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| 3 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?I'm from Western Europe and I although I've never been to the US, I think it's not as bad there as it is here. In the US, you can still go to a bar and maybe talk to a group if strangers. This is unthinkable in Western Europe. You only talk to the people you've entered the bar with and, if necessary, the waiter. Americans are still rather outgoing compared to us. | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 05:14 PM |
| 8 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?The death of the communal space is terrible and this has even lead to us consciously avoiding social interactions. How often have you started a conversation with a stranger on the bus, not even for dating but just for socialising. It's not only taboo, it's basically impossible because everyone's isolating themselves with headphones. On top, we view people who still "talk loudly" as annoying, even though we're all lonely and they are having fun. This has lead to us that we can never get to know s… | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 05:02 PM |
| -17 | Any other straight white men avoid public places as much as possible?And yet I'll see them complain about the male loneliness epidemic very soon... | /r/MensRights | 06/05/26 07:09 AM |
| -33 | Any other straight white men avoid public places as much as possible?"Omg, why does nobody do anything against the male loneliness epidemic?!" | /r/MensRights | 06/05/26 07:08 AM |
| 5 | Co worker keeps getting me brickedHe wrote "thinking about any sex stuff", so I'm guessing not much older than 16. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 03:58 PM |
| -1 | I pretended to be rich on hingeWait, but why would women care about the wealth of a man? It's not their money, it's their boyfriend's. My money is mine and not my girlfriend's. So what's the point of finding a rich guy? | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 07:24 PM |
| 2 | What’s a high body count?Imagine implying that women are sluts but still admitting that you don't get any. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 06:58 PM |
| 1 | What’s a high body count?Without trying to argue with any informed answer, I have two things to add: Firstly, I don't think people in the past had "romantic" relationships as much as we like to romanticise past relationships. Of course, you may argue with your grandparents who definitely had the purest and most beautifully loving relationships you've ever seen (everybody claims that this is true) but when I look at other couples from my parents' or grandparents' generations (because mine deeeefinitely have great relatio… | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 06:52 PM |
| 2 | What’s a high body count?I dare to assume that not everyone here is looking for deep, meaningful and loving relationships. As such, if there was a cheapening of sexual interactions, this subreddit would be pointless. We are here cause we're craving something that we don't have or at least not to the extent we desire. On the flip side, even if we dared to use incel arguments: Women can't be sooo incredibly selective that they only go for "Chad" but also incredibly promiscuous to the point that sexual interactions are "ch… | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 06:11 PM |
| 16 | There's a thread on TwoXChromosomes asking why men use "cat lady" as an insult.Same hypocrisy as body positivity passivists insulting men for their supposed small dicks when they feel offended. | /r/MensRights | 23/10/25 06:39 PM |
| 5 | Being an (average) man is hell on earth but I still wouldn’t want to be a womanThat's not it. It's just that this feels like it's written by a 15-year-old. I'm not offended, I just think we've moved on from "haha gay". | /r/MensRights | 08/02/25 11:06 AM |
| 5 | Woman has parking fine dropped because she's a woman.The entire US is literally cheering on a murderer right now... This is NOT a case of discrimination and trying to flip flop the original argument to fit your point is a cheap conspiracy theory strategy. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/24 12:04 PM |
| 8 | Why do people use dating apps and not instagram?How do you even find people from your area on Instagram? Do you just put your location in the search bar and hope to find somebody who has uploaded some pic with a tag of their area? | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 03:18 AM |
| 4 | "I'll buy a Glock and shoot you if you're a white male and you're on the same street as me at night"Don't worry, she identifies as a "Queen of Spades" as I can see by her size. That's why she focuses on hating white guys. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/24 04:20 AM |
| 7 | UK: Cat-calls and wolf-whistles in the street will be met with fines of £1,000 under a new Labour council scheme to protect women and girlsThat's it. I hope "cat calling" will be clearly defined because we're at a stage where nobody wants to talk to anybody in public during the day, relying solely on swiping lonely on Tinder in the evening. This can't be the goal. Such laws make it even more unlikely that men will talk and flirt with women, and since women definitely won't make the first step, this goes against all British efforts to do something against the loneliness epidemic. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/24 03:30 PM |
| 5 | Why are men/people in general so shallow?For relationships?! Because sex is important, no matter what whoever is telling you the opposite. And sex needs attraction. I don't mind being great friends with somebody I otherwise like but don't find attractive. I don't need to find everybody attractive. Just people I want to be intimate with. And this is also true for women, actually. | /r/seduction | 25/10/24 09:17 PM |
