Grayandlovingit Archive

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1	sex with friends? the nights themselves was fun, but the sex was shit You're 18, the girls you're with are also new as hell at this, WTF did you expect. It gets better as you get older and more experienced. (Although you might not have it as frequently.... For a male, the mid-20's through mid-30's tends to be the sweet spot.. ) I confronted her about it and apparently she dosnt want a relationship and just wants to be mates. This isn't a deal breaker. This is a learning experience. You're looking for external val…	/r/seduction	18/02/15 04:15 PM
0	Apathy in the club, with girls and lost of confidence I would like to have some advise to help me gain confindence and approach a lot of girls until I enjoy their company and partying again. I feel yah, I'm jaded as well at the moment. If you've tried everything else then have you tried "Not Giving A Fuck" yet? When I hit bottom, "Not Giving A Fuck" tends to work well.. It's easy, don't go to the clubs when you give a fuck, go to them when you're "Not Giving a Fuck"..	/r/seduction	17/02/15 03:46 PM
8	Failed at getting women in uni, failed at getting women in a bar, failed at getting women through online dating. Where else can I meet women. This is kind of how it goes for most men. A woman will shift through 1000 men looking for "the one" and leaving 999 rejected men in her wake. They're looking for quality, not quantity. Sometimes you're "the one" but most of the time you're not. (Don't take this personally because a lot of times they'll make terrible choices. ) What that means for us males is that you'll have to keep going for quantity over quality until you're eventually chosen by one woman as "the one". Men looking for quantity…	/r/seduction	16/02/15 08:29 PM
6	Guys, can you offer an idea to "reboot" the attraction? As far as hobbies, I have my own. They're mostly female hobbies. I don't see him picking up on it. Don't underestimate him here. Just like women love it when men are passionate about something, men love it when women are passionate about it. Being passionate about something is addictive and attractive in either sex.. Ask for his views on it and draw him in. Men like to fix things, so ask him how to improve upon your hobbies. You'd be surprised how many guys like clothes shopping (especially in p…	/r/seduction	12/02/15 11:47 PM
18	Guys, can you offer an idea to "reboot" the attraction? No matter what gender you are, what really counts is your entertainment-value/cost ratio. High entertainment value at low cost brings in customers. Low entertainment value at high cost drives them away to your competition. I already tried being more feminine but he doesn't take it past checking me out Being lady-like and feminine is awesome, it works because men are sexually opportunistic, which makes them highly attracted to submissive females. (Especially if they're quiet and vulnerable lookin…	/r/seduction	12/02/15 09:16 PM
1	How to Pick Up Girls (A Guide by Girls for Boys - from VICE): "Most of our very first PUA experiences were smuggling our way into a club with a fake ID just so some Julian Assange-looking weasel-in-a-waistcoat could tell us he can read palms." They were describing a guy who is running routines and not running them very well. That sums up the majority. Life is a game, some people play it better than others. it's about wanting to be related to as a human/person, rather than an object. Yeah, I get that. I'm not treating women like objects. I'd just would love to be treated like one!	/r/seduction	11/02/15 05:26 PM
1	Talking to girls at anime conventions. Step #1: Be attractive Step #2: Don't be unattractive Conventions are famous for being magnets for creepy guys. You're one of them. No way to avoid it. Just own it. It'll probably help if you avoid getting drunk and act like you're somewhat sane. And yeah, take hints well if they're not that into you..	/r/seduction	11/02/15 04:08 PM
2	How to Pick Up Girls (A Guide by Girls for Boys - from VICE): "Most of our very first PUA experiences were smuggling our way into a club with a fake ID just so some Julian Assange-looking weasel-in-a-waistcoat could tell us he can read palms." "just so some Julian Assange-looking weasel-in-a-waistcoat could tell us he can read palms." Same bullshit really. Shame the "wrong" guy for showing his sex drive while going out of her way with wanting the "right" guy to show his sex drive. Make no mistake, the guy wouldn't have been called a weasel in a waistcoat if he was attractive to em. But yeah.. Women go through their lives with the feeling that guys treat them like slabs of meat. Men go through their lives wishing women would treat them…	/r/seduction	11/02/15 04:05 PM
1	Something I've observed about height Yeah, you're not bragging but those women are still playing you dude. Here's the deal: I think you're failing to see the game from the woman's position. From a female's position, negging the male gets them nowhere. It's very rare that a female keeps a male if she's deflating his confidence level. You're basically asking if that outfit makes your ass look big. Of course they're going to reply, "No honey, your ass looks fine".. But still, guys tend to put way too much fucking emphasis on dick size…	/r/seduction	11/02/15 03:36 PM
0	The only girls that crush in me are always younger than me. Honestly I don't know if my personality is too immature or its because I look like I am 16. You don't have to worry about the way you look. The younger and more hormonal a female is, the more physical appearances matter to her. A girl going through puberty will hit on males based solely on the male's looks without regard to the male's age or personality. Some guys get teenagers hitting on them well past their middle ages.. If you're not attracting women your same age and older, then looks ARE NO…	/r/seduction	09/01/15 06:33 PM
2	Clubgame. Can a man be too beautiful for a girl? Also, i am getting told that i am beautiful by friends and older women. You can be all that.. But are you also looking and acting down-to-earth, the kind of person that someone else would like to drink a beer with?	/r/seduction	20/12/14 04:22 PM
2	Clubgame. Can a man be too beautiful for a girl? Try an experiment. Quit trying!! Next time you go out dress down and don't look like you give a shit, wear blue jeans, a white t-shirt and sit in one place longer. Don't try to talk so much and see what happens. The funny thing is that i notice this girls grinding heavily with average or chubby looking guys shortly after. This is almost a sure sign that they're seeing you as less confident and approachable than the chubby guys. PS: There's nothing magical about the lumberjack look, you can pull …	/r/seduction	20/12/14 04:07 PM
1	How would I go forward in trying to meet older women, as a young man? The key is location, location, location. Airport bars, convention centers and upscale lounges/nightclubs are some places older women go to find younger men for starters. The game is a bit different than with younger women. Older women interested in younger men are going specifically for looks and not social/economic status (You probably can't compete with their own age range in the social/economic arena), so keep your bragging down to a minimum. A young man whom is confident looking, semi-quiet …	/r/seduction	17/12/14 05:15 PM