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why would they lol it's all working as intended low value men getting filtered out is a feature not a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 08:42 PM
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Idk chief everytime there's a terrorist attack or an accident somewhere in the world we see MEN jumping straight in to help those in need. It's so incredibly rare to see women be the ones leading the charge. Right now there's a whole land war in Europe and every single frontline vid that's been posted has had MEN doing all the killing and dying. I have yet to see a woman fighting in a trench or even pointing a gun at a Russian, the only ones that come close was a medic that got caught under arti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:49 PM
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If given the choice, would you prefer having less options?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:18 PM
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I don't think I've ever heard a man say anything bad about a low maintenance woman like ever, the only negativity has come from other women as a way to put her down as conforming and lower class. Low maintenance guys on the other hand get branded as boring or not ambitious enough all the time, especially if they're young (18-24).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 04:40 AM
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Sure a lot of people won't care from an individualistic pov but society still needs an underclass of men who will do all the heavy lifting and dirty work for the rest of us. Society might not see these men as people but we still benefit from their labor and the problem we're having right now is that a lot of these guys are not just giving up on dating, but they're also giving up on women and society as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 12:28 PM
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That's exactly whats going to happen. AI gf will most likely expect gift$ and virtual date$ to keep her happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:21 PM
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Funny how men are the ones being "radicalized" when the ideology graph shows that women have had a more drastic shift towards the left than men have had towards the right. It's almost like definitions are changing and the left has gone so far left that centrist ideas like border control, gender norms, and advocating for women's only sports are now seen as "far-right".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 10:05 PM
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Are they supposed to marry the first women they're with? Everyone has a starter relationship one way or another and women have short term relationships for all sorts of reasons that have nothing to do with love or marriage, so I don't understand what the controversy is when men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:15 PM
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Until a more numerous, violent and oppressive society that doesn't share those beliefs comes knocking and either out-breeds or straight up conquers the smaller society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 04:33 PM
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Because they're not the same type of guy. The scenario you're presenting is pretty much the basis of AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:25 PM
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Because dating women as a non-Chad sucks. As an average/below average man you're expected to bend over backwards and do all the hustling/work to not only grab a woman's attention but to also set up dates, pay for/provide and entertain all while expecting nothing in return. Men have to put so much effort in order to receive the most minuscule amount of attention that the illusion of sex isn't even enough of a motivator anymore. The only time dating feels equal is when the woman is equally attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:08 PM
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That's a lot of deleted comments lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:07 PM
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Nah, I'd say the women around here have been pretty tame with their posts. The important part is to recognize that these spaces do not represent the opinions of the majority of people nor are they 100% true compared to real life. If its affecting you that much I would recommend taking a break from these spaces and focus on something else for a bit, give the brainrot a break lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:31 AM
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yeah natural colored. If she's brunette but dyes it blond it's perfectly fine
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:30 PM
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any as long as its natural any anything above 5'6 I've seen how badly short men are treated and I can't betray my future sons like that. curvy > athletic > average > a bit chubby > thin. Not obese not roided. the more the better but whatever she brings is fine don't care but she does have to have a job and do something with her life I care more about the type of people she's dating and not necessarily the number. a specific number is kinda weird but I guess above 15 I would consider to be a bit …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:00 PM
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It's the implication that if a women doesn't treat you like a Chad then she's clearly not that into you. If she's giving special treatment to other men for free while making it hard for you to get that same treatment then she sees those men as more deserving than you, meaning she doesn't truly love you the same way she loves them. So if your woman doesn't truly love you, then why should you be expected to love her back and make her your queen? At that point why even have a relationship at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:41 PM
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Because *lonely men aren't the ones with the high standards. It comes down to choice. edit: forgot to add lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:18 PM
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I'm not sure if I understand what the question is but if women don't want to settle and would rather be booty calls for the top % of men then good for them just don't blame the entirety of men if they end up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:45 PM
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It's not really settling if the person's preferences were delusional to begin with. It's more of a correction. If a broke, unattractive man is only interested in dating 10/10 rich supermodels people would be right to call him delusional and "put him in his place". But when a broke, mid looking woman wants to only date the top 10% of men then all of a sudden it's a problem for men to tell her that her standards might be too high. A lot of women follow a "you are what you attract" mentality but in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 03:30 PM
