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Mhmm, words words, but we both know what's really up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:54 PM
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I'd say a mixture of both tbh, but it's really not about me. There is no "etiquette" around casual, it's literally just using people to get off, and you wanting it to be more than that indicates that you are no longer satisfied with casual. Literally just re-read your posts. You want to reduce men to "just dick" when convenient for you, but the instant they don't follow your expected norms of behavior suddenly they are human beings with social obligations? Everybody but you can see the obvious c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:38 PM
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Nah I disagree with your disagreement, someone intelligent enough to be in med school probably realizes deep down that casual sex = casual and no faux pas needed for such relationships to dissolve into the ether because that's the entire point. What "answer" are you looking for? You aren't, you are looking for things on the romantic front of your life to be better while still stubbornly clinging to the notion that casual is enough when in reality those two ideas conflict. No answer anyone online…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:18 PM
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Lmao, you are possibly my RL friend's current FwB based on your description of yourself. But nah, there's a reason you're here. I wouldn't abandon your dream of being a doctor but you do grasp the fact that you are essentially complaining about yourself and your inner jekkyl wants to settle down and have kids and stability and a harmonious marriage while your inner hyde is like "nah strange dick while career maxxing" and the inner conflict that motivated you to post here wouldn't be unfolding if…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:55 PM
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If it were feasible I'd present each female candidate to you prior to commitment for an objective screening.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:48 PM
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If you truly believe that why not go full posthuman, lobotomize your sexual instinct with drugs or FGM and fully lean into your "place in life" with no regard for what biology (which is just another form of slavery) dictates It's the societal PLACE IN LIFE that matters, bro. or... maybe the set of behavioral compromises you've arrived at are not merely a product of 'sex is fun' but a tacit recognition that maybe there is a deeper purpose to life that you're forgetting about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:38 PM
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How are those reality warping powers going for you, bro? Was it worth the sexual sacrifice?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:21 PM
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I think you're just rediscovering why monogamy good, casual sex bad and why your grandparents with their stuffy old conservatives mores were right. Its ok, some rules need to be continually relearned by successive generations, kinda like why don't we just deregulate the stock market guyz?? --> market crash --> regulations --> 20 years later: why don't want we just deregulate the stock market guyz?? It's the same for monogamy. People are always thinking "nah im built different i can do w.e. i wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:18 PM
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I am proud of you if true, I personally can't swing it. Was scoping some ancient philosophers the other day and found this line from Yoshido Kenko “However gifted and accomplished a young man may be, if he has no fondness for women, one has a feeling of something lacking, as of a precious wine cup without a bottom. … But it is well that a man do not become addicted to lewdness, a constant and familiar companion of women.” Feels true to me, any time I envision myself living entirely apart from wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:13 PM
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As we get closer and closer to true bugman society consisting of corporate drone career lifelong servitude, corporate-run lifeless soul sucking third spaces, corporate obligatory dating app-based uninspiring snoozefest mating rituals, corporate dumbed down politics where you support team A over team B with the same insipid pointless tribalism of a UK football hooligan, corporate-approved news cycles and pop psychology and trending opinions mass produced by AI designed to stimulate the fear and g…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:03 PM
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lmao OP argues like a true Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:55 PM
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Having had enough of my extro slut workaholic ex wife, I'm now going allin on introverted tradwife good girls. Friends keep telling me that church is a trap and rife with reformed sluts but what do they know? Hope springs eternal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:54 PM
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Nah OP a cursory understanding of game theory makes it obvious why this falls apart, too many male defectors will gladly scoop up the pussy you disregard. The market will thus always return to equilibrium. The only way it could happen is through collective action and regulation, ie, death penalty if you ever bang a hymen-less woman or somesuch. Lmao. Not that I'd want to live in that world, but hey, there is always Saudi Arabia if you wanna give it a try.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:52 PM
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I had a somewhat novel experience in this area, OP. I was firmly headed down the same path as your friend in middle school in my upper middle class mostly white suburbanite middle school. Turns out Cheerleader Stacy and frustrated Beckies with pretensions of Stacy-dom don't want much to do with the soft shy nerdy bullied kid in the back of the classroom programming games on his TI-83 graphing calculator while Chad Footballer throws spitwads in his general direction. However, all this changed whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:41 PM
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Jesus christ im still stuck imagining someone of either gender having not had a girlfriend or boyfriend into their 30s. Does that happen these days? Society is moving on so quickly. I expect AI spouses will be the norm in a few decades at the rate we’re going. All reproduction will take place via vats in labs and men and women will live far apart from each in separate hermetically sealed enclaves with their AI underclass to service them. All men will have a robotradwife and all women will have h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:23 PM
