| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | Relaxing when going out | Inner Game | GreatWhite9000 | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 12:42 PM |
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| 1 | I’m not attracted to women who aren’t really hot how can i fix this?Good one. That hit home for me. Thanks man, great advice. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 05:08 PM |
| 7 | Attempting to be charismatic often feels forced and cringey. But not forcing myself to be outgoing results in me being quiet and boring. What do I do?From where are you learning charisma? | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 10:56 AM |
| 0 | IDK if she loves me or she is playingTry to escalate slowly. Test the water. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 10:49 AM |
| 2 | How do you personally word it when you are asking a girl on a date?In my early 20 | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 01:39 PM |
| 3 | How do you personally word it when you are asking a girl on a date?If you are interested she should now. I would like to go on coffee with you. After that she will be yes, lets go on coffee. Not complicated . | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 12:39 PM |
| 8 | How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert?Palm reading always worked | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 06:45 AM |
| 1 | How do I look?Why not | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Relaxing when going outHonestly I am trying to figure it out. Thing is its not affecting anything else. All people I know think that am cool and good person. So people in general are not a problem. I think it something like that one guy said not being relaxed is excuse when you are not confident. This week am not going out, I'll try to just relax. Next week I will hook up regardless of how I feel about it. So if its a confidence thing I will know. What do you say about this? | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Relaxing when going outYou know when everything's great but you are never in mood to escalate further. In my mind there is no point of trying to get girls if I am not relaxed and usually I get stressed why I am not relaxed which is not healthy. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | How do I look?Like I would go with you on a drink 🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Relaxing when going outYou talk with someone, but you can't focus on conversation. Also you get bored fast when I am not in a mood. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 01:35 PM |
| 3 | “Why are you so weird?” Shit testThanks, but meh | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 12:16 PM |
| 30 | I’m gonna start working out.We are with you brother. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 11:15 AM |
| 7 | “Why are you so weird?” Shit testAnyway what is HB9? | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 11:08 AM |
| 1 | “Why are you so weird?” Shit testYou speak the truth my dude. You can not give a fuck or start flirting with her. Depends on your mood and intentions. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 11:06 AM |
| 9 | “Why are you so weird?” Shit testHe played asshole tho. Anyway I don't give a fuck would be mora like just okay with slight down tone. Anything more for don't give a fuck style is not really not give a fuck. After that continue conversation as normal or leave if she is not fun. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 11:03 AM |
| 6 | online dating is lowkey better, just use the right appsAlso from Eastern Europe and I agree. Night clubs and bars are the kings. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Is it easy to get laid if I’m skinny and short ?Stop with tinder. Go out. Have fun. Stop worrying about your hight or weight. Nobody cares if you don't and if that is no no form them. Then they are not right for you. About the gym try mixing strength and endurance trainings + high calorie intake (lot of meat). After six months to a year you will be a different man. Just push and be consistent. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Relaxing when going out70% of time I go solo. After 3 years almost everybody knows me mostly by positive. So lot of socilproofing haha Anyway go to bar only for one bear and if you like it drink another one. Try small talk and compliments. My first night i met only two girls that i used to see in highschool, ex girls bestfriends and some chemical engineers. Next week I got a phone number from girl that is in relationship. Week after that danced with two girls in street. We went for drinks. Left them, met another 4 gir… | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Relaxing when going outEye opening. So you are saying only way to be more relaxed (in the zone) is not trying at all. I guess your mindset is doesn't mater what happens everything is going to go fine. Better than having plan b is not having a need to be in the zone. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Relaxing when going outSir. In my country it not legal. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Relaxing when going outAh.. well that is why I go out every week or twice a week. Just sometimes I am not my usual casual self. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Relaxing when going outUsed to meditate every day for hour two years. So that is legit. Anyway I don't have troubles with girls. My story is more like I can have what I want when I want but I don't want anything with anybody if I am not in the zone. You are probably right when you say that I am not outcome independent. Great advice friend. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Relaxing when going outI don't know. Not my thing to be honest. Do we use drugs? Yes, but I don't want to consume anything regularly. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Question to all the guys who actively get lucky with girlsDude 30 or 50 is a lot. Why do need that long time to worm up? In my experience about 5 people is enough. Doesn't mater if they are male or female. And yes I also have a lot of insecurities. | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Curious about what to do when ‘hovering’Talk with everyone all the time. Don't waste your time with day game bs. It works what? 1/5 times if you are okay at it. Talk with as much people as you can and try to befriend as much of them as you can. One day you may be talking with a girl in a bar and half of a bar will come to say hello 'cose everybody know how cool and easy going you are. Do social proofing first than do the game man. | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Overcoming fear of being shamed for what I want?Real question is how confident is the guy saying it and to who is saying it. Good balance between being upfront and being too sexual will yield most results. If you say something like hey i thought you are pretty/hot, nobody will judge you, but if you say lets go to my place in introduction two things can happen. First it can go well. You look like a guy that can pull that off and she likes that kind of a guys. Second case you get rejected or she tells you somehow to slow down with escalation. M… | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 10:15 AM |
