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This was what the mgtow movement was all about. You can see the response that got...
/r/MensRights31/10/22 05:48 PM
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Don't forget government programs like WIC that only give money to women and children.
/r/PussyPass25/10/22 07:29 PM
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This is the basis of mgtow. You can see what happened to it once the feminist caught on that guy's weren't going to deal with their shit anymore...
/r/MensRights24/10/22 02:41 AM
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My mom stole almost everything from my dad during the divorce. Just to be even more of a jerk to him she packed up, sold the house that she received from dad, and moved to another state taking us with her. Divorce overwhelmingly favors the woman in virtually every possible way. Everything to gain and nothing to lose. They don't even have to look for a new partner... Society has conditioned men to do all the work in seeking them out.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 02:55 PM
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There is virtually no downside to a woman divorcing a man.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 02:45 PM
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I'm sorry that that happened to you. No one should ever go through that. For you to go against the norm and speak out about Injustice is a true testament to your strength of character.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 02:34 AM
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I once had a friend who's really good looking but I knew nothing about women and was not self confident at all. Conversely I don't get the time of day. He got so much woman coming up to him. It got so crazy that when I was with him I would tell him about all these things women did to signal to him. Imagine a guy that doesn't get any woman knowing more about "the game" then a guy who gets all of them. It's definitely a real thing. The vast majority of women will do 180° if the guy is good looking…
/r/seduction01/10/22 12:14 AM
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No. Virtually none of them are posted by men. This is in Facebook marketplace, so I can easily determine if they are guys or not.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 05:45 PM
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It's not "understandable". It's sexist. A woman can stab you with a cooking knife just as easily as a man can.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 05:02 PM
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Very few. Of the 100s of posts I have seen maybe 4.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 04:57 PM
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I have been looking for housing and 9 out 10 posts are female only. Just my multi-month search alone confirms your theory. Edit: No, these housing ads aren't created by men. These are created by women, for women. This is on the Facebook marketplace, so it's easy to determine whether the poster is a female or not. Anyone that says otherwise is lying.
/r/MensRights13/09/22 03:32 AM
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So many liars here.
/r/seduction05/09/22 01:49 AM
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Men need more women like you. I will warn you though: just by posting on here you'll have a target on your back like the rest of us. Even discussing men's rights and how men are treated can get you banned in multiple subreddits.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 05:39 AM
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Same here. I was just a cudgel to be used to beat my father into paying for child support. Was poisoned against my dad as well. Now that I finally broke out of the lies, I am realizing that the damage is done: I'll never have that connection with my dad.
/r/MensRights14/06/22 08:56 PM
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Yeah this is the essence of what mgtow is: men getting abused so much that they decide that they don't want to take part in these one-sided relationships anymore. If Reddit is any indicator, It's obvious that society and women do not like when men don't play ball.
/r/MensRights01/06/22 09:20 PM
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You mean to tell me there are jerks out in the real world? No way!
/r/MensRights10/05/22 01:25 PM
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Normally I wouldn't mind. Living with women is not ideal do to the reasons you mention. However, I have only 10 options within 40 mile radius of me. When 7/10 of them are off limits because I am a guy, it really highlights the disadvantages I have.
/r/MensRights09/05/22 03:19 PM
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Physical verbal and emotional abuse sums up all but two relationships I have been in. As a guy, I was always told that it was all my fault. Society taught me that this was normal and expected. If I complained, I was told I was weak. It was only until a few years ago that I tried to break the cycle. The catalyst was when my ex tried to beat me with a baseball bat. I knew deep down I had no where to go and no one to support me. Even my mom, who knew of the ex's violent ways, tried to insinuate tha…
/r/MensRights06/05/22 03:05 PM
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It reminded me of my ex, that's for sure.
/r/MensRights22/04/22 06:16 PM
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You hit the nail on the head. Anyone else would have been crushed by the system. The reason we are even talking about Depp is because he has the resources to fight back.
/r/MensRights22/04/22 06:16 PM
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Bachelor Tax Damn. I never did until now. Its just as dystopian as it sounds!
/r/MensRights13/04/22 06:26 PM
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Funny how MGTOWs are not taught, but created from experience. Society doesn't want men to realize that the game is rigged and that they have the option of not play.
/r/MensRights12/04/22 12:27 PM
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Most problems in our society are because of unchecked capitalism. It makes sense that the current situation regarding families and the men vs woman dynamic is also caused by capitalism.
/r/MensRights03/04/22 06:20 PM
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Exactly. I recently had a conversation with a girl that I'm seeing. She was flabbergasted that I had to vasectomy. She just couldn't wrap her mind around why I would do something so permanent. I had to explain to her how guys have no options for male birth control.
/r/MensRights03/04/22 04:45 PM
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Society and culture gives woman almost complete control over men in terms of the mate/partner/friend selection process. They have near complete control over the birth of children as well as forcing men to support those children. Anyone in their position can set any requirements they want. "When a man is dying of thirst, the water seller can charge anything they want for a thimble of water."
/r/MensRights01/04/22 06:07 PM
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Breast size can be changed though. So even that is not a fair comparison. Physical factors most men want in a women are all changeable AND have multiple ways of achieving them: looks(makeup, surgery, injections), breast/butt size(surgery, injections), not fat(eat less, surgery). Its very common for women in Southern California to get surgery in Tijuana, Mexico. These procedures can be cheap: As low as 500 for a procedure. Shit, I wish I can change my looks from a 6/10 to a 9/10 with a three hour…
/r/MensRights01/04/22 02:54 PM
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Its not just height: the trope of "tall, dark and handsome" exists. So now guys are judged by the their height and looks. It gets worst the more you think about it. It is normalized to insult a man over the size of his penis. So now a man needs to be tall, handsome, and have a big dick. All factors he cant change. While its true that woman also get judged by their looks, they are less "punished" for it by society. Society even offers them many ways of cheating on their looks through the use of m…
/r/MensRights01/04/22 02:47 PM
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All the time. Just checking out /r/MensRights is enough to get banned in some places.
/r/MensRights30/03/22 02:32 PM
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If its any consolation: With how poorly men get treated in modern society, this could be a mercy.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 03:58 PM
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The fact that OP posted this implies that the punishment for female on male sexual misconduct was not the same as male on female misconduct. HR has other forms of punishment that aren't firing an employee.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 03:53 PM
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"toxic masculinity" is another one. Now that I think about it, feminist rhetoric has a lot of marked terms. I am glad OP was able to articulate issues I have about things like "toxic masculinity" and "mansplaining" much better then I can!
/r/MensRights24/03/22 03:41 PM
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So you were enjoying the best time of your life, your early 20's, and now got into a stable money making industry? I don't see any failures, I see a man that has his priorities straight.
/r/MensRights24/03/22 03:35 PM
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Yes there is truth to both points you made. However, you have to gauge your risk tolerance. I would avoid the hookup culture and find a long term girlfriend. Remember: Make woman prove to you that they are worthy of a relationship, not the other way around!
/r/MensRights24/03/22 03:22 PM
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They exist. Just extremely hard to find. Men are already disadvantaged in the dating realm, this makes it harder. You just have to keep pushing through it.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 02:10 AM
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she didn’t agree with everything I wrote, it was all backed up with citations so she had to give me the “A”. WTF? So she just admitted that she was "forced" to give you a good grade?
/r/MensRights08/03/22 04:44 PM
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There was this super hot girl I was chatting up in the bar. We both frequented this place, so we chatted a quite a few times. She seemed to really like me, going to me from across the room, laughing at my jokes, the usual. One day she came over and hugged me and pressed her body to me. I recoiled instinctively. She was obviously put off by that. She lost interest after that. Being a burgeoning 10/10 influencer on Instagram, it was obvious my chance was lost. All those "I'm interested" behaviors …
/r/MensRights07/03/22 06:47 PM
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The only problem with using that term is that usually women have the option of not being celibate. Men don't have a choice. So calling women incels is also not accurate. They would be voluntary celibate. Volcels.
/r/MensRights04/03/22 07:02 PM
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Same here. Whole thing isn't a hard concept either.
/r/MensRights04/03/22 12:06 PM
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Then they get insulted for it
/r/MensRights03/03/22 09:49 PM
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This really highlights what the modern Feminist movement has turned into: hating/blaming men first, then finding ways to justify it second. This article uses gay men as a way of getting around the paradox of blaming men for men involuntarily getting shafted in higher education. This is a play on the Feminist ideal: "Men get no control, but all the responsibility." The converse being "Women get all the control, but none of the responsibility."
/r/MensRights03/03/22 01:35 AM
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Not one of those women bothered to ask his side of the story. These women need to take some of the blame as well. Even if he gets his side of the story said, it becomes a He said/She said scenario. Men rarely win those in the court of public opinion or with HR.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 02:31 PM
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This is what I fear is going to happen with OP. He is a cog that is not fitting in the machine. Its cheaper to just fire him, instead of a hundred women that are causing trouble with him around.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 02:28 PM
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I don't know why you are complaining! Just pull yourself up by your Patriarchy Bootstraps and utilize that male privilege! In all seriousness, the only option you have is to complain to HR. You need to record everything. I am going to warn you right now, getting HR to take action is a uphill battle because you are a guy. Its compounded by the fact that almost every female has allied with your sexual harasser. You should start looking at new jobs now, maybe you can even get a raise as healthcare …
/r/MensRights01/03/22 02:23 PM
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Women are in the wrong a lot of ways when feminism is involved. Doesn't mean they get punished for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/22 05:04 AM
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No idea. I assume he got a talking to, which is what prompted the email. He was obviously very embarrassed to have to talk about his health condition in the email.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/02/22 04:29 AM
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Every single scenario regarding sex and kids is virtually under a woman's complete control. Yet that is still not enough for some of them. They have to use condoms, which are not 100% effective under perfect conditions, as a way of shirking responsibility for their actions.
/r/MensRights27/02/22 11:36 PM
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I had a co-worker who had to publicly send an email to the whole team because a feminazi complained to HR. He was accused of "mansplaining". The guy had hearing issues and would sometimes talk over others because he couldn't hear them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/02/22 11:02 PM
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You're trying to overthink it. It's blatant double standards.
/r/MensRights25/02/22 05:45 AM
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Female feels bad because she's a good person. All you have to do is check out the subreddit to realize that those females are exceedingly hard to come by. It sounds like female doesn't want the kid. I'm a firm believer that both parties need to want a kid before it can be born. Female does not have to tell partner about its termination.
/r/MensRights25/02/22 05:41 AM
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I checked it out. It's basically 90% women complaining about stupid stuff and being told what they want to hear in the comments. The other 10% is actual serious shit. What a slap in the face for that 10% of the people that are actually having real issues.
/r/MensRights25/02/22 05:28 AM
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I am pretty sure court has bias towards women in general.
/r/MensRights25/02/22 03:26 AM
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And they can do it with little or no repercussion from society. In a lot of ways it's encouraged.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 07:43 AM
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Interestingly enough her shaming short men wasn't really a big deal. It was only until they found that she was insulting women that it suddenly became a big deal. The patriarchy at its finest! 🙄
/r/MensRights23/02/22 07:01 AM
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Interesting how men have none of the choice if a child is born, yet they have to take more than half of the responsibility for the choice. Seems pretty unfair doesn't it?
/r/MensRights20/02/22 08:37 PM
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Women have virtually complete control in terms of dating, relationships, sex and children. Legally, culturally and practically men are just sperm donors and walking ATMs when the choice to have a kid is involved. Men's only options to fight back? Condoms or vasectomy... and even condoms are not a real option either. I am sorry that you went through that OP.
/r/MensRights20/02/22 06:33 PM
