Gothic90 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Is PUA worth the journey? I would say, rarely. PUA bootcamps cost $2,000 to $4,000 and lasts a weekend. usually two or three afternoons and two nights out. Not everyone can learn night game well in a weekend; it takes a lot of practice and support from friends who are also into night game. Plus not everyone is going to enjoy or have the chance play the night game when they travel back to their home city. I think this part is pretty clear: PUA bootcamps are a very high cost per hour session course. Since it only lasts a w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/18 02:26 AM
3	How many of you went from getting no girls to getting girls? Money wise, I did improve to the point that I wouldn't be embarrassed when talking about my job. But I feel that it is a confidence thing - basically you should never think your job is uncool. My understanding of "preselection" in PUA jargon is that you have better status if you come in a bar holding hands with a hot woman. But in the social scenes I've been to it would just mean I'm taken (one ex of mine was somewhat insecure and would come to the dance club with me to "protect her territory", …	/r/seduction	25/02/18 12:41 PM
1	How many of you went from getting no girls to getting girls? It's a minor thing that they probably don't pay much attention to. My eyes aren't constantly dashing around. Usually I just check the girl out with the triangle gaze once to see if she is kissable.	/r/seduction	24/02/18 11:26 PM
5	How many of you went from getting no girls to getting girls? I have, but no thanks to any PUA materials. Actually it helped me one bit: some PUA material taught me to look at a woman's face in a triangle: one eye, other eye, then lips. Since I got used to gazing this way I want to fuck anyone who has decent body. So probably a bad habit. Mostly improvements on Logistics helped me the most. Joined dance classes, outdoor travel groups and meetups.	/r/seduction	23/02/18 10:36 PM
3	7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubs I dunno. For some reason I've been pulling away from the more sensual scenes, such as Zouk, Kizomba or Sensual Bachata. I am still very interested in Zouk, but Bachata scene in US ... like seriously, my head would explode if I hear another Bachata cover of any Taylor Swift song or Story of My Life. Maybe because I got married and want to try more "fun" ways of dance, such as Dominican Bachata, and scratching my head at the lack of scene for it.	/r/seduction	23/02/18 07:47 PM
6	7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubs Actually, hope that only a few most attractive class members want to bone you, long term. I personally don't think dance classes is a good place to play number's game.	/r/seduction	23/02/18 07:38 PM
3	7 places to meet women that aren't bars and clubs Do be respectful, do make hooking up a secondary concern, and do care extra about consent even if you hate SJW language. You are going to see your classmates in future classes, and should remain friends with them even if a hookup fails. Do not play a number's game if you can avoid it.	/r/seduction	23/02/18 06:07 PM
1	As a woman, how do I seduce guys and get guys interested in me? As a person who isn't that knowledgeable on religions, Hijab is religious clothing. Thing is, when we talk about religious clothing of other religions, such as vestment for Christians or kasaya for Buddhists, only people wearing those would be priests or monks. Which, even though it might be a big stereotype that wouldn't apply to Muslims, people might still think it that way.	/r/seduction	02/02/18 03:20 AM
1	If your SO allowed you to bang other people on the side, would you? No emotional intimacy/dating allowed. No. If offered such a deal I would think she wants me to suffer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/16 02:36 PM
1	Do women value certain betas as much as alphas? Girls having sex with boyfriends just so they won't leave them implies their(the boyfriends) ability and maybe even willingness to leave. Also implies that the girl knows giving him sex will appease or satisfy him. Unusual characteristics for beta by RP standards. Girl doesn't want to have sex with a man yet doesn't want him to leave her and ends up using sex to satisfy him. There are many other possible explanations other than Alpha vs beta debate. It could be that the guy is very, very dominan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/16 02:29 PM
1	Stud vs Slut Dichotomy I don't think any feminist cries about respecting sluts more than normal people. So if he should be respected like a normal person ... well, why not ...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/16 02:21 PM
2	Stud vs Slut Dichotomy If you can sleep with 5 or 10, you can sleep with 100 if you really have that goal. Sleeping with too many women eventually gets boring. PUA coaches are different. They have to keep their reputation up. Also really depends on job. College students or people that work in nightclubs. Either having lots of free time or can immediately fuck after your shift works. So yeah, maybe it does take Chad to do it. Imagine a 25 yo working a desk job person who just had his third sex partner a week ago. He'll…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/16 02:15 PM
