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Women create better social groups for themselves, all the single women I know have lots of friends from different social circles, they are very proactive in arranging get togethers. They are highly involved with family, neices, nephews, friends kids etc. They go to church, classes, the gym, social groups etc. They invite other women out for coffee, lunch etc. It's a pretty nice life actually. They are just highly proactive about maintaining and growing their support networks and supporting other…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:11 AM
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It’s more about brain development and that is age based. Life experience encompasses more than your level of dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:55 AM
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In my opinion it’s pretty bad to date her. You both might be attracted to each other but while she might be physically an adult mentally and emotionally she is still a kid in many ways, literally brain development is still ongoing. You are past that stage and have more than a decade of experience on her and that creates a huge imbalance in the relationship, it would essentially be an adult dating a kid. She’s just discovering herself and her place in the world and she should be doing that with h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:47 AM
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Lol, so true 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:07 PM
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This is meaningless without ages a 35 year old dating a 48 year old is very different to a 20 year old dating a 32 year old. An older man doesn’t need to engage in your listed behaviours to be predatory and unless you’ve been groomed by an older person when you are much younger and a young person in general then you’re not in a position to say it’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:06 PM
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Well I’m married and in my mid 40s. I choose not To have children with my husband who I’ve been with since I was 18. We discussed it extensively when we were both about 29 / 30 and we decided we didn’t want to and we’ve always been happy with that choice. I imagine there are some women who feel sad about it but most of the single / child free women I know in my age group are happy and have full lives, they do have men interested in them but for many of them they aren’t that interested unless it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:36 PM
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Having children is a really big part of the human experience and I can understand why parents feel that they never really grew up until they became parents because it involves huge amounts of sacrifice and work to raise a child. However there is also an element of sunk coat fallacy in parents, there are quite a few studies suggesting that many parents don't actually enjoy parenting which is not the same as saying they don't love their kids but when asked parents stated they'd rather do almost an…
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 02:50 AM
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I don't know what the correct reaction is to this pathetic text, cringe, face palm, laughter? I'm sure he definitely does not do all this infantile bullshit with wife she'd divorce him in a second if he did. He sounds like the guy who tells you a shaggy dog story about how he said this and that to put someone in their place when you know he's just making it all up, but then as we know making shit up is Rollo Tomassi's modus operandi.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 02:27 AM
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I think the red pill is essentially the black pill because nothing will alienate you from genuine love, intimacy, joy, passion and connection than belief and adherence to red pill mythology.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 02:17 AM
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I think the idea of alpha fucks / beta Bucks is an extremely paranoid notion some men have which is more about their insecurities and their sense of entitlement than anything women do. If a man were to believe in this idea a a rule I'd see that as a huge red flag he did not actually like women and that there would be a strong possibility thus man would be controlling, distrustful and abusive
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 02:15 AM
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This should be obvious given how Tomassi pulled all his fake theories out of his ass but its still nice to see him humiliated like this. He very much relies oh his audience accepting what he says unquestioningly.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 02:09 AM
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Yeah it's completely abusive, I wish women would just walk away the minute any guy pulled this shit on them.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 01:57 AM
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Yeah I read this as well and I've seen it irl too. It really puts a fly in the red pill ointment in my opinion. They are always so keen to point out how women view men as a utility, can't really love, are only opportunistic and endlessly hypergamous when this proves the opposite is true. Men who when their loyal, living wives get sick suddenly go "oh no my sex and housework robot is broken, let me dump it in the trash and get a new one, she's worthless without her utility to me" Obviously not al…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:37 AM
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Nah its fine for most people, only broken losers will suffer and that's just "survival of the fittest" in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:33 AM
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Ah the laughs I get here 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:27 AM
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If people are more introverted they don't want to be out and socialise all the time. They need quiet time alone to recharge. Internet users especially reddit users are more likely to be introverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:22 AM
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Your problems are not real, they are not valid, they are irrelevant and nobody cares, you are just seeking victimised status and your issues are of your own making.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:19 AM
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Of course they don't age better, most unlike women never wear sunscreen few use antiaging skincare etc. Many don't even bother with dental hygiene. They eat crap, drink too much, do drugs or smoke. They get beer bellies and go baldy, just take a look at most of the old baldy red pill youtubers 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:17 AM
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No like you, you post saying change my view but you have no intention of listening with an open mind you just want to grind your own axe, well have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:19 PM
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It does actually when discussing what women think and desire. However there is little point in arguing with a closed minded, little ignoramus.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:15 PM
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I'm a woman and therefore I do know much more about this than you could ever hope to understand but you don't want to actually know the truth or understand you only want to believe your own uneducated, inexperienced little theories. Fine stay ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:12 PM
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No your obsessing about a marginal behavior and assuming it's going on everywhere and growing bigger but it's nonsense. This is one of the drawbacks of the Internet that you will find what you go looking for whether it's actually true or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:09 PM