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There is a lot to unpack here: Racism towards black men. Complaining about the consequences of her own actions. Ignoring the needs of her kid, who will suffer from the consequences of her actions. Switching over to dating women...and suddenly not having complaints even though the only thing that changed in her situation was the gender of the partner. Saying black men are trapped (?), then immediately blaming them for being trapped. Using racism at all in the calculus of her situation, even thoug…
/r/MensRights15/02/22 07:56 PM
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Is there any reason why countries pay retirement to women before men? Its pretty well established that men live shorter lifespans then women. There for it would make more sense to pay out to men at a younger age. I see no logical or economical reason to pay out to women sooner other then women being "worth more" than men.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 11:58 PM
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A hot lawyer I used to date did something like this multiple times. Every time we went out, she would have a new story about how she dodged the DUI hammer because she was a female with big breasts. It was only until the fourth time she was pulled over that she got nabbed. The cop was a female that she had pissed off in one of her court cases. From what she told me, she got a her client off because said cop had mishandled evidence and was roasted in court for it. Oops! She couldn't big breast her…
/r/MensRights14/02/22 02:13 AM
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The side effect of getting abused is anger. It takes strong humans to resist that urge. Generally a lot of men on here resist it. Those that don't are usually told off or down voted. We appreciate you more then you'll probably know, and your partner (if you have one) probably does also. Speaking of anti-abortion: I am 100% for abortion. With how guys get shafted in almost every possible way when a child gets involved in a relationship it is lunacy that a guy wouldn't support it.
/r/MensRights11/02/22 09:02 PM
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I am an angry that there are not enough caring people like you!
/r/MensRights11/02/22 08:58 PM
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It gets worse the more you think about it: If a man rebels against the unfairness he is denied relationships. One of the components of a relationship is (usually) sexual reciprocation. Society then makes the lack of sex (which we already established is incredibly risky to a man in my original post) a shameful thing. Society then relentlessly mocks a man who follows point one such as calling him an incel or a loser. Society goes so far as to mock men who associate with the men that it labels as l…
/r/MensRights10/02/22 09:02 PM
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This patriarchy thing sucks for men...
/r/MensRights10/02/22 08:35 PM
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What. The. Fuck? I am glad I got snipped when I did. I might have lost the choice to my own body if I was married. Lets get this straight: If a man doesn't want a kid and the female does, tough shit. The guy has to pay for it for the next 20 years. If a man DOES want a kid and the female does not , tough shit. Her body, her choice. If the man wants to permanently maim himself to be childless, tough shit. The female needs to approve. If the women tricks the man and has his child without his conse…
/r/MensRights10/02/22 06:39 PM
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While the Beautiful Person Advantage® applies to both genders. It helps women much more in life. Those hotties will be spoiled for much of their teens, 20s and 30s. It sucks and it's unfair that being good looking should override hard work, intelligence and kindness. Giving hot woman a pass is actually "programmed" into humans. MRAs also try to fight this cultural norm.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 02:49 PM
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Aww! Poor baby. Point on the doll where I hurt you.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 02:37 AM
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Since we are on the topic of men being mistreated and hard life lessons: The only thing you can do is care for yourself first and foremost. Don't seek women. Don't put women on a pedestal. Make them come to you. Make them prove to you that they are worthy. This is very hard to do. Society tells us to chase women. We are biologically programmed to want the sexual, emotional, physical and mental stimuli that comes with being with a partner. If you cant manage this now, that's fine. You are not a f…
/r/MensRights09/02/22 11:52 PM
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You come in here and argue in bad faith. You are wasting my time.
/r/MensRights09/02/22 11:18 PM
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Why did you make this about women? This is yet another struggle man face. Always being told that their issues don't matter because women have issues of their own. This is not a zero-sum game. The fact that this is even entertained as a valid argument proves my original assertion.
/r/MensRights09/02/22 11:10 PM
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When I was younger, I bent over backwards to accommodate. I asked everyone I knew "What am I doing wrong?" The answer always changed to fit the situation, were contradictory and always my fault. I didn't speak up, I spoke up too much. I did that, I didn't do that. I overstepped, I didn't step up enough. I showed fear, I didn't show fear and was too intimidating. I wasn't respectful, I was too respectful and looked weak. It finally hit me. It was not what I did, but who I am: a man. Men are being…
/r/MensRights09/02/22 05:22 PM
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That is true. There are women who are not like that. Its hard to find them, but they exist. I am friends with a bunch of them. Selective bias: if they aren't garbage humans then they are more likely to be in a relationship.
/r/MensRights09/02/22 03:14 PM
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This is actually the second time this happened to me. Another FWB also did this on me years ago. I thought the last incidence was a fluke...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/22 07:10 PM
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I know the intention was good. We have to move away from "just git gud" like comments if we are to get out of this fucked up situation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 09:29 PM
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I AM the 1%. I have been for a while. I have known this for years. You are contributing to the issue by blaming me (lack of confidence) when its modern dating culture that is the problem. Society always trots out an excuse as to why its the guy's fault when a guy speaks up about the unfairness. You just did it. Its shocking as your a flaired user in a sub that is satire to make fun of this fact.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 03:52 AM
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Stating the obvious doesn't mean I have lowered my standards. I am a millionaire because I didn't care what women think.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/02/22 03:07 AM
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She realized it after she said it. Feminism is a cult, she was trained to automatically assume anyone that disagrees with her is an incel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/22 04:25 AM
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Just goes to show just how unrealistic the standards are.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 11:23 PM
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I am not sure which is worse: That this was a publicly acceptable question to ask, or that they answered it.
/r/MensRights03/02/22 09:48 PM
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I am almost a millionaire. But that isn't enough to overcome my average looks in the arena of modern dating. I have my wit and intelligence, and that is barely making it. I can usually get first responses from the 3/10 to 10/10s but no follow ups. It's virtually impossible to be witty 100% of the time. At some point a man will say the wrong thing. The moment that happens, they are gone. Their attention immediately goes to the 1% of guys (looks wise).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 04:52 PM
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She probably was a 8 before she gained weight. This is why she is so spoiled, she WAS spoiled.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 03:26 PM
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I mentioned this in another thread and was promptly called and incel for it. Incel has become the catch all term for "someone I disagree with". I recently learned that my FWB for a few months was a feminist. She asked if I was one recently and I said "I disagree with what feminists are doing". She flipped her shit and called me an incel. WTF?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 03:22 PM
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Already 6'4. Still barely have access to hookup culture. Just be born good looking!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/22 03:13 PM
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I never liked the Femcel term, because in a lot of cases, the women choose to be an incel..thus making the label incorrect. True incels don't have a choice: Society has deemed them unworthy (usually because they aren't good looking enough) to be in relationships.
/r/MensRights02/02/22 04:02 PM
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Whether they are labeled rapists or womanizers entirely depend on how good looking they are.
/r/MensRights02/02/22 03:58 PM
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...while at the same time men look for things in women then CAN control such as Weight, breast size, butt size. However, when men articulate this they are ridiculed.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 01:00 AM
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I had a vasectomy because of this very fear.
/r/MensRights24/11/21 08:44 PM
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Normally I wouldn't say jump directly to a lawyer for things but this is one of those cases where he should talk with a lawyer. Even if it's $100 for a consultation, it could still save him.
/r/MensRights16/11/21 11:46 AM
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I don't recommend you transitioning to a man due to how poorly men get treated. That being said, you can be any gender you feel comfortable with being. /r/MensRights and I will support you regardless of your gender.
/r/MensRights08/11/21 05:59 AM
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Holy crap. I never thought of that before. You are right!
/r/MensRights29/10/21 11:07 PM
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Of course. Willful deception.
/r/MensRights18/10/21 05:49 PM
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This makes a lot of sense as to the root of why things are the way they are. However we live in an evolved society. Laws and customs need to adapt accordingly. Men are getting shafted because of this lack of adaptation.
/r/MensRights17/10/21 07:20 AM
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This is how it should be.
/r/MensRights30/09/21 12:44 AM
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I never thought about that before. If the mother wants a child, the guy is on the hook for it. If a mother doesn't want a child, she can just ditch it and be free of any responsibility for it. Women have all the agency in sex and children yet can shirk all the responsibility.
/r/MensRights30/09/21 12:34 AM
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Complain about the unfair and totally unrealistic expectations for men in dating/life/society? Typical responses: You are just an incel Its your fault, why didnt you have the power of hindsight and do x, y or z? Why didn't you know what exactly to say (even though you aren't psychic)? We will strawman you saying you just want sex, even though our use of incel shames you for not having sex. Thats what you get for not being 6ft tall, incredibly good looking, and having a big dick. Women shouldn't …
/r/MensRights13/09/21 04:50 PM
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Does the paper answer why there's a bias against women? I know from personal experience in my field that my female coworkers tend to be less competent than my male coworkers. Every single one I've known have gotten a pass because they're woman. So would I hire a male coworker or over a female? Yes, I would based on personal experience. Does that take make me biased or just well informed?
/r/MensRights13/09/21 07:32 AM
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Welcome to the world of being a man. If it's any consolation we appreciate you posting here, even if other subreddits don't.
/r/MensRights13/09/21 06:21 AM
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There's a lot of truth in this. I fall into the above 6 ft making above 6 figures category. I'm still treated like I am the bottom 20% in the dating realm because of my looks, something I can't change. If I am considered low quality in the dating realm, imagine what other guys have to go through? Being an incel is not a choice. Being a single mom is.
/r/MensRights04/09/21 05:14 PM
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Woman discovers that actions have consequences. More at 11.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/09/21 11:29 PM
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Holy crap. This is so correct it hurts...
/r/MensRights26/08/21 05:06 PM
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Your partner doesn’t owe you marriage… they can say no for whatever reason they want.. or for no reason at all And no one needs marriage ppl can love just fine with out marriage it’s says “more important TO WOMEN”
/r/MensRights25/08/21 04:42 PM
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This sub gets a lot of hate. However it seems to be the most open and diverse sub of people (being allowed to) post about Men's rights. I have seen the following people post without repercussion: young Women, Mothers, Grandmothers, Grandfathers, Fathers, Gay, Trans, Black, White, Asian, Indian men. Conversely, posting MRA stuff in other places gets you banned or ridiculed. Even posting in none political subreddits such as /r/gaming gets you ridiculed just by subscribing to /r/mensrights.
/r/MensRights25/08/21 03:23 PM
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The internet: where the men are men, the women are men, and the children are FBI agents. According to the survey have just sexually harassed every woman that has read this comment.
/r/MensRights25/08/21 07:09 AM
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Ya, the sexism was shocking. I was being quiet up until now about it because of how recent the events are.
/r/MensRights19/08/21 05:23 PM
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If she gets evicted, my daughter can come and live with me instead. And we can play the PS5 together. Now that is a huge win for you. Congrats! It's unfortunate that events like yours are rare enough that you have to post them here.
/r/MensRights18/08/21 03:29 PM
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This has been scientifically proven. Why would I not believe it? Humans are hardwired to give women more leeway then they would give men.
/r/MensRights16/08/21 11:44 PM
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Conversely I have very few woman in my life that I can trust. Its all about chance and circumstance. Men NEED a safe place. Society likes to take these places away then complain that incels and MGTOWs exist.
/r/MensRights16/08/21 05:01 PM
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The only humans that should get priority should be children. After that it should be first come first serve.
/r/MensRights16/08/21 04:56 PM
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Victim blaming at its core by Reddit.
/r/MensRights16/08/21 04:51 PM
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No a society that puts down "low value" men is the problem.
/r/MensRights15/08/21 07:44 PM
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Yeah I figured it as much. I was hoping to get more proof of hypocrisy in that subreddit.
/r/MensRights14/08/21 08:22 PM
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Thanks for this. Facts are everything. Keep your chin up!
/r/MensRights14/08/21 05:33 PM
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Incels are a symptom of an unequal society. They are not the cause.
/r/MensRights14/08/21 05:27 PM
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Has anyone tried to post this in r/AgainstHateSubreddits?
/r/MensRights14/08/21 05:19 PM
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AKA all the dangerous/difficult/stressful jobs.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 08:38 PM
24

