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You think the word "niggers," a word that conjures up visions of slavery is a fair comparison to "tranny?" I hear tranny and think of To Wong Fu. I hear nigger and instantly "KKK," "slavery," "civil war" an "segregation" come to mind. You could've made your argument without pulling in race. Especially when it's not a fair comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/14 12:41 AM
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What really is a red pill man Hey kid, look in the mirror. Really. Look at the life you've been dealt so far and look at where you are? You are a red pill man. You're 23 and what you're feeling is natural because you've overcome so much that now when things are a bit smooth you need to find something more to fix. A challenge. I say try things you've always wanted to. Everything. Even things you think are stupid or silly. With school, do what interests you. There are no wrong or right answers. Yo…
/r/askTRP25/09/14 01:07 PM
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With that many people will he really grab all the attention? Leave him be wherever he is and mingle with others. Keep in mind, if he's a Marine he's been in a mostly aggressive male environment. Don't try to compete. He just got out and will probably get attention because he's home. Instead of worrying about him and how much attention he may or may not receive, you should be looking forward to the party. Putting a guy on a pedestal has the same consequences as placing a girl on one. He shouldn't…
/r/askTRP25/09/14 12:55 PM
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She was fucking pissed and said how this was just to much and wished me a good time in my dream world. You don't know if she is really pissed yet. It just happened. Patience. Girls say they're upset one day and then they're all over you the next. If you've lurked here and the main sub, you'll see guys say it over and over. They put a girl in her place, she got mad and a few days later asked if they wanted to do something. That's why we always remind it's their ACTIONS to look for. I swear, somet…
/r/askTRP25/09/14 12:36 PM
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I was 21 when I had my first fight. If it could even be called that. I was at a bar and there was this guy who was being obnoxious. You know, one of those guys who gets louder as he drinks. Everyone at the bar was already silently communicating to each other with looks that said "this guy's an asshole." The vibe was changing. We were all getting fed up with this guy. So there I am drinking my beer and thinking to myself that maybe someone should do something. Try and get him to leave. The crowd …
/r/askTRP22/09/14 04:26 PM
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I don't think you have anything to worry about. She said they may get a drink together because it was cool to run into him, right after you saw him. I've said the same thing and within a week I don't even remember the person. She could've forgotten about him already. He hasn't been around and until (or if) he does, forget him. About your list. Having an off limits list that isn't limited to exes is....well, it's not a good thing. You're basically saying "these guys like you and I can't handle th…
/r/askTRP21/09/14 11:27 PM
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If OP does this, the way you described, he'll look petty. It's as obvious as if he was to come out and say "Well if you go out with John then I'm going out with Jane." It makes him look immature and jealous.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 11:17 PM
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Think before you talk. It's harder than you think and requires practice. Also, not talking as much and paying attention to others can help.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 11:06 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean when you say "see if shes still down." Down to what? You didn't give enough information. However, when in doubt if you've got nothing to lose then always try.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 03:37 PM
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I said marrying is not for me and if she was to spend her life with me she must accept that she will probably never be married Stating what you want and are not willing to settle on is your "power." You aren't giving her power. If you were to ignore your wishes and give in to her wants (marriage) then you would be giving up your power. You can not control others. If she chooses to breakup because she isn't willing to sacrifice her wants then she doesn't have more power. She is simply making a de…
/r/askTRP21/09/14 03:30 PM
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When they refer to the "morality" of an ideal they are referring to how their feelings are affected by it, whether it is based in truth or logic does not concern them. They expect reality to adapt to what they deem acceptable. This isn't only here. Everyone's perspective is unique to them and everyone's "morals" will reflect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 03:20 PM
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Society says "Just be yourself" TRP is saying "Be your best self and don't give a fuck what others think." Stop living for validation. You'll never be satisfied. At it's core RP is this. People either can't see that or refuse to acknowledge it.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 03:02 PM
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Sorry to have left you hanging. If you read the sidebar you would've been able to answer your own question. It's remedial RP.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 02:52 PM
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Translation: I'm no longer attracted to you. Read the sidebar. There is a hamster translator there.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 02:41 PM
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Fell out with her best female friend cause her friend thought my gf was hitting on her boyfriend.. yet my gf still goes to see the guy when her friend is away. This is your problem. She isn't trustworthy. That's why who she is helping with their resume is an issue. Do you get this?
/r/askTRP16/09/14 02:38 PM
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So by legal action she means mommy? Tell your friend to ignore this garbage. He isn't responsible. If anything, if they continue to harass him he can take legal action and file for a restraining order. Tell him he's better off without this crazy girl and her enabling mommy.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 07:22 PM
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History and validation. All this time he was her orbiter and she probably never considered he would stop being interested. She's butt hurt. It's an immature reaction for her to have at 25 but if she was with him for years she may not be too experienced with these situations. As long as you are aware of what's happening then there isn't much you can do. How frequently where they in contact with one another?