| 5 | What do you guys think about the height increasing insoles ?We're forgetting here that people aren't necessarily looking for wives or girlfriends but maybe just hookups. Her having a pure heart and only looking for real internal values Hollywood-style doesn't matter if a guy just wants to get his dick wet. | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 04:39 PM |
| 3 | What are some ways to appear taller as someone who is 5’ 6-3/4”?Would you recommend the lean muscular look or the bulky muscular look though? Some say that being bulky as a short guy may look weird. | /r/seduction | 11/10/24 03:41 PM |
| 23 | “Men will fuck anything” is actually goodI actually don't care. Everybody can have fifty requirements just for giving a handjob. The only thing I take issue with is the hypocrisy when some women have a whole damn list of requirements but don't want to accept it when men have a single one: That she's not fat. | /r/MensRights | 06/09/24 07:14 PM |
| 29 | Why do women have high physical standards when looking for a hookup but not so much when looking for a relationship?Also: The hot guy has more options and he doesn't have to be "nice" or have a great character for just fucking. However, this is needed in a long-term relationship. | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 09:32 PM |
| 50 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedOn the micro-level, this is probably true. But I like to look at it from a macro-level as well. Be it religion or some other form of "ethics", most parts of the world have been taught that sex is "dirty" but it still has been romanticised to only exist in a monogamous relationship with your absolute soulmate. Even in the alleged "hookup era" which some claim that we live in (which we absolutely don't), women have to at least pretend to be absolutely pure virgins for a while. It's not that women … | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 01:04 PM |
| 7 | Any bald men here wear hair systems? And did it improve dating?My best guess is that this is a troll sarcastically saying that it's pathetic that we're so focused on trying to get women to like us. At least I hope he is. | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 01:34 AM |
| 43 | How do you respond to "small dick" insults?Tell her that you love that she helps making bodyshaming more acceptable again. | /r/MensRights | 09/08/24 01:12 PM |
| 9 | War Shatters Dating Scene for Women in UkraineI mean... They could try to make Ukrainian men feel better, in any way they need right now. That way, Ukrainian women would also have the company they need. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/24 10:29 PM |
| 17 | European elections: Is there a party that cares about men?Depends on what men you care for. Far-right parties have always said "Those 'refugees' are men, leaving their women and children behind!" like men aren't worthy of protection. Don't get me wrong, I'm rather right-leaning and critical of mass immigration as well but if we're talking about men, we should talk about all men. | /r/MensRights | 20/05/24 11:18 AM |
| 2 | How to know if a woman sees you as a retirement planTo add something new to the mix: When you're a man who creepily repeats how he wants a "tradwife". | /r/MensRights | 06/05/24 11:07 PM |
| 2 | I don’t know what I’m supposed to do. I got into a argument with a guy who believes it’s okay for women to be scared and fear all men because they have had bad encounters with men before. Did I make good arguments?Given that it usually makes more sense to look for the smallest social unit to make sociological observations. Why take such a big group like "men"? If we take such large groups, we should fear humanity - they commit 100% of all crimes! It'd make more sense to look at smaller units: Who do you actually have to be more afraid of? Maybe it's the black person? But this will make them uncomfortable. | /r/MensRights | 02/05/24 07:55 PM |
| 16 | Whenever women whine about men caring about body counts, remember that over half of them wouldn’t date a virginThat's what has always confused me: They technically COULD prefer virgins (or a low body count) as well, they just don't. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/24 03:51 PM |
| 2 | My fiancé said I need to get a “real job “.Sure, but that's a completely different argument. I'm talking about marriage and although married couples may often have children, it's not what my argument was about. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/24 03:26 PM |
| 7 | My fiancé said I need to get a “real job “.Marriage is institutionalised relationship. People get trapped in relationships for various reasons. Marriage adds yet another aspect of being trapped. For men, it's often that they lose half of their belongings. This can further enhance the feeling of being trapped. It's a good thing that people don't try to stay in toxic relationships forever. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/24 11:41 AM |
| 35 | My fiancé said I need to get a “real job “.I've advocated for the abolishment of any privileges for married couples for a while now. Marriage should become a religious institution again. If you want to, do it for religious reasons; but no tax advantages or whatever. Everybody should have the right to leave a relationship whenever they want to without feeling trapped. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/24 02:02 AM |
| 99 | My fiancé said I need to get a “real job “.I think most of these problems are relationship problems; not men's rights issues. Those dudes sound like they've found the wrong person to have a relationship with. Also: Maybe marriage isn't the way to go. I'm happily in a long term relationship for about eight years, no plans for marriage or children, | /r/MensRights | 24/04/24 01:50 AM |
