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This ladies! Focus on yourselves in your 20s! Your 30s self will seriously thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 02:57 AM
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If only we can teach guys to stop being afraid of going without sex...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 08:32 PM
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Apparently this is EXACTLY what happened to roosh v ... he got so high and mighty that he fell so far down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 08:37 PM
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Exactly, anyone who follows pill theory is fake and gay
/r/ExRedPill10/07/19 08:17 PM
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Well not a guru, no, but awakened in certain ways. And the most men, dont see what I do as degeneracy ... a common theme I will comment with is that I have worked with many couples. I have watched men and their wives on the other screen. It's a private encounter, and if everyone is happy, degeneracy is not something that is not involved.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/19 09:01 PM
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Hey there is no right approach to the pill, it says so right here. I did AMA because there might be that one person I can offer insight to, who might be struggling in some way and need an answer to a question, and needs an alternative perspective when the pill theory fails them. And I can offer that if needed. Whether its helpful is up to the person who asks. This topic tends to strike chords with women, so I understand that you may come off offended.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/19 08:57 PM
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Yes its empowering. Ask any cam girl who has been doing it long term and she will say yes. You will have people tell you that you are perfect... now I know that's not true, but the saying rings true that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Now, this is not my only way of earning money, I think part of it is s huge turn on for me, voyerism so to speak... so it's a kink. No shame in that. I have a normal person job too, I am a photo and video editor, as well as photographer... so no it's not the…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/19 08:51 PM
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You would be surprised if you go to certain cam sites and see that there are many different women with many different body types. Some are even non nude. Some are married couples! The things that men are turned on men, and women alike... span a larger plain that what we regularly know, and alot of them, even in these forums, would NEVER admit to such things. Alot of the men... are married. Alot of the men watch me with their wives... and I know this because I have watched it on the other side of…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/19 08:42 PM
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See these men are normal men, that I have had completely normal conversations with. I can over simplify and say that whenever a man looks at porn, he is paying for it... i.e. using data, paying for internet service... going to a strip club is no different, and if you dont think normal men do that you're nuts.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/19 08:34 PM
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Alot of times that's not what happens. You would be surprised how real and honest people can be in those situations. Some of the people I have worked with are married couples. Both a husband and wife enjoy their encounter with me, we get to know each other, I almost sometimes act as a therapist... There are alot of nuances that surface in the adult work realm. And honestly it throws alot of ideas of the "pills" straight out the window. Thus proving to me, that society, is very shallow in how we …
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/19 08:31 PM
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The song Bitch, by Meridith Brooks
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/19 07:17 PM
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Empathy. And the ability to actually listen.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/19 07:14 PM
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Yep. We are all the result of people being natural at sex.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/19 07:13 PM
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In Islamic countries, faking virginity is a marketable industry....
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/19 07:12 PM
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May I ask what the rule was?
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/19 07:04 PM
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Sometimes people have a very clear understanding of what consent means. But when you get a couple of drinks in them they throw these notions out the window...I mean medievally out the window too.. I had a very good friend who was like a Jekyll and Hyde... When sober, he was an amazing person to spend time with. But once he got drunk, someone else emerged, someone who would not take no for an answer. "Why do you have to be such a bitch?"... is what I would hear when I would have to physically pus…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 02:21 PM
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Not unfair at all. Infact there are so many a fish in the sea that statistics show you are compatible with 1 and every 11 or so people, however you wanna take that, if people put their best selves out there, they will find that reflection in time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 10:01 PM
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I will just follow that up by saying I'm sure there are alot of people who wish actual cold hard homicide could be legal too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 09:56 PM
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Lol honestly no. Because people are able to reflect on their past actions... and grow from that. One person can be butthurt about a person's past.... but the next will not be, because maybe they have seen some shit from the some similar perspective, and therefore experience something called relating-to-another-persons-experience. Everyone's different, and the truth is some pasts won't matter to some, and theres no reason to be angry about that, because what ever they did before they met you had …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 09:50 PM
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Welcome to real life, where most people are hypocrites and liars. And alot of shitty things happen to good people for no reason. And great things happen to absolute assholes... because they are hippocrates and liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 07:28 PM
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I'm interested to know your idea of this type of mistake that would be the red button to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 07:23 PM
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Its typical because its painfully true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 07:15 PM
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I mean that's totally fine. Would it make you feel better if communication was open enough to where the person was aware of past mistakes in a mature fashion, like saying, yeah this happened, I'm aware it was wrong whether or not consequences were faced or not, so we can work together to move forward with said relationship or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 05:50 PM
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What about the woman feeling the same way if the man is a slut? Like the peen has been in lots of holes icky. Edit to add that the video above did day that even though women lie, a higher percentage of men also lie about this as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 05:40 PM
