hawk tuah was
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:07 AM
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I know, I’m just being intentionally inflammatory
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:07 AM
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On our wedding night: beginningok3333: “I can only feel pleasure if you peg me”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:05 AM
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I don’t hate ND people, but since she is using this to get followers then I will dislike her
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:03 AM
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And do you agree with that kind of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:59 PM
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She needs to drop this silliness and be normal. She is pregnant ffs. I feel sorry for her baby because how the fuck is she gonna handle screaming and crying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:57 PM
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Based on your answer, by your age now you would have 6 kids already
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:56 PM
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Why is she wearing headphones
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:54 PM
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Are you west african
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:34 PM
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Your roman gladiator name was Dickless Virginus
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:34 PM
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Had to look that up, was worried it was slave related
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:33 PM
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Someone who drives a boat/ship. Just drawn towards that lifestyle, drawn towards the horizon etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:30 PM
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Why dont you spend the cash on a gym membership and meal plan
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:01 PM
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Not the same bro
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:50 PM
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No. Tbh originally I thought I liked incel shaming but in fact, after seeing so much normie hate here, I actually love being a tone deaf normie parading my blissful ignorance
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:49 PM
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Well then wtf are you waiting on? Are you saving up for the most expensive one?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:38 PM
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What’s crazy is if I ticked that I had an attractive face and healthy weight then I would have had 9 extra points taking me to the successful tier
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:38 PM
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Have you seen an escort yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:35 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:33 PM
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Liable excuse if both were met in person but over the apps? Hmmm bit of a cop out. Connection is slightly exaggerated and I’m guessing the other guy has better relationship material. But based on the response she dodged a bullet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:20 PM
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Because caring is a feminine trait and some men and women have more of that trait than others. It doesnt make it hypocritical if one partner is willing to take it on while the other isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:24 AM
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Enlighten me then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 01:00 AM
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Disagree and think it’s not weird. I love my child more than anyone or anything in this world, but have no emotion/care factor for other children. I think it’s peak masculine straightness to only value your offspring. Although I also think it’s a boss move if someone else’s kids love you more than their own father
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:44 AM
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November is a betabuxx month because it means theres a chance your dad was only granted his bi-yearly sex on valentines day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 07:56 PM
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Blue pill is the one actually based on facts and red pill is the one based on feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:54 PM
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You probably were saying things opposite to blue pill. Surprised more of you black pillers havent been caught yet
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:46 AM
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I cant remember how I managed with those things
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:30 AM
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I read it as linkedin park
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:17 AM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:02 AM
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Will try that and yell in my deepest growliest voice “COME ON COME ON COME THATS IT”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:00 AM
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Bro look how old I am. School was nearly half my life ago
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:59 AM
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Does sudoku count lol. Stopped playing when I was like a late teenager. Mainly played fifa anyway if that counts
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:59 AM
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Bahahahaha yeah most of us. Not enjoying this season because the refs have ruined us more than a stacy settling for a betabuxx
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:02 AM
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I’m the least sensitive here. You could have removed the /jk and it would have been fine
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:57 AM
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Am I the only one who has no idea how to use these properly to make it tighter or looser ffs <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:55 AM
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Already a dad bro. 7 month old. Love of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:54 AM
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I liked DBZ as a kid. That’s about it because I grew up
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:54 AM
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Well I’ll have my 7month old with my full time so a shit tonne of walking. Will meal prep also. Just want to use it to lose approx 10-20 lbs if possible. Under no circumstances I’ll be sitting around
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:53 AM