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Nothing you've posted is proof. I see mostly average people with other average people. If women aren't interested in those guys then they cannot be that attractive. Just because you find those men attractive and desirable doesn't mean a woman does. Also there is more to compatibility than looks, attraction is only one part of getting and staying together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:04 PM
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There maybe studies but it's definitely bullshit, more likely that the same issues thar drive the woman to promiscuity in the first place also affect her ability to maintain a long term relationship rather that promiscuity itself directly causing that lack of ability. Remember some men within the red pill community actually believe a womans vagina molds itself to its preferred alpha penis and can never Be satisfied by another man. I have literally seen that claimed. These men are batshit crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:53 PM
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Of course it won't it will be a niche lifestyle fir a small group of unsavoury men and women. The rest of us will continue to form normal healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:48 PM
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Disagree all you like, I know for a fact you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:38 PM
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Women might find a lesser percentage of men attractive but we don't all find the same men attractive so it evens out to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:33 PM
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As a woman I can tell you that for the most part women Do not prefer older men. Maybe they are fine with 3 years or so older but 5 + years is rare. Women prefer men around their own age. The only "age gap" relationships I personally know of are where the woman is between 8 and 18 years older than her male partner. I know of zero where the make is significantly older. Talking to female friends and colleagues we all dislike older men hitting us. We prefer younger men to older men and we prefer men…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:31 PM
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Something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:50 PM
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Oh I see your brain dead and that's all you can type.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:48 PM
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Yeah I lmao as well at the whole red pill community. Luckily it's a self selected community of pathetic men few of whom will ever reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:07 PM
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No I think not, at best they double down on their bullshit and attract some poor abused, damaged woman but the couldn't get near a healthy woman because we have an internal warning system that alerts us to assholes and freaks. You've really drank the RP Kool Aid haven't you. Look I know it gets you off thinking of lonely women crying because you are a miserable little man but in reality single women have good lives and are amongst the happiest demographics, typically with strong social links and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:13 PM
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Haha, what a loser watching Kevin Sadsack samuals videos and believing anything he said. RP guys deal exclusively in damaged women because no normal sane woman would look twice at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:04 PM
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I actually support mgtow but it should mean no women whatsoever, sex dolls are fine. RP guys are delusional losers who think being even more of a price than they already are will get them pussy, lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:01 PM
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The thing is to develop that on to the next mindset there is something lacking to begin with. Lots of people get cheated on or messed about and don't end up that way because they have a more secure centre. They stay good and decent people open to love. If you end up with a negative / don't cate mindset your were fucked to begin with and you'll continue to attracted partners who will make you unhappy and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:58 PM
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Lol, No the red pill / manosphere is for sad sack losers who have already been auto rejected by women. Its like saying, "you can't fire me man, I quit" but nobody is listening. Nobody knows you're gone because nobody wants you anyway, in fact we're glad you're gone because your an undesirable liability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:32 AM
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Yep this is it exactly. It doesn't matter how fit you are, how rich, how much game you got. If you fundamentally hate women and see us as sex objects, domestic slaves and walking wombs we will know and you'll be auto rejected by any sane woman. In fact any whiff of red pill nonsense and you will be automatically rejected by all but the most damaged women who like a mirror image are attracted to a man as damaged as themselves and they will bring each other only misery. Your best hope is to walk a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:52 AM
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Nope there issues are with how the see women and expect women to be and behave. If you have been able to extract practical self help advice from the red pill flipflop then fine buy you could have got that advice from your granny. Ignore its analysis of women it's total bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:20 AM
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Being fit and healthy is positive, being solvent, productive and making a contribution is positive, and being an emotionally secure person is positive but the red pill doesn’t address the underlying mental and emotional problems these men have that actually prevent them from forming lasting and meaningful relationships. Its too simplistic, formulaic and overstates the benefits of muscles, money and being mean. A lot of the advice is to literally bully women into submission, you will never form a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 08:08 AM
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All of that sounds gross, babygirl makes my skin crawl. Just stick to Miss. Also Brad Pitt / Pete Davidson 🤢 If you are talking to a woman in her place of work please don’t ever assume attraction she’s paid to be nice to you and to smile and please don’t make her day any harder than it already is by harassing her while she tries to do her job.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:52 AM
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Those guys project their own shallowness onto women, they are just looking for ego saving flimflam that gives them a nice way to blame their failures on women. These men are emotionally stunted and refuse to take any responsibility for their short comings as people. The whole red / black pill ideology is about shifting blame onto women and then giving them a green light to treat women poorly and be hateful to them in general. I’m seeing more and more reading the posts and comments here that the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 07:46 AM
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I honestly think it's a good thing because a man being red pilled is a huge red flag that gets you auto rejected by all but the most damaged of women, if you are lucky. Its sad that those women will have to put up with the red pilled man but on the upside she will also probably make his life hell as well. Essentially the red pill man finds his own rather grim level where he can stew for all eternity letting the rest of the sane and actually desirable men and women get on with their lives in peac…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:22 AM
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I'm happily married and not selling anything, I'm myself take me or leave me. I don't really care what men think of me as long as my husband is happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:03 AM