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Thank the admins I no longer have to touch grass anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:52 AM
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RIP it was fun while it lasted This sub is even more doomer than PPD was so sayonara
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/23 11:39 PM
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I'd say less because any moderately attractive woman will have a constant stream of male attention so the moment she gets tired of Mr. boring she will have a whole catalogue of men with varying lifestyles to choose from, all ready to take her out on a date. Age also plays a factor, there just isn't much of a demand for Mr. boring in the 18-29 yr old bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:05 AM
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The 20yr olds are definitely pretty with really great curves and aren't exactly what I would call fat fat but its still a ton of weight to be throwing around and I've already been there and it ain't my cup of tea. I think I would rather give the cougar a try.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:24 AM
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I'm not a fan of being suffocated during sex so I'll go with the 50 yr old.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:47 AM
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Resentment comes from men realizing how incredibly difficult it is for average men to date and how many hoops they have to jump over in order to even be acknowledged as a potential candidate while any mediocre woman can book a date as easily as she can order food on an app. Then when men struggle they're told its because they're terrible people by the same women who go and sleep with the absolute worst types of men just because they're tall and handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:59 AM
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Bars, clubs and other social events are all active and packed to the brim with young people from both sexes, I don't think a lack of access to social venues is the issue. Young people are still partying and hooking up on the weekends. The real issue is that you rarely see unattractive people there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:04 PM
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I don't know any guys who self identify as red pilled but I DO see a lot of men who unknowingly follow red pill/manosphere/fuckboy ideologies. Things like prioritizing wealth instead of women, good aesthetics (gym, car, lifestyle, social media posts), not giving women too much importance and power over them, playing games by keeping women on their toes, having multiple partners and not committing to any of them, just to name a few. And even though I don't agree with many of the things they do, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:30 PM
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Apparently the guy was so attractive that she ended up breaking her own rule of no sex on the first date. There's nothing she could've done different because she had already made her mind that she wanted to fuck him and all he had to do was push a bit for her to fold. That's literally one of the things the manosphere talks about, how women will put up rules for men she's not that into (beta) and will break said rules for men she's actually attracted to (alphas). Dude was waving red flags from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:41 AM
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The main selling point of being a traditional person is attracting and keeping a traditional partner. Modern lifestyle is more hedonistic and benefits the individual while traditionalism benefits the family unit and by extension society as a whole. Women need to ask themselves what type of men they want to attract into their lives. If they want a man who isn't promiscuous, who believes in forever marriage and family building and that it's a mans duty to provide and protect for their families the…
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 02:06 PM
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Which to me is kinda surprising because older generations usually hold more conservative views with regards to relationships and gender roles and the men are notoriously known for being less emotionally open about their problems unlike younger generations. All of which goes against the progressive narrative that men have been hearing about for the past 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:22 PM
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I've known a few relationships that are like that and almost all of them have ended in disaster. It usually involves an above average looking guy with a very ugly looking/obese woman. She works and pays for everything and in return he provides sex and gets to be the eye candy that she shows off to other women. I'd say 9/10 times it ends up with him cheating on her or she gets tired of him not contributing enough and kicks him out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:46 AM
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Even worse, she released them the day his kid was born ruining what was supposed to be one the best days of his life. The timing was perfect, it was the ultimate bitch move and it's a testament to how unbelievably toxic she can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:53 PM
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There is a lot of conversation on this sub about men being “lied” to about women’s preferences. Many claim to have been totally clueless about women weighing other qualities in a potential male mate such as their physical appearance. https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/qatcwt/women_of_reddit_what_instantly_turns_you_on_about/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/cyaubn/women_of_reddit_what_makes_a_man_attractive/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/p8r18z/what_initially_att…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:50 PM
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I support it and think it's going to be the next big thing after RP/manosphere hype dies down. I've traveled a bunch through Latin America due to work and even lived in the DR for a few years and I've noticed a huge uptick of American/European men moving to these countries and marrying the locals and these guys are not broke low class people, the majority of them are professionals with their own businesses that employ locals and pay taxes into these countries. Which is an important difference fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:54 PM
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Go to any womencentric sub and search for the word "approach" and you'll easily find a bunch of posts with thousands of upvotes from women complaining about how they don't like being approached in public by strange men. Men stopped approaching women as much because women have been telling men for the past 10 years that they don't like it and it makes them feel unsafe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:12 AM