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Hmm interesting, but what if motives and circumstances in the past were completely different than in the present, and perhaps valuable life lessons were learned in the process. Which is something that does indeed happen, people learn and grow. That would constitute a level of fairness. Theres the fact that she may see you as worth more as her present self. And perhaps withholding is something that is important at this point in time. All of this would have to take into consideration the goals of …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 05:35 PM
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It will be interesting to see if we keep evolving optimally
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 05:16 PM
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I'm going to argue that humans evoling to stand on two legs was not optimal... our spines are weak AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 05:09 PM
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Like what kind of shadow? A shadow of inner insecurity?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 05:08 PM
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Hey I hope the same for you too :) I am even going to go further and I say I hope something really good happens to you today.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 05:06 PM
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Then you're paranoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 05:04 PM
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People lie to other people ALL THE TIME, about literally everything. Why do people get so butthurt about THIS topic specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 03:34 PM
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Its completely useless to ruminate about past sexual experiences. We get jealous and possessive because not because they did it, but it wasnt us that it happened with. Whenever this question has been brought up in my own life, I like to change their perspective and say something like "you know all of my past experiences and yours alike, no matter what they were, have lead me to this point with you, and I dont want to change that." Sometimes you will see the person's eyes brighten up, like a ligh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 03:14 PM
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All humans need to realize that most humans don't respect life in some way shape or form, look at human history. People have zero problem killing people at any stage of their life. That's a sad harsh reality. Think of all the dead people in the world that you dont know and dont care about.... they dont care about you.... I know it's a very macabre way of seeing things, but sometimes you have to take a very large step away and look at the larger picture. Also, in any sense, laws DO need to be cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/19 03:03 PM
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Erratic behavior of both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 07:59 PM
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It's all about finding the right balance, the right person with the same sexual goals as you. And being clear as crystal on that. I think being a bi female is really mind opening in ways, you get a strange perspective of how attraction works on the other spectrum, I genuinely enjoy women sexually, my husband enjoys that I enjoy women, and because of that we are able to be so much more explorative. I've gotten into deeper things like BDSM and fetish lately... and I feel like once you step in to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 07:56 PM
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I am a 34 year old woman who has been with roughly 30 people, a mixture of women and men. I have been married for 4 years, and my husband and I have sex most everyday. Sometimes with a third who is always another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 04:07 PM
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NAWALT Unicorn here, I'm sorry guys but we really do exist. How many are married to women who you get to take to strip clubs or have FMFs with? How many of you have adventurous women who explore her desires WITH YOU?... this also requires you to live in the present moment, and realize that neither your or her sexual pasts matter. I bring that up because theres alot of talk about hypergamy and virgins and all that... fellas lemme just say... no matter a womans past, if you make her happy, treat h…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 03:49 PM
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I'm just saying, dont let lack of sexual experience be basis for if she stays with you or not, nor your observation of 2 or 3 out of her friend group. And oddly enough, it may be you who gets bored of her... vanilla only tastes good for so long... this goes for men an women alike. It also sounds like you put virginity on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 03:48 PM
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They are virgins, until their not.... and dont typically stay with the one who took the V card. Or worse they will cheat, because she will get bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/19 02:27 PM
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I do have a kid. A kid that is that extremely well behaved, does her homework as soon as she gets home and always asks me if she is able to do something or have something. A kid that did a stereotypically adorably badly drawn kid drawing recently that also captioned "be yourself, believe in you, be kind"... And when she hits puberty, I will hold no bars in telling her the truth. When she is a teenager, I will tell her "boys will want to do this thing with you..... there are not so fun consequenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:51 PM
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Yeah but when you're son asks, you should be a respectful parent and give them an answer in a reasonable time. Not wait two days to decide. That's what his mom would do.... and then she would "forget" that she had given permission in the first place. I got the feeling she never wanted him to have a girlfriend, because she was left by his father, so I'm thinking it's a case of mommy didnt want baby boy to replace her with another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 03:19 PM
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I had a boyfriend in HS whose mom told him not to bring me back to the house while she was away on vacation. She was a single mom, and he was always saying to me "i need to ask my mom first" whenever we would make plans for anything, we were on the cusp of 18..., his mom would use play the "not until you're 18" card all the time... and this wasn't just a quick phone call of "hey mom, is it cool if I'm not home by this time for this reason or whatever", ..he literally had to ask permission and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 01:52 PM
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Men not wanting a sexually free woman comes down to the universal Male insecurity.... he wants to be the one in power, he wants to be the one to dominate and break the woman. He wants his DNA to rule the world... a bit of an exaggeration, but you get what I mean. When people get butthurt about sexual past its because of sheer insecurity, in their mind they're upset because "it should have been THEM having your experience, or THEY should have waited for you..." Guys who take the virgin are also b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/19 12:51 PM
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He and I actually openly discussed that. The fact that its important to be 'friends' within the marriage. That is probably one key to keeping things fresh.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/19 03:30 PM
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This would be assuming the problem does not have to do with T levels, mental health etc... My husband and I have been married for 4 years as well. And it what our sex life is like is this: 2 friends who are eager to share sexual things together. We are constantly instagramming each other dirty posts. Have you ever shared your fantasy with him? Or watched porn together? My husband goes nuts when I openly talk about what turns me on in porn. He and I have also gotten very dressed up on occasion an…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/19 03:12 PM
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