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Pretty much none of them are actually into that they have been brainwashed by porn and by male expectations of what sex should be due to the easy availability of hard-core, fetish pornography for free online. We're a porn sick culture, where even young men get erectile disfunction from wanking too much till they can only get off to sissy hypno and women think that fucking themselves I'm the ass with a wine bottle and posting it on OF is empowerment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:52 AM
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I don't see this at all maybe for a short-term dating relationship when very young and you still know lots of single people from school or uni. When people get older though and long terms relationships it's often the men who jump right back on the apps or into another relationship ASAP. Women usually need a year or two to get over the last relationship. As a result of moving on so quickly the men tend not to mature or learn from their mistakes as much so they keep repeating the same issues over …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:44 AM
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Yeah this is true, the guys here want the tatted up instagram baddies they claim to hate but are actually just pissed she doesn't even register their existence. However I think it's best that these men stay alone because they are a liability to any woman plain jane or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:35 AM
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I care if a man sleeps around, it's disgusting and gross, he'll be riddled with stds and have penile and anal warts or worse. His diseased weenie can drop off for all I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:32 AM
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Honestly who cares about those losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:28 AM
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Honestly keep your nose out of your brothers business and marriage its nothing to do with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:27 AM
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Here the thing, you are at liberty not date any woman you find unattractive or overweight. What you cannot do is demand the attention of or to date a woman you do find attractive who is not interested in you. You are not entitled to any womans time, body or affection. You can ask a girl out if you like her but do not harrass her. If you cannot find a woman you like enough to date just stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:26 AM
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Hypergamy is what ever you assholes want it to be any possible reason a woman rejects or dumps you will be framed as hypergamy to preserve your fragile little egos. It's not me, I'm awesome she's just a hypergamous bitch. I'm a good guy, no matter what I did women are just opportunistic and incapable of love blah, blah, blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:52 PM
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Guess what, even if you marry a naive submissive younger women she will not stay that way. As she matures she will become more assertive, she will challenge and question your (probably piss poor) judgment, she will be utterly wise to and sick of your shit and she'll see right through you. The truth is the men here who want submissive and obedient and much younger are weak, insecure men with very little to offer any woman so they need to try and find someone gullible they can lie to and hoodwink …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:47 PM
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But hypergamy can literally mean whatever you want it to mean. You guys can frame anything as hypergamy regardless of a womans actual motivation. She rejects you because she wants to be single and focus on getting her degree - Hypergamy at play She leaves you and starts dating a guy an inch taller -hypergamy, she leaves you and dates a guy 2 inches shorter and not as good looking but he's highly intelligent, that's hypergamy too. What about if you're the smart one with high earning potential and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:29 AM
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Lol, just fucking lol at this shit. The world is not about to end just because nobody wants to touch your weenie. I've said it before and I'll say it again, hypergamy is just whatever you guys want it to be, you'll twist anything a woman does into an example of hypergamy to spare your ego, it's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:02 AM
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I felt bad for a minute, that maybe I'd been to harsh on you but then I reread your post and it's even worse than I thought. I think taking personal responsibility will get them a lot further than your theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:57 AM
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Because I think that there is a lot of unhelpful bullshit that is standing in the way of people's self development here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:45 AM
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I don't care about your relationship status and your theories aren't helping anyone because I guarantee you the bitter guys hear looking "systemic" issues that absolve them of responsibility do indeed have a personal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:34 AM
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Lol, most people here live in a bizarre unpleasant fantasy land where justify their unhappiness and shitty relationships with illogical theorising. They are no better than the tinfoil hat wearing conspiracy theorist. Low IQ abounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:27 AM
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There are things you can theorise about but this is just twisting yourself in knots to find some justification for why some girl didn't want you etc. Its the same as some dumb girl thinking that a guy she liked rejected her because he was scared by the enormity of his feelings for her, its just self soothing bollocks with no basis in reality. I think a lot of men in this space have problems relating or maintaining relationships because they are autistic or on that spectrum then they resort to st…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:22 AM
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The men on here are not logical at all unless you mean pretzel logic, paranoid fantasy and conspiracy theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:54 AM
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Nah this is a crappy post and not reflective of reality. Falling in love isn't about looks, rating systems etc. Sure physical attraction gets you noticed but falling in love is more complex. You might date someone who is highly attractive buy just be meh about them but fall head over heals for someone who is pretty average looks wise. All this theorising is a way of making sense of things you don't understand and can't control. It's little better that conspiracy theory. It makes you feel better …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:51 AM
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Porn is exploitative and is dehumanising to women and men for that matter. Also porn leads to other issues like death grip, impotence, addiction, weird fucked up fetishism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:44 AM
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I am not attracted to muscled men. Not aesthetically and I find most gym bros to be dull.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:32 AM
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I've been indifferent to men and then liked them after getting to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:29 AM
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My father grew up without a dad as his father died when he was an infant, he only had his mum and five older sisters. They had to move and live in one of the worst, most deprived housing schemes in the UK, which was riddled with gangs, crime and drugs. My Dad is a great man and a brilliant father, never violent, kind, strong, smart, reliable. His sisters are good people as well and my grandmother was an amazing woman. By the fatherless, lack of male role model theory he should be an arsehole or …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:24 AM