2	Q4BP:Why aren't nerds drowning in women? If you talk about tons of casual sex, well, tons of casual sex takes tons of friggin' work. It just isn't convenient enough for many nerds to have that type of lifestyle, especially if he has other stuff to do at nights like working out. Having a girlfriend and spend his spare nights (most probably only 1-2 nights per week) on gaming seems a much more attractive option than going to the club and chase after casual sex all week. Yeah ... talking about myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/16 12:09 PM
1	Q4BP:Why aren't nerds drowning in women? And ... 20 hotdogs hitting the girl's face imples nerdy girls are getting their share of hot men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/16 11:55 AM
2	“Don’t ask a fish how to catch a fish” Or "A word of advice from a woman" OK, first a bit about myself - I am happily in a relationship with my girlfriend, who's not really stunning but is wonderful otherwise. I am also friends with a PUA, and sometimes when I watch his feed, I would kinda fancy how he draws in girls who send him pics of them doing planks with their curvy body - he uses a separate account to share these pics and sometimes it gives me a boner. I am sometimes horrified at his methods but at other times wish I could, sometimes, pull stunningly hot girls …	/r/seduction	10/02/16 07:19 AM
1	Why do people here like RSD so much? I think one important thing you two have different focuses on is that he believes that a bad person can give good advices. I, for one, would have a much bigger problem with my instructor if he instructs me to stuff a girl's head to my crotch, than if he's done it some time I don't know about but he never instruct me to do it. In the seduction community both the criticism and defense for some gurus are overblown. Some stuff are indeed taken out of context and that person indeed might not deserve …	/r/seduction	21/01/16 10:18 AM
1	Question for males of both pills: What percentage of women are "bangable" to you? What percentage of women do you sexually desire? OK, I have a close social circle of dancers, so the majority of women I meet are quite hot. Even then, I'd say your predictions aren't right. I don't identify well with TRP, but not fully BP either...probably. Q1: I wouldn't immediately agree, but I will probably eventually agree if she's good looking and can interest me. Should be well over 50% in my case. Q2: In a tight dance community, reputation is very important since people know each other so much. I certainly don't want the reputation of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/15 10:38 PM
2	Should women get to choose who to marry or should it be decided by the fathers like in traditional patriarchy ? There were countless examples in ancient China where fathers marry their children to people their children don't like for their (fathers') own personal gain. Letting a non-self person decide one's life partner should be out of the question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/15 03:34 PM
1	"Toxic Masculinity" will never go out of style as long as women sexually reward men who exhibit this behavior By definition, toxic masculinity means the expectation for a man to be stoic, brave, assertive, sexually successful, sexually insatiable and so on. On the contrary, if a man lacks certain traits, he's a loser, pussy and so on. If a man is a virgin by 22 he's a loser; if he's gay he's a loser; if he refuses a super hot girl because he's in a relationship, he's a loser. Chad can be super alpha, he can be as traditionally masculine as possible, but that has very little to do with toxic masculinity.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/15 08:05 AM
3	"If she cheats with you, she'll cheat on you." Does this apply for great PUAs? So this is a matter of honesty. I don't think a lot of PUA tips inspire honesty from a woman.	/r/seduction	02/09/14 02:59 AM
2	[FR] During an insta date she kept questioning me "do you always do this?" So the question is, what is a shit test. Some PUA books talk about girls are only interested in "guys who can see past their shit", but in reality many stuff categorized as shit test are just questions are just questions that you don't want to give a logical or honest answer, or a logical and honest answer would end the date (i.e. "I have a bf", the logical answer would be bug out). Techniques against shit tests are just ways to avoid them so that the date could continue. Very few people enjoy p…	/r/seduction	29/07/14 11:18 PM
2	To non Red Pillers, do you believe that evolutionary logic is a sound basis for examining how humans choose partners? Sort of. Hormones, of course, affect partner choosing in several ways. However, gorillas's social structure is different from what TRP says. Alpha gorillas maintain their "alpha" by violence towards betas and death threats to female gorillas should they choose to mate with a beta and not them. They even kill the children of beta gorillas. None of which are acceptable in a human society. Yes, TRP has a lot of techniques that can be found in alphas in animal kingdom. Yes, alpha gorillas abuse thei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/14 01:22 AM
1	Is it wrong if it works? I think this one would be an example: http://i.imgur.com/GiSpt.png SRS branded him as a rapist immediately, then /r/subredditdrama did it as well once the SRS post got linked there. Yet, if the guy were to be believed, the girl in the story did not sound too upset afterwards, or the next morning (there are signs that she wants to blame everything on alcohol, but that's about it in the story he posted). However, the point about this story is that such techniques could be potentially dangerous. If…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/14 12:22 PM