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Anime is the cringiest thing ever. As a proud normie I hope it is eradicated one day
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:36 AM
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3 months paid leave starting next week yiewwwwww
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:36 AM
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Lies. Full cream cows milk > breastmilk > every other milk out there
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:00 AM
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Filipino bar workers clearly talking about me and giggling
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:10 AM
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Yeah I enjoy how honest you are about your L’s. It’s got nothing to do with me and everything to do with you. Idk with you I feel like you deserve it slightly more than the average person here? Can’t explain it, maybe when you screenshotted my comment against me? Or maybe I’ve seen you be rude to other users, like lily
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:06 AM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:00 AM
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Hang on. I said the exactly same fucking thing as you and got slammed by red/black pillers about it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:58 AM
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I love hearing about your day to day life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:56 AM
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Slightly? Like a million times than the man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:54 AM
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Well that’s the shit thing about reddit. It’s too anonymous for my liking so idk anything about her. It’s doesn’t matter which men she did or did not specify. The discourse and perception is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:30 AM
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Your first paragraph is spot on. Your second is missing the point that she is proving that despite RP talking points, someone like her husband still got married
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:59 AM
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If he’s so great then why aren’t any of the female friends attracted to him? Looks = works for apps and “foot in the door” interactions (e.g. meeting someone for the first time) Personality, intelligence, humour = works well for converting friends into relationships because the cream rises to the top always
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:39 AM
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People always claim “but but but I work out!” yet either look like a twig or look like shrek. If you don’t look like you work out, then you cant claim to be doing it as a red pill cope. Work out in silence and only tell people when they notice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:34 AM
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Hey you figured out the reddit thing I mentioned to you. Nice work!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:30 AM
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What makes you a good man? Genuinely asking since I don’t know you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:49 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:48 AM
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I highly doubt it goes all the way in. And stop watching porn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:10 AM
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With her body? No chance
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:58 AM
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Buddy it’s a losing battle with these people. Quit before you turn nasty like I have
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:49 AM
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I love triggering you guys. Payback for the misogynistic things you all say. Yeah I probably would have been an incel. Who knows. What do you want me to do? Leave my wife as an experiment? Doesnt mean I would have hated women for it either. I would have looksmaxxed and moneymaxxed instead of complaining. I’ve been surrounded by your type all my life. I know you more than you think I do. But every now and then you all reveal little tidbits of crap personalities within yourself. Little bits of mis…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:23 AM
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Actually where I’m from covid benefited the middle class because we got to work from home full time and we had less restrictions than the working class areas
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:15 AM
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Sacrificing being a grumpy, video game obsessed teenager all day. Can’t you see the gripes here? They dont want to be dancing monkeys i.e. a normal functioning member of society
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:03 AM
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In an majority white country I am not a POC, and I’m not white anglo so I’ve been told I am “white presenting”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:59 AM
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I’ll piggy back off this because I wont give a serious answer, well, it is to me. I like the idea of the dating market, tracked on an xy axis, meets a new equilibrium
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:43 AM
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Oh you’re a woman. Makes sense why you wont be left alone at the bar
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:10 AM
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The devil is in the details and the nuances. On a dating app? Niceness means nothing. We’ve seen with chadfishing experiments where the profile says they are criminals. In a social group? Niceness is everything. A good personality will shine through. The caveat is that a lot of guys here equate nice with “not abusive”. You can have an “asshole” persona and still be a nice guy. Niceness means being caring, making sacrifices, being selfless. Not being the supreme gentleman holding doors open. When…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:07 AM
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Not once did I think it was out of attraction. To this day I am adamant they were laughing at something. I live in a western country, so I don’t stand out to minorities. Why else would fight or flight kick in?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:33 AM
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That doesnt work. Although I am unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:56 AM
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Yeah I guess you’re right about her. She sounds smart
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:41 AM
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You lost me at 99.6 atar being mensa tier. No way it is. It just means she studied the same info a lot and gamed their rankings in their class and school. I am not surprised actually. That narrow/tunnel vision which helps with studying means she cant see the forest from the trees in life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:18 AM