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Hypergamy is just whatever a sad red pilled man needs it to be in order to spare his ego when he gets rejected or dumped. I saw a Rich Cooper video where they mentioned a woman finally divorcing her long term alcoholic husband after he was sexually inappropriate with their teenage daughter. In the comments the guys were saying well she was being hypergamous because as an alcoholic incest molestor he was no longer his best self and old wife feels she can do better so she cruelly casts him aside a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:16 AM
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They don't know, it's another one of their paranoid fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:07 AM
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If you don't engage emotionally you will also lose her interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:11 AM
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What do you want, average women just to open their legs to you as soon as you look at them? If you want a relationship or even just sex your going to have to be nice and build some kind of relationship. If you just want to fuck a hole then get a fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:08 AM
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Yeah I do wonder if this whole movement is set up by older guys to try and make younger women going for older men a regular thing. Sorry it ain't gonna happen guys, because of ... biology, as you like to say yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:03 AM
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I replied in depth to many men on this sub and they still turn around and shit on you at every turn. Everything you say is twisted to suit their bleak and aggressive world view. These guys need to stay away from women and stop blaming them for their problems, no woman owes any random guy a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:47 AM
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This is true, research show that women consistently prefer men around their own age up until the age of 40 where they then start to prefer younger men. When I was in my teens and early 20s anyone more than 3 years older than me was way too old. If I was ever pursued by men in their late 20s / early 30s I was horrified, those men were not attractive to me regardless of their wealth or status. Women who are interested is significantly older men are outliers, its not the norm. I've said this on her…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:38 AM
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You just want to marinade in your own negativity fine, I'm not surprised women avoid or reject men with attitudes like yours. You asked the question, I shared my experience. I don't need to realise anything you say and I won't frankly it's not my problem nor is it any woman's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:40 PM
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No he's the one attacking and blaming women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:30 PM
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Lots of women a guy might rate as pretty may well see herself as unattractive or even ugly. I was probably average looking but thought I was ugly. I never did online dating but I did like guys who rejected me when I told them. I was told by guys I was too sweet, too innocent etc, they preferred cooler, edgy girls. I got dumped as well, that's life and the guys who dumped me or rejected me were right, they weren't for me. When I met the guy I would go on to marry it all fell into place. I think m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:21 PM
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Stay bitter then you'll only poison yourself and your own life. Let the rest of us live the good life👍
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 06:10 PM
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I think you could well be right, perhaps they all deserve each other😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 04:02 PM
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It really is that Ally is so delusional that she's some how this amazing woman, first she's not that great looking, I thought she was older than 27. Her husband is like .... yikes! I couldn't believe that was the guy she was banging on about other women chasing! I thought he was some sad old red pill guru. I saw her give some special femininity advice on youtube and it amounted to " if someone says thank you for coming reply oh thank you for having me!" I mean really?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:54 PM
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This, we're all different. I met my husband when I was 18 some people don't meet the right person till they are older, different strokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 03:48 PM
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Oh dear, please stop self harming with that ideology. Find a relationship or stay single as you please but that sort of thinking and resentment is self destructive. It's only your life you are ruining.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:40 PM
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What good does moaning and feeling sorry for yourself do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:58 AM
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It's hard to type coherently one handed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:34 AM
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This post makes me lol, you guys are all hopeless cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 11:33 AM
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This is some conspiracy level shit women are not a network operating to block your cock, you probably do that well enough on your own! I do think women can pick up on the vibe that a man hates women or only sees us as objects for his use and those vibes give us the ick rendering those men deeply unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:55 AM
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Op completely ignores this because it doesn't fit with his world view. Honestly this red pill mentality is a form of self harm. It's also an industry where men and even some women have learned how to milk lonely, angry, rejected men for dollars by feeding that anger, its such a negative vacuum and its probably ruining a lot of lives. Most of these red pill gurus don't even live that lifestyle, they are married or in ltr or they go mad like Roosh when they wake up and realise how lonely and unful…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:38 AM
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You just sound bitter because women have rejected you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:29 AM
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I think we all get back what we put out. When I was at university I wasn't invited to many parties or nights out on the town. I could have felt bitter about this and feel I missed out but in reality I was an introvert who never sought those things out, I didn't drink, I was happy to stay home and read or watch movies. I never went on lots of fancy dates with different guys because I met my now husband at 18. Sure we dated, we went to cheap screenings at the cinema, we ate half price pizza using …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:27 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:07 AM
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About the men? Not really. I do care about the young girls and I believe their parents should take better care of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 10:05 AM
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Years ago I was friends with a guy I worked with we were both huge obscure film nerds often borrowing copies of old movies or books off each other. When I left that job I used to occasionally meet up with him to talk about films etc. One day he told me we has to stop meeting up because he had strong feelings for me and was struggling to move on while we still saw each other. I was sad about this but completely respected his decision. Alternatively I had feelings for a boy as a teenager, he was a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:55 AM
