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| 1 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the endShe should have released the hound | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 02:44 PM |
| 14 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the end"we've identified the terrified woman as the primary aggressor, and the man who rammed her car with a shopping cart as the victim. All in a day's work, it's good to be a cop." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 02:41 PM |
| 32 | Why do so many men refuse to go to the doctor for injuries, illnesses, etc? Growing old with someone who doesn’t take their health seriously doesn’t seem like a good choice.I know a guy who will pull burning hot bread out of the toaster oven with his bare fingers going "AH! AH! AH!" and put spoon after spoon of boiling hot soup into his mouth as he desperately sputters and burns himself. He's the same kind of guy who lays around groaning instead of taking cold medicine. Literally groaning like a tiny baby. "Ohhhhhh ahhhhhh." Take some NyQuil and go to bed you pathetic little wimp. Men are weird. A lot of them like being in pain, like the attention it brings them. T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 01:11 PM |
| 158 | Brian Laundrie’s remains found…Melonhead 🤣🤣🤣 Completely agree re: parents. Even if they didn't know anything, they should have said "we don't know anything"!!! No sympathy for them, because they had none for Gabby's family. They even cut communication with their own daughter, and let her take the fall. I'm sure Brian was special baby boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 10:54 AM |
| 381 | Brian Laundrie’s remains found…I think you're spot on, and this is what we were seeing when she apologized to the restaurant staff for his behavior. She woke up and realized he was out of line. She was getting stronger. She'd had some time apart from him, in the van after the cop interaction, and then when he went home to clear out the storage unit. She had a great time at the hotel, chatting with her family and making plans. She realized she deserved more. She realized her family loves her, she had support and strength. So h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 10:51 AM |
| 25 | Rewatching Friends and realizing sweet, funny Joey is actually T.E.R.R.I.B.L.E.Most sitcoms are irredeemably awful and I do not miss them. A lot of seriously anti-woman propaganda. Teaching us that men are fun and lovable rascals, women are boring maids (but isn't it fun to piss them off!!) In actuality, women are the dynamic go-getters and men are tiresome pants-wetters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 02:10 PM |
| 4 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?"ok Kevin" 🤣 Realistically he's gonna sit around playing PC games while his girlfriend builds a life for the two of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 07:24 AM |
| 11 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?Good one. Also watch out for the guy who's dramatically overly "helpful" for the sake of showing everyone what an "awesome guy" he is. Especially if he tries to take charge and assign tasks to the women. My BIL is like that. He always tries to tell me "why don't you serve the ice cream" or "why don't you make us some stir fry?" I'm like "um no? This is your event, I'm not your hired help." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 07:15 AM |
| 11 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?If he's mean to cats. If he collects weapons of any kind (unless he does real martial arts, but be careful with that too.) If he listens to extremely morbid/aggressive music (death metal, Skrillex, KMFDM, Eminem etc.) If he's particularly "on fire" for any religious or pseudo-religious beliefs. Even if you share those beliefs. If he treats his mother badly. Even if she is toxic, does he respond by setting reasonable boundaries and wishing things could be better? Or does he gaslight and exploit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 07:06 AM |
| 8 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.Not to mention the toll on her self esteem when the house is constantly disgusting any time a guest stops by (and inevitably judges her more than him). And aside from the toll on her health due to psychological factors, stuff like mold and vermin can literally make you ill. I know several guys who will wipe down a dirty counter with a plain dish sponge (no soap) and then place it back by the sink, sometimes without so much as a rinse. Then next time someone does the dishes with the now radioacti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Gen z men will lust over current Gen alpha infant girls and toddlers in the futureThat's such a horrible outlook. We can't just designate a segment of women as sexual servants to keep the rest of us safe. No woman should be compelled to have sex for anything other than her own desire to have sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 06:08 PM |
| 35 | Gen z men will lust over current Gen alpha infant girls and toddlers in the futureThey think the problem is that "when men can't have sex, they turn bad. So if we just give them women and girls, they'll stop hurting women and girls." There's no amount of sex you can give these men to stop the evil. They're sick. If you give them sex, they just want more. That's the problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 11:05 PM |
