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My best advice is to focus on things that are within your area of control. That means investing in yourself. Showering yourself with self-love. Hit the gym, eat healthy and invest in your dreams. That will make you instantly attractive. It's the journey that is attractive already, not the results. The other option you have is to feel resentment and be sulky about the situation.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 02:18 PM
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I could tell you as a man that having casual sex with women you aren't all that into isn't the most fulfilling experience in the world, but I also know how frustrating it is to experience scarcity. As long as you don't become toxic about it, it's ok to state the fact that women simply have more options on this field (with the issues that come with the territory).
/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 02:06 PM
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I'll probably get down voted, but you just described the experience that many men are not able to have. They don't have the option to decide whether they like casual hookups or not because it was never available for them. This is where the resentment comes from. Recently, I've had a few casual hookups, and it's made me realize that I'm not necessarily that excited about them (maybe it's also that I'm in my mid 30s). But just imagine for a moment not even having the option available? Having it is…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 01:27 PM
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She's not your gf anymore. Time to leave.
/r/seduction22/09/21 08:10 AM
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Salsa lessons
/r/askTRP24/03/21 12:59 PM
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She sounds exactly like my ex. Dude is in for a big lesson
/r/askTRP22/03/21 09:45 AM
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No impulse control whatsoever. Biggest red flag.
/r/askTRP22/03/21 09:41 AM
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Reading your comment is like reading exactly what happened to me. I tried to gaslight myself into accepting my exes promiscuity. It's not the n count that matters really. It's what it says about the person's void, attention seeking and insecurity. She also ended up cheating on me with a stranger who gave her cheap validation.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 12:03 PM
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