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HVM are not controlling and insecure. Those traits automatically make men LV
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:56 AM
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picking an arbitrary weight that all women, regardless of height or body composition, 'should' stay under is stupid. Most of the time men suck at guessing women's weights anyway. (I'm 5'5 and ~140 lbs, not fat, and people think I look like a teenager at age 27, inb4 the "you must be fat/old looking/bitter" comments roll in.)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:21 PM
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He's kind of ugly-cute. Like, masculine but not in a pretty way, safe looking, nice smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:15 PM
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are you unsure about her virginity, or the likelihood of dating her? Are you virginal?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:02 PM
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why don't you just ask the women you're considering dating what their thoughts on casual sex are, and not date the casual sex havers?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:57 PM
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and there are still men who fantasize that such women will be so overcome with lust for them that they'll have enthusiastic, shameless sex within the firSt three dates, and the sex will just automatically be amazing despite the woman's inexperience, and ten years later they'll get married and still have sex 8+ times a week, even while she's popping out their multiple kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:50 PM
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okay, but *how* are you 'calling them out?' are you going 'omg you're so selfish/super jealous for no reason/disrespectful,etc.?" Or, are you saying things like, "I would really appreciate it if you considered me more when you're doing xyz" or "I'm not a cheater, and you're super important to me. Can you tell me where your jealousy is coming from?" Or "I feel disrespected when you..." Btw, a 'few but serious issues' make somebody incompatible with you. Stop picking people like that. There are pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:45 AM
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you've never had a romantic partner apologize to you? Maybe you just have a bad picker. And your sample size is 3? That's not enough to generalize to a whole gender. Also, if you always hold in your feelings and constructive criticisms, why would you expect your partners to change or understand how you're feeling? Nobody is going to read your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:36 AM
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personality is definitely not the same as moral character. Moral character carries a judgement value, where the traits make someone 'good' or 'bad.' Personality includes things like introversion vs extraversion, for example, and it's not inherently good or bad to be introverted or extraverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:27 PM
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What was the criteria for 'unattractive women?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 01:15 PM
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there's a good chance she will not respect the man who simps, which means she won't be attracted to him. But she can get one no proble
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:37 AM
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I found sex work to be very empowerimg. I paid for two years of college that way. It was fun and easy and exciting. The men I picked as clients and sugar daddies were very kind to me. I didnt see it as men using or objectifying my body, but instead as me providing them a service. everything was on my terms, not theirs. I had them provide STD results and use condoms every time, and so I never caught anything or had to deal with unwanted pregnancy. It's not like it used to be, where women had no c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:33 AM
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if she's taken care of herself and still looks good, she'll likely still find that provider type.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:24 AM
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again, it's the *ability* to do those things that is empowering. Sex work is not for everyone, I agree. But there's no woman harmed from there being less societal shame surrounding sex, even if they aren't having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:19 AM
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not rape, but sexual coercion
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:13 AM
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the ability to capitalize on sex and have it casually without shame IS empowering though... But plastic surgery is becoming a pandemic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:11 AM
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the *good* men are above women. There are certainly weak, dumb, irresponsible, panicky, poorly-in-bed, etc. men in existence. Though, all men suck at gestation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:32 PM
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Yes. I'm not gonna make him do things he doesn't like, regardless of what he did in the past. I'd just go make friends who like to ski, or go alone
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:37 PM
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Gonna solve the "are trans women real women?" debate once and for all
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:34 PM
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If she didn’t like doing those kinky things whatever. But if she did it dozens of times with a different guy and not me there’s an issue would you ask her why, or would you just assume she's not as into you as she was into that guy? And would you believe her answer? If my partner likes skiing and I say “ehhh well I don’t wanna ski, I used to ski a ton with my ex but only did that because she wanted me to, I didn’t really like it” 90% of people, not even just women would get insecure that you’d d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:31 PM
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Dunno. Wanna try it and report back?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:22 PM
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If we were still maintaining our current lifestyle, I'd be really pleased with that. His current stress level is affecting his health. I'm sure he'd spend more time with his kids,
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:14 PM
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the point is, maybe there's a reason for the preference change that has nothing to do with how into her partner she is, but many men make that assumption anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:56 PM
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This would be my reason as well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:53 PM
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(the Stanley cup is the thing that belongs to the Penguins, right?)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:51 PM
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either your dog has a fear of men, or he's picking up a bad vibe and you should throw the whole man away
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:48 PM
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> I just think that if a woman likes you enough, she'll indulge your kinks that she isn't interested in by herself but wouldn't mind enacting with you. I just don't think that part is necessarily true
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:44 PM
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I have half sisters but they're all either overweight or underage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:41 PM
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Most people kinda start taking out what they are into before they go deep into a relationship (that’s what all that talking and texting on dates is all about- figure if things out That's what I'm talking about; dudes assuming the women they are dating aren't into them when they decline kinky things instead of that the women just aren't into the kinks. And you really want to be with a guy who is so insecure he’s thinking about what other men have done sexually with you and getting jealous? Of cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:40 PM
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what I'm saying is that it goes 'she doesn't want to do this sex act with me' --> 'shes not that into me, Not "shes not that into me" --> she doesn't want to do this sex act with me' The latter makes sense in most situations. The former is illogical to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:34 PM
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idk, I'm just imagining a couple who has been dating for a while and the dude suggests something kinky and the woman declines and doesn't automatically say that she's just not adventurous, and the dude doesn't ask, and then he breaks up with her because he thinks "she'd do it for Chad" or something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:29 PM
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>It's just that when a woman is more into you the more she's willing to try things out that she might be a little "ehh I don't know" about because she wants to please him. Yeah, that's the assumption I'm talking about. It's not 'oh, she just knows what she likes/dislikes,' or 'she has firm sexual boundaries and isn't adventurous,' it's 'she isn't into me.' and I dont get it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:20 PM
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what if they're just not sexually adventurous? andso they're just not willing to try, but they still like the dude
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:15 PM
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maybe it gave her gastrointestinal problems
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:14 PM
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why tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:11 PM
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what if they're just vanilla in general? Not everyone is into 'crazy'
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:10 PM
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So if a woman only wanted vanilla sex with you, but you learn she's done kinkythings with previous partners,you would assume she likes you less than them... Instead of, idk, that she didn't enjoy the kinky things, or perhaps, that her preferences just changed over time?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:08 PM
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It seems like men often believe that the more into a man a woman is, the more likely she is to do kinkier things with him… Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 05:00 PM
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nah. I get all the argumentativeness out here so I can be submissive and agreeable to my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:51 PM
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slut velocity of more than 20 in any given year would have me asking questions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:26 PM
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right; what the common prejudice boils down to is a difference in preference, not any logical reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:56 PM
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what's wrong with a 40 yo dating an 18 yo if it's consensual, they're both adults, and no abuse is happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:36 PM
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it's actually called "bias," or "prejudice," and those things are very often influenced by the media we consume
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:34 PM
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male validation/attention seeking
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:26 PM
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if you believe that the generalizations (aka prejudice) are wrong, then why is there a reason to follow some arbitrary math equation when selecting a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:23 PM
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my husband is 52, and we've been together for 8 years...I wouldn't say that he's lost libido, but he is very tired most nights, and he often falls asleep before we have a chance for sex. (But, I'm 27, and I feEl that way too, lol. I guess it's more a function of having kids?)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:19 PM
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Women 100% created this through their own aggregate behavior. So you're judging all women, whom you haven't 'experienced' or with whom you haven't interacted, based on... What, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:13 PM
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when I lived in apartments, I went down to meet them if I was able. But I know from delivering food that many people expect you to come to their door.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:08 PM
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Nope. The divorce rate is 45%-- that means that 45% of marriages end in divorce. That doesn't mean a given couple has a 45% *chance* of divorcing.They might have a 0.01% chance, and they most likely end up as part of the 55% of marriages that don't end in divorce. Whereas another couple might have a 98% chance of divorce, and end up as part of the 45% of marriages that do end in divorce. Yet another couple might have a 70% chance, and still end up staying married for life. The divorce rate is si…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:43 PM
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HOCK
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 11:06 PM
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Population level statistics don’t apply to individual scenarios. The risk of my marriage ending in divorce is not the same as every other marriage, because there are a ton of other factors that go into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:54 PM
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Staying married to a wealthier man is always more financially beneficial than divorcing him. When married, all of the assets are owned by both spouses (unless otherwise specified in a signed and notarized legal document.) When divorced, the most you can get is 50% of the assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:50 PM
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The surviving spouse gets 50% in absence of a will if the couple has children
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:28 PM
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I don’t know what that means in the context of this conversation. You seem to be implying that people are getting married with the intention of making it difficult for their partners to leave, and I was positing that the thought process amongst couples who get married, rather, is that it’s already easy to stay together, and so they want to receive the benefits of marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:24 PM
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I don’t think it’s a “good” statistic at all; but it’s definitely better than 70% Marriage has always meant lifelong commitment to me, at least on my part. Either way, even if you get divorced, you benefit from marriage during the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:17 PM
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yep. People are being more careful, it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:14 PM
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>If the logic is, "I want to make it as difficult and expensive as possible for you to leave in order to compel you to stay", then marriage makes all kinds of sense. The logic is “I intend to spend the rest of my life with you, and you feel the same way, so let’s make that intention ‘official’ in the eyes of the government in order to be seen and treated as a unit”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:12 PM
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In the US, the divorce rate has actually fallen to around 45%
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:01 PM
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dicks definitely all feel different
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:55 PM
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dicks definitely all feel different
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:55 PM
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Even if it seemed convincing to the man, I still think men are easily convinced… outside of personal experience, when do men ever experience women having great sex and orgasming? And how many men have lots of that experience? Most of men’s idea of what the female orgasm looks like comes from porn, which is all fake. That’s why it’s easy for women to fake it, because we just replicate men’s expectations. Maybe she just stopped faking it, and her real orgasms were less theatric. >No guy could deal…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:18 PM
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Weak jaw. Needs to lift
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:00 PM
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Maybe she was acting. Lots of women fake orgasms all the time. And there is such a thing as being too big. Even if it was true that their sex is not as good, a secure man would try to figure out how he can be better, not become so… down trodden that he leaves her and cant fuck her anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:57 PM
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is it really inconceivable that what a person likes during sex can change over time? Or that someone could gain the self respect needed to stop chasing after someone who clearly isn’t as into her as she is to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:44 PM
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just sounds like PMS to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:36 PM
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bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:21 AM
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No. What I’m saying is, marriage is a life-long commitment, and so you should pick a spouse who has the same libido as you in order to mitigate the risk of a dead bedroom, and agrees on non-monogamy if you don’t think you could not-cheat long enough to work through a dead bedroom in the event it does occur. Otherwise… marriage isn’t for you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:25 AM
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did you read the part about picking your spouse carefully so that doesn't happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:09 AM
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Rachel Oates, although I'm more tradfem than feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:13 PM