| 5 | Cat Person - a slow descent into the true horror of dating an LVM. This should be mandatory reading for teenage girls everywhere.I did date one who who was a good kisser and a complete sociopath, so take it with a grain of salt lolz. The rest have been bad kissers though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 11:01 PM |
| 10 | Cat Person - a slow descent into the true horror of dating an LVM. This should be mandatory reading for teenage girls everywhere.I hate to disparage a guy who may not deserve it, but reading this really harkens back to all the male losers I've known/dated and how they always, always, had doormat women in their lives ready to defend and excuse them. The biggest NEETs in my life, literal sociopaths, still have female friends and family members who think they're great. They have exes who stay in contact. They have mothers who dote on them. So yeah. Just because the guy dated an 18 year old who thought he was "great and total… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 10:57 PM |
| 5 | This is why women must be selective in what men we allow in our lives. Most men are jealous and possessive if women. They'd rather kill us than see us be happy without them or with another man.What are you saying, you shouldn't be jealous even if someone literally cheats on you? If your partner cheats on you, flirts with other people in front of you, keeps his ex's nudes, and you're in a monogamous relationship, it's normal to be jealous and no one should make you feel bad for doing so. For every guy out there flying into a jealous rage because his girlfriend went out with her friends for the evening, there's another guy calling his girlfriend a crazy bitch because she got upset when … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 11:42 PM |
| 74 | This is why women must be selective in what men we allow in our lives. Most men are jealous and possessive if women. They'd rather kill us than see us be happy without them or with another man.On the flip side, I've never dated a jealous man. At least, not an openly jealous man. Just "polyamorous" men who conveniently end up hating all my partners while insisting on their own 100% freedom to fuck whoever, whenever. My currently partner is just normal monogamous and it's such a relief. He doesn't do the "freak out and accuse you of cheating" thing I see women talk about, but he also doesn't make me feel like selfish piece of shit for getting (appropriately) jealous myself. Don't get me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 05:35 PM |
| 17 | Great Men are Not Good PeopleLet's see... In 1923, Meitner discovered the radiationless transition known as the Auger effect, which is named for Pierre Victor Auger, a French scientist who discovered the effect two years later. ಠ_ಠ In 1944, Hahn was awarded the Nobel Prize for Chemistry for his research into fission, but Meitner was ignored, partly because Hahn downplayed her role ever since she left Germany. My god, can you imagine how men would react if male scientists were routinely treated like this? Tesla wasn't even s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 09:45 AM |
| 33 | Great Men are Not Good PeopleIt's so unfair because while it's totally normal for males to reject anything and everything that might in some way be for girls, by a girl, or generally have anything to with girls. And that's viewed as totally acceptable because "hey, it's not for me, why would I watch it?" But women are conditioned from birth to embrace male authors and protagonists, because "good stories are universal" and "it's closed-minded to have trouble identifying with someone different than yourself." So yeah, I think… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:39 AM |
| 47 | Great Men are Not Good PeopleAm I the only one who really doesn't find it that hard to stop consuming content when I know the author is a predator? There are so many wonderful creative geniuses in the world. Is your life so small, you really need to keep dipping back into the same small pool of rapists and pedophiles? (I mean the general "you," not you specifically obviously!) Go listen to someone new, someone obscure. Maybe even someone (gasp) female! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:06 AM |
| 74 | Great Men are Not Good PeopleTHIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS. I am SO sick of hearing about how "men have made most of the great inventions, that's just how it is" and even scientists speculating on "why is it men have made most of the great accomplishments and innovations of civilization? Could it be that male risktaking (read: recklessness) leads to greater accomplishment?" It's easy to sit around collecting accolades and trophies and titles when you don't even have to raise your own children or even wash you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:00 AM |
| 5 | Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath.Yeah that was a guy who seemed pretty normal around other people. But the second we were alone together, he just exploded with his entire 'tragic' life story and how he "talks a lot when he's nervous" and I was trapped there untill my friends came back. And I mean nonstop talking, no room even for questions or "that must have sucked" or anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:36 PM |
