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GooseMysterious5004/r/Divorce_Men09/05/23 02:39 AM
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Yes. I do. Good point.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/23 04:41 PM
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Yeah good explanation of the reasoning behind Grey Rock. No sense wasting your time.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/23 11:06 AM
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After I discovered affair in April of last year, ex wife tried to guilt me over not getting her a anything for mothers day in May. It was something else. .
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/23 02:34 AM
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Lol. With your FIL, you operate in that state of being--trying to do anything to make your wife happy--you do it for so long you actually think its normal. I think its actually more common for guys that age to "white knight" it so to speak. My Dad does. Step Mom rarely worked and they retired and with his assets she had him move from NJ to Fl to a bigger house in Fl, to NC and then back to PA all within 6 years. Nuts. And I don't even think he sees it if I'm being honest. Or maybe he does and ju…
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 01:56 PM
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Wow. Major gold.digger. Sounds like she hid that well.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 11:09 AM
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No doubt. We used to BATTLE about the diet when the kids were younger....like let's say when my daughter was 4 and my son was 2. Now 4 years later, neither one is the skinniest of kids. Lots of conflict, my pestering her to make better choices for them. Eventually I just gave up, it wasn't worth the hassle. Now she has the audacity to mention my daughters weight from time to time and have zero ability to make the connection between the habits she instilled and her currently being overweight. So …
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 05:02 PM
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Dude absolutely this. This ought to haven 50 up votes. It is the same. You both start noticing thing you don't like. What keeps you from straying, from looking for the exit door? Morality and values. Its not right to cheat. I want a nuclear family. You ride the ups and downs and make it through. Most women are weak when it comes to this stuff though, especially morality. In fact, 95% justify their cheating and/or leaving as your fault. It was the righteous thing to do. You were absuive, you were…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 12:41 PM
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Yeah....you can't stop the insanity. Its just wishful thinking. And then you are helping to take care of someone else's kid and the kid will probably hate you anyway when they get older. 60% of 2nd marriages end in divorce and I'm sure the 70% women initiated rule still applies. You are a man, so you are thinking "gee, I'm sure she will appreciate me. She had a few tough years as a single Mom. I am really helping her out" Trust me, she will make you feel that way at first, but give it a couple y…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 12:34 PM
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Correct. That came across wrong. But her perception is that she is more successful. Mine was the same way.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 12:24 PM
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Right. Truth. In an argument pre divorce, mine called herself the breadwinner. I let her think that. Neither of us made amazing money but I outearned her by about 20k a year. So when divorce came and she wasn't going for alimony, bc she thought she was the breadwinner and she was too stupid to actually ask to see my W2 so no alimony or child support for me. 50/50 custody. End game, look at Brad Pitt. Dude couldn't have more money, be better looking, seems intelligent/caring etc. Taken to the cle…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 12:21 PM
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Yup. You know they don't value you anymore. You can feel it, sense it. And if they hang with women who also hate their husband's (which are most women), its even worse. Grey rocking is absolutely the best way to get revenge. I was doing really good but she kept breaking things we agreed to outside divorce decree. So then I would get lissed and engage her and boom, i could literally feel the power dynamic shift in her favor. For awhile I wasn't even talking to her or looking at her. She was deves…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 12:09 PM
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Oh yeah. You had no shot once she was more successful than you.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 12:04 PM
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I'm sure you were. I was a good husband (always a good Dad) for first 6/7 years of our marriage. Last two years as she started pulling away, not so much. At times I was, but at times, I also said some really nasty things, called her names, disparaged her family because I honestly just had enough of her binge drinking/attention seeking/lying ways. I wouldnt say I regret it. Her whole entire network is unfaithful to guys that are completely different than me so it may not have mattered how I treat…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 11:26 AM
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Absolutely. My lawyer said most go 50/50. I was like welp, I'm going for more than that. I wroekd my butt off to put us in this good financial position, she cheated, I'm divorcing her and I am taking what I feel like is mine. I was just basically a complete a hole to her and highly combative and she was a s well at times. I felt like I owed her thag for f'ing me over and our kids. I told her that our fighting could be lessened if she was fair and let me keep what I earned, that we would have mor…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 04:45 AM
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I feel this 100%. I think I am co-dependent as well. I actually left mine though. I caugh her in an 8 month emotional affair that might also have been physical. She lied constantly when I found out. I came to a point where I couldn't trust anything she said and I questioned how much of tbis crap gone on behind my back and for how long woth how many people. I have sent her tons of nasty messages, but thanks to all the reading I have done on reddit subs, my therapist, friends and family, I have co…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 04:29 AM
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Lol.. This is really well said and I feel the exact same way you do. Been reading red pill stuff for a few years. Very accurate. Sometimes I wonder if I would have been better not seeing it as I was lighter and happier, like a woman in some ways.. Reading all of it ultimately made me realize women are simply incapable of romantic love. Like two people meant to be together and would do anything for one another. Yeah right. That said, if you get in good shape and apply some of the principles, you …
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 02:57 AM
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Don't marry and expect to be cheated on and/or drama and remember that you can leave first. Anyway, when I am on top of a woman, I absolutely love her, everything about her. Some more than others. I need that. Can't/won't do the prostitution thing for the easier way, plus the conquer is part of the fun. I hear you though man. It oftrn seems to end the same way. I learned from some of my last relationship and when the ex cheated and begged for me back, I divorced her. There is something about bei…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 02:41 AM
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And once periomenapause/menopause comes into play as well. When I sat down with my lawyer initially for divorce, he was like "how old, let me guess? Early 40s?" She just go back to work? Yes and yes. Also remember that our society really sells the "you got this girl, you don't need a man mentality" and for many, they don't. Life won't be perfect, but they will get by. And while they may not be able to provide their children with as much, they will be happy and free and what matter more than thei…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 02:19 AM
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This absolutely 100%. Think of it. Particularly for attractive women their, their single days, dudes willing to eat their butt at the drop of a hat. Tons of attention. Serious boyfriend, attention. engaged, attention. marriage, attention. pregnant, attention. birth, attention. Cold hard reality sets in shortly after kids. For starters the motherly instincts make them value the kid waaaaaay more than you. Then there is the hassle of that job in and of itself. Its thankless. No one really cares an…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 02:08 AM
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Not my ex. I think she thinks I am someone else.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/23 11:18 AM
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Sounds like an intense situation and perhaps my writing style and or my post is like that of your ex. But wrong person....best of luck to you.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/23 10:06 AM
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Sounds like an intense situation and perhaps my writing style and or my post is like that of your ex. But wrong person....best of luck to you.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/23 10:05 AM
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Ding ding ding. Its an ugly situation.. and I'm not so sure that bilogical parent wouldn't supercede signed beith certificate. She knows who she was sleeping with at that time besides OP...she can go back and get support from them.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/23 02:54 AM
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Get the test. I had this argument with a co-worker once. (Worked in a restaurant, lots of time to sit around). I am of the opinion that if the child isn't yours....you owe him nothing. His Dad does. Should you choose to remain...that is your choice. But if you were to completely abandon, I would argue you should not be judged at all. I wound abandon if he weren't mine and so would most of my male co-workers. 100%. If the kid is 8 or 9, that's a totally different story and you are really really i…
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/23 02:51 AM
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