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The cordoning off of sex into a discrete untouchable category not subject to the same structural analysis of power and privilege that other areas of society have already undergone is one of the great mental blocks of the last 50 years. In reality, sex is very important. Perhaps the most important motive force in human behavior is sexuality, mate choice, access to mates… only the threat of starvation has greater explicatory power, when looking at the behavior of the masses. Yet, in this one parti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:04 PM
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So a woman being in any kind of relationship with a man is actually settling Hmm. Feels too arbitrary. If ALL relationships are settling then that’s basically victory always turns to ashes in her mouth and LTR is always worse than playing the field which doesnt track with female behavior, if it were true they would literally never settle. Ability to get sex does not neatly coincide with ability to get a good quality relationship, is I think the variable missing from your analysis. Good quality r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:54 PM
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Fuck yeah bro i wish i had the courage to go full cybernetic with filler injections and a saline pump, no refractory period? Maybe one day ill go allin on that after gains from PE stall out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:51 PM
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“you can’t convince others to like you, but you can stay true to yourself and optimize yourself to attract those who best suit you” I guess because this is objectively untrue, you CAN convince other people to like you (albeit temporarily) by faking certain characteristics, and this is a valid mating strategy; it's why males of different species "puff themselves up" to attract a female. Optimizing yourself to attract those that suit you may be less sexually efficient/genetically optimal than opti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:37 AM
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I mean there is a reason, otherwise they will become terrorists and blow things and men up until you give them their rights. It never came to this in much of the civilized world because men are "softies" when it comes to women and accorded them rights much sooner than, for instance, slaves of same gender. But even in a world where men had hard hearts towards women, the same process of violent overthrow that characterized decolonization, the civil war in the US, etc would happen between men and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:24 AM
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You can throw a dart at any point in human recorded history and find stodgy old parents and grandparents writing some equivalent of "malaise of a dying civilization" type posts bemoaning the state of (what was to them) modernity and the increasing frivolousness and immorality of the populace at large. Plato was already writing about it in 400bc or whatever. Civilizations do wax and wane in terms of their moral principles and customs. There are definitely some periods more decadent than others, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:58 AM
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Your post contains a kernel of truth OP. Many guys are laboring under the mistaken assumption that nice=desire. However, that does not automatically lead to the opposite conclusion that asshole=desire. There could definitely be situations where a woman is attracted to you and then you're an obnoxious fucking jackass and that repels her. I assume this to be the case with most women who have actual morality, integrity and standards - may not be all women, but many. I do think there's a subset of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:51 AM
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No daughter of mine is gonna marry a sexbot! Get outta my house you clanker! ^ you in 30 years when your former bleeding edge libertinism is now conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:44 AM
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I don't think the future is gonna have much room for stodgy old feminism when there's genetically modified otherkin, AI marriages, and stargender demisexuals occupying the public's limited attention span.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:40 AM
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Hmmm username checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:35 AM
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That the popularity of “dominant male who outearns and can fuck anyone but he simps for the female MC” doesnt reveal anything that even feminists dont already know. Hypergamy is becoming a grudgingly accepted fact of reality that even the most nominally egalitarian women dont want to change
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:47 AM
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Society is your enemy bro. Its basically just a giant extraction system meant to turn you into an unquestioning cog, packmule, laden with infinity responsibilities, net value producer so rich ppl can skim off the top and poor or irresponsible ppl can have you foot the bill for them. Just treat society as an enemy, treat people who want to reduce your station in life or freedoms or saddle you w greater burdens as enemies regardless of their bullshit rationales. Cling to whatever power, money and …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 10:49 PM
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Honestly i get what you’re saying, i used to be one of those same dudes thinking that if my frigid bitch ex wife gave me sex everything would be fine. Well she stopped being frigid but continued to be a bitch and surprise, i wasnt happy like i thought i would be. I try to school younger dudes as much as i can not to think so much with their dicks because a woman who wants to do it 1x a week but treats you with respect and kindness and appreciation is worth so much more than a woman who is always…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:54 PM
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Op’s thesis is you just have to give him sex and your personality is irrelevant, im saying that after you give him sex to the point where he is no longer sex starved he may notice your personality sucks and leave you. Men who are psychologically healthy will notice that whether you give him sex or not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:32 PM
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I am convinced you can’t unmask around any woman who is not also non-NT and not suffer some kind of attraction/love malus. Ofc some degree of unmasking in relationships is inevitable, so you basically have to pick be in an unnatural normiecore state 24/7 with no breaks (probably unsustainable but good enough for serial monogamy of a few months/years at a time) choose a woman with similar degree of mental unusualness (gonna have to look hard!) find a woman with a certain degree of professionalism…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:01 PM