| 22 | If you don’t like Taylor swift it’s because you don’t like women, even if you like Florece + MachineAs long as it's repeated often enough, sheep will believe it. You don't like Taylor Swift? Is it because she's a woman? You don't like Lizzo? Oh, you're fatphobic? You don't like rap music? Damn, we found the racist! | /r/MensRights | 21/04/24 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Megan Fox offers her best advice to single women: Don't waste your energy on menHmmm, I wonder if that type of "Women Going Their Own Way" statement will be criticised as much as the MGTOW movement. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/24 03:28 PM |
| 7 | Why a rich man will change a broke woman's life but a rich woman will less likely to give a broke man a chance? More importantly why society has never paid(men in particular) attention to this?However, I would like to point out what we tell women who date shitty guys: Just date somebody else or don't date. If it's an issue to you, date somebody who earns a similar wage. Just like the strong independent women date with their interests in mind, men can do this as well. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/24 05:18 PM |
| 70 | Women making fun of a man who’s sickDon't forget to show her empathy next time she tells you she's on her period and excuses her behaviour with her hormones. 😉 | /r/MensRights | 13/03/24 12:29 AM |
| 3 | If you are looking for a gender neutral society moving away from harmful gender stereotypes, where men and women treat each ofter as equal human beings, and a place where you can escape radical feminists, extreme left and right? You may be surprised, but Belarus might unironically be an option!Sooo... who pays on the first date? I can't imagine it's like Sweden where everybody pays for their own stuff. Also: Yes, you have mentioned that there's no virgin shaming (which isn't necessarily a men's rights issue because how does it affect men if some girl has slept around a lot? Just find a different partner if you're not into that): But if one WANTED to be a slut, could they without being shamed as well? Does this apply to men and women? | /r/MensRights | 08/03/24 03:41 PM |
| 15 | Don’t be groomed into believing you owe your romantic or sexual partner anything more than love or sex. Don’t let media convince you otherwise.Exactly! In the age of Tinder where both KNOW that you're going on three days per week (especially her), it's stupid to expect one party to pay for everything. Disregarding completely that going for dinner is a terrible date idea. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/24 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Morally conflicted when it comes to seducing innocent/shy girlsI don't know much but my lurking on this subreddit has taught me that it's important to be open with your intentions. You probably don't have to say "I'm only looking to fuck you" but by obviously giving off sexual vibes, they will understand what you're looking for. Remember to understand that those women are still adult women - they don't deserve to be infantilised. | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Men being feminineTo be fair, most (Conservative) men also have a very limited view on how "real" men should behave. If you aren't a beer-gulping trucker who always has greasy hands 24/7, you're basically a "sissy" to them. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/24 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Male sexuality = badSome gay guys are actually into it when you tell them you're otherwise "straight" in my experience. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/24 01:05 AM |
| 29 | Male sexuality = badThis is why they can't bear the thought of dating a bi man. Suddenly, they have to worry about their partner finding somebody to fuck just as easily as they have had it for all their lives - so they can't be their lazy selves; they have to actually put in some effort. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/24 08:09 AM |
| 5 | Wimpy White Boy SyndromeIsn't what you're saying a case of reverse "White Lives Matter"? Because we're talking about an issue that affects white infants here - no need to tell us how other races are affected as well if we take the Black Lives Matter narrative. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/24 12:42 PM |
| 109 | Women are significantly less likely to date Bisexual men when compared to men dating Bisexual women. This once again debunks the "Feminazi" propaganda about so called "Toxic Masculinity" supposedly leading to Homophobia.Yes, and also that they probably can't handle that their partner could find somebody to fuck with just as easily as they could for the entirety of their adult lives. And probably be sexually satisfied as well. Most men will try to "convince" their long-term female partner to give him a blowjob for years - your Grindr hookup will BEG you to fuck his throat TONIGHT. Women can't handle that competition. | /r/MensRights | 02/02/24 02:59 PM |
| 6 | Just got mocked by three girls apparently for being broke.What a shame that you aren't black, φίλε... | /r/MensRights | 01/02/24 01:17 PM |
| 27 | Do we really "slut shame" women more than men?Even if there WAS a double standard, you can just date whoever you want - and exactly that's the thing: Women could CHOOSE to date virgins too but this is less a thing. Men just prefer women who had less sexual partners. Nothing is hindering women from pursuing the same standards - except for their own attraction, because they definitely prefer it when guys DO have more experience. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/24 08:18 PM |
| -2 | What would your response to this post be?I'd ask to fuck her and see if she's too afraid to say No. Anyways, I win. Either I disprove her point or I get to empty my balls. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/24 04:31 PM |
| 5 | What’s up with wives refusing to have children?I'm glad people don't get children any more because it's the "standard" thing to do. Not everybody should have children and if people know they don't want them, it's better that they don't have them. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/24 01:12 PM |
