GoyasHead Archive

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1	Discussion : Am I wrong in saying I’m noticing more attractive men settling for less attractive women these days? No	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 12:10 AM
2	High school and university are the best times in life to meet the opposite sex Pointing out their obvious victim complex, and acknowledging that that will cause problems for them in interpersonal relationships isn’t a platitude - it’s just basic common sense. Coddling you guys won’t accomplish anything when all you actually want to do is cry and complain and blame everyone else, and when people give you kind, considerate advice you still attack them anyway (like the guy I was initially responding too before you eagerly dove in with your victim flag flying high)	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 07:06 PM
1	High school and university are the best times in life to meet the opposite sex You people are allergic to any criticism or advice that is actually actionable, because you don’t actually want to change. You’re addicted to being a victim and blaming everyone else. And that’s never going to change your situation	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 06:26 PM
2	High school and university are the best times in life to meet the opposite sex Maybe it’s your attitude though. People want to be around people that make them feel better or give them excitement about life’s possibilities. “I fucking hate it here” and “40 hours a week in hell”, and “welcome to hell” (as another commenter said) aren’t exactly infectious attitudes that are likely to attract women	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 04:48 PM
1	Observing how my male and female friends adapt to reality as we age. I basically see the opposite of what you’re seeing. Most of my guy friends are broken and coping, and a majority of those with marriages/relationships aren’t really pulling their weight. One of my best friends is a woman who works on herself constantly even though she has a great set up and her boyfriend is overweight (but cool af). A few of my guy friends work on themselves a fair amount, but so do plenty of my lady friends. I’m a guy in their 30’s and a large portion of my friends are women th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/23 06:11 AM
47	Not receiving sexual attention causes lot of issues and society doesn't acknowledge it I swear the redpill community is entirely made up of aspiring comic book villains. You want civilization to collapse because you are personally miserable. How can you wonder why you’re lonely if that’s your attitude? Fix your way of thinking and I guarantee you won’t be lonely anymore. Try caring about something other than yourself for once. You’re lonely because no one wants to spend time with a miserable, self-absorbed man who wishes ill on everyone else out of pure spite - especially women lo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/23 09:53 PM
3	I think you need some element of gender segregation if you want a “sexually conservative” society Classic villain origin story right here	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 10:08 PM
4	I think you need some element of gender segregation if you want a “sexually conservative” society That’s not an argument, even if it were true. Civilization hasn’t existed for the vast majority of human history - do you want to get rid of civilization?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 09:28 PM
8	I think you need some element of gender segregation if you want a “sexually conservative” society This is all so vague, and full of assertions backed up by nothing. In the end, it all seems to come down to “I want all of society to change to make me a little more comfortable, because I have no self control, am insecure, and I refuse to work on this as an individual”	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/23 08:11 PM
4	AI girlfriends will allow men to fully be themselves and thus will radically change their standards for women Well if you believe that, luckily we might meet a “happy nuclear end” as a society and it won’t matter anyway 😍	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/23 02:32 AM
11	AI girlfriends will allow men to fully be themselves and thus will radically change their standards for women Relationships can be toxic for sure - if you’re in a one-sided relationship where your needs aren’t being met, you should leave it. But that’s not all relationships, and not all women (or men)	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/23 12:41 AM
34	AI girlfriends will allow men to fully be themselves and thus will radically change their standards for women You seem to be talking about the early dating phase of a relationship where you’re struggling to make a good impression, but if you can get past that then you’ll absolutely be able to be yourself. If your partner doesn’t like you for who you are, then it wasn’t meant to be, and likewise. This is more fulfilling than an AI relationship I would imagine, though, because you are fulfilling each other’s needs. An AI girlfriend, as you describe it, sounds more like a personal servant designed for your…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/23 08:06 PM
-1	What is red pill, actually? Your “harsh reality” kind of seems cherrypicked from small portions of your own limited experience, and chooses to willfully ignore any instances of men being shallow in what they look for in a partner. And the solutions you mention are all utterly superficial themselves: hit the gym, get a flashy car/job, money. What about real self-work? Like addressing your insecurities? You thinking that women are universally this shallow seems to lock you into finding shallow solutions to your problems… It …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 07:55 PM