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They lack self respect. It is very hard to even develop self respect when your needs go chronically unmet, because its a clear signal from the world that you don’t matter. You also don’t feel like you have the luxury of caring about it. A starving peasant’s entire world is about the next loaf of bread. I don’t mean to whine here, the onus is on men to develop some dignity and stop simping for women who offer ONLY sex, or only things OTHER THAN sex when we know deep down we need both. But ofc tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:37 PM
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Or its just genetic dead end? Depends on how well you can mask, whether you can counterbalance negative traits like forgetfulness and underfunctioning with positive like charisma and empathy, how good you are at developing coping mechanisms, whether you can leverage the superpower aspects of your neurospiciness, etc I used to be crippled by ADHD basically, and i suspect i have some mild form of autism. I also have a higher than normal IQ, wont mention specific numbers since its a gay flex, but i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:26 PM
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No, its more like sex is the baseline for making a man happy and theres a hell of a lot more to it than that if the man has any self respect at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:12 PM
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Preach brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:06 PM
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The untalked about side of the equation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:02 PM
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Gotta bust in your pants for the speedrun record
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:00 PM
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Yeah? And if she treats you like shit outside the bedroom, what then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:59 PM
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lifelong humiliation ritual Lmao. True, and probably why men buy into christianity, hearing about jesus getting crucified and spat on through no fault of his own is somehow deeply relatable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:58 PM
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I wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:56 PM
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You are wise, bro. Dont settle. I thought sex was enough, its nothing without respect and appreciation and affection
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:55 PM
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Sex is much more of a physical need for men, so just imagine a starving person gets basically reduced to his stomach when he cant find food, but once he’s had steady meals for a while he’s free to start weighing his other, more cerebral needs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:54 PM
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Same brother. Worst mistake i ever made
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:53 PM
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If a DUDE approached me and said that my flight or fight would activate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:52 PM
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No thats not correct, even though many men are laboring under the delusion it is. My ex wife started giving me sex whenever i want .. and the sex was good. However outside the bedroom, she was nagging and criticizing and comparing me to people despite me providing an amazing quality of life for her, supporting her, letting her be herself, hire nanny etc so she barely has to lift a finger… felt like shit. The truth is even after getting sex, men start to ascend maslows hierarchy of needs just lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:35 PM
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There’s just something about an unattainable misanthropic turbo rejecting woman, makes me want to hate the world together with her 🤷🏻‍♂️🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:30 PM
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Damn my savior complex is kicking in hard rn ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:25 PM
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Ill take your word for it lol, i feel like i have a holy obligation from Thor himself to lay pipe when called upon to do so by the woman in my life. Maybe they do too and thats why they freak out Maybe its good as a power move though, yknow, get her hamster wheel spinning…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:24 PM
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Damn. It’s over
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:20 PM
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Lmao no, i would never do that either. Out of principle. The ancestors would be angry with me for declining sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:19 PM
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Try weed. Works for a woman i know with off the charts neuroticism and enabled her to finally have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:18 PM
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Lol ouch!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:17 PM
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The “LOVE as a consolation prize” paradigm hasnt quite permeated the public consciousness though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:17 PM
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Women are able to enjoy sex more when its short term flings because it isnt tied up with disappointment/resentment of having a real long term relationship. Technical ability matters but context matters as well, it wasnt all down to you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:15 PM
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Interesting. Thanks for the report. I think we often neglect to factor “how woman feels about herself” into the sexual frequency equation. It’s not all 100% dependent on the man’s appearance/behavior, female agency exists too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:13 PM
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Nah nah nah, we gotta have truth come what may, and let the AI sexbots fill the gap. Me and my fellow tech bros at work are already planning a startup to capitalize on the coming loneliness epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:10 PM
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I think im effected by this bias, for some reason female sexuality just seems less potentially harmful/threatening to me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:07 PM
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Your average man has a solid social circle, does something worth trying in life, and doesn’t wallow in self pity. I agree with this but that doesn’t contradict the idea that the average man struggles with dating more than previous generations did. Decline of third spaces, shift to online dating, women closing the employment gap w men thereby making hypergamy statistically impossible in the aggregate, increasing polarization between genders (look how many women skew liberal vs how many men skew c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:58 PM
