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DiscussionGrayPillMan/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/16 07:02 AM
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Which is why the best approach to the issue of school-time vs homework-time would be to flip the classrooms. At home, you don't do practice work where no teacher can help you. At home, you watch lectures, read materials, watch educational shows. At school, you do work based on what you've watched at home, and the teachers are there to assist, answer questions, do quick in-depth bits on important side issues that arise, etc. Actually I was looking to implement this method of teaching in high-scho…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/16 02:21 PM
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Homework would still give an advantage to the stupid kids who's parents sit down and do it with them. It should all be based on tests. As Daniel Tosh says about "bad test takers," you're actually just stupid. Once again, I reference the honors student in computer engineering I knew who whined at how hard the final question on a course in probability was, that he had to use uniform convergence to change order of summation and integration.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/16 02:18 PM
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I agree. I think that the physical education should have several options. Not all of it has to be team sports. I heard some schools offered DDR as an option. I must say that DDR as a motivator for physical fitness training is excellent. High-intensity aerobic exercise, while people are having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 10:27 AM
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The system is geared towards cooperative young women who meet what the system sees as the gender norms. Men come in second place for their needs met. Women who don't conform to the behavioral gender norms set by the school system have it the worst. These women are also told by condescending know-it-alls that the system was designed for them. These women face implicit obstacles from a system not formed for her and explicit obstacles when told her difficulties don't exist or made to apologize for …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 10:15 AM
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what regression, where is in this thread even mentioned example of that ? It's just not mentioned as much for men because women are held up to those standards more. QED. cause i see a lot of them whining about them without even defining one, do you maybe have some problem ? I just demonstrated one. The "expressing preference" double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 08:53 AM
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So, once again. Why is it a problem that men express a body type preference, when it isn't a problem that women do it. And no, you can't use "male power fantasy" or "expressing preference" or regression to the worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 08:48 AM
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If they use regression to the worst to explain why they don't have to care about mens' problem, then yes they have to do that when it comes to the problems of white middle class american women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 08:41 AM
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Anorexia...is a psychiatric disorder that can kill you... So is megarexia, ask any endocrinologist what steroids does to your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 08:40 AM
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The first 2 you mentioned are unrealistic media standards in an airbrushed society. It's just not mentioned as much for men because women are held up to those standards more. This is standard argument 1b, just after "male power fantasy". If regression to the worse is an acceptable argument, why do feminists care so much that american women can't combine motherhood and a career, but do so very little for women in third-world countries? Or is it just when men suffer that the regression to the wors…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 07:51 AM
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with liking anorexia over natural curves and unrealistic body policing. What is the problem with this? I don't see any outrage when women drool over Alexander Skarsgard or Chris Hemsworth. I don't see any feminist outrage whatsoever over women blogging about their desire for the big black penis. In fact this is one of the things that pisses me off the most about the modern online feminist movement, everything a woman does is explained as "preference".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 07:39 AM
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As someone who is trying to lose weight I can confirm weight loss begins in the kitchen and not the gym. Although don't stop working out, just also look at what you are eating. Having already lost 130 pounds of weight, I am very well aware of how weight loss is done, thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 07:48 AM
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You better drop them chicken wings and hit the treadmill. As a matter of fact, drop the salad as well. You've had your share of food. You can't be fucking these girls when you can't see your dick. I already work out 6-7 hours per week thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 04:51 AM
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Another suggestion - why not just get a pro if you're only looking to get laid? In most instances it's going to cost you something (dinner, drinks, a movie, concert tickets) to get someone in to bed. Why not just skip all that and pay to get exactly what you want? 1) I don't want to support any human trafficking. 2) Prostitution is highly illegal in my country. 3) My job requires security clearance, if I get caught I will probably get fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 08:01 PM
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Or you could forget about height and just find someone obese. From my experience obese women are even more picky than regular weight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 07:47 PM
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Which feminists say that? I've never met someone who holds both of those views. I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 07:46 PM
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Find a tall, obese female in the same predicament. Seems like kind of a no-brainer. Yes, I just need to find someone 6 standard deviations from the mean in regards to height.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 07:39 PM
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Some women also want you to shit on their belly, but that doesn't mean that you've got to care about that. QED.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:58 PM
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so your mind isn't blank after all. QED.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:49 PM
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You kind of answers your own question btw. Not that any woman you know will tell you that. But TBP and doctornerdlove keep telling me that being obese isn't a problem. I just have to act with confidence and learn how to dress well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:49 PM
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yeah and why would a woman have sex with someone if she is extremely horny, when the chances of her orgasm is like...next to nil? And yet there are loads of women out there desiring and acting to obtain ephemeral sexual contacts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:47 PM