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Honestly, I think you’re just wasting your own time and hurting your own feelings by not being upfront with your expectations. You can just say “I just wanna let you know from the get-go, that I’m not a person who talks to, dates, or sleeps with multiple people at once. If you’re not the same way, we probably shouldn’t be talking.” The vast majority of people will either understand and end the relationship there, or they’ll feel the same way and you’ll have no issues. Expecting to be lied to all…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:58 PM
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So… essentially, you didn’t tell her you expected celibacy from her during this phase, and you felt lied to and betrayed when she… didn’t read your mind? Then accused her of lying by omission? And also you expect women to lie to you regardless… sounds like you have some personal growth and healing to do before you go looking for a relationship, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:41 PM
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I’m gonna say we’ll just have to agree to disagree, cuz I’m trying to avoid personal attack territory…Believing that no one is entitled to decency gives major anti social vibes, and obviously people, as social animals, respond accordingly to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:36 PM
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see the rest of this thread for my response to this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:31 PM
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Did you communicate with her that you would like to know if she has sex with others while you’re talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:19 PM
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No, I have to disagree. We are entitled via morality to decent treatment from other beings, which includes fidelity from romantic partners... and while there may be no legal consequences to indecency to others, there are generally social consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:12 PM
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To me, “fidelity” means being loyal to your partner, supporting them, and acting in a way to preserve their trust and happiness, because when you love someone, you’re made happier when they’re happy. With that in mind, fidelity looks different from couple to couple, because different people are made unhappy by different acts/scenarios. For example, some heterosexual people are uncomfortable with their partners having opposite-sex friendships, and/or spending time alone together, and have their p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:48 PM
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right. It's a commitment to work through challenges in order to continue meeting each other's needs and to make each other happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:29 PM
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I don’t think anyone should enter into any kind of committed relationship, let alone marriage, if they can’t be faithful to their partner. Even if “fidelity” for you looks like non monogamy within relationships, that still means agreeing to it ahead of time as a means of avoiding hurting people. Hurting people is immoral and there’s no reason to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:19 PM
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So, I am a married woman. I do my best not to deny my husband sex (of course, there are times when I’m sick, or bleeding, or injured where sex isn’t really feasible.) On the rare occasion when I’m “just not in the mood,” and he is, I consent and participate in sex with my husband anyway, because I end up enjoying it, and I'm glad afterwards. He does the same for me, with the same mentality. I also don’t mind if he sleeps with other women, if he feels inclined, simply because it’s never bothered …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:06 PM
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her name is Nona; she's a rocker with a nose ring. She wears a two-way but I'm not quite sure what that means
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:43 PM
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nothing is ever really a meritocracy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:38 PM
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was she really even hiding it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:34 PM
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sounds effective, ig
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:41 PM
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>It leads to the objectification of women Only if you *already* see sex as men using women’s bodies as opposed to men and women having sex *with one another*. >to the normalization of a lack of commitment Idk, I guess? But not everyone wants to be in a committed relationship. It’s good for there to be options for still getting your sexual needs met. There are all kinds of people looking for all kinds of situations. And the cool thing is, oftentimes casual relationships develop into long term one…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:35 PM
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what was the number?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:00 PM
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How many relationships would you want a potential partner to have had before dating her? And how long do they have to be to count as serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:54 PM
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how do you find out, though? Just asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:44 PM
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Bruh, if you really love someone, you don’t do things to hurt them. You’re not ambivalent as to whether they leave or stay
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:37 PM
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When somebody says they’ll do something and then they don’t, and they do something they know will hurt you, you can’t trust them anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:58 PM
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Because it hurts people and destroys the foundation of trust in any relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:27 PM
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The way I see it is that men do have to put in more work than women, so for that reason we should be able to fuck around more. Everyone should be allowed to have as many partners as they want without societal shame. More sex for all. But intentionally deceiving others, and not making good on your promises to be monogamous, are just shitty things to do regardless of gender. You don’t have to settle down with one person at all, if you don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:50 PM
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Is that expensive? How long is the recovery? Risk of complications?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:43 PM
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Doesn’t embarrassment predominantly stem from worrying about what others think of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:32 PM
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It’s okay for your therapist to see you stim, you know. They’re supposed to be able to read your body language and ask you why you’re feeling what you’re feeling when you’re talking about certain topics, so they can help you navigate those feelings. S/he isn’t going to go “look at this weirdo stimming; I don’t want to hang out with him anymore.” That’s not their purpose. They don’t judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:17 PM
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I will
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:13 PM
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Sugar, vanilla, and holiday memories
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:12 PM
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Yeah fuck being the starter girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:04 PM
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I think a lot of celebrities get a fame and make up halo, at least facially. If I saw a (barefaced Zendaya){https://www.pinterest.com/pin/775815473306060310/} and I didn’t know who she was, I’d probably give her a 5 or a 6. She is slender though, so that probably ups the overall rating. Same way with like, Jason Momoa. I don’t think his face is actually all that attractive, although he has a hot body.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:54 PM
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I like it when my husband has his glasses on. They make him look cute and nerdy. For some people, glasses really make them more attractive. But for most, they’re going to be more widely marketable without glasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:49 PM
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There are probably fewer men who are low libido than women who are low libido, but maybe that’s because women are on hormonal BC and shamed into sexual repression so much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:47 PM
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Okay. Cakes are in the oven. Kitchen is destroyed. But they smell fucking delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:46 PM
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What are you getting done?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:45 PM
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So it just come across as incredibly insensitive to tell people who struggle immensely and have tried to improve themselves in many ways something like this: "have you also done this and that? you need to work harder and put more effort!" But that’s the truth. They do need to put in more work. Does it suck? Yes. Is it fair? No. But that’s what needs to happen before they have success. If they wanted it to be sugar coated, they can go into blue pill dating subs and get told some bullshit like “ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:43 PM
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Don’t get leg lengthening surgery; it fucks up your ability to walk and leaves you in pain for the rest of your life. There are plenty of short men who still get sex and relationships. Idk what you look like so I can’t say whether plastic surgery would be worthwhile or not, but there are still sooo many other ways to improve before going there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:37 PM
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There’s not enough time in a lifetime to try literally everything when it comes to the factors that influence attractiveness. You say you’ve tried a lot of things, but to say that you’ve tried “everything” is just incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:27 PM
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The only thing you can do if you were given crappy circumstances is work hard to get out of them. The world isn’t fair and it’s never going to be, no matter how much complaining anyone does about the unfairness. We don’t know the circumstances of anyone who posts here saying they can’t get sex or relationships. The only way to know exactly what their issue is with regards to sex and dating is to know them as people IRL, and evaluate what they look like, how they live, how they are with the oppos…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:02 PM
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Good for you, and I’m happy to hear that you’re on a path forward. Therapy is not easy, but it’s worth it 🫂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:40 PM
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Whatever you say. You always insist that nothing bad ever happens to women and that it’s always their own fault. I have no idea what your problem is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:35 PM
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It’s not their “job,” no, but it’s what friends are supposed to do for one another. Also, we don’t know if she “drank until she fell down and passed out.” People do get drugged and sexually assaulted sometimes. That’s why it’s wise to go out with friends who actually care about you and look out for you. You know, watch your drink while you go to the bathroom and make sure you come back after a reasonable amount of time and go looking for you if you don’t, and don’t let a stranger haul you off if…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:19 PM
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It’s subjective, and that’s why early termination vs carrying to term is a personal choice. The way I would define it is: I can provide the child with a home in a safe location, and a stable, loving family. I can feed him/her nutritious foods, clothe him/her in appropriate clothing, and can afford healthcare. I have enough time and energy to give the child the attention s/he needs. I can provide him/her with enriching experiences. I have the means to find sufficient, temporary substitute care fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:12 PM
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You should if you can’t give them adequate parenting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:45 PM
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She had a rape kit come back confirming assault
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:36 PM
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Idk, sex is good and all that, but sometimes people just want an orgasm without having to deal with anyone else… I’m kind of anti-porn in general, but having more sex isn’t really the end-all be-all solution to reducing porn consumption
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:33 PM
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You shouldn’t measure the success or failure of parents by the child’s career choice. The goal is to raise healthy, well-adjusted individuals with as few parent issues as possible. There is a shit ton of research out there on how different parenting methods affect children’s physical health and psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:31 PM
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You should strive to have a wealthy husband regardless of your future income :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:28 PM
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That’s the best way for men to assess their performance: does she want it again?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:22 PM
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Nor do I think you should say anything to her. BUT research shows that children are basically meant to breastfeed for at least two years
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:17 PM
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Apparently they didn’t notice soon enough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:15 PM
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I mean, the baby will be fine, but like I said, that’s definitely not ideal. Not for attachment nor breastfeeding
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:23 AM
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Hell, once I went out drinking by myself (not safe, I know) and I made acquaintances with this trans chick, and she followed me to the next club just to make sure I got there safely cuz I was definitely drunk, and then promptly left… you’re onto something with this scenario for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:18 AM
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Women shouldn’t be away from their babies unless they’re a danger to them. Children need their mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:04 AM
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It is pretty messed up if her friends didn’t notice she was drugged and missing for part of the night
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:03 AM
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Wouldn’t bother me as I don’t like to watch sports either. As long as he lifted and looked good, I wouldn’t care whether he plays or played sports
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:59 AM
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No. That would cause economic collapse
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:51 AM
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Congrats! That’s a big milestone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:50 AM
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No :( I was sick at the beginning of the week and then I injured my back
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:44 AM
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If you don’t have an induction scheduled… just keep in mind that you could end up going another 3 weeks. I got my hopes up and went to 42 weeks and that was mentally rough
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:41 AM
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You don’t think it’s gender dependent?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 01:35 AM
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I think fragrance is the thing that you want to apply
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:43 AM
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7 is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:29 AM
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Nah, they need to lift, or at least do some sort of manual work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 12:25 AM
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I was doing my best to make it so that each option had one good thing going for it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:53 PM
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I remember them as being a sickly yellowish hazel color
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:41 PM
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Why does the average man deserve this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:24 PM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzPNbfyPQ1L/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== Yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:22 PM
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Me. Beast deserves all of those standards though. He’s wildly successful, does hella charity work, and not ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:16 PM
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Momoa is facially ugly but ruggedmaxxed, and he’s got a hot body
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:11 PM
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Do you think there’s a discrepancy in what women think “fat,” “overweight,” and “obese” look like vs what men think?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:10 PM
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That was my babysitter in elementary school… flip phones were okay as long as they had a full keyboard. Having to press each button 3 times was annoying AF. Took like 5 minutes to type a sentence ETA: and you had to use a computer to access the internet; couldn’t just google things or bank or post to social media on your phone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 11:01 PM
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So you just like the skinny hourglass
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:55 PM
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Q4M: describe/show pictures of your idea of a good female body and a bad female body
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:48 PM