| -5 | Why is so much pornography emasculating towards white men?You're suggesting OP hasn't already done this. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/24 12:18 AM |
| 4 | Why is so much pornography emasculating towards white men?Because it's mostly white men who like this stuff. Though there are black people who pride themselves on the "BBC" fetish, most black guys are annoyed by it or find it cringy at the very least. It's also potentially killing their self-esteem because, while as a white guy, you're fine with an average-sized dick, partners of black men have the expectation that they are packing 10 inches, A normal-sized dick doesn't cut it for black guys. And if you would sell a product, wouldn't you want to target… | /r/MensRights | 02/01/24 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Why do feminists claim that most rapists are high testosterone men ?Hmmm, I don't want to indulge into the argument too much but I find it interesting that women's hormones are used as an excuse on a daily basis but men's aren't supposed to? Not saying that testosterone justifies rape but neither does a woman's cycle justify her shitty behaviour two out of four weeks. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/24 04:23 PM |
| -24 | Why do some people here like Jordan Peterson so much? I think he is part of the problem, he seems like another tradcon who tries to force gender roles etcBecause - and this will be hard - men here want traditional norms for women, but they don't necessarily want them for themselves. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 12:30 PM |
| 84 | "Only 2% of SA allegations are false. Trust victims!" Bullshit.Hit them with a societal group they pretend to care more about: "Only X% of black people who were incarcerated were later found not guilty." They KNOW that the individual matters - they just don't want to apply that logic to the group they hate the most: Men. | /r/MensRights | 22/12/23 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Your biggest criticisms of the word " Toxic Masculinity?"You wouldn't dare to tell a black man to stop acting so "ghetto". Your "ideal" concept of blackness does not matter and you are in no position to define how blackness should look like. The same goes for masculinity. Also: Toxic masculinity implies that men don't let themselves be "emotional". However, what they mean by that is that men don't cry as often as they show anger. However, anger is an emotion too. Let me express myself however I want. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/23 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Why in bloody heck would a man want to get married in this day and age?Most cultures did this for that reason, I believe. I can't imagine any other reason why marriage by 15 or something like that was so common in the past (and in some cultures, still today). What some men describe as "traditional" actually is to their own detriment as well. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/23 02:50 PM |
| 194 | ‘White, male recruits must first get sign off from me’ -UK finance bossSee, no systematic discrimination. 🤡 | /r/MensRights | 14/12/23 10:31 PM |
| -4 | Why does nobody talk about biphobia against bimen?This is not even the reason why I don't like such types of posts. It creates the assumption that not wanting to date X person is some sort of discrimination, like transphobia or fatphobia or whatever. I really dislike that we just take feminist talking points and reverse them, thus legitimising them. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/23 08:55 PM |
| 4 | The world today: Mr. Beast, the successful YouTuber is bad when he does something good for others...because he's a white man.I don't care whether billionaires help people or not. But I just find it so hypocritical to see people hating on Jeff Bezos for not "giving every person in the world 1 million USD" and then we see an actual rich person doing something for poor people and he STILL gets hated. Seems like Jeff Bezos is doing the right thing with keeping his money, he would get hated anyways. It's the same situation as (funnily) calling Germans "nazis" a century after the Second World War even though they are the on… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/23 04:30 PM |
| 25 | Jane Fonda says she won't date men over 20 because "I don't like old skin"Well, the article DOES say that it caused a stir on social media, and to be honest, I'd rather have it normalised for older men to not be perceived as creepy for liking younger women than also vilifying older women for liking younger men. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/23 08:49 PM |
| 6 | Why do so many women think all men want is sex?Not a men's rights issue, but very often, although it's not the ONLY thing I want, it certainly is a major thing I want. I can't feel like this is a relationship without sex, I need the intimacy, not just somebody I go out to eat and watch films with. If you think that sex isn't all that important and gaslight me into staying in the relationship by saying "If you'd leave me JUST because of sex, you didn't even love me to begin with", then at least don't expect me to only wait to have sex with yo… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/23 11:21 PM |
| 2 | the feminists who complain about "toxic masculinity" are the first people to insult a guy's manhood when he says something they disagrees with.Feminists who talk about "toxic masculinity" wouldn't dare to tell a black person to stop acting so "ghetto". It's the same thing: You have a certain ideal of how somebody should behave and if they don't, you're unhappy about it and create a worldview that tells you how people should act "properly". | /r/MensRights | 18/11/23 07:50 PM |
