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Inner Game GordonGecko69/r/seduction14/05/25 05:56 PM
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LifestyleGordonGecko69/r/seduction06/05/25 06:28 PM
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ConversationGordonGecko69/r/seduction15/07/22 05:32 AM
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So, you are old like me… Thanks brotha. Some will get it. Some won’t. And the best of them won’t need it. Me and my social anxiety did.
/r/seduction15/05/25 05:00 AM
1

Wouldn’t that be awesome…
/r/seduction15/05/25 01:45 AM
3

Nah. But I have used his stuff. He is methodical and surgical which plays to my strengths.
/r/seduction15/05/25 01:45 AM
2

Steal away! That’s what it’s here for. Now to your question… If he’s that good and you just chill and let him isolate you? She doesn’t come back. Because at that point, you didn’t get AMOGed. You got eliminated because you were never really a factor. The key isn’t to “chill and hope.” It’s to remain so anchored so awesome even when he’s louder…she still hears you. The framework assumes he’ll DLV because most do. But if he doesn’t? You better have already seeded your gravity. Otherwise, you were …
/r/seduction15/05/25 01:44 AM
2

Beating him at his own game. Not bad.
/r/seduction15/05/25 01:37 AM
6

If you’ve never been hit, you ain’t sparring hard enough. Still, I like your vibe. If we ever AMOG each other, let’s skip the flex and just launch the podcast. I'll bring the mic. You bring the receipts.
/r/seduction14/05/25 10:31 PM
17

I only own 7. Not one single one over that.
/r/seduction14/05/25 09:01 PM
2

And there it is.
/r/seduction14/05/25 09:00 PM
10

If so, I'm a pretty crappy one cuz i can't find the catchy pitch?
/r/seduction14/05/25 08:59 PM
14

They say even Filmore Slim, the godfather of game, once got knocked for all his hoes in a single night. Not because he lost his game...But because he forgot that being in the zone doesn’t make you immune, it just means you’d better know what to do when the storm hits. What do they say about pride before the fall? I respect the optimism, my guy, truly. Your point reads like a man who’s never been punched in the junk by a perfectly-timed "Hey girl." You assume a "mack daddy zone" so strong she’s u…
/r/seduction14/05/25 08:56 PM
1

I see you!
/r/seduction14/05/25 08:46 PM
12

Cool as a cucumber.
/r/seduction14/05/25 08:45 PM
5

Respect for sharing, brother. You’ve clearly been there. That calm, collected “I don’t compete” position is solid... when it’s genuine. But here’s the thing... Not reacting because you’re above it? Power. Not reacting because you had no options? Cope & Hope. Your player card will get tested. Sometimes by the AMOG. Sometimes by the target as a $hit test. It's evolutionary. Instincts suggest that women lay little traps periodically to see if you are man enough to run the jungle. She needs to know …
/r/seduction14/05/25 08:44 PM
45

It's all good. I'm getting AMOGed in my AMOG post. But whathcha gonna do...
/r/seduction14/05/25 06:22 PM
12

I always forget that there are people from several countries here. Never take what you get here word for word, but rather the spirit and the context. If you are referring to "I’ve already clocked your move, playa.” That is not something you actually say. You are trying to give the message that you are aware that this dude is trying to c*ck block you and you are 5 steps ahead.
/r/seduction14/05/25 06:21 PM
11

Certainly wouldn't be worth the time for a pimp like yourself. But most people who enter the seduction community are not quite the same social butterflies. Getting slid on by some MF after hours laying down game can be soul crushing. Handling it wrong can be face crushing. The goal is netiher. How you get there is where game comes in.
/r/seduction14/05/25 06:17 PM
75

It might be. The game doesn't change. Only the players do.
/r/seduction14/05/25 06:11 PM
12

Or you walk away looking like a clown and feeling shattered. It ain't the only way. But it works.
/r/seduction14/05/25 06:06 PM
18

Always lean into the player label. She’s already decided whether she’s gonna bone you and may be testing to see if the juice is worth the squeeze. Don’t let her down.
/r/seduction09/05/25 06:06 AM
0

I have broken this rule more times than I care to admit and regretted it every single time. Location is not important. It is the tension of things if they don’t work out, and statistically, it won’t work out long term.
/r/seduction07/05/25 10:16 PM
-4

Simple. Don’t $hit where you eat.
/r/seduction07/05/25 08:46 PM
1

Solid opener.
/r/seduction07/05/25 07:47 PM
1

Fair Enough
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:22 AM
3

Thanks!
/r/seduction07/05/25 01:57 AM
3

The hardest part is unlearning the win-at-all-costs mindset. Pickup trains you to chase outcomes. Get the number, the kiss, the lay. Even if it burns trust or kills long-term potential. Being a real partner means shifting from performance to presence. It’s not about the next move. It’s about playing the long game with honesty, patience, and the courage to drop the mask you spent years perfecting.
/r/seduction07/05/25 01:23 AM
2

I gather these are cultural differences. With that, I cannot debate what is right or wrong. But opening and brief touch does not work here in the states on a cold open. That is a major red flag without building rapport and getting some IOI's. I also could not imagine a woman here having this type of deep conversation without building rapport. To each his own. It is just not something I have ever seen.
/r/seduction07/05/25 12:55 AM
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That’s wonderful. I have been married for several years. No desire to go back. Just realize I’m a much worse husband than PUA. Game favors short term over development.
/r/seduction06/05/25 11:39 PM
1

Funny you ask. Check out my post from earlier today for a bit of background. I’m not here to measure dicks. All I said was your novel doesn’t make sense to me. And exactly how do you find an emotionally resonant topic with a person you have never met, unless you are going with some generic bullshit?
/r/seduction06/05/25 10:50 PM
1

A cold approach with a compliment will get you blown out of the water. You are going to find an emotionally resonant topic with someone you have never spoken to? That’s just the start.
/r/seduction06/05/25 10:41 PM
0

Take the time to figure out what it is that turns the off to you. If you still can’t figure it out, ask a gay man.
/r/seduction06/05/25 09:32 PM
0

This is one of the creepiest question I have ever read here, and that is saying a lot.
/r/seduction06/05/25 09:21 PM
1

What the fuck?! What in the 1952 Dale Carnegie is this bullshit?
/r/seduction06/05/25 09:20 PM
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DHV and social proof.
/r/seduction06/05/25 09:19 PM
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Same as I said in the last one that was deleted. This is horse shit. I’d love for it not to be. But it meets none of the social parameters. I’d love for this to be possible. But that would, unfortunately, mean she had a dick.
/r/seduction06/05/25 09:16 PM
2

If you’re not being tested she doesn’t value you very much or you are paying for it.
/r/seduction06/05/25 09:14 PM
2

Then you would be essentially rewriting my post with significantly less words. What’s the fun in that?
/r/seduction06/05/25 09:10 PM
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You can’t. But you can be better. The first task is getting over the belief that you need a specific combination of outward attributes. Height, weight, muscles, car, outfit are all ways to DHV. And they all must pass the smell test by being “congruent”. A successful set is a series of wins at several stages. If you don’t your hand will be your only lady friend. When, where and how do you get hung up? How do you escalate? When do you escalate? What IOIs are you looking for? How often to you get c…
/r/seduction06/05/25 08:57 PM
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Fuck! If that’s door #3, thank God I never found it.
/r/seduction06/05/25 08:33 PM
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That’s actually quite a compliment. Thanks!
/r/seduction06/05/25 08:30 PM
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It’s always the crazy ones…
/r/seduction06/05/25 08:28 PM
1

Well said.
/r/seduction06/05/25 08:27 PM
4

There’s always that pivot. The night the noise dulls and you stop mistaking chaos for excitement. You clearly made yours at 24. Most never do. You’re right about game. It’s tuning, not transformation. But raw materials? Even diamonds are judged by how well they’re cut. The ones who stay sharp just learn where to file the edge down, and where to leave it.
/r/seduction06/05/25 08:26 PM
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Sure, go ahead, but this one’s simple math. By age 12, most women are getting hit on 20+ times a day. That’s 7,000+ unsolicited advances a year. By 25? Nearly 100,000. Of the 3% who break through, 90% are weird, lame, or dangerous. So your shot? Maybe 0.3%. To even register, you’ve got 30 seconds to be different, not desperate, not creepy, and definitely not boring. That means no “You’re so beautiful” nonsense. She’s heard that 99,999 times. Be the one guy who didn’t. Stand out by showing value,…
/r/seduction06/05/25 08:21 PM
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Ah yes, the IKEA manual for emotional development: assemble self, screw around, install wife. Problem is, most guys skip the “build yourself” part, confuse validation for growth, and end up proposing to and stalking the first woman who laughs at their jokes twice or holds the door open for them.
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:51 PM
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Touche
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:48 PM
2

Fair question. The answer: no clue.
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:48 PM
12

