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Goruto1334/r/seduction19/12/19 08:01 PM
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I’m fine with that. You can call me whatever you want, doesn’t hurt me at all. I just do me and whatever happens, happens.
/r/seduction14/08/20 11:47 AM
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True story: I had no problems getting it up my first time but I didn’t even finish because it was so awkward and bad. Glad your experience was better than mine!
/r/seduction27/07/20 08:11 PM
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I work as a credit collector and it definitely helps with both A. Not taking people’s shit and how to respond accordingly & B. How to speak to people of all age groups and maintain conversation as well as asking questions that provide long answers.
/r/seduction30/06/20 06:12 PM
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You are a better man than I, I could ever approach a girl like that. Keep it up!
/r/seduction10/06/20 07:47 PM
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I am the friend zone king, I can’t think of a logical way to flirt with women lol
/r/seduction08/06/20 08:56 PM
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Both I suppose. In person, I can’t for the life of me bring myself to ask someone out and damn sure am not going to escalate first because I never know how a girl is feeling, I always just think they are being nice. All my interactions with females pretty much go like this: either is introduced to me or included in an activity I’m doing, I can talk fine I’m not awkward or anything and make her laugh, I never even think there’s a possibility she wants me to ask her out so I just go with the flow …
/r/seduction04/06/20 12:16 AM
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Thing is, I know giving up fixes nothing but it’s a fear and I don’t think just going out and approaching fixes that. If someone is scared of needles, you don’t bring out a big needle and say “this will help, hold still” it will cause even more anxiety. All it takes is the first girl I talk to saying something terrible and I will likely never approach again so it’s a delicate situation. Sure there’s a chance that she is warm and receptive but judging by my lack of game it would be wasted time. I…
/r/seduction03/06/20 05:17 PM
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I believe in myself in everything except women. I know I’m great at my job and my other hobbies. I just don’t find myself in situations where I feel my chances are any good. I can talk to girls just fine, I have quite a few female friends but cold approaching isn’t something I don’t think I’ll ever be able to pull off.
/r/seduction03/06/20 04:47 PM
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Idk, it’s just one of those me crippling fears I have that I don’t ever see myself overcoming. I know it isn’t healthy, there’s been plenty of girls I’ve really been attracted to but afraid to show it. To me, rejection would just tank my self esteem and I’d rather not even play the game if that is what at stake.
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:51 PM
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Guy here, I am awful at flirting simply because I don’t do it. I’m scared of the reaction of a woman if I escalate things so any interaction I have with a female always ends up in friendship or never hearing from them again. I’ve learned to accept my fate that this isn’t fixable but at least I have more acquaintances?
/r/seduction03/06/20 12:34 PM
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Sadly I have no idea what going well or going bad is so I usually just end up mixing everything up. I feel all my encounters don’t fall into either category and they just are right in the middle. This has caused me to have no success and take a long dating break even though I’m 24 and should be out there more but a guy can only take so much failure.
/r/seduction02/06/20 03:12 PM
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Let her bring up the idea of a relationship. If she brings it up, talk about it then. For now just enjoy having her to have a great day with with no strings. If she starts to like you enough she will bring it up, it may be subtle though so be aware and a good listener.
/r/seduction27/05/20 08:04 PM
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Idk, just a mental block I can’t get over but I’m glad you gave it a shot, good luck in your future attempts!
/r/seduction27/05/20 12:09 PM
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I’m literally incapable of this. I can talk to any girl no problem but escalating to asking them out will never be something I can do. So you are a better man than I, sucks to have a broken brain
/r/seduction27/05/20 11:07 AM
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I do but they are either married or in long term relationships with other friends. I don’t doubt that attractive women get attention, I would just wager they don’t get quality attention, just the guys eager to smash.
