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I thought something was wrong with me for always getting discusted and internally cringing because of this. That maybe I was suffering from toxic masculinity for getting discusted seeing them look up at me like that but now I understand why. It is performative like you say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:13 AM
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I really needed to see this post now. OLD is making me feel very desperate seeing all the trash profiles on their which is making me reconsider men from my past. I tried to imagine being in lockdown with each of them while pregnant or having a newborn and the panic I felt was enough to let me know that not on of them is right. I am the moment know that if wan’t to give my all to my career, finances and building as stable life for myself in the next two years. If I am not interwined with a good m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 02:57 PM
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Applaud 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 03:42 PM
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This is so sad. Two of my close friends actually destroyed two very nice, charming, sweet, well educated and goodlooking guys by shaming them into being more rough and ”manly”in the bedroom because these guys did not wan’t to or enjoy choking, slapping, calling them names etc. Makes me sad very sad that this guys might expect the next women in their life to also likes this and perform this stuff despite them not even liking this type of stuff to being with. Women are also starting to watch this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 02:49 PM
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He was the creep that got Marilyn drunk and took those naked pictures right before she passed away. Those pictures gave me a very bad vibe and now I know why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 10:32 AM
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This is such a great mindset to learn. I didn’t start to get over my ex until I took on a similiar mindset. I realized that who he was towards me was all about him and had very little to do with me, he actually was trying to be the best he could but he never had the capacity to be a good person. I decided to forgive him his wrongdoings (within myself never told him) and take the abuse as a lesson learned and a test to my character. They day I came face to face to him a year after we split, in a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:10 AM
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They are both good looking so I really hope you are right and it’s the case of that and not the actual “sex” itself 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 08:03 PM
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Idk, that in itself is a whole topic but this is labeled “sex tape” by everyone so idk 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 07:25 PM
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I described some of the video in a comment further below. But the guy had to warm up and pour half a litre is coconut oil all over her genitals so the guy was not even able to get her wet, yet social media is in awe of this thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 06:37 PM
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Hey darling, I am very understanding that the way society is a lot of women do feel like you and you shouldn’t be ashamed but it’s just so sad that In this time of sexual liberation anyone would get impressed of that. The girl in that scene was performing, it was like a photoshoot, arching her back like crazy, tossing and turning on the bed while spreading for the camera. It felt so cold to me. She had to have bleached her genitals and butt, have a fake boob job and laibaplasty just to be a prop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 06:35 PM
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Wow, thank you. Exactly this is why I on a whim I sometimes just remove and block as I feel I don’t wan’t to invest more in someone I don’t know. If they were decent they would think the same way. Sometimes I feel like society have killed mens sexdrive. They feel so passive nowadays, like they are content just having women fawn over them and give them validation. Even with sex I feel like most of them wan’t to sit back and have the women do all the work. Roles have really been reversed. The only…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:43 AM
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It does coincide a little 🤔 but then they would breach the subject atleast. Like say something along the lines of when all of this is over I would like to take you...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:45 PM
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Thank you for your response, I couldn’t get a grip of this before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:41 PM
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Hmm, good point. They put ALOT of effort into the novels of text they are sending despite my short responses, this is what is making me wonder. Why would they spend that much energy? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:37 PM
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Thank you for the reminder. I Will make sure to read it again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:08 PM
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Wow, thank your for your insight. I mean since they are giving alot of consideration to their answers and questions I didn’t see it this way. They haven’t shared any issues with me so I am not a therapist in that sense as I am not here for that. But as you say maybe they are lonely and this is a ”cheap” way for them to feel a connection and feel more social. Especially now during quarantine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:24 PM
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Thank you, I needed to hear this. I like getting to know them a little before deciding to see them IRL. One week is too early for me but I think I really should set a deadline that after getting some talking done it is just a waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:51 PM
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I did drop him but my friends all told me I was a fool to do it since he said he would be here before the end of the month. Thanks ladies for sharing my mindset
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:44 PM
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Maybe, nothing surprises me anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:40 PM