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I feel like even feminists these days realize female sexuality is largely submissive/hypergamous and in turn realize that has unpleasant implications for how deeply feminism itself can ever permeate society (cant have your cake and eat it too, trying to fob their deepest nature off as “kink” doesnt really work) and the whole thing is kind of crumbling for that reason and we’ve probably maxed out on gender egalitarianism. The project is done, spoiled western women are now more concerned about why…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:48 PM
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Are you not that old? I remember when i was 12 being attracted to girls my age on sitcoms and now that im in my prime years, sheldons mom in young sheldon lookin kinda good to me. Tastes evolve, or we’d all still be chowing down on chicken tendies For raw unattractiveness compared to other ppl in your gender/age cohort thats another story. I will never understand hogmaxxing for instance. I daresay when you turn 70 op you’ll have a wandering eye for the matronly well kept GILF who bats her eyes a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:51 AM
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Nahhh too gangster for me, i allow myself to complain every now and then, i feel like if you go full 100% anti complaining then you start to complain about complaining itself and horseshoe back around into complainer territory. Gotta be zen and let other ppl complain from time to time for true laid back unbothered masculine vibes 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:39 AM
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Lmao this is life as a man, you complain on the internet like one day out of a month, another man immediately shows up like “bruh NEVER complain, any negative stimuli in your environment must be wholly internally processed with no outward signal” This is why masculism is dead in the water while feminism reigns supreme And for the record i agree with you, i spend 99% of my energy not talking and just building a good life without women these days, you’re just gonna have to trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:52 AM
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Meanwhile us BASED men are completely stoic and unmoved by a woman with facial neoteny, pronounced hip to waist ratio and high capacity mammaries… oh wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:30 AM
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Point is the bird and frog bros are the ones who have to impress and tryhard and the women still just choose. Its the power dynamic, not the exact mechanisms involved Although, you have inspired me to try my luck at karaoke night and see if my vocalizations attract a suitable breeding candidate, im told my throat girth and singing voice kind of mogs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:26 AM
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The difficulty lvl in the game of making an average ordinary woman happy feels unfair. Thats the main point. Even men who are very successful with women, players etc, are not known for speaking on how reasonable, fair minded, and easy to work with women are. Throw in the fact that damaged women exist, incompatible women exist (and this incompatibility tends to surface AFTER commitment), women tend to initiate divorce and breakups and fall out of love easier AND men have the burden of approach, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:15 AM
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No wonder my homie didnt want his girlfriend going to that pokemon card tournament. We all know what those events are REALLY about. One minute its trading legendaries and shiny pokemon and arguing the merits of poison types vs psychic and the next she’s coaxing your metapod into using string shot in the some disused backroom surrounded by warhammer 40k figurines
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:57 AM
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Im with you brother. Money maxxing, gym maxxing and talking shit with my bros beats the hoop jumping ridiculousness of modern dating. I have a close friend who has taken the escort pill, i make a shit ton of money these days so may ask him to help me branch out. Its overpriced as fuck but at least its honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:56 AM
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Any better luck at the running club? Seems like a good way to encounter non fat women in that “organic” way that netflix romcoms have convinced them is obligatory
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:54 AM
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Yeah VR porn, drugs, excess income, rotting in front of anime or tv or vidya, books, and unlimited bro time beats the shit out of being married to a disinterested dead eyed vapid 20lbs overweight becky whose frustrated aspirations to even more upper of an upper middle class lifestyle (packed with constant FUN and EXCITEMENT as seen on social media) … where surely THIS time she will be happy… and your inability to facilitate that while also providing her the requisite “bare minimum” 2 kids and a …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:48 AM
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Unironically IT is a giant monastery most of my coworkers are ascetic indian incels toiling on inscrutable manuscripts (codebases) Come on in bro, the water’s fine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:41 AM
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Lift for mental health, spend time with bros, read great literature, watch great old black and white era movies, spend money on yourself, travel see the world etc. Pig out on drugs, porn, vidya. Create art with no expectation or need for material gain. You can live a great life without the need for any womans involvement. Best thing you can do if you’re convinced women arent worth the effort. Splurge on prostitutes now and then if you really have to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:50 AM
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Nah i completely agree. Part of the problem is that theres all these legacy cultural institutions that made sense back when marriage was all prearranged and controlled by elders, but now that mate choice is unrestrained we’re returning to a state of nature in the sexual arena while the rest of society continues to operate on the (increasingly sham) assumption of higher order morality holding sway When life is brutal to you, be brutal back. That’s what they don’t want to happen but what needs to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:04 AM
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Females do not approach males in any species where the male does not provide the majority of parental care or undergo pseudo gestation In general being pursued by a member of the opposite gender is bad, it means they have agenda or reward driven behavior w/r/t you which is not necessarily (probably rarely) coinciding with your best interests But yeah women dont approach men because male thirst is so overwhelming that female thirst never had to evolve to compensate, except when it comes to sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:23 PM