| 7 | Are men really that misogynistic in friend groups?There's a difference between making jokes and hating. A former friend of my sister often said that she hoped all men would die. And they also made jokes about men. Men, on the other hand, tend to joke about everything which doesn't mean that we actually hate that group. I joke about men, women, white and black people, disabled people, you name it, but that doesn't mean that I actually hate those groups. | /r/MensRights | 13/11/23 12:58 PM |
| -2 | Met a feminist online todayIf this was an AITA thread, I'd say "Everybody Sucks Here". Not necessarily because of your viewpoints but why the fuck would you bring up how much you hate feminism on a language learning app? | /r/MensRights | 10/11/23 03:47 PM |
| -9 | Have feminists been teaching the wrong things to women about reducing the orgasm gap? I found some very interesting information about female orgasms.I fucking hate that these kinds of posts appear on here all the time. Either it's just reversing or debunking feminist talking points about absolutely mundane things that aren't rights as such ("Feminists say this about orgasms but in reality, this is true.") or it's about dating struggles ("Why don't women date short guys?"). As much as some stuff may be hypocritical (Being expected to love fat women while "they" won't date a short guy), it's not a men's RIGHTS issue. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/23 02:45 PM |
| 15 | Ukrainian refugee mom caught on camera tossing and kicking 3-year-old sonFor me, it's not the "Woman does bad thing" which makes this story interesting. It's that, if the boy was a girl, it would have been "attempted femicide". Men are lacking such a term somehow. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/23 09:10 PM |
| 12 | To All Men From A Woman .You don't need to start your post defensively with "I'm not a pick me girl". These kind of accusations usually come from other women to shame you into not showing any appreciation for men and their struggles. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/23 04:24 PM |
| 60 | The end of an era? Bumble is crashing down, losing 80% of its value.Yet another example of women proving they can't do what they expect of men to do? In this case, taking the initiative to flirt. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/23 12:28 PM |
| 1 | ShortphobiaGosh, do we really just want to be the male version of feminists? Just like we say that it isn't "discrimination" or whatever if we don't want to date fat women, we can't just start crying "discrimination" when women express preferences. And yes, I'm a short guy - but I hate that we try to just imitate every stupid idea that feminists have had with our agenda. We should focus on real injustices, the mental health crisis that's going on, and stuff like that... not the "I'm not successful in the d… | /r/MensRights | 03/11/23 10:55 PM |
| 1 | UK: Woman spared jail after groping man’s genitals in ‘drunken joke’Things like that seem to really depend on the country and judge. There also was that incident in Italy where the janitor "only groped the school girl for 10 seconds" or something like that, so he didn't get anything either. | /r/MensRights | 03/11/23 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Women telling men to express “emoshions” is cringe and possibly dangerous for the societal standing of a Man.Women complaining about comments like "You should smile more" shouldn't tell men how or whether to express any emotions. I can't imagine that these women would tell a black guy to behave "less ghetto", so why would they tell any guy to behave the way they want him to behave? Also, "show emotions" translated means "show the emotions I want you to show". Because men tend to show anger more than sadness and yet, if you do that, they don't like it either. They just want to see you cry. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/23 03:30 PM |
| 81 | Woman ate 48 oysters on a date — what happened next was shockingThe thing is: Even if you wanna be the gentleman who pays for the dinner... In the age of Tinder, when people go on three dates per week because they want to get to know new people, expecting somebody to always be the one paying for both is just outrageous. | /r/MensRights | 17/10/23 03:17 PM |
| 12 | White men are actively discriminated against in the job market right nowI don't know how the US work but HOW would you do that? Do you put in "gay" in your CV, do you go there full with rainbow colours, do you ask HR whether there's any good dick to suck? | /r/MensRights | 14/10/23 02:20 PM |
| 16 | Stop Telling Men It’s Okay To Cry"Hey girl, you should smile more, I like you better that way!" | /r/MensRights | 14/10/23 02:18 PM |
| 1 | I hate how slavery is blamed on white men and white women's crimes are forgotten.Forget about history. Black people are enslaved TODAY by other black people. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/23 03:35 AM |
| 3 | Are Tradcons secretly feminists? Hear me out. Both expect men to: - man up, - get married - be a provider - have kids and remain on the plantation. And they say males are not men if they don’t placate to females needs and wants. Both using shaming tactics. The end result is same but branding differsYes, they are. The typical tradcon boomer man is the one saying he'd wish he had a hot teacher when he was in middle school whenever there's a news report about a female teacher raping a young boy. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | We need a NoChivalry movement to bring more attention to mens rights.No, that's not what I'm saying. It's just a general attitude of "if society makes X, I will not do Y for women any more". And yes, you have every right to do so and as somebody from a part of Europe where women also pay for dates, I think that's totally fine. But just as not every man is a manifestation of "the patriarchy", not every woman is a manifestation of the "matriarchy". If you don't like the girl you're going out with, that's fine. But pretending that stopping to be chivalrous to a nice… | /r/MensRights | 30/09/23 09:52 PM |