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That's exactly what I've been trying to say. There's no such thing as a Nice Guy, just unattractive guys that forgot the 2 golden rules of dating. Anything a nice guy does that women complain about can be considered a plus when an attractive man does it. Special treatment, favors, gifts, attention, niceness are all good things when it comes from a man she's actually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:38 AM
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Young women do have a lot of influence but I wouldn't say they have total control of the dating market because at the end of the day men also choose who they pay attention to and who they chase. Men really need to stop simping for mediocre women with shit attitudes and instead focus more on becoming the best version of themselves and finding a woman with good qualities that will treat him right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:20 PM
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Guy A is desired for who he is while Guy B is only wanted for his money. Not to mention if Guy A plays his cards right he can end up with a much higher standard of living than Guy B.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 07:15 PM
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Guy tried to communicate his feelings and insecurities in private, within the confines of his relationship and still got burned for it. Even if his demands were wrong he wasn't given any room to grow and better himself, instead he got shamed and clowned all over social media on what was supposed to be the best day for him and his gf. This is exactly why men don't open up to women, because we know from experience that they will use it as ammo to hurt us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:14 PM
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Yeah but the quality of women doesn't really get much better. By that time all the prime marriage type women have already been wifed up and what's left are the ones with massive baggage and red flags. That's why so many older men date down, it has nothing to do with "power & control" like some women desperately try to paint it as and more to do with younger women simply being a lot more pleasant and desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:27 PM
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Loss of religion, divorce courts, birth control pill and the subsequent sexual revolution of women have had a much bigger impact on the degradation of marriage than hookup culture could ever dream of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:06 AM
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Truly hideous looking women have it worse than their male counterparts in the dating world. Looks matter most for both sexes but at least the absolute bottom tier of men can claw their way up the social ladder with money and status, even if its a 0.1% chance. Women in a similar position are shit out of luck and are at a much higher risk of experiencing abuse, not only because they're ugly but also because they're women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:14 AM
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Boundaries can be anything you want them to be. The whole point of setting boundaries is that both parties state their non-negotiables and both must compromise and agree to them first in order for the relationship to work. Yeah boundaries can be controlling, but they're still boundaries and they require consent from both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:28 PM
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It doesn't really matter because at the end of the day he laid out his boundaries before they committed to each other and she accepted those terms. The man is being dragged on social media for shit that happened 2 years ago, in private and that both people consented to. This is nothing more than a dirty blow from a jealous ex-gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:13 PM
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She got married and had a kid at 34, I wouldn't call her delusional because she got exactly what she wanted. Good for them for finding each other and building a family together. Thats the end goal for many of us.
/r/AllPillDebate06/07/23 06:19 PM
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I don't buy it. If Henry Cavill were short, fat, non-masculine, straight-up unattractive no amount of white hair/eyeliner and PC building would make him hot. Let's not kid ourselves, he wouldn't have even gotten those acting roles in the first place if it wasn't for his looks. The whole reason people bring up his personality is because he's already a very attractive, successful, Hollywood actor and on top of that he's also a seemingly cool person and people like to point at it and go "see person…
/r/AllPillDebate03/07/23 05:57 PM
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a) Men are very results driven and women's dating habits have a lot of influence in how men behave. If toxic, superficial, narcissistic men are the ones getting picked then a lot young men will emulate that type of behavior because they will associate it with success. b) Why are so many women afraid of holding other women accountable when they fuck up? There's a current issue in my workplace regarding a co-worker who is getting divorced and its an open secret that she's been very emotionally and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:41 AM
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Maybe I'm being naive but I don't hear guys around here saying that women need to be forced to marry unwanted men. What men in this space point at is that the current dating dynamic is unsustainable for the long run because women are supposedly all focusing on a small % of men and that most of those men have no interest in forming meaningful relationships with these women, while simultaneously leaving average/below-average men inexperienced and struggling to find a partner. I'd argue that men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:30 PM
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Lots of ugly men end up doing the labor intensive jobs that nobody else wants to do because of the low self esteem that's been beaten into them. Usually anti-social jobs that don't require them to actually talk to customers. You'll find plenty of them doing graveyard shifts at your local warehouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:00 AM
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Yeah this seems to be a common theme amongst Karens. They're narcissistic control freaks who are used to bossing their family around and think they can do the same to the rest of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:00 PM
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Not much different from western women dating up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:44 PM