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No, I have done a proper check and he is who seems to be and is actually very modest and did not brag at all about his sport I found out checking myself. He also videocalls (i don’t show myself) and he looks good. He is leaving me perplexed honestly. He does not party drink, just with his family, friends (married) and training and school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 12:37 PM
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Agree with your comment 100% in the end it doesn’t matter of the reasons are legit or not if the can’t take the time. I know alot of girls who have ”boyfriends” that they see once a week (if they are lucky) for a movie, dinner and sex. That to me is not a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 12:33 PM
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I know people who know him and he is updating me about his day 24/7. His brothers are all athletes as well and married/engaged. They are religious people. He is the last of his friends to tie the knot which makes me think he is insecure in some way. He just seems passive and that’s why I decided to cut him. I am sittning wondering about does this guy have any hunger at all for a real life woman to spend time with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 12:27 PM
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Wow you made me realize something, thank you. It really is about energy. I love big gestures and have always heard from guys that what we had was magic, larger than life etc. But those guys all exceeded me, which allowed me to unleash that romantic energy. In my opinion I’d rather be alone than in a boring, lackluster relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:15 AM
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He is not in a relationship for sure, in that aspect he is a decent guy but idk if he is insecure, passive or too comfortable. Either way he should pursue more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:15 AM
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I gave him all this time because I respect the fact that he is living a meaningful life that is dedicated to his future but he has had atleast 6-8 days off since we began talking and in any of those days he could have took his car and drove to me if he was interested enough. At the end of day I do not wan’t a relationship where I see the guy for two days every other month so it’s meaningless. I actually had a long disctance with that exact distance and my ex saw me atleast every week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:30 AM
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I think it’s universal amongst alot of men but it’s so depressing as the same men would beat up their wife if she as much as looked the wrong way at another man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:46 PM
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I think it’s universal amongst alot of men but it’s so depressing as the same men would beat up their wife if she as much as looked the wrong way at another man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:46 PM
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Don’t be any ethnicity can have these types and tbh there is a reason macho guys from these cultures are attractive because the bad is mixed with good, they are passionate, generous, charming and protective which is what we like shame it comes with some bad as well :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:31 AM
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No company I just use google
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:27 AM
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I get your point and I am aware but this man did not have that ”I am full of myself” look or cringey smize, posing, ”eye fucking” the camera. Just a neutral, almost innocent look in his eyes, he looked KIND but had the most perfect face and body (clothes on all pics) like on his old he was not profiting of his looks at all with one, bad quality pic of just face (I just have a good eye) so I was thrown away this time. All the typically “I am hot and I know it men” I always stay away from as that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:26 AM
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It’s just so trashy to me to follow that stuff because it’s actually bordering to porn like why would you even wan’t that to show up in your feed when you are in public or for your friends and family to see that? I don’t understand do people have no shame?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:01 PM
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Tell me about it atleast this guy was hot and looked even 26-27 but I finally understod why i legit get fearful and appalled looking at old it’s because all of the post-Wall looking 30 + guys posing as 25 year olds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 10:58 PM
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It probably depends a lot, from my experience they value morals and are less hedonistic then people my age and younger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:23 PM
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Hi, I would do that but in my country few guys have their own housing, schooling etc. in order at age 23-25 Also the biggest thing is that there has been a huge cultural shift here in the last five years. The men born in the late 80’s are the biggest catches because they really wanted families and it was normal for them to try to find a wife in college and get married in their mid 20’s The good looking, successful young men of today are profiting of their status and wan’t to sleep around until t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:09 PM
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Thank you! The worst is actually protecting yourself from heartache and the future faking, this guy seemed so respectful and serious, the ones who are sweet are the ones that are the most dangerous because you are not expecting to be played. So happy I didn’t meet him, thank you for spreading the word to other women on how to protect ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:00 PM
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Very depressing I am still quite young but the only successful, handsome guys in my area between 26-32 have atleast one child already. Most of them seem decent as well. The other guys who are child-free this far has been so for a reason. I would have expected this if I was 40 but at this age I wouldn’t have taught that their were so few eligible bachelors left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:53 PM
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My abusive ex did this each month, I think it makes them feel very good about themselves. This way they are also forcing you to be sweet and affectionate to them. Instead of resting all alone in that bed you will now have to make room for him, cuddle and then maybe you will be more inclined to reciprocate his advancements when he makes a move. This way they don’t even have to wait a day without...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:48 AM
