the difference is, while technically correct, yours sounds like a non-native speaker, it's just not the way germans speak. Mine is what a german would say. do it, it's always good to speak more than one language so you can get different input! and it's a nice language, regardless what the rest of the world thinks ;)
german here, you are royally fucked! she knows the culture, the people and the fine little things you don't... my tip is leave the country, take the toddler and run! a divorce will make your life a living hell if she wants.
Fuck your political agenda, this is MGTOW, no? You European? You know what you're speaking about? Even if so, let your political shit in the subs it belongs to! Is MGTOW now brigaded by TD? What the hell, not even here I can just be a man aside my political views, what has this sub become?
I'm in Germany. Believe me, they recently changed the recipe. It was all over the news here and in Italy. Now, if you open it, after a few days, it's become watery on the surface.