| 36 | Who else can relate? My last ex once ranted at me for 19 minutes straight without taking a breath.THIS. Things I have been ranted at about by male complete strangers include: How his parents didn't let him have pink sneakers when he was a kid and how badly it traumatized him How his mom was dying How his boyfriend had a family member that was accused of child molestation And I'm talking full on 1+ hour "get me the fuck out of here" rants. And that's not counting the emotional tirades my male family members have subjected me to, those are too many to count. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Never settle for less. If he really loves you, he will go to the ends of the earth for you. Stop giving your energy to guys who are just going to leave you in read for two weeksThis is so wholesome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 07:01 PM |
| 9 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.I've dated a couple losers who absolutely couldn't stand it if I knew something they didn't, or made a good point. They'd rather stay up literally all night arguing than admit that I might ever possibly be right about something. So yeah, the fear of female intelligence is definitely a thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 09:54 PM |
| 19 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.You should give him a list of furniture to build for you "when he gets a chance" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.Found it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 04:42 PM |
| 24 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.You realize cooking for someone every day is something people get paid for, right? Maybe you could get government assistance for being his caretaker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 04:00 PM |
| 45 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.Hah... So all those guys who are afraid of female intelligence are really shooting themselves in the foot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 02:24 PM |
| 74 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work."Sir you are 30. Do your own dishes." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 11:47 AM |
| 180 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.A lot of those wives were also just as intellectually savvy as their husbands and were the actual progenitors of their innovations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 11:45 AM |
| 115 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.This whole thing reminds me of the study where they found that outgoing, glib, superficially charming had more friends in the short-term, but less outgoing sincere people have longer deeper relationships overall. The thing is people are initially charmed by the asshole but they do eventually see through his fake charisma. But if you're a real person, those same people will only like you more as they get to know you. Edit: Here is an article on the study in question for anyone who's interested! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 11:30 AM |
| 165 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.When my parents got divorced my dad expected me to come over and cook for him. I was a full-time college student at the time. I had to suggest him to sweep/vacuum because his floors were so gritty and filthy and he was just using a swiffer to push the dirt around. I didn't cook, I just visited. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 11:28 AM |
| 42 | Pew pew. And then you eventually get sick of it, question your up bringing, invest in a good vibrator and call it a day.Yeah same here, I just tell them "well we're not having unprotected sex, so are you telling me you just want to do oral? By the way, when was your last STD test? We could just do toys and hands." Every single one has agreed to use condoms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 11:39 AM |
| 42 | Pew pew. And then you eventually get sick of it, question your up bringing, invest in a good vibrator and call it a day.That sounds good but watch out for the "let's not keep score" guys. They usually just want to fuck your face and not make you cum ever, at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 11:33 AM |
| 111 | Pew pew. And then you eventually get sick of it, question your up bringing, invest in a good vibrator and call it a day.I think the guys who take so long to cum are usually dealing with desensitization from porn and/or circumcision. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 11:29 AM |
| 148 | Pew pew. And then you eventually get sick of it, question your up bringing, invest in a good vibrator and call it a day.Yeah some guys are atrocious at it. My ex literally found a way to make oral sex hurt. I would ask him every time "hey can you please not lathe my clitoris like you're planing roof shingles?" But it was like... all he did. I swear he did it on purpose to make me not want to ask him for oral. Or maybe he just really liked hurting me 😒 But anyway my current partner is way better at it. He someone manages to never make it hurt, not even once. Go figure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 11:26 AM |
