GradientsandIdeals Archive

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1	How long should you wait to ask someone out? How could you do what? You just say, "come with me to get some coffee/ice cream/a burger later". Or just text her. Ask her for her number and text her. Or You : "Hi. I'm going to the mall later. Meet you there?" Her: what? You want to go to the mall with me? You: yep, it'll be fun. Let's go. See you soon. Her: oh, okay. Great! Be aggressive. Like, too aggressive. She and you both will appreciate it. Aggression is the primary hallmark of masculinity. She wants you to be aggressive. If you really …	/r/seduction	12/03/17 05:48 PM
1	How does one not "smother" a person who never initiates? This is a great attitude, forget the haters man. You want it, go get it. That's it. And as far as holding off communication, I personally was never on board with that game. You wanna keep pounding the communication so that she never forgets you. When she starts misbehaving, that's when you ignore her. But otherwise, keep up the communication and keep building comfort. Text game is a super important part of modern dating, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.	/r/seduction	12/03/17 01:08 PM
1	How long should you wait to ask someone out? Well the goal is to spend enough time with her so that she gets comfortable with you. This could mean just hanging out in school, or hanging out at a Starbucks, or at someone's house, or whatever. So any way you can make that happen is great. Just spend more time with her. If that means asking her to go somewhere with you, then great. If you need some more time before you feel comfortable enough to do that, then take some more time. It's all about your own personal comfort level. If you are unco…	/r/seduction	12/03/17 04:27 AM
1	How long should you wait to ask someone out? What I mean is, make your intentions as clear as possible as soon as possible. The bolder, the better. If you can't be direct about it, then just be as direct as you can while still feeling comfortable and in control. You sound like a young person, so your definition of "ask out" may be different from mine. But the basic game is to just get her alone so you can talk to her, build comfort, and sexually escalate the situation. Then you can pound that sweet pussy until she cries.	/r/seduction	12/03/17 04:12 AM
2	How long should you wait to ask someone out? The general rule is, the longer you wait, the worse off you are.	/r/seduction	12/03/17 02:36 AM
2	Where's the line of being too nice? What about the line of being too douchey? It's not a matter of being polite or douchy, it's a matter of being masculine or feminine. You can be nice while also being masculine. Just remember - you give the orders, and they obey. You are cause, they are effect. So long as you hold the keys, if you get what I mean, you are on the right path.	/r/seduction	12/03/17 02:34 AM
1	How to not get hung up over a girl? Keep getting more girls.	/r/seduction	03/03/17 06:05 PM
1	Im gonna die alone. Recondition your mind to believe you are great at getting girls. Create a complete and total delusion, and then force your mind to accept it by repeating it over, and over, and over. Believe in your own delusion. It's the only way.	/r/seduction	28/02/17 09:40 PM
1	Time to let go and focus on what matters Man, people can justify anything.	/r/seduction	28/02/17 07:20 PM
-5	Everyone seems against a lot of texting on here, but what if you can't meet up with a girl for like a week? I recommend being in constant texting communication from the moment you initiate contact up until your first meeting. Make it so she can't forget about you.	/r/seduction	28/02/17 06:18 PM
-1	I impersonated a girl online dating for a week and I’m shocked at what I found This post provides almost no useful data. It just sounds like you yourself are extremely sexually frustrated and just looking for someone to blame.	/r/seduction	28/02/17 02:01 PM
1	This is gonna sound really pathetic, but I learned something about approach anxiety This is the best lesson I learned from The Mystery Method. Whether you win or lose, it's no big deal. Either outcome is no big deal.	/r/seduction	27/02/17 06:40 PM
1	I did it fellas!! Yesss!! Awesome!!	/r/seduction	02/02/17 01:19 PM
2	"I value myself and I give you an opportunity to experience me but if for some reason you choose that worthless guy over me, then it's your problem." Yeah, it's the correct attitude. You are cause. You are not the effect of her cause.	/r/seduction	28/01/17 07:13 PM
6	[FR]My first approach ever. I sucked but It felt so good! You're awesome dude.	/r/seduction	26/01/17 01:48 PM
1	Anyone tell me why women are typically alot less nervous in the attraction phase between a girl and a guy? Are they really just better at controlling their emotions than men or is there something more involved? I actually don't find this to be true, personally. I think women are just as nervous, but it could be the case that you don't see it that way because you are focused on your own anxiety. And there's also the idea that women have always had more practice than men because they are approached more.	/r/seduction	26/01/17 01:33 PM
1	Socialites Mini-Guide \| How to Meet & Date Girls Awesome!	/r/seduction	24/01/17 08:16 PM
2	How do you keep going despite rejection? How do you still believe in yourself if you know that every girl will never go for you unless you make the first move? I definitely can relate, I felt the same in university. But look, it's just a numbers game. Getting rejected is part of the fun! Don't take the rejection so personally. Life isn't about other people, it's about you. Aren't you proud of yourself for even approaching or talking to a girl in the first place? That being said, try online dating. Seriously. Even if only to get your feet wet and break the dry spell. You just need a couple wins to get back on your feet again. Also - I know it sounds rud…	/r/seduction	21/01/17 11:21 PM
2	I don't know where to take the conversation after a successful tinder opener. Just ask them questions about their life, and share some of your life. Try to be light hearted and funny when you can. Try to show power and influence when you can. But remember, the target is to meet her in person. Asking her to meet should be your only real goal. You can exchange details about your lives until you're blue in the face, but if you don't meet in person it's all for naught. And you're right - it isn't consistent. I had to talk with hundreds of girls to meet up with 30 of them. Whe…	/r/seduction	19/01/17 04:56 PM
1	Lets be friends I personally would never openly agree to be "just friends". Never actually verbalize it. Because then you're being manipulative, and that rarely works out. If you go along with her, only acknowledge your understanding that that is what she wants, at this point. If you really like her, I would say "no thanks, I'm looking for more than that" and walk away. If you don't like her that much but would like to do something with her, I would willingly enter the friend zone and escalate from there.	/r/seduction	18/01/17 05:57 PM
3	How does "persistence game" work? Persistence is a great thing, just make sure that you aren't emotionally tied to the outcome. You have to make sure that she sees that you genuinely don't care about whether or not she says yes. After that is established, you can persist for as long as you want.	/r/seduction	14/01/17 01:28 AM
2	I think the ideas like "be high energy" and "bring the fun" are fucking awful. Try "just feel good and be comfortable". This shift had caused girls to start approaching me. I think it has to do with what your own ideal version of yourself is. If your own personal ideal version of yourself is loud and high energy, than that's what you should be. If it's just cool and relaxed, you should be that. I think success with woman has a lot more to do with being your own ultimate version of yourself rather than fitting into a box of what woman are supposed to like. The one caveat to that though is you definitely need to be constantly communicating. Your ideal version of your…	/r/seduction	12/01/17 04:21 PM
3	"I am the prize!" mindset. How did you guys finally get this thought process to stick? By being completely and totally fucking delusional. Literally, create your own delusion and live it. Own it. Listen, you are the best fucking guy out there for that girl. I don't care if it's true or not. It's true now. Wanna know why? Because I said so, that's why. You don't need a reason. Your world is the way your world is because you will it to be that way. You wanna be the funniest mutherfucker on the planet? Good, now you are. You wanna be the most masculine? Good, be it. You wanna talk to…	/r/seduction	29/12/16 09:14 PM