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| 115 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal again | DISCUSSION | Grand_Pianist_2404 | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/26 04:21 AM |
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| 1 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againYou have not faced any ravaging from testosterone, you are a male. That is the natural chemistry your body was designed with and for. Please do not compare what you’re doing to yourself with my personal journey, we are not the same. Womanhood isn’t about following a set of beauty standards or stereotypes that are forced upon us, it is a biological reality. You are trying to act out and emulate your idea of what a female looks like, which is a male concept because that is all you can conceive of. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/26 11:19 PM |
| 2 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againThanks, no matter where I post those trolls end up crashing in uninvited. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/26 01:26 AM |
| 1 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againI am going to be honest, and maybe a lot of people up in here won’t agree with my stance on the ideas of masculinity and femininity. But I personally don’t think anyone can “become” more feminine. I feel it has more to do with allowing oneself to be vulnerable and let down their walls. From the time we are young, we are conditioned to hind parts of ourselves that are seen as inconvenient or unacceptable by our authority figures. Our society and culture in modern countries are built upon rewardin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/26 04:23 AM |
| 2 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againIt has to a small degree, especially over the last couple of years. At first I was ok for the most part and I didn’t worry too much about the future since I figured I was bisexual to an extent and that’s what compensated for the lack of dating pool for me. Unfortunately, ever since I hit 25, a big switch flipped in my head all of a sudden, I realized I am completely straight. Now I’ve been finding myself freaking out internally, afraid that I might have fucked myself when it comes to dating stra… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/26 04:07 AM |
| 2 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againThey aren’t women, and I’m not going to get advice or help from men who think womanhood is a combination of regressive stereotypes | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/26 05:08 PM |
| 1 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againThanks! I appreciate you being interested | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/26 02:33 AM |
| 2 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againOh sure! YouTube: https://m.youtube.com/@mackenziewells8298 Ig: myheartofmalachite_98 | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/26 02:32 AM |
| 1 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal again? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/26 02:27 AM |
| 1 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againThanks so much for offering such a detailed response, I wasn’t expecting this post to get nearly as much attention as it has to begin with! This has been such a big help for me! I am trying to expand my wardrobe and personal style in a way that is a bit more simplified but also eye-catching in some way. I love alt styles, especially goth, but I’m trying to figure out how to make that aesthetic appear more soft and graceful so it comes across as approachable and warm. I go for the “romantic” type… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/26 03:35 AM |
| 2 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againI wonder if this sub gets a lot of these trolls dipping in just to be shit disturbers. I mean I guess I can see why some redpillers would end up being pro trans, but that seems to drift so far from this space’s principles to begin with. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/26 03:27 AM |
| 4 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againThanks for sharing, i am trying to get myself to go to the gym more often. Right now I’m figuring out a routine to make my goals a little more achievable since i have a lot of spinning plates at the moment. As far as my breasts go, the have not atrophied at all as far as I can tell and ive always been small. I am already starting to do workouts at home for my glutes and core on the daily. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/26 03:21 AM |
| 2 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againThank you for the advice and the kind words, I appreciate it very much. The truth is, after going into other spaces to ask for advice or honest opinions about what I look like, some people have not been good to me. That and being “gendered” as a male has done a number on my self-esteem over the years, it’s a very difficult issue to recover from since I’ve had such a major shift in my beliefs and desires for my future as of rather recently. It’s like the hard, cold reality of my past decisions an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/26 03:12 AM |
| 6 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againI sure love it when I go into a space like this one and open up about my history, just for people like you to come and squander it and make it all about your ideological BS. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/26 01:33 AM |
| 6 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againNope, women cannot be masculine because we do not have male brains. We are different. Masculinity and femininity are biological. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/26 10:50 PM |
| 5 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againYeah, except they are men. They are trying to become something they are not, I am trying to regain what I lost. We are not the same. And no, I will not befriend or learn from men who think they can outperform a woman when it comes to womanhood. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/26 10:38 PM |
| 4 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againYou are absolutely right, after screwing my life up with testosterone use for 5 years nonstop, I want to leave my body completely alone so I have a good amount of time to heal my endocrine system. I am going to get into a diet plan that is supportive of reproductive health, as well as working out and spending more time outside. I’m going to be seeing an obgyn soon for monitoring my hormones, and I’m gonna talk to them about a long term health plan to get my hormones straightened out. Medications… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/26 08:58 PM |
| 11 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againI’m do plan on doing that someday, for right now I have a YouTube channel where I share my experiences with my transition and detransition, showing how I’m slowly coming out the other side of the whole mess. I have already talked to many people in my personal life about my history, and I have a lot of people who are very understanding and supportive. I also have an ig for anyone who needs help with having a child going through a hard time with their bodies or someone like me going through the pr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/26 08:51 PM |
| 16 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againYes it is absolutely about profiting off of the nievety of children and young people who are especially vulnerable and easily swayed by ideologies. We don’t even know what the long term effects of using HRT that are for your body, and the restrictions they put on it and the micromanaging of hormones is insane if you need it for your health. But no, if you say you’re “trans” or want hormones for “dysphoria” then you can get it during a consultation 10 minutes in. And I very much believe that that… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/26 08:47 PM |
| 1 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againHow so? I’ve sympathized with red pill beliefs and ideas for a long time, and I’ve read the best responses to posts and advice out of any other advice sub I’ve engaged in, including r/detrans. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/26 06:14 PM |
| 38 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againLooking back on that time, it really would not have been hard to prevent me from going onto hormones. I was stuck in the house almost 24/7 with little to nothing to challenge my mind with, but when I was in school I never went that deeply into my own thoughts or discomforts. The idle mind is the devil’s playground as they say for a reason | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/26 05:34 AM |
| 24 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againThank you, that would be helpful to look into. We all do arrive at the same endpoint even if the root cause is different. Honestly, women who take testosterone to transition really just end up with the same health issues as women using derivatives of it for bodybuilding. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/26 05:19 AM |
| 7 | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againI did a bit of reading up on it, I may consider it at some point. I may even consider birth control in order to get my hormones leveled out. I appreciate the advice nonetheless 💖 | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/26 05:16 AM |
| – | I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal againI am not going to go that route due to there being so many health risks associated with spiro and anything else that impacts hormonal states. I am going to get my hormones monitored for a while and I also plan on making many lifestyle changes. I just want my body to heal, then to go on and make cosmetic changes through surgery and other means. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/26 04:58 AM |
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