| 6 | Help me build a feminist library to distribute to my friends. Where are the books on our FDS booklist like “Pornography” by Andrea Dworkin?The Frailty Myth by Colette Dowling changed my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 03:24 PM |
| 4 | Reddit hates women. THEY absolutely DO! My soul dies every time I see an award in this sub.Peddit. Hah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:25 AM |
| 288 | If things were flipped, and sex ended when women came, most men would throw temper tantrums.I was just explaining this to my partner the other week. Most women don't cum (easily) from intercourse. But most guys expect intercourse, want it to be over when they cum, and provide nothing additional to make the woman cum. So imagine if most women only wanted oral sex every time. The first couple times it happened, maybe you'd even be okay with it. But eventually you'd probably say "hey sweety, I like going down on you, but could we maybe fuck? Or could you go down on me?" And imagine the wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 08:43 AM |
| 6 | Stop Normalizing “Avoidant” Attachment Styles for MenUnfortunately Woody Allen isn't the only confirmed pedophile I've seen go to a therapist only to be told "nah bro ur good, totally not pedo." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 02:38 PM |
| 14 | Stop Normalizing “Avoidant” Attachment Styles for MenTrue yeah. So much of his theories are basically as scientific as "I believe pee is stored in the balls." And everyone was just like "listen to the science-man!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:59 PM |
| 34 | Stop Normalizing “Avoidant” Attachment Styles for MenTrue but his cultural influence is still alive and well. You can see echos of it in the "parental alienation" myth and the fact that 80% of wives who accuse their husbands of sexually abusing the children end up losing custody for attempting to "turn the kids against their father." Like, child abuse clearly couldn't be the answer. It is the women who are wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 12:50 PM |
| 71 | Stop Normalizing “Avoidant” Attachment Styles for MenYES Freud was literally like "hay guyz all these well-to-do young women are hysterical because they're being abused, not because they're crazy! They're being abused by their very rich and powerful dads and husb- I mean... They're crazy! Totally hysterical and insane. In fact, they're actually having sexual fantasies about their rich and powerful fathers!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 11:14 AM |
| 27 | Calls his wife out of her name but loves her "so much".Yeah because being a live-in maid for no pay is so fucking easy and fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 09:48 AM |
| 74 | Stop Normalizing “Avoidant” Attachment Styles for MenMy life got so much better when I learned the phrase "I'm not your emotional dumping ground. That's what you pay a therapist for. It's called emotional labor." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:27 AM |
| 137 | Stop Normalizing “Avoidant” Attachment Styles for MenI just watched Allen v. Farrow and you definitely see that in action in that doc. "I'm not a molester, I just never learned how to show affection and that's why I put my face in my 6 year old daughter's crotch." "I'm not a molester, my hysterical ex wife is just manipulating the children into thinking they were molested by me." No dude u literally a kid raper. Get help. All of professional psychology had been weaponized against women for a long time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:25 AM |
| 50 | When women get angry, we call out men for their behavior and speak out about why we’re angry. When men are angry, they resort to abuse, harassment, rape, and murder. My dear male lurkers, we are not the same. We would never do this to youEspecially considering the shooter specifically blamed prostitution and porn (but shooting the victims of prostitution was obviously an extremely low-IQ solution to a real problem) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 02:14 AM |
| 56 | A man with self awareness realizing men are the problem? This is rare.Men: how dare you feminazis talk shit about men!!! I've never raped anyone this is misandry #notallmen!!!! Also men: well sometimes rape is the woman's fault | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 07:33 PM |
| 3 | The misunderstanding Men have with FDSTrue. I am bisexual so I'll keep that in mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 09:52 PM |
| 54 | The misunderstanding Men have with FDSUgh, the horrible truth. I just want to have another human being in my life without getting raped and murdered, or brutalized in any number of humiliating ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 01:47 AM |
| 16 | How to Maintain Boundaries During Relationships with Men (EW YUCK)Yeah I've heard similar tales where whether it went in or not, it caused injury and required medical attention and a long recovery time. My exes were both abusive sociopaths and even they weren't stupid/brazen enough to try slamming it in. I've had a firm poke a couple of times but that's it. I mean the girl I personally knew was literally dating a meth head so I imagine that affected his decision-making process. Although I'm sure there are many goes who try to slam it in completely sober. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 01:36 AM |