| -9 | We need a NoChivalry movement to bring more attention to mens rights.I sometimes hate that this movement is taking the feminist route of just hating on the opposite sex, even this is what were criticising so much. I love women and if I'm on a date, I'm not on a sociopolitical mission to change the world. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/23 10:56 AM |
| 19 | As a woman, how can I be more aware of men and their needs?Being "masculine" is not being "toxic". Somebody who likes being the leader does not mean he's a narcissistic jerk who likes to control people for example. If somebody is toxic, they are toxic. It's not "toxic masculinity" - you should avoid toxic people regardless of whether they are men or women. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/23 01:35 PM |
| 12 | As a woman, how can I be more aware of men and their needs?What also helps: Imagine it's a "minority" man. You can definitely tell a man to behave "less toxically", but you can't tell a black man to stop behaving "ghetto", can you? The "toxic masculinity" accusation is just a way of trying to make men behave in a different way than they do - and if we wouldn't do it to other "vulnerable groups", why do it to men? | /r/MensRights | 25/09/23 01:19 PM |
| 15 | UK: I'm a single mother of two and I'm dating a man I'm not attracted to - am I wrong to marry him for financial stability?At this point, I stopped feeling bad for these men. If they let themselves get treated like that, it's somehow their own fault too. On the other hand, we know how lonely men can be. Maybe he felt like he wouldn't get anybody else so he'd just settle with a "family" without demanding "too much". | /r/MensRights | 15/09/23 12:23 PM |
| 2 | "Sex Therapy" and why its kind of a lie.I wouldn't say that women automatically are bad sex therapists (we really should try to avoid becoming the male equivalent of feminists here, meaning that we hate the opposite sex). But what I've seen fairly often is that the man is usually the blamed one. The man can't get off his woman? It's his fault. The woman can't get off her man? It's his fault again. What women may misinterpret is that "He cums = He's happy". No. Men can technically cum just by "using" a woman as a hole and they would st… | /r/MensRights | 13/09/23 10:35 PM |
| 0 | Why are men expected to be tall?The "I'm not short, I just think this is unfair" edit defeats your purpose. It's like defending that all penis sizes need to be respected but having to make sure that "I have a big one, but...". You're ashamed that people might have a "negative" opinion of you? | /r/MensRights | 27/08/23 04:35 PM |
| 8 | It's interesting how it's almost always "men are afraid of approaching these days, they don't know how to talk to women" and never "women have become such and such and it is destroying society"I've said it several times and I will say it again: I'm glad I already have a girlfriend for a pretty long time and don't have to look for one today. Because today's women isolate themselves with earphones and block any approach by a man during the day just to lonely swipe on Tinder during the evening. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/23 03:45 PM |
| 2 | I feel like feminists think they are saintly shepherds, and must herd minorities like sheep, in order to "save" them. Well I don't like being shepherded, for one. If you think I'm mistaken, then how do I interpret the evidence presented below?Though I do agree with your sentiment, I would struggle to argue against somebody who'd claim that a lot of black people like seeing themselves as oppressed as much as feminists do. Also, let's not forget that "studies" and the general narrative about masculinity is that it's only bad when it's white straight men. I'd anecdotically say that your average black man aligns more with the traditional, stereotypical masculine behaviour (what feminists often like to denounce as "toxic masculinity") but… | /r/MensRights | 01/08/23 10:22 PM |
| 2 | I’m a masculine man, and this current society has made me feel ashamed and guilty about it.Remember: When they tell you to "stop behaving toxically masculine", what they're saying is that they want you to behave exactly the way THEY want you to behave. It's similar to saying to a black person to "stop being so ghetto". Just because they have a certain ideal on how you should behave, this doesn't mean that it's the right thing to do. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/23 08:52 PM |
| 2 | (Question+ a bit of rant) is porn bad? And if it is... is it comparable to rom coms?Whoever actually thinks porn is reality is sick. The same goes for Hollywood films. Nobody should expect that on your first date, you'll get to throatfuck and do ass to mouth. But nobody should expect that you will meet the love of your life while you're absent-mindedly reading a romantic book in the train and then a deep-voiced, tall and handsome gentleman will come at you, you will first be shy but then your eyes will meet each other and he will give you a little smirk that will make you fall … | /r/MensRights | 26/07/23 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Is circumcising infants a violation of rights?I hate it when people say "the West" whenever they refer to something bad... like Judaism and Islam are predominantly Western religions. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/23 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Opinions (Washington Post) "Why can’t we hate men?" - By Suzanna Danuta WaltersI hate this "We are tired of millenia old oppression" "argument". Not only didn't I live two millenia ago nor did YOU suffer for millenia - other people's pain is not your pain. But of course, this again shows that what they are after is just power and money. You have to step back for women, no matter your accomplishments. Anything you accomplished, you only did because the system "favours" you and wherever they didn't accomplish, they didn't because they are "oppressed". You can't win ever. And… | /r/MensRights | 12/07/23 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Why are all male characters in movies muscular and built in a way that's not even close to reality ?Honestly, I don't really mind that. I don't necessarily need "realistic body types" in films, neither in men nor in women. I agree with pointing out to feminists that there isn't just Barbie for female standards, but that there is also He-Man for male standards, but I still don't want to complain and copy paste every one of their arguments. So yes, there are unrealistic standards in men AND women in popular culture. But I don't care. Instead of saying "This is unrealistic", I say "I will go to t… | /r/MensRights | 09/07/23 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Whats the stupidest reason you've been called an incel?I especially love it when they try to insult me by saying that I have a small dick when I'm arguing with a body "positivity" feminist. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/23 02:39 PM |
| 5 | It's surprising how this group is so welcoming of gay menOf course, men are men. Gay men just sometimes think feminists are their allies because they call themselves "girl" at every opportunity. | /r/MensRights | 05/07/23 03:02 PM |
| 2 | I was looking for a post about the ethics of circumcision when I stumbled across...I came across a reel yesterday where there was a young girl that got her ears pierced and the comments were fucking MAD as to how this is child abuse, etc. I can't imagine what they must be thinking circumcision must be then. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/23 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Gay Guys and FeministsConsidering how so many gay guys constantly call themselves "girl" and they're hanging out with their "sisters", I'm not even that surprised. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/23 01:21 PM |
| 5 | Misandry doesn't exist?This whole "It needs to be structural to exist" is a new invention since openly hating on your typical "heterosexual white straight cis man" became mainstream. It's am excuse to be racist or misandrist towards white people or men respectively and to still portray yourself as the victim who just fights the villain. Never before was the structural element necessary for spotting racism and the equals. Even though, when you think about it, with every governmental agency and corporation agreeing that… | /r/MensRights | 14/06/23 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do companies charge more money for female products?The same razor is sold in blue/black and in pink. The pinker one is more expensive. Sure, you could say that women's products are more expensive or you could just accept that it's the same product and buy the one marketed to men. Because you KNOW what they'd say about how fragile your masculinity was if you were to not buy the less expensive product just because it's pink. So my question is: Fragile femininity much? | /r/MensRights | 07/06/23 09:14 PM |
| 38 | United Kingdom's RAF filtering out 'useless white male pilots' in diversity push: reportIt's because even white people themselves support it. They have been guilt tripped that much by now that they see something like that and don't realise that this is actual STRUCTURAL racism which they always claim doesn't exist against white people. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/23 10:57 AM |
| 7 | Random question : I am expecting a son in 7 weeks should he be circumcised or uncircumcised ?I am expecting a daughter in 7 weeks should she be circumcised or uncircumcised? | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 06:45 PM |
| 9 | Women's Attitudes Towards Gay MenI guess women continue having the bias that "gay" means "effeminate". Though it definitely doesn't help when some gay men continue with the "guuuuuuuurl" attitude. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/23 04:16 PM |
| 22 | Tried to tip a waitress where I work. Got called in for “flirting” with a female staff.Also, imagine having such a twisted mind that you think that if somebody gives you money, they are flirting. Found the gold digger! | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 10:36 AM |
| 19 | Don’t forget to give Uber a one star rating in the App Store/Google PlayAnd even if not... The "overpowering" argument doesn't work since weapons exist. | /r/MensRights | 21/05/22 02:53 AM |
| 0 | Sidewalks are now sexist. Top post today on TwoX has poster claiming she will move over for anyone on a sidewalk except for single men. Why, because it’s Friday and it’s men suck day.If a man would be doing this, it would have been called "alpha shit that they learned from some desperate YouTuber". | /r/MensRights | 11/12/21 12:26 PM |
| 0 | Men shouldn’t be shamed for going for younger womenIt also makes sense if your aim isn't having children. If you're attracted to younger women and you find one who's attracted to you, who cares if the age gap is "too" large? | /r/MensRights | 30/10/21 02:29 PM |
| 12 | Male Body PositivityCorrect! Body Positivity doesn't mean you shouldn't try to get the best out of you! | /r/MensRights | 16/11/20 10:19 PM |