1	Being a bad boy is very beneficial when it comes to being respected by peers and attracting women I mean I feel you, and I recognize that that’s your personal experience, and it sounds like you recognize that this goes both ways - a woman feeing jaded from a few bad experiences isn’t different from someone like you feeling the same. I think the thing that keeps coming back to me - at least with OP and many others who post here - is it feels like this self-defeating victim mentality. “Women are this way, and it’s causing problems for me.” Rather than: “What can I do to improve my circumstance…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 05:35 PM
1	Being a bad boy is very beneficial when it comes to being respected by peers and attracting women I mean, 3 total women is not a good stand in for “every single 30+ woman in the world”. I’m sorry if it feels like your experience is being brushed off, but your “things that happen in reality” is literally three people you know. It’s just not enough experience to judge women by generally imo. And the “nice guy” thing… for me that doesn’t mean a lot honestly. What other qualities do you have? In my experience, self-avowed “nice guys” are not completely aware of other things they’re doing. A lot …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 03:59 PM
1	Being a bad boy is very beneficial when it comes to being respected by peers and attracting women Sometimes yeah, but guys do this too. It’s just being young. Plenty of women date great guys early on too - I really don’t understand where you’re getting this “rule” from	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 02:03 PM
0	Being a bad boy is very beneficial when it comes to being respected by peers and attracting women A sample size of 3 though is very small. I’d also say from my experience I’ve known plenty of men who’ve gotten into toxic relationships and perpetuated those relationships. Have you known any women who’ve had healthy relationships with decent guys? I’ve known plenty. I guess I don’t really understand why you think this is a gender thing. This is just humans - we can’t always help who we’re attracted to, and sometimes you’re blind to certain bad qualities until you’re in too deep. If you’ve ever…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 02:01 PM
5	Being a bad boy is very beneficial when it comes to being respected by peers and attracting women I’m curious how old you are - this sounds like a high school level of experience to me. I don’t say that to be mean at all, but I’m in my 30’s, and from my experience all kinds of people are capable of dating shitty people - both men and women - but being a bad person tends to catch up with you more and more as you get older. Mind you, being a “nice guy” isn’t the same as being a good guy, and being an asshole sometimes doesn’t mean you’re a “bad person”. I know assholes who are also excellent p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/23 05:26 AM
3	CMV Women rating 80% of men as unattractive just proves women find different things attractive This is just false	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 05:53 PM
1	What are your thoughts on the research consensus being that women initiate domestic violence significantly more than men I’m new to this sub, but so far it seems like purple pill debate is actually just a red pill anti-woman circle jerk? I mean the comments here - holy shit	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 03:23 PM
2	Question for Socialist/liberal/marxist/whatever bluepillers how do you believe we live in an economically unfair world, but a socially fair one? No one pressures guys to be attracted to anyone they aren’t attracted to - that’s a strawman. And I’m confused what you mean about joining their group as a “submissive underclass”. I think most leftists agree that women have an easier time dating than men. And they are about social equality: the whole point is that women’s needs are as important as a man’s needs when dating. Like what would your solution be to men having a harder time dating? Forcing women to date them, to promote “equality”? I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/23 01:41 AM
2	If most men are vulgar and disrespectful than the wholesome ones should have no trouble connecting with women... yet they seem to struggle the most I don’t know if I would use the word “rules” here. For me interpersonal relations are always complicated, from person to person. If you are trying to obey some rigid checklist of “rules” in your interactions with people, I think that alone might cause issues. I have said things to people - potential partners and friends - that made them think I was an asshole. I’ve also said things that made other people like me. Dealing with people can be complicated. If you struggle with it, I totally feel tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/23 06:28 AM
11	If most men are vulgar and disrespectful than the wholesome ones should have no trouble connecting with women... yet they seem to struggle the most Everyone can make bad dating choices - both men and women. It seems to me like guys who complain about being nice but being ignored by women have other qualities that might be holding them back. It seems like a self-defeating trap to say “she doesn’t like me because I’m a nice guy.” What else are you? Are you actually nice, or do you just fake it to ingratiate yourself to people? Are you lacking confidence in yourself, and if so, why? Women don’t exclusively like guys who are “loud and brash”, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/23 06:30 PM