/r/seduction26/05/20 09:15 PM
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That’s not my experience. Attractive girls tend to run with a group of friends, that is a barrier in itself, I wouldn’t approach the prettiest girl in the world if she were surrounded by friends. I’m not saying they should go out all alone because that is just risky but if you are a very attractive female, you have to separate from your friends at least a little to get a drink alone or anything like that. Look up Matthew Hussey, he explains pretty well that only players will approach girls at an…
/r/seduction26/05/20 08:19 PM
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Cause girls are weird and instead of choosing from the infinite amount of single men, they feel like it’s a better idea to steal a taken one. I’ll never understand it
/r/seduction26/05/20 05:48 PM
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If you don’t get approached often, you’re probably very attractive and come off as intimidating. Guys aren’t like girls, we make it painfully obvious that we are interested. If you catch us looking at you twice, bam, interested. If they are hovering around you but not speaking to you, they are trying to get in your space without being creepy. Girls hide interest well, guys don’t.
/r/seduction26/05/20 06:28 AM
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No lie answers here. Teeth and body shape
/r/seduction26/05/20 06:24 AM
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I have no game and I’m honestly ok with that, I like dogs better anyways 🤘🏼
/r/seduction21/05/20 12:19 PM
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Take it from me guys: dates a girl for 6 1/2 years, she cheated on me multiple times and I kept forgiving because was afraid of being alone and that I didn’t deserve better. She left without saying a word while I was at work and posted on FB the same day a picture with another guy she called the “love of her life”. Moral of the story, you get over it. Did it hurt like hell and take a massive hit to my pride and dignity? Absolutely but I 150% am a better man now than I was back then. It took abou…
/r/seduction16/05/20 08:26 PM
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You’re not a priority so she shouldn’t be one to you. No 16 year old girl in 2020 hasn’t looked at their phone for hours at a time consistently. Stay busy, don’t respond quickly. Let her text you, if she doesn’t, which I don’t think she will, let her go. Put effort into someone that puts effort into you.
/r/seduction13/05/20 07:29 PM
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That is my issue as well, I am very charismatic and can make pretty much any girl laugh but it never goes anywhere. I suppose there’s nothing wrong with being able to put a smile on someone’s face though.
/r/seduction05/05/20 07:06 PM
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Be proud that you even approach a girl, a lot of men don’t even do that. You’re in a better spot than you think.
/r/seduction01/05/20 02:01 PM
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That’s like telling someone who is afraid of heights “don’t over complicate things, just go sky diving” or someone who is afraid of spiders “don’t over complicate, just go hold a spider”. People are afraid of different things for whatever reason. Exposure is not the best way to get rid of fear. It in fact can make the fear worse should the experience be negative. If I held that spider to get over my fear, and it bit me or jumped on to my face, I would be even more afraid than before cause I woul…
/r/seduction01/05/20 11:23 AM
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1: enjoy it. I as a male want the girl to have as good of a time as I am and I sense you are disinterested, I in turn will put your pleasure of the back burner and finish ASAP 2: it’s ok to be uncomfortable but you have to try new things. Not necessarily anal or big things like that. But new positions (That your capable of). I messed around with a girl who was scared of anything except missionary, finally I convinced her to try doggy style and she said that is by far her favorite now and those 2…
/r/seduction27/04/20 01:29 PM
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Being honest with yourself pretty much. You know who the pretty girls/guys are. If they have never paid you any attention, you’re likely on the low end of the look scale.
/r/seduction22/04/20 07:49 PM
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You don’t have to believe in “Leagues” but you would be foolish to not think that there are social constructs/standards in place that would prevent the 10’s of society to date the 1’s.
/r/seduction22/04/20 07:37 PM
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Not really much to go on with women. You could literally go to any gathering place of men your age and ask “want to bang?” And you’d probably get a 80% success rate and that’s being generous. Women much more choosy with their potential mates, which is 100% understandable.
