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Online advertising.
/r/askMRP12/07/18 07:03 AM
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How did you find working out of cafes?
/r/askMRP12/07/18 07:02 AM
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The older I get, the more I realise that people who chase money are getting life all wrong.
/r/askMRP10/07/18 08:46 PM
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Can’t you see that I’m in serious trouble here?
/r/askMRP02/07/18 09:58 PM
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I’ve always thought that depression is not a real illness. That people should just “man the fuck up” and that everyone feels down at times - that’s just life. But at the moment I’ve lost all enthusiasm for life despite on the surface life being fucking amazing.
/r/askMRP02/07/18 08:28 PM
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Awesome post. What happened between you and your son’s mother?
/r/askTRP28/06/18 04:03 PM
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When you’re kissing her, try not to think of the hundreds of cocks she’s sucked with the same lips.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 03:58 PM
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So how do you game them, just lie about your intentions? Or avoid them completely?
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:23 AM
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What on earth could he say that would be in frame and displaying abundance?
/r/askMRP27/06/18 08:19 AM
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Think you’ve misunderstood the post
/r/askMRP27/06/18 08:19 AM
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Because often this is the first step towards that. Where do you draw the line? “Would I care if my wife went on a business trip alone with a guy? Why would I care unless she is banging him?” “Would I care if my wife went round to a guy’s apartment for dinner? Why would I care unless she is banging him?” The worst fear is that banging is going on without your knowledge. At least if you know it’s happened/happening you can cut all ties.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 08:18 AM
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He doesn’t want to snoop though, so any action/calling out of behaviour is always going to be partially based on guesswork
/r/askMRP26/06/18 10:20 AM
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Clearly not
/r/askMRP26/06/18 10:19 AM
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The new guy/branch swing is abroad
/r/askMRP26/06/18 10:18 AM
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He’s just looking for advice as he’s unsure I think. It’s one of those where it’s bordering on unacceptable (if my wife did this I’d find it unacceptable) but at the same time she would frame it as a harmless Facebook add.
/r/askMRP26/06/18 09:19 AM
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I personally think she’s unsure whether she wants to commit to him for the rest of her life and she’s added this guy as a kind of insurance policy. She’s hot so gets lots of attention but the difference here is that she’s initiated the Facebook friend add. There’s a school of thought that says if she was trying to fuck the guy on the sly she wouldn’t have added him on Facebook as it’s too obvious, however... ...in this situation firstly the guy is abroad so she can’t get to talk to him in a way …
/r/askMRP26/06/18 09:16 AM
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I tend to agree. If she regularly added new people male and female then adding him wouldn’t have stood out like it does now. Personally if my wife/LTR added guys I knew she was attracted to on Facebook, it would be crossing a boundary and I wouldn’t just let it go. My wife wouldn’t DREAM of doing that...but maybe if she thought she wouldn’t get caught doing it... The guy in question didn’t hear the boyfriend comment by the way - she said it to a fellow coworker as he was approaching the building…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 11:45 PM
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Thanks. I cringe so badly when I think of some of the beta things I used to do. The surprising thing is that she stuck with me through all that and I love her for that. Maybe now this is my chance to pay that back to her and stick with her now the tables have turned, just being a better man for her and my family. I’m trying not to blow this up, but in 10 yrs time 21 yr old Canadian stunners ain’t gonna be telling me I look really good in the street very often, so it’s now or never if I want to e…
/r/askMRP10/06/18 07:36 AM
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For so many years I didnt like being 6’4 (193cm). Lanky and awkward. A year ago I had an epiphany. Ask any girl what they are looking for in a guy and 9/10 will say ‘tall’ first. Shorter guys don’t have to worry as usually there’s a scale and they basically just want a guy who’s taller than them, so just go for the shorter girls. But since I’ve been cold approaching I’ve started to use my height to my advantage. Honestly it makes them go giddy, especially the shorter ones when you tower over the…
/r/seduction10/06/18 07:31 AM
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I think I know what my problem is. We got together way too young, she was a 9/10 girl at 18 when I met her, not just looks but intelligence and very wealthy parents too. I was very beta and didn’t think I could do better. When we were out every guy in the place stared at her and that gave me a level of validation that I’d never felt before. Soon she wanted marriage and kids so I obliged. Again, still ridiculously beta at this point despite earning lots of money online (from home). Mid 30s and ki…
/r/askMRP09/06/18 06:17 PM
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You’re right, I am lost and lack mission. That’s why I’m here. Trying to figure things out. Probably like most of us here.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 10:13 AM
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Do I maintain a boundary by saying this message (despite being 5 yrs ago) WAS inappropriate, or just use AM to laugh it off?
