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GraphiteIsInPencils/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:37 AM
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GraphiteIsInPencils/r/askTRP03/05/20 04:03 AM
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GraphiteIsInPencils/r/askTRP06/06/20 04:11 PM
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GraphiteIsInPencils/r/askTRP19/06/20 01:48 AM
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GraphiteIsInPencils/r/askTRP04/05/20 12:10 AM
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GraphiteIsInPencils/r/askTRP10/05/20 10:41 PM
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GraphiteIsInPencils/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:00 PM
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DiscussionGraphiteIsInPencils/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 01:15 AM
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GraphiteIsInPencils/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:09 PM
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GraphiteIsInPencils/r/askTRP04/05/20 07:54 PM
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GraphiteIsInPencils/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:01 PM
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GraphiteIsInPencils/r/askTRP04/05/20 05:23 AM
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GraphiteIsInPencils/r/askTRP04/05/20 05:43 AM
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GraphiteIsInPencils/r/askTRP03/06/20 10:26 PM
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GraphiteIsInPencils/r/askTRP06/05/20 10:08 PM
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If you're not at least a 7/10 physically get ready to go whale shopping. I'm not going to spend hours on Tinder for a chance to fuck a fatty. I'd rather jerk off and play video games
/r/TheRedPill12/07/20 09:50 PM
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Pursue new puss
/r/askTRP19/06/20 12:37 AM
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Guitar is the most enjoyable to play imo but takes some time to learn the basic chords. Once you master those chords you can play tons of songs though. Harmonica is very quick to learn, cheap, and fun to play.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 11:43 PM
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You had the courage to do all that but not to drop a girl you didnt even fuck from your thoughts? This isnt even about the girl at this point.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 09:07 PM
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If its genuinely about her safety, just tell her you want to make sure shes safe
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:51 PM
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I don't have any bitter feelings towards him, just life
/r/askTRP06/06/20 08:24 PM
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Good point. I'm losing weight now and trying to build some muscle. That'll improve my situation.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:26 PM
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Thanks for your response. Its actually pretty helpful. Yeah I'm 22. I'm not sure if my face will keep growing. I take daily medication for a health issue I have and a common side effect is "moon face" so it gives your face a bloated rounder look. It's either I end up killing myself or I accept my cards. I'm pretty fine with either situation right now.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 06:24 PM
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I used to. I had to get nasal surgery done because of chronic sinusitis. Another reason life fucked me.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 05:49 PM
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It can help. But it wont level the playing field. It wont make me good looking or respected/wanted by people
/r/askTRP06/06/20 05:46 PM
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Well the good looking sucessful guys that kill themselves are few and far in between. A majority of suicides are from ugly losers. But I get your point. Your quality of life doesnt necessarily determine your happiness.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 05:11 PM
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I agree with you to an extent. Realistically some people just live better lives than others. Others burdens are not as large
/r/askTRP06/06/20 04:37 PM
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Working on it. But self improvement can only do so much
/r/askTRP06/06/20 04:35 PM
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You need to have fun once in awhile. Also maybe theres something in your life you're not happy about that you've been avoiding. I took like a 6 month monk mode just to read books and lift and study psychology. It was pretty good for me but I realized I was doing all that to avoid talking to people out of fear.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 03:29 PM
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Depends on if you can pull it off
/r/askTRP06/06/20 03:25 PM
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Work on yourself and you wont have to feel that way forever. Nobody said life was one big merry go round. It's got ups and downs like a roller coaster.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 03:22 PM
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4 months? It's been almost a year for me and I'm not whining. I'm focusing on myself and I'm not putting pussy on a pedestal like you are. It sucks that you lost your girl but it was bound to happen eventually. Everyone's turn will end. Be glad that you even got to tap it. Yeah some other guy is probably fucking her but that doesnt take away the good sex you had with her. The way I dealt with sexual frustration is just not getting upset about it. It was too mentally draining for me and did not s…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 03:19 PM
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He's giving you tough love. That's what people do on this sub. He's not telling you what you want to hear, hes telling you what you need to hear. Never once did he say you were hopeless the point is to go out there instead of feeling bad about yourself. We know your situation sucks but we also know giving you sympathy points isnt going to solve anything. We lift people up in this sub, you just need to be mature and strong enough to take the advice without getting butthurt about it. You'll thank …
/r/askTRP06/06/20 03:13 PM
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Not even the whiff of ass? I've adopted optimistic nihilism as my new worldview and I think that suits the way I see things in the most productive manner.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 03:05 PM
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3 but I'll take any at this point. Haha Haha sobs
/r/askTRP06/06/20 03:03 PM
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Bro it sounds like you basically raped that girl lol.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 02:40 PM