2	Pickup on dancing/club game? Don't be fooled by the club dance floor. Most people grinding in clubs either know each other before (especially in colleges), or got acquainted on a nearby table. If you are confident, eye contact with a girl dancing alone and then immediately walk towards her if she's receptive, then take her hand. That'll work sometimes, and it works better if you are hot and have good posture. That's still pretty rare. Girl dancing with another girlfriend, or dancing in a group wants to be left alone usually…	/r/seduction	29/05/14 01:17 AM
0	How the fuck do I learn to dance? First yes people have been dancing for 140,000 years without taking a class twice a week, but most people's dances are quite silly, and because of it, it's not written in history and we don't know it. Secondly this also heavily depends on what kind of dance you are talking about. There is absolutely no way to dance with a partner if you two just free-style your own way and have no agreement. That's where formal dancing--and formal education comes in. So can your logic be applied to other things.…	/r/seduction	07/03/14 06:43 AM
2	How the fuck do I learn to dance? Handful of times a year? Er, there isn't a salsa club in your city? In my city there are three that I know of, and more that I don't know.	/r/seduction	07/03/14 06:31 AM
2	How the fuck do I learn to dance? Forget about regular clubs/bars. They are bad places to use dance alone to impress strangers. Most of the time if you want to dance with a girl, you need to either know her before, or already had a good chat with her. Get the rest of your game together before you pull a dance move in regular bars and clubs. Go to classes. That's a no brainer. You do need to enjoy dancing to get the full benefit however. There are usually latin dance classes everywhere. Practice at home as well. Go to Latin clubs…	/r/seduction	07/03/14 06:12 AM
6	Has Seduction Changed Your View Of Women? For the last point though, I guess men have a broader definition of attractiveness than we would think. Hot but needy women may be good for one night stands, but later we would probably find that even one night stands with them can be a hassle (those women who would call you 20 times a day) and start avoiding them. Women just filter out needy men in a much earlier stage; maybe because they start having sex earlier than men, or maybe because sex poses a bigger risk to them, or both. Thing is, I g…	/r/seduction	11/11/13 12:24 AM
1	Girls that fail to mention they have a boyfriend FB relationship doesn't mean shit. They could be just joking around about being in a relationship with their girl friend. I have see straight girls in relationship with each other on FB yet both having their own boyfriends. A lot.	/r/seduction	09/11/13 03:04 AM
2	How to deal with high value women ? Define mediocre. Are they mediocre because they are mediocre looking or hot but unstable, or are they mediocre just because they are easy to bed?	/r/seduction	06/11/13 04:53 AM
4	How do you deal with girls multiple guys? You probably need to talk about moving into a monogamous relationship first before she stops seeing multiple guys, unless she is so attracted to you that she doesn't see other guys. If you decide not to put all eggs in one basket, don't expect her to do the same. If she's not ready, either decide to be okay with it (which means you can see multiple girls), or move on. If you are not ready, well ... don't expect her to be ready to be solely with you.	/r/seduction	03/11/13 11:39 AM
1	What about those "sexy independent, princess-like, womanly" type girls? This is probably irrelevant, but independent and womenly doesn't describe princesses; princesses, at least what some people talk about tend to be needy and that can be a turn off for men as well, unlike independent and womanly.	/r/seduction	27/10/13 12:51 AM
1	Why women lose the dating game Doesn't really matter now; that was a lie. Our mutual friend just uploaded a few photos of them in a party.	/r/seduction	26/10/13 11:23 PM
1	Why women lose the dating game I too think "wanting everything" is a serious problem here. In fact I think women who are successful on their careers should particularly look for men who can take care of the family, and later, kids. Success often implies busy, and that can be disastrous. I know two couples in which both members are successful investment bankers and both couples broke up because all of them are busy. Most successful families I know of have at least one person working a low pressure job, and in one family it's t…	/r/seduction	26/10/13 01:52 PM
3	Why women lose the dating game It's not always about girls who think she is too good. This article talks a lot about girls who focus on their career in their 20s. Recently I am calling a girl to go out during weekends, but she said she has to work overtime even on Sundays. For the next three weeks or so. Well, truth or not, this simply won't work. Time to find a new one.	/r/seduction	26/10/13 01:24 PM
2	To the guys in high school or college: get this handled The extra money you'll earn for the 20 extra hours per week can be exaggerated. Working overtime usually have extra pay, but you have to consider other things as well. You work 60 hours per week, that's 12 hours per day for 5 day weeks, and 10 each day for 6 day weeks. 10 per day allows a little breathing room, but 12 almost doesn't allow any. This makes your life more costly in a few ways; that you are more likely to drive instead of using a bus, living closer instead of living cheaper, eating …	/r/seduction	17/10/13 05:22 AM