They’re not rejecting your looks, they’re rejecting your energy. Women smell insecurity like sharks smell blood. If you think you’re ugly, she won’t waste time proving you wrong. She’s too busy validating herself to validate you too.
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:47 PM
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Unfortunately, this won’t turn into a commercial for some book or course. The information is already out there. I like the old stuff Mystery used to put out years ago. Much more surgical and scalable. YMMV.
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:43 PM
5

Well, then you’re twice the man I’ll ever be.
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:34 PM
4

Maybe. Or maybe pickup was just my way of outsourcing intimacy. Performance instead of presence. But trust me. When you get really good at being who they want, you forget how to be who you are.
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:33 PM
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If you can walk through both doors, you’re built different. Respect? But real pickup mastery? It usually requires being part actor, part narcissist, part escape artist. The greats, Kobe, Coltrane, Jordan, they weren’t balanced. They were obsessed. Mastery costs you something. For me, it was connection. Both doors exist. But most of us only have the key to one.
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:30 PM
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Fair enough
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:16 PM
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Good luck. It’s a different skill set. I scroll through the posts here and laugh at how easy some of the questions people ask are. But the other door is a motherfucker.
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:15 PM
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Thanks. Age will do that for you.
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:13 PM
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It’s a numbers game. The absolute #1 rule of game is to get over one-itis. Once you do that, everything else is a weapon. Don’t run from the player label. Run towards it. Half of the women will be disgusted. The other half will be intrigued. The second half are your field of battle. Being locked into a single chick who falls in group one will never ever win unless she has a shift in mindset. This can sometimes happen after a breakup or some other trauma that spins her into her “hoe phase”. But i…
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:05 PM
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Would have saved me a hell of a lot of time…
/r/seduction06/05/25 06:58 PM
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Classic Reddit troll. I’ve been in this group off and on for at least 3 years. If you think I’m bullshitting, read through some of my comments and come to your own conclusions. Regardless, my credentials are irrelevant to the post. Take from it what you will or not at all. Remains the same.
/r/seduction06/05/25 06:58 PM
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Tough to say. I now have 3 sons. Two of them looked at me like some kind of psycho when I tried to pass the torch. The other brings his friends over all the time to have them talk to me like I’m Oz. Sometimes I envy the two who want to be nothing like me.
/r/seduction06/05/25 06:55 PM
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It could mean any of a few things: It’s a shit test She’s immature You are giving gay vibes.
/r/seduction06/05/25 03:14 AM
2

Make her a wing/pivot and keep it moving. If you had any chance, being completely unfazed will make you 10x more attractive.
/r/seduction05/05/25 11:22 PM
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Fake news, unfortunately. Inner game will keep you at a solid 10-25% success. 3 solid progressions will up that to 50-60%
/r/seduction05/05/25 11:21 PM
1

Not at all.
/r/seduction05/05/25 10:57 PM
1

Dude! Pump your breaks. And I mean that with all love. You are coming on too strong. Whether networking or dating, looking too needy turns people off.
/r/seduction30/11/24 12:25 AM
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Hard to break that ice without looking like a creeper. If you have a solid opener that doesn’t bring up her defenses, then yeah. If not, try another time.
/r/seduction30/11/24 12:24 AM
1

Funny, light text.
/r/seduction30/11/24 12:23 AM
1

Like any goal, it needs to be broken down into smaller pieces and then evaluate what works and what does not. Part of it will be using existing strategies. The other part will be making them your own.
/r/seduction30/11/24 12:22 AM
1

It’s a numbers game. Think of it like a sales funnel. There is a math equation that connects inputs to outputs. If you are not having luck, triple your intros and evaluate what you may be doing wrong and when they may be dropping off.
/r/seduction30/11/24 12:21 AM
1

The point is not the response. It’s more about moving on. She is shit testing you and you are getting tangled.
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:53 AM
0

Define player I can neither confirm nor deny the validity of these statements Fake news! You tell me. Probably Look, I’m in the witness protection program. So I can’t really talk about all that.
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:19 AM
1

Spend a month talking to a MINIMUM of 10 random people boy or girl every single day. The goal is not to escalate or any of that bullshit. The goal is trying to keep the conversation going. If you make it 5 min, next time make it 6 and so on.
/r/seduction30/07/22 06:17 AM
2

Don’t be a b@&ch.
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:50 AM
1

I mean, you can’t go 0-60 in 2.4 seconds. Start by approaching and jumping on your DHV. First thing is you have overcome looking like a weirdo. Have a purpose when you open. Set a time constraint and DHV.
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:49 AM
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She wants to tease you and have fun. Next time you hang out, be the first to pull back and work it from a different angle. She will be completely astonished by the fact that YOU are stopping it before it goes there. If it restarts, escalate and suddenly the barrier is gone.
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:44 AM
1

No
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:39 AM
1

Response 1 - because she’s making me look bad. Response 2 - All those hours of flute lessons and all my groupies come from guitar. Response 3 - I wanted to set my guitar on fire but the lady thought it was immature. Kinda feel like she’s holding me back.
/r/seduction30/07/22 05:39 AM
1

Do the Italian cheek kiss thing.
/r/seduction28/07/22 06:50 PM
0

You don’t ask for permission
/r/seduction28/07/22 06:50 PM
1

If you can’t get laid on a cruise I’m not sure what to tell you. It is seriously the easiest place aside from a spring break.
/r/seduction28/07/22 06:49 PM
1

Show him your tits. Works every time.
/r/seduction28/07/22 06:48 PM
2

How you handle the AMOG demonstrates your value. There are a few ways to go. If there is common ground you can come at him as a homeboy. I’d buy a shot for an AMOG before I would buy one for a chick. Or you can mind fuck him. You have to be careful if he is a meathead kind of dude or he could beat your a$$. I’m a big dude. So I have never really had to deal with it. But I’ve seen my wings get boxed in on this and squirm until I come to the rescue.
/r/seduction28/07/22 06:45 PM
1

You have gotten HORRIBLE advice. I don’t know you or why you don’t currently drive at 30. But I’m sure there’s a reason, whether or not it’s a good one. We put too much value on dumb shit. I can’t attract women because (insert random obstacle). Instead, be creative.
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:38 PM
-6

Nobody said you are bragging. You have clearly missed the point. Also, understand that you are reading words. They have no emotion. That part you add yourself. Perhaps being over sensitive and overthinking things is what is helping to cause your problems. Don’t take things so seriously. Being confident and relaxed shows you are in control and that alone will improve your chances with women 1000x.
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:33 PM
1

“Whoa there turbo. I’m not sure how you got the marriage proposal from hi. But I’m flattered. You’re not really my type. But it would be super cool to hang out and just kick it without all that baggage. Anyway, looks like we both have to wait until the next life.”
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:24 PM
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I truly f@&king hate this way of thinking. It is by far the most detrimental to your success with women. Every clown who can’t get laid sums a woman’s interest into two things, money and looks. That’s a f@&king cop out. It’s your excuse and your rationalization for why you can’t have luck with women and why if you DO believe you have one or the other of these two traits you question the universe on why you don’t get p@&sy. If you don’t believe me, scroll through the posts in this group and see h…
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:19 PM
1

You are a male and you are giving her attention. That’s what I mean. It validates her as a woman.
/r/seduction16/07/22 04:38 PM
1

Perfect!
/r/seduction16/07/22 04:29 PM
1

Group dynamics is everywhere. Better to learn to deal with it than live in a cave.
/r/seduction16/07/22 04:27 PM
1

Nah homie. Don’t do it. One of my best friends had a sister who was HOT and SLUTTY. And she was after me hard, following me into the bathroom. Putting her hand down my pants. Getting fully undressed in front of me. I NEVER crossed the threshold and it still broke up our friendship. P@&$y is a dime a dozen. But a real road dog is priceless.
/r/seduction15/07/22 06:42 PM
3

MF, my mom prefers dudes who can spell. Jump on that Hooked on Phonics then circle back. I hear they have a payment plan.
/r/seduction15/07/22 06:37 PM
1

Unless you’re saving up for an operation, you’re going to have that 5 inch dick anyway. Own it.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:39 PM
1

No, when he winged with me he was BROKE. You have to let go of the excuses why you can’t and find excuses why you can.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:37 PM
0

No, I can tell you from experience that it is both a slippery slope and ultimately doesn’t work out. You get a specific kind of girl in a specific setting. You can’t pull randomly walking down the street because the random drunk dude just looks pathetic. You never really learn how to run game because the alcohol is doing it for you. You may say that you don’t care. But it will actually hurt your opportunities with women more than it helps it. It is very very easy to go from drinking to warm up t…
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:00 PM
3

He was also an INSANE salesman. Hard to learn much from him because he just had a natural gift. But the point was that he had tons of physical limitations and still managed to come out on top with AMAZINGLY beautiful women.
/r/seduction15/07/22 03:52 PM
1

Not sure what your intention is with this comment
/r/seduction15/07/22 03:35 PM
1