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I have no idea. I have never maintained a platonic friendship with a woman. I either pursue them for romance/sex, or they pursue me, but I don’t associate with them outside the sexual arena. Cross gender friendships seem weirdly incestuous and borderline emotional affair territory to me. I feel an enmity with femininity in general. It’s too chaotic and overly demanding. Let me code, hang around in my boxers, make sick videogame levels like a modern sistine chapel and be antisocial and conservati…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:16 PM
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Probably the one “safe” outlet they feel comfortable expressing their divine feminine side in a world that INSISTS she be a girl boss who breakz the rulez and makes the boys feel 😡 due to her unwillingness to submit to their patriarchal expectations and bla bla…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:13 PM
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Bro saudi arabia proves feminism right, republic of congo proves feminism right, I have no idea why the most weak tea example of a guy passed out with his junk out matters in a world where female genital mutilation and marital rape are still widely practiced in like 30% of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:08 PM
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AI girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:00 PM
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The “average” bear can’t mate either cuz he gets clawed to death by his species equivalent of a chad. The average peacock gets feathermogged by an alphacock and edged out of the gene pool. Soft harem exists everywhere If there wasnt some form of hoflation throughout nature then no genetic bottleneck = no increased selection pressure = no accelerated evolution = weak eloi like race of humans = might as well have stuck with asexual reproduction The good news is if you decide the SMP is too hard an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:53 PM
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They are society’s prevailing theories for explaining gendered behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 06:23 AM
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Damn where do the down to earth women congregate?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:12 AM
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Its 57/43 male to female ratio on these apps but your post just shits exclusively on men and leaves women unscathed. Quick, say something critical about the women using the apps or you lose all credibility. You have one hour
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 08:50 PM
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You said it yourself OP, multi dating goes against your deepest values and it doesn’t for some of the women you date. Treat it like a red flag because I guarantee you overlooking a values misalignment will fuck you over progressively worse and worse the longer the relationship goes on. People who believe in deep silent still waters of emotions and specialness and romance and blabla dont do well in relationships with people employing a game theory optimal scattershot “shoot my 1000 seeds into the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:22 PM
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Why is this bad? This basically shows that men have less in group bias/tribalism and are therefore operating on a more objective and universal form of morality. Men stopped having thoughts like “everyone who looks like me should autowin life” around the time we stopped being primitive goatherds hurling spears at each other. Its what allowed code of laws, egalitarianism, neutral arbitration, justice system, social contract, etc Some people are just morally and intellectually better than others th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:01 PM
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Way to absolve women of any agency 👍👍
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:40 PM
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It’s more rigorous than the alternatives (social constructionism, tabula rasa, environmental determinism, feminist theory, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:36 PM
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Gotcha sensei, ill reflect on what you said. Will lyk in a year if i end up incorporating some more “emotional energy cube that woman absorbs from man to raise her life fulfillment index” and if it helped
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:51 PM
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Mmm, I respect your post bro. I have to admit I am the type to be boring, grind hard at work (I happen to have close to my dream job, so I get a ton of fulfillment there), gym maxx, dick maxx, play some vidya or work on side coding projects, spend time with my kids, go on a few trips w my bros and thats about it. I’m fairly sure the type of women you describe would find me boring. I realized though, I don’t want to change because this is really just who I am. I enjoy a low key, low socializing l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:39 PM
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Principled, compassionate, libidinous
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 09:21 PM
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OP i think most men in this category psyche themselves out and over read into negative experiences, myself included. The entirety of reddit and media make it seem impossible to get the kind of job/income i have in the current market yet i accomplished it with medium effort. I just had to persist past a few bad jobs or dry spells, keep pursuing opportunities and not take the situation personally. I think the same applies to dating women. Is it hard? Maybe, but you only have to succeed one time. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:21 PM
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At no point in your rambling did "Jack" cultivate multiple social groups, develop a keen interest in interesting things to do in his city, become a regular at 1-4 venues where he knows the staff and people there, or become conversant in the local music/art/food/thingstolearnabouthiscity/ etc. scenes. Is this really what women find attractive generally though? I get that you’re antijerking the career/fitness/“raise your character stats” engineer-like approach to dating but i am not convinced the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:10 PM
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Definitely a lot of valid points in what you wrote but “attraction cannot be manufactured” is pure cope. Almost everyone ive seen IRL who has put actually effort into self improvement and learning how to date more effectively has had better results. And its not simply about attraction. A woman can be attracted to you and still fuck you over. Character and integrity matter. The myth of no female agency and the only variable that matters is attraction and that’s the ONLY factor you should ever car…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:07 PM