| 46 | Men love to remind women that they can physically dominate us because they are bigger and stronger than us. That's why I think women shouldn't be afraid of gaining muscle and having a little extra body fat, so we have more mass to throw around in self defence.This is very good advice. It's no coincidence that caloric restriction, long hair, high heels, long nails, and tight clothing all serve to restrict your movement and strength. Even if you don't view it as restrictive, men recognize it and they will not hesitate to use it to their advantage. Especially when it comes to raising our daughters, we should be focusing on teaching them health and strength and freedom of movement, not drowning them in jewelry and makeup and "cute" shoes that are impossi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:26 AM |
| 32 | Not dating broke men isn't "mean-spirited." It's a matter of having you and your partner having your priorities in order.I dated two broke guys, they were abusive assholes and they used me financially. Fuck that. I don't want to be begged for money anymore, is that a fucking crime? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 11:24 PM |
| 30 | How to Maintain Boundaries During Relationships with Men (EW YUCK)Not even kidding, I literally do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 10:51 PM |
| 79 | How to Maintain Boundaries During Relationships with Men (EW YUCK)Oh my god he is a rapist, girl get out!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 10:24 PM |
| 63 | How to Maintain Boundaries During Relationships with Men (EW YUCK)"You don't want to wear condoms? Okay, have you scheduled your vasectomy yet then?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 10:23 PM |
| 45 | How to Maintain Boundaries During Relationships with Men (EW YUCK)I've had guys do that before. I used to re-direct them, cuz I assumed they were just idiots who can't find a pussy if it's an inch from their dick. Now I just smirk at them. You really think your fully erect dick is just going to slip into my unlubed, unprepared asshole? Good luck with that. Thankfully I've never had a guy slam his dick into my asshole at full force. I've heard horror stories. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 10:18 PM |
| 11 | 5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit pieceI got that VICE message asking for an interview. I figured it was a trap. Soo regret not talking to them now wow, seems like they really care about women 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 11:41 AM |
| 9 | Crazy ex trope-do not fall for it queens.Both my abusive exes had an a "crazy cheating ex" who would "just flip out and say she hated (him) for no reason." If your man has a crazy/mean ex, pay close attention to what he describes. Did she steal from him? Hit him? Do hard drugs? Did she actually do anything at all besides being driven slowly insane with his bullshit before possibly, finally, cheating on him? Your man is the crazy ex, not her. Especially if the worst he can say about her is "she'd flip out and say she hated me, then afte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 09:23 PM |
| 91 | America's Next Top Model is male propaganda that grooms young women to think they're not allowed to say "no"Some other highlights from ANTM: Tyra screaming at a black trauma survivor for not being sad enough when she was sent home Tyra scolding a black model for not shaving her armpits, calls it "bad hygiene" "Miss" Jay insulting a lesbian model for being too masculine Tyra butchering the name of a Russian model week after week and constantly doing bad impressions of different accents Not to mention week after week they'd tell a girl "you need to be more X on the next photoshoot." Said girl would deli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 12:20 AM |
| 243 | “don’t protect women, teach men how to behave!” 👏🏽 this brown queen is spitting FACTS! I wish more people in Desi culture adopted this mentalityFor a while I was getting into Indian cuisine so I was having fun going to the different Indian grocery stores in my area and just checking out what they had. One of them had DVDs for sale by the register that had "women's toilet" and stuff like that written on them. Super weird vibe in the store. Smelled strange, felt stared at the whole time. Super mega creeped out. The other 3 stores I tried were all friendly and nice, but I'll never forget that feeling of "oh sweet Jesus that is illegal porn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Men are surprised that I have hobbiesMost guys I know have only 4 hobbies. Porn, collecting weapons, videogames and weed/drinking. It's not normal for guys to have real hobbies. If a man develops a hobby, he expects the world to cheer and kiss his ass. So yeah, his post-breakup corona hobby has probably been porn + mountain dew baja blast. So when he sees someone with a rich full life, his denial compels him to question it. Same for the guys who nodded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 06:46 AM |
| 7 | He was not amused and blocked me"But they don't like it when I ask first," cried the rapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:21 PM |
