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| 1 | Putting Women on a Pedestal. How did you overcome it?That's correct 💯 but the advice of being yourself when yourself is a shy insecure guy, it just won't work. Most guys looking for advice with women or social stuff don't have any clue of what other people find natural and normal. Although we should not act like something we're not, the advice should be oriented to guide change, where to start, understanding social cues, etc. If being themselves worked they wouldn't be looking for advice. | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 03:40 AM |
| 5 | Putting Women on a Pedestal. How did you overcome it?Please don't ever tell ppl to be themselves. I've always thought it was a terrible service because. What if myself is an insecure guy that don't know how to start or mantain convo, my mind is blank, I don't know how to say jokes... So being "myself" won't help. Actually being myself is the issue. Advice should be how to start changing, a path to follow, where to start... | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Putting Women on a Pedestal. How did you overcome it?I used to consume a lot of self-improvement content and I came across with a few pieces of advice that really stuck with me. I'm a man that was attracted to a woman. What's the shame on that? Why would I be ridiculized for that, and if someone tries to mock me or think less of me for being rejected, should I take their opinion seriously and be ashamed for having felt attraction for a woman? No. Rejection is just unrequited attraction. I felt it, she didn't. And that's ok. It didn't mean I'm not … | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 11:41 PM |
| 5 | How do you seduce someone who wants closeness but panics at emotional intimacy?First off I must say that you shouldn't look forward to helping someone with their issues because it's not going to work, they have to realize they have a problem and then choose to do something about it themselves, and at that point is when you could support them in the process, but you cannot initiate the change. The guy you're dating is avoidant. In this case when he realizes you're getting too close, he goes away, but he don't want to lose you completely, so after abandoning you for a while … | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Uncomfortable with being sexualI'd say you're right, and I'd add it's not about getting sexual and try to force the conversation to that, but rather about not hidding you think about it, and that you find her attractive and would like to have sex with her. You know it, she knows it, so own it. Not being pushy or creepy but if the situation feels like so, don't hide it. You may ask your friends what's their opinion about that, and let us all know what they think of that approach to sex. And yes, no dick pics. Lol | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Uncomfortable with being sexualLol, actually this is probably the reason why most of us hesitate and struggle with women. | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Uncomfortable with being sexualYes, it happens more often that not. We come up with the perfect thing to say when the time to say it is well past. | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 02:59 AM |
| 11 | Uncomfortable with being sexualThe name was crazy 😂 I thought of this: I'm Nasty —N-Nasty? Yes, Nasty... What's your name? —Well that's crazy because my name is Naughty... Lol 😂 I would've howled with laughter right there | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 01:43 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with shit tests about age differences ?I'm 27 now and I've always liked girls around 28. Curiously, everyone I come across are around 21-24 so I'm always older. When I'm with these people I always talk saying things like "when I was young I used to...", "I remember that 20 years ago...", "when I was young I remember that ____ but you probably have no idea what I'm talking about. You must've been just a baby back then". And they always laugh and say things like "you're not that old!" I totally know what you're talking about". It's lik… | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 02:55 PM |
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