2	Good movies for learning about and laughing about 'game'. Speaking of Don Jon, I have not actually seen it, but Dr. Nerdlove has an article here: http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2013/10/learn-this-don-jon/ I especially like about the paragraph where he talks about Barbara, something I never noticed before, that fantasy love (romance) for women is just as poisonous as fantasy sex (porn) for men, that drowning in romance can make women lousy lovers as well.	/r/seduction	17/10/13 02:30 AM
2	To the guys in high school or college: get this handled It all depends on what you want. Because if your want a girlfriend that you can regularly have sex with, then "getting this handled" hinges on you two can still be together after graduation. The two of you going to different places would mean you are back to square one. On the other hand, if your goal is lots of sex then by all means, college does have a lot more opportunites. However, past sexual experiences, other than making you more sexually comfortable and skilled, does not mean much. If yo…	/r/seduction	17/10/13 01:52 AM
5	PSA: Stop TELLING girls you like them and instead SHOW them!!! Question. Does telling the girl include things like ... 1) Asking if she's single or has a boy friend 2) Asking for a date	/r/seduction	10/10/13 11:17 PM
2	Boys use seduction for sex. Men use seduction for power. I would say at least the title is misleading and somewhat condescending. Is wanting sex necessarily connected to being younger? Or is there another meaning under the word 'boy', I think it's the latter. Learning seduction to make one-self more honest and better at conveying one-self to get a job or get invited is cool, but that is hardly the meaning of 'power', and it is clearly not some kind of power over other people. It is also different from making others do what you want. Effective communic…	/r/seduction	08/10/13 04:01 PM
1	Why you might want to be friendzoned Basically, just avoid get friend zoned by not showing any romantic/sexual intention. That is truly a shame and at times can get creepy. It's fine if she knows you want her and decides to LJBF.	/r/seduction	07/10/13 12:23 AM
6	Trust me, it's not about looks or: Confessions of a good looking guy with no game Well, looks is in fact a thing that one can control, more or less. Although then that sort of comments should probably be replied with this: Hit the gym, mate and/or stop eating refined sugar. On the department of looks men have a much easier time than women.	/r/seduction	11/09/13 12:23 AM
2	Sex advice Also get her off birth control. Those pills that mess up her hormones is never good. Use a condom instead, or maybe some other forms of contraception.	/r/seduction	27/08/13 01:44 AM
1	A way to work around LMR AFC question: I wonder if working around this particular LMR is necessary because it sounds like sex is going to happen rather soon anyways. Obviously it would be if you are never going to see her again, but if you two are going to see again ...	/r/seduction	27/08/13 12:23 AM
3	The "Fuck Yes or No" Rule of Dating Call it whatever you want. /r/seduction is full of men who can't be picky because men who can't be picky are drawn here and we want to change, not the other way around.	/r/seduction	10/07/13 01:39 AM
0	How do you gauge your own physical attractiveness and how it affects your game? As an AFC, I don't think looks have much to do with AA at least. I don't know the full story, but for the last year I have been eating clean and working out. I shed 50 lbs, have much clearer skin, gained some muscles. I know I am much better looking than before, but I still have serious AA issues almost the same as a year ago.	/r/seduction	05/07/13 06:18 AM
1	Above The Game Part 7: Physical Escalation & Sex Two dominant people will result in a superb hook up and I think the psychological clash could be quite sexy.	/r/seduction	25/06/13 02:26 AM
2	What if I'm not good looking enough for the girl of my dreams? Hello from /r/paleo and /r/fitness. Unless you have severe genetic disorders (I'm talking about like gnome, or split lips or etc), any man CAN achieve good look through diet, gym, sleep and fashion. If you have done that, your looks is good enough for ANYONE. Your look will surpass the basic threshold of just about anyone unless she works with hot guys everyday (celebrities, top models). Look around on a random day you will find yourself better looking than most people around you. Looks alone wo…	/r/seduction	04/03/13 11:27 PM
2	The Feminist Guide To Non-Creepy Flirting A guide to not come off as a creep is fine, but this guide looks like something about not to risk coming off as a creep ever. Sometimes it is just a risk that we have to take. Risking it doesn't automatically mean you will become a creep.	/r/seduction	02/03/13 06:35 AM
2	Gym approach: treadmill girl I second this soooooo much. Today is literally my first cold approach. And ... it is done in the gym. With two treadmill girls. I just exchanged smiles with them when they are on treadmills and approached them later. AND IT WORKED!	/r/seduction	01/03/13 02:38 PM
2	clueless guy here, need advice on buying flowers Don't worry about it. Flowers usually don't really matter.	/r/seduction	11/01/13 04:08 AM