/r/askTRP15/09/14 06:51 PM
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AWALT. Have you read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP15/09/14 06:39 PM
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Fatty McSlutty Don't compete with pussy. You'll always lose. I could actually hear you saying this shit while I read it. I just laughed out loud in a meeting. Thank you for the morning laugh. Edit: OP, this is your best course of action. All you can do is be an example for this guy and be there for him.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 02:11 PM
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I had a close call once and now if I'm not sure I ask. I almost suggested BDSM type sex to a 15 yr old (? I can't remember the age) to try with his 14 yr old virgin girlfriend. Luckily I read all the replies before hitting "submit" for my response. I also avoid responding until I've read every other reply now. A "read the sidebar" bot would be helpful too.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 02:05 PM
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asking her to pay would probably accomplish the same thing as telling her it was for US to do together... I'm pretty certain she already thinks this...... But who gives a fuck what she thinks? Right? There were perks for her when she was sharing her pussy with you. She has chosen to share her pussy with someone else, so she is no longer eligible for those perks.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 01:57 PM
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If you don't want to go then offer to sell her both tickets. If you do want to go then get her to pay for her ticket or take someone else.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 08:54 PM
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How old are the both of you?
/r/askTRP14/09/14 08:43 PM
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This is not agreeing and amplifying. You displayed your willingness to walk. This could be considered dread.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 08:40 PM
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You are more aware than other women then :)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 08:31 PM
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My sentiments exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 08:28 PM
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You didn't make a point or answer my question. Claiming I'm either stupid or stupider is condescending but not challenging. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 08:27 PM
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Tautological question is tautological I actually smiled reading this. Probably because you used it twice when once would've been enough. You gotta step up your game, because you're either too stupid to spin or you're even stupider and don't even realize you were spinning. You lost me here. What game and what am I spinning?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/14 08:24 PM
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That's the thing. TRP isn't advocating men hook up with dummies. Yet that seems to be what the OP is claiming. It's a silly concept anyway. We're too diverse a group to want and think the same way. What I'd consider a "smart" woman could be an idiot to Bill Gates.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 04:23 AM
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Was it your grades and test scores at university that attracted your husband? Would he need to be confident if your intellect is what attracted him? Why would you mention him being a confident person unless of course you agree that your intelligence would be intimidating if he wasn't confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 04:10 AM
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Was this question meant for me? I was asking the OP a question. I didn't make any claims at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 03:36 AM
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If it isn't a shit test then she's already testing the waters.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 03:30 AM
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It's definitely a shit test. She's trying to implement "dread" to light a fire under your ass. I'd suggest an expensive (really expensive) restaurant to her.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 03:27 AM
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Is it their confidence? Is it the challenge?
/r/askTRP12/09/14 03:15 AM
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So you're saying that you aren't attracted to a woman's looks and personality but rather her academic achievements? A sweet, kind, loving, affectionate and attractive woman isn't as appealing as an intelligent, successful career woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 03:09 AM
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I've always had standards when it comes to who I choose to stick my dick into. I wouldn't think of wasting my time on some girl who was rude as shit This hints at you always having had an abundance mentality. One of those "natural" traits I've mentioned to you. Are you attracted to them because they're hot or because their attitude makes you think they're hot? This could be true for some. If they do not regard themselves as genuinely high value then it only makes sense that they wouldn't seek ge…
/r/askTRP10/09/14 04:03 PM
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Unfortunately we cannot choose our parents. Only you can decide if putting some distance between you and your mother is best. Good news is you do get to choose who you date and sleep with. Your mother has at least given you an example of the type of woman to avoid. If you're over 18 it's time to leave whatever shitty childhood you had behind and work on making your life better.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 05:22 PM
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It may be that he's considerate or he may not give a shit what you decide. If you're responsible for dinner then why are you going to him with menu questions? Unless I'm allergic or really hate a certain food then I don't care what I eat. Food, sex and sleep. Preferably in that order but any order will do, is all I require. I'm going to be honest with you, you sound bored. Maybe things are going good and you need some excitement but instead of working on you you're focusing on him. You're young,…
/r/askTRP06/09/14 12:06 AM
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You described a fairly RP scenario already. The man doesn't even acknowledge your suggestions on RP because frankly it seems he doesn't give a shit. Is it possible you're confusing TRP with BDSM? What exactly do you mean when you say you want him "taking control?"
/r/askTRP05/09/14 11:26 PM
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Glad you cleared that up. I read that sentence 5x wondering if it was a typo or if this was more appropriate for altTrp.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 11:16 PM