That is sad but true. MGTOW is just the natural result of a guy thinking to himself: "You know what? I have value, I dont need to have anyone else to be valuable. I am going to enjoy myself!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 04:37 PM
4

Thanks. I corrected it.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 01:03 AM
1

I am glad things worked out for you. When I was younger my mom basically took me away from my dad and brainwashed me to hate him. It was only until 15 years later that I reconnected with him...and it was too late. The best moments I could spend with him are gone.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 12:52 AM
7

This. The previous feminists had legitimate reason to exist. The current feminists have no reason to exist so they make up reasons to exist.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 12:46 AM
18

I had a down day yesterday. I had an ex who was extremely abusive. After we broke up she would harass me for months. I would block her number and she would call on another number, constantly changing numbers. She promised that she needed to tell me something and then she will stop only after I meet her in person. I finally agreed to meet her in a public place as I didn't trust her at all. She dragged me out there and wasted my time. You know what she told me? "I cheated on you when we were toget…
/r/MensRights08/08/21 08:20 PM
7

Places like /r/askreddit and /r/iama has had multiple terrorists, criminals and other people that the USA doesn't like post on them. I have been on Reddit long enough to remember when Edward Snowden posted on reddit. The US gov got involved and forced reddit to hand over information about him. His IAMA is still there BTW. The only reason Reddit is taking out men's rights groups is because anti men's rights groups are waging war on them.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 08:15 PM
15

I never understood this patriarchy thing. It sounds like a loaded strawman word to try to blame men. "Men are having troubles and men in power are to blame!" While technically true that there are a lot of men in power positions, the fact that feminism is a huge influence in modern politics tells me that saying "but the patriarchy!" is just a way of shifting blame off the feminist movement.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 08:08 PM
24

