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| 9 | A guide to open relationships (if you want it)I'm in a 31 year open relationship with kids and I'll tell you that everything you wrote is spot on and what we do. Except for writing it down. Mismatched libidos are what lead us here but everything else is good in our relationship so without the open relationship I would have checked out eventually. Your advice is how we've made it work. I'd add that I also use the philosophies of kink which is boundaries, consent, expectations, rules. | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Do men find it unappealing when a woman is more upfront (ie less of a chase)?Sensually forward is giving a guy the opening to take the lead and encouraging it to continue. The guys you are looking for exist but they are as scared of rejection as anyone. So for example you might start the usual small talk and then compliment them on how well they talk and saying that you like spending time with interesting guys like them. You'd then say you are really enjoying your time with them and to pull them in you'd suggest that you would like to continue this with them that night o… | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Do men find it unappealing when a woman is more upfront (ie less of a chase)?No it's flattering to be pursued when you are a guy. Stable good men don't need or want the chase. They want honesty and commitment. Players and non committal men like the chase. But if you are making the approach you also have to be appealing as in forward sensual and not forward demanding or bossy | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Something a woman can do that gets you weak at the knees?The simplest flirt to help get a guy is to ask them "if i go home with you, what would you like to do to me?" It shows that you are open to exploring and also will help you weed out types of guys and their interests. If you are a girl who likes guys to take the lead then this is a good way of showing them that you are willing to be explored. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Feeling high value but not seeing the resultsThat's a really good idea and thanks for posting that you are on the spectrum. You'll see a lot of people put some pretty negative responses to my detecting that you are on the spectrum based on how you wrote. It's like some people here see it as an insult to you to have that label and for me to suggest it. When I'm fact it would be silly to give advice and not point out the obvious social errors you might be making. Really sad because Reddit exists to have suggestions from the wider public incl… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Feeling high value but not seeing the resultsAs a clinician you sound autistic. It sounds like you are approaching social situations using text book analytical approaches, preconceived ideals and tactical thinking. If you are a gifted musician and have a history of missing social cues I'd start treating about autism and gifted people. Do some online tests. Run the question past people you know. Get a professional diagnosis if it fits. Chances are you are missing social cues, coming across as interrogating rather than fun. You can learn aro… | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Should I give her a hearing she deserves?Get her to put it in an email and then decide | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 12:17 PM |
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