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Nah ive come to the sad conclusion that honesty, which seems conceptually straightforward, requires a robust ventromedial and dorsolateral prefrontal cortex to actually implement in practice, whereas the population has a typical bell curve distribution of “cortexlets” at one end who do things like cheat, steal, rape because they are essentially profoundly morally retarded “I don’t enjoy when others harm me therefore i shouldn’t harm them” is beyond the mental capacity of a distressingly large se…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:50 PM
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Saving this argument in case my next woman wants kids
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:46 PM
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Life is hard as a man OP. Not saying that to be flippant, more to commiserate. You also can’t be too forward at a job interview and be like “what are you paying” even though you both know that’s why you’re there. Situations where you’re the one who needs the other party in general are difficult and require a certain degree of persistence, experience and intuition to navigate. The good news is, you only need to succeed once. Just think, you could have been born a courtier in 17th century japan an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:36 PM
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Stop simping and giving princess treatment to terrible women will do 10x more to solve the problem than tone policing angry women. People follow incentives. If only warm and kind women ever got relationships from men then we wouldn’t be here Too bad there are legions of male doormats and simps ready to scoop any passably attractive woman no matter how awfully she behaves towards him, and towards men generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:15 PM
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Attraction isnt fair. It isnt fair when a penguin spends all day fishing and providing for his family and comes home to find Chadguin busily rutting with what was formerly his mate. It isn’t fair when a bird of paradise gets edged out of the SMP by his rival who happened to be born with 2mm longer tail feather due to arbitrary mutation. Life, in general is not fair and there’s an undercurrent of harshness and brutality underlying everything that polite society chooses to avert it eyes from and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:57 PM
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Some people only enjoy monogamous sex. Honestly, i’d say it’s the majority of people 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:35 PM
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It works at work 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:35 AM
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Yea Op even the term “hook up” feels kind of diminishing to me, are we human beings with higher values and complex emotional landscape? or a fucking usb c cord? Not to say you should never embrace your animal instincts but sweaty intoxicated orgiastic std infested atavism with zero frontal lobe involvement doesnt appeal to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:34 AM
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I think the real point you’re making Op is that women are presumed to be right and manifesting emotional intelligence at all times while men are presumed to be wrong and acting out due to stunted self awareness and emotional un-intelligence — a subset of the “women are wonderful” effect mixed with some toxic gynocentric pop psychology that makes the rounds on social media and medium articles from time to time It’s really interesting to me the female bias that most pop media is subject to. I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:27 AM
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You can no longer control a woman overtly but if she becomes dissatisfied with her lot in life you will be held accountable and she will cheat on you and/or divorce you as though you WERE in control of her and are correspondingly responsible for the entirety of her negative experience I think that’s the point he’s making. I see this all is a dark corollary of the happy wife happy life mantra. The reality is, unhappy wife unhappy life, whether that unhappiness was a result of your failures as a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:16 AM
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Benevolent sexism is financially, socially advantageous to women so why wouldn’t they push it? Ethics? Lol. Consistency is the bogeyman of small minds, as they say. I feel your distress OP, but you are an island of moral and intellectual rigor in a vast sea of hypocrits, moral midgets, narcissists, IQlets and so on. That’s the actual problem that you have yet to face. Not the fact that a socially convenient movement became popular in spite of its obvious immorality. If that type of thing never h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:10 AM
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Yeah this is the dumbassey i unfortunately succumbed to and it cost me 14 years of life that i could have spent grinding, getting a nest egg financially, building various passion projects, forming social connections that could move me closer to my ideal life, etc On the other hand, my friend is doing everything right in life and refusing to settle for subpar women. He has no children, i have 3. It seems like biological success is somewhat intertwined with being a clingy, idiotic settler instead …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:04 AM
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Most men through history didnt breed so there’s nothing new here. Society has always various outlets like monasteries, the asthetic life, living off the grid, dying gloriously in war, becoming a bandit/revolutionary, eunuchs, etc Nowadays same concept exists its just vidya and porn, distract yourself until you die. Its not a bad life. You have absolute freedom to be as creative, intellectual, unambitious and leisurely as you want, you can even afford occasional prostitutes… Nothing crazy is goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:58 PM
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Time will tell, OP. Its going to be very interesting to see whether soul crushing shame based Chinese conformism or soul rotting Western hyper individualism/shameless self interest becomes the way of the future. Either way, the future’s gonna suck, but at least we get to see which variety of suck is better at winning world war 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:53 PM
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Nah, the realization that women are no better or worse than men morally speaking is counter balanced by simpdom. Simps will ensure women ensure massive privilege at all levels of society for generations to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:49 PM