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Yeah this place isn't the real world, honestly the obese 25 year old guy who live with his parents next door to me has a pretty nice girlfriend he's been dating for about 4 years now. A lot of the unhappy men on this forum have much bigger problems than dating. There minds are broken for a start.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:43 AM
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Incoherent post really but to try and answer your general question rather than the above specific scenario. I as a woman don't care about how popular a guy is. I am an introvert and not given to a lot of socialising. What a man does, how he acts and treats others, how he speaks to others is more important, is he trustworthy and reliable are all more important than the car he drives, I really don't care about that stuff. However I also think coming from a stable family background is an important …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:38 AM
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Your thesis does not resonate with me at all. I prefer to be married to my husband than have my "needs met" by a robot. Marriage is also a spiritual union, what robot or bit of tech will meet that need?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:27 AM
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Met my husband at university, I literally saw him across a crowded room and just knew he was my guy. I was 18, he was 20. He is 5 foot 8 inches wears glasses and was an engineering student so not what this sub would deem a Chad at all but he was beautiful. We were from very similar backgrounds both irish, catholic and working class, first in our families to go to university. We're still very happily married 26 years later, I still fancy him and the sex is incredible. There have been instances wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 09:20 AM
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And what part of wanting women who have made a free choice not to procreate with men who they find undesirable to the point of preferring to be single and childless to do so just because you prefer it helps women in Afghanistan?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:45 PM
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So what, that is their decision, if men are unhappy it about the onus is on them to appeal to women, not on women to reduce their standards. If men don't want to do this then that is fine, as these women have already decided they would rather be single than be with those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:02 PM
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If men are unable to obtain a wife that is their issue and their failure, it is not any womans problem or concern. A woman can get pregnant if she desires children without a male partner and as I say above if women prefer to be single than settle for men they do not want or desire that is their perogative. Looking around me at my community people seem to be managing just fine to find partners. If some people fail to do this that is their own problem. What is the alternative mandating women to da…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:57 PM
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We should campaign for the emancipation and education of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:50 PM
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No, I don't think so. I still see people pairing up and having babies all around me. It just means those who fail to make the grade won't reproduce but who's to say that's a bad thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:30 AM
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I'd assume they were getting their jollies looking at a minor. I don't care what these random creepy men do, they are unimportant to me, creeps will be creeps but I would wonder where this girls parents were, why they let her online like that. It's poor parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 12:33 AM
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It's the consumerist answer, pay for it. I think men who use prostitutes are pathetic and disgusting. It should be law to have to reveal prior use of sex workers to women you want to date due to std risk and the personality defects such behaviour displays. Its abusive and exploitation at best and often much worse. I have worked with sex workers after a childhood friend of mine became a prostitute (due to drug addiction) and ended up murdered by one of her clients but she was raped, robbed and be…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 12:23 AM
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It probably is better for a woman to be alone than with some boring, low iq man. Luckily there are still good men with intelligence and good jobs available for smart, educated women (I got my husband) so why feel sorry for them, what is the alternative should they dumb themselves down to get with men who are not bright enough to succeed at life? Honestly it is better for a woman to be alone than to demeen herself with a man who adds nothing to her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 12:09 AM
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Lol, good luck lad, you'll need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:44 AM
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I'm not offended, I'm happily married so have no skin in this game. I just think you should face reality and stop with the cope. Then perhaps you can do something about your failings or find peace and happiness within a solo life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:39 PM
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Yes I also find you highly amusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:42 PM
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Note I said a mutually beneficial long term relationship, if these men are consistently rejected its doubtful they have the requisite qualities for such a relationship for example the accusatory tone of your op suggests you are anything but nice sweet or kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:41 PM
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It's still a cop out and not really mgtow. You should wait for the sex bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:35 PM
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I think it's an online thing, all the angry sadsack rejects get together online and feed off each other whipping themselves up into a fever, looking for anyone or anything to blame but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:55 PM
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Your issue is your tendency to grasp at straws and put responsibility any where but on yourself. Smart women often have the most options romanticly so they will probably not be interested in you due to your immaturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:35 PM
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Your putting your deficiencies onto women. If women aren't attracted to you that's your problem not theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:32 PM
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Honestly it's not really my problem. If they find it too hard or don't actually like women then it's preferable that they deselect themselves from the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:30 PM
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I did 2 periods of LDR with my husband when we were students, working overseas temporarily. It made us both even more certain how much we want be together. In the right relationship long distance isn't a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:28 PM
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You are not mgtow because you still engage with women. I'd be very happy to see you fully go your own way and in general I think mgtow is a great way for undesirable men to eliminate themselves from the dating world, as its just a jump or be pushed for these guys. Most of them are full of shit though and still endless try to engage women like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:25 PM
1