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Probably the women on the other side of the pond waiting for all these foreign (usually wealthier/sometimes white) men looking for marriage. Many people equate passport bros with sex tourism but I don't think that's fair because the main selling point of passport bros is marriage and family building, not meaningless sex with prostitutes. If trad men don't feel appreciated and valued in western countries then they have every right to look for their happiness elsewhere. They don't have to ask anyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:30 PM
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Or respect yourself enough and not choose either? If they willingly fuck misogynists then good for them, just don't turn around and pretend like you don't and then bitch when other men point it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:51 AM
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I think passport bros is going to be the next big thing because modern western countries are getting too expensive to live in for the average man and it simply makes sense for them to look for better opportunities elsewhere. Marrying the local women and starting families overseas is just an added bonus. If true and in enough numbers, that means there's going to be even less working age men putting tax money into the system, add to that all the NEETs, falling birthrates and overall unproductive p…
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 04:18 PM
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Sounds great on paper but how do we stop people from having kids they don't really want just to secure a paycheck? We already have a ton of "welfare queens/kings" that mistreat/abuse their kids and use the government aid for other things not related to the kids well-being. My state used to give monthly cash to people on SNAP benefits and they stopped because they realized that most of that money was being used for gambling and drugs. Giving people money for having kids might backfire tremendousl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:28 PM
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I'm sorry but how have you not seen the posts that women have made ranting about how much dating men sucks and how they can't find the right man etc, etc. Literally go to any sub that is women only and you'll find the same amount of whining you see here. And yes, women do consider things like virginity/lack of dating as a moral failing. Going back to point a) non of that has anything to do with hypocrisy. Promiscuous men don't go around pretending to be virgins/pure themselves so them wanting vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:21 PM
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If a promiscuous man decides that he no longer finds promiscuity in a woman attractive and instead wants to marry a virgin, would you consider him to be a hypocrite?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:56 PM
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Is it hypocritical for a broke woman to only want to marry rich men, or a short woman only dating men 6'+? Is it hypocritical for an ethnic woman to only date men outside her ethnicity? When does a preference become hypocritical? How come women can have all sorts of requirements for men when they themselves don't meet those requirements and its passed off as "having standards" but the minute a guy does the same its because he's being hypocritical/insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:08 PM
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I find it strange how we've normalized 18-19 yrs old doing porn and having onlyfans and calling it empowering, but the minute an older man wants to date her then all of a sudden it's a problem. Apparently its socially acceptable for her to get demolished on camera by multiple older men and its passed off as "work" but if a normie guy wants to take her to dinner or actually have a relationship with her, all of sudden he's the predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:13 PM
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At the time, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 12:36 AM
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Biggest heartbreak I ever experienced came from a girl that had no ass, no tits and was on the heavier side yet to me she was the most beautiful woman ever and I wanted nobody else. Found a few photos of when we were dating and I now realize that I was selling myself short by going after such a plain looking woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:31 PM
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Smart ones will take this opportunity to educate themselves and find better careers now that the demand for skilled workers is increasing. Relationship wise, we're seeing a shift away from marriage but that doesn't mean that people have stopped dating all together. People are still going out and enjoying their freedom without the social pressure of marrying and having kids. Much better to be single with a healthy dating life than being stuck in a dying relationship. Its not the end of the world,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:09 AM
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I find women with big/strong noses attractive for some reason and I'm not entirely sure why. I know many women complain about their noses but to me they add a lot of character to a face and give it a unique look.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:04 PM
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That's a lot of removed comments lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:06 PM
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That women prioritized kindness/personality in a man above all else and that looks "didn"t matter because its whats on the inside that counts". I grew up with a mixed group of friends and would constantly hear about all the shit that girls hated about guys and what they considered to be red flags, only for them to date the exact type of men that they told me not to be because they were "hot" and popular. That's when I realized that attraction is mostly about looks, no matter how much we try to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 05:00 PM
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No more having to marry women in order to benefit from them. Now instead of marrying a wife you can have as many girlfriends as you like and not have to commit to any of them. Best part is when one of them starts acting up or gets too old you can easily replace her with another, younger version of her and you get to keep your house and assets because casual partners don't have same legal protections that wives do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:21 PM
