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GrandmasterM/r/seduction16/11/17 12:41 AM
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No not really. When you told him you weren’t ready to date there probably wasn’t anything he could say to change your mind. So now that the tables have turned it’s probably the same for him. You don’t wanna push someone that isn’t ready to commit into dating or a relationship because it just won’t end well.
/r/seduction06/02/19 07:35 AM
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From one cynic to another you’re being very dramatic. For one thing getting girls by acting as a player or acting as anyone but yourself in general will for sure lead to meeting girls that are more of the type you are talking about. It seems you’re not comfortable with who you are if you think your core personality is unattractive. If you say that about yourself than how could anyone see you differently. The only advice I could give is be more yourself and learn to accept yourself. Ya it might b…
/r/seduction01/01/19 03:52 AM
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What’s your goal? Dating? Sex? Having things in common with people doesn’t mean you’ll have chemistry. Having a good time out on a date doesn’t mean there’s sexual tension. Do you have emotionally charged conversations or just small talk? Are you passionate about anything? Or are you working a dead end job that you hate and are looking for escape through sex? Work on yourself and girls will come eventually. What’s your life like? Are you confident? Take care of yourself? Too many factors and you…
/r/seduction24/12/18 07:17 AM
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What makes you a massive virgin? A virgin is a virgin. Don't define yourself by whether or not you've had sex. You have to accept yourself for others to accept you. The more you worry and think something is wrong with you the more you will stop yourself from losing your virginity. Learn to be a bit more loose and have fun, don't let seduction turn into a chore. Yes you practice, but keep it light hearted. You don't need sex to make you better. Nothing is wrong with you for being a virgin
/r/seduction12/03/18 06:27 PM
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Calling yourself a massive virgin
/r/seduction12/03/18 04:59 PM
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I approve
/r/seduction01/03/18 06:45 AM
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"Hey! I really like you and I want to keep talking to you but with my studies and commitments I don't have time to be in a relationship right now in my life. Can we be friends for now and when my life isn't a mess see if we can reopen things?" Realize that regardless of what you say she might just move on and find another guy. If she wants to be in a relationship she most likely won't wait for you to be ready unless she's head over heels psycho in love with you.
/r/seduction10/02/18 10:02 PM
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"Buy me a drink and let's find out"
/r/seduction10/02/18 09:57 PM
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Wow, just wow. You're quite a dick dude. Stop being so superficial
/r/askTRP10/01/18 04:50 AM
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To may toh toe mah to
/r/seduction09/01/18 06:25 AM
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A lot of people on this sub are tools and I don't want this to sound mean. A lot of seduction really comes down to being a numbers game and being a gamble. Being the pest will work with some girls, it will scare some away. It mostly depends on your kind of personality. Don't do something that isn't congruent with who you are. If youre the type of person who won't stop till they get what they want, then be the pest. If youre the type of person who would rather move on and go for someone who wants…
/r/seduction09/01/18 06:02 AM
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Youre my hero
/r/seduction09/01/18 05:52 AM
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I fucked about 16 girls because of what they taught Warning: they dont teach you how to have a girlfriend though
/r/seduction09/01/18 05:38 AM
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You should learn own up to your lies. Like be straight up about it. "Are you really 25" "Im 30" "What? Why did you lie" "IS that what your face looks like or are you lying with makeup"
/r/seduction09/01/18 05:37 AM
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Lol
/r/seduction09/01/18 05:35 AM
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Uber driver. Work only around the time bars close.