Yes, of course.
/r/seduction15/07/22 02:23 PM
8

Of course! Anyone who wants to assert social status will shit test you. It’s a way of testing your place in the pecking order. If you think only douchebags do it. It’s because you are the bitch getting punked. In PUA circles it used to be called AMOGing (alpha male of group). You MUST learn how to deal with this without looking like a bitch or getting into a fight. Even if you win a fight in this situation you often lose. If you believe that this doesn’t exist or is just assholes, you are likely…
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:13 PM
1

Men get out in the friend zone because they don’t build attraction with the girl. It’s a delicate balance. But too many dudes focus on building rapport that they do not make it clear that they are a sexual being and also build attraction. If you have a lot on common, and have the same interests and musical tastes and hopes and dreams you are a woman or her gay best friend. Many guys fall into this trap because they think that connection is the same as attraction. At every step of the way, you sh…
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:03 PM
2

Short, a little on the fat side El Salvadoran dude who had a bit of premature balding and way too much body hair. He wasn’t confident. He was an arrogant prick and he could talk his ass off. He was the guy who could have a 30 minute conversation with the CEO of a company, then a homeless man, then an old lady, then a gangster. Very much a used car salesman kind of mofo.
/r/seduction15/07/22 12:44 PM
1

COVID paunch.
/r/seduction15/07/22 07:10 AM
3

This is just weird.
/r/seduction15/07/22 05:37 AM
3

No
/r/seduction15/07/22 05:35 AM
2

Yes
/r/seduction15/07/22 05:32 AM
9

So many reasons you don’t get a call back some are you. Some are them. Also, hitting it doesn’t mean your game was tight. Sometimes you back into p@&sy. Sometimes you are in the right place at the right time. Consistency will let you know you have solid game. As far as your contribution is concerned, you have to be interesting for tonight and interesting for tomorrow. Most guys try to tell a chick their life story to build rapport and it works to close them. But now they know you. Then they are …
/r/seduction15/07/22 05:24 AM
1

Right now: sauvage, Monte blanc and Invictus. But I have changed up every once in a while. You have to find something that works with your body chemistry. But I find that most women like a more manly cologne like Armani and ish like that than that sweet smelling crap young fuck boys try to rock.
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:06 AM
6

Lots of moving parts and most of it you got generally right. The big thing is how you reacted was a bitch move. You show lower value when you can’t take this with ease. It could have been a shit test to see how you reacted. It could have been that she is just immature. Either way, you failed in the response. The way you responded showed how much you wanted to hang with her and also how bruised your ego was. Both are low value moves. Guys who have high value have options. They don’t have time to …
/r/seduction15/07/22 12:57 AM
1

Man, a real deal PUA doesn’t give a shit about how you look. That’s just a fun challenge. But finding a solid wing man takes time. Even if you are on the same level, real magic comes when you are solid enough to play off each other. Every REAL wing man compliments you. Sometimes they bring the bait. Sometimes you do. I’ve had some bad ass wing men in a group of 4 of us we were basically unstoppable because we had every flavor and could each talk the panties off INSIDE the club/bar. But it took t…
/r/seduction14/07/22 11:45 PM
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You can do this and you don’t need coke or money. Don’t become a regular. If you want to practice strip clubs a lot, rotate several. NEVER get a lap dance. Rookie mistake. She’s nice to you. But all you are is an ATM and she also thinks less of you. Don’t be a f@&king perv. Act like you are used to being around beautiful, half-naked women. Resist the urge to ogle. If she gets too handsy or tries to sit on your lap, don’t let her… especially the lap part. Your d@ck will betray you trying to be co…
/r/seduction14/07/22 11:39 PM
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It sounds like she is in a hoe phase. Maybe she broke up with a boyfriend. Maybe she lost weight or did something else to feel better about her appearance. Or maybe she’s just feeling like being a hoe. Nothing wrong with that. You are not her first choice. But you are a safe backup. You ever gone out trying to get laid, nothing worked out, so you hit up old faithful at 2:30am with the WYD text? You are the WYD text, but you come and find her. She went to the club looking for a better option. Whe…
/r/seduction14/07/22 10:21 PM
1

Negative. Most of the dudes are being disingenuous. Her guard is DEFINITELY still up. Light flirting and convert when you see clear confirmation from IOIs.
/r/seduction14/07/22 07:51 PM
2

The biggest player I have ever known and my wing man for like 5 years was 5’3” on a GOOD day. But he had GAAAAAAAAME.
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:21 PM
1

But why is it so important to do so? Your compliments need context. That’s a weird one.
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:20 PM
2

You don’t “become” a natural. It is counter to the concept of being a natural. You can become more confident and have better success with women. But that doesn’t make you a natural. Don’t mislead people.
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:19 PM
1

Liberaler has some good advice. You have been around for 5 years. She keeps you around for male attention. You ain’t hitting that EVER unless she gives you mercy ass (you don’t want that) or gives up. Remain nice. But don’t be needy or clingy. You need to step back a bit and see where you stand, because you have already gone WAY in the wrong direction.
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:17 PM
12

You ain’t cold approaching this one and closing on the same day. Go for the long game. Grab attention and bounce. Say something a few days later and keep it moving. Women who work at gyms have a HARD guard up because every clown with a membership thinks it’s part of their member benefits to try to bone her. You need to overcome that.
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:12 PM
2

It’s all in the execution. This is a go to. You want a public place with lots of people. When you don’t know a woman very well yet you can scare her with a secluded event like this. Grab a few plastic kites or a football or something silly, grab some sandwiches and a bottle of wine or something and make it work. Every dude she dates is usually cookie cutter. Dinner. Dinner and a movie. Drinks. Do something cool. Amusement park, picnic, some kind of lesson. Many of these (except the amusement par…
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:09 PM
2

That’s the easiest way. But you can also find a famous person who has a similar build to you and try to emulate their style. They have high paid stylists who handle their ish. Pull-up bar and the push-up bars. Done. Definitely recommend taking some time with this. A solid cologne is golden. Shoes, keep it simple. But this will somewhat downs on your age. You said you are on your way to med school so you aren’t 18. Lime green and sunburst may not be solid options unless you can REALLY own the sty…
/r/seduction14/07/22 04:58 PM
2

When it comes to approaching, no. You won’t always get IOI’s Low value women are more likely to give clear “I’m approachable” signs. Sometimes it’s a defense mechanism. Sometimes they just aren’t paying that much attention. Having to hover around long enough for a wan to notice you AND show interest will likely make you look creepy. Once you have opened a set, absolutely look for IOI’s before escalating. Just bulldozing forward is kinda rapey. IOIs will be subtle. But they will always be there. …
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:05 PM
1

There is a lot to unpack here and the vast majority of people here will be I’ll-equipped to assist you. Your ass needs a marriage counselor not a Reddit group. You’re treating your wife like a piece of p&$$y and maybe that’s why you are where you are.
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:58 PM
1

Congrats Dr Phil. You are the dorky friend in the ROM Com. Keep it cool with her and find someone else. You may have lost this one. But a solid female wing man is worth her weight in gold.
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:55 PM
2

I have never heard of a woman who excited by an unsolicited DM.
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:51 PM
1

I have full sleeves and yes it does impact.
/r/seduction14/07/22 04:26 AM
1

You have more success with apps because you, like most people, have carefully honed your online presence. You need to do the same in real life. Online apps are a numbers game. You can hit up 100 women a day with the same bullshit line and the sheer numbers will get you results. Also, app chicks are more open to either casual sex or trading sex to find that “soulmate”. But your actual GAME is weak. No disrespect. It just is. What it sounds like is that you can only get a hit if the baseball is on…
/r/seduction14/07/22 04:24 AM
2

Ah, you’re one of those. Not today Chinese Hacker bot…
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:46 AM
1

It sounds like you are not interesting. Not talking shit. Just being straight to the point. Maybe you are choosing boring dates. Maybe your conversation game is lacking. Maybe you’re too clingy. Maybe you follow up too quick and too often. Women want a dude who is interesting and exciting.
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:38 AM
1

If you are not getting reciprocal kino you may be reading your cues wrong. Pull back and start over. Sometimes women are afraid to say no, especially if you are friends. So they accept your escalation without reciprocating. She also may be shy. Jump back, start over and check your IOIs. Make sure you aren’t reading it wrong.
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:35 AM
2

OP asked for opinions, homeboy. That was my opinion. Don’t like it, keep scrolling.
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:27 AM
1

She likes the attention, not you.
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:26 AM
3

You don’t open a set and immediately go into something risqué. That’s clown shit. The only women who go with that are the fake hoes. These are the ones who talk an amazing game but really aren’t slutty. Major dead end. How’s your day been? That’s a conversation you have with your grandma. Women are hit on CONSTANTLY. You need to make her put her guard down and how’s your day and what’s your favorite position won’t do that. How did you open the set? Why are you talking to her? Is there a real rea…
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:24 AM
1