| 2 | This is what their posts about men look like. So they push all of the things men have to do and go through under the carpet, but still cry that its not enough laws for them?Sooo, she thinks that sex is something she gives in order to get paid later? I bet she wouldn't like it if you'd call her a "prostitute" though. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/20 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Men are losing jobs, women most affectedJudging by her name, she probably didn't get to choose who to marry. Yet I'd bet she would be one of the first to say that she "doesn't want Western standards to colonize every part of the world". | /r/MensRights | 27/04/20 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Women do stuff like this and wonder why the left is losing ground...Isn't this the point of the post? Why are you repeating it? | /r/MensRights | 15/09/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Our friend tells us why #MenAreTrash is a good thing (hint: it's because you're evil)As somebody who is interested in sexology, I get especially enraged when people are taking pornography for how men are being trained to objectify women. On the contrary, we have numerous examples that men seem to care less and less about their own satisfaction but focus more on the women's: Men care about having a penis that is too small in order to satisfy a woman. Men care about not ejaculating too quickly because the woman might not be satisfied. Men worry about not getting it up even though … | /r/MensRights | 10/09/19 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Another victory in the fight to stop sexismI actually don't think they actively do something. Many posts containing this hashtag are being reported which tells their algorithm that it's bad. That's not only with that one though, but with all others as well. | /r/MensRights | 09/09/19 01:44 AM |
| 1 | The state of men in unhappy marriages is unfortunately very highNo, you don't, but why do you marry somebody you don't feel attracted to in the first place? And yes, sex is part of the relationship and I still don't get why some men think that women are those "sexless creatures". If she wants to have as as much sex with you as you want to, she's a good one. | /r/MensRights | 10/08/19 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Nicegirl stabs boyfriend and tries to act like it’s the boyfriends fault.This gave me an idea: When women don't get the punishment a man would get for the same crime, it should actually be posted on those subreddits, demanding that those women should get the same punishment since women should be treated the same way men are treated. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | We got you broSo, because everybody seems to announce their heights: I'm 1,67 m and have a girlfriend who's 1,79. The thing is... it's not about your height. It's about the girl. | /r/MensRights | 18/02/19 01:07 PM |
| 58 | Tweet of the yearOf course, because the "mysogynist society we're living in gives women so much pressure to always look according to aggressive men's beauty standards"... | /r/MensRights | 09/12/18 02:44 AM |
| 113 | A real man walks away from a toxic relationshipIf you can't handle her at her worst... her best maybe isn't worth all the pain. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/18 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Telling a feminist the truth.I mean... Boys and girls are equal! As a pessimist: We all need more negativity! | /r/MensRights | 22/08/18 06:44 PM |
| 4 | Takei, a staunch advocate of equal rights, seems to be ok with sexism if not directed towards women.What gets the most on my nerves is that people are often seen as somebody who despises women just because they disagree with them. I am a very disagreeing person and I actually don't care about whether I'm talking to a man or a woman! Wouldn't it be wrong if I accepted everything women said and excluded them from all the discussions I'm partaking? What's also a very common assumption in the US: Disagreeing with a black person makes you racist. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/18 03:39 PM |
| 7 | So, women?That's what I came here to say. I think this sub is exaggerating sometimes. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/18 09:49 AM |
| 8 | Feminist Bookstore Closes From Lack of Sales, Blames White MenRight?! I don't get why feminists are always trying to separate white and black males even in most cases it really doesn't make a difference. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/18 12:36 PM |
| 6 | "I can't apply pick up techniques. It's -not me-. I want to be myself. It feels fake.." : if this type of thinking is holding you back, just read this paragraph that I've seen in a cocky-funny guide by MuzzuI wouldn't say that's a good comparison. I mean... I didn't just choose to study what I chose, but because it was my personality. I sucked (and suck) at Mathematics, that's why I didn't choose to study it but rather something that's rather ME. | /r/seduction | 22/07/17 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Why is it ok for women to say uncircumcised penises are disgusting and to applaud mothers for having thier children circumcisedMen tend to talk more openly about their genitals and the problems they believe they have. That may be the size of their penis or delayed/premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction. That openness men have has been transferred to the whole society so that everybody thinks he or she can talk about these topics too, even without having any knowledge of the topic. So even if women have a problem with their breasts, vaginas, etc. too, that doesn't mean that they talk that much about it, which leads … | /r/MensRights | 20/06/17 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Your opinion on Pokemon Go?I don't play it, but I guess that they won't just fall in love with you because you also play Pukemon Go!. You still have to play the game. | /r/seduction | 14/07/16 05:48 PM |
| 2 | I f/closed the other night, and have been reading this sub for a week. Wanted to say thanks!For me it's this kind of posts that help me to overcome approach anxiety - thank you very much and well done! | /r/seduction | 14/07/16 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Being shortMy first girlfriend was four years older and one head taller - and I didn't even start with pick up! | /r/seduction | 13/07/16 06:01 PM |
| 1 | [Goodbye] So long Seddit, it's been real!They grow up so fast... | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 01:57 PM |
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