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If you're not social, be social. Having good social skills is crucial. Confidence and frame. A lot of younger people especially struggle with that. If you can have max confidence at your age you're already ahead of the game. Lift.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 02:33 PM
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If you jerk off at all stop that completely. Stop worrying about when you're going to bust and enjoy the puss
/r/askTRP06/06/20 02:30 PM
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Yes literally be okay with it. Let her mean so little to you that you dont care that she cheated. I dont mean tolerate cheating or forgive her I just mean dont let it get to you.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 01:38 AM
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Lol read my comment again. I said "just drop her and move on"
/r/askTRP06/06/20 01:29 AM
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It could be cringy, depending on how cool the people are or how confident you are. If you dont want to risk it get out of the conversation.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 12:47 AM
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Stop being insecure and be okay/accept if she cheats. If you really think you're the shit you wont care if some girl cheats. Just drop her and move on. You have no control over that, so dont waste your energy worrying about it. I was very jealous with my first ltr during my Beta days and I HATED how mentally exhausting that was.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 12:42 AM
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If they're talking about shit you have no idea or interest in either leave the conversation or ask them questions about it. Dont be afraid to admit you dont know shit about something. You dont always have to talk about deep/big subjects with someone. Talk about what's going on right now. "Damn this music sucks ass. I like this genre. What about you?"
/r/askTRP06/06/20 12:35 AM
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Similar position to you. I've had sex plenty of times but it's never that rewarding to me. It feels good but not good enough to be worth the effort. Are you depressed? Anxious? That's probably the issue. You don't need a pill at your age.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 12:33 AM
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Not be the quiet one and be more social. Talk more. If they dont listen to you speak up. If they still dont listen get new friends that respect you.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 12:29 AM
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Its gets kind of tricky but it depends on the situation, the person insulting you, and how long it's been going on for. If someone obviously below your SMV tries insulting you it shouldn't even bother you. If it keeps going on make sure he knows his place and call him out calmly. If you get insulted in a group of people, especially girls you might be fucking, insult them back but never break frame and keep your cool. You dont want them to see you as beta or its over. In any situation keep your c…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 12:26 AM
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"Dont tell me not to tell you what to do"
/r/askTRP06/06/20 12:15 AM
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First off dont be stalking her. Either go up and talk to her or forget about her. You probably spent your entire night out with your friends frustrated about some random girl that is not even guaranteed to sleep with you. It's not 100% but you can kind of quickly observe and find out if one of the dudes is her bf by any touching going on, subtle signs. If she doesnt have a bf and you approach, the worst thing that will happen with the guys is that they'll be pissed off. They're not going to brea…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 12:10 AM
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You have to believe in yourself and realize that your world is shaped from your perspective. Know that if you have a strong frame nothing can hurt you. Everyone has some cracks in their frame once in awhile but as long as its overall intact you're good to go. You have to go out there and practice. Experiences, good and bad, will reinforce your frame. Just remind yourself you're the shit. With women outcome independence is very important. Dont expect anything from them.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 11:55 PM
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$25 a pair, $50 if they have a skid mark on them
/r/askTRP05/06/20 11:50 PM
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Very close friends, my family, and my therapist. Recently I found that I was just complaining constantly and that talking about my problems didnt really solve them so I stopped. But I've always had no problem being open to people about my issues. I never had to bottle things up like you.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 11:48 PM
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Familiarity breeds contempt. She obviously got too comfortable and didnt value the relationship that much anymore. She let herself go because she knew she could. Theres probably nothing you could have done. Almost every young relationship has its expiration date. Like you said the only mistake you made was not leaving her sooner. Good news is shes an ugly troll now so you'll be able to move on fast. The hard breakups are when shes hot or even worse got hotter.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 11:23 PM
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If they actually give a shit about you. If they actually listen to you and ask you stuff. If they respect you and are there for you
/r/askTRP05/06/20 11:11 PM
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Just treat them like normal people. If they're into you, you can tell by how well they're responding to you. The most important thing you can do is be good looking. So looksmax. After that work on self improvement. Yes, you wont get laid socially isolating yourself unless you're so hot a girl initiates with you. Go out there and practice.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:58 PM
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I used to get called bud a lot by customers at my old job. I'm 22 but have a baby face and can pass as 18 almost. Yeah it would piss me off too but I dont think they mean any harm by it. The only thing you can do is not let the word get to you and try acting more mature/stern.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:53 PM
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Go for it and dont overthink it. Outcome independence. Just try to have fun and if things dont turn out as planned oh well on to the next girl.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:50 PM