Of all homicides men account for almost 80% of the deaths. 70% of the homeless are men. The odds of being killed by police are about 1 in 2,000 for men and about 1 in 33,000 for women. A whopping 16x increase. Yes, feminism is indirectly killing men. A LOT of men.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 08:01 PM
16

Holy crap. I am so sorry. At least the lawyer got it off your record. Most men don't even get that...
/r/MensRights08/08/21 07:49 PM
13

We need more comments like this. A lot of times men just naturally make the connection between this and social rights. However, 3rd parties might not make the connection. To them it is just seen as complaining and woman bashing. Mens Rights needs to be aware of the optics of the movement.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 07:44 PM
28

Thank you. Women like you are critical in the fight for men's rights. It adds that extra legitimacy to what men are saying. It's kind of sad that MRA's needs "extra legitimacy" to begin with. Just asking for rights should be legitimate enough in itself. But this is the nature of the beast.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 07:40 PM
0

I am in one, Kind of. She wants a kid but I have been snipped. I don't want a kid. She keep holding on thinking I will change my mind. If we both weren't going through crap right now I would break up with her immediately. She is one of the few women I have been with that I trust completely, so it hurts to have to do this. I know how much of a unicorn these women are. However stringing her along is also unfair to her.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 04:37 AM
6

A lot of guys are coming to the realization that the are getting shafted in society. Its natural to vent. The trick is to get them back into the fold after the grief period is over.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 04:32 AM
15

Criticisms regarding FG has appeared many times on Reddit. There is always at least one up voted post that tries to defend Jenny's behavior.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 10:51 PM
723

It gets worse then that. She was actively stringing him along all their lives. She knew he had a thing for her, but she didn't care. It was only until he got rich AND she had a terminal disease that she finally came back to him. She then saddled him with a child (that might not be his) because she knew he would care for the child regardless. She then saddled him with the pain of her death. She was horrible to him in almost every way.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 10:49 PM
3

Same here.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 09:39 PM
26

I actually like this. Then you record her response. I strongly expect there's going to be a double standard. Now if she says something like oh that's okay I've had a crazy past also. Then maybe there is some redemption there. Now I think more about it there's no downside. Either she is okay with it because of her past or she flips out, giving you a good excuse to dump her right there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/08/21 06:17 PM
6

The thing that gets me is why did the man get so much time? He is not the father to the child. The mother has flat out said that she wanted to kill the daughter. Now he should get some jail time for his nonchalant attitude towards her when she said it, but getting similar years as her is overkill.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 03:52 PM
5

This is scarily accurate. Doesn't have to be MGTOW it could be anything men related. The MGTOW philosophy is just a small subset of the men support community. However, I don't think this falls in with what the subreddit requires. Look at the old post to get an idea of what this sub is about.
/r/PussyPass07/08/21 02:12 PM
2

Yeah you didn't say anything wrong. The people over in that subreddit has been trying to shut this subreddit down for ages. They'll just make anything up at this point to justify it.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 01:46 PM
3

Heads up, the assholes over in /r/AgainstHateSubreddits are trying to label this post as a hate post. I have never seen a more benign post get labeled as a hate post.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 12:58 AM
2

Holy crap. This feminism onion keeps getting worse after every layer. Feminism has turned into a monster, riding on name recognition alone. Many huge organizations behind this too. There is a good Q&A that mentions why third wave feminists are so radical. They are trying to one up their predecessors. It's less about women's rights and more about what they can think they can get away with. You damn well know that this would never have made it out to the masses if it was a guy that wrote this.
/r/MensRights06/08/21 05:16 PM
20

Before taking the course, only 21% of boys understood that they are taught to view women and girls as the property of men. After the course, that number increased to 90%. "You are secretly being indoctrinated to treat women like property!" "What are you talking about?" "I KNEW IT! Add another to the list."
/r/MensRights06/08/21 04:34 PM
1

Yep, looks are everything. He was short too, so he had the "I am not a threat!" thing going for him. I learned to take advantage of the situation and nonchalantly follow him when he got the "in". He hated it because I usually took over the conversation because I am much more interesting than him. Looks are everything unfortunately.
/r/MensRights06/08/21 04:23 PM
2

I have a friend who is 5 foot nothing but extremely good looking. He gets away with anything. Usually if we are out together he cold approaches groups of women and I just quietly walk up behind him. I am by far the most interesting of us both and the group of women start listening to me instead of him. He hates it, lol. I don't think its uglyness and more I am naturally scary looking. I asked a female friend about it and she said that "You are not ugly, you are actually pretty good looking, but …
/r/MensRights06/08/21 04:14 PM
3

Its an extreme risk. Thats generally why the advice is to never get married and dont have kids. If OP is willing to accept those risks, the MGTOW philosophy doesn't stop him.
/r/MensRights06/08/21 12:37 AM
3

MGTOW is not against fatherhood. You going your own way could involve having a kid. Its your way, you decide! However, it is risky, as society doesn't support MGTOW or fairness for men in the legal system, leaving you destitute if the mother isn't 100% on board with your path in life. Another risk is that people change. That female partner who's totally on board with what you do might suddenly change her mind. Then you're stuck as she has almost complete control over you when a child is involved…
/r/MensRights06/08/21 12:33 AM
2

Thank you friend. You will always be welcome here (or where here eventually moves to). We need many more people to have the strength like you to post these. The next day I confide in a mutual female friend and she immediately doesn’t believe me. She tells me I must have misinterpreted signals or was paranoid. What followed when I woke up nearly broke me. I received tons of messages and upvoted comments telling me to get over it, that nothing happened and I was blowing it out of proportion. I del…
/r/MensRights06/08/21 12:23 AM
1

A lot of men are realising that focusing on yourself gives you far more of a reward than chasing women. The essence of MGTOW.
/r/MensRights06/08/21 12:21 AM
2

MGTOWs aren't born or recruited. Society creates them.
/r/MensRights06/08/21 12:11 AM
2

I am a normal looking guy. I have a friend who is very good looking. Years go him and I we were cruising for women at 11pm. This guy was relentlessness: If a good looking group of women are walking by, he would dart off towards them without a word to me. If we were talking face to face at a table, he would get that creepy "look", immediately stop the middle of the conversation, and walk towards a girl he was interested in. He would chase after women walking down dark alleys. He would catcall wom…
/r/MensRights06/08/21 12:03 AM
1

Thats horrible. A girlfriend can totally leverage your kid to control you.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 11:48 PM
2

I am 6+ plus and make 6 figures. I don't get the time of day. Its all about the looks.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 11:47 PM
1

While I get where you are going, you are going about it the wrong way. Rape is a harsh word and shouldn't be used. A better way of saying this would be "taking away men's resources devalues them in society, while woman's value can be degraded in physical ways"
/r/MensRights05/08/21 11:38 PM
2

Amazingly well said!
/r/MensRights05/08/21 11:32 PM
3

Ya, as men, we dont have anyway of knowing. 11/12 of the relationships I have had devolved into my partner abusing me in some way. Those are horrible odds.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 11:30 PM
3

The interesting thing about this is MGTOW doesn't exclude women at all. In fact feminism's idea of toxic masculinity is what the philosophy of MGTOW is supposed to be fixing. Toxic masculinity when men are forced to be masculine by society. Of course it gets a lot more complex than that. MGTOW is men not doing what society wants it to do, doing things that they like. You see how those two things line up very well?
/r/MensRights05/08/21 10:49 PM
2

MGTOW is cancer and The entire 'MGTOW' movement is like that. It's not some special shiny beacon on a hill. and Take that MGTOW shit away from this sub. The intent of your message was made very clear. If you're going to go your own way, go your own way. This tells me you don't know what mgtow originally was before it turned toxic and what mgtow2 was before it got wrecked by association. You know nothing about the philosophy of MGTOW. You haven't even bothered to do your own research. The biggest…
/r/MensRights05/08/21 02:36 PM
1

I can totally believe that. However definitely you want to get our sources in line here.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 01:56 PM
4

A big turning point for me was when I hear complaints about things that men have always encountered and usually got it worse. When men complain they're just told to just "suck it up". There was an OnlyFans post where a white night was trying to garner sympathy for the girls that are on OF. He talked about how poorly these girls were treated and how hard their job was. My first response was "Why don't they get a another job if their job is too hard?" Military guys deployed overseas don't have tha…
/r/MensRights05/08/21 01:47 PM
3