Preach!
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:16 AM
7

Don’t be a douche. Women talk. You’d be surprised who knows who. Handle it right and she’ll be an advertisement for you. Do it wrong and have to start working it out in a new city.
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:15 AM
14

Don’t be childish.
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:12 AM
4

If you have a gay friend, have him evaluate your appearance. He will rip you a new ass hole from hair to shoes. Get a gym membership. Working out improves your posture, makes you more confident, and improves how your clothes fit on you. Have a female friend go with you to the mall and try out colognes. Find the one that smells the best on you and run with it. Evaluate your shoe game. The things women say they notice most about a man are eyes, smell, breath and shoes. Make sure all that shit is o…
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:54 AM
2

The Game by Neil Strauss is a classic. Mystery Method is another. I never liked the RSD shit and a bunch of the others. Just remember, the tactics get old but the strategies do not.
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:34 AM
6

I’m surprised that you think fuck boy is something to aspire to. It sounds like you are annoying the fuck out of people with your fake bad boy vibes. That’s REALLY easy to see through.
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:32 AM
-1

So, uh, no woman wants to f@&k a 32 year old dude to identifies himself as a wizard. So start there. And no, an escort won’t do anything to help you. It’s transactional and that doesn’t seem like what you need.
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:16 AM
1

How do the 1st and 2nd dates go? There is clearly something you are doing not your looks.
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:12 AM
5

I don’t want to sound melodramatic. But there are levels to the game and it comes down to what you want from it. Some people want to be more social. Some people want get to know people. I wanted p@&sy! I was an unapologetic man-whore. But not everyone is like I was. I read a lot of comments from people who have no interest in having multiple women. That’s fine. The game can give you more confidence and to be less socially awkward. You don’t have to go all Deuce Bigelow. Step one if you want to m…
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:51 AM
2

There is always a group of girls who have the “girl, fuck him” theme going. Lots of hugging and cheering. Shots! Once you’ve seen it a few times it’s easy to spot.
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:02 AM
12

No! We think every single bit of politeness is an offer for vagina since every time we are nice we are offering penis with it. Women aren’t like that. Most guys are sissies. So they aren’t solid at making eye contact. I see more women who have the stones to look you in your eyes while they talk to you. You need multiple IOI’s to determine if she is interested.
/r/seduction13/07/22 09:30 PM
10

Yes, the younger crowd have NO social skills. I see college kids all the time who think that talking to a woman is handing them their phone and telling them to give them their social media contact. It’s pretty sad. Like I said, I’m too old for the game now. I have a wife and kids. But I pulled her in the first place while out with my PUA crew. But she’ll never know that. Bedazzled shirt, silly rings and 2 foot wallet chain and all. Yup, I was pretty embarrassing.
/r/seduction13/07/22 09:24 PM
7

PUA - Pickup Artist Day game - going out to talk to women during the day as opposed to hitting the nightclubs.
/r/seduction13/07/22 09:13 PM
1

Ummmm. That’s called the internet.
/r/seduction13/07/22 09:11 PM
37

Real PUAs never die out. They just move on when they can’t go out 6 nights a week anymore. I got into the game in 2003, a little before the book The Game came out. That caused a HUGE influx of wannabe’s. Some crossed over to real deal Mack daddies. Some moved on. Being a committed real deal PUA kinda takes over your life. I got out of the game when I met my wife. We are still married now. I came to this group like the old ass MF I am to try to give sagely advice. What I have gotten is some of th…
/r/seduction13/07/22 09:04 PM
1

Or you can base it on actual sex.
/r/seduction11/07/22 05:57 AM
2

Way better sex? You need to hit on sluttier girls. Best sex is a girl who just got out of a long term relationship and is in her hoe phase. I used to have radar for that shit.
/r/seduction11/07/22 02:14 AM
1

If you have to profess it, is it really the case? The “woke” feminine dude shit is played out. A grown ass man generally doesn’t use words like cringe or incel. A better grasp of the English language may improve your seduction capabilities.
/r/seduction07/07/22 11:03 PM
1

If you are coming at a woman who has AirPods in you better have top notch game when the pods come out. She will be thinking “WTF does this asshole want?!” Disarming that isn’t impossible. But it takes solid skill. Generally, social settings are better. The last thing you want is the awkwardness of trying to get her to pull the AirPod out, hear what you have to say and respond. That’s a lot to overcome. Obviously, if she is into you, you might have luck. But any woman with a decent level of self …
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:37 PM
1

Incel and cringe in the same comment? Yup, you have a vagina. It’s cool. But don’t try to give dudes advice on how to seduce.
/r/seduction07/07/22 10:29 PM
1

You are in a Reddit group entitled seduction. Perhaps google the definition.
/r/seduction07/07/22 05:58 PM
1

Yup, been black my whole life. How about you? White girls are our superpower.
/r/seduction07/07/22 05:57 PM
5

Then don’t hit her up. You can’t be alpha and beta at the same time.
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:24 PM
1

That’s a f@&king cop out for having no game.
/r/seduction07/07/22 04:23 PM
8

Problem 1: you are texting someone while you are at work with them instead of talking to them. That’s your first b@&ch move.
/r/seduction07/07/22 03:38 PM
1

Actually, you FURTHER solidified that there is something wrong. I lived in Italy for 3 years and don’t speak a word of Italian. Europeans LOVE black dudes. You are clearly doing something wrong. It sounds like your outlook is kicking you in the balls. No woman wants to bone a dude who thinks he sucks.
/r/seduction07/07/22 03:35 PM
1

I mean, if the deck shoes fit…
/r/seduction07/07/22 03:22 PM
4

So THIS is what happens when guys think the stripper is actually into them…
/r/seduction07/07/22 02:53 PM
2

What nationality are you? Because if you are black and can’t pull a white girl you are doing something wrong.
/r/seduction07/07/22 02:37 PM
1

Seriously?!
/r/seduction04/07/22 04:48 PM
1

And how does that make you feel?
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:47 PM
0

And how does that make you feel?
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:46 PM
0

Happy trolling
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:44 PM
0

I get it. You have nothing to do on a Sunday so you are trying to argue with redditors. It’s cool. I get it. Totally better than actually talking to women.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:41 PM
1

Happy trolling
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:38 PM
1

Instead of debating a dude, ask a damn WOMAN. Let her tell you. I get it. You have no game and are here to try to be a damn troll. Do you homeboy. But for anyone who wants to actually get laid and not try to look hard on Reddit, try to be different than all the clowns who come up to her each day telling her she is beautiful or cute or whatever. Shit ain’t working.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:32 PM
1

Again, ask the women in your life. Mother, sister, aunt, cousin, friend. More than likely you will get an eye roll rather than an actual answer. And yes, of course it would depend whether she left the house, what is going on that day, etc. Also, understand I am being SOMEWHAT facetious. I would think that would be a given, but… But the guy behind her at the ATM, passing dudes on the street. The guy who is grabbing oranges at the grocery next to her. Nearly every guy she interacts with is doing s…
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:59 PM
1

Take a poll of the women you know and answer the question yourself. Women are offered d@&k hundreds of times each day. You ain’t special.
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:44 PM
0

No! Telling a girl she is cute is a complete waste of time. She has been hit on at least 500 times THAT DAY before you got to her. Join the pile of clowns or be interesting. Which would you pick?
/r/seduction03/07/22 06:09 PM
4

No, no, and NO. You are dropping a one size fits all solution to a much larger problem. Build rapport and be patient? So, friend zone every girl you meet? Awesome! Women don’t f@&k their friends no matter how many romantic comedies try to get you to believe that. She wants to f@&k the guy who is exciting.
/r/seduction03/07/22 05:27 PM
1

So, uhhhh, it’s unclear where you got any of that bullsh@t from what was written. He’s on F@&King Tinder, not passing a beautiful flower at the library. Stop making it weird. Perhaps you don’t speak guy. So I’ll make the message a bit easier and less crude so that perhaps you will be better equipped to muster up the brain power to understand. You are on Tinder. So if you mess this up you are REALLY doing something wrong. Most people are very very socially awkward. So their attempts and funny, fl…
/r/seduction30/06/22 04:06 PM
0

And that makes it weird. Most nonsluts (and even some sluts) can be awkward at flirting. So when they try you need to be receptive or her vagina hits the off switch. You need to jump on that better.
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:48 AM
8

Damn dude. She was trying to flirt and you made it weird. She put her vagina on a silver platter and you’re like “nah, I’d prefer to make it weird and see what happens.”
/r/seduction29/06/22 11:27 PM
2

Negative. She just ain’t interested in talking to your boring ass. If you hit the right locker combination your problem will be shutting her up not making her talk. Conversation is a dance and right now it looks like you have two left feet.
/r/seduction29/06/22 11:15 PM
1

I couldn’t get through this long ass diatribe about how you are different and your obstacles and bigger than the obstacle of others and blah blah blah. Bull$hit! These are your half assed excuses as to why you can’t handle your business. That’s it! People try to use dating apps because it allows them to sidestep overcoming the fear of cold approaching. You know what else overcomes the fear of cold approaching? Cold Muthphuckin Approaching. Is it hard? Well, of course at first. But you need to pr…
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:53 PM
3