| 17 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMYES let the sass flow freely. Holding back sass is a courtesy we give our grandparents (if they're nice,) not selfish asshole males who want to take everything and give nothing in return. I've definitely found my relationships IMPROVING since I learned the skill of a well-deserved "are you kidding me???" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:53 PM |
| 26 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMSpecifically with my ex, when he would get pissed at me for laughing "too loud," I'd say "oh I'm sorry, is my joy disturbing to you? Do you not want me to be happy?" And the same thing when I was sick and he'd get on my case for coughing. "Is my pain disturbing to you???" One time he literally told me "stop it" when I had the hiccups. The hiccups. Such an idiot. You can also just draw attention to it in general. "Today you got pissed at me for washing the dishes wrong. Earlier you complained abo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:51 PM |
| 2 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMI understand, it's really hard feeling trapped in that. But at the very least you can go from "oh, I didn't realize I was doing that, sorry I guess..." to "that bothers you? Really? That's awfully sensitive of you." Edit: or even "why are you hanging out with me if everything I do bothers you ao much? Go do something else." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 07:05 AM |
| 11 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMGood luck, I hope it happens soon!! My ex used to do the "constant criticism" thing and I wish I had confronted him about it. But maybe it's better to fade into the night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:50 PM |
| 19 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMGirl get out!! He doesn't love you, he doesn't even like you!! At least tell him "if that's really how you feel, you clearly don't like me." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:46 PM |
| 50 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMExactly right, I also get it from my dad and brother too. It's not just the men I've dated, it's ALL the men in my life. Even after I realized the guys I'd dated were complete assholes and my dad wasn't great, it took me a while to realize just how much even my own little brother was tearing me down and making me feel like shit all the time. One thing that makes me feel slightly better is standing up for other women when I see men doing this shit to them. Ofc often they don't appreciate it becau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:57 PM |
| 72 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMIt's like living with a 3 year old. "You chew weird. You laugh weird." Etc. Imagine being a grown person acting that way. They're sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:29 AM |
| 86 | Patriarchy squashes female liberation by forcing women to choose between two equally oppressive binary gender roles. FDS teaches women that we don't need to take ANY "pills" that do not 100% serve our interests.Oof. Such truth. Also both sides will lovebomb you with promises of "good sex," "true respect" and "a decent life." Neither side eats pussy. Neither side respects women. Neither side pays you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:42 AM |
| 520 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMIt's a subtle way of asserting dominance and keeping your self-esteem low. Everything you do is "wrong." You laugh too loud. You talk too quiet. You talk too loud. You walk too slow. You pee too much. You play the wrong videogames. You watch the wrong movies. You listen to the wrong music. Your hobbies are boring (except for that one he also likes, which he is better at.) You're too sensitive to cold. You exercise wrong. You cough wrong. You sleep wrong. You eat wrong. You train your dog wrong. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:54 AM |
| 2 | Be weary of men who intimidate you into not voicing your concerns in the relationship.Agreed, they use those words because they're effective when they're actually true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 09:32 AM |
| 75 | Blaming a literal child is easier than calling out a pedo. GrossAnd this is why they get away with it. For all the men who actually rape kids, there are tens of thousands more who actively support them. They're just as guilty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:30 PM |
| 56 | Be weary of men who intimidate you into not voicing your concerns in the relationship.One thing that helped me a lot with my abusive ex was learning that it's okay to do "behaviors." When someone is cutting you down and exploiting you relentlessly and refuses to address it, it's perfectly fine to be mad, to tell them "I have to be by myself for a while," to finally yell back when you're being yelled at, to start swearing when you're being cussed out. It's not your job to sit there like an infinite well of patience and understanding. You're doing a disservice to yourself and him b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 04:49 AM |
| 38 | Do women have bad taste in men, or are men just terrible people?It fucking enrages me the way we brainwash women to accept male exploitation their entire lives, and then when they wake up and say "my boyfriend is fucking abusive," we say "then pick better men and stop trying to fuck your shithead father, you piece of shit doormat." They don't want to admit you were just following the rules, living your life and you still got shafted, like you said. Because then they'd have to admit the whole system is fucked and women are treated like filth. Their own daught… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 04:28 AM |