/r/seduction13/04/20 08:32 PM
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Every girl I have matched with has ended up asking what my height was because I too don’t include it. But it is definitely something they do care about. I’m not embarrassed of my height at all, it just becomes a barrier only to online dating when they just stop messaging after I tell them the truth. I don’t have issues getting laid really, and if I wasn’t getting any I wouldn’t really care but I’m just pointing out that height is indeed a barrier for shorter men when it is an important factor to…
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:38 PM
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6’2 automatically gives you an advantage especially when you say most of your success comes from online dating. If you have a 5 in the left column as a guy. Girls don’t give a damn what you have to say. Not to say that you put no work in because I’m proud of the success your having but online dating is a MUCH different ball game when you are average like me at 5’9 and I don’t even want to know what it’s like for my fellow Kings who are shorter than me because I’ve had 0 success in about 5 months…
/r/seduction07/04/20 08:19 PM
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Girls are just weird in general lol I’ve been talking to a girl that has told me “you’re never going to get a picture of me” and I’ve smashed multiple times since then and still have yet to get even a single picture 😂
/r/seduction27/03/20 07:16 PM
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It’s possible, relay kind of depends what she’s sending you. Are they seductive pics or just random faces she’s making? Keep the compliment short and sweet. Like previous comment said, don’t make it seem like you worship her. Just say something you think is appropriate per the picture she sent. If she says nothing, she’s not interested. If she responds, I’ll leave that to you kind sir.
/r/seduction27/03/20 07:04 PM
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You want her as a friend? Make funny remarks to them. If you want her sexually? Say something nice but don’t ass kiss.
/r/seduction27/03/20 06:53 PM
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Well, she could just be brushing it off. It should only be a conversation you 2 have. I’d say just go for it. You need to get a clear answer instead of torturing yourself with what ifs. You don’t want to be friend zoned, trust me.
/r/seduction05/03/20 12:04 AM
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You have 2 options here. You either tell her and get the answer you want or get rejected or you do nothing and wonder “What if” for the rest of your days. It’s up to you bro.
/r/seduction04/03/20 10:26 PM
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There’s a lot going on here. I’m not sure if you’re in good spot or not. 1 hour of gaming a week is not bad at all, we all need a hobby to help us decompress. Seems like going back to the gym would help you all around. Used to be a big part in your life, then it disappeared. I would start there then see if things fall into place. The fact you feel are attractive and can can attract females is a good sign, that means you have confidence and already have social value as women are social creatures …
/r/seduction08/01/20 09:30 PM
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Understandable, I JUST got to that point recently after 24 years of self loathing. Just got to a point where I realized I am one person. You can’t make anybody love you, just do what makes you happy and the rest will follow. Even had my first date in 6 years this past weekend and it went great. After I finally worked up the courage to approach a girl due to my happiness with myself. Second date this weekend!
/r/seduction08/01/20 06:30 PM
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If you aren’t able to look in the mirror and tell yourself (Honestly) “wow, I’m actually pretty awesome”. Then you’re not ready.
/r/seduction08/01/20 02:25 PM
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I agree completely, one cannot hope to stay home and have a model knock on his door and say “want to have sex?”. But I do think pursuing other aspects in life that are more in your control, that you will open up to more opportunities as a side product of improving yourself. For example, assuming person has friends to hang out with, when you are doing these other things (Improving style, hitting gym, learning, etc) you will be in a better spot mentally to at least give it a try. I know when I sta…
/r/seduction19/12/19 09:44 PM
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I see you point and appreciate the refute but being human doesn’t mean that having intercourse is for the entire intent of having a baby. Humans are one of very few species that has sex for pleasure as well. So yes, players do hop around from chick to chick but that is also apart of our biology for pleasure. Men that are capable of forming a strong/stable relationship aren’t who I am talking about. I’m talking about the socially inept men that are seemingly hopeless with women. They don’t have t…
/r/seduction19/12/19 09:39 PM
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Really gets old reading all the same advice about getting better with women. Every single time it’s “the cure is simple, go out and talk to 5-10 women every day/week/month! Your lack of effort is harming you!” Which isn’t entirely wrong, but if you think someone who is terrified of women is going to just read the post and go talk to multiple women when they were starting at 0 is unrealistic, that’s advice that comes from someone who doesn’t understand what it’s like to have a fear of approaching…
/r/seduction19/12/19 07:27 PM
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