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If you're willing to wait weeks to fuck her than keep dating her. Lots of guys like the nice innocent girls. Its probably a control thing we like. I think you're handling it well now. Keep dating her, keep ocassionally making moves, and if you lose patience just drop her and fuck some other girl.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:45 PM
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Taking Pussy off the pedestal basically means to stop simping. Dont let them have power over you. Dont be needy or thirsty. I get it you want pussy, but going above and beyond and putting any girl before yourself will not get you laid.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:39 PM
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I got out of a VERY messy 7 year relationship. Did every single thing they tell you not to do on trp. I put her on a pedestal, I was clingy, had low self esteem, told her about all my problems, cried on her lap, tried being a nice guy and thought I was entitled to sex for being nice, thought girls actually loved more than men, l thought they liked guys for their personality, etc. I think I heard about the red pill in a related discussion post on Reddit. I've heard about trp before a few times bu…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:36 PM
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Sounds like she led you on. Shes feeding off your validation. But you should have known better. Even trying to sleep with a girl you're stuck living with is a stupid idea. Dont even try making her jealous, just act like you dgaf and drop her from your mind
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:30 PM
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Lol yes keep us updated
/r/askTRP05/06/20 09:25 PM
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Just make sure shes not using you for free help
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:41 PM
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You're not in the clear yet but I think she might try to spread it within your friend group
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:49 PM
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That's what I do. People think I'm funny so maybe i was just born with it, but the way I see it is the more jokes you make the more people see you as the funny guy. The funny guy doesnt just always have top tier jokes, he just confidently makes a lot of them and is known for them. Like when you go to a comedy show you're more likely to laugh because you're expecting to laugh. But if he makes terrible jokes and is cringy yeah I wouldnt advice it.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:08 PM
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Make a lot of jokes
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:05 PM
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Serious question what if I have major stretch marks from letting myself go? Will that make a huge dent in my physique attractiveness?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 01:39 AM
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Well you kind of said it yourself, it depends on what reason you're using it for. If you're using it to avoid doing the hard stuff than yeah dont go monk mode. If you're truly using monk mode to go full self improvement mode(minus the social part) then go for it. As someone else said monk mode is mainly for people at rock bottom. (No job, morbidly obese, suicidal, drug addicts)
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:25 AM
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Comedy has actually made me more negative lol. Good comedy comes from tragedy. A majority of stand up is about negative shit
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:22 AM
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There is definitely less competition. By this age men are single for a reason. Either they didnt want to commit(your only real competition), are losers, or are divorced with a kid.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:20 AM
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Peppa from Peppa Pig
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:17 AM
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Yes I have now. Its going to take a whole lot
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:16 AM
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I'm only on 10mg and it's only been 5 days so I'm not noticing a difference yet
/r/askTRP04/06/20 07:26 PM
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Yeah I was holding them off for a while but they wouldn't leave me alone so I decided to try them. I mean my cock works. I still get boners I just dont do anything about them lol While I agree almost all of our motives come down to getting sex I dont think its that necessary to be happy. I also dont see the importance of spreading my seed. As someone else once said when I'm dead I wont care about someone 300 years down the line carrying 5% of my genetic DNA.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:49 PM
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I completely agree with you. When I said "this isnt my fight" I didnt just mean as a white boy. I mean personally. Theres already plenty of media coverage and white people protesting right now so I dont want to put myself in immediate danger. Maybe that means I dont care enough but I'm not putting my life on the line for violence.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:43 PM
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The whole "it would be selfish to tell him" thing is a made up lie you're telling yourself. Its selfish to not tell him because you're only not telling him to act in your own best interest. Be honest about your past. You don't have to talk shit about yourself but just tell him how it is. "I slept around a lot" or whatever. If you've really changed he'll he able to look past that. Hiding your past makes things look worse.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/20 05:06 PM
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Shes paid to not judge you (or act like shes not). In order to get the most out of your therapy you need to be completely honest with her. I hope you get a guy though. I have a woman therapist and they just try to blue pill you.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:52 PM
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You're welcome
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:47 PM
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False
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:39 PM
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I think if you're truly in a situation where it'll be very hard to get a girl (very ugly, severe mental/physical health issues) then MGTOW is the best option. You cant feel like shit for not getting a girl if you dont care about getting a girl. You should still improve yourself and eventually be open to the idea of women if you ever get your problems solved enough. That doesn't mean that mgtow is just for rejects though.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:32 PM