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Hard disagree. Blocking is a cowards move
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:19 AM
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Dont let these mean people get to you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 01:18 AM
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It’s not just sex, they still hang out until it fizzles out. It’s just early stages of finding out about each other. Old fashioned way: attraction > commitment > sex Nowadays: attraction > sex > commitment Arranged marriage: commitment > sex > attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:52 AM
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What’s with the BP slander? Your claims against BP are untrue for anyone who has proper conversations with women. I’m BP and I know your numbers sound roughly correct. Most single women I know my age are having anywhere between 1-4 short term things a year. You’re right, they don’t count them for some reason. Women are weird like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:24 AM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:56 PM
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It’s hard to say as I am in two minds. The path I chose had consequences. One being isolating myself from friends. If I wasn’t with her from 17 maybe I would have stayed friends with heaps of guys, expanding my social circle and eventually meeting someone in my early 20’s. I would have had time to looksmaxx, even though gym culture wasn’t as big back then. Overall I don’t get any female attention though. Not that I want it but unlike other married men here I don’t get hit on ever. And that’s fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:35 PM
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Sorry dude.. I’ve just never spoken to anyone from the US (outside of reddit) before and everyone on tv or youtube sounds differently to you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:29 PM
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Not joking though, it’s my genuine feelings 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:27 PM
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Tempted to do an AMA.. will anyone actually ask me anything lol AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:26 PM
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This fucking sub
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:24 PM
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You should have said you’re sorry, see how she was feeling, double check if she couldnt see you casually that same day, and if not, reschedule like she wanted. The fact that you were on her mind while she was hungover is a good sign. She might have been clubbing for a friend’s birthday, I dont think that’s a bad thing. Unless she was with another dude, then yeah, move on from her
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:16 PM
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I’ll be honest, and sorry this sounds harsh, but as someone outside the US, this is exactly what I thought an incel sounded like
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 10:11 PM
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I still think shes physically attractive though regardless of whatever happened (I honestly dont know the full story, didnt pay attention to it)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 06:32 PM
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So to you, a relationship ticks all the boxes in love, sex and long term companionship?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:56 PM
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I know I know you’re right I’m just quoting them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:50 PM
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Us men think we know a woman’s subconscious more than they do. Even I, a very innocent blue pill guy, falls into this trap sometimes. That’s why when women here give advice, if they disclose their current bf is 6’ for example, most men here will straight away discount her words. The saying I’ve seen here so many times is about watching what women do and not what they say. Where do you think that comes from? Men thinking they know your truth more than you do. They’ll blame biology, which may be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:40 PM
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Flirting is a tool to get someone’s guard down. Not a password to their genitals
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:35 PM
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You need to really ask yourself why a romantic relationship will cure your loneliness. Then when you have your answer, ask your self why again. Why can some people go years without a relationship but manage just fine with constant fwbs. Why can an older couple have a great relationship but go months without sex. Really dive into why you want a romantic relationship. Are you feeling unloved? Are you just wanting sex? Do you want marriage and kids before you hit a certain age? Are you just wanting…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:33 PM
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You know flirting doesn’t just mean complimenting their appearance right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 12:29 PM
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That’s so interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:14 AM
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So he’s no longer physically attractive because of he’s religion? Men wont be able to grasp that thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:41 PM
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Idk man. I have no dating experience so I can’t say what’s going wrong for you. I still subscribe to the just world fallacy so feel like somethings missing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:39 PM
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Hmmmm not as black and white as you think. If my wife did it now, and got grain fed instead of grass fed steak, even though I always buy grass fed, I would find it a little strange, or maybe thought she forgot. But I wouldn’t get mad because it’s still good enough in the short term. But if you’re still newly dating or like within the first year, then I would see it as a nice gesture. We are creatures of habit and eventually the girl in your post would come to miss the regular flowers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:33 PM
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For one rep or for sets?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:26 PM
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I think shes being dramatic. Regardless of your taste, flowers make a house look nicer and having a variety each month would be nice. I would love a high quality steak subscription!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 11:24 PM
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