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bullshit your mind is blank. everyone has a cognitive schema. I refuse to play this game. As you will draw negative conclusions from anything I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:46 PM
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extremes again i see. Honestly, who does not go out seeking a temporary sexual contact because they are horn?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:43 PM
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mockery. cute. this is based on psychology buddy. cognitive behavioural therapy. try automatic thinking, what comes to mind when you think about women? what's your core cognitive schema on women? My mind is blank, as I try to avoid blanket associations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:42 PM
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i don't even know what i am working with. i have an idea of how you approach women...purely for sex b/c your horny. so that's coming off in your actions/attitude...so, yeah she's going to pick up on that. Ok, this is going to be a Zen puzzle where I can everything, as long as I have no infatuation with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:38 PM
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Oh gomenasai sensei. I will retreat to a cave and meditate for a decade or two. Then I can have everything that I don't desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:35 PM
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yes do just that. wow. lol...is getting laid turning into conversation skills? i should start charging. So basically you have no actionable advice to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:29 PM
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Compare to rules for succeeding at work. 1. Be good at your job 2. Don't be bad at your job. 3. Be yourself, but only if yourself is awesome at the job you are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:07 PM
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Well a man is pretty much guaranteed an orgasm...women are not. so my advice for you, for a one night stand, is to actually pleasure your partner. And how does this help me getting laid? Should I carry a giant sign stating "Orgasm in <= 30 minutes or drinks are reimbursed"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:06 PM
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well, because you're horny. not because you want to pleasure someone else, and in return receive pleasure? Do you tell your female friends the same thing? i don't give my girl friends one night stand advice, if that's what you're asking. If you did, would you ask them the same advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:01 PM
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As far as direct advice goes, most of that was about what kind of hairstyle looks best on me, clothes I look good in, etc. Also, I have heard over and over about the need to be real and not fake it. It took me a while to understand what that actually meant, but once I got it everything made so much more sense. So, it is basically a rehash of "Be attractive, don't be unattractive" and "Just be yourself".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:00 PM
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Like I said yesterday And let me guess that in a couple of posts you will claim that for some women penis size is really important and that we have no right to be hurt by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 05:59 PM
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why do you want to get laid? why is that so important? Because I am horny. Do you treat women who desire a one night stand the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 05:57 PM
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They are a vocal minority. So now you have moved away from women don't care to some women do care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 05:55 PM
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True. When I was still inexperienced I thought my size would be amazing, but most simply do not care. Tongue game, dirty talking and rhythm are where it's at. So, as most men don't care what size a woman's breasts are, we can thusly shut down that feminist talking point as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 05:54 PM
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b/c no guy has ever come up to me and asked me for 'getting laid' advice. they ask for relationship advice. and that's what they get. Ok, I will bite. Give me some advice, how do I get laid. I am 6"5, obese. So how should I go about to get laid? Let me guess that what you are going to say is "Just be yourself", "Be attractive, don't be unattractive".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 05:47 PM
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Women are a vocal group when it comes to telling guys that they've got to stop worrying. And yet, I have no problem finding women totally obsessed with dick size on hookup forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 05:30 PM
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Hey, BiggerDThanYou why did you stop wanting to discuss women's responsibility for mens penis size anxiety?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 05:27 PM
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What argument are you trying to make here? That feminists shouldn't have sexual preferences? That feminists should stop complaining that women are made to feel bad about their bodies by the things men do, while at the same time stating that they should be allowed to say anything they like about what male bodies they find attractive without having to consider for a second how that makes men feel. On a personal level I have been dieting on and off since I was 15, and as a man it makes my blood boi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 05:26 PM
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What female preference? The female preference for people like Chris Hemsworth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 12:18 PM
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I'm agreeing with you that some lives are cheaper than others in the eyes of the popular media. Why so hostile? You were the one claiming that violence against women is trivialized. I then showed how violence against men is equally trivialized.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 11:02 AM
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Ok then. Can I see some feminists who actually question the female preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 10:58 AM
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Or "was of X ethnicity" So, that is your only answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 10:41 AM
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Such as? How about this, if you get to drool and salivate at male models, then you can't complain about when men do the same. If you are free to talk about how you want that male actor with the washboard abs without having to take into consideration how that makes men without washboard abs feel, then you have no right whatsoever to complain about how you feel when men talk about female bodies. Or if women get better grades because they totally deserve them, then men get better salaries because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 10:00 AM