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Disagree. The fact that women have the option to filter out most of their suitors is a privilege compared to men who most often than not have to settle for whatever they can get. Yeah there's a ton of shitty men out there but there's also an equal amount of shitty women too, what happens is that most men choose to put up with the toxicity because its either that or absolute celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:15 PM
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Its made me both more empathetic and critical at the same time. I have an older blood sister who had no problems with dating but had terrible taste in men, it proved to me that many women do prioritize looks and social status over anything else. She had tons of good, responsible, kind men interested in her and she side curbed them all and ended up marrying a stereotypical toxic asshole who is making her life a living nightmare. I was 14 yrs old when I met the guy for the first time and I instant…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:57 PM
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Similar to a lot of finance gurus/cryptobros and lifestyle influencers, there's griefters in every space. Good on her for calling his BS out though.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 11:21 PM
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Daddy aesthetics will always trump the cute/soft guy for the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:55 PM
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Most dudes that end up in the friendzone do so because they hide their romantic feelings for a woman behind a thinly veiled friendship while expecting her to see though the smokescreen. The single best way to prevent ending up in the friendzone is to just be honest about your intentions and maintaining sexual tension by keeping your interactions flirty and respectful. If she's not matching your energy then you have your answer and move on. You only get friendzoned if you decide to stay and conti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:20 PM
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People are naturally attracted to success, that's just how humans work. Tate is literally giving the same bluepill advice of "just work on yourself" with an added flavor of misogyny and woman bashing. All he does is sell young men a revenge fantasy about how if you become rich and successful you can shit on the pretty girls that rejected you before. He's profiting off of the resentment that a lot of young guys have towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:51 PM
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Most 20 yr olds don't have the finances or maturity to sustain a family. Marrying too young is exactly how you end up with broken families and single mothers. There's absolutely no reason why a 21 yr old should be married with kids other than personal choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:49 PM
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Video games serve as a form of escapism for a lot depressed people, especially MMOs. The problem isn't the games themselves, its the sheer amount of young men falling into depression and isolating themselves from society only to rot away at a computer screen for years while everyone else completely forgets about them. That's why it bothers me when people make fun of "neckbeards" and gamers in general because I know for a fact that a lot of these guys are mentally unwell and straight up suicidal …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:13 AM
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Yeah I used 'you' but it was meant to be general to whoever reads the comment, not trying to make it personal. Anyways, if a 30 yr old dude is so shy that he can't even talk to women then he needs to forget about dating for a while and prioritize seeking professional help because that's honestly not normal. And you shouldn't be manipulating anyone for sex, that shit is just unethical and people who do it are not good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:31 PM
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Honestly if it bothers you that much just go on a massive hoe phase in your 30s and get that shit out of your system. After a few dozen lays you'll quickly realize how meaningless it all is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:03 PM
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No because we have different values when it comes to sex, boundaries and intimacy so right off the bat we wouldn't be compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:28 PM
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They're in for a rude awakening when they realize just how strictly conservative the rest of the world is compared to the US.
/r/AllPillDebate11/04/23 05:06 AM
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I do believe it should be mandatory but realistically it won't because the government is only concerned with the well-being of the baby above all else and not getting stuck with the bill, even if it means screwing over the paternal figure. That's why in some places if you put your name on the birth certificate and later find out that the kid isn't yours, you can still be liable to pay child support. So honestly men have no other choice but to have their future kids tested in secrecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:03 AM
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There's more to women than just their bodies my guy. Women are individuals just like us and can add a lot to our lives as long as we pick the right ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 07:55 PM
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The BB is being settled for when it comes to raw attraction and the only reason he's being chosen is because of his resources and because the other AF's wouldn't commit. This sudden interest doesn't come from a place of love, it comes from a place of desperation. The woman wouldn't have picked him at all if it wasn't because she failed at securing the AF and is now looking to settle. Relationships out of convenience are real and happen all the time. Would you accept a man that wasn't truly attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:55 PM
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Men have always found ways to show off because that's how you establish social status and if there's one thing that is 100% constant throughout all of human history is that social status gets you laid. "Productive masculinity" still tells men to go make money and refine themselves because how else are you supposed to show off if you're broke and have nothing of value. The only real noticeable change in modern masculinity is that it teaches men not to be simps for modern women. Lifestyle gurus ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 06:04 PM
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The whole reason the manosphere talks about AF/BB is to teach men about the dating strategies of modern women that women themselves won't talk about and how being the beta buck of the equation is not in the best interest of men. The manosphere warns women that AF/BB is a terrible strategy because she's wasting her youth chasing fuckboys that have no interest in building anything long term with her and that the older she gets the harder it will be for her to find a HVM to marry because those men …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:18 PM
