Grandroots Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	The Power of Vulnerability – How to Get Women to Open Up to You Yes, I would love some. This is something I struggle with.	/r/seduction	01/03/25 05:02 PM
3	Drop the ‘Does she like me’ mindset and focus on the connection instead. Thanks, this was very needed. I was definitely guilty of this. I also prefer the mutual 'do we have a connection' over 'do I like her/ does she like me.'	/r/seduction	08/02/25 09:12 PM
2	I Used to Overthink Every Text. Here's How I Fixed It. For now, though, did any of these texting challenges resonate with you. Have you ever caught yourself overthinking messages too? Drop a comment. Let’s talk. Yes all the time, reading your post is eye-opening. It does read like an ad though.	/r/seduction	05/02/25 09:16 AM
3	This is what happens when you speak from a privileged position This is a common problem not limited to seduction: John: 'I have problem x(=complicated, personal, feelings, thoughts, identity, past experiences...).' this person is often looking for empathy, understanding, validation. James: 'Just do y(=simple), easy' this person might not know how to empathise or might not want to, saying something simple actually fixes their problem of having to deal with John's annoying ass. If John's really unlucky he might even start trying to follow James' advice, James…	/r/seduction	30/01/25 11:07 PM
4	I can't believe how many people in here still haven't read Models Good critique I do believe his book is a good framework to start with. Do you have a recommendation for a book that deals with the third category?	/r/seduction	30/01/25 06:44 PM
0	Why I think getting a girl's Instagram is better than getting her number. Preach brother!	/r/seduction	25/01/25 02:50 PM
1	What training MMA taught me about success in dating Very nice analogy, thanks.	/r/seduction	24/01/25 01:28 PM
1	15 phrases that reveal your insecurity and turn women off Thanks u/DaygameCode , this post is eye-opening. I thought I had gotten better, yet I definitely do some version of these still. Especially the seeking clarity thing.	/r/seduction	19/01/25 02:04 PM
77	What attractive text-game looks like (+IRL examples that got me laid) This is a great post, thanks u/DoriansLost Giving examples really makes it more clear. I can immediately recognize that in my own chats I'm too much of a nice guy, afraid of breaking rapport, always pulling -> BORING I would love to see more examples, especially where a woman is only a little interested in the beginning. Here they seem quite hot from the start. I love how you emphasize to take this post as inspiration instead of copying it word by word and to consider all the different variables…	/r/seduction	16/01/25 03:45 PM
1	Seeing a girl in a week. One day I feel infatuated, then literally the next I feel bored. Is there a name for this? When do you feel infatuated and when bored? Can you connect it to anything? I felt similar with my ex. I felt infatuated when it had been a while since I saw her, or when we were physical. However I found our conversations boring.	/r/seduction	03/01/25 10:38 PM
3	Met a customer from work on dating apps, not sure how to proceed. Brother you have to lead, start escalating. Message her back, give her a compliment. Propose to call/facetime. Propose a date...	/r/seduction	29/12/24 09:40 AM
6	I just can't do it You're putting too much pressure on yourself. All of this is supposed to be fun otherwise it's not sustainable. It's not a black or white thing either, it's a path. Are you able to return eyecontact? Great! Give them a smile? You could also experiment with signalling them to approach you.	/r/seduction	29/12/24 09:22 AM