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Part of charisma is getting women to talk to you. Having attractive body language, using the right opener, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:47 PM
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So you don’t ever talk to women, is what you’re telling me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:42 PM
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Maybe it is your charisma then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:38 PM
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No? Why would anyone do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:34 PM
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Good body
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:33 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:32 PM
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Trapezoid is the best
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:29 PM
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Heavily muscled, 12-15% body fat. Thicc midsection (not Dorito shaped). Proportionate legs Something like this, but with slightly bigger legs https://imgur.com/a/3EyZJPx ETA: bad body: fat or too skinny, too roided (bubble gut, looking inhuman, paper cut could take you out, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:27 PM
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Just ask him why he’s letting the kid boss him around. See what he says
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:23 PM
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Most women picked the option with the best body. (It’s probably the not best polling practice, but.) Further, most women would prefer an above average face AND above average body, but that wasn’t the point of the question. Also, are women able to see your body, or are you only around them when you’re clothed?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 10:22 PM
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I feel like those are the women who like their men better with clothes on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:46 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:40 PM
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So either the slut or the one that treats you right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:39 PM
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My little polls confirm my hypothesis that body is the most important aspect of men’s appearance, and all men really want is for women to be nice to them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:38 PM
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That’s unfortunate. I’d love it if my husband got hit on in front of me. I like when others confirm that I got a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:36 PM
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I definitely am. I suck at drinking water
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:27 PM
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Oh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:23 PM
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He keeps popping out babies
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:20 PM
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But if you had to pick?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:19 PM
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This is why I specified that you have to pick between A, B, or C. Obviously none of them are ideal, but I want to know which of these aspects are most important to you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:17 PM
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Q4M: If you had to pick between the following women, which would you choose? A) high n count, above average looks, treats you moderately well, B) low n count, average looks, treats you moderately well, C) medium n count, average looks, treats you exceptionally well (Whatever those terms mean to you personally (with “average looks” being your personal 5), and for the sake of the hypothetical, she can’t improve on looks)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:05 PM
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How old are you now? And how many kids are you supporting?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:58 PM
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Whichever body type gives you the most ick, and it can’t be fixed for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:56 PM
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So you’d go with B then, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:55 PM
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By your standards. Bad body in a way that can’t be fixed with the gym or diet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:53 PM
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I’d pick B personally
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:52 PM
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Q4W: If you had to pick one of the following men to date, which would you choose? A) Tall man, but bad body, mid face B) Short man, good body, mid face C) Mid height man, bad body, good face ETA: all of them are slangin’
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 08:22 PM
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I have never been asked to split the bill ETA: I was reading over the comments and the whole “I pay half so he doesn’t expect sex” is so… strange to me? Firstly because had sex with most people who took me on dates just because I liked sex, but secondly because… if you don’t want to fuck him, just don’t fuck him ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:59 PM
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What’s the dotted line for? Feels unnecessary The age preferences make sense. There’s no reason to be upset about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:41 PM
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Because that’s what gets us ahead the most in life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:36 PM
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“I have female privilege and I don’t like it”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:35 PM
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There are good men and there are bad ones and you don’t know which are which until the bad ones are bad to you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:30 PM
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19
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:27 PM
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I’m glad my child isn’t that ugly. But I’m sure it’s beautiful to its pigeon parents
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:25 PM
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Are you expecting the women who get it to go crusading for sexless men in attempt to explain it to more women, or…?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:22 PM
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That can happen to men, too. Men get raped less often, but beat up and robbed more
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:21 PM
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I see some penises and I think they’re really aesthetic and sexually attractive, but most of them aren’t. I see some very neat looking vaginas and I think “that one doesn’t inspire disgust”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:18 PM
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I don’t think it’s really healthy for people under 18 to be having sex either way, if that’s any consolation to you. But I know what you mean by feeling like you missed out; I’m still going on certain dates with my husband currently in order to make up for what I missed as a young teen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:17 PM
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It’s just a fact of life. You either cash in on your maximum SMV and youth early, or you trade it for other things and just do the best you can. It’s not worth crying over if you’ve unknowingly or accidentally chosen the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:14 PM
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What an evil person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:12 PM
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Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:11 PM
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My definition of broke is like, living paycheck to paycheck, having to budget everything, not being able to just do something you want to do or buy something you really want occasionally. You know, struggling. It strange that you consider letting others provide for you “slavery,” but not working for strangers who give you a lot less choice and freedom and have you do much less pleasant things for a much longer period of time. I’ve had shitty minimum wage jobs, and I’ve gone on dates with men who…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:10 PM
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I don’t really think that’s true. Everyone wants love and connection, regardless of gender. Most people want sex too. This painting of women craving commitment but not sex and men wanting the opposite is not that accurate in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:04 PM
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It’s more taking advantage of an opportunity, rather than a person. If men are wanting and willing to give you nice things, sometimes even insistent upon it, why is it wrong to accept them? Imma let people be nice to me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:03 PM
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My claim was never that I saved enough money for this lifestyle by not paying for dinner; it was that avoiding paying for dinner is how you avoid being broke. My lifestyle is just an example of “work smarter, not harder.” I don’t have much money and I don’t work. But these things are provided to me, so what reason is there to “work more hours?” And, despite what women will try to tell you, it doesn’t take that much effort to arrange and get ready for dates. You just pull up your app, swipe on a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:19 PM
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Not really. There are lots of women who are feminists and egalitarians who are willing to go 50/50. If enough men decided not to pay for dinner dates, that would stop being the expectation. Women would have to go 50/50, or they would be the ones going without.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:11 PM
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I live in a million dollar home in a similarly wealthy neighborhood that’s has like, everything you could want within a 20 minutes drive, but is simultaneously surrounded by natural lands. I drive a new Tesla, and I have no grocery budget. We could eat out (or order in) whenever we want. We go on trips and vacations a few times a year. My child will go to one of the highest rated school districts in the country. That kind of thing. Not elite, but extremely comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:51 PM
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Men are reducing their fertility by checks notes strapping their balls to their body. Other men are simply refusing to ejaculate, many of them only for the month of November, however. People’s parents are having sex. Old lonely people are reluctantly agreeing to sex with catfish. Women are dangling the false promise of sex to men who will feed them, and there is outrage over it. Also, if you feel anxious or like something might be wrong, apparently you should just ignore it and manifest happines…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:42 PM
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(or they are being obviously hypocritical). That’s what I’m getting at
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:34 PM
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I’m not arguing this further with you. I don’t ever “think I might be unhappy.” I’m either happy or unhappy. If I’m feeling unhappy, I’m gonna figure out why, whether the source of that unhappiness is internal or external, and I’m gonna fix it. I’m not just gonna gaslight myself into ignoring it. You’re on some weird shit, dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:33 PM
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I just don’t think it makes sense for men to be angry about women taking advantage of it. If men were in women’s shoes, they’d do the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:30 PM
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Have you ever heard the phrase, “work smarter, not harder?” If you go on a different date every night, that’s one less meal you have to pay for yourself. If you eat 3 meals a day, that’s cutting your grocery bill by a third. If you’re smart, you can invest those savings and multiply them. I don’t have a job, and yet, all my needs are provided to me. My life is extremely comfortable, and I didn’t have to “work more hours” to finance it all. Why should I, when I have the option not to?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:29 PM
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Healthy people in healthy relationships are capable of self-reflection, effective communication, and peaceful conflict resolution. Constantly telling yourself “there’s nothing wrong and all relationships are imperfect and I should just shut up and be happy” is a recipe for misery, not happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:24 PM
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Like I said, you should seek to collect objective data about whether the alarm bells are true or false, when they start going off. If you go looking for something wrong and you can’t find anything, then you know you’re just being anxious. (But also, that’s a sign that something deeper is going on inside of yourself that could use some fixing. Why are you anxious for no discernible reason?)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:18 PM
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I’m talking about things like foodie calls. Men will buy women dinner on dates because that’s just what kind of culture we’ve built. And if someone’s willing to do that for you, why wouldn’t you take advantage of it? Men are mad about women just being humans, when their gender is the source of the privilege in the first place. And yeah, the underlying biological mechanism is that men want to reproduce with women, and by buying her dinner it signals to her lizard brain that he can provide for her…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:16 PM
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Yes, if you had bad feelings about anything, you ought to figure out the source of those bad feelings, or something bad can happen to you. If you’re happy in your relationship but you get a bad feeling, maybe you’re more observant, and you notice something like your partner putting their phone face down on the table instead of face up, putting it on silent/turning off banner notification, tilting it away from you when they’re looking at it, etc., that’s cause to think they’re hiding something fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:09 PM
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The “wage gap” is a direct result of women working less as a result of being the childbearers and primary childcare providers (which, in reality, is a natural, biological privilege.)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:01 PM
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Ignoring an “off” feeling is how bad shit happens to you. When it happens, you gotta keep your eyes peeled for an opportunity to address it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:57 PM
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This does happen, but on the other hand, women also do things like bake men birthday cakes and sit on their lap and such and men still think they’re just being friendly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:56 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:55 PM
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A lot of men are very bitter about women taking advantage of female privilege. But what they fail to consider is that men are the ones who give us female privilege in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:54 PM
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Was it well written, at least?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:51 PM
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Why pay for food if you don’t have to? That’s how you avoid being broke
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:49 PM
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It’s like an insatiable compulsion but if you hit a the part of the wound that’s deepest and still healing, it’s like you unearth a bit of hell
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:47 PM
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Oh man 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:17 AM
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I ain’t trusting anybody who’s fucking with my car
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:56 AM
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Regardless of whether she was sex trafficked, she was still a victim of kidnapping and murder (not sure if she was raped or if her abductor was intent on raping her; that’s unclear from the story) but like… does it matter? Nobody wants that to happen to them. There is still reason to be vigilant and contact authorities if your car’s been tampered with. Somebody can do whatever they want with you after you’re abducted
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:54 AM
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I mean, even if he’s got a 3 incher instead of a button mushroom, that’s still like… more difficult to “work with”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:47 AM
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Okay, so I found this, which is a situation where a woman was kidnapped by a stranger by being shoved into his vehicle, and she’s violently abused: https://www.ladbible.com/news/woman-warning-x-marked-car-294092-20221219 It doesn’t have anything to do with the zip ties, BUT it does show that women do get abducted by strangers. I’m not sure how reputable of a source this is, but this one mentions “experts” explaining how burglars mark houses: https://www.ladbible.com/news/woman-warning-x-marked-c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:46 AM
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Very few women survive that sort of situation to be able to report on how it happened. Even fewer are able to talk about it publicly, because they’re so traumatized. But I’ll go looking for published stories in a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:16 AM
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What do you mean, “not real?” If there’s a nonzero chance of something really terrible happening to you, that’s a real risk. And anyway, the people Possum is defending are only the criminals who got caught
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:07 AM
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Ah. You can only see chat on the app, and I can only use Reddit on an internet browser
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:01 AM