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Not Married No Kids Not Obese (Ok with overweight) Any race Between 5'2-6'2 Any income 21 to 35 yrs 14.97% 1 out of 5 Easy to please
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:57 PM
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Because a concerning amount of men are becoming NEETs and the system is in desperate need of taxpayers. Social programs can't sustain a higher influx of jobless/low wage men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:39 PM
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When women stop dating misogynistic men. What's the point of encouraging men to be more empathic and vulnerable when women go around picking all the emotionally unavailable men to have relationships with. The hyper masculine playboys seem to be doing just fine, its the soft-spoken dough-boys who are struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:12 PM
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Not only that, most countries outside of Europe are way more socially conservative than the US/Canada. So even if these women decide to date abroad they'll be met with even more hardcore conservative men with higher expectations of gender norms than their American counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:22 PM
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Not if men keep falling into depression and opting out of society. In order to be useful you need to provide something; a "leftover" woman who has a job is leagues above more useful than a "leftover" guy who does nothing but rot away in his room.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:34 PM
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The playing field has changed. Social media and OLD have pretty much replaced the bar scene so game is still important but doesn't take priority over looks/status because if women aren't swiping on you and giving you that initial contact then no amount of game is going to save you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 06:37 PM
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Nah this is one of the subjects I disagree the most with TRP, the whole 20s chasing 30s thing is a massive cope imo and guys who wait till that age to start dating with no experience are in for a ruuude awakening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:11 PM
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A grown woman who is interested in a guy will make it very clear that she's into him. The only women who have issues approaching guys are usually younger/inexperienced/religious women or those that suffer from some type of anxiety. It's actually a bit infuriating how much "creep" shit women can get away with when they want to show a guy that they like him; things like touching, crude comments, stalking, "claiming" you even if you've never spoken before, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 12:28 AM
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I don't understand how opting out of the workforce is going to help these men in any way, that just sounds like a completely stupid idea. If anything younger guys should look at this and use it as motivation to keep grinding because giving up like this is honestly pathetic and only guarantees their place at the bottom of society. What do you think is going to happen when these guys get to retirement age without any money and no family?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:11 PM
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I know plenty of normal, good guys with stable jobs who are completely celibate and it's not because they're terrible people but because they're toooo stable (boring), not prestigious enough and/or sexually unappealing (dime a dozen average/below average). That's why I get upset when people equate men's lack of a dating success with them being terrible people because I know for a fact that being a good person is not enough for getting laid. I'll even argue that morally questionable men are the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 04:41 PM
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Single women can already have all of that and not be in a committed relationship. That's how low the bar is for young women when it comes to dating. If anything, being in a relationship with a broke dude is even worse lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:02 PM
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No I'm fine with making the first move, the real problem is that we're penalizing men for even trying. We need to stop shaming men for approaching women in public places. Just because a guy shows interest in a women doesn't mean that he's a creep or a rapist. Public places should be game as they have always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:56 AM
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Nah, women spent the majority of the 2010's convincing men that dating was all about personality and that looks weren't that important as long as the guy was nice and respectful enough. Well surprise, surprise, a lot of the guys that followed that line of thinking are now sexless and single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:05 AM
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Instead of amazon its more like a knockoff version of Ebay where you're unsure if the thing you're buying even exists and the seller won't just run off with your money after you "pay".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:16 PM
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Chivalry is what medieval fuckboys used to do. Back then women were treated as cattle so an attractive young man who was nice to them was for sure getting laid. Extra points if he knew how read poetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:42 AM
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The millionaire, gymaxxed 45y/o now can't even compete. Even being a billionaire won't make up for the amount 18-21 y/o girls a tall, lean, young pretty boy collage athlete would have access to. Did you even bother to read the post at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:06 PM
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And most men aren't hot 20yr old rich college athletes. I agree its dumb to compare them both but to say that a 20ish yr old college student has a higher SMV than a 45 yr old billionaire is just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 09:28 PM
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You seriously going to tell me that a 21-25 yr old college kid is going to pull more than a 45 yr old billionaire.... I mean it wasn't that long ago that Saudi billionaires were flying supermodels to Dubai for them to use as literal toilets... Think about that for a second, some of the most physically attractive women in the world, peak women, were literally swallowing turds and getting railed by camels for money and you're going to tell me that a college kid is going to out compete those guys..…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 06:50 PM