/r/askMRP09/06/18 06:16 AM
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I sat there in disbelief as she worked herself up to epic anger proportions about my ridiculous jealousy and about how me teasing her about putting 2 kisses was insinuating that she was trying to fuck this guy.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 06:14 AM
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I don’t think she hooked up with him 5 yrs ago. Maybe when they lived together 15 years ago something happened that she hasn’t told me about, but I’m not that bothered as by that point we weren’t together/just getting together and still teenagers. I just don’t know whether to maintain that the message was inappropriate behaviour or just brush it off as she wants me to?
/r/askMRP09/06/18 06:13 AM
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Genuinely not. Since finding this place I can see what a beta I was. I think it was inappropriate and know if it was the other way around she’d have a massive problem with it. My confusion is this: should I maintain that this is inappropriate behaviour thus setting a boundary, or just brush the whole thing off (as she wants me to do)?
/r/askMRP09/06/18 06:09 AM
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She hasn’t been in contact with him for 5 yrs, I think it’s the last 2 options you gave.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 06:06 AM
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Exactly. I think she’s guilty about how she felt about this guy, but I’m certain nothing happened due to logistics.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 06:04 AM
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She didn’t fuck him pal. They used to live with each other in a group, yes, but that was 15 years ago. What I think is that she at the time was repulsed by my beta behaviour and was looking for some excitement. This guy added her so she thought she’d make some subtle attempt to show him she would be potentially interested in hooking up. It hasn’t happened as the logistics weren’t there - one of our kids was a baby at the time and she never left her side. I think she’s reacting like this because …
/r/askMRP09/06/18 06:04 AM
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Thanks. Neither of them seem like sluts, which is good but means you have to put more time in.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 08:58 PM
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Thanks. You just don’t know whether they’re that type of girl before you approach them, they may be on their period etc which is why daygame can be time consuming & fruitless unless you can follow up with dates.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 08:56 PM
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Thanks, you’re right. I think marrying way too young has finally come back to bite me.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 06:55 AM
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So despite the heavy kino and attempts to bounce her to my hotel with plausible deniability (ish), what could I have said/done to improve my chances?
/r/askMRP05/06/18 05:16 AM
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How could I have handled it differently in terms of what I said?
/r/askMRP05/06/18 05:14 AM
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I got her number on the original approach, used it to set this latest meet up. I answered truthfully that I wasn’t sure about if I was going to leave my wife, I approached her because she gave me an IOI and she had an amazing ass. And re the kids I said I didn’t want to mess up their childhoods & we both agreed it’s better for them to have separated parents rather than an unhappy home.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 05:13 AM
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Well we got into pretty heavy kino, she was stroking my thigh, caressing hands etc as we were talking. Intense eye contact, she was telling me how fit I was, basically all the signs of a girl being DTF. But then she kept probing about the relationship with me & the wife which is where I think I must have fallen down. If I say at that point ‘yeah we’re ok with a great sex life but I just want to bang strange and you are fucking hot’ then that’s congruent but would NOT have worked on this girl. In…
/r/askMRP05/06/18 05:10 AM
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I thought MRP was amoral?