That's a very good point. Years ago when I was young and dumb I was considered myself a feminist. If I have heard from feminists what MGTOW was I would have thought they were a bunch of incel losers from how they talk about them. Fast forward to now. I have been beaten, ridiculed, insulted, stolen from, manipulated by many close people. The majority of the abuse is from women I have been in relationships with. Then I learn of the horrible shit that my dad have gone through during my parents divo…
/r/MensRights05/08/21 01:22 PM
1

God forbid men ally together to support themselves and the issues they face. People like you prove that society won't help them. Fuck you.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 01:12 PM
4

Ironically I think that's why MGTOWs are treated like the scum of the Earth. It's because they're not activists. Conversely that's why feminists can be so abusive, they have the clout through activism/brand recognition to bully other groups that's a threat to how they think.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 12:17 PM
3

This is what I've been looking for thanks
/r/MensRights05/08/21 12:14 PM
0

You make a good point there It's hard to prove that. Well still following the rules.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 11:07 AM
20

It is. Is it any surprise that men follow philosophies like MGTOW?
/r/MensRights05/08/21 10:50 AM
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Feminist women even hurt other women. If guys check out a society then women will suffer too. Guys are important to a healthy society.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 10:47 AM
2

Do you have a link for that? That is definitely a bold claim.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 10:39 AM
10

Oh no! Anyway.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 04:35 AM
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You make a good point. Rights "taken" from women where usually taken from men also. Its not a "women suffered" but a "poor suffered" scenario. Class warfare.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 12:44 AM
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Apparently Queen Victoria was against feminism, women voting, being doctors and holding positions of power. She did more damage to female rights then any man ever did.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 12:42 AM
2

Ya. That's a big reason feminism is so powerful: They have a hundred or so years of practice. They also complain the loudest. Women have been given huge concessions for their equality, while men have not even attempted to fight for theirs.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 12:31 AM
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That is insidious. They could technically argue that its not "sexism" because shitty workplaces like this exist regardless of gender. However, they revealed that they purposely did this because your a guy and they can get away with it being women as per #7. They did get away with it per #9. I am so sorry what you went through. I am fortunate that the only abuse I went through on the job was from this one "engineer" who absolutely hated me. She would directly insult me in company meetings. She wo…
/r/MensRights04/08/21 07:12 PM
2

The beauty of seeing the source is you can close holes that can used for censorship. The terms are pretty good confidence booster I can see how some people like ruggus.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 05:45 PM
1

I mean, I have only worked in cyber security for NASA and the military for 15 years, what do I know? Even if I didn't know more than you about this very subject, reddit has been fighting bots and spam accounts ever since reddit existed.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 04:07 PM
1

So I checked out the source code. Seems legit. The only worry I have is this: A moderator has the power to "kick" a user-submitted post from their community (guild) but never delete it off the platform entirely. Kicked posts end up in a catch-all guild called +general. Content that violates the site-wide policy is removed by the core team. Why would kickable posts automatically be moved into an area called "general"? Also the thing about the core team being able to remove things can lead to powe…
/r/MensRights04/08/21 03:59 PM
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I agree. Reddit has become very monetized. Therefore its more beneficial for them to cater to what the current trend is. Third wave feminism is the "in" thing right now, so Reddit will cater to them. Its not a left wing thing, its a money thing.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 03:56 PM
2

I dont understand what you are saying? Creating a free Reddit account through a VPN is stupidly easy to do. The only hard part (I think, that shit is so vile I don't want to even research how hard it is) is getting the illegal content.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 03:42 PM
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So I checked out the links in the wiki. What I found where links to famous feminist books, blogs and news articles. The most "scientific" of the link is behind a paywall. It appears that it is co-written by another feminist. According to the abstract, they literally looked through 628,745 user comments for mentions of women and MGTOW....in a MGTOW forum: This study seeks to understand the structure and content of discussion within the forum of the official MGTOW website. To do so, it undertakes …
/r/MensRights04/08/21 06:17 AM
2

Ya /r/MGTOW got pretty toxic. A lot of angry abused guys just venting all the time. Wasn't very productive. mgtow2's purpose was to bring the sub back to its roots: Men Going Their Own Way. The only reason to take out mgtow2 was because of hatred for MTOWs, and by extension men's rights. This was a clear message to all men's rights related communities: "We hate you, your message and will remove you."
/r/MensRights04/08/21 04:28 AM
1

That is a good thing. Good behavior should always be rewarded.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 04:21 AM
1

Wait...a subreddit who's only reason for existence is to get mgtow banned got banned itself almost 9 times? That tells me that /r/mgtow was mild compared to the people that wanted it gone.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 04:14 AM
27

Holy shit? They will post CP on other subs to get them banned? I know /r/Againsthatesubreddits has turned from a force keeping hate out of reddit to people that hate subs that go against their viewpoint, but that is way over the line. With how much hate MRAs get, this is starting to approach the realm of possibility, is there proof of this?
/r/MensRights04/08/21 01:28 AM
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Good point. The spirit of of MGTOW has always been about improving the lives of men. MGTOW literally means "Men Going Their Own Way".
/r/MensRights04/08/21 12:32 AM
3

I am envious of the younger guys that went their own way early on. I effectively became a MGTOW before I knew what MGTOW was. Only when I was able to look at previous experience due to age was I able to put the pieces together: Men are treated like shit in a lot of ways and don't speak up to defend themselves. This has helped me draw the conclusion that something like the concept of MGTOW is not the cause of someone being MGTOW'd but society itself. There is no super secret cabal of women haters…
/r/MensRights03/08/21 11:57 PM
4

I mean I've seen people say that FDS is a troll sub that has incels making fake accounts and topics to make women look bad. Instead of just accepting that women can be bad people too. Holy shit, the mental gymnastics there. So now its some secret conspiracy by men? I have talked to MAGAs that seem saner then that.
/r/MensRights03/08/21 11:46 PM
2

It's interesting that you aren't banned. Oh wait, you mean that /r/MensRights tend to not ban people who have different viewpoints from them? I get ridiculed/banned just by posting on MenRights.
/r/MensRights03/08/21 11:40 PM
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I try so hard to not generalize. However as I have gotten older I have looked back at my relationships with a lot of women. It's almost entirely composed of them abusing me in one way or another. I think I can count maybe three that haven't tried to take advantage of me and have been good to me. I keep in touch with them often. At first I thought of this as just me being unlucky, but when I see 300,000+ guys telling me the same thing, I start to think that there is a cultural and societal proble…
/r/MensRights03/08/21 11:35 PM
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That's very accurate. That sub as devolved into "I don't like their opinion, so its a hate sub." I remember years ago when I first joined that sub, they actively kept the nazi subs in check.
/r/MensRights03/08/21 11:27 PM
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I looked into FDS. Holy shit. They hate men over there. Actively try develop ways of stealing from them. The more extremists in there just want to kill men.
/r/MensRights03/08/21 11:18 PM
1

Damn, so even the complaints about female abuse is porn minor compared to the abuse men get? Here's an idea, how about people just stop abusing each other?
/r/MensRights03/08/21 11:10 PM
1

It's also the longest existing profession in human history. "Taking advantage" is ridiculous because adult services have existed for thousands of years. And will continue to exist long past us. Nobody can change that. Governments have tried and failed miserably. argumentum ad antiquitatem. Women didn't have rights up until recently, either. Just because women have been taking advantage of men since human existence also doesn't make it right. Your argument can be used in both scenarios. Your doub…
/r/MensRights03/08/21 11:02 PM
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There is a lot of truth to this. I was at a dog park and I was following around my dog as usual. He decided to go to another dog that this girl my age owned. Both dogs started playing and we stood there watching them for a few minutes. I decided to break the silence by asking her how old her dog was. "I am just here to play with my dog and not get hit on by guys. Leave me alone." I, knowing how society works, immediately walked away. Being a guy in the presence of a woman, whether she knows you …
/r/MensRights22/07/21 05:01 PM
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While the quality of content on here has gone down because of so many complainy posts, this sub is far from an "incel sub". Men do get the short end of the stick in a lot of ways, I didn't realize just how widespread it was until I joined your.
/r/MensRights14/06/21 08:25 AM
5

The fact that it took 5 years for him to get the bare minimum in the relationship is absurd.
/r/MensRights27/05/21 12:48 AM
34

Hell, men deserve basic human decency. Some don't even get that.
/r/MensRights14/05/21 04:38 PM
10

This makes me so mad. This is the default response when there is proof that the woman was the abuser in a relationship. "Well what did you do to make her mad enough to beat you?" This is the male equivalent of "Well she shouldn't have dressed like a slut!" when a woman is sexually harassed in public.
/r/MensRights20/04/21 04:19 PM
2