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Yes. You are correct OP. I fully blame myself for being a fucking idiot and acting out of insecurity and loneliness and settling for the first woman who showed decent interest in me. Will never make the same mistake again. I have been working on myself for over a year now to be in peak physical, mental, emotional and financial shape, constantly align my behavior with my values, pursue my ambitions, and keep a strong spirit so that I have pride and confidence in myself, and therefore will not be …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:26 PM
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It’s just a reaction to being told “if you are unattractive to women then you are probably misogynist, insecure” or insert other shaming tactic, followed by “if you respected women more maybe you’d be more successful” If you only come into the conversation during the part where the accused man objects “but some dudes are douchebags and get pussy!” And don’t factor in the initial part of the convo where someone ELSE conflated attractiveness with good behavior. Then you will never get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:23 PM
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If it was ALWAYS a case of someone becoming blatantly unattractive maybe I could accept that but no. It’s usually some variation of midlife crisis -> i’m not haaaappy -> unreasonable expectations spring up like mushrooms as post hoc rationalization for falling out of love and betraying one’s partner -> cheating or abandoning them I don’t think anyone in the right mind would willingly settle for that kind of self serving highly conditional “love”, and yet a cursory examination of divorces reveals…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:16 PM
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Who says i am fantasizing about it? Im saying put your foot down and dont allow people to engage in sluttery using an extreme example, not advocating for it or describing it in detail. You seem incapable of separating rhetoric from things happening in real life around you which is sign of a mind incapable of abstraction. Probably shouldnt attempt to engage in debate if you are mentally limited
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:44 PM
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Its a thought experiment my dude. If we’re limited to only thinking about realistic scenarios then it becomes impossible to extract abstract principles. I also think if you have an unwillignness to even fathom the scenario that just proves my point that it’s inconceivable to allow
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 07:25 PM
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It doesn’t actually eliminate casual sex and sluts from what i hear, it’s just kept more hush hush. I think slut shaming only drives sluts underground just like abortion bans or anti drug laws. Im torn though because imagine your 16 yo daughter wants to fuck 10 guys at a party, you gonna be like “ok have fun just make sure you use protection?” Gtfo. We all instinctively know on some level that casual sex is risky, often degrading and probably an indicator of mental health problems when taken pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 07:07 PM
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You’re ignoring that going through most of your entire life with elevated testosterone is likely to produce permanent structural effects on the brain, just like how it effects bone structure such that a trans man still can’t broaden his shoulders or narrow his pelvis. A trans man still can’t fully become a man. Brutal truth, not trying to offend but there it is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 07:01 PM
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Survival of the fittest playing out in real time. Simps will eventually be weeded from the gene pool in a world where material contribution to a woman PRIOR to sexual access no longer has any positive effect on achieving said sexual access
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:59 PM
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I have a friend with a phD who listens to taraban a lot, although even he says “throw out the 30% where he’s wrong” The fundamental premise behind his vids are that women are materialist shallow and predatory. Its no different from RP imo it just has a defensive layer of over intellectualizing and “im just stating facts not whining” thrown on top. Nevertheless i think he raises interesting points that arent easily dismissed. Most women WILL leave a man if he stops providing money and most men wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:52 PM
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True for women like my ex wife, hopefully not true for all women, but even if it is there’s a counter play available: dont commit, and even when you do commit protect your assets so she has no material incentive to merely pretend to love you You can always just leave my bro
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:47 PM
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Idk i dont think either gender is feeling particularly happy right now. Are women really “happy” to be a corpo drone and imbibe 50 pumpkin lattes a month and consoom and go to the tourist trap area of designated travel destination #63 and snap photos for insta and just live life with no higher value other than obeying the social media brainworm? Stepford wife to the system and “i dont NEED no man” vibes are a little too much like spite-happiness to me, doesnt feel authentic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:44 PM
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My male friends look down on it, so i can only imagine how repellent the concept is to women. Nevertheless, i think its a valid approach for men being shunted out of the current hypercompetitive western dating market. Better a passport bro than an incel if those are your options
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:41 PM
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Too bad theres a competing evolutionary pressure causing men to ascend the social hierarchy by becoming gangster at STEM at the expense of other regions of the brain, like the part that makes you non autistic. Theres also huge evo pressure to become ADHD and irresponsible enough to have kids in a decaying late stage capitalist hellscape, even though ADHD also makes you awk The men of the future will universally have aspergers and constantly babbling about their special interest in AI theory and …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:38 PM
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Yeah i agree. And sadly ive seen the logic work in the other direction. My friend, who has a 6 pack and in fantastic shape for his age, married an obese woman out of his own insecurity thinking she would appreciate him more than an attractive woman. It did not work out for him. It just meant having 2 people in the relationship carrying mental issues and self hate, and she chose to take hers out on him and treats him horribly. He had 2 panic attacks this year because she does things like destroy …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:35 PM