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Further proof that violence against women is seen as trivial. Just as when news reporting on tv talks about murdered men and have to add "the victim was previously known to the police" or "the murder is suspected to be a gangland killing"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 09:55 AM
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I don't know how you turned this topic around to be about dick size, but I love dick size discussions so I'm going all in. It is a prime example of how feminists only care about gender roles for men, when it is a given from a start that all the blame is on other men. can both be correct at the same time. It's just a kink for some women. Two statements however that are mutually exclusive is the following Women don't care about penis size, the big dick fixation is entirely a male power fantasy and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 09:41 AM
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And that's exactly what feminists are trying to get rid of by abolishing outdated gender norms. I don't see much of this when it comes to how feminists treat men. Everything is just a male power fantasy. I sometimes read the stuff over at menslib and got stuck in a discussion on dicksize. Naturally the conclusion was that women have no responsibility whatsoever for the fixation with the big penis. Now riddle me this, if women are not interested in the big penis, why can I visit a hookup site and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 09:06 AM
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You mean nuggets of gold like this? https://www.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/4d3gib/dating_advice/ I am starting to feel that if we applied the same kind of arguments to employment and career advice, then the clientèle over at TBP would get furious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 08:44 AM
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Wait so women can make misstakes and have lapses of judgement? How does this fit into the narrative that I have been fed that women can sense what men are evil and manipulative, and that is why they reject me, all the while the women are swooning around the people who harassed and beat me up. Does that also explain why those women rushed to defend the people who beat me up when I finally started standing up for myself and fought back?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 06:33 AM
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Strange then that the only argument you provide is an appeal to utopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 10:11 AM
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So your entire argument is some kind of appeal to utopia?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 09:58 AM
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Last time I checked approaching women at conventions was labeled as borderline harassment. So what use is it that there female attendance at some conventions are ~50%? It is no doubt good for the hobby, but for omega men it only exacerbates the feeling that you can look but you can't touch. From what I gather the only way for me and other omega men is to get so ridiculously good looking that women will do the approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 06:15 AM
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It's demonstrably the case that plenty of "average" guys are in perfectly healthy relationships. What do you make of that? And I can demonstrate plenty of women who have succeeded in male dominated fields, so that shouldn't be a problem either, by the same logic right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 06:06 AM
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I'm saying that you will be able to solve both problems by working together. So, do you tell omega woman who drools over Chris Hemsworth and complains that Chad doesn't give her the time of day that maybe she should look elsewhere for suitable men? Or are you just giving away "advice" to omega men to shut down the discussion? Because let me tell you, I have suggested to women complaining that they can't find suitable guys that they should look elsewhere and the response has so far been "ewwww, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 06:05 AM
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Has this ever happened? From my experience, omega woman will sit home and drool over Chris Hemsworth, while screaming and kicking about how everyone should see her beautiful inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 05:59 AM
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To reference some abstract theoretical construct doesn't carry much water when the practical implementation flies in the face of that implementation and is clear for all to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 05:17 AM
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Is it really a delusion? Because all I see is from feminism is government regulate this, government regulate that, special quotas, special laws but suddenly when it comes to the meat market it is "right to preference, right to preference right to preference!".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/16 05:15 AM
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Maybe they are pissed off because feminists want a socialist economy in every other field than the sexual marketplace, there it is suddenly everyone for themselves, and if you (as a man) fail, then it is your own dam fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 08:16 PM
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If this isn't something you can see changing I strongly suggest against engineering. Depends on the engineering specialization. I have met merit scholarship engineers who don't even know about uniform convergence and when you are allowed to change the order of summation and diffrentiation in a series.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/16 07:56 AM
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Why are feminists so concerned with what men in STEM do in their spare time? Why are feminists so obsesed with things like how Linus Torvalds runs his personal pet project the linux kernel? Why are feminists so obsesed with how videogames played by men in their spare time portray women. After all, none of this is their concern, if they don't like what these men are doing and how they are doing it they can just stay out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 11:29 AM
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I was aquanited with a girl like that in college. She was all flirty and even gave away lap dances when she needed help with her assignments, when she didn't need help she wouldn't even look at you. I never felt as good as when I started ignoring her completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/16 11:24 AM
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The typical incel attitude is extremely defeatist. They'll come up with all manner of excuses to get out of having to go to the gym. All they add up to is either "I shouldn't have to, women should love me for who I am" or "I'll just fail anyway." I used to swim 2.5 miles every day. I didn't get much female attention at that time either. Besides, I am in STEM, I hear discussions all the time about how STEM has to change to accept women, women shouldn't have to change. Why does this not apply to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 09:21 AM