Get rejected more.
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:28 PM
1

Literally just everywhere. It’s you, not the setting.
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:27 PM
1

Unless you have a “reason”, leave it alone. Otherwise you are in AFC country.
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:24 PM
1

Don’t
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:23 PM
6

Leave it alone
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:22 PM
2

Cmon man. There’s no honor amongst thieves. If you about that life and are using game to get in a girl’s pants, becoming self righteous at the end does not change anything. You don’t get points because you dropped her the “right” way. If you don’t have the stones to do it right. Do it how you do it. Better to rip the band-aid off than let that ish linger because you can’t sew things up.
/r/seduction09/02/22 09:42 PM
1

IOI is indicator of interest. Years ago this was in the Mystery Method. But there are several IOI’s that let you know that someone is interested and you need several before you can confirm that she is actually interested. Too many MF get one and then try to pull their dick out and don’t understand why it wasn’t well received. Just because she holds the door open for you when you walk into a building and says hi does not mean she wants to f@&k you. With the girl you are talking about, she has giv…
/r/seduction09/02/22 06:34 PM
1

There is not a single IOI. You should NEVER shit where you eat. But you damn sure shouldn’t do it when she isn’t even interested. Just stop!
/r/seduction08/02/22 03:33 AM
2

Left hand is the pimp hand. Right hand is the simp hand. Which one is stronger? Fuck around and find out… amen.
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:28 PM
1

A lot of what you are getting is good info. Yes, don’t fucking dry hump at the club. It’s cool to escalate. But unless you are going to fuck in the car it must fizzle out and you lose that momentum. Always address the friends. As you can see from the comments, there are a hundred ways to do that. But you at least need to be able to measure them. Some groups of girls don’t give a FUCK about letting their girl leave alone. Others are chicken hawking all the time. Know your environment and act acco…
/r/seduction01/10/21 09:21 PM
1

Yup.
/r/seduction01/10/21 06:47 PM
1

So this strategy doesn’t work the first time and your best plan is to double down? Good luck with that.
/r/seduction01/10/21 06:45 PM
0

You mad, bro? Sounds like a guy like me smashed a girl you were in love with and now you feel the need to try to be a keyboard gangster. It’s okay, dude. The world needs awkward virgins too. Good luck with that.
/r/seduction01/10/21 06:18 PM
1

No Dipshit. You missed the point. The point is that rejections come and over time they even themselves out AND you get better. It’s just a numbers game.
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:42 PM
0

If you don’t understand the difference between not being too nice and being a gangster/thug, I’m not sure I can help you.
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:40 PM
1

Ever seen a fat polar bear? It breaks the ice.
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:39 AM
1

The easy go-to is “You don’t want a dog like me for a relationship” or something like that. It actually works like a challenge. Girls like duck buddies too. What the fuck with this bowling shit. That sucks ass. You want a slutty fuck buddy but do corny shit to get there.
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:38 AM
2

Don’t shit where you eat. There are too many vaginas outside of work for you to risk it. Believe me! I was warned. I didn’t listen. I did it multiple times. I regretted it every time. I did it again, rinse, repeat. Just… don’t.
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:34 AM
1

That’s bullshit. Ask any woman you know. I am SURE she has dropped hints or obvious shit to let you know. We are horribly unimaginative. I once did a full on manicure on my girl. FUCKED her hands and feet up but it worked. If shit is boring it is either because you are boring or the two of you are boring together. One of those problems is fixable…
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:31 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:23 AM
1

Surgery
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:22 AM
1

What?! From your comments I see “I want to be a douchebag I just don’t want to look like one.” Big boy pants, G. If you laid on game thick, having a few stalkers is a byproduct, unfortunately. Man up and try to be honest.
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:21 AM
1

Are you getting IOIs before escalating?
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:18 AM
2

So, only read the first 4 words and stopped. Why are people so hung up on their height? You can’t change that shit. Move on!
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:16 AM
2

For the first time ever… I got nothing. I mean, I’ve ghosted, I’ve played poker, I’ve turned down pu&@y. But I didn’t actually MEAN that shit. It was part of the game. So, yeah, no…
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:15 AM
1

Yea
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:13 AM
1

Try to put your thumb in her butt and see what happens. No, seriously. If you are thinking that she is thinking that double, because we are fucking slow. You better jump on that shit before you come home to someone else’s d@&k in her mouth. Honestly, it starts with you. What are you doing to wet her … appetite? Figure that out and saddle up.
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:12 AM
3

Can’t help ya. I’m a one dick per party kinda dude.
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:08 AM
-4

If this is your first time getting rejected you haven’t opened enough sets. Until you are working in win/loss percentages you ain’t ready for the next level.
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:07 AM
2

Be worth chasing.
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:05 AM
1

Wrong. Whether in dating or business always get the other person’s contact info. It ensures that you control the interactions, instead of waiting by the phone hoping they’ll call.
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:03 AM
1

Buy a tute! Guaranteed!
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:58 PM
1

No, you were comfortable in your surroundings.
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:57 PM
3

Dafuq?! How do you say I’ve never seen a vagina without saying I’ve never seen a vagina?
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:56 PM
3

Again, it begins with how you open, online or in person. I don’t believe in online shit. So, honestly, that’s not where I float best. In person You have to open with no MF fear. Single, 2 set, 5 set, WTF ever. In fact, opening a group is easier because you can address the group and check IOIs for who likes you. Time constraint, DHV, all that shit. It’s old school but it WORKS.
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:55 PM
1

Seriously dude? I’ve been to Bulgaria and the Netherlands (fucking love Plovdiv. But that’s another story). Russian dudes get laid in Europe and Bulgarians have a bit of a Russian vibe as far as I’m concerned (yeah, yeah. I’m an ignorant American, blah blah). It ain’t your nationality. It’s you! Up ya game brotha.
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:50 PM
0

Just you.
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:48 PM
3

You’re too nice a guy and fucking BORING. You got two separate texts late a night during the fucking hours. I don’t know anyone who has gotten a text after midnight from a girl who has been kinda sorta dating that wasn’t a thinly veiled request for dick. Batter up!
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:47 PM
1

Because it’s easier.
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:43 PM
2

Here’s the honest side to the game. You have to decide what you want to be. Do you want to get p@&sy or do you want wifey? If you want the former, you build a persona and don’t break character. If you want wifey you kinda have to set the stage early. The two don’t necessarily mix well.
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:42 PM
3

What the fuck? This can’t be a serious question.
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:40 PM
1

Generally between 14 and 90.
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:39 PM
1

Because it’s easier that jumping in balls first.
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:38 PM
2

It’s case by case. Are you an in person gamer or one of these tinder dinks? How did you meet? How did you open? Did you get an IOI’s? How did you escalate? There isn’t a one size fits all answer. But there are a handful that you can keep in your holster.
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:38 PM
2

Because your ass isn’t interesting to them. Women chase HARD. In fishing it’s about setting the hook. If you don’t set the hook you don’t catch a fish. If you are aloof for no apparent reason she thinks you are a douchebag or aren’t interested. Set the MF hook.
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:34 PM
5

Weird times right now. So the normal game kinda doesn’t necessarily apply here. But you clearly weren’t all that interesting. B@&ch move giving your number. Always get hers.
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:32 PM
3

Google Cat String Theory.
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:29 PM
1

No. A gay man is just like a straight man, except they like dudes. 99% of dudes will hit on an ugly chick. And what does it matter anyway? Ugly dudes get laid too.
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:28 PM
1

Wait, so you posted on social media that you don’t use social media? THAT IS AWESOME!!
/r/seduction29/09/21 08:25 PM
1

Unsend? That’s some bitch shit. It’s the “you’re not my friend no more” for old people.
/r/seduction05/09/21 07:49 PM
3

Well, You may be free but I cost $7. So bring your credit card, dammit. All this milkshake ain’t for free.
/r/seduction05/09/21 07:37 PM
1

Walking in a crowd of cattle with the chick you like: “Is that your hand on my ass? I hope it is because the dude with the beard next to you is not really my type.”
/r/seduction05/09/21 07:34 PM
0

Based upon your explanation, set 1 appeared to be good. Can’t be sure though as I have to take your ish at face value. Set 2 you dropped the fucking ball. She’s right, you did make it weird. You were down to buy her a drink and then you weren’t. Makes you look weird or broke. Neither make her want to f@&k you. You should have reframed at the first drink. Then you have a playful “game” to go back to. From what you described, this is a full close set waiting to happen. But you changed the mood on …
/r/seduction05/09/21 11:29 AM
19

Fools gold. She likes the attention. Beware.
/r/seduction05/09/21 11:21 AM
1

Don’t shit where you eat! Be honest. Never tell a woman you love her or care about her when you don’t Don’t shit where you eat! Did I say “Don’t shit where you eat”? Ok, cool.
/r/seduction02/09/21 10:56 PM
1