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I questioned your claim regarding porn stars. I never mentioned sex being "bad for women." On the contrary, from what I've read, sex has health benefits for both men and women. I find it refreshing when a woman has a healthy sex life. Healthy is not synonymous with promiscuity though. There's a documentary on porn stars and their lives after porn. If I find it I'll share. The study (you quoted) referred to current female porn stars. Most of them are (very) young. That study may not have the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/14 11:04 PM
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Lilmisswiseass. I did lol though.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 09:05 PM
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The present study compared the self-reports of 177 porn actresses Oh, well then it must be true. People would never lie about being junkies, having low self esteem and staying in abusive relationships. It must've been baby powder that I saw those girls sniffing and the bottles of alcohol must've all been props with water instead. I've been around more than 177 female porn and industry girls but without proof I must concede to your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/14 08:59 PM
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Ignore that text. When a girl says they want to talk no good can come from it.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 06:24 PM
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Women in porn are on average in better mental health than women who are not. Proof of this claim. On the contrary it's rare that a woman in the industry doesn't have mental and emotional issues. I worked in the adult industry for a few years. I Have been on sets, dungeons, photo shoots, strip clubs, call centers (sex operators) and what I saw is the complete opposite of what you are claiming. Alcohol and drugs are used to numb themselves in order to perform. Many of the women are in physically a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/14 06:04 PM
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I don't see the OP being "sigma." Ironically, longtermgoals would fit that description to a T.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 06:58 PM
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The LTR flair is fairly new, no? (I might be wrong and may have overlooked it) So it may fill the void or help cancel out the noise a bit removing the need for a "marriedTRP." Like anything else, time will tell.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 06:46 PM
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80% of deadbedroom subscribers would be able to get laid if there was a marriedTRP sub. The only other place I can think of that's aimed at RP marriages (won't mention the name) isn't what it used to or could be due to the women over there.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 12:59 AM
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I gave you the benefit of the doubt on your first question but I was wrong. You aren't getting it. You are the primary in this scenario when you want to be the secondary. Hate to be the bearer of bad news but you're so far from red with this girl and the oneitis is strong with you.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 05:07 AM
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They are out there but like lilmisssarcasm aka MrsLongTermGoals they are taken off the market and usually led by guys who have this shit ingrained in them.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 05:02 AM
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Anything is possible but I doubt her liking a song makes her more likely to be a slut. This would be like saying because I find a lady gaga song catchy that's a red flag that I might be gay. Fuck that.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 02:12 AM
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So she has shitty taste in music. It's not a red flag. Unless she wants to dress like one of those women in the videos that look like strippers and go clubbing to get her Trey Songz on with other guys. I have a friend and she is a wife and mother but she admitted to a bunch of us she likes Chris Brown's "Loyal."
/r/askTRP03/09/14 01:55 AM
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Is this the same girl who has issues with sex?
/r/askTRP03/09/14 01:09 AM
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You would get excited over something as simple as this. Get off of here and go take care of your man ;)
/r/askTRP03/09/14 12:53 AM
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Validation or thoughts? What are you here for? The only person you responded to was the only person who agreed with you.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 02:00 AM
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One thing I have noticed is that, the more delusional/oppressive/out of control a woman is, the more she will enjoy being dominated. She's begging for it.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 01:56 AM
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This has nothing to do with sexual strategy. However, it's an easy enough question. Fuck him. You aren't lost and found and it was an accident. They can order a new ID. If it was important then why didn't she have it? Don't call or text him until he apologizes for being a dick. It's not your fault his gf is giving him hell.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 09:10 PM
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I can't tell anymore.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 09:05 PM
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Ask her out Gordon. So what if she says "no." You have nothing to lose by asking.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 09:02 PM
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It seems like you're saying the loser husband should try to cover up, or somehow ignore the fact that he's being exposed for being a loser. Not at all. After confronting her ex he then should have taken his wife home and given her an ultimatum.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 03:31 PM
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Marital status and age, in a flair, next to our names would help so much. I almost suggested light BDSM techniques once, to a 15 year old who was asking about his virgin 14 yr old girlfriend. I was glad I read all the other replies first. His original text didn't even hint at his age.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 11:47 PM
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Don't respond. Next.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 09:59 PM
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Compliment her sandwich, soup making or nursing skills. That's it. Unless she lost a day's pay or canceled a trip I wouldn't say "thank you."
/r/askTRP11/08/14 09:57 PM