I don't wear makeup and find the idea of my husband in make up repugnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:18 PM
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That's life, it just takes one. We've all experienced rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:17 PM
1

I rarely wear make up, imo it's bad for your skin, dries it out and ages it faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:16 PM
1

I don't find either of those muscle bound men attractive in the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:12 PM
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It's possible that women only find a small percentage of men attractive but they aren't all finding the same guys attractive. So it should still be a wider spread than just those one or 2 guys you mention. I'm not attracted to the same men my friends like and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:10 PM
1

If I were single I'd be happy to split the bill, I'm married and my husband pays, but any money we have is ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 07:05 PM
1

A man's inability to attract a female partner isn't any woman's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:53 PM
1

In my experience this is not the case as so many people meet their future spouse at university.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:52 PM
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This is a highly individual matter. Women don't have to sell themselves to you or anyone. If you like them and want to date them fine if you feel you need to be convinced like you're trying to pick out a car them move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:51 PM
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In my experience with men this has some truth to it, although I know women like this as well. I think in talking with women it can feel like it gets very deep and intimate where as conversation with a man may feel quite superficial to a woman buy the man feels like he's bared his soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:48 PM
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Absolutely not, gross. A high number of sexual partners equals a higher chance of stds. Nothing about that is appealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:45 PM
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Bizarre post full of projection from a man who has no clue about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:43 PM
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Honestly your post is incoherent. Tattoo, nagging behaviour, being unreliable yuk. Those behaviours will only attract low quality women, the red pillers seem to hate what they describe as low quality women and yet are also obsessed with bedding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:40 PM
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I think women are typically better at establishing more friendships and getting support from other women than men are so they don't need a man to have companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:36 PM
1

