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While this article might be helpful for some men here, it really doesn’t sound like it fits this man’s situation. Being yelled at for hours on end is almost certainly abuse, unless he’s being extremely misleading about his actions. OP, consider checking out abuse support subs, you’ll find better advice than you will here.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 07:34 PM
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I think those are all reasonable questions. Maybe a little deep, but the answers to them isn’t nearly as important as the attitude behind them I think. It’s more looking for guys who are still hung up in the five stages of grief over their divorce. If they’re mostly past that, they’re fairly likely to be in a healthy place emotionally.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 07:58 AM
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I guess y’all missed the whole post about “the far right gaining in power to rise against the globalist agenda” because that’s LITERALLY Nazi propaganda. Not that this will convince you or anything, but it’s the truth regardless.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 01:40 AM
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Yeah that’s about what I expected your response to be, but I had to try. shrug
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 09:57 PM
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Browsing your recent comments and it didn’t take long to find tons of sexism, racism, and literally pro-nazi posts, but sure, you’ve done nothing bad ever. Maybe work on figuring out why you hate everyone else so much, and how that’s effecting your personal relationships (which should be obvious by now). Do you really want to cling to such hateful ideology when obviously it drives away those you love? This would be a good time for some self reflection and therapy dude.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/23 09:00 PM
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Gaslighting is a pattern, often taking place over years and years. Short term would just by lying, long term manipulation is when it hits gaslighting territory.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/23 01:58 AM
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The fact that you’ve used “woman” as an insult multiple times, and are policing masculinity and my words is rather gross. I won’t apologize for ridiculing a ridiculous idea, not will I edit my comments about it. It’s a dumb idea, and blindly supporting dumb ideas isn’t empathy, and does no one any good.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/23 12:35 AM
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Nah dude, I just don’t understand why such a small thing would be worth throwing away everything for. You’re inconveniencing yourself, your kids, and your ex, all over what amounts to almost nothing. This feels vindictive more than wise. You can call me all sorts of things, but it doesn’t change the reality that you’d be starting the entire process over, costing far more than your half of the deposit ever was, just to prove a point.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/23 09:22 PM
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My dude, you are literally being one of those absolutely bonkers people that delay, delay, delay just to mess with the other party. You’re gonna start the whole process over again over HALF a security deposit on a pool two years ago? That’s what, a couple grand at most? It feels like your doing this just to punish your family and your STBx, and honestly it sound petty and mean.
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/23 04:37 PM
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No. Why the hell would you think that?
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 03:35 AM
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This is the shittiest attempt at a flex that I’ve ever seen, and I will not dignify it with an answer.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 09:01 PM
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They’re generally mutual exclusive. Besides I sure wouldn’t want to date someone who was bitter toward me from the start.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 02:59 AM
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There’s two big things that come from being a divorced man; bitterness toward women, or personal grown. Look for the latter.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 12:54 AM
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You don’t need a new city dude, you need therapy and to work on yourself. I’m looking to move in the near future because I love exploring new cities and meeting new people, but your life doesn’t change that much because you get a new grocery store to shop at. You can’t fix depression with a new zip code. Get some therapy, work on why you’re so unhappy as a person, and THEN worry about a relationship. It’ll all fall into place more easily when you’re happy, confident, AND healthy, or you’re just …
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/23 12:00 AM
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I’m not there myself yet, but my assumption is that it’s going to take some bad times before you manage to find someone compatible with you. I wouldn’t worry too much about a relationship not working out after a few weeks, my dude, you are still strangers at that point and barely getting to know each other. It didn’t work out, which is fine! But I’m sure you learned something from it, and continue to better yourself and move forward.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/23 07:59 AM
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No kids here luckily, so contact is already virtually zero. I am perfectly fine being cordial but they tend to be hostile and manipulative if they don’t get their way.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/23 01:00 AM
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Remember that statistically, it’s mostly women that initiate divorce, meaning a lot of the guys here are caught off guard if they haven’t been paying attention to their spouse and actually listening to them. Plus men tend to get the short end of the stick financially thanks to outdated laws. That probably accounts for a lot of the bitterness here,so do keep the proper perspective. Personally I’m only a couple months into the process, but I left due to abuse and neglect, and I’ve been happier and…
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/23 07:50 PM
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My stbx hit me, ignored me, sexually harassed me, insulted me, isolated me from friends and family, and mooched off of me for the better part of a decade. No. I do not want to go back. I tried for years to make it work until it finally clicked just how badly I was treated, and I left. A lot of guys here seem to be on the flip side, their spouses left them out of the blue and many of them would happily reconcile, but that is likely not in the cards, and shouldn’t be anyway. No do-overs my dude. I…
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 06:03 AM
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Bro, not to alarm you, but that feels like she’s planning to kill you, drain the account, and cash your insurance; and that she’s setting you up to OD on something, specifically. I would 100% get out of that house now, and stay at a relative or shelter until you can speak with your lawyer. Has she ever made any threats against you? Direct or veiled? Something like this doesn’t come out of nowhere.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/23 11:17 PM
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My dude, you really just came out and said “keto fixes BPD, PTSD, and Depression”. Bahahahahaha!!! Yes, because an entire branch of science exists to study and treat what you could fix by not eating bread. Hahahahaha!!! Lmao. This is great. 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/23 11:15 PM
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By this point they’ve literally asked me how I’ve put up with it for so long, and they expected me to leave even sooner. But even if that hadn’t changed, I think I’d still be okay with leaving.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/23 06:12 PM
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I was in a similar position about five years ago, and my biggest regret is staying married because of familial pressure. I’m finally leaving now for the same reasons and more than I originally tried to leave over. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/23 05:50 PM
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I needed this tonight. I’m not going back, but that doesn’t mean I’m not doubting myself. Emotional, physical, and financial abuse, and I’m done. Left a month ago, can’t stomach the thought of going back, despite part of me grieving the loss just the same. Talking to a lawyer in a few days, and a therapist actively helping me unpack things. I know nothing will improve and I’ll always feel ignored, unworthy, and unloved, but that doesn’t make this an easy decision.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/23 06:12 AM
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