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It’s hard to get good studies and data on this kind of thing. Very few report how long the studies run, or report the findings in a neutral way, or take into account that every time someone cheats, their n count goes up. They also don’t ask people why they cheat, and can’t establish a causal relationship between n count and cheating, even though people love to make that assumption. For example, the most commonly cited one here (the one done by The Family Institute) spaces out people with n count…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:54 AM
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Finally, a study not from The Family Institute
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:39 AM
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😏
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:35 AM
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Yes, in every interpretation of that question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:33 AM
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Oh, do you have that kink too?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:32 AM
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I don’t think that makes people more likely to cheat, tbh. At some point, casual sex becomes boring, and isn’t as good as intimate sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:32 AM
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Obviously not every woman who ever goes out alone becomes a victim, but that’s a risky thing to do because you don’t have someone to immediately notice your absence. Someone could drug you and wait for you to pass out and pretend to be your friend taking you home, or catch you as you’re leaving and shove you in their vehicle, and then you’re just gone. Disappeared. Completely at their mercy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:31 AM
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People who aren’t alert make for easy targets. That includes drunk women. This is why women tend not to go out alone, and don’t like it when their friends disappear from the venue, alone or with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:25 AM
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What is sociosexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:23 AM
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I think hot people are actually less likely to cheat because they probably have less of a scarcity mindset, less Fomo, and probably end up with more attractive partners. I do think some people have poor impulse control, high sex drives, and/or place high value on new partners and experiences, and low value on fidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:22 AM
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Yes, I do. Why else would people put shit on your car?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:19 AM
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Idk man, I’ve heard a lot of “whatever he’s got, we’ll work with it!” or “well he has fingers and a mouth, doesn’t he?” And I’m just like 😬 oh honey
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:17 AM
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Okay, good. I was worried about you for a sec lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:00 AM
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If your gf leaves you over mourning the loss of your friend like a normal human being, you’re dodging a bullet. You don’t have to hide or repress your emotions around your partner in a healthy relationship. My husband has cried in front of me several times, and I still have the utmost love and respect for him as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:57 AM
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Wait til next year. You’ll do better then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:54 AM
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No, that’s never happened to me. But anything that makes you stop and stand outside of your car for a few minutes to remove is potentially a sign that someone’s tryna nab you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:54 AM
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Are you a senior or a junior?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:53 AM
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Have you seen his penis yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:51 AM
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Oh man. Last year I was driving to my parents house late at night, and outside of a Sheetz there was a car with like 6 banana peels on it. I ran inside and asked to speak to a manager about it because I thought someone was gonna get trafficked… turned out, it was just one of the employees pranking another employee. But I was scared for a minute
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:47 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:44 AM
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I don’t really think they’re that rare
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:44 AM
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There’s a lot more people so it’s harder to moderate here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:02 AM
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I don’t like his actual face as much as I like his expressions and body language. His movements ooze the charisma
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:01 AM
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A hard-to-get, attractive man is even more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:59 AM
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Minors aren’t allowed on the discord server. You’d be kicked
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:57 AM
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What do you know, I’m actually not a slutty slut slut then
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:53 AM
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Ah, so like romance novel handsome
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:52 AM
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No, not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:48 AM
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We select for greater attractiveness with regards to physical appearance, which is related to physical health
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:46 AM
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Yeah. I went like 0 to 50 real quick
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:40 AM
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Do you have pics of your second husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:38 AM
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I could see that skewing height queens perceptions, but I’m not a heigh queen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:36 AM
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if we’re talking conventional ratings, I’ve slept with men from the 2 to about 8 range. If we’re going by personal ratings, 2 to 10. I think I‘m like a 7.5
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:23 AM
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That would be bad for the human genome
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:20 AM
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Tall man with good face and body > tall man with good body but ugly face > short man with good face and body > short man with ugly face and good body >tall man with ugly face and ugly body> short man with ugly face and ugly body
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:19 AM
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I heard that uterus removal can cause early menopause. The tubes can always be taken out if sterilization is all she’s after. That way, she’ll never accidentally get pregnant, but she can still do IVF if she ever changes her mind. Sugar daddies are easy to find online, but it can take some trial and error to find the ones that are actually pleasant to date
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:17 AM
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I accumulated a high n from 17-19, and then met the man who would become my husband. Then we got a few more bodies together (although we haven’t been with other people in almost 4 years now)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:05 AM
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I’ve shown them on the discord, but I’d be more reluctant to do that on the subreddit… they’re not much to look at anymore anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:02 AM
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Well, I just got out of the military reserves, and my husband doesn’t want me doing delivery driving any more after a recent car crash, so… i guess I’m just keeping house and raising a kid until I find a new way to make pocket money
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:56 PM
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Yeah, it wears on people after a while, especially if you can’t be picky about your clients. Hope she finds her means out too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:41 PM
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*parent issues
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:36 PM
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I will if there’s ever a reason to. Like if she asks at an appropriate age
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:35 PM
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The first thing anyone should know about me is I’m a shameless high n, slutty, skanky, whore-y slut slut
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:29 PM
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Nice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:27 PM
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It wouldn’t be so bad if it wasn’t his pitchy, nerdy, reedy ass voice singing the lyrics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:26 PM
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Right… I’ve done way nore scandalous things than sell nudes too, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:22 PM
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When do I put down low n women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:11 PM
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The other sisters can’t deny
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:41 AM
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Start your own country and implement a bartering system
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:40 AM
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We like nice butts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:38 AM
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Fair enuf
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:37 AM
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Sounds like a really bad idea overall
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:36 AM
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My n count just dropped considerably
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:32 AM
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Neither are bodies. For straight people, only PIV or anal counts towards one’s n
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:31 AM
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What do you think the “consequences” are and/or should be? Do you think they apply to men as well? I have a high body count and nothing bad ever came of it, and I’m not a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:28 AM
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The real sluts. My kiss-to-sex ratio is like 2:25
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:08 AM
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Gonna start judging people by their k count instead of their n count
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:05 AM
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Welcome to LIB season 6!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:57 PM
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I don’t think he’s facially below average. His body is not good though. The most surprising thing about this video to me is that Jonah Hill speaks french
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:57 PM
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Unpopular opinion: kissing and cuddling are more intimate than sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:54 PM
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Or at the very least, unobservant enough not to notice she’s crazy before committing to her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:46 PM
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What if your dad came back from his milk run?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:40 PM
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How else are you interpreting the pills?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:38 PM
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Weight lifting and eating more will do you more good
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:37 PM
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Yes. If you can get both, why would you not pick both?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:34 PM
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That’s an interesting way to look at it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:23 PM
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Normal for their age
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:07 PM
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I’m of the opinion that children should only be made intentionally and be born to parents that both actively want them and have the means to give them a good life. Early abortion when those conditions aren’t met is an unpleasant thing, but I think it’s much better than a woman suffering through a pregnancy, birth, postpartum recovery, and both the mom and child suffering through separation in order to hand the child over to strangers, or the child suffering neglect once born, if the unprepared p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:04 PM
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It’s like fat women calling obesity “beautiful.” Technically the ability to eat so much that you start losing mobility is a privilege too, but everyone knows it’s not aesthetically pleasing or fun to actually experience. Men wanting to fuck you is definitely a privilege if you know how to put it to good use. Men bend over backwards for pretty young women, and you don’t even have to fuck them. I’m turning 27 soon and I’m starting to notice some signs of aging (although when I took my toddler tric…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:54 PM
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Lol, I feel like men think they’re being discreet when they’re peeing in public, but they don’t realize they all adopt this very specific posture and you can almost hear “don’t be suspicious; don’t be suspicious” playing as they pretend to look around
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:47 PM
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Nah. I’ll take risk of getting pregnant over no control over whether it’s carried to term if I impregnate someone else any day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:45 PM
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She has pretty coloring, but her skin is aging badly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:38 PM
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I pee standing up whenever I want. I just hover or straddle the toilet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:37 PM
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Feels like cope. There is so much privilege in youth and attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:32 PM
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Male privilege is being able to pee in narrow-mouthed bottles on roadtrips
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:31 PM
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I don’t like it and I don’t get the appeal either
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:28 PM
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Oh, the sarcasm went over my head lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:33 PM
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When two people divorce and split assets up, they both end up with ownership of fewer assets than they had as a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:15 PM
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I didn’t really care about my wedding too much. My husband and I had already been living like a married couple for a couple years, and decided to get the paperwork done so he could get on my health insurance benefits. I got married in my living room over zoom, in a $20 dress I got when I was 16 from the discount rack at my first retail job. Afterwards hubby and I just danced by ourselves (well, not really “by ourselves,” cuz I was like 4 months pregnant, but) and then smushed a small, delicious …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 07:12 PM
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…What? What do you mean, “power?”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:23 AM
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She’s definitely underweight. Most likely if she can’t get commitment from a man who meets her standards, she’s crazy and/or unlikeable, personality-wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:37 AM
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these poor damaged thots scaremonger with You don’t have to be a thot to be physically hurt during your first time. You could wait five years and be the most relaxed and in love you ever could be, and putting a penis through your hymen can still hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:20 AM
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I’ve never experienced “tender emotions” for a person specifically because of sex with them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:18 AM
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Math for PPDers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:48 AM
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I am a woman who’s okay with planning fun things. I just need a partner who will do them with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:17 AM
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There’s still a high probability that you’ll die before him, given that that’s a very small age gap. If that’s any, uh… consolation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:15 AM
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Not very often. Sometimes we joke about the aging
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:11 AM
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You ought to expect people to correct you when you use words wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:57 PM
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Cuckholdry involves a degree of humiliation, as in, the partner having sex is enjoying the dis-enjoyment/envy of the non-sex-having partner. That’s different from compersion or apathy with regards to your partner having sex with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:52 PM
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I’m ovulating but I don’t have fallopian tubes… does that count?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:48 PM
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I’ve decided to paint my face up like a zombie and go limp around and lift really slowly at the gym. Hopefully I don’t scare any little kids