/r/seduction09/01/18 05:34 AM
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In some cases maybe, but in my experience I can only do so much before it's me trying to have fun with a brick wall. @OP Find a girl where you don't have to even think about it making the date more intetesting
/r/seduction19/11/17 06:29 PM
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I like how we have very differing opinions on game and pickup but it tends to work for each of us in our own ways
/r/askTRP19/11/17 01:55 AM
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Lmao I know it's Neko, which is why I assumed you'd know I wasn't talking to you
/r/askTRP19/11/17 01:52 AM
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Lmao if you figured that out then i didnt really need to say OP, you didn't need to be overly aggressive hahahaha.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 01:49 AM
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I was talking to OP not you lmao
/r/askTRP19/11/17 01:47 AM
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Don't take Tinder seriously, it's a video game. A numbers game. You have amazing convos with people only for them to disappear. You have dates planned that fall through all the time. If I have a tinder date planned for a Tuesday I still tell people I have no plans and am down to go out because I assume they'll bail. Lower your expectations. If they bail on a date with you, they're missing out, not you. Don't be a victim. You did nothing wrong. Even girls you meet offline will be flaky to an exte…
/r/askTRP19/11/17 01:39 AM
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Uhh so I guess it doesn't make sense the way I phrased it. First meeting would mean that the first night I met them, for example at the bar, is also the same night we had sex. First Date would mean I met them at a bar or whatever, got their number, asked them on a date, then had sex on the first date. Etc. I wouldn't actually be able to give you how long each meeting or date was.
/r/seduction17/11/17 02:51 AM
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If there are things that irritate you slightly or red flags with a person, don't assume they will change over time even if you tell them about it. Like if a person isn't a morning person, or isn't as active as you, or doesn't eat similar foods, or doesn't have a job but keeps saying they'll try getting one, etc. Don't go into it thinking like, "Oh, I can get them to hike with me eventually, or be a morning person like me, or they'll learn to like what I like" etc. These sound like small things b…
/r/seduction16/11/17 08:14 PM
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Festivals are relatively effortless when everyone is having so much fun and on vacation. Fun attracts fun, there have been situations where girls just start making out with me or grinding on me for no apparent reason. There's like thousands of girls there, I just ask them to dance with me. Or if it's not a music festival just walk up and talk to them. There aren't the same guards up as they do in everyday life. Don't overthink it, have fun
/r/seduction16/11/17 04:53 PM
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3 of them were 3 or 4 months relationships 1 of them was for a little more than a year 2 of them I'm still friends with Of the other 13 it's mixed. Some I never saw or talked to again, some we talked for a bit but never kept it going, some we are on friendly terms but don't actually interact either
/r/seduction16/11/17 04:49 PM
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I'm 22, started practicing pickup around 20
/r/seduction16/11/17 03:45 PM
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Yes!!
/r/seduction16/11/17 07:57 AM
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I'm a person But if a girl asks then I totally don't get along with geminis
/r/seduction16/11/17 07:56 AM
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No, learning seduction is the reason I can now have deep intimate connections with people. I've fallen in love, opened myself to so many new experiences, and learned to feel again because of seduction. I would describe what you're doing more so just emotional manipulation of yourself and others. In a not so healthy manner if I can add that.
/r/seduction09/11/17 06:16 AM
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Honestly it doesn't matter what she meant. It's time to move on. Don't let yourself become the victim. Whether or not it was actually her problem or if you were the reason, take what you learned from your relationship with her and move forward. Don't think about getting back together with her, if she can break up with you once she can do it again. Don't wait around for closure, you'll most likely never get it. Tldr; don't matter, move on
/r/seduction09/11/17 06:06 AM
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You got it right on both marks. Experience teaches you a lot, but you're also playing the lottery. I would personally stop looking up pua tactics. Go out and get real experience. If you have specific questions after actually talking to girls, then look them up. Don't fill yourself up with unneccessary information, look it up as you need it
/r/seduction26/10/17 06:40 AM
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One word response texts or while talking to her?
/r/seduction22/10/17 10:17 PM
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When I'm going out with the goal of finding a girl I don't count the rejections but I'm sure it's past 20 on a bad night. You'll get numb to it, or just turn it into jokes. It's not an overnight fix, and it's not easy. I'm not gonna bullshit you and say there's a magic pill. The only reason a rejection hurts is if you don't have self love and acceptance. Otherwise a rejection is mote like "ya she didn't deserve me anyways" and then you move on
/r/seduction12/06/17 06:44 AM
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She's a cougar. I'm assuming you're half her age. She knows you're not looking for a serious relationship. She's probably wondering why you haven't asked for nudes yet
/r/seduction12/06/17 06:31 AM
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You keep doing it till you get better at it (This works for most things in life). I used to go out with friends and we would point to a girl for each other and we had to approach and say anything no matter what. You get better over time.