So, you tried your ass off for 3 WHOLE months in the midst of the biggest pandemic since the Spanish Flu and that’s all she wrote. Well, deuces…
/r/seduction02/09/21 10:46 PM
1

Possible explanations. Reason 1: a lot of dudes go after a black woman to satisfy some fetish or fantasy. No woman wants to feel she’s a checkbox. Reason 2: Your game is WEEEEEAAAAKKKK Reason 3: You’re giving off a creepy or rapey vibe.
/r/seduction02/09/21 10:44 PM
4

She broke up with you long before she actually notified you. Onward and upward brotha. She ain’t ya friend.
/r/seduction02/09/21 10:36 PM
1

No
/r/seduction02/09/21 10:29 PM
1

Shit drives me insane. “Fuck it, I got a big nose. My nose and my d@&k match. Nice to meet you.” Let it go!
/r/seduction02/09/21 10:23 PM
3

Kinda case by case. But kino, innuendo and escalation are general rules.
/r/seduction01/09/21 09:01 AM
2

Then plan for when she gets back. Pursuing her long distance doesn’t seem like a good idea.
/r/seduction01/09/21 08:30 AM
1

Bullshit! You just choose not to see it.
/r/seduction01/09/21 08:23 AM
1

Thousands.
/r/seduction01/09/21 08:18 AM
2

Gotta have a few backups for those oh shit moments.
/r/seduction01/09/21 08:14 AM
2

Fucking old as far as I’m concerned. If I told you, you would say I’m lying. But I’ve been in the game for a while and played with the best, according to me. A while. When I’m working out and eating well, a solid 9.5. When not, probably a 7.
/r/seduction01/09/21 08:10 AM
2

You dismissed this set too early. It would have been a good one to warm up and try new ish on. You didn’t have a true target so low risk. Sounds like this one was good. No feedback here. This was also a decent set. Could have done a few things differently. But not wrong. What feedback were you getting on this one? Can’t win them all. This one seems like the meat and potatoes. This had promise. Don’t feel like you went to the full potential. Why did you ask about the bf? Made it weird.
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:57 AM
3

You are new to the game young Jedi. Focus on opening sets, not closing. Shoot for 20 instead of 3. Excuses - try the 3, 2, 1, Go approach. When you know that when you get to 1 you must go it’s empowering. I use that in several areas of my life. 1 sets - be prepared with a few openers for 1 sets and a few for groups. Rinse, repeat. Comics tell the same joke like 100 times before they have perfected it. Basic questions - you need to plan better beforehand. You can’t wing it. Volume - speak like a …
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:47 AM
1

Then why didn’t you?
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:34 AM
2

That was a false rejection and you fell for it. Sucks cuz you were in there. Don’t talk about fear or why you were too intimidated to hit her up. But regardless, she was upping the stakes even after that. Do you have any other opportunities for “chance” interaction?
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:33 AM
1

What are you doing now? And what feedback/results are you getting?
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:27 AM
1

Shit looks like a job interview. Some innuendo in there and she bites. That’s good. But even the wording of your questions looks, seriously, like you are interviewing her for the local newspaper. She’s biting on a lot of your ish. Just be a bit more interesting. Oldie I used to use: If you could be any fruit what would you be and why? Not saying use my ish. Just think outside the box a bit.
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:25 AM
3

Google IOIs
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:21 AM
1

She was old and you made it weird. No MILF wants to be called out. Could have followed that up by guessing. But you need to look at what you think she is and discount it at least 10 years. Or say: either 25 or 75. You’re either young and hot or super old and made a deal with the devil. Which is it?
/r/seduction01/09/21 07:04 AM
1

Don’t confirm that shit. Isa trap.
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:22 AM
1

Your hair color is irrelevant unless you are using it to attract attention. If so, go green or some shit like that.
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:20 AM
1

Practice, practice and practice.
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:19 AM
4

Slippery slope. Women are raised to be self conscious. Their first critic is their mom. Tread lightly and choose your words well. How about: I like real women and they come in all shapes and sizes.
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:17 AM
2

Don’t cyber stalk. If you didn’t have the balls to get contact info let it go and learn from your mistake.
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:14 AM
1

Absolutely! If women don’t stop you to ask you what you are wearing you have a mediocre cologne.
/r/seduction01/09/21 04:30 AM
1

Google mirroring.
/r/seduction01/09/21 04:27 AM
2

Sounds like you are getting catfished.
/r/seduction01/09/21 04:26 AM
0

Google IOI’s.
/r/seduction01/09/21 04:25 AM
1

Tough to say for sure without having more info on the exchange. But sounds like you escalated without properly executing the earlier stages. If you don’t build attraction with a woman, WTF would she want to have coffee with you. You are just one of 1,000 chumps who slid in her DMs today.
/r/seduction01/09/21 04:21 AM
1

All good advice in previous posts. Latinas are the SHIT. Crazy as f@&k though. They are spicy in both a good way and a bad way. Not for the faint of heart.
/r/seduction01/09/21 04:18 AM
1

Can’t really critique your set without details. But overall sounds like it didn’t go as you had hoped. Forget about it. The best pitchers have a short memory.
/r/seduction01/09/21 04:16 AM
2

DON’T SHIT WHERE YOU EAT!!!!!! I refused to listen to this and got kicked in the nuts every single time. DON’T SHIT WHERE YOU EAT!
/r/seduction01/09/21 04:13 AM
1

Fuck dude. Don’t be so damn pushy. I’m not sure why you are even surprised she passed on you. As soon as she showed interest you immediately moved to talking. She told you not yet, you asked for FB. You sound like a f@&king stalker. Pump ya brakes and build some interest before turning psycho.
/r/seduction01/09/21 04:03 AM
2

Who cares. Dudes overestimate looks. Act like the rest and you get an automatic rejection response like the rest.
/r/seduction01/09/21 04:00 AM
1

You need to add wood to the fire. But remain flirtatious. This is a common sticking point once people get over approach anxiety.
/r/seduction01/09/21 03:58 AM
3

First off, stop bitching about your height. It is irrelevant. Second, you are friend zoned because you give off the friend vibe. She hung out with you because she sees you as nonthreatening. Obviously, you shouldn’t give out the rapey vibe. But a woman should know you have a d@&k. And she spent your whole “date” talking about her ex? That’s disrespectful. If that happens you can say “he sounds fucking hot. Can I get his number?” It identifies that she is talking about him too much. She may just …
/r/seduction01/09/21 03:54 AM
2

Remember, everybody shits. Even hot girls.
/r/seduction01/09/21 03:50 AM
2

That girl gets hit on 50 times a day with the same bullshit you are planning to do. Put some effort into it dude.
/r/seduction01/09/21 03:46 AM
6

Because your game was weak. Most guys wrestle a number out of a girl. Their goal is number, number, number. They don’t lay down solid rap and have a lukewarm interest. That shit is wood. It’s like sales. A sales opener is so pushy requesting a call back that the customer agrees just to shut them up. Then the closer calls and they say not interested and hang up. That wasn’t a real lead and your number wasn’t a real number. Solid prospects only. Don’t waste your time.
/r/seduction01/09/21 03:45 AM
4

Seriously? Every time a girl gives a dude no strings attached pu@&y he starts acting like the clingy girl. She doesn’t want you. She wants your d”&k. You are exciting and naughty. Enjoy it. Don’t fuck it up with the “where is this going” talk. That’s fucking lame. It’s probably going nowhere.
/r/seduction01/09/21 03:39 AM
4

Patrice is fucking awesome. He was one of the most talented comics around. He was just a fuck up. Every famous comic simultaneously admired him and shook their heads at him. People hated his persona but forget it was entertainment.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 03:36 AM
145

Dafuq is long game? You are lying to yourself brotha. Stop wasting your time trying to steal a chick from her man. Move on to someone who is interested. If she’s interested, she’ll come around.
/r/seduction01/09/21 03:33 AM
1

Talking to a girl.
/r/seduction31/08/21 02:35 PM
2

Easiest strategy: 3,2,1 go. It sounds stupid. But if you KNOW that you have no choice but to do it once you get to 1, it’s empowering.
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:36 AM
1

This dude literally said exactly what I was planning to comment. If you just get out there and be social you will be gifted more p@&sy than you deserve. Frat parties, house parties, football games, local bar nights. There is a place to hook up every single day in all college towns.
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:34 AM
1

Only to direct you to places that can help. There are a shit ton of places that take care of this ish for free. Google that ish.
/r/seduction31/08/21 04:05 AM
1

What city?
/r/seduction31/08/21 04:01 AM
1

Ummm, you ain’t even slick enough to complete the sales pitch.
/r/seduction31/08/21 03:59 AM
1

Depression is a motherfucker. And this ain’t really the forum to give you any advice outside of seeking professional help. Do it!
/r/seduction31/08/21 03:58 AM
12