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:29 PM
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Spooky season is sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:25 PM
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You are special and important to at least several people in the world, and whatever pain you’re going through, you can get through it and find peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:24 PM
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Gotta smash up the other side
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:22 PM
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Sigh. When will my acne-covered, barely hygiened, still-living-with-his-mum Prince Charming ever come for me? To sweep me off my feet with talks of college blackouts and how much he hates his slightly-above-minimum-wage job???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:59 PM
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My husband is 25 years older than me. On weekdays, he gets up early and goes to the gym. I wake up when our two year old does. We eat breakfast and either prep for my workout or for her school day. Hubby comes home around 9am and I basically sexually harass him while he showers and gets ready for work. Then he goes off to work, and I drop the kid off at school or gym day care, and go exercise. The rest of the day looks like housework, time spent with the toddler, and cooking lunch and dinner. Hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:53 AM
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Hi there. Just wanted to submit my experience with dating/sex/relationships: I dated a lot, and had many sexual partners, but I rarely ever caught feelings. I’d say I’ve felt love for three men in my lifetime, and been in love with one (my husband.) I don’t think that “pumping and dumping” is really even a thing— that’s just women trying to use sex to get relationships instead of having sex because they want sex, which is dumb. HVW don’t have an issue securing commitment when they want it, regar…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:19 AM
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Y’all are addicted to porn. I’m addicted to videos like this: https://youtu.be/JvkyzwgTw7I?si=_nxNTw3Y7Ftfp9qJ Jk. But it makes me feel like I’m watching my dad build me the treehouse he always promised but never built. This is healing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:56 AM
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5s. <10 seconds
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 03:48 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:56 AM
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That’s a fictional movie, not people on the internet actually believing in the revenge fantasies they’re talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:10 AM
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All women are the same. I’ve been LC, MC, UMC. They’re all the same when it comes to the FSM
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:08 AM
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It’s legit all women who are like this. The women who say it isn’t just do it subconsciously. The men who say it isn’t like that don’t pick up on the subtleties.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:50 AM
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I look in the mirror and like what I see, therefore I consider myself above average. There are some things I would change, so not elite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:40 AM
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Even when men engage in revenge fantasy, its grounded in reality tho. I don’t think you know what “fantasy” means. Can't say the same for female revenge fantasy. Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:34 AM
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I’m afraid to ask… womb implants?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:18 AM
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I went to the gym yesterday but not today :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:05 AM
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Go to therapy and don’t date until you fix yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:57 AM
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Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:19 AM
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We know
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:17 AM
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Post pics
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:17 AM
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Men’s revenge fantasies are so funny and sad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:13 AM
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Q4W 1) I would notice that he’s dressed well, but not be attracted to him Q4A 1) Men have a lot longer to settle down than women do. I think probably before age 45, if they want children. After that, they start to get into too-old-to-be-having-kids territory
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:45 PM
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Why don’t you ask them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:09 PM
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Everyone is annoyed by this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:09 PM
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You suck at this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:08 PM
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Just reply to the thread homie
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:06 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:05 PM
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Women’s social structures are much more complex. Everything worn, done, or said has a concealed deeper meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:05 PM
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You can just reply to the person, you know. Unless they’ve blocked you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:43 PM
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Then I am indisputably, uncontestedly, undeniably accurate, factual, and correct in my statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:42 PM
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If I have the money, I’ll pay for them. Like I just took my husband out to lunch and to an event on the beach. But I don’t work outside of the home very much, so I don’t have much money. But there are lots of free, cheap, and military-discounted things to do, too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:37 PM
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Some people are philosophers and others are legislators
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:34 PM
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Well, I hope things get better for you. That must be really difficult to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:29 PM
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Can you be more specific
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:28 PM
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I thought people went to psychologists for that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:22 PM
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Prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:21 PM
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It’s all subconscious. Women pick up on it the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:18 PM
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I’m just a teensy bit mentally ill, but also lead an extremely stable life. I like adventure and to go on cool dates, especially to places I’ve never been. I’ll try new things, but I don’t like doing them if I’m bad at them. I don’t like arguments but I’m super good at discussions. I won’t directly pester my husband to get what I want, but I will come up with creative ways to influence him. Two of my favorite hobbies are shooting guns and hiking, but others are like, painting and reading. I get …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:17 PM
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A 5’4 woman (average for where I live) should be between 108 and 132 lbs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:10 PM
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The dick game must be good
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:07 PM
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Maybe a 5 or a 6? For both questions
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:07 PM
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On purpose or by accident?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:05 PM
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And use diuretics
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:05 PM
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I like my man AND what he provides
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:05 PM
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Some of them looks sadly down own shirt
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:46 PM
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I think a 4 pack or a light 6 pack is good. That’s a healthy amount of body fat
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:29 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:23 PM
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Maybe that’s why it’s off-putting
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:23 PM
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Okay, last comment for today, I swear. There’s a pool party in my neighborhood. I wanna go and make mom friends. I should wear a more modest swimsuit than a sexier one, right? Cuz I want to come off as fun and approachable, but not intimidating or threatening.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:16 PM
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Lol! That too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:04 PM
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Y’all ever see those pics of men with like, way too many visible abs Edit: https://imgur.com/a/Zik7Cit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:00 PM
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I just find that many men have unrealistic ideas about how much women actually weigh. Like people usually assume I’m 20lbs lighter than I am; if someone on a dating app asked how much I weigh (especially if they didn’t ask how tall I am), they might be weirdly assumptive and turned off by the answer. I was gonna say they should just go off of my pictures and not be so obsessed with the actual number on the scale, but then again, there are women who catfish and are much fatter than they appear in…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:12 PM
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Why do you think it’s “definitely predatory?”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:29 PM
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There’s nothing “morally ambiguous” about two adults having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:27 PM
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I’ve found that men my age have relatively spongey erections. Meanwhile, my husband, who is nearing 52, gets harder than anyone else I’ve ever been with. I mean, it stands straight up when he’s upright, to the point where we can’t do reverse cowgirl cuz it’s not flexible enough. Also: I fucking hate having to go multiple “rounds.” I have a man that can get me off over 6 times before he orgasms himself. Why would I want someone who can’t satisfy me the first time and has to stop periodically cuz …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:19 PM
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Idk; I just don’t think he’s lifelong partner material
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:08 PM
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I don’t think older women want his babies either
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:28 AM
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People stay with each other because of love, even if they feel lust for more attractive strangers. Women are most attractive when they are young, so finding a spouse young allows them the greatest options, both in number and quality. Settling down young also allows women to have their children younger, which means that they recover from the pregnancies faster, have more energy to care for the children, have more years of life with their children, and become empty nesters earlier in their lives. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:45 AM
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I don’t really see your point. If there are clearly women who feel the same way, aren’t those men… right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:38 AM
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I’m a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:36 AM
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Let’s see… My first boyfriend got really fat at college, but just graduated. The second guy I dated was married (I know, that was wrong of both of us.) I think his wife divorced him and took their child. He still sends me emails periodically. The third is still running a successful business and dating beautiful young women, but none of them will have the baby that he desperately wants. I don’t know if any other men I went on dates with really count as “exes.” But: One is still married to a beaut…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:34 AM
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There was a 60 yo dude who beat me in a 5k in 2021 (granted I was 5 months postpartum and still getting back in shape, but we both ran sub 20s). I legit thought he was 35. He barely had any wrinkles, and no sun spots or anything. Intact hairline, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:17 AM
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I don’t even feel like 10 years is really an age gap. A 20 yo woman and a 30 yo man are basically peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:10 AM
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So, I am presently a 26 yo woman who is married to a 51 yo man. We met when I was 19. Every time I hear about a girl speaking how she only dates older guys it’s either because of they’re money or a bad relationship with her dad, Well, when you want to settle down early and have a certain lifestyle provided to you, age peer men just aren’t gonna cut it. That doesn’t mean money is the only thing attractive about older men, to those in AGRs. (And yes, I do have daddy issues. But let’s be honest; mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:05 AM
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I think you’re misunderstanding the point. There’s people who are unhappy alone, because they need someone to fix them/their life. What I’m saying is, the happier you are while you’re on your own, and the less you need someone else, the more likely you are to have a healthy, happy relationship, because the other person makes you happier, but doesn’t have to fix things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:28 PM
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During the first lockdown, 24/7 with my husband was really nice. We didn’t fight at all. We stayed in and cooked meals together and played video games and watched tv and exercised together in our basement. I think that would happen again, and now that we have a child together, I’d have someone home to help look after her, and I could get so much more done around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:14 PM
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Steeshes for beeshes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:02 AM
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I actually don’t like receiving head
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:35 AM
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What do you do when you’re too horny to sleep but too tired to masturbate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:11 AM
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I’d just rather not know if it’s gross. That’s a detraction from attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:02 AM
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I mean, the fetish in question isn’t illegal or bad in the hypothetical, it’s just gross. It’s not hurting anyone if it stays in his head. I’ve got my own; he can have his
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:59 PM
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Well if I went looking through his web history or something and found a gross fetish I didn’t like, whose fault is that? He was just minding his own business, keeping it quiet like he was sposed to, hypothetically
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:55 PM
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“Fine” is not the same as “easy”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:31 PM
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My mum had me when she was 20, and my brothers when she was 29 and 32. She said pregnancy is wayyy easier when you’re young than when you’re in your 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:24 PM
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Surely people get out of the house enough to know someone who’s had children after 30, though, right? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:18 PM
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It’s certainly possible to get pregnant in one’s 30s. That’s just the start of the decline in fertility
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:12 PM
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Fair enuf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:10 PM
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No; I think those are reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:09 PM
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Mine aren’t painful; I just think blood and rotting tissue coming out of my hoo ha is the opposite of erotic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:03 PM
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Thanks for playing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:02 PM
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Guess anyway. It’s just for funsies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:54 PM
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It still smells like blood tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:52 PM
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But what would you roughly estimate the numbers to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:49 PM
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Absolutely not. I feel disgusting on my period
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:45 PM
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Oh. Well then I’d be mad that I went snooping
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:32 PM
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Nothing, but I’d be mad that he told me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:31 PM
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Q4M: At what weight (or weight range) do you think you would find the following women attractive: A) a 5’2 woman (157.5 cm) B) a 5’5 woman (165 cm) C) a 5’9 woman (175 cm) D) a 6’0 woman (183 cm)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:26 PM