Ill file this under my "water is wet" round filing bin. Men are told pretty much all their lives that they have no value unless they accomplish something. Even if they do accomplish things, in the dating and social world that means pretty much jack shit, unless they are good looking. So what is there really to be proud of in a society that expects everything from men, but doesn't reward them or acknowledge them?
/r/MensRights26/03/21 11:26 PM
19

Sounds like he cheated on her because she was a horrible person more than her becoming fat. He was going to lose his money regardless of whether he starts the divorce or she does. Either way, there was no reason to be faithful to her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/03/21 07:24 PM
1

Oh this one was pretty good. Have my upvote.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 07:04 PM
2

The best thing you can do is just not play the game.
/r/MensRights24/03/21 07:30 PM
3

You make a good point there. A lot of places in the south it's common to call people hun or honey. This was just a south thing. However by a lot of these broad definitions it could be considered sexual assault. When I get called these things I think it's condescending so I hate when people say that in general. Never occurred to me that it might be a sexual assault thing.
/r/MensRights20/03/21 06:39 PM
4

Excellent post.
/r/MensRights20/03/21 06:34 PM
8

The double standards are palpable.
/r/MensRights20/03/21 06:32 PM
6

Now that I'm older I realize that older women do the same thing. I've concluded that it's just a female thing to have a tendency of gossip and backstabbyness. I wonder if it's a trait of being the smaller and weaker of the two sexes. Like it's a survival instinct that humans picked up. I don't think there's any data on this because any data would be considered misogynist and probably wouldn't get funding if someone proposed it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 05:58 PM
6

Damn. I'm pretty unlucky. But I contributed a lot to it the place I'm in too. I've had some people claim that I'm too articulate. That I intimidate people with my big words and big ideas. The fuck has the world become where being an intellectual is so looked down on? another one I heard about that threw me for a loop is they think I'm lying when I tell them about my travel stories. I had to actually make my profile less interesting because it was assumed I was just lying.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 04:42 PM
1

That's the MGTOW way. It's a shame the concept of men doing their own thing for their for their own pleasure was turned into such a thing of scorn.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/03/21 04:37 PM
2

Interesting take. Never heard the white feather society!
/r/MensRights20/03/21 02:08 PM
15

Feminism isn't like what it was. Old school feminisism knuckled down and got stuff done. They were inspiring. It seems a lot of the new wave of feminists just want to sit around and complain. They want to blame others for their mistakes. They want men to fix their problems...which should be a slap in the face for strong women everywhere. The new waves got their cake, can eat it too and then complain that the cake isn't delicious enough.
/r/MensRights20/03/21 01:50 AM
11

Yeah our fight will also defend you from this.
/r/MensRights20/03/21 01:08 AM
1

Yeah I get that all the time. Typical response when they can't argue against you.
/r/MensRights20/03/21 01:04 AM
50

Lots of truth to this. I have had many times in my life get the "Why are you single? You are tall, successful, good with kids..." thing. Being single in itself made me ineligible for being dating material because it was assumed that there was a reason I was single. Its the social equivalent to the "you need a job to get job experience to get a job" catch-22.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/03/21 06:12 PM
1

I have a knack for debate and easily breaking down others arguments. Anti-MRM's arguments are comically easy to destroy. They almost always devolve into circular contradictory reasoning. Arguments with Anti-MRMs usually follow these patterns: Me: This thing is effecting men and I dont like it. Them: But what about women! Me: I am talking about this thing effecting men. Them: * throws insults * or Me: There are double standards in regards male - female interactions. Them: No there aren't. Well th…
/r/MensRights19/03/21 05:17 PM
5

I know the feeling. I am 6'4" guy who use to be a varsity wrestler. No one would believe me either.
/r/MensRights17/03/21 07:48 PM
1

So entitled and pretentious! I can see you grew up having everything handed to you because of your looks. Posting pictures on onlyfans is just the adult version of this. Instead of having your parents give you money you just con men into doing it. You need to work one of the many dangerous and shitty jobs that men are forced to do because they can't use their looks to generate money. Something like that would totally teach you perspective.
/r/MensRights17/03/21 02:30 PM
1

Yeah in America that is true in theory. However there's a lot of bias against guys that report things like this. Being inconsistent can weaken his argument.
/r/MensRights16/03/21 10:53 PM
2

So I come in to defend you and in return you argue with me about an easily proven and established fact? You post naked pictures on Reddit then complain that you're treated like a sex object. I'm starting to believe that your stories are BS meant to gain sympathy. Maybe if you were a nice person, things would be different for you. Just a thought!
/r/MensRights16/03/21 10:30 PM
3

I used condoms before the vasectomy. Still didn't stop them from playing the I'm pregnant game.
/r/MensRights16/03/21 10:21 PM
5

It doesn't make sense. Welcome to being a man!
/r/MensRights16/03/21 06:25 PM
1

Yeah you still have to be consistent. If you make a complaint against one but not the other HR is not going to take you seriously.
/r/MensRights16/03/21 06:05 PM
3

That is a horrible childhood. I am sorry to hear that. OP's is totally barking up the wrong tree with his rant: most unwanted sexual encounters are by family and friends. He needs a better example to prove that not all men are bad.
/r/MensRights16/03/21 04:07 PM
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It is definitely a double standard. Go to HR. Do not argue with your boss, or your coworkers. Keep reporting it if it continues. You want to make it hurt the companies bottom line. Once it hurts the wallet, then things will change. Even though you probably love it that the good looking woman are all over you, you have to be consistent for this to work. Don't let the good looking ones off the hook while the old hags get the complaints.
/r/MensRights16/03/21 04:01 PM
10

Another thing that really gets me is a vasectomy is a more or less permanent thing. It has been a deal breaker in multiple relationships. So not only do I get shafted while not having a vasectomy, I get shafted after having it with the lack of choice.
/r/MensRights16/03/21 03:53 PM
20

This prospect terrified me years ago. I have had multiple women pull the "I am pregnant, give me money for abortion" thing on me. What were my options? She really having a kid and I be stuck with a kid I don't want with a woman who shouldn't be a mom, or keep paying out out the equivalent of blackmail money? This lead me to getting a vasectomy in my early 20s. 10 years later, as a much wiser person, I realize just how fucked the whole situation really was, and how little power a man has in relat…
/r/MensRights16/03/21 03:23 PM
16

My last ex was horribly abusive. Psychological, emotional, physical...you name it. Being a guy I already knew the hazards of getting law enforcement involved, so I just had to sit around and tolerate it. The one time I got cops involved the result were disastrous for me, it was a miracle that I wasn't arrested instead. One night my ex went on one of her almost daily abusive rants. She worked herself into a frenzy because I was trying to avoid her and took a baseball bat to my TV and threatened m…
/r/MensRights12/03/21 08:01 PM
1

I am not getting the same results. Maybe google is customizing searches for me?
/r/MensRights10/03/21 11:47 PM
5

Someone started an argument with me on another thread. I was asking if a new trend going around on dating sites were woman purposely waste men's time. I was insulted relentlessly. That in itself was nothing new. What struck me was how every argument levied against me was about how women had it tough. The arguments basically devolve into "i suffered, now you have to". I couldn't get one person to even answer me. This seems like a perfect analogy of that.
/r/MensRights10/03/21 11:41 PM
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Ya, hate is a strong word. Prejudice is a better way of saying it. It makes sense, there is an entire generation of women brought up on: disney princess always finds her prince stories told she is perfect the way she is told she is perfect regardless of what she does able to get away with being bad people in law gets social cover for bad behavior on places like reddit has unrealistically high beauty standards due to modern media god level power and control in the dating world an entire culturall…
/r/MensRights10/03/21 11:17 PM
1

This. Guys have to support each other, not worry about what the haters outside think. I made the mistake of arguing with others outside supportive forums. i still do sometimes. It is obvious from the get go that a lot of these people determine that they hate you/you're wrong/did something wrong first and then work backwards to create "evidence" to prove it.
/r/MensRights10/03/21 11:05 PM
5

Damn. Wasting money to take pictures with actors? Hell weight loss is the least of her concerns.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 05:06 PM
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Do stupid people consume more social media and TV series and let affect their actions? It makes a lot of sense when a human who has been entertained their entire life expect their partner to do so also.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 04:30 PM
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Oh those types are so annoying. Immediately expect a guy to say everything perfectly and never have a bad moment in their life. but when actual conversation skills come into play it's like dear in the headlights for them. There are a few women that can actually be very good at conversation, I'm thinking about every one in 8 or so. There's definitely an inverse correlation with the ability to communicate and how she looks. Of course that's not always 100%. I've talked to some threes that had noth…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 04:22 PM
4

