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I left my ex after he threatened to drag our 5-year-old down the hall by her "fucking hair," and after he gave me shit for asking for help watching our newborn while I walked our daughter to school while I had a fever of 103 degrees with systemic mastitis. I could have put up with him forever and continued with sex without blinking an eye--I still enjoyed it--but I was more worried about protecting our kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 05:38 PM
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You can take snotty kids to the park :) Or to explore walking trails, go sight seeing in town, etc.
/r/RedPillWives23/11/16 05:57 AM
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Get out of the house. Explore your new surroundings. Join mom groups, even if you are an introvert. It's good for your kids and your own mental sanity. You don't want to be stuck inside with kids all day, everyday, so stop it!
/r/RedPillWives23/11/16 05:29 AM
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I don't see mention of rape in this thread. Self hating isn't the same as knowing the way mind functions. I know damn well that an 19-year-old with large breasts is a hell of a lot sexier than I am, but I'm not self hating for acknowledging the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 11:21 PM
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Is that supposed to be an insult? I can't tell if you are insulting men or women or what you are intending as an outcome by calling a female a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 08:57 PM
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I love this! I will try my damndest this week. I have been feeling a little frumpy lately. Thank you for this challenge!
/r/RedPillWives20/11/16 08:42 PM
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Essentially, you reject him frequently for selfish endeavors. You need to let go of your wants right now. You can have time for yourself when he isn't home. He wanted the family to watch a movie together and you blew him (and your daughter) off. I think most people would be irritated with you over that.
/r/RedPillWives20/11/16 06:53 PM
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She can still be feminine. How she chooses to approach her high libido will determine if she is feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 05:28 AM
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Girls are wonderful! Congratulations!!
/r/RedPillWives28/10/16 12:38 AM
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Lena Dunham looks gorgeous in that sea of creatures. Relativity is amazing.
/r/RedPillWives20/10/16 05:07 AM
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Very true. Date older, but not too much older. They're in different age brackets altogether. If at 40, he doesn't have kids, what are the odds that he will want any? Only mentioning that because OP has mentioned wanting children before. At 40, the risk of autistic children goes up for men, and it would take a year or two before children could enter the picture, further increasing that risk. I am admittedly biased, because the idea of raising an autistic child scares me.
/r/RedPillWives20/09/16 06:32 AM
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Interesting topic. I do think that she has a point there. You've done nothing to help him get to where he is and he is fully aware that he can carry on without you and be just as successful in his life, so... Why would he keep you around longer than a fling? Longer than that infatuation period?
/r/RedPillWives20/09/16 05:07 AM
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The socializing baby thing probably won't work, unfortunately. There are certain ages in development where infants and kids will develop separation anxiety, no matter how well you prepare them for separation. Some kids handle it better than others, though! When I see a kid in a restaurant with his head in an electronic device, I get all kinds of judgy. Those parents who plop their kid down with a tablet... It just feels lazy to me. This really, really bothers me. I hate seeing parents do that wi…
/r/RedPillWives08/09/16 05:34 AM
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When mine threatened suicide upon our breakup, it was simply an attempt to get me back. A play on my feelings, of which I have many.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 01:34 AM
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Less men to compete with :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 01:31 AM
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I think spanking is often done as a retaliation or in situations where the parents have lost control and it shows the kid that when you lose control of a situation, this is what happens--you are supposed to fly off the handle. That said, when you use it as a last resort, it is much more effective as the kid is totally caught off guard and the moment is a real learning one. I spanked my youngest once, because he was not listening to me and ran out in front of a car in a parking lot. One giant wha…
/r/RedPillWives30/08/16 06:47 PM
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Didn't use drugs: The pain level was more "intense" than it was "omg, I'm dying." It's manageable immediately after the fact. As soon as baby was born, I was like "I could do that again!" And you're left with an amazing birth high. I was medicated with a narcotic for my first delivery and I think it leant itself to me losing control of myself in the moment, so I don't recommend drugs.
/r/RedPillWives30/08/16 06:42 PM
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On Scheduling: Your newborn baby will run the schedule for the first 4 months at least. Babies don't need a schedule so don't try to force one. They are little biological machines that require their own schedule for proper eating and development. Trying to get your newborn to sleep through the night (or allowing them to do so) is a great way to encourage increased jaundice levels, delayed mental development, and weight loss. This is especially important to keep in mind if you are breastfeeding a…
/r/RedPillWives28/08/16 07:14 PM
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Remaining active while pregnant is also a great way to encourage an easier deliver and helps the recovery go smoother.
/r/RedPillWives28/08/16 07:01 PM
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I think this is the biggest challenge a lot of millennial women face. We are raced in a culture where women are simply not held accountable for our actions and we are give opportunities to constantly rationalize our actions rather than being rational to begin with. Hamster, hamster, hamster.
/r/RedPillWives28/08/16 06:57 PM
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Today's culture truly takes responsibility away from women in my opinion. There is a theme of less and less accountability for our own actions and there is a greater shift towards coddling women to make them feel like nothing is their fault when it comes to sex and relationships. It's less related to education and more related to our dwindling expectations of ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 01:00 AM
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Honey, if it worked on me I'd deserve whatever feelings that came my way. We are always accountable for our own decisions, so if I feel used, stupid, whatever feeling that might come into play, it's my own fault for falling into a silly and very obvious trap.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/16 04:31 AM
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You can use any line you'd like, but if you're not hot, you're not getting any. Also, none of those men will wait out for sex with me, so that makes it pretty easy to wean out the wieners. Takes a few months to gain access into these drawers, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/16 04:07 AM
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"for wanting ice cream." Does this mean he politely asked for ice cream or he demanded it and had a fit when he was told no?
/r/RedPillWives26/08/16 08:27 PM
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If he and his ex have a good coparenting relationship, it really isn't all that bad as a woman to be a stepparent. Our role is to support our SO in their role as a parent. But this also means that our opinion on their parenting style is moot. Long vetting process for you!
/r/RedPillWives25/08/16 07:28 PM
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A social gathering. I thought he was out of my league and he thought the same of me <3
/r/RedPillWives25/08/16 06:38 PM
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As a high libido woman, I disagree. Was in a relationship for 6 years prior to my current one of three years and the sexual desire never dwindled.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/16 06:32 PM
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This is a perfect post! I've been wanting to work on my dull hair for a long time now. Thank you for posting and sharing.
/r/RedPillWives24/08/16 05:24 AM
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This is surprisingly accurate of life in my early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 04:18 PM
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Communication is key. That means knowing when to keep quiet and how to bring up concerns in a thoughtful manner (don't nag, don't complain, don't use "communication is key" as a means to control things). Seeking to understand is better than seeking to be understood as "being understood" in our minds likely equates to having your man back down on an issue and agree with you rather than stepping down and realizing what is truly right.
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 06:31 PM
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Nagging or showing disapproval in a situation like this will also lead him to lie about it or avoid talking about it, so it is a fine line if she chooses to discuss concerns with him. He may quit for a few days, get a bunch of support, then feel like a huge failure if he starts smoking again and hide it.
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 06:13 PM
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This is something only he can choose to do or not to do. This sounds like it's one little thing you feel like you can control given his current career, but this is something that you can't control. Get this feeling dealt with before he comes back so that you don't find yourself nagging at him.
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 06:00 PM
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