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Cars are STEM related and also driving with other people requires assertiveness and decisiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:16 PM
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Years when I’ve been happiest on my own have always been years where nothing happened dating-wise. Well, obviously, or else you wouldn’t have been “on your own.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:09 PM
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If I point out someone obviously bigger or leaner than him, he thinks I’m lying. If I point out someone who looks similar to him, he feels bad about himself because he has body image issues. If I point out someone smaller/chubbier than him, he’ll get worse body image and/or get into bigorexic habits again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:07 PM
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I think women do the confronting at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:53 PM
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Yesterday my husband asked me to point out men on the beach with similar physiques as him and I was like “this is a trap”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:52 PM
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Magi is back. Have you lost your v card yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:50 PM
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Yes. Next question
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:49 PM
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Too many
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:49 PM
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“Niche” is pronounced like “neesh.” It’s french
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:46 PM
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What is the point of getting a relationship if you are so happy with yourself? Companionship, sex, sharing life experiences, splitting mutual responsibilities, having a family If anything, you are adding another variable of complexity that you probably cannot control. Relationships are a bit of work, but they are worth it. The good ones don’t feel like a struggle. In this context would make the other person as just another accessory and not someone vital for you. Yes. The idea is that you don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:44 PM
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Hair color/s: brown or black, preferably dark Eye color/s: dark, brown, or green Height/s: ideally, 5’11, but 5’9-6’2 is acceptable Build/s: MUSCULAR. Thicc. 12-15% body fat Earnings equal to, less than, or more than you: the more the better, but my minimum was $250k a year Job status equal to, less than, or higher than you: anything other than military Minimum and max people they dated: Min-3, max-probably like, 10? 15? Who has time for more relationships than that? Minimum and max people they …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:39 PM
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I thought that too, but the only person I did with a micropenis had huge hands
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:28 PM
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Rest
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:00 PM
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The happier you are alone, the easier it is to find a healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:00 PM
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I think it’s generally still seen as a negative, but women are more forgiving of it than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:26 PM
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Parents provide for their children with no expectation of anything in return. Even if they give them chores to do, it’s not an equal exchange of effort, and generally they’re assigned to teach the children basic life skills and responsibilities. When one spouse completely provides for the other, generally the non-provisional spouse takes care of all the housework and childcare, and thus, the relationship is a romantic partnership, instead of a parent-child relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:18 PM
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Not wrong. That’s what entitled means. Do I agree with that entitlement? Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:15 AM
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Impoverished children are literally legally entitled to government funds that are sourced from taxes. You simply can’t argue that they’re not entitled to it. I already gave you my opinion, which is support of this entitlement. If you want to say “I think children should die of poverty” just say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:22 AM
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I’m not sure you understand the legal definition of “entitlement”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:17 AM
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Legally, where I live, they are. As a matter of personal opinion, I don’t believe children should be left to poverty, neglect, and destitution because of the mistakes of their parents. They didn’t ask to be born; they’re just here now, and I think they deserve societal support.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:59 AM
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By “sympathy” would you happen to mean “government assistance for the children the aforementioned men abandoned?”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:52 AM
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Dunno. Hubby and I were discussing how it was basically impossible not to look at men’s dicks, even if you didn’t want to. We decided they are simply eye magnets
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 02:32 AM
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I think we’ve pretty much established most women have 5-6 in minimums, and 6-8 in is optimal range. Anybody disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:58 AM
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Who said it doesn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:54 AM
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He’s alright with it. He likes things that turn me on, and to experience new things with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:49 AM
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We’re attractive people. There’s gotta be others like us… we’ve found a few who weren’t too bad, though we didn’t end up meeting up for one reason or another
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:48 AM
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We’ve been there; it’s absolutely lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:47 AM
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I know. Im just trying to explain why “it’s biology/evolution!” Isnt an excuse for all “preferences,” which is the discussion at hand
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:20 AM
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It happens to all of us
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:09 AM
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I don’t know how interested I’d be in interacting with another man, but I could see myself being into it if everybody else there was into it and I felt comfortable with the dude. MFF threesomes are always welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:09 AM
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It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:03 AM
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We are interested in it, but we have no experience
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:03 AM
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I just thought there’d be a few particularly hot women, based on those who RSVPed for the event. It was exciting because my husband has kind of high standards and it can be hard to find women he’s actually interested in
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:40 AM
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Me too. I still go to staples every once in a while to get new notebooks and pens and stuff to replicate that feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:38 AM
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26 and like, 8 months. So basically late 20s. My skin isn’t as tight and smooth as an adult teen or early 20 yo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:38 AM
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The nude beach was very crowded, and all of the women were paired up with men. There were way more (gay) men than women. We tried looking for excuses to talk to people, but there really weren’t any.The game plan for next year’s visit is to meet couples beforehand and invite them to come with us. I thought that I’d feel less secure about my body, as I’m getting on in years and don’t have the suppleness of youth anymore, but I was surprised to feel the opposite. There were a few hot young things o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:12 AM
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He’s got a tidy vaginer for a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:41 PM
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Someday you’ll look back and miss this period of your life (probably)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:36 PM
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Ick. Ickety ick
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:55 PM
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Yes. Ever since I laid eyes on Chris Bumstead
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:24 PM
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Oh “her” name is literally womanese
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:23 PM
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Why pick a poor person that ticks all your boxes when you could pick a rich person that ticks all your boxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:23 PM
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Yeah but those countries are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:20 PM
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I’m gonna preface this with I do not support nor condone pedophilia or underage people having sex in any way shape or form, BUT Girls are hitting puberty earlier and earlier these day, which means that they are developing very adult-looking bodies by their mid-teens, and that they are able to get pregnant, so anyone looking at things from a purely physical and biological standpoint could technically argue in favor of that “preference.” (I felt icky just typing that)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 10:09 PM
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Mustaches >>>>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:19 PM
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Another reason for AGRs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:18 PM
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Who ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:16 PM
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Some of the things people claim are biological in nature aren’t even biological. They’re sociological
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:12 PM
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Nah, I think I’m good
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:11 PM
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If a man straight up refused to see his woman as a sexual being, I bet that woman would feel her self-esteem crumbling. I felt this way when I was heavily pregnant and my husband didn’t want to have sex with me. Just really undesireable… I definitely agree with OP
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:16 PM
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Men who: -fall prey to gambling, -are unfaithful, -pay for porn, -don’t respect themselves and consequently let others disrespect and take advantage of them, -respond poorly to insults (let them get under their skin), -skinny men without much muscle mass, -obese men (can’t resist food/lacks self discipline to remain healthy) -men who are financially irresponsible (can’t stop buying shoes/video games/alcohol/cars etc. when he’s broke/drowning in credit card debt/has no savings
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:21 PM
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I signed a prenup and I’m an emotional safe space for my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:48 AM
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My husband is 25 years older than me. When I was dating around at the time that we met, I was 19, and I specifically wanted men ages 35 and older. I think my husband was just mad at his then-recently-divorced ex wife and he saw a cute young woman in a bookstore so he thought, “fuck it, why not?”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 02:40 AM
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45% of 1000 marriages is still a lower rate of divorce than 50% of 10,000 marriages Also, I think you mean “female enrollment in the education system”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:51 PM
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5’10 is much closer to ideal (5’11) to me than 6’4 is. That’s a bit too tall, but not immediately disqualifying in and of itself. I’d be curious as to why he lied; if he didn’t have a great reason, that’s a big red flag. I’d finish the date, at least, and ask about it. I have had tinder dates where the dudes just absolutely didn’t photograph well and were much more attractive in person. That was always a pleasant surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:24 PM
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Sounds way more exciting than a carousel
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:23 PM
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Incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:19 PM
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Also shouldn't because they will most likely end up hurting you. Guess it depends what their situation was
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:32 PM
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Lol. Sounds implausible to me. At the very least, he’s gonna fuck her multiple times because men like that. After that if he doesn’t form a relationship with her, it’s because he doesn’t like her personality that much
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:06 PM
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Oh, I thought you were being sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:59 PM
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That’s what I said, he didn’t like her personality. Or whatever he assumed her personality to be
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:58 PM
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That’s because being pregnant weakens all of your pelvic floor muscles. There’s physical therapy for that. incontinence has nothing to do with the actual vagina, and more so the muscles controlling the urethra
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:50 PM
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I’m just saying, that either screams, “I’m bad in bed,” “I’ve never had sex,” or “I don’t care whether my partner’s having a good time during the sex or not”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:48 PM
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Sexual compatibility is a meme This isn’t a good look, bud
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:41 PM
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I don’t see a difference between “ghosting for sleeping with him too early” and “judging you for sleeping with him too early and then dumping you over that judgment”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:35 PM
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For sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:33 PM
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according to the photos’ sources, 2, 4, 6, 8, and 10 are bare faced (although, I suspect mascara on some of them.) 11 is Bella Thorne without make up, although the photo appears filtered to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:00 PM
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7 as well. I believe 11 is bare faced but filtered
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:59 PM
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well aren’t you a superior pattern finder
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:59 PM
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I think it’s just a myth that men will ghost you for sleeping with them too quickly. If a man likes your personality and you weren’t shit in the sack, he’s gonna keep seeing you. If he doesn’t want to keep seeing you, why not just assume you guys weren’t a good fit? I don’t think that many men are playing mind games as a result of Madonna whore complexes, and if they are… well, they’ve got issues and don’t make for good partners anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:57 PM
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excellent work! 11 is a trick question; she’s supposedly bare faced, but I think the photo is filtered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:43 PM
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according to the photos’ sources, 2, 4, 6, 8, and 10 are bare faced (although, I suspect mascara on some of them.) 11 is Bella Thorne without make up, although the photo appears filtered to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:41 PM
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Correct, but there are more that are (supposedly) barefaced. (I suspect a couple of them have like, leftover mascara on)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:26 PM
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What’s there to learn about mowing the grass and unclogging the toilet? You just pull the cord on the mower and push it, and you just plunge the toilet. And if anything is more complicated than that, you either watch a YouTube video or call a repairman/plumber
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:19 PM
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Anyway, since DerayRevan wouldn’t take my quiz from last night, does anyone else wanna take a crack at it? Which of these women are, and aren’t wearing make up? https://imgur.com/a/ey7VVtO
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:17 PM
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To DJ or to decorate cakes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:32 PM
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The tree didn’t die in the book. She just gave off herself until she was diminished. I did like it when I was little, but I didn’t understand it until I became a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:11 PM
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People run through sprinklers, not the other way around To clarify: people aren’t sprinklers because people don’t get “ran through.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:10 PM
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enabling ingratitude I didn’t perceive the boy as being “ungrateful.” I certainly think he could have spent more time with the tree in order to make her happy, but maybe he moved far away and had lots of things going on with his job and his family. (He was wearing business attire on one page). I think he grew up to be quite selfless himself, working to provide for his family. There’s also the fact that the tree didn’t just give him the things he was asking for. (Money, a house, a boat) She gave …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:08 PM