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What were you discussing between this As the conversation went along she seemed more and more disinterested in me as a viable physical outlet. And this: I told her about the volunteer job im currently working and the other volunteer things I have done in the past( some as resume boosters others just because I know how hard it is when your down on your luck). Then she lit up ???? If your entire demeanor changed because you were describing something you feel passionate about then that could've cau…
/r/askTRP11/08/14 09:48 PM
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You aren't at that stage yet. I'll let him know to check out this thread though. He's a lucky sonofabitch natural.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 09:32 PM
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There is another gentleman on this sub (I happen to know personally) who is married to a woman who was similar to how you described your gf. Her insecurities (mostly due to her being young and naive at the time) created a few problems early in the marriage but he handled them in a very RP way without even being aware of TRP. Now he's just a lucky bastard with a very attractive wife who makes his life easy.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 09:25 PM
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From what you described she seems shy and insecure. This should change the longer you're together. You say she has a killer body but perhaps she doesn't think so. If she was in abusive relationships that landed her in the hospital then it's likely they also emotionally left her feeling bad about herself. She also stops me from making her cum because she's "not ready" yet. Sounds like she's concerned about your pleasure more than hers. Tell her you like knowing you can make her feel good and lose…
/r/askTRP11/08/14 09:06 PM
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Does she know about the times you cheated?
/r/askTRP11/08/14 08:44 PM
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You're both in your 20s? How much weight has she gained already? Do you have children? She knows you aren't attracted to her yet still doesn't feel the need to change. I wonder if she knows about you cheating. If she does she may have simply come to terms with you going elsewhere for sex and perhaps doesn't feel the need to work on her physical appearance for you.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 03:31 AM
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It's got nothing to do with being insecure. I wouldn't want to find out later on in life when my daughter is of age that her mom thinks it's perfectly ok for her to have sex with as many guys as she wants in college because her mom did. These are things that can come back to bite you in the ass later on. Knowing how a person views things is important if you're in a LTR with them. Sexual history sheds light on some of those views.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 01:58 AM
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This is best asked early on if you see it's headed towards a LTR. You can use the guise of health reasons and making sure STDs aren't a concern. Or, casually in conversation asking about past relationships. Some topics need to be discussed when you're still "getting to know" each other or else it will be too difficult to ask later on. "Why do you need to know" should've been followed by you asking "Wow, that many, huh?" She may have been willing to spill to avoid you thinking poorly of her.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 01:43 AM
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Some guys know a trick to this. It's a sort of skill that some men pursue because it is effective. It's hard to articulate, and even harder to perfect, but if a man keeps enough distance from a woman, but let's them in just enough, but never fully, they [the women] will never stop wanting them. A sign of this can be that during perfectly intimate moments he'll tell you something slightly deeper than usual, and it will allude to something even deeper, but regardless of how you pry, he won't let t…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 11:11 PM
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I had a severe case of oneitis on this girl. It took me a couple of years to get out of the depression stage. If it took you years then you shouldn't go back down that rabbit hole again. It's been 4 years and you still consider her a girl you had oneitis for. You know what you should do. You want to reach out to her and I'm guessing you're trying to find a way to rationalize it as a positive.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 05:37 PM
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If that encounter didn't knock some sense into him he's a lost cause. Mind boggling how men will marry a woman without having phenomenal sex be the main reason. If sex is anything less than that then marriage shouldn't even be a thought.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 04:58 PM
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That makes it better? I'm disappointed in seeing how many men think standing up for one's self is wrong. Think about the most aggressive badass guy you know, do you think he would allow a man to talk to him that way? Or ask him about his woman and her sexual activities? Granted, the most badass man wouldn't marry a woman who was only half ass in bed but even if he did, he would've put the ex in his place, grabbed his wife, left and told her that shit needs to change or he's gone. I don't underst…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 02:50 AM
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He married a woman who didn't give him bjs, her ex disrespects him by detailing the freaky things he did to his wife and you think punching her in the face is the right move? The hamster is strong with you. Blaming someone else for his lack of self respect and poor decisions is weak.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 12:38 AM
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I could see other women Aslong as she was number one. I asked if that would allow her to fuck other guys, she said no. And you believe this?
/r/askTRP09/08/14 04:29 PM
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Can your gut.
/r/askTRP09/08/14 02:00 PM
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my dad told me I should never pay for the guy. Is this entitled or old fashioned? Don't know her age but she sounds young or sheltered. She said she listens to her dad. I rarely, if ever, hear girls say that.
/r/askTRP09/08/14 02:42 AM
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If you don't mind, I'd be interested in learning what parts came off in that way. No point in the opportunity to learn a little more about myself. I do not mind at all. It's only fair seeing as you were kind enough to humor me. This was the first comment that had me curious: It's about identifying the emotional needs of the female and knowing how to fill them. Often parents leave some (or many) emotional needs unmet, even unmentioned. The lover who also neglects those needs will inevitably lose …