| 8 | Stop fake laughing at men’s unfunny jokes. They really aren’t that funny...True, good point. It's an act of rebellion, even though it shouldn't be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 04:22 AM |
| 264 | Stop fake laughing at men’s unfunny jokes. They really aren’t that funny...YES GURL. If you don't laugh, they literally act like you're making some political statement. No fucker, you're just not funny. I also agree on women being funnier, on average. It's also fun explaining to men how comedy is not "being ruined," it's just evolving. Huge comedians like Sarah Silverman, Pete Holmes, and Marc Maron have all agreed that if no one is laughing at your shitty rape jokes, it means you need to do better. You're the comedian, that's your fucking job. Back in the day comedian… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:48 PM |
| 29 | Why is Hair Pulling and Choking (aggression) in Sex the Assumed Norm w/o Consent?The idea that there are masochistic women out there actively telling guys "I love to be choked but I never want to be asked" is kind of enraging, but I suspect it's actually not true. But yeah like... being into consent-free BDSM is not a kink you get to have, sorry. Unless you personally establish it with your partners beforehand. But even then, there are guys too stupid to realize "just because I know one woman who likes me to choke her without asking first, doesn't mean I get to assault all w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:34 PM |
| 6 | No trousers.How the fuck is she supposed to take care of the children with no bank account? I guess you just let her use yours? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 09:54 AM |
| 36 | Cut my date short at the first sign of disrespectHonestly reacting APPROPRIATELY to a stranger's rudeness is a kindness. At least this way he has a chance of learning from his mistakes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 09:51 AM |
| 52 | Cut my date short at the first sign of disrespectHahaha serves him right. If more women reacted appropriately to their stupid jabs and slights, they'd at least have a chance to learn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 09:49 AM |
| 31 | Why We Can't Seem to Escape Male Sexual Exploitation--It Goes This DeepMen literally have a hard time telling female pain from female pleasure (a problem women don't share.) Excellent post and excellent article. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Imagine carrying this losers baby, and he has the audacity to number the toilet paper. 🤦🏻♀️The fucking audacity. I hope this is fake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 08:33 PM |
| 54 | Why are men such assholes about women's muscles???If I had a dollar for every time a man offered to show me how to do pushups "the right way"... (Spoilers: I was doing normal pushups. They were just assholes.) The thing is, men are secretly really really scared of women being physically stronger than them. They really, really care. They hinge a ton of their identity on it. It's that simple and stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 01:09 PM |
| 31 | This was from 84’ imagine how it is today...It's not "practically tortured." It's literal torture. Even the mainstream stuff. The amount of slapping and strangulation and violent oral and anal sex... they don't show you the blood and vomit, the hospital trips and infections. Or the fact most women need to do hard drugs to get through it. Take any typical person from the street and subject them to your average porn scene (the woman's role). They're not going to come away saying "well that was a fun treat!" They're going to be deeply, deepl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 11:57 AM |
| 6 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsBut it's a valid career choice like working at McDonald's /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:54 AM |
| 5 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsWe all know the only thing fishy is old cum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:52 AM |
| 23 | A lot of “Doms” in bed are really just sexually selfish men who use the presence of a dynamic to justify not having to care about their partner’s sexual pleasure.This is absolutely true. Every "dom" I've ever met has been a creepy porn-obsessed redneck who thinks women are naturally submissive because "the vagina is an innie and the dick is an outie" or other such "scientific" reasoning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 09:38 PM |
| 46 | Why is it “gross” for women to have body hair despite the fact that every adult woman's body naturally grows hair, but when a guy has hair on his body and armpits it's okay?I saw a woman with a tiny bit of armpit hair in a movie the other day, and it made me incredibly happy. It was only for a split second, but it's the only time I've ever seen a woman with normal body hair pictured on the screen (not counting when it's played for laughs.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 09:26 PM |
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