/r/seduction21/05/17 10:28 PM
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There's no easy fix other than approaching girls and talking to them over and over until you get better. I used to go to the mall and make myself approach at least 10 women everyday before leaving, even if I could only muster up the courage to say hello. You'll get better over time
/r/seduction21/05/17 10:26 PM
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Stop thinking you bother people just by existing You can't get everyone to like you, so if you do end up actually bothering her at least you can pat yourself on the back and say you tried. You don't want to grow old and regret what could have been bla bla bla STOP OVERTHINKING. It's a simple yet also difficult solution Just start talking to her. Messaging/snapchat should be complementary to actually talking to her; only start regularly messaging once you actually talk in person a lot / everytime…
/r/seduction21/05/17 10:24 PM
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I would stop replying. If she initiates the condo again, say something like "Oh sorry, thought you weren't interested in the convo. What's up?". Don't play the game, I don't even text girls unless it's to meetup which is usually like 10 texts back and forth at most.
/r/seduction30/12/16 12:28 AM
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It's always your choice. Tell her you don't want to go to a theater and would rather get to know her over dinner or some shit. But if you must go to the movie, it takes out the problem of "what should I say?". You have to focus on what to do instead, which in a dark room with loud speakers usually means physical escalation. Like holding hands moving into rubbing her thighs or arm over shoulder moving into massaging her upper arm moving into making out. If you say you're comfortable with gaming a…
/r/seduction28/12/16 08:32 AM
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I would do it in person, not on Facebook. It comes off as a more personal approach this way. I don't think age matters, most people I interact with are well over 10 years older than ma. Just walk up to her and start a conversation as if you've known her for a while. Don't be like, where are you from or what school did you go to or intrusive questions. Just talk about regular things like what she's been up to, anime recommendations, etc.
/r/seduction27/12/16 04:35 AM
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Sounds like prepubescent signals of attraction. Bite back
/r/seduction26/12/16 07:41 PM
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In my opinion it wouldn't really work unless you're so attractive that they accept the request because their curiosity is peaked. My sister and my cousins tell me how many random requests they get from guys they don't know only to have them try to get with them if they ever accept so they stop accepting. If anything asking your friend to introduce you 2 would probably work a lot better. Interestingly enough, I know girls that have gone on dates and went out with guys they met on instagram but th…
/r/seduction26/12/16 06:33 PM
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We all go through phases in life. There's been periods of time where I didn't masturbate for like a year and women didn't really catch my eye as much as self improvement did, and there have been times where I masturbate 4 times a day. Don't take it too seriously, you have different priorities atm Maybe you just find them more attractive? I also feel more comfortable with non white girls because I feel they USUALLY have more culture but it's not always the case. Although I personally find white g…
/r/seduction25/12/16 03:13 AM
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Hang out outside of school only once or twice a week max. When you hang out outside of school be sure to fool around every time so she knows that whenever you say you wanna hang out that it means you want to mess around. Don't invite her to romantic date type things. Invite her to hang out at your place to drink and fool around etc. You could also be up front about it but she might not want a relationship either so bringing it up might make her feel like she's being too touchy and she might stop…
/r/seduction25/12/16 02:36 AM
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I think you're going at the right pace but she's down to do more. Try making the circumstances better for the next meet up and escalate further.
/r/seduction25/12/16 12:44 AM
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I've never waited until the first date to kiss a girl. Go for it. Time it well, you don't want to kiss her while she's talking about her shitty day at work. You should've kissed her when you were hugging in date 1 because you were already more than halfway there. Don't overthink it. If she's going on a second date then she's interested
/r/seduction25/12/16 12:31 AM
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I feel like there's a higher chance he's being taken care of by his parents and still lives in their basement at the age of 35.