/r/askTRP09/08/14 02:25 AM
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Awesome.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 08:19 PM
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Being afraid over something you can't control is trivial and unhealthy. I know what my limits are It's not the end of the world. Fearless, confident and pragmatic. Great reply. ♂ I deleted my original reply because the point bot didn't work that time. Let's see if it works this time.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 04:54 PM
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TL:DR what should I say when women are complaining about men not understanding their bleeding habits? Is this TRP or the vagina monologues? Walk away when your lady friends start discussing their periods. You need new friends. This isn't an appropriate topic for conversation during mixed social gatherings.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 03:42 PM
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Sorry for not responding to your reply sooner. I re read your advice to the OP again and wanted to ask if you yourself were the product of a single parent home? Not to judge, but I'm curious. If you'd humor this old man (me) with an answer I'd appreciate it. You can always tell me to bugger off too. It was something I sensed while reading your responses and if it's true you may not be aware of your own projection. Not a bad thing, we obviously all have our own perspective on things.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 03:30 PM
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I think that the real problem in this situation lies in me and my insecurities and I need to continue to work on bettering myself. And this is exactly why so many say it's a bitter pill to swallow. This is a challenge for you. You're aware now and know what you need to work on. Glad to see you taking responsibility for your feelings. That's the entire point. Her ex's parents shouldn't impact your frame. You give her something she doesn't get from them. That's why she's with you.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 04:05 AM
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Tell your buddy to go and have a damn good time.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 03:59 AM
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You work 9am - 9pm and you don't want to get a divorce because you'll miss out waking up to your kid? You're not really in your kids life now. You're already a weekend dad. Your wife isn't going to follow your lead because you're not there to lead. I'm not saying this is wrong but you might as well get a divorce. This way you don't have to live a lie and deal with the headaches that come with cheating. Right now you're fucking your mistress at her house with her kid there but you aren't spending…
/r/askTRP06/08/14 06:20 PM
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Is this a romantic vacation with a group of couples? If so, fuck it. Go anyway and just look up things you can do on your own ahead of time. That way if there is something the group is doing that you don't want to partake in you have a plan b while there.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 10:32 PM
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What about insecurity and feelings of rejection? The OPs girlfriend didn't have a shitty father like your girlfriend, she didn't have a father at all. Children without fathers grow up with fear of rejection and insecure. These aren't needs that a lover can fill. (Ironically a lot of guys are here because of similar reasons) The OP can't be "Daddy" because fathers will never leave. A father is constant and can be taken for granted. A father's love is unconditional. If the OP fills that role then …
/r/askTRP05/08/14 10:18 PM
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We aim to please.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 09:08 PM
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The fact that you spend so much time on something you appear to despise says a lot about you.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 09:07 PM
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I think I see what you're getting at but could you clarify this for me. Often parents leave some (or many) emotional needs unmet, even unmentioned. The lover who also neglects those needs will inevitably lose the female to the next lover who is willing to meet them. Could you give me a few example of needs that a lover should fill because her parents neglected them?
/r/askTRP05/08/14 08:55 PM
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You disagreeing doesn't make your claim true. I dismissed it because you make absolutely no sense whatsoever. That entire article is regarding religious ideologies. Yet you yourself call red pill a philosophy. I might add that no where in the side bar does it state this as a "redpill ideal." So what exactly is your point? I think you're a troll.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 08:45 PM
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You should be her Daddy. Parents don't fill the same role as a lover.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 08:30 PM
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OK, so replace every instance of religion with whatever TRP philosophy and its the same article This is absurd. If you replace religion with TRP philosophy then it's not the same article. You're grasping at straws.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 08:25 PM
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Example of what she did/does that she should be apologizing for? This could be nothing or she could be using sex as a shit test?
/r/askTRP05/08/14 02:40 PM
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I prefer to get their number. Second is exchange both our numbers. Rarely, if ever, do I only give mine.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 12:38 AM
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If she doesn't ask then don't tell. If she asks I wouldn't lie. Don't tell her you're taking her out somewhere else then pull this shit on her.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 12:34 AM
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But are you an asshole? The fucking nerve of some people getting upset because they expect others to do the work. It's not that hard to read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 11:11 PM
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You should work on that. Don't worry about what others think. If you drink find a neighborhood bar. Locals hang at the bar and female bartenders are usually hot. You can hang out with co workers, join a sports league/team, volunteer or get involved in your new community but if you don't enjoy your own company then others might not either. You need to be comfortable in your own skin.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 11:05 PM
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I'd demote her to plate and enjoy her wild antics.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 10:41 PM
2