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I kinda disagree OP, if a woman is TOO casual about having sex then it indicates her values are misaligned with mine. Sex should be special and require a degree of emotional intimacy. Its just like i probably would not be a good match for a woman with 100s of friends. I prefer to have a few close friends and develop deep, lasting relationships with them. Social butterflies keep everything necessarily superficial, there’s no time to truly focus on or get to know others. If a woman is “over social…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:29 PM
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OP, men and women were never meant to be married the way they are in modern society. This all came about because of the overwhelming importance of private property in agrarian and capitalist societies in which questionable paternity becomes a reason for inheritance battles, feuds and civil wars. In a state of nature, among primates and early tribes the closest you’ll get is serial or temporary monogamy. Life was too violent and unpredictable to support more than that anyway. Men and women aren’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:23 PM
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Nah i didnt date for 7 years after my ex died because the dating scene felt too shallow and predatory for me. I then met my (now ex) wife and while yes, it did matter to me that she was physically attractive to me the real reason i married her was probably due to my own loneliness and unrealistic idealism and not anything to do with her. Im at a stage in life now where i built up a friend circle of honorable ambitious fun loving men, mended relationships w my family, found a fulfilling well payi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:08 PM
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Lmao fair point i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:15 PM
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Im proud of you bro. Find success the right way, dont settle for the dregs of society
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:38 PM
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You’re literally just describing mammalian sexuality. All males (except in weird species like sea horses, or species where rape is the default) HAVE to perform to gain access to females. That’s how it works, women have to birth offspring which is time consuming, resource intensive and personally dangerous for her. They are the bottleneck, therefore the gatekeeper. Ofc a man doesnt care if a woman “performs” for him because he can knock up 3 other women in an afternoon. The question is - are you …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:35 PM
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It isnt about sexual or relational value, its about a growing disparity in baseline unhappiness/anxiety and what it would theoretically take to “cure” that unhappiness Men are increasingly content with the world (outside of their decreasing ability to get women). There is abundant porn, vidya, etc to provide endless dopamine. Survival needs are met by default. There are no wars to get drafted into. Toxic masculinity, bullying, interpersonal violence have decreased, you dont have to fistfight you…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:26 PM
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Ok bro got it just change the entire western culture and i’ll be able to get my dick wet after that Brb in 200 years after i successfully roll back centuries of anti sex puritanism and capitalist atomization of society
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:15 PM
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On the other hand OP, the demographic that society privileges tends to become weaker and stupider over time. Thats why all of history is a giant circlejerk of “elite group of warriors arise, take power, set their descendants up as kings and aristocrats, aristocracy becomes weak and effete and is toppled by a new group of elite warriors” Most recently the pattern has been among social strata rather than bloodlines (nobility toppled by bourgeoisie, who are toppled by workers, who are toppled by a …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:07 PM
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Its not crazy, its just hard to process for people who see everything through a moral lens whereas in reality many things like attraction fall into the amoral bucket Not to say mate choice has no moral implications, just that morality has basically no predictive power when it comes to mate choice, whereas hierarchy (which man would dominate a room, which man would form and lead the biggest strongest gang if society collapsed and survival of the fittest took over) has almost 100% predictive power…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:56 PM
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Idk i think its just fun to have emotional connection and explore your bodies with a fellow human. I think the driving motivator for most casual sex is “lets have some fun”. I think casual sex is not very good in most cases though. You need time to really feel each other out and learn each other dos and donts. Peak sex involves intimacy, knowledge, trust etc. You also need to not resent each other or be bored with each other which is unfortunately where most relationships end up after years of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:53 PM
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It was always like that because in our evolutionary past the genetically mediocre men would die off leaving a 1:3 male female ratio and that roughly corresponds to modern involuntary celibacy rates among men Life has ALWAYS sucked for men, if anything it sucks less now because at least you can play vidya and cope online instead of getting your head bashed in by Chadgar
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:51 PM
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Limb lengthening surgery and tren are basic competence standards for men in 2025
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:48 PM
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Idk OP i dont think the degenderization of society into interchangeable widgets in service of the globalist capitalist machine was necessarily a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:47 PM
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Life becomes so much more straightforward when you realize moral capacity exists on a bell curve just like IQ. Some people are just born dumber (harsh but true) and some people are born with a lower capacity to feel empathy, introspect, etc. A lot of pillosphere discussion on the internet is people with higher baseline morality arguing with their counterparts in the opposite gender, not realizing the fact that most of problems being described revolve around a strata of dumber, less moral people …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:36 PM
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