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They called that “family consumer science” back in my day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:01 PM
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Enabling what, exactly? He wanted things and she had parts that could help him get them, and so she gave them to him and he went out into the world and the world hurt him. And she was the safe place he could come back to. All she wanted was to see him happy and to spend time with him, but as every mother knows, you’ve got to let your babies leave the nest and experience the world on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:36 PM
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Shouldn’t, or aren’t obligated to date them lest you be considered a shitty person?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:32 PM
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People aren’t sprinklers. They aren’t object to be “ran through.” Whoever you’re talking about had sex with those men; she didn’t have the sex done to her by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:31 PM
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I had this discussion on discord with somebody. It has to do with your outlook on life and your relationships. If you had someone caring and giving in your life, who will always see you as their baby and would give you everything they have just to see you happy, (or if you have children whom you love with everything you are) you’ll see it as the former perspective. (Note that the tree continues to call him “Boy,” even when he is an elderly man. She is happy as long as he is with her.) If you hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:27 PM
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Fourth, that’s the longest I lasted with a stripper 2 minutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:21 PM
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It’s implied
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:20 PM
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You should write RP fortune cookie fortunes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:15 PM
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With calisthenics? No. With weight lifting? Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:26 AM
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That’s not an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:10 AM
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I made you a quiz. Which of these women are wearing make up? https://imgur.com/a/ey7VVtO
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:00 AM
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I can agree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:57 AM
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I can see that it is unusual, yes, but unusual, peculiar, any other synonym of “strange” is not inherently wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:57 AM
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I have never had a conversation with a man who could accurately point out which products a woman was wearing, and frequently had conversations in which men posted examples of “bare faced” women, who I could immediately tell were definitely wearing make up. It’s just become so normalized and expected that men legit think women just look like that naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:03 AM
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ingage
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:48 PM
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Men can’t even tell when women are bare faced vs when they have like 8 different products on
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:41 PM
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8%! That’s huge
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:37 PM
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Not every adult teen is annoying. Some are old souls
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:37 PM
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What’s wrong about it? I was 19 when my husband was 45
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:36 PM
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He looks deformed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:33 PM
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Looks are indicators of good genes, health, and fertility
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 11:31 PM
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Yes. Taking care of your body IS self love
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:55 PM
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After the first time, it doesn’t matter anymore. I would suggest just picking someone you have genuine love for to do it with the first time, and if that relationship doesn’t last, then just have sex whenever you feel horny after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:54 PM
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Okay that one’s funny AF
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:10 PM
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Tattoos on women. 0-2 are ideal, I would say. Tattoos on men are hot, again, as long as they don’t look like goofy stickers and aren’t on their faces or ass cheeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:05 PM
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I quite like isolated, tasteful tattoos. The idea that someone finds something so meaningful or beautiful that she’d go through pain in order to wear it on her body for the rest of her life is kind of attractive to me. But not tattoos that look like stickers or are trashy in nature
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:59 PM
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I get kinda turned on when my husband is being a good dad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:17 AM
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~6 months. I went away for bootcamp and ended up having to do it twice. I couldn’t masturbate either, because I was never alone. Even when we were all asleep in our racks, there were always someone appointed to be awake (fire watch.) I felt so insane with horniness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:50 PM
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Are you sure she’s not just sending them out en masse? Snapchat has that feature
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 10:46 PM
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You’re right about the IUI of you bank sperm; I forgot about that procedure. You don’t need to have tubes for IVF. They go in through the vaginal wall and retrieve the eggs from the ovaries through the pelvic cavity after they’ve stimulated them with hormones. Then they make the eggs into embryos externally, which are then implanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:09 PM
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I’ve heard up to $1k a year. Also, IVF is $15k-$40k a cycle, and most medical insurance is spotty about it You’d be better off just having your wife get her tubes out, and that way if you want to do IVF, you don’t have the annual cost of sperm banking
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:49 PM
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Banking sperm is expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:28 PM
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They are intended to be permanent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:24 PM
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If one of both of you were not desiring another child enough that she’s asked you to get the snip and you’re pulling out, that’s not “treating it with sincerity.” That’s playing with fire and casually making people. Children should be wanted and made with nothing but absolute intention and planning.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:18 PM
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Castration is a different procedure than sterilization. Vasectomies just cut or block the tube that carries the sperm from the balls out of the penis; you still retain your testicles, as they’re needed for hormone production
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:16 PM
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It’s not such as casual thing to create another human being
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:14 PM
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Not a dude, but I did ask my husband to get a vasectomy. We’d had our one kid, and I was afraid I’d get pregnant again, as we weren’t using condoms or hormonal BC (I know, dumb.) He said no. He was not willing to undergo the pain or the potential complications or the down time. So I went and had my fallopian tubes removed. Which was a much more invasive procedure with a longer recovery time, but whatever. It has a lower failure rate anyway. I’m glad we don’t have to worry about pregnancy anymore…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:12 PM
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Boots?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:18 PM
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I love this general categorisation of all apprehensions under one blanket term "insecurity", do you feel "insecure" when you pass a dark alley at night? Yes. That is an external insecurity, not one that’s coming from within. The solution to that isn’t introspection and self-improvement; it’s carrying a gun. When hiring a former DUI offendor to be your kid's chauffeur, are you not worried of him relapsing? Bad analogy. It is always illegal to drive under the influence. Somebody who’s driven under…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:16 PM
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Companionship, enjoyment of each other, sharing of the mutual responsibilities
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:44 PM
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Well, feel free to stop seeing women’s preferences as okay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:42 PM
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No. You’re completely misrepresenting what I’m saying. Stop it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:41 PM
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Was just about to say this. It’s amazing how oblivious these men are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:38 PM
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It’s best to resolve one’s insecurities instead of pushing the responsibility onto others, and wanting them to have less freedom/enjoyment of certain things in life to make you feel better. There are some men who see sex as something intimate and sacred and only meant to be had with one/few partners in a lifetime, or only with those they love, and that belief is not problematic as long as they themselves are abiding by it. That’s completely different from the reasons most men will give you for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:36 PM
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It’s not a fact; it’s an insidious myth. Nothing about having sex with different people renders an individual incapable of love. I don’t even think it’s possible to have sex with 60 people in a week, unless you’re having gangbangs or orgies every day. The average life time n count is 7. Have you considered that some people have sex and go to great lengths to mitigate the associated risks, and they have it simply because they like it and they can have it safely? That’s not poor decision making or…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:33 PM
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Like I said, this doesn’t make n count icks not misogynistic, which is my original point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:27 PM
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Alright, the diagonosis is there, but do men in any manner owe it to anyone to "fix" themselves of these "defects"? Are they allowed to continue being defective and thus rejecting people who don't fit in their defective worldview? The consequence is that they might end up alone, let's leave it to them to worry about it. The thing is, it’s not just an isolated issue. It doesn’t just affect their romantic lives. If the issue is, say, insecurity, it benefits the man the most to work that out, to de…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:26 PM
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Try scrolling up, for fucks sake
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:45 PM
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Believing that women who have a certain number of sexual partners are incapable of being loving, or that women who don’t starve themselves of sex in order to “save themselves” for their husbands don’t actually love them, is a problematic belief
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:44 PM
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overworked by repetitive activity. The anterior tibialis muscles are generally weaker than the gastrocnemius muscles, as people typically don’t train them equally, and that’s what causes them to be “overworked” when you’re running I had really bad shin splints when I was a high school track and cross country runner. My AT taught me how to work out my shin muscles and stretch properly, and then my issues went away. They didn’t come back even when I switched to barefoot running, either. I assure y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:42 PM
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It's very problematic to view dating prospects in terms of what they can do for you, Literally everyone does that. No one is dating people that don’t bring some sort of value to their lives. it manifests itself in sorts selfish behaviors and inherently has the mindset of a chick believing they are better than their partner... Disagree. As an example, husband provides for me, and in exchange I try to make his life as easy as possible. I admire him greatly, and I’m extremely grateful for what he d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:37 PM
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Can you please fucking follow along with the conversation at hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:33 PM
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You’re denouncing what she has to say as lacking depth , substance, and not having a basis in reality, and attributing that to womanhood, and then grouping me with that because of my gender. Gaslighting, assumptions, and sexism. And I’m wasting my time by even replying to you. Also you avoided answering my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:33 PM
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Because everytime they get accused of having deeper issues and problematic beliefs lmao. So what? Either counter their arguments or move on. Strangers’ opinions of you on anonymous forums where we talk about this shit don’t matter. Those are your words not mine. I don't think about women that way, just don't like high n-count women Those are essentially the words of a great deal of men who have the n count “ick.” They will literally tell you that they see sex as something that is done to women, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:28 PM
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Yeah, that’s a valid example. Doesn’t make seeing women as sexual objects that men use and having double standards that women shouldn’t enjoy sex the way men do not misogynistic though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:24 PM
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Fair enough, except for the N count matter, a bit too complicated than just your oversimplified version. What’s complicated about it? but again you're a woman so that would naturally appeal to you in some ways since it comes from shared experiences. Aaaaand the conversation is over
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:23 PM
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Lmao is there anything men can consider an "ick" without being accused of having deeper issues and problematic beliefs? Yes Also women have issues and problematic beliefs too yet their "icks" and preferences are not criticised all that much. Then criticize them for it. What are you waiting for? Women having problematic beliefs that lead to icks doesn’t make seeing women as used objects who shouldn’t like sex not misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:20 PM
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I mean, I don’t really disagree with you. If a woman is particularly interested in vain things such as watches, I think that’s a red flag too. I don’t think wanting a provider type is a bad thing or indicative of problematic beliefs; it just might not be the kind of relationship you want. to attachment deficiencies I’m not sure what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:17 PM
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I believe that anyone who is struggling with dating or getting sex is capable of changing such that they get what they want, but most incels aren’t trying. I don’t think that’s a BP belief; it’s pretty RP to recognize things the way they are and to take control of and change what you can. N count doesn’t matter because there are plenty of men who don’t care about it, and the ones that do make for poor partners. Women like sex just as much as men do, and deserve to have it the same way men are so…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:12 PM
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Do you have an example of a surface level ick that is indicative of specific problematic beliefs?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:04 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:03 PM
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Are you saying that men in non trad relationships can’t be providers? No. I’m saying that women in trad relationships are not being “kept” like slaves or caged animals, they are being provided for. Are you saying that trad men inherently care less about their children because they’re not clamouring to spend as much time as possible with their children, y’know, because they’re being “providers”? Trad men typically spend as much time as possible with their children when they’re not working. They j…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:01 PM
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It’s because the “ick” for n count isn’t simply just an “ick.” It’s usually indicative of deeper issues and problematic beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:56 PM
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Idk what CAT is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:55 PM
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Shin splints are a result of muscle imbalances, not improper foot wear. Try strength if your anterior tibialis muscles, and stretching your calves more. You can also have someone rub out the knots in your shins (although expect it to be extremely painful.)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:52 PM