Interesting, I didn't know that! I just went to the go army website. Thanks for sharing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 10:00 PM
2

From what I can tell there's two different sides here. There's a higher suspicion of infidelity leading to paternity tests. However on the other side of the coin suspicion can be rare. In Western cultures where facial features and skin colors are similar it becomes even worse. Now that I think of it...ya its complex. SocioEconomic factors have a big play in it also.
/r/MensRights09/03/21 09:05 PM
4

In the US is illegal. Now whether it will be enforced or not is a whole other issue.
/r/MensRights09/03/21 08:35 PM
14

I am a reasonable person, so I gave her one chance. The funny thing is I deal with military types as my job, and a lot of the higher ups are rude, offensive, gruff and egotistic. This is typical when you are practically a god with the amount of power you wield in the Army at the higher ranks. I thought my "I am not going to take any shit attitude" would earn respect. It received scorn. The best thing about the whole exchange was an SSG only commands 10 people. I have lead a team of 25 developers…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 07:13 PM
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It's a cyclical thing. Isolate and treat people poorly, they behave poorly, use that as an excuse to treat them poorly, repeat.
/r/MensRights09/03/21 07:04 PM
2

So you admit that they are "egging me on"? That they are trolls and jerks over at that sub? Then when I come over here...you do the exact same thing...then gaslight me up until now about everything? If this sub insults men with legit grievances and concerns, then what the hell is the point of MRM? "Your wife left you, took everything and the dog. I know the courts are biased against men, but tough shit buttercup." "You feel ostracized by another community that is obviously being assholes even th…
/r/MensRights09/03/21 05:46 PM
3

Why are you posting just my comments and not the comments i am replying to I wonder? Oh wait, its because all of your quotes are responses to other's horrible or unhelpful comments! You see, when someone creates a post on Reddit, people comment on it first! Amazing right? ...until people like you cherry pick my comments to justify your arguments. You forgot a few comments from that thread: Why are you getting so upset? You’re getting duped by bot and scam accounts. You must not have a good perce…
/r/MensRights09/03/21 05:20 PM
1

You know what is self sabotage? Men cutting other men at the knees when the have come for support, help and understanding. You then have the nerve to insult this community when they downvote your shit...while defending /r/OKCupid for doing the same thing to me. You arguing with me is whats continuing this. You can see my post history and you STILL argue that what I say is not true. You can SEE the others insulting me, further continuing this. You then ignore every one else that also commented so…
/r/MensRights09/03/21 04:43 PM
2

"HAHA you are so dumb getting mislead be a tool whose intention is to mislead others! Ill just ignore the fact that some women also do the same things the bot does to prove my preconceived bias!"
/r/MensRights09/03/21 04:26 PM
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You cant. Then when you go point out the horribleness, the responses you get are "That's obviously a bot, idiot.", or "Woman don't do that, its a bot. Why are you falling for this, incel?", or just generic insults. its insidious, because now bad female actors on dating sites have immediate plausible deniability with the bot excuse. Even assholes on this subreddit like this guy use the "That's obviously a bot, idiot" excuse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 03:50 PM
2

Its amazing the lengths people will go to to excuse bad female behavior.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 03:38 PM
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The messages I received in the last few days: how dare you speak out of turn message, a how much you make message. One woman just flat out asked me for money. Another insinuated i was dumb because i couldn't tell if she was joking or not. Guys, I think a noticeable portion of women on dating sites are just horrible people... Whats interesting is I kept talking with "how dare you speak out of turn" woman. I wanted to see if it was just her being "rough around the edges". Sure as rain, she insulte…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/21 03:26 PM
1

Just like they downvote your shit because it's dumb? Interesting how that works.
/r/MensRights09/03/21 11:03 AM
1

That makes a lot of sense. Is human nature to start getting greedy and selfish when you have a lot of options. Infuriating because I literally linked to all the examples. I'm an engineer. I use facts constantly in my job. I collect evidence.
/r/MensRights09/03/21 11:01 AM
1

Bullshit. I made no mention of being banned. The original agreements I made towards OP in my previous post was towards sexism. Getting banned is one punishment. Downvoting and being insulted is another way of punishment. Either way it's still sexism towards men. Its obvious that your ability to comprehend and extrapolate on what people say is non-existent. Further proved by your laughably wrong assessment of the situation that I was put in in the other subreddit.
/r/MensRights09/03/21 04:47 AM
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Naturally you don't mention how two people out of 12 told me it was a bot after insulting me. The other 10 just assumed it was my fault and treated me like shit anyways. When I said that they treated me like shit for a simple question, they further treated me like shit. Who the fuck are you anyways? What the fuck does "being banned" have to do anything? Who says I was banned? I never did. I just fucking left that shitty place. Yet people like you are so horrible that you followed me over here. G…
/r/MensRights09/03/21 04:23 AM
1

That's so fucked.Only 8 years of child support for a kid that a kid shouldn't have had in the first place. We just normalize that. Like that is the obvious answer here.
/r/MensRights09/03/21 04:12 AM
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What's sad is the fact that you immediately assume that we will call you a snow flake and call you weak. This isn't because this community would do that. It's because other communities would. It's because society would. It's been so normalized to abuse men that everywhere they go the have to hold our hats in their hands and beg not to be punished for being men.
/r/MensRights09/03/21 04:08 AM
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That's typical. As a man expect to be abused on most social forums. I was just forced here recently because of the abuse I received on another subreddit for a dating app when I complained about.. abuse on the dating app. Lol Proof doesn't matter. I have all the original screenshots I have all the links. The narrative is men are bad, and they are at fault for all bad that happens. You can't fight that. However, I do want to tell you that you are normal. You are not wrong. You are valuable and jus…
/r/MensRights08/03/21 11:49 PM
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Totally true. I was just on /r/OKCupid and I brought up the fact that women are starting to waste guys time for sport on the app. Like truly malicious vindictive cat-mouse type games. I even had screenshots conversations proving that I was not at fault for these situations. I knew that as a guy I was immediately going to get blamed. I was insulted and down voted. It was implied I was an incel, stupid, really at fault, live in my mother's basement, can't talk to women, trolling, had a bad attitud…
/r/MensRights08/03/21 10:57 PM
8

Sounds like a good pump and dump opportunity.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/03/21 09:24 PM
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I would argue that unreasonable standards perpetrated by the media has a greater effect then rabid feminism. I like to call it "Disney Princess Syndrome". These woman grew up being told that their prince charming is out there. They just have to wait a liiiiitttlllee bit longer and not settle for anything less. Throw in rabid feminism and you have the horrible women you see today.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/02/21 01:53 AM
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If a woman did that to me, I would be the luckiest man alive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 07:41 PM
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Man I'm 6'3" and I don't get the time of day. I wouldnt even consider my self bad looking, just average looking. Trust me, looks come above everything. You can't even get through the front door without looks. Once you get into the door, you can kind of have a chance of charming them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 02:13 PM
1

When woman say "where are all the good men" they really mean "where are all the good 10/10 looking men".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/21 05:49 PM
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To make this worse is woman already go for the top 5 percent of guys. These guys know they are in the top 5%, and will break their hearts or pump and dump them. The women will then get even pickier, not wanting to risk another heartbreak. Rinse and repeat.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 07:30 PM
3

I had an ex-girlfriend who would not listen to anything I would say. I have a history of making good decisions as well as experience in the areas where the decisions need to be made in. Instead of listening to me, she would listen to random strangers suggestions, and come home and demand that we do what those strangers suggested. I would spend the rest of the night arguing with her as to why it's a stupid idea. Some of the things she said: Even though you are allergic to the food, a customer tol…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/20 02:29 PM
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I am convinced that good looking people exists in a whole separate reality than us ugly folk. A guy getting 10 hits a day on tinder and by woman that like the one in ops post? That sounds so unrealistic that it's easy to chalk it up as just a bunch of lies. Of course, I have glimpsed this seperate reality a few times in my lifetime, so I know that this stuff is real. It really hit home when I added a good looking bartender on Facebook and suddenly the Facebook recommendation algorithm brought up…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/20 05:41 AM
3

If she can set a looks filter she would. Setting an age filter might accidently get rid of the hot ones!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/19 09:48 PM
8