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Yep and when I tell people that racism and brutality will never end they get mad and call me a nihilist and think I'm racist
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:27 PM
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Go to the blue pill if you want a nice sugar coated response
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:04 PM
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If she goes straight to talking to other guys when you ignore her instead of trying to talk to you she didnt respect you that much in the first place. Your relationship was already weak. Dont pick a needy girl next time. Give her some attention back and fuck her as much as you can until your turn ends.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 02:02 PM
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First paragraph 100%. Its never worth trying to salvage a relationship. Once she's seen you as beta you'll always be Beta in her eyes.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 01:56 PM
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All of these basic white girls all of a sudden becoming black lives activists is just major virtue signaling and following trends. Women are trend followers and as awful as it sounds, what's going on right now is "hot news". I want this police brutality to stop but all the violence, looting, and stupid decisions both rioters and police are making is making me pretty apathetic towards the situation. I'm a sheltered white boy in the suburbs. This isnt my battle to fight. Going to these "peaceful" …
/r/askTRP04/06/20 01:38 PM
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I'm surprised with the amount of comments on here so sensitive about the word nigga. Would I say that word in person? No, that's awkward. Would I say it online or in a small group chat of friends, yeah. Saying nigga is basically meme culture at this point. Unfortunately it's either play the game or get cancelled so if your friends get triggered either apologize or wait for it to blow over and never say it again around them.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 01:19 PM
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Sorry nigga
/r/askTRP04/06/20 01:11 PM
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She's 40 minutes away. She probably just wanted a fling from the start. Unless you're a gigachad or the girl is super desperate shes not going to travel 40 minutes back and forth on the reg just for sex.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 01:10 PM
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Everybody and I mean everybody is insecure. Even chads have moments when they look on the mirror and feel ugly. That's my point. No matter how good looking you are, you will always find something wrong with yourself. I was able to drop a lot of my insecurities when I decided that they did not serve me.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:05 AM
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I gave him realistic advice. Play your cards the best you can. I'm not going to feed him any pink cloud bullshit like he's the most desirable guy in the room because he has muscles and is confident. Being bald and being short hold you back a good amount. He can still be respected. He can still get laid. But his ceiling will be lower than others. He just needs to accept that by lowering his expectations and finding joy outside of women and ego.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:52 AM
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Bad idea. Nothing dries up a girls pussy faster than making her walk around all day reading facts about dead people. It's not that she isnt "sophisticated" enough to take to a museum. All mainstream museums are made to be family friendly and easily digestible by the public. Its just not some place you take a girl you barely know to. Its boring to women. They lack the type of curiosity and interest that men have.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:39 AM
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Wine bar? That's for 40 year olds
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:25 AM
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....dont call me out like that
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:11 AM
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Am I the only one that doesnt care about being forgotten? When I die I'm dead so it wont matter. I only want to be remembered by my immediate family and close friends. I could care less about my great grandchildren thinking about me.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 03:37 AM
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Shes using you for attention, dont be her orbiter. And sorry to break it to you, but if she's calling you cute and shit in front of a bunch of obviously better looking guys, she's most likely using you to get to them. Like the strategy guys have where they talk to the hot girls ugly friend just to make the hot girl jealous.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 12:59 AM
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I think this is more of an ego thing than a girl thing. You feel bad about yourself because you didnt fuck her. Also newsflash, no girl is close to a unicorn. She seems really nice and sweet but trust me she is just as capable of fucking you over. The older they get and the more experience they have the worse they get.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 12:56 AM
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Dont practice online game then
/r/askTRP03/06/20 10:28 PM
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Theres always people with a higher SMV than you. Going online just opens the pool to a lot more competition. It's also harder to sell yourself online becuase they judge you quickly off of a couple of pictures. A lot of your perceived SMV is just in comparison to others. When I'm in a small town full of old guys and inbreds I'm a stud. When I'm in a popular college town I'm beta bux.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 10:17 PM
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Trump isnt Redpill at all. He's an idiotic man baby liar. All politics aside, Democrat or Republican, Trump is an idiot and isnt fit to be president. Just because he's a confident liar and makes big promises doesnt mean hes a good president. After hearing about all his mistakes and idiotic moves I'm surprised people still believe in him.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 10:12 PM
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It's most likely not going to happen. Be a wage slave but pick something you actually like and limit your work as much as possible
/r/askTRP03/06/20 07:41 PM
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He's being realistic
/r/askTRP03/06/20 07:36 PM