/r/seduction24/12/16 11:31 PM
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When I first started game all of my "cold approaches" were on the dance floor because I love to let loose and dance and it was easier for me to not be nervous and approach while doing something I find fun and freeing. I've gotten hookups, numbers, and gotten laid from dancing. And I agree completely with confident silly dances are better than suave dance moves that look choreographed. TL;DR Dance like Steve Urkel, get pussy
/r/seduction24/12/16 11:28 PM
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This reminds me of when my sister tells me she sees a really cute guy at the bar and wishes he would approach her instead of her just walking up and talking to him. Guys need to use seduction in the initial approach/move a lot more than girls because it is expected in our society for men to make the first move. Girls have it soo much easier because guys almost never get approached or hit on so when girls do make the first move it makes a big impression. So even if you're giving him small hints h…
/r/seduction24/12/16 11:19 PM
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You would need to provide more details. Is it the kind of traditional country where you wouldn't want the parents even knowing that you're going out with their daughter? Or the type of traditional that means you should approach the parents instead to ask for the date? I would totally approach women who are with their mom specifically; I'd be weary of approaching girls that also are with their dads. Dads can be scary and overprotective / girls with their dads might be less inclined to talk to you…
/r/seduction24/12/16 07:44 AM
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One thing I do quite often, as weird as it sounds, is talking to myself. A better way to describe it is I say my thoughts out loud instead of thinking to myself in my head. We all have that little voice in our head and if you choose to verbalize your thoughts instead of keep them inside, you can eventually get to a point where you can verbalize thoughts at more or less the same pace that you can think them to yourself. And like others said, slow down your speech and use pauses instead of saying …
/r/seduction24/12/16 07:38 AM
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Real Social Dynamics, the amount of videos they have posted for free will make it easy to answer any specific questions you have along the way. At the beginning, literally saying hello or complimenting their clothes was all I had the courage to say. After doing that for a while I'd move on to try to actually start a conversation, which would be something like "hey, I like your shoes! Where'd you get them? Oh really, where's that? Bla bla bla" By far not something that'll get you laid but it's pr…
/r/seduction23/12/16 10:16 PM
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Cold approach is more or less approaching strangers. Seeing a girl at the grocery store and just walking up to her. Its a little less intimidating if you have a friend to do it with so you encourage each other but you can go out alone, this is how I started. I got into my first long term relationship 5 months after starting to practice pickup and she was the love of my life while it lasted. I cold approached her at a bar and we started talking and hung out almost everyday after that for more tha…
/r/seduction23/12/16 09:33 PM
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Not gonna lie, your life doesn't really sound that bad. At least you have a job. You got a divorce? Congrats, you're not tied down anymore! Change your perspective and stop acting like a victim. You either want someone to say "I feel you bro, life sucks" or "don't worry everything will be alright". I disagree with both those statements. Life only sucks if you make it suck; you can choose to improve yourself. Actively look for a better job. Hell, I know people working 20-30 hours a week as waiter…
/r/seduction23/12/16 01:05 AM
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You should change your perspective. You don't know that you're uninvited until you try. You should feel that you have value and can bring value to other people's lives. Don't call it gaming, call it being social or call it making friends. Maybe you end up being more than friends, who knows. Approach anyone and everyone with the mentality that you have something to offer to them and you'd be willing to share your positivity with them.
/r/seduction22/12/16 07:21 AM
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This doesn't really answer your question as to what books you should read, but when I started out as a beginner I watched so many RSD videos that I realized that most of what they teach is persistence and getting you to actually go out and approach. So my short answer is to practice cold approach pickup and not to read books. Go to the mall or large social areas with a lot of people walking around and do x number of approaches a day. If you're really really shy, awkward, etc. like I was starting…
/r/seduction22/12/16 07:11 AM
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Sounds like you have the same problem 90% of men have. It's also something that almost all pickup channels on youtube have talked about. First, change your perspective. Stop putting them on pedestals, there are no "10s" in my book and neither should there be in yours. She has nice tits and an ass, so what. I personally only cold approach women I know I have something to talk to them about. I really like clothes and I'm a burner esque character so if I see a hippy girl wearing tie dye covered in …
/r/seduction22/12/16 06:57 AM
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The only downside to being blunt and asking her if she's dtf is if she gets offended and stops talking to you. If you're OK with that, then I personally wouldn't just straight out ask her if she's dtf. I'd act as if she hadn't said anything about not having time or not being interested and just interact with her like any other girl you'd be trying to fuck. Most of those things she said is what I'd consider to be lmr, and I've slept with girls that have given me all of those excuses before. Messa…
/r/seduction22/12/16 06:46 AM
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