2

Listen bro I understand the sentiment but the way you typing is kinda concerning ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:10 AM
2

Most people are going to find their match or settle. Its no fun being old and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:51 AM
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Being a well adjusted, morally ethical man has nothing to do with sexual attraction. It doesn't matter if you're Jesus incarnate if you can't get a woman wet then you're going to die alone. That's why so many guys end-up frustrated because every time they complain about their lack of dating success they're shamed and told that they're not "respecting" woman hard enough or that they're somehow terrible people for whatever made up reason. Yet if you take one look at the state of dating right now a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:03 PM
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Which groups? Cause as a man I've never seen anything like this before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:51 PM
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I think that when a lot of dudes talk about bad boys what they trying to say is that attractive bad boys have a higher SMV than average looking good guys. That the generic dating advice about being kind/nice/agreeable/having empathy (personality > looks) is misleading because attractive bad boys/assholes/bullies are non of that and they seem to have a lot more success with women. In the case of Lionel Messi, I mean the guy is a living legend he can have all the red flags he wants and still get t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:30 AM
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The absurd amount of simping that men do and how easily we give away our attention in exchange for nothing. I have plenty of friends and co-workers that are women and the constant stream of male attention they get is actually kind of obnoxious. No wonder women are so picky, men keep inflating their stupid ass egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 04:07 PM
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Just don't bring it up. She's not gonna tell you all the shit she's done so why tell her yours. She could have been a literal sex worker and you'll never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:02 AM
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Not necessarily. The issue is you're going to be competing with a bunch of 20yr olds for the same man. So if he's husband material then he's going to have plenty of options so why shouldn't he pick the younger, prettier* women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:23 PM
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Yes, men who go to clubs and bars by themselves stick out like sore thumbs and are generally perceived as weirdos and women tend to be suspicious them. If you're a single dude that wants to maximize your chances at a bar/club you should 100% bring people with you, preferably a mixed group that also includes women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:53 PM
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Funny enough I once had a talk with a woman who told me that men always look down on women and treat them like shit because of their sex and I told her that if every woman on earth magically grew a dick and became a man that they would instantly be at the bottom of the male social hierarchy. If anything men tolerate and excuse more bad behavior from women than they do from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 02:41 PM
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Yeah the kindest most humble dude I've ever met in my life I met in college and he became a teacher. Everybody in his community knows who he is and respects him for what he does but he's still a virgin at 29. He's very well mannered and likable and I don't think he's ugly. Dude is pretty average when it comes to looks except for his height which is 5'2-5'4ish and he's very very skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:07 PM
2

It's a people thing not a man thing. Women who don't get external validation from XYZ also doubt their self-worth. Sex just happens to be the one men focus on the most because its the one they struggle with early on in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 02:01 AM
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Legally yes, with regards to their bodies and brains people aren't done developing into full adults until their early-mid 20s. So yeah the age of "adulthood" should be increased to 21 imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:47 PM
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30-40+ yr old dudes hitting on 18-19yr old girls will always be gross no matter what because those women are straight out of high school and are technically still not full adults. I don't think teenagers should be doing porn or joining the military either (atleast not active duty), the minimum age requirement should be 21+ imo. But hitting on 25+ yr olds should be fair game because by that age most people have already had relationships, graduated college and are beginning their professional care…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 11:26 PM
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That's never gonna happen dude. There's a whole ass body positivity movement going on in media were people are supposed to be accepted for who they are and not shamed for how they look and men are STILL openly ridiculed and denigrated for things they can't control like being short, ugly, bald, having small dicks etc. so what makes you think sex should be any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:47 PM
0

Women couldn't care less about your struggles. You either figure it out on your own or stay the fuck away.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:37 PM
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Nah, marriage is already on the decline. Young people are struggling with marrying 1 person I can't imagine a lot of them would be interested in having multiple spouses. Now if you're worried about polyamory, open relationships and Chad harems well then I hate to break it to ya but that shit has been a thing since forever regardless of what the law says.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:37 PM
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Do you really want more high T sexually frustrated men roaming the streets looking for women? Yeah porn is a massive issue but what would the alternative be in a society that is becoming increasingly more antisocial and where male sexuality is treated as predatory?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:16 PM
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Some of the people here are delusional and its kinda entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:20 PM
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