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Your life is very much predetermined by your genetics/environment. Just become the best version of yourself and accept your place in society. I know I'll never be a Chad because I have a baby face and I'm not tall. Its shitty but being aware of that strangely gives me more confidence/security. I can do/act however I want and I expect women to not want me. That way, if they do want me it's a pleasant surprise, if not, that's fine I dont care. Dont listen to all these phaggots telling you you'll b…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 06:34 PM
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For me I got a few arm grabs and comments but nothing life changing. Chubby girls threw themselves at me but the rest just gave me occasional looks. Some guys were more stand offish with me. Maybe its because I dont have an attractive face/lack confidence. So muscles help but game/overall looks matter more.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:19 PM
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APALT. Soft next with slight dread.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:10 PM
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Email her a PDF of your life. Thoughts, hopes, dreams, experiences. Invite her over for dinner and answer the door naked
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:08 PM
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This post reeks scam
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:33 PM
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When I make an account do I have to give them my credit card info and social security?
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:31 PM
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Fuck dude that's rough. What exactly makes him more attractive than you? Is he more fit? Better bone structure? Looksmax and level the playing field as much as possible. If shes just a plate/some fun for awhile I'd try to make sure she avoids your bro as much as possible. If shes going to be a ltr you'll have to just trust that she'll be loyal and be confident in yourself. I know how you feel I have a fucking twin and hes like 2 points more attractive than me. But he doesnt have my height and wi…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:04 AM
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The responsibility/expectation of being mentally strong all the time, being a leader. As of now I'm 21 and single so just school/work. But in the future, women are attracted to men that take charge and take care of them. I can barely take care of myself. I'm mentally weak.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:45 AM
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Be good looking
/r/askTRP03/06/20 12:48 AM
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Imo, its possible but highly unlikely. 90% of the time it takes learning the hard way. Most of the people on this subreddit are either frustrated with women or have been burned bad in a ltr
/r/askTRP03/06/20 12:47 AM
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I think you forgot that those 20 year olds were benching the bar years ago when they first started. They had a head start, so what? Is their success going to take anything away from yours? I know it sucks being the noob at the gym but focus on yourself and in a few months you'll see the real noobs at the gym and see how far you've progressed. You can stay weak and feel inadequate forever or you can drop your ego and power through until you make some gains. If you really must, invest in some home…
/r/askTRP02/06/20 11:46 PM
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Bonding like having someone there for him, Someone to share a bed with. A mans love is transactional too, but still not as much as a womans.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 01:28 PM
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Looks guys, as much as I hate the reality of this we dont really have a good reason to be mad. Of course a hot guy is going to get special treatment. That's life, people get treated differently based on their looks. If an obese girl ran up to you and randomly kissed you, you'd be angry or at least disgusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 04:11 AM
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Men are more romantic it's been proven. Because men love idealistically and women love opportunistically. Men believe in love/bonding and women believe in "what can he do for me".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 03:55 AM
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Even if you werent just a beta provider and you actually were Alpha, just think of the logistics. Shes a college girl, she just wants to have fun and get fucked by hot young guys. Dont waste your resources on a lost cause.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 02:45 PM
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When that happens you're better off moving on. Not saying it cant be done but its extremely difficult to uninvest in a girl
/r/askTRP19/05/20 02:41 PM
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Yep. Most women only want the finished product. If you believe in me and stick by my side through struggle that's a real women I want to be with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 01:54 AM
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You are a loser if you're 24 trying to go for a 17 year old. You remind me of the cringy HS graduates that couldnt get girls their age so they prayed on the sophomores/Juniors because they were interested in a guy with a job and his own car.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:06 AM
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Never give a woman a single reason to be with you. Also, attract her with what you want her to be attracted to you for. Looks, game, social status, whatever.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:02 AM
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Wow, my life must suck so bad. I'm new to redpill but it's been like 10 months for me. I only really have sex in relationships.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 06:00 AM
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Just overall take responsibility for yourself. Clean up
/r/askTRP16/05/20 05:59 AM
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I tried coding, I was shit at it. But I'm a very creative person and love creating things. I realized I loved learning software, not necessarily building it. So I taught myself video/photo editing and digital art. I'm currently learning Adobe Illustrator and I love it. I actually recently switched majors from Cyber Security to Graphic Communication. I used to make a lot of short films as a kid and I want to get back to doing that.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 05:57 AM
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I fucking hope not. It seems like we are though. I feel like I dont lust as much as the average guy and still wish I could not lust at all until the time was right and it served me.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 05:54 AM
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Goodnight Moon
/r/askTRP16/05/20 05:53 AM
6