No, that’s just the excuse you give yourself for not getting out there or not succeeding. Height doesn’t mean shit unless you are abnormally short. But one of my best friends is 5-4, balding, hairy and overweight and he has the most game of anyone I know. His favorite thing to say is that God when skimpy on the two legs so he had more material for the third leg.
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:08 AM
7

You’ve gotten some pretty shitty advice. Cold approach is fine. But it takes work. Men like to say you can’t be successful without money, success, etc because THEY don’t have those things and also don’t have success. So it’s easier to blame it on shit they don’t have. The key is to have a “reason” to talk to her. If you walk up to a girl to hit on her just like the last 30 dudes who have tried in the last 15 min she will immediately shut off and you get a canned and well practiced response. That…
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:05 AM
21

Who cares? Don’t focus on things you can’t control. You will not spontaneously grow 6 inches or completely change your face without surgery. So what does it matter?
/r/seduction30/08/21 11:59 PM
1

Yeah, there’s nothing necessarily wrong with that. I’m saying don’t jump right into it. Hang out, next day text to say let’s hang out again. That’s a tough one. In some instances a girl is so into you right away that this is cool and welcome. This is rare. Usually a girl thinks you’re kinda cool and is warm or lukewarm. These are the ones you have to work with a bit. Don’t be THAT guy.
/r/seduction30/08/21 11:56 PM
2

If you ain’t dead you haven’t missed your chance. There are 90 year olds pimping it at the old folks home. It’s just easier to wallow in your own shit than to make a change. But the problem is you are creating a self-fulfilling prophecy. You go out and nobody wants to hang out and definitely no chick wants to f@&k you because you are a downer. So you think it’s because there is something intrinsic in you and you fall further and further and perpetuate the cycle. Shake your shit up. New job new y…
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:46 PM
1

Face to face.
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:32 PM
1

Sit on the street at an outdoor cafe or some shit and people watch. The alpha in a group is easy to spot and he is usually a bit more laid back and less energetic. Don’t be the court jester.
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:23 PM
2

Fuck man, this SCREAMS desperation. It’s not about her being different it is about you being the same. The same lame ass blowing up her phone. If you laid down tight game let that shit marinate for a minute. If you went out Wednesday, text maybe on Sunday. Just to say what up. Don’t push for a FTF and be light and funny. Escalate from there. If you are initiating every conversation and she is returning short answers you need to pump your brakes or cut bait. Not every girl you hit it off with is …
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:22 PM
2

Excessive enthusiasm is a beta trait.
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:11 PM
1

I don’t have to read this long ass post. The early sign of a flake is FLAKING. Don’t read too much into it.
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:09 PM
1

And that is what you focused on…
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:07 PM
1

Honestly depends on your skill level. If you are a beginner I wouldn’t try it. If you already have difficulty opening it will be that much more difficult. You will also need to overcome a bit of side eye for being there alone. The natural thought is, “you don’t have ANY friends you could come with?” But if you’re confident and seasoned go for it. You need to have a bit more energy than normal and have a good “reason” why you are alone so you don’t look like a serial killer.
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:13 PM
2

It was a joke. But seriously, it sounds more like he wanted to hit it and once he did all interest spurted out of him along with that exceptionally punctual cum. If he was interested, he would be at home doing Pilates, Kegals, HIIT training and drinking his milk to get another shot and make sure you KNEW he wasn’t a minute man.
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:52 PM
2

Not at all. It was a race. You lost ;)
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:37 PM
2

A woman shouldn’t complete you. That’s too much pressure. Would you want a shitty car that doesn’t work properly that you must fix up if it costs the same as a shiny new car? You can never control what people think of you. But you can control what you think of yourself. It sounds silly, but start with the Stuart Smally mantra: I’m good enough, I’m smart enough and god dmit, people like me.” If you say it to yourself enough times you will believe it, just like you’ve said to yourself “I ain’t shi…
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:34 PM
2

So there is not one single thing that has happened in the last nine years? That seems unlikely. We tend to amplify the negative and overlook the positive. Technically, you didn’t shit yourself today… or did you?
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:31 PM
11

Putting too much pressure on it. It’s just p@&sy. When you think about the mechanics of it, it’s actually pretty gross. But fun as fuck! Chill out.
/r/seduction30/08/21 03:55 PM
2

Dafuck is this post even about?
/r/seduction30/08/21 03:51 PM
2

Every man has b@&ch tendencies. Every man has to grapple with his own emotions. It’s what poker players work most on. And every man also has his Kryptonite. This chick is your Kryptonite. You will always turn into a b@&ch around her until you have moved on emotionally. Best to just stay away until your game is solid enough to deal with it.
/r/seduction30/08/21 03:48 PM
7

Bullshit. European women are just as sexual as anyone else. It’s you brotha!
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:57 AM
-4

She doesn’t trust you. You could be a rapist.
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:51 AM
-1

Then I’m missing the question.
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:47 AM
-11

Tossing the vag. I’m not really sure how else to paint this picture. You should have f@&ked her and you didn’t because of YOU.
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:45 AM
-14

Well, you had so many signs of vag that this shouldn’t be a sad post. She was THROWING herself at you. But with every missed toss you lost credit. A woman wants to feel like she won a prize. Do you REALLY feel like you were a prize? Would you fuck you?
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:41 AM
-26

You were fucking BORING. She was throwing herself at you and you didn’t catch. Dude, understand that you had the vagina in your grasp but you got in the way of it. Stop that shit!
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:37 AM
0

If you are trying to close the why are you being platonic? You don’t have to be a perv. But assert that you have penis. If they dont follow you weren’t there anyway.
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:32 AM
3

Ummmm, it’s you. That part sucks, doesn’t it?! Now get over it. You are a star player. You just have to learn that you are.
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:30 AM
-5

Fuck no! When you give her your number you become the chick. You are waiting around for your princess charming to call you. That ain’t how it works. Makes you look like a b@&ch.
/r/seduction30/08/21 10:26 AM
1

She’s insecure.
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:17 AM
2

Ok… start by being comfortable with yourself. That’s not your ex’s problem. Like you! Enjoy you! Believe that you are good enough. If you can’t get there nothing else will work.
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:15 AM
19

You have what is called one-Itis. You believe that you have one true love and she got away. Fuck that! There are 5B women in the world. She’s only one of them. Move on. 4 years is beyond the statute of limitations.
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:08 AM
1

Consistent obstacle. Area where you routinely get halted.
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:06 AM
1

Let it go. There are 5B women on this planet. You won’t win them all. The best poker players fold the majority of their hands.
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:05 AM
2

Going solo to anything takes balls. Not everyone can do it. You need to be super cool and approachable so you don’t look creepy. Can also say you lost your friends. Concentrate on having fun first. If you don’t look fun then ladies won’t be interested. That being said, most festivals have substances. So you all have lowered inhibitions. Have fun and go with the flow.
/r/seduction30/08/21 09:00 AM
1

Do not talk to your friends. They are shitty at advice on this subject.
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:51 AM
1

What’s your sticking point?
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:48 AM
1

Pasta is easy and pretty hard to fuck up. But I’m a trained chef. Let me know your limitations and I’ll help you bang a solid meal.
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:42 AM
2

Do you get nervous around your mom, sisters, cousins, etc? What about coworkers? How about the lady at the checkout line in your grocery store? Chances are you answered no to every one of these. The “I might get to fuck her” issue is what’s messing with you. Take vagina out of the picture. Try to hold some good conversations with ladies. Opening is by far the hardest part. Next is moving from the opening to stage 2. You can’t go from socially awkward to player in one Reddit post. Focus first on …
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:41 AM
1

Do you even believe that?
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:31 AM
1

Move on
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:30 AM
2

Step 1 is why are you where you are? I can help you get p@ssy. I cannot be your psychologist.
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:28 AM
1

Yeah, don’t fuck your friends.
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:23 AM
1

It’s all the same. Other countries LOVE Americans. If you can’t get laid it’s YOU.
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:23 AM
2

Can’t help you. Your foot was more important that neon blinking vagina.
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:20 AM
1

Strap up. Done!
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:17 AM
4

Ummmmmm. That’s weird. Not helping with incest.
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:16 AM
1

Why did you go in for the kiss? Was she showing signs that she wanted to be kissed or did you just feel like it was the logical next step? If it’s number 2 you overplayed your hand. Give that song and dance time to play out. Make sure she shows you signs she’s interested (IOI) before you escalate.
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:10 AM
1

Do NOT tell them you know they are friends. You found out by cyber stalking. You think that’s good to admit?! If you think your game is tight, show up! They are either trying to punk you or threesome you. Both are great learning experiences if you have the stones for it.
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:06 AM
2

That’s perfectly fine. When I got into the game I did the same. Change should’ve to should or will and your good. The best players have the shortest memories. Just like the best pitchers.
/r/seduction30/08/21 08:01 AM
25