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I always do this :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:24 AM
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Thank you so much for your reply ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 11:39 AM
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❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:48 AM
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I loved Kenny 😍❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:00 AM
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Yes, it just seems so seedy. Usually they are coming up behind you when they start to talk to you so at that point the don’t even see your face. Makes you feel like an object. On the other hand I am conflicted as well because I do believe in love/lust at first sight and it a nice thing when people catch each others eyes in real life and you go from there 🥰 You killed me with that story 😂😭 what is he gonna do for the date though? Rent a car or blame a flat tire for not being able to give her a ri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 07:44 AM
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Kenny from Love is Blind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:58 PM
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There needs to be some attraction there in order for it to grow. There needs to be seed there atleast, if there is nothing then it doesn’t matter how much love and attention you are showered with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 11:00 AM
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♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 10:38 AM
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♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 10:03 AM
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It honestly does you very few favours of trying to be an ”honourable” women. I used to pride myself on not showing an inch of my body on social media. This had the result that people who hadn’t met me thought I was hiding my body. Everyone in real life knew that was not the case and instead suspected I was controlled by either family members or a partner. The guys who loved my modesty, were the absolute worst. They loved the fact that they could have ”something only for their eyes”. Discusting. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 10:02 AM
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They sure know how to pick, the fact that they are searching for resilience as well as emphaty is often overlooked but so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 11:25 PM
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Exactly, it is so important to allow yourself to be who you are, really get to know yourself and then try to find a good match or atleast someone who compliments you. Being elevated and worshipped is intoxicating but a these type of men can never handle the insecurity of getting someone to good for them, with time they will tear you down. I really like being kind and I have set it upon myself to only be involved with really good hearted men with kind spirits. They are a rare breed but they do ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 11:23 PM
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It is crazy how every story with these narcissist demons goes the same way, like they are all following the same script. It is uncanny to me whenever I run across other women’s recounts of what they have been through, usually it is exactly the same! I think independent girl’s that are naturally high value are actually the ones that get hit the hardest, we become a very exciting challenge for these predators and I suspect that their lovebombing is 10x intense then what they use on less stable tar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 04:15 PM
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I agreement with you, after all this it is not the memories and trauma that hurts the most but losing faith in my future. I honestly don’t have even one relationship around me that is healthy. The few that seemed really cute on the outside you eventually learn is messed up behind closed doors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 08:03 PM
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You are so right, two of the guys I mentioned in my post were previously engaged and gave me valid reasons for their engagements not working out. With guy number one, his girl was the influencer and he told me he had doubts from the beginning but became wrapped up in their ”image”, the life they had built as all their friends were a big group of couples. His girl left him in the end, I understand her and emphatize with why she left him. She is married today and was dating her now husband while s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 07:57 PM
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Hi, this was my first ever post here. English is not my first language and I am cringing at all the typos and mistakes I made. About the ”educational” video: This was more than 10 years ago in a public school in my country. It is in western Europe. It was our biology/chemistry/science teacher who held the class. It was not a straight up porno but we did get to see one of those later on. The one I am talking about was narrated by someone in our language, he was talking about how porn had become w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:16 PM
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I have a 2-3 but yesterday I got removed on Snapchat buy one and I am still dissapointed with my self for ever allowing myself to entertain him. It is mostly my ego being bruised as I am sure he had zero value to add to my life. Usually I have a good radar for LVM but I have a soft spot for certain types. This guy I entertained only because he was so damn handsome. He works part-time as a bouncer in a club which already made him non-relationship material. Why did I still go for it? He was almost…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 07:14 PM
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Big little Lies on HBO. I watched the Series ”Big little lies” and watching Nicole Kidman as a sucessful lawyer married to a toxic, abusive LVM made my hair stand on end, a taste of what my own life could have become if I stayed in my marriage. I have never seen a more true depiction of a destructive relationship. It was like the director was a fly on the wall in my own home. The way her husband acts in the show, his mannerisms, body language walk etc. made my heart pound. Exactly like my ex, ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 10:21 PM
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