You dont have to dump her but already assume that shes cheating so you can mentally prepare yourself and detach yourself from her in case it didnt happen and will in the future.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:10 AM
5

Being good looking makes you attractive. If you're not good looking women always love a guy with a sense of humor so yeah I would say it helps makes you more attractive.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 05:05 AM
1

That was probably a big part of it. But she told me she settled for me. And that was very painful
/r/askTRP06/05/20 10:16 PM
2

I'd say call center. Fast food is so rough I'd never work it. The pay is most likely better too.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:53 PM
1

Men appreciate humor so they can objectively tell that your jokes are more funny than Chad's because of structure, timing, etc. Women don't really care and will laugh more at Chad's stupid jokes either intentionally to get attention or because of the Halo effect. Focus on being Alpha first and safest bet is to crack some genuine but toned down jokes. Give her more normie jokes dont tell her edgy jokes you and your internet friends laugh about.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:50 PM
2

You accept your place in the moment and try not to get too upset about it. I dont like the hidden pep talks a lot of these guys give. You may never be as handsome and accomplished as this guy is. The more you improve yourself the less men will be better than you.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:45 PM
5

Since it's your sister just tell her to leave your friends alone and look for some other dick
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:40 PM
1

Shes not interested in you. Give her a second chance and ask her to put her phone away without sounding butthurt or just leave right there. As someone else said there might be a small chance that she just wants to fuck so ask if she wants to come home with you.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:38 PM
1

He needs to learn not to dish what you cant take. Oh well let his have his sissy fits. Maybe next time he ghosts the group dont try taking him back
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:35 PM
11

It depends where you start. I can tell you no matter where you start it definitely wont be a matter of months. Let's just say you're an average weight maybe a little chubby. Probably a year of hard training to look like you lift, to look good. Add another year to have girls stare you down at the beach. Again this is assuming you have a strict diet and exercise regimen. Dont listen to those "30 push ups a day" challenge or those excersies they tell you to do during commercial breaks. Yes its bett…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:31 PM
2

I'm a naturally funny guy and have been pretty smooth on my A game but still have trouble owning the room. Think of what's funny to you and practice talking to people.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 02:45 AM
9

Google olive oil
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:58 PM
1

That's a lot easier said than done. Because those are the things ruining my life
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:57 PM
1

Bruh I want to know more about your journey
/r/askTRP04/05/20 09:23 PM
3

All women are narcissistic but this one in particular just doesnt like you. Stop playing games with her your turn is up. Dump her and focus in increasing you smv. Trust me you'll regret staying with her and being a bitch.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 09:17 PM
3

Eat a shit load. No joke if you seriously want size make some mass gainer powder shakes mixed with peanut butter and olive oil. Lift heavy ass weight and stick to compound movements. Then you'll have to grow.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 09:15 PM
8

I dont have advice myself but I'm in the same position as you. I dont think a lot of guys on here have to self improve while depressed. Focus on getting well again and worry about smv and girls later.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 09:14 PM
1

I know I need to get a job I cant rn obviously because Covid and I'm an at risk person. I know I'm retarded for disrespecting my mom. I'm depressed and I take it out on people who dont deserve it.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 05:35 AM
8