Why aren't you comfortable going out by yourself?
/r/askTRP03/08/14 10:28 PM
4

I respect the point you're attempting to make but this places too much emphasis on what she thinks. Fuck her and fuck her opinion of him. She's a cheating whore. He's already worried about something that shouldn't matter. This is the exact opposite of placing a woman on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 10:24 PM
3

This is an example of someone who hasn't read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 10:17 PM
1

Put it in your will if you marry her and let her find out when you're dead.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 10:10 PM
6

I agree. You're lost. Find a therapist. Good luck.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 05:04 AM
1

What is a TRP girl? And if there was such a thing I doubt playing games would be one of their traits. She's playing hard to get. If you ask her out and she turns you down, then don't ask her again. Ask someone else out.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 06:23 PM
1

A good predictor of how her marriage will be is looking at how their marriage is. How are your parents' marriage?
/r/askTRP30/07/14 10:10 PM
1

Is there something I should be looking for? Are they affectionate? Do they look happy? Do they both look good for their age or do they look beat up and old?
/r/askTRP30/07/14 09:55 PM
3

Is there a "read the sidebar" bot?
/r/askTRP30/07/14 09:02 PM
1

I'm sure he asks questions there too. He asks questions everywhere. The replies on other subs are priceless.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 08:56 PM
1

Probably not. She said that he doesnt let her go out and shit and shes not really ready for a relationship because shes just 21 already in a relationship. Lol i guess treat it like any other situation where the girl has a bf? is a plate. FTFY I say, proceed with caution. Her BF may or may not be some crazy possessive dude. Can't tell you what to do but I wouldn't bother.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 08:42 PM
7

You know he isn't an ex, right?
/r/askTRP30/07/14 06:32 PM
1

Was the comment even about you?
/r/askTRP30/07/14 04:40 PM
1

You asked this question a few days ago.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 01:51 PM
6

I agree, but that doesn't seem to be working for the OP. If his texts are anything like his post then texting isn't going to work.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 01:50 PM
16

Are we talking the flu or cancer?
/r/askTRP30/07/14 01:37 PM
2

Don't text/message. Call and make plans.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 01:25 PM
8

What does her parent's marriage look like?
/r/askTRP30/07/14 12:12 PM
2

Expect you to notice, yes. Think there is a chance you would go further, yes. Expect you to go further, maybe. Want you to go further, NO. Women from certain cultures who have the idea of dread already instilled in them respond well to a dominant man but dread works a little differently with them. (Keep in mind, I'm not referring to Americanized women) Spanish women (because the OP mentioned his wife being Spanish) already have a traditional view on marriage. Most of them are more likely to embr…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 12:07 PM
2

Did I read that right? You're sure she said 45 and not 4 or 5? Don't know what to think at this point now... You know what you're thinking.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 10:34 AM
4

I get the dominant aspect and taking charge to be the leader. Try to be aware though. You don't think you said anything bad about her appearance but "hey babe, lose some weight" is fucking bad for a woman to hear. We know it's a good move but that shit still stings for them to hear. You don't need to up the beta if she's dominant but try and chill on looking at other women. Get a pair or sunglasses or something. She's going to feel like shit if she's losing weight for you and you're looking at o…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 01:43 AM
5

So you were getting more sex until you made it clear that she needed to lose weight and get a better job? I think dread works. I think it helps prevent being taken for granted. However, she's probably feeling fat because you told her to lose weight, which she's doing? She's also probably feeling a bit bad about not having a decent paying job. Now you have women giving you attention, wrapping their legs around you?? No offense but she's gonna lose weight, have a decent paying job and when she sta…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 01:15 AM
4

Spanish & Italian women can be very jealous. She's already passed playing it cool and the sense of dread is working but keep an eye out. You don't want it to turn into her becoming passive aggressive about it. You sound like you're doing good now but if culturally your woman already looks at you as a leader you're ahead of most guys. Was sex an issue before and now it's getting better?
/r/askTRP30/07/14 12:47 AM
3

You may want to edit your OP to include this. Edit: she complies with me. You're doing good then. Don't pay any mind to her comment about you being controlling. If you think you're tone is harsh then take it down a bit but if her actions show she's responding then I wouldn't worry.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 07:40 PM
9

Best way to get out of the friendzone is stop being her friend. Lose her number, don't call, don't visit, adios, that's it.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 07:36 PM
14

The older you get the more you'll learn which friends belong where. Same way I'd demote a girl, I'd demote a friend. Guys who were "like a brother" at one time are guys who I keep at arms length now. They may be cool to hang out with but if I have a kid they aren't going to be my kid's godfather. I'd next the plate then demote the friend and stick him in another category (i.e. Acquaintance, gym buddy, one of the guys to get a drink with..) and leave him there.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 03:17 PM
6