College education has been taken over and turned into a money making vehicle. Kids are also told from an early age to go to college no matter what. So now kids who have no business stepping foot in college are getting huge loans to do so. Now the quality of schooling has gone down significantly. However the above image was probably the beginning of a slideshow that was meant to get a rise out of people so they will tune into the fact that certain products are more expensive for woman than for me…
/r/MGTOW25/09/19 06:46 PM
13

"Confidence is sexy." No, sexiness is sexy. It just happens that sexy people are confident.
/r/MGTOW25/07/19 04:48 AM
10

It's so rare to receive a compliment from a woman as a guy that when it does happen a guy assumes she is interested in him, or she wants something. Either unwanted attention or hostility. This creates a negative feed back loop, which prevents compliments on the future.
/r/MensRights22/07/19 10:43 PM
2

In the pure biology side of things, almost every aspect of them is diminished for reproduction. They are smaller, weaker, and generally less intelligent. All evolution cares about is making more humans. Is that fair? Not at all. But life isn't fair and society can't cut down men because they are the winners in the sexual dimorphism game. Even though we win the dimorphism game doesn't mean there aren't downsides. Since woman are lacking in many areas, evolution has programmed guys to "pick up the…
/r/MGTOW13/05/19 12:02 AM
1

Well said! I just created a post about this just a week ago. It's nice to know that others are seeing this.
/r/MGTOW12/05/19 08:34 PM
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I was almost baby trapped with a FWB. Totally scared the shit out of me. I scheduled my vasectomy the day after the abortion. Best decision I ever made. Encouraging men to get vasectomies or some future less permanent birth control would be a good thing. It will eliminate one of the many levers woman can use to control men.
/r/MGTOW12/05/19 08:30 PM
1

You have a screenshot of the exchange?
/r/MGTOW12/05/19 08:22 PM
0

There is a lot of toxicity in these replies. I say good for you OP!
/r/MensRights09/03/19 10:46 PM
10

There is a lot of raw and uncomfortable truth to this. It reminds me of something my girlfriend said out of the blue: Her: Men tend to be smarter than women. Is that true? Me: Men tend to have bigger heads, as well as a needed mental capacity to hunt, so it makes sense for them to be smarter. It was needed for survival. Her: Men and women developed differently and have different needs for survival. Me: Yes. So some women understand that there are fundamental differences between men and woman and…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/18 05:20 AM
1

We live in a world where men are expected to provide, yet at the same time being the least able of the 2 sexes to do so. Just being able to get into sex work is a huge boone for woman. Something that very very few guys are able to do. Woman, just by being woman, are inherently more value than guys and can make more money. The only way a guy is worth anything for existing is to have a super model body with a big dick. Since 99.99% of the male population doesn't fit that requirement, they have no …
/r/MensRights24/11/18 04:30 AM
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Don't do that to yourself brother. Keep your chin up, you'll find someone.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/09/18 04:48 PM
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I have a wonderful, loyal woman....and we both detest most women.
/r/PussyPass27/09/18 04:34 AM
1

The only way women will learn not to abuse men is for all men to protest. MGTOW all the way.
/r/MensRights09/09/18 02:35 AM
2

Being alone is a very real possibility for guys.
/r/MensRights08/09/18 11:02 PM
2

This seems similar to my "Disney Princess" theory: A lot of women were conditioned from childhood that they deserve their prince charming and that they are destined to be with him. This makes them set the bar at impossible levels for men. Any slight transgression is then amplified because these woman compare it to their non existent perfect prince charming.
/r/MensRights01/05/18 01:59 AM
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The fact that you refuse to be a "forever victim" shows your strength and fortitude. Much respect.
/r/MensRights18/01/18 08:18 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/science/comments/7o2nsu/study_of_sapiosexuality_suggests_some_people/?utm_source=reddit-android But don't let facts get you down.
/r/MensRights04/01/18 08:38 PM
1

Here is the source.
/r/MensRights27/12/17 02:59 AM
1

source
/r/MensRights27/12/17 02:57 AM
2

The fact that actively protecting ourself even has the chance of backfiring on us because it is seen as "too aggressive" is terrifying. That just shows just how far the deck is stacked against us.
/r/MensRights13/12/17 04:55 PM
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I respect you a lot. Just wish your thinking was more common. Statistically speaking, women are the safest they have ever been in the entirety of human history.
/r/MensRights11/12/17 08:13 PM
1

Never said it did. I said that it "gets them off". You seem to be unfamiliar with how woman work.
/r/MensRights11/12/17 04:02 AM
0

Except for the woman that have flat out told me that intelligent and geeky guys get them off. So which is it? Are these women lying to me or not?
/r/MensRights10/12/17 03:02 AM
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The women were sapiophiles: They get sexually stimulated through intelligent discourse.
/r/MensRights09/12/17 06:45 PM
3

It sounds like that she gets visitation anyways. You literally have nothing lose and everything to gain by going after the child support.
/r/MensRights09/12/17 06:38 PM
2

What if the woman grabs your junk against your will with the sole purpose to sexually excite you, then doesn't follow through? That's the equivalent of forcing food in front of a hungry dogs nose than taking it away. Its a power play and a form of abuse. If a girl grabs my junk against my wishes, she better go all the way. Otherwise hands off.
/r/MensRights09/12/17 06:21 PM
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For me its an ATM and a walking sex object....and not in the good way. I am just there to satisfy them sexually through mental and emotional stimulation, but when I need to be satisfied physically, suddenly that is an unreasonable request and I am demonized. I had this one girl who i dated for months who, by just listening to me, got her sexually excited...yet she refused to have sex with me. I then realized that she had no reason to have sex with me...because I was already sexually satisfying h…
/r/MensRights09/12/17 05:14 PM
2

Stuff like this is terrifying to me. This is why I had a vasectemy. Women have complete power over men sexually.
/r/MensRights09/12/17 05:07 PM
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A few days ago I was on a date with a woman who couldnt seem to keep her hands off me. We would make out like crazy, she would rub my chest, guide my hands onto her breasts and butt, dig her nails into my chest, stick her hand up my shirt, grab my crotch, the whole 9 yards. Finally after being teased sexually for what seemed like an hour I finally said "So are we going back to your place or mine?" She said that I am a pig who only wants sex and stopped talking to me. Edit: This post seemed to ri…
/r/MensRights09/12/17 03:46 PM
1

Enacting vigilante justice on someone just because you don't like them or what they have done has no place in a modern society. It doesn't matter whether you are male or female or something in between. You trying to derail my very very clear statement tells me that your intentions for this debate are not well natured and that it is a complete waste of time to argue this with you.
/r/MensRights04/12/17 12:05 AM
1

It's not ok to physically hurt someone, period. We live in a society where we have a justice system that is supposed to punish people after they get their due process. Letting someone slap someone around because they think they deserve it is a dangerous situation that shouldn't exist in a modern society. Any real feminist (at least the ones that truely want equality) should agree with that statement.
/r/MensRights03/12/17 11:35 PM
1

Except the whole "slapping guys because I think they deserve it part".
/r/MensRights03/12/17 05:14 PM
1

That's literally what dating is. Its called "the game" for a reason. Dating is men and women playing head games with each other.
/r/MensRights03/12/17 05:05 PM
1

Very well said.
/r/MensRights03/12/17 04:53 PM
1

No one should be physically attacked, ever. Also no one should be allowed to enact vigilante justice just because they think the person deserves it.
/r/MensRights03/12/17 04:50 PM
1

No one should be hit, ever. This girl basically said "I should have the ability to slap guys around whenever I want. I promise just to hit the ones that are deserving of it though, I swear! You must be a woman abuser because you dont like the fact that I want to enact vigilante justice whenever I want." She then completely ignores the fact that I was a victim of the very abuse she describes.
/r/MensRights03/12/17 04:41 PM
1

Except there is a second part to the post: her claiming I am one of those abusers because I called her out on her hypocrisy. No one should have the power to enact some sort of vigilante justice through physical abuse.
/r/MensRights03/12/17 04:39 PM
3

Your wife sounds like this one girl I dated. I was dating this girl for 8 months. We would have great sex, go on awesome dates, geek out to things, even went on trips together. One time when we went up to a little mountain town with her I learned that she was a big feminist, and I made the mistake of mentioning that guys also get abused too. After the mountain trip she started avoiding me for months, yet every once in a while she send me unsolicited sexual pictures over Snapchat: pictures of her…
/r/MensRights03/12/17 04:16 PM
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I don't know where you are seeing that. I see a lot of hypocrisy being called out. That doesn't mean people are being hateful.
/r/MensRights01/12/17 08:28 PM
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