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Update: I confronted her and stated that her behaviour was disrespectful to our relationsship. I added some dread by saying that I am ready to leave if necessary. I had a hard ground, since, as mentioned, cuddling with other people is normal in our social circle (we aren't polygam though). But I insisted on having a head on anothers guys lap isn't acceptable and I got a sincere apology from her. I think she is a bit insecure about me changing that much in the last days, but that isnt necessarily…
/r/askMRP15/04/17 05:58 PM
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Update: I confronted her and stated that her behaviour was disrespectful to our relationsship. I added some dread by saying that I am ready to leave if necessary. I had a hard ground, since, as mentioned, cuddling with other people is normal in our social circle (we aren't polygam though). But I insisted on having a head on anothers guys lap isn't acceptable and I got a sincere apology from her. I think she is a bit insecure about me changing that much in the last days, but that isnt necessarily…
/r/askMRP15/04/17 05:58 PM
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Thank you guys. I also see it as failed, that why she was so whiny after that. I will confront her now, without an apology I will be ready to leave right now (we are here with my car, they could take the train home). Last question: should I also confront him in some way? I could for instance tell him that he's making jokes about me (it wasn't just one), and that I don't want this. That would be quite demasking and setting my borders. What do you think? Ah shit, I failed again in the meantime. We…
/r/askMRP15/04/17 04:12 PM
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Thanks, I will think about that. Now that it would be my turn the be looking for couples, I could also easily do nothing, I guess she wouldn't insist on anything. She is not my wife, but my girlfriend for many years with the same betaization dynamics as everywhere. That's why I had so much success with the MMSL right now.
/r/askMRP14/04/17 09:35 AM
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I am sincerely not a troll. As I said, everything described is honest. Just because I am not a hundred percent aligned with the values here at MRP I am not a troll. I am really thankful for any advice given here. As not every relationsship is the same, I need to adapt the MAP to my social circumstances (openly dominating for instance would be a total No-Go. With the people I am surrounded domination is rather shown by being very social competent, being intellectually stimulating, setting discuss…
/r/askMRP13/04/17 12:45 PM
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Ah wow, and that's funny. Because seen this way, her argument of having a sexual adventure with another couple so "it doesn't get boring" could actually mean "So it doesn't get boring for you, now that you are such a manly man and get so much feedback from other women".
/r/askMRP13/04/17 10:44 AM
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That's interesting, thanks. Didn't see it that way. I am not sure about losing alpha with another man necessarily. We are surrounded by people who are sexually very liberal, also having homosexual/bisexual encounters. I also fantasized about giving a gay man a blowjob (which was honest) and she answered that it turns her on a lot. I assume that it could be seen as some meta behaviour, like "I am so sexually confident and alpha that I also don't mind having another penis around, especially if thi…
/r/askMRP13/04/17 10:33 AM
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