/r/askMRP05/06/18 05:01 AM
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I’ve sadly reached the point where I would.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 05:00 AM
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I kinda did, but she just wouldn’t go that extra step.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 05:00 AM
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Women change their minds like the wind. Doesn’t mean she won’t be into you again tomorrow
/r/askTRP03/06/18 01:21 PM
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I hope this is true. What I’m looking for is a goal that incorporates being social, being a leader and helping people, but mainly being social. I have considered growing my business (currently work from home) and hiring staff to achieve this, but no one is really friends with their boss and everyone I talk to advises me against getting an office/staff as they are a nightmare. Before anyone suggests it, the thought of running my kids clubs/societies makes me want to kill myself. When I say I want…
/r/askMRP28/05/18 06:41 PM
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I’ve been fucking busy.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 12:53 PM
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Favourite dinosaur? I have no idea if you’re being serious or not.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:38 AM
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I know it’s a contradiction. I want to keep my happy family and fuck models on the side without my wife finding out. It’s not an easy skill and I usually bottle it at the messaging stage (like I have with this one). I haven’t messaged this girl at all - it’s been nearly a week.
/r/askMRP15/05/18 02:17 PM
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Agreed. But I think the problem in keeping it verbal is that you’re not going to fuck them that way. I wouldn’t say it’s impossible, just unlikely. I’m on a bit of a hot streak at the moment, went out the other night and a girl was into me but her friends wanted to drag her home. This girl was desperate to give me her number or get mine, basically said ‘call me up for sex’. It’s at this point I freak out and don’t take it further. If I message her, she then has my number and while my wife doesn’…
/r/askMRP15/05/18 02:15 PM
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Today in a men’s store a hot girl was browsing the shirts. She was with a guy who was in the changing rooms trying stuff on. She kept coming back out for more stuff. When we made eye contact for the first time she quickly looked away and then ran her hand through her hair. Then, next time she came out she made an effort to look at some clothes right in my line of sight. She turned round and walked past me slowly, this time holding the eye contact for longer, then a big smile and then she bit her…
/r/askMRP14/05/18 09:59 PM
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I’m not scared of my wife but I am scared of blowing up the family unit, as a lot of the time it’s fucking great and there’s nowhere I’d rather be than with the family under a duvet watching a movie etc. At the same time, I want to know if I can fuck the next Margot Robbie
/r/askMRP14/05/18 09:47 PM
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Thought crossed my mind but she also had a train to catch straight after her appt.
/r/askMRP13/05/18 09:11 PM
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I do. Please Mr Wonka.
/r/askMRP13/05/18 09:09 PM
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I kind of agree. I think as soon as you message them you’ve taken a huge leap, as you’ve lost your plausible deniability. If my wife finds out I’ve flirted with a model it probably increases my SMV, but if she finds out I’ve been messaging her trying to arrange a meet up, that’s a whole different ballgame.
/r/askMRP13/05/18 09:09 PM
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So, hypothetically... if you were in my situation, what would you message her?
/r/askMRP13/05/18 08:40 AM
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I’m atheist.
/r/askMRP13/05/18 08:37 AM
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The thought of a potential peado who you can’t vet being around your kids, helping them get ready for bed etc. is enough for me to stay with my wife unless she does something drastic like cheat on me. I also don’t like the idea of another guy fucking my wife because I’m not a cuck. If that is ‘fucking beta shit’ then I’ve completely misunderstood this sub and the lessons it teaches.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 09:50 PM
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Imagine another guy, who you don’t know, tucking your kids into bed every night, reading them a story, then fucking your wife when they’re asleep. This is the main reason why men stay married.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 08:46 PM
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The kids are worth investing in to get them to a good school as the ones in our area are not great. If we don't spend the money on their schools we would spend it on a house in an area with better schools. The general point is that how do I justify the costs of sorting my own improvement out without looking like a selfish prick?
/r/askMRP01/05/18 04:04 PM
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