High value men hold all of or a majority of "Alpha" traits like confidence, self assurance, success, fit body, good social life, etc. You start by just self improvement. Reflect on yourself and pinpoint all the things you dont like about your life and change them. Dont have a lot of friends? Meet more people. Dont like your face? Lose some weight or try a new haircut. High value is somewhat subjective depending on what a women wants from you. It's really a journey.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 05:05 AM
5

Talk to him. Try and cheer him up. Once he works over his problems he'll have the motivation to clean himself up a bit. How you carry yourself is very important so just not looking depressed all the time will make a big difference
/r/askTRP04/05/20 05:02 AM
6

Would cooking count? I mean that's literally consumable but that will definitely increase your smv and make you look more intellectual/cultured. You can make great meals for dates and have a good reason to get them to come over
/r/askTRP04/05/20 04:17 AM
2

I had a somewhat similar experience. 6.5 years together then she dumped me while we were living together. That was the worst time of my life. Idk what side of the breakup you're on obviously first thing you need to do is set yourself up to move out as soon as Covid blows over. Simple as that since you guys dont have any other ties. If you're the one dumping her dont do it until you're about to move out. You dont want to live with her like that.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 04:12 AM
1

Not at all
/r/askTRP04/05/20 01:36 AM
3

I think a lot of them just feel wronged but they just never took responsibility for their own lives and let themselves turn into depressed loners and blame society
/r/askTRP04/05/20 01:33 AM
1

As long as you have a few friends most girls that actually like you dont care. As long as you're not a loner with zero friends
/r/askTRP04/05/20 12:04 AM
4

Jambalaya and Craw Daddy
/r/askTRP03/05/20 08:16 PM
2

Only ignorant people who havent spent more than an hour on TheRedPill and MGTOW pages think we're incels. They dont even know what incel means. And as you said you've had multiple women in your life so you're not Incel. Either learn to not care what they say or dont bring up TheRedPill in person. I chose the latter.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 07:30 PM
1

Is this a way to humble brag? Most guys would fuck a 6 if she was really down. If you want to fuck her then do it or dont we dont care
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:47 PM
1

Depends on the girl. 2. Who cares
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:46 PM
7

If it's some random thot dont waste your time they might just be using you because they're bored. Send a text every once in awhile to remind her you're still there
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:42 PM
1

I just buy the Trojan ENZ ones cause they're the cheapest on Amazon. They're just average size plain Jane condoms
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:41 PM
7

Exactly.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 06:40 PM
3

Any negative thoughts you have just let them pass through you. Dont judge your negative thoughts or dwell on them. What helped me a lot was instead of thinking "they have this life and I dont have it" I think "That's okay I'm not mad because I know I'll have this life myself one day." Assuming you're working through your goals.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 03:14 PM
2

Same thing happened to me
/r/askTRP03/05/20 03:11 PM
1

Wow man you're such a gay faggot. Lol you're life is over. You're overreacting. You're not gay and nothing is wrong with you. You literally thought he was a girl so you acted accordingly. You should be laughing about this. And its not like anyone else is going to know about this anyway.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 03:47 AM
4

Because they are only nice to guys they see as useful. Note the Lightswitch effect. She loves you so much until one day she loses feelings and treats you like a stranger or even less than. Women despise weak men. They see weak men as people failing at life.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 03:43 AM
1

"Vibrational foods" "Holes in your body". This all sounds like completely made up bullshit like those commercials with guys desperately trying to sell their vitamin supplements. Eating raw meat is dangerous and you're telling people to hurt themselves like that
/r/askTRP02/05/20 05:46 PM
1

Lilyhammer
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:53 AM
2

You can't control your thoughts. But you can control how you react to and interpret those thoughts. Take the judgement out of your thoughts and just them flow through you. That way when you're studying and you randomly think of that embarrassing thing you did years ago it will just stump you for a minute and not 10. Eventually your thoughts will change when you have different experiences and a positive mindset. I hate book recommendations but you should read The Power of Now. Its one of the few …
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:19 PM
8

Wtf is with all these likes? This is pseudoscience bullshit.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:15 PM
3

They dont have to be shit tests. These girls are bored and are using you for attention/validation and have no real intentions of ever seeing you in person
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:10 PM
1

I know but its hard when someone with the same exact parents and circumstances has a better life than you. And the worst thing is people expecting you to be on the same level as them because you're related. But yeah same rules apply I guess.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 07:08 PM
3

2uesday? Lol sorry I had to. Thanks you're right I'm growing now.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 11:41 PM
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