Congrats on your first approach. That’s half the battle. Now for the not so pretty parts. You got played dude! A big group is hard. You have to add some kind of value to the group to be successful. Sounds like they let you hang around because you were cool and bought drinks. Not a bad combo. What makes you think the one girl was into you? What signs did she give? Girls are GREAT at flirting and 99.99% of the time it means nothing. Call it what you want. But that fake number was no accident. Does…
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:48 AM
1

You’re asking a very vague question. What happened in the conversation?
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:38 AM
2

That is quite a complex question. Game can’t really be summed up into one comment. At this point you only have a short time before you look like a punk, weirdo or both. Open her and see where it goes. Not that bullshit, what classes are you taking, what’s your major or that kind of crap. Something cool and different. Look for indicators of interest. Too many MF move too quickly to the next step without clear signs that the time is right. Follow up with feedback from first convo and we will take …
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:36 AM
3

Dude, just because a girl starts conversations with you doesn’t mean she’s interested. Also, many girls are naturally flirtatious. Both of these are fools mate. You need additional indications of interest. Direct approach is for suckers and naturals. You need GAME!
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:39 AM
3

If you are REALLY just trying to be a friend, invite them to something a bit less intimate. As I keep saying, context is key and will be evaluated whether you like it or not. When I was in college, every single girl that went to my dorm or apartment I had the intention of boning. And I would NEVER have someone to the house that I wasn’t trying to bone without being VERY careful how I did it so I did not send the wrong message. Again, you have to really understand that women are hit on a hundred …
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:26 AM
4

Gotta look at the details and context. How were the situations different? How did you act differently? How was the scenario different? How did she respond differently. There is a shit ton of useful information on these two interactions if you take the time.
/r/seduction29/08/21 11:19 PM
2

Yes. To illustrate, grabbing a girl by the crotch may be totally acceptable if you are in an intimate relationship, but absolutely not if you just met. Context is important so I can’t give you EVERY scenario. Inviting a girl to your home, regardless of intention, will ALWAYS be taken as “I want to bone you”. Only go there if you think you are at that point or are willing to risk it. It’s not really relevant at this point. But if you reread your comment you will see that it does give an excuse. W…
/r/seduction29/08/21 11:17 PM
1

I have traveled all over the world. EVERYONE speaks English. It’s so bad that even when I want to practice e my knowledge of another language they only speak English because I’m an American. Here’s an idea. Ask about SOMETHING in Cancun in REALLY shitty Spanish. Look for visual feedback. If she rolls her eyes, move on. If she laughs and speaks back, now you’re good.
/r/seduction29/08/21 11:11 PM
1

I don’t know where you are from. But if you have or use apps to get laid in any of these countries you REALLY need to re-evaluate things. Lima is easy. Cuzco is easier. Never been to Colombia. But Mexico City and Cancun, especially Cancun, are way too easy. Don’t rely on apps. Learn to have game.
/r/seduction29/08/21 11:01 PM
1

I am confident that I am not mature enough to answer this question without the obvious answer.
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:38 PM
2

“And oh my gosh, my car just broke down. I just need $1,000 to get it fixed.”
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:36 PM
1

Yes, there is a general script. But it’s more like a choose your own adventure book where there are forks in the road based upon what happens. But, in all honesty, you will find that there are a finite number of scenarios you will encounter.
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:34 PM
11

It is what it is. I can tell you with relative certainty that she gave you a few pity minutes. Don’t take those pity minutes. You want to hang. You don’t want the few minutes before she goes to bed. I’ve been where you are and it sucks. Keep doing what you are doing and you will get the same results.
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:30 PM
8

Someone who invites a girl over by herself for wine is being aggressive. It will ONLY work if she is really interested. If you are JUST interested in being friends, don’t package it as the “I’m trying to Bone you” atmosphere. Perception is reality. You gave the vibe of a creeper. If you think I’m wrong, ask 10 female friends and take yourself out of the story. I’d be surprised if all 10 didn’t tell you that it was creepy unless they were already interested and had built a bit of a rapport. While…
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:27 PM
2

Have a conversation that requires your listener to interact. Some people give speeches. Others talk. If you are not getting interaction you are not getting feedback and they are not investing in the conversation. Not everyone will like you. But better to get feedback 2 minutes in than when they walk away after you have talked uninterrupted for 40 minutes. Plus, if you hit the right question, a girl will take over 90% of the conversation. This is the holy grail.
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:17 PM
1

Girl A is already your mouthpiece and is already hooking you two up. The fact that you and Girl B talked via DM, know that Girl A knows and the Girl B already has the okay to have you. Don’t ask her out. Tell her, I’m going to take you (insert cool adventure) next Saturday. Let’s do 2 o’clock. Don’t explain yourself or make it clear that you and Girl A are done. She’s past that and dwelling on it may make it a bigger deal in her head too.
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:12 PM
1

Really? Boba? Dinner and boba? Be original. I don’t know where you are located so can’t provide any suggestions. But there are some really dope things to do everywhere that are not expensive and make you look original. Gun range, 4 wheeling, cool hike to an awesome sight. Be memorable.
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:08 PM
1

Really, it doesn’t matter. Make yourself look interesting. Wildly crazy stories, etc. Require interaction. Ask questions, polls, “tests” etc.
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:04 PM
2

This started out bad. You left it up to another MF to be your mouthpiece for you. That guy could like her and hated on your. Sounds like she had buyer’s remorse. At first it seemed cool to meet up with a cool stranger. Then it got scarier and scarier. Additionally, who knows what you said vis text. She could have RE-read the conversation and seen things that she took the wrong way. Either way, don’t use other people as matchmaker, never let someone else open for you and minimal text conversation…
/r/seduction29/08/21 10:02 PM
2

The end result is a reflection of the rest of the date. There should be an escalation of contact throughout the contact. You can’t just go from 0 to naked by osmosis. The awkwardness is YOUR fault when it happens. Lead the interaction.
/r/seduction29/08/21 09:57 PM
5

There is no smooth way to do this unless you have a “reason” to do so. Don’t do this crap.
/r/seduction29/08/21 09:52 PM
19

Wow, this is so bad it hurts. Now, I’m not sure if I have the scenario correct. But it sounds like the first meeting was a bunch of drunk people all at your dorm. Did you get any indicators of interest? Did she do anything to show that she liked you above the other group of people who were there? If not, why did you try to escalate to wine and dick? That had 0 chance of success. Then she feels bad and gives you a pity 5 min after going out looking for better dick and you jump at the chance, furt…
/r/seduction29/08/21 09:45 PM
4

Technically, everything is a cold approach unless you are introduced by a mutual friend. Thinking about it on the spot won’t work. You are already CLEARLY a bit out of sorts with the ladies. So you will lock up and get caught in that awkward silence of death. Once there you are FUCKED. Come up with 3 or 4 canned opens. Funny, interesting, outrageous, or all of the above. But it MUST be memorable. I’ve opened with, “Can I get your opinion on something? “my boy got one of those Austin Powers penis…
/r/seduction29/08/21 09:29 PM
2

FUUUUUCK! Does this shit have a Cliff’s Notes? Curious about lesbian game. But I’ll have to read it in portions over the next week.
/r/seduction29/08/21 09:03 PM
-1

No, you can completely continue this. She was pissed that yo moved on, but not so pissed that she wouldn’t dance with you. 90% of women would be disgusted. She’s in the 10%. She’s just punishing you.
/r/seduction29/08/21 09:00 PM
1

Absolute bullshit. Glad you like to look cool around a bunch of dudes.
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:53 PM
1

Because you are a nonthreatening nice guy. They are confident you won’t try to fuck them.
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:51 PM
2

Show up LATE and stay exactly 10 min. Bring a cheap as fuck but thoughtful looking gift for the chick. When you arrive, high energy and make sure the chick who invited you sees you. Go to the birthday girl and say happy birthday and tell her that even though you don’t know her that well, your mom would beat your ass if she knew you didn’t stop by to treat a woman like a woman on her birthday and give her the gift. Bullshit for a few minutes, tell the birthday girl that you have to get to another…
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:49 PM
19

A night club is a HUGE hunting ground if you know what you are doing. But it is also a trap because so many guys are trying SO hard to get laid. You have to overcome that ish right off the bat. The actions of some other Dipshits WILL impact how warm a chick receives you. First off, you interaction needs to appear natural. Walking right up to a chick, grabbing her arm or any other direct approach will rarely work. As soon as you come up to her, her guard is up and even if you are Brad Pitt with m…
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:44 PM
1

3 approaches is nothing. Not a good indicator of success. Horrible approaches. You sound creepy. The last one was the best because you didn’t just dive in and tell her she’s cute. But you didn’t add any value. Would you want to talk to you?
/r/seduction29/08/21 11:10 AM
1

Yeah, why the f&@k are you taking a date to the movies.
/r/seduction29/08/21 11:04 AM
1

When you put your best foot forward as a star player, guys and girls will shit test you. Gotta have the stones to make it through that to wear the crown.
/r/seduction29/08/21 11:03 AM
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