When you meet someone irl, and get to know them over time they can become more attractive to you because you genuinely like them. If dating is all online then looks are main draw so it becomes more important and we probably dismiss people who we'd prefer. Online also gives the false impression that the most beautiful and youngest are available to us when in reality they are not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:32 PM
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I guess some men do but most do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:28 PM
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Laughable, let's see what happens if women stop providing care and subsidising men's existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:28 PM
1

A woman is also at liberty to maintain her high standards and remain single if she prefers that, which many do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:26 PM
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This is a shame for you because I think we do have a tendency to repeat what has been modelled for us. In contrast I hardly know anyone who is divorced, nobody in my whole large family either side is divorced. My advice would be to surround yourself with people who have good long-term relationships and let yourself see what is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:24 PM
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I'm not convinced most men have put that much thought into it. I think they mostly just don't see the point if their needs are being met (in a relationship or not) without the expense and constraints of a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:20 PM
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Could it be that those who are promiscuous are just more restless and less likely to be satisfied in a ltr rather than and outcome caused directly by behaviour? If that's the case I doubt using willpower to modify your natural inclinations will impact long term results much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:16 PM
1

In my experience most of the long term happy couples I know met at university, they built a life together from there. They were both high quality in terms of health, intelligence and genetics and they also had the relationship skills and personal qualities to build and maintain a marriage. A person can be smart and attractive but still have other drawbacks or flaws that hinder their ability to form long-term relationships. People with the skills and desire to be in a successful relationship tend…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:12 PM
1

I don't like tattoos on either gender, it always seems to me a symbol of lack.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:02 PM
1

I definitely notice men with sisters much nicer to be around and exhibit more attractive behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 06:01 PM
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I think many women given the option of a poor relationship with a man vs being single would choose to be single. Ideally they might prefer a partner but they are fine alone if the right man doesn't show up. These days women are able to earn a good income, own a home, drive, travel, they have hobbies and interests, they have friends and may even seek non romantic sexual partners if they wish. They can have very fulfilling lives without a husband so the guy has to be a pretty great guy for them to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:59 PM
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There is access to sex which is one thing and finding a mutually beneficial long term relationship which is another. Your suggestion is pointless if women are looking for more than mere sexual encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:51 PM
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It all comes down to the fact that if you can't attract women with more going on than a superficial sexual appeal then that is your problem. Women who are the complete package have options and likely move in circles where they do not encounter you. Either that or you are forming an opinion based on a serious lack of irl experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:40 PM
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Isn't that just a guys tough shit if he isn't attractive enough in anyway to get women interested in him? This can happen to women as well who might be able to get sex but they don't want sex as such they want a partner and commitment but nobody wants to give them that. That's life we don't always get what we want and if you feel it's s bad ROI then feel free to drop out. I doubt anyone will notice you're gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 05:16 PM
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Only ever had that immediate, saw him across a crowded room, lighting bolts feeling once in my life ... reader I married him! Before that it would just be guys I was friendly with at school or University and attraction would develop over time, you might hear that he liked you and I'd take a bit more notice of him. Most of the time nothing much would happen but a bit of flirting but sometimes you'd date for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:16 PM
1

That's probably true but I think most fat people will know this and probably have other issues physical or mental holding them back from taking action. None of which is your or my problem. I suppose I would just wonder why this subject winds you up enough to post about it? Do you have an issue with a particular fat person pursuing you? Perhaps the fat acceptance movement upsets you? If you are being harrased by someone take action, go to the police. If its fat acceptance again that's nothing to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:04 PM
1

I'm not necessarily talking about you but about men in general who engage in the specific behaviours of love bombing and future faking. Obviously nobody can say how a fledgling relationship will pan out we all have the right to bow out for any reason but nobody should lie saying stuff like "when we have kids" or "I can't wait to introduce you to my mother" etc when they know they are only interested in a conquest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:50 PM
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Nobody can complain that another person doesn't find them attractive. I've like guys who didn't like me back, guys have liked me and I just wasn't into them for various reasons. That's why it's pointless to try and be what you think someone else wants. Just be you, hopefully a pretty good version of you and you'll meet people attracted to who you actually are and hopefully you'll be equally into at least one of them, and it only takes one!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:30 PM
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Lots of guys do lie though, men will often love bomb a woman and future fake to get her into bed then disappear when he gets bored or another fish on the hook. Women shouldn't fall for it but it's still shirty behaviour and ultimately obtaining sex by deception.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:23 PM
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This is a good example of why women who don't want to be pumped and dumped would be wise to date for a good while before having sex, at least then they will know if they actually like each other and enjoy each others company. Guys who are just out for sex alone will get bored and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:18 PM
1

