Gouda_Gouda_gumdrops Archive

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15	Single moms are terrible at raising kids. We need to stop this culture of idolizing single moms and demonizing fathers. Single motherhood is the death of western culture. You forgot the other half of the equation. Most women aren't having kids willingly without the father. Why aren't you mentioning the fathers that abandoned the kid? Seems like you want to blame one gender when both are to blame. Not sure what your issues are that led you to this conclusion, but I would suggest you start remembering that it takes two to make or break a child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/22 06:19 PM
1	What can we learn from Pete Davidson? To add to the other theories, being funny is a sign of intelligence to humans. If you can make a well-timed or well-crafted joke it shows everyone else that you're a quick thinker or a big finger. Women love funny men because it's a form of showing their intelligence. There are studies on it which are super interesting if anyone wants to google further.	/r/seduction	18/02/22 02:58 PM
1	Are LTR's with high levels of attraction even possible anymore? It is possible but it is a lot of work. My partner and I have been together for almost 5 years and the levels of attraction and relationship have definitely shifted and changed but we've worked hard to keep it overall high. There's just a fundamental difference between being with someone who you've only known for a month versus being with someone you've known for years. And that's not a bad thing, but it does require you to shift and change and adapt with it. We've had to compromise on things bu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/22 03:27 PM
3	What women say they want in a partner and what they actually want are two different things Most women have unhealthy models for relationships and continue to perpetuate those in to adult life it's not a matter of them wanting to be dominated and more a matter of them not working through their trauma and knowing what a healthy relationship (romantic or otherwise) feels like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/21 03:45 AM
2	Are we in the age of transactional sex I thin the larger problem is that everything is transactional. People are approaching almost any situation with the mentality of "what can I get out of this?". And it applies to sex/relationships too. We are seeing each other as a commodity/ means to an end and that is super unhealthy. And it's all thanks to capitalism and how it has infected every part of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/21 01:26 PM
1	This girl said she ‘doesn’t do this often’ but said she on the pill when I drew for the rubbers Birth control can be used for things non-pregnancy related like acne, so she probably wasn't lying.	/r/seduction	10/10/21 06:55 PM
1	I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhausting You're going after the wrong people. I don't play games not do I wanted to be be tested cause that's an insane concept and thing to do to someone. This also means I haven't had a ton of partners, but I've dated about 8-9 people and currently live/have been with one of them for 4 years. There are people out there who will treat you like a normal human, you just gotta wait and hope to find them, but you are worth more than some woman using to satisfy her ego (and I say this as a woman who has done…	/r/seduction	27/06/21 11:18 AM
2	Women, why is being "too nice" a thing, and why are a lot of you attracted to toxic behaviour? When you're used to high-strung emotional levels and/or abuse you then expect the world to always be that way. So you unconsciously seek out partners that fit this pattern. Nice, normal, emotionally mature people don't fight every other day and sometimes people's brains think that's a bad thing cause they are "boring". When in fact they're just modelling healthy interactions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/21 01:55 PM
3	Men get their nice guy ideas from high school movies and the anime harem genre. I very much agree with this. Even if we are conscious of how these tropes are totally b******* or fake, growing up on them still creates the subconscious thinking that I have an eye, as a woman, have been susceptible to. I've had to undo a lot of my thoughts of what a partner should be like and deciding for myself what works and doesn't work for me. I think a lot of people in general would rather blame the other person than take responsibility for themselves and improve themselves to the point w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 02:45 PM
63	Want Her to Come Over? Have More to Offer Than just Sex And to add onto your accurate assessment, we women need foreplay. And that includes everything before the clothes start to come off. The whole night is foreplay.	/r/seduction	30/05/21 08:11 PM
1	Does the Amber Heard story prove that men will leave good women if they have the opportunity to get with someone hotter and younger? Men leave their spouse or cheat for what the idea of that other person represents. Young women could be a sign he subconsciously evaluates/judges (his) masculinity and what it means to be a 'man' through being able to gt with hot/young women. I don't see it as betraying, he is usually acting out his own insecurities and projecting them onto the new person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/21 02:39 AM