Gordon, You're up already, let it go. Make yourself a protein shake, get dressed and go for a run or hit the gym. Later on, when you're tempted to ask another question, read the side bar. Then read the links to other sites on the sidebar. Then read some more because your posts make you seem like a troll. I have faith in you Gordon. Be better than this. GrandCzar
/r/askTRP29/07/14 03:05 PM
3

Any woman that is willing to put up with being treated like a plate when she doesn't want to is not a candidate for LTR in my opinion. This is how guys get caught out there, thinking a woman is quality when a quality woman has standards but more importantly can be honest. She wants more but instead she is settling. Cue in the guilt: "sometimes I feel like you don't even care about me" "it's like some days you like me and others you don't" "I felt uneasy about you talking to that girl ...I try to…
/r/askTRP29/07/14 01:19 PM
1

You disagree with me about giving your opinion, I respect that. But this: If you truely care about him, make it known that you do and be there for him Sounds like advice women give each other.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 01:07 PM
3

Read this http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0557036488?pc_redir=1406284955&robot_redir=1
/r/askTRP28/07/14 01:01 PM
1

It probably didn't happen or it was an exaggeration. This is a woman's version of "dread." I would ignore the text and reply with an "ok" and change of topic. Women do this when they are insecure with themselves but they also do it if they aren't feeling wanted. If you are seeing other girls than this is her way of saying she has other options and that she wants something more serious. Being that you're both exclusive then she may be experiencing (too much) dread. She not only knows you have opt…
/r/askTRP28/07/14 12:56 PM
1

http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0557036488?pc_redir=1406284955&robot_redir=1
/r/askTRP28/07/14 12:38 PM
2

I never give advice unless I'm asked for it. Same with my opinion.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 03:05 AM
1

Like the others said get your levels checked. Watch your diet too.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 02:37 AM
2

50 Shades is exactly the same thing as The Sex God Method. Dominance Emotion Variety Immersion
/r/askTRP28/07/14 02:25 AM
4

EDIT:I left the house and calmed myself down. Came back and it's been silent treatment the whole time. She was going out and I told her to get her own keys cause I'm leaving again to meet with friends. Now she's returned my engagement/wedding rings and tells me it's done. This is complete BS behavior and I'm in new territory ...advice much appreciated. Keep on as if nothing. Giving you the rings was her being bratty and dramatic. She's being melodramatic and trying to start shit. She needs atten…
/r/askTRP28/07/14 02:17 AM
4

She's been coming over for 5 years and you've only seen her once. I wouldn't even think on it unless she starts visiting more often suddenly. As of right now the only thing that happened was your mom's friend came over and acknowledged your prescence.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 02:01 AM
3

"When you are old, I want you to recall those few hours, I want your dry bones to quiver with joy when you think of them." Gustave Flaubert Vs "I want her weak kneed and unable to walk.... thinking....No man made her cum as hard" You're a modern day Gustave Flaubert.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 12:23 AM
1

Or give advice like "Dead bedroom this week? Plate your wife, bro." This is the most disappointing advice I see here. When it's regarding marriages I'm always tempted to ask the person for their age and marital status when they suggest nexting or plating a spouse.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 04:06 AM
1

Have you read the material in the side bar? Right now is the best time to start making improvements. Don't waste time, energy and resources on an abusive relationship. You'll look back and regret not making the effort now, while you're in your early 20s. You can be ahead of the game.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 03:35 AM
1

Do you live together? If so kick her out and get a restraining order. You can't fix crazy and you aren't improving your life if you still have crazy and abusive in it. I read your other thread, you're young. Too young to start out like this.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 11:13 PM
0

Good job! He made her feel so secure she broke his nose. Go back to thebluepill.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 11:02 PM
4

If she's intelligent, has interests, is curious and can hold my attention then her having a degree, or not, isn't important. With so many online schools anyone can purchase a degree today. Even morons.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 06:00 PM
0

Is this the same girl you claimed broke your nose? The one who you claim says "I hate you" or the one you said you raped? You sound like a troll. Edit: I see you're not a troll. Apologies.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 05:15 PM
3

She's displaying a few IOIs which are green light enough for me Can you give a few examples? We're hanging out this week What are your plans?
/r/askTRP23/07/14 02:08 AM
3

You're forgiven.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 09:40 PM
3

Yes. And if twin A was wearing a blue shirt and twin B was wearing a red shirt and the woman liked the color red then twin B would be her choice. Your analogy has nothing to do with attraction but your original comment was regarding you being shit tested over coffee and that wouldn't be an issue if she was attracted to you. If it helps end this absurd discussion, you win. I'm over this coffee shit. OP already deleted his account. It doesn't matter at this point.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 08:46 PM
2

It's not the coffee. A woman who's attracted to you will be attracted to you whether you're drinking black coffee or one of those frozen frappe craps with whip cream on top.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 07:37 PM
2