It's uk slang for condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:06 PM
1

There was a mostly abandoned show on uk TV a few years ago called Eden I think which showed this in action. It was a group of youngish people left to fend for themselves as a community in a remote part of Scotland for a year. Quickly single men and women began to form relationships. It became apparent that the men who had failed to secure the attentions of a female began to resent their time and effort going into the community as a whole when they got nothing from it. These single guys formed th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 03:04 PM
1

Seriously who cares? Perhaps so women who didn't develop other parts of their being in which case losing that validation at 40 is a good incentive to get going on the inner work but most people have enough life experience and personal growth to be beyond caring too much about not turning heads anymore. Most people never turn heads anyway that's a privilege for a few of each sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:52 PM
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It makes people feel good to do nice things for other people regardless of who they are. I once gave a book I had just bought to an older man I met on the bus who commented that he loved that author (Paul Theroux) but that he hadn't read that one so I gave him the book. I still get a nice feeling remembering that while he's probably forgotten all about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:46 PM
1

Roy Keane, he's looks older than his years but seems a very personable guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:38 PM
1

It your unhappy with this situation cut her loose and find a girl who likes to stay home on a Saturday night, who doesn't drink or hang with her girlie squad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:27 PM
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I don't understand why some men use the word "don't" when they should have used "not" 😥.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:20 PM
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People can be criticised for rejecting fat or short suitors by the culture at large, but really who cares? Nobody is forcing you to date or sleep with anyone you don't want to so your all good. Just date thin hot girls if that's your preference and let women date tall guys if that's their thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:17 PM
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Johnny Bags?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:10 PM
1

Is this the male hamster wheel? Sounds like it needs some oil!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:08 PM
1

Idk, whoever he is he isn't my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:07 PM
2

So the average guy can date average women, sounds good to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 02:00 PM
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If you're not attracted to fat women then don't date them, don't engage with them, he'll don't even talk to them if you don't want to. They aren't your problem and equally you and your opinions aren't of any concern to them. Why do you waste time thinking about and posting about people you have no interest in or respect for?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:24 PM
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"Its not about it being likely. Id dont need to wish for it. I know that I wont be attracted to a 40 year old woman even when Im 40, so regardless of what these women do I will not go out of my way to get with a 40 year old." That's fine, I feel the same way about 40 year old men. Like many women I'd find it preferable to be single than with a man I have no desire for, I have no issue with that or that many men feel the same way about 40 year old women. I just think it's delusional when men assu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:14 PM
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In the real world where I live, unlike yourself perhaps age gaps with women as the older partner are plentiful. Usually with gaps less than 10 years, about 5 years is about average but the three I mention are 12 years, 16 years and 19 years respectively, the woman older in each case. Its not common but these are the only large age gap long term relationships / marriages (or any for that matter) I know of irl. I don't know any older male / younger female relationships with such a large gap. I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:59 AM
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I only know of three 10 + year age gap relationships and all three are older woman, younger man, in one case they have kids (natural pregnancys @ 44 & 46). Most people are with someone around their own age give or take a couple of years. Most people are with someone they met at a fairly young age. I think that you don't get it, what you say might be more commonly true of a list celebrities but the average joe isn't with some much younger woman, he's with a woman approximately his own age or he's…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 11:09 AM
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It just doesn't happen, like a guy might buy you a drink or dinner once in a while but as others said their are hidden costs involved so better to refuse such offers. I know a woman who are long term married, doesn't need to work out side the home due their to husbands wealth. The husband fully supports them but she provides a lot in return, their home is immaculate, she does most of the repairs, she's an amazing cook, and devoted to her husband. They have been together 26 years so it works for …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:24 AM
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Lots of 40 + women would rather be single that be with in a relationship with a man they find unattractive. Most men over 40 can't date much younger women because younger women aren't attracted to them. Most guys that age have lost their looks, have baggage and / or other issues. The vast majority lack the attributes that would make them an outlier wealth, fame, exceptional looks. Even when they do have these attributes the majority of younger women will still find them too old and not be attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:01 AM
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The truth is everyone's sexual appeal declines with age. They say women's peak value in purely sexual terms is 18 - 24 and that age range is where the most male attention goes. Men peak a bit later say between late 20s to mid 30s. This includes the whole spectrum of attractiveness so not every guy or girl in those age ranges will be attractive. It's been shown women prefer men their own age up until late 30s when they start to prefer younger men looks wise even if they still date their own age f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 09:41 AM
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