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The problem with foreveralone and movements like it is they have no basis in reality. At all. Literally 94% of men will be sexually active by their 20's. I am in my 30's and I have more single female friends than I do single male friends. I haven't found their world to be the real world. Are you some kind of puritan? Because I thought that being single and not having sex stopped being equivalent somewhere around the sexual revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 01:39 PM
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I'm fairly sure a few of the FA women have said their boyfriend is 6ft and 220lbs. Is this an american thing? Is 6ft some golden unachievable standard? Because where I live 6ft is right around the average male height.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 11:28 AM
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Like, yeah, they're often fat or unemployed or depressed, but lbr fat unemployed depressed men regularly get with the fat unemployed depressed women of their dreams. If the vast majority of incels fixed those problems, they wouldn't be incel anymore. Sort of like, if the homeless just ceased being poor then they wouldn't be poor anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 11:26 AM
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I have never met a woman who has said that. Seriously. Not one. Then I suggest you visit /r/AskWomen, look for threads on older male virgins, or look up the same topic on feministe or feminsting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 12:47 PM
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There is nothing wrong with him. Until he would like to meet a woman, when she would probably scream her head off about how she is not a starter girlfriend and how he just doesn't have the emotional maturity she needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 11:54 AM
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I can find you feminists who are quite passionate about men's issues, but will it do either of us any good at all? Because from what I've seen, good news is the worst thing you can give anyone who disagrees with you on Reddit. I would like to see those feminists. Particularly feminists who actually listen to what men say and what men think about their issues. Not just another round of deciding that male issues are important, if they can be blamed on other men exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 11:53 AM
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Like the stereotype of the "communications" or "humanities" student who spends 95% of their time either high on pot or drunk? And couldn't do a day's work even if their life depended on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/16 09:22 AM
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I really think that you should read up on how psychological manipulation works. And speaking of low-level troglodytes https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hans_Reiser Abusers come in all shapes and forms and aren't easily detected, something I wish feminists would think about themselves before spewing out more about Nice Guys(tm).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 10:35 AM
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You remind me of "cool frat bro" I had the misfortune of making a brief acquaintance with in college. At least three times a week he would hold lectures abut how unfashionable the engineers were, and how they were unshaved, unkempt cellar dwellers who were addicted to porn. A week later he himself turns up with the most unkempt beard I have ever seen. Oh and lets not forget that he constantly had to brag about how black-out drunk he got last weekend, and how cool he was. How I was supposed to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/16 07:39 AM
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I am not blue pill and even I think it is sad that the red pillers spend so much time obssesing over women. I would like to feel validated as well, but I don't think that my life will end because I won't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 06:24 PM
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Interests build into relationships. And once again, why is it wrong when men are interested in casual sex? Would you give the same advice to a woman, when she is horny?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 07:15 AM
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And some women manage careers in STEM without quotas, or special treatment. See, I too can twist the "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 06:58 AM
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I think a better question would be, should a man have to disclose if he is a virgin or not, if women don't have to disclose their previous sexual history. I see a lot of threads on askwomen, where the consensus is that virgin men should have to disclose their previous sexual history
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 06:47 AM
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I'm not sure where you're getting that I wouldn't give the same advice to women. Women should also stay healthy and cultivate hobbies they genuinely enjoy, yes. You know very well what I mean. Why is the only acceptable sexual desire for men, the one to have sex with a committed partner? Why shouldn't men be allowed the same desire for casual sex that women are allowed?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 06:36 AM
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I've dated many women. Everyone has their own emotional baggage. Even if a woman is a virgin, church girl, she still has some baggage. Maybe her parents got divorced when she was a kid. You will never find a person who is a unicorn. You have to find the best available woman. And what if the best possible woman for me is someone who isn't an alpha widow? Should I be expected to change my preferences? I think I prefer staying single to having to get up at 05.30 every morning for PT because I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 01:22 PM
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I want to respond to #3. Why should I as a man give an alpha-widow a chance? Are you all going out campaigning that alpha-widows should give the WoWaddicted nerd with cheetos dust on his tshirt a chance, because who knows, he might turn out to be a great guy. If not, then why is my preference considered mutable, while the female preference is held as sacred and immutable?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 01:03 PM
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So what if it is, really? Why is the male right to preference not defined as something that is as unquestionable as the female right to preference? After all, I don't see thread after thread about how women who reject the guy who is always single, with all kinds of nifty rationalizations should change their ways and start questioning their attraction. Go to say askwomen and read questions about older male virgins, where the man is somehow obliged to disclose his partner count like it is some kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:52 PM
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Do you use the same advice on "modern liberated women" who don't want a relationship but only need some dick? If not, why can male sexual desire only be valid in the context of a relationship, while female sexuality should be celebrated in all its forms?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:35 PM
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Hey, I am a STEMlord, with a master's degree. I can barely afford to sustain myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/16 12:21 PM
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