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Grafften/r/RPChristians28/10/20 04:29 PM
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I'm not criticizing the sidebar. I actually have read a fair bit of it and a lot of it has been on my list. I'm criticizing your idea of fitness routines. I am not anti weights. Its not in the budget, I'm doing fine without them and i don't live anywhere near a gym.. I don't need help with fitness I need help with the other stuff. If you go back to the end of the original post, I asked for counsel from anyone that has been through something similar and come out of it. Honestly dude. Most of your…
/r/RPChristians30/10/20 08:01 AM
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Jewel_Phena, I believed the common lie that communication and vulnerability produces better intimacy. Over the years she has heard it all and I delivered it kindly. There have been contributing factors to my lack of leadership and at times she has told me she felt like I was just another kid to take care of. I have had various illnesses and injuries that took me out at times. Like Rich Cooper says, "women don't care about men's struggles, they wait at the finish line and pick the winner". I have…
/r/RPChristians30/10/20 07:49 AM
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Do you regularly fall trees, split wood or build things or are the splinters too sharp, saw dust to itchy and sap too sticky? Do you hall lumber around? Do you butcher your own animals or is it too messy? Do you prefer to stick with your pretty knurled bars and jingly weights? I'd rather be Jeremiah Johnson then Sylvester Stallone. I got my problems, but I see gyms being for sissies in the cities. You don't need weights to get results. I regularly get asked how much I lift and I have no idea. If…
/r/RPChristians30/10/20 06:08 AM
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Interestingly enough Deep_Strength, I am by far the most physically attractive man she has been with according to her, but obviously I drop the ball big time in all the other areas that are needed for attraction.
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 09:53 PM
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Thank you for being constructive. I need to think about this. Inconsistency has been a problem in my leadership. I will come back to this.
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 09:49 PM
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OYS?
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 09:33 PM
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I agree with Deep_Strength. You are right too SillyToni. She has said that she did that stuff to feel validated like she was worth something which may be true, but her cognitive dissonance and hypergamous nature overrode that to which Deep_Strength point is correct. The 2nd bj she gave me she swallowed and said with a smile on her face, "I only do that for guys I want to impress". She hasn't done it since.
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 09:32 PM
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I don't lift weights, so I have no idea. I only do body weight resistance workouts (calesthenics). Hershel Walker ya know. I have never calculated my body fat %. I'm fit. Don't care to, don't need to.
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 09:26 PM
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Thanks I will look into those.
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 07:50 PM
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My sex life with her isn't total crap though. Frequency is 1 - 2 times per week. About 2-3x per year she will give me the "do whatever you want to me" line while we are in the middle of it. I have done things with her that she wouldn't let others do, but the things she did with others that I want she will not willingly give up. We have a couple little kids and some older ones.
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 07:48 PM
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Go be clear "mission" was mission of the post, not mission of my life.
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 07:11 PM
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She volunteered most of her stuff early on.
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 06:48 PM
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Thanks man. Its hard. I've been praying about this for years. I love my kids and can't imagine my life without them, but its hard not wishing I'd never met her. It often hurts that bad.
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 06:47 PM
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"Being the chump" to be clear, I know I'm not a chump, but she treats me like one.
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 06:42 PM
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My wife is hard to lead. Her mother is a bit domineering over her father of whom is kind a quiet push over. She takes the reigns with any issues that happen in their household. She makes all the decisions. So my wife was brought up in that. My wife is very bull headed and does not like feeling out of control. I have been working on bettering myself and attitude for over 3 years now. I have always been fit and have never let that go. Part of the problem is that I am continually swamped with more …
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 06:19 PM
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? Don't know what you are talking about. Please explain.
/r/RPChristians28/10/20 04:46 PM
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