| 1 | S-Test from girl at club. Need helpLast time when i was out? | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | S-Test from girl at club. Need helpIdk. Didnt talked with enough people so i cant say that (mostly white and asian ppl). As I see it only thing that anybody has is time and any shit test is ment to question if someone is worth your time. She wasnt secure if you were a real deal. So she gave you as hard s test as she could. Races play a part, but i dont think you can catagorize person like that. And value system is inherently wrong. Like what dose even make a person worth you time? You can tell someone that Bill Gates is more valu… | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | S-Test from girl at club. Need helpI dont know how to respond. I try to flirt with everybody, like every interaction is traning. If i dont like a person i try to make them happy but leave. If i like a person i dont leave that is all. Value is overrated. If you like her pesonality and her looks than have fun if not leave. How did we did endup on this question anyway? Didnt you asked how to pass s* test? | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | S-Test from girl at club. Need helpNice. She told you that turns her on, wich means she is trying to steer conversation to be more sexual. Pesonaly I would say something like you are not enough of a noty girl for me to say you thing like that. She will respond with something like oh really? On which you would say but i know a way to change it. And you passed s* test, plus you explaind to her that you are intrested in her sexualy without being awkward about it. Sorry if i have missspells, english is not my primary language. | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you pick up girls in discos/clubs?If a girl dosnt buy you a drink you are not doing a good job. JK. Personaly I dont buy every girl a drink. Almos all the time i wait for her to show some deegre of intention in coversation. If she starts to talk about her passion I task her, hey what do you deink. And one more thing you dont have to make eye conncat with her. Go to grup of girls ask if you can join. Most of the time they will be happy that there is somone not tring to grind on her rather just dace. Than make eye concat with girl… | /r/seduction | 16/08/20 02:34 PM |
| 1 | How to pickup friend of a friendNop, but if it helps. Act like she is your standard friend (aka human) and when you feel like it pratice kino method. If she pulls back but continues to show intres wait some time and try again slower with less intanse | /r/seduction | 16/08/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | How to pickup friend of a friendSocial circle game. Am not good but I think when you meet her say something like: hey I dont think we have met before. Try cold reading with a bit of hummor. Something like: Let me guess you must be from x. She will say something. She will ask why, so explamation should be funny. People form x are wild af and with a funny vibe. If she stays cold move on. She is not intrested or she is boring. | /r/seduction | 16/08/20 10:24 AM |
| 1 | If Girl is kissing with me, should I invite her out ?What about being normal person and ask her when you meet. I mean at the end. Like I had soch a good time, something something. Are you free ( in few days time, not next week) to grab a coffee? She will think you are normal person and act cool. About her friends, so what you did the best you cold and they probably what to out with you and are jelous of her ( there is a chance am true) | /r/seduction | 16/08/20 10:03 AM |
| 1 | If Girl is kissing with me, should I invite her out ?Think of a game like experiment. Lot of things work but you have to find what you like. Personaly I like texting (too much), after i get her to connect with me i usualy ask for walk and ice cream. Idk am not a pro, but if you feel like you connected with her she will go out with you anywere to do anything. | /r/seduction | 16/08/20 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Keep getting mistaken for a fuckboiSame thing, first girlfriend almost didnt go out with me because her friends were telling her am fuckboy. In my case i had 7-10 close female friends, that i constatly hug and cuddled soooo.. double edge sword. Dont worry, go out more. When i started going out girls started approching me but my game sufferd for it hahaha. Now i can go out and pick up a girl but for hell of it i cant walk to random girl sometimes haahah | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Given her your numberCold approach as in day game? Anyway am just good at night game, never tried day game if you dont count highschool or work. Use KINO metod, be average looking and act as she is some random person. Toching shows your intrest more than your words. Point of interaction is to make her feel your vibe and connect if she is okey for you. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Given her your numberIf she dosnt ask your number don't bother thinking about it. Most of the time in my experiance if we had good time she will say something like we should go somwere together or she will give her ig. Metaphorically speaking, thing is that you are looking for car to buy and she is trying to sell you a car. So she will make an effort to sell you a car. If not someone will. Everyone is trying something with her and you are firs guy who is like I like you but you also have to make an effort to make th… | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Ten thousand dollars in one monthEffective af. Hahhaahahha | /r/seduction | 11/08/20 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Which songs have lyrics that have the right mentality when it comes to seduction?Shinedown - Adrenaline, about life in general | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How I overcame my pornography addiction & why I started to change my life for the better.Totally agree | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | AdviceForget, to much invesment. If she dosnt give a f*** nether should you. | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 05:56 AM |
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