He wants me to share his interests Is your friend a homosexual?
/r/askTRP22/07/14 07:24 PM
3

"I wanted to fuck him but he didn't drink his coffee straight up black" said no woman ever.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 07:22 PM
4

Also, we encourage divorce because it's eventually the best thing that can ever happen to a man. Where in the sidebar did you read this? Suggesting divorce over a picture without any other knowledge about the person's marriage is extreme. Breaking up a family and having children be raised by single mothers is not the best thing. Having to go to court and have your life sifted through and divided is not the best thing. Walking away from a 14 year commitment without a reason is not the best thing.…
/r/askTRP20/07/14 01:07 PM
3

she adds these guys on days where we are at a 'low point' in the relationship, like just last night when I ignored her If she isn't insecure then she is either using dread to get your attention or she looks for validation from others because she's not getting enough from you. If she is insecure then she is doing these things as a way to manipulate you and gain control.
/r/askTRP18/07/14 04:00 PM
5

I am certain it can be easier depending on location. I am on the East Coast and where I live the question "where can I meet someone?" has never crossed my mind or any of the people I know. The issue I do run into is the type of women I meet. I can meet 10 women a day but the majority are controlling, "independent" and entitled. The only two advantages with bigger cities is they're great if you favor hookups and they're more likely to be culturally diverse. I happen to prefer women with tradition…
/r/askTRP17/07/14 03:27 PM
0

Block her. That will say a lot without saying a damn thing. Women hate being ignored.
/r/askTRP11/07/14 11:15 PM
2

She asked you to hang out first?
/r/askTRP11/07/14 11:10 PM
2

Be careful with dread if you're really into this girl. If she already thinks she is a lower SMV than you dread will have the opposite impact. Don't forget your roommate is a female. She can be just as manipulative as a female you're interested in. She could be trying to ruin shit for you. Keep your frame with her too or she can put a serious damper on your sex life. She's cockblocking you and you don't even realize it.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 12:33 AM
3

I should hang more with my friends. There's more behind not doing that kinda stuff because I have enough problems on my own that ive gotta fix. Make time. Going to play ball with the guys doesn't require money, much effort or time. Going to the gym is great but it takes time to see results. You need to shake things up now. If you text or call her during the day, stop. If you can get home a little later from work, do it. Start putting more effort into how you dress. This should create dread now w…
/r/askTRP07/07/14 04:30 PM
5

How did she find out your roommate has a crush on you? If you've been with each other for 6 months and it wasn't an issue before, but now it is, then why now? She either learns to deal with it or she doesn't. People need to be real about what they are and aren't willing to deal with. Let her know this. If she can't get over you living with a woman who is interested in you then she can end it, but trying to control you isn't an option. You should keep in mind that not many girls will feel comfort…
/r/askTRP07/07/14 04:16 PM
2

I'm sure you can find and download it online for free. Google the title and "PDF" after it. If not, many sites have a synopsis of "DEVI" method if you google it. It's been shared a few times on TRP so you can also try typing it into the search bar. For what you describe I think it's your best bet. I don't know of anything else that can get you to the goal you described other than that book/method.
/r/askTRP05/07/14 04:32 PM
3

"That's interesting" When she asks "why" respond with "I'll tell you later" then keep talking as if nothing.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 08:44 PM
2

Have you read "The Sex God Method?" It can help you with DEVI (Dominance, Emotion, Variety and Immersion). http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0557036488?pc_redir=1404193524&robot_redir=1
/r/askTRP03/07/14 08:28 PM
6

In one recent argument attempt, she told me I don't talk enough with her. Does she only mention it during an argument? I feel like there is some key to the puzzle I'm missing here. The key is when she says it. If it's the reason for the argument then it may be a legitimate concern. Is there a reason she doesn't have many friends? You are right that if she doesn't have friends she will depend on you to be her outlet. There is a difference between being the most important thing in her life and the…
/r/askTRP03/07/14 08:12 PM
3

When OP asked for "advice/validation" I thought he meant he was interested in advice and or validation. Clearly it was only validation he was looking for.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 06:48 PM
0

She went from "cute" to "gorgeous" in a total of 60 minutes.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 05:14 AM
3

Now I hook up with a TON of girls online If this is true then why the interest in a 3 month pregnant girl, with a 3 year old, who spends her time online looking for cock? If sex with a pregnant girl is a fetish, then by all means proceed, and use protection. If not for kinks then I see no reason to even consider it when you have a "ton" of others.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 05:04 AM
2

I'll bring this issue before the Grand Czar of Red Pill at the next supreme banquet. I'd appreciate it if you wouldn't. It would ruin the festivities.
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