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Boots fall under the category of “basically indestructible.” I’ve had really great running shoes that didn’t cost hundreds of dollars. Normally I try to stick with the same model for as long as I can find them, and they tend to get cheaper as time goes on and newer models come out. Last time I paid $60 for mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:48 PM
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Inconceivable for them to do that. Obviously somebody has to go out and make money to provide for the family, and it should be the one who isn’t encumbered by pregnancy, postpartum, and breast feeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:39 PM
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I didn’t pay for dates because I’m broke. The men I was dating were always welcome to take me on a free or very cheap first date, although usually they didn’t mind spending money because I only dated wealthy men with provider mindsets.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:06 PM
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Spending hundreds of dollars on shoes will never be a good idea no matter what kind of shoes they are, unless they’re basically indestructible
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:01 PM
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you're heavily leaning bluepill/feminist? Lmao, it’s clear you know nothing about me. I am very firmly anti-feminist and purple pilled. I have always wanted a providing husband, and as soon as I wanted a child I’ve never imagined not staying home with him/her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:00 PM
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You see a “keeper,” I see a “provider.” Traditionally minded people value their families above almost all else. It’s inconceivable to a trad woman that some would rather be slaving away for someone who isn’t part of her family and always trying to climb the corporate ladder instead of being with their children while they’re little (they grow up fast and then that hits you like a sack of bricks) and finding joy in the “little things” or “slow living.” Earning money will never be as rewarding to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:45 AM
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I will never stop finding strange the response “it’s funny that you’re advocating for [insert personal choice] instead of changing society/societal systems themselves!” It’s like, okay, so you think I can just snap my fingers and make society different? I’m not a monarch or a Supreme Court justice. I only have control over what I do as an individual, same as you, and I don’t have time to gather the resources and other people required to “reform society.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:20 AM
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There are sugar babies who do housework for their clients. Specifically the ones who do GFE
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 11:15 AM
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I was trying to think up a way to say the kind of respect women want and the kind of respect men want are different, and this touches on it a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:58 AM
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What’s the difference between a sugar baby and a SAHM, other than the income of her husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 10:51 AM
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Men with an above average number of partners (not like, triple digits and all in the same social circle) are not called names, nor do they struggle with dating. If anything, they’re seen as “studs.” Women which can't handle being treated like men, shouldn't behave like men. A) women are not treated like men when it comes to sex; there are not people on the internet making up a whole bunch of bullshit about how men are used, dirty, degraded objects because they’ve had x number of female partners …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:00 AM
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I don’t think we are aging more slowly. Women still have increased risks of infertility, miscarriage, pregnancy complications, and having children with birth defects in their late thirties vs their 20s and early 30s. And people are becoming overweight and obese and having ever greater health complications, leading to lower QOL, even if doctors are keeping them alive with tons of medications and procedures and machinery. More people are getting cancer from pollutants and shitty lifestyle choices …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:47 AM
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Seems like people are taking forever to become adults these days. Not moving out of their parents’ homes til late 20s, not getting married til their early 30s, not having kids til their late 30s… it doesn’t seem good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:10 AM
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Strength training only makes the abdominal muscles bigger. Diet is the only thing that makes an abdomen less fat, and less bloated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:06 AM
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Wdym, their financial standards are “unrealistic?”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:04 AM
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I didn’t get to read the whole post before it was deleted, just some of the comments…Why is it always assumed that women with financial standards are only into their men’s money?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:59 PM
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The first woman just wants women to be able to enjoy sex the way men are socially permitted, without being called names like “used cum sock” by fucktards on the internet. She doesn’t have a lack of options because of her sexual history. The second woman is more desirable to insecure, misogynistic, and/or bad in bed men with Madonna-whore complexes, and she’s either starving herself of sex or advertising her lack of a libido in the first place, whilst putting other women down for having all the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:36 PM
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They are obviously not the same women; idk what point you’re trying to make
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 08:27 PM
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This is such a nuanced conversation and I’m so happy to be reading it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:40 PM
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Examples
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:08 AM
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Marrying someone from my small-town high school
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:05 AM
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If I keep everything the same, but adjust income to 100k, it jumps up to 1.00%. 50k returns 2.8%. Maybe this calculator is off. https://igotstandardsbro.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:50 PM
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I put in 35-45 (the lowest age I would consider dating to the age he was when we met. If there ever was a premature “next time around”, god forbid, I think I’d try for someone in that range again.) Exclude married White (although I would have been open to any race) Min height 5’9 (his height) Exclude obese 350k annual income Result: 0.063% 5/5 delusion score
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:40 AM
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Most men are, tbh. They just want to be loved and respected, to have a clean home and be well fed, and to have sex periodically.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:04 AM
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Well aren’t you easy to please 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:59 AM
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Sort of. I don’t think I would be with anyone worse than him if anything ever happened, god forbid. Maybe I’ve been spoiled. On the other hand, 0.03% or whatever it came out to of the entire planet’s population of men is still a very large number, and if I wasn’t matching with any of them, I’d work on myself more til I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:57 AM
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I’ve done that with my husband’s stats. Just made me feel really lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:54 AM
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It’s not even that the prefrontal cortex isn’t “finished developing” at 25; the researcher stopped studying people after 25, and concluded only that “the prefrontal cortex continues developing *into the mid twenties.” The reality is that the whole brain changes throughout the entire human life span. There’s no point when we’re “finished” developing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:51 PM
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I concur 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:33 PM
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Well, duh. You can’t be ugly AND weird
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 06:32 PM
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It does. The only reason why people become incel in the first place is because they’re abnormal and maladjusted
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 05:26 PM
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I suppose some of them do. But I have mixed feelings about that that I’m having a hard time putting into words
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:35 PM
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You’re not actually making a point
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:23 PM
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There’s no way to tell who’s good in bed and who’s not before you actually fuck them. A man can talk all kind of shit about how much he’s going to get you off, but he might actually be trash in bed and had a bunch of women inflating his ego by faking an orgasm just to get him off of them faster. Conversely, men who are basically sex gods can fly completely under the radar. Your best bet is to avoid sexually inexperienced men as best you can and try to tell your partner what you like, but they do…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:22 PM
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Women do earn equal pay when they work as often as men do. It’s just that women get pregnant and take more time off for maternity leave and to take care of the kids and stuff. If you find out someone’s actually paying you less because you’re a woman and you can’t prove that shit, congrats, you’re gonna make some cash because you can sue the pants off of that company.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:15 PM
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They’re different because women aren’t going “I’m being denied a human right if somebody doesn’t make me cum! You’re dehumanizing me!!!” They’re causally mentioning that women orgasm less frequently AND actually trying to do something about it, which men seem to always take issue with (see dbz_f’s response to me mentioning avoiding virgins, as well as women being shamed for accumulating an n count when they have to try out lots of different partners to find one that’s actually good in bed.) Comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:13 PM
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If a dude can’t lose his virginity, it’s his own fault. I don’t care one way or the other about whether prostitution is legal or not, but it’s certainly not a “human right” or anything ridiculous like that. I mean, how hard is it to act like a normal, well adjusted human being long enough for a horny ugly chick to fuck you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:33 PM
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Oh noes, the virgins feel entitled to sex! Teaching someone how to have sex ain’t for me, sweaty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:26 PM
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Why would you book a 3 day trip when meeting someone the first time? And did they not video chat? And why can’t he just have fun on his own?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:24 PM
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I don’t think wanting to actually get off during sex, and taking action to make that happen (avoiding virgins, communicating, etc.) is acting “entitled.” That’s different from men complaining about prostitution becoming illegal or saying that they’re being “dehumanized” because nobody wants to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:21 PM
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Oh, gotcha. I’m too used to people being… like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:17 PM
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There’s more to being with a person than having sex with them. Jesus christ
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:01 PM
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If you no longer find your partner “worth dating” when they’re sick, you never really loved them in the first place. Choosing not to fall in love with an already sick person is different. You don’t have any history with or commitment to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:41 PM
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Leaving your sick wife, to whom you’ve committed yourself for life and all that it entails, isn’t dehumanizing, no; it’s just a mega asshole move. But that doesn’t invalidate my point, which is that it’s silly to believe not giving some men a relationship or sex is the equivalent as not treating them like human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:34 PM
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A man with only 2 sexual partners is free to sleep around until he has the same number of partners as the woman with 20 before he commits to monogamy with her (or someone like her). But obviously, monogamous commitment doesn’t mean anything if the focus is “evening the scoreboard.” He has free will to settle down with whomever he wants, whenever he wants, as long as they want him back. He could just as soon pick a woman with an n count of 2, if it mattered that much to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:08 PM
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Women here often are proud to admit they choose men that are only the best of the best (such as top 20% of men), dehumanizing other men, Not dating or fucking certain men isn’t “dehumanizing” them lmao In utilitarian terms, Why stick with a sick dying woman, if you have 2 other options waiting for you? Because non-sociopathic people don’t date in just “utilitarian terms.” People love one another, and when you love someone, you love them at their best and their worst, and you take care of them. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:03 PM
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I had a friend who was just… unbelievably good with women. At one point, he’d slept with literally every woman in our friend group except me (and introduced them all to each other.) He’s above average in the face, and he’s relatively fit, but not like super jacked or anything; maybe a 6 or an 6.5 overall. It’s just that his charisma and confidence were insane. We liked to talk about pill topics, but we were both careful not to use terminology that’d give ourselves away as pillsphereans. One day …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:50 PM
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Y’know what’s a severely underrated combo? Cheezits and raisins together. Fucking divine
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:30 AM
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Daily reminder that pumping and dumping isn’t real
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:24 AM
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I don’t know if it’s just me, but I actually prefer dating or marrying someone within my age range even if it happens when I’m in my upper 20’s or early 30’s. Most people automatically end up with their age peers, because they interact with their age peers most often, and that’s just a general social expectation. (AGRs are frowned upon and assumed to be abusive.) Yes, maybe it is more financially wise to wait until my late 20’s or early 30’s to get into a relationship and marry but personally wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:58 AM
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I appreciate that this comment is gender neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:31 AM
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Good. The men who care are not compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:40 PM
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3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:37 PM
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“They/Their” because you don’t want to share your baby’s gender, or “they/their” because you’re raising a theybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:31 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:26 AM
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Some people’s “art” is just icky tho Also, I feel like artists that do sampling like that are doing more of a response to the other artist’s message, as opposed to trying to commandeer someone’s else’s music and make it their own
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:04 AM
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Are you 26 too?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:56 AM
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I’d pass on both
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:54 AM
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Was driving to work this morning when “Don’t Tell Me” by Avril Lavigne came on over the car. I used to love that song when I was much younger,so I was excited to listen. I was soon mortified to realize the song was about a someone not wanting to have sex with her boyfriend because she’s “not like that girl/who throws it all away.” Cue the biggest eye rolls ever. Totally ruined for me. Anyway, I went googling to see if other people had the same thoughts, and I stumbled across a 3 yo Reddit thread…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:49 AM
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My self esteem is pretty healthy. I'm not sure how this can be related to my self esteem at all?! That was the premise of the example, that the individual thought poorly enough of men and himself that he assumed that his having sex with women devalued them. Would you please keep up??? I’m not even reading the rest of your comment; you sound like a narcissist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:32 PM
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I can’t even remember who my sixth partner was
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:56 PM
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You don’t think that having better self esteem, or a more positive view of yourself, as well as viewing sex as something you and your partner enjoy with one another instead of something you would be doing to your partner, would be a “net benefit?” The preference change is just a side effect. The reasons for why people have low n count preferences vary somewhat, of course. The one above is just a common and particularly harmful